Joe Rogan and Johann Hari talk about the lack of community in America, which is leading to an epidemic of loneliness.
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@xpicklepie6 жыл бұрын
The only thing worse than being alone is being trapped with people you can't stand.
@pg91935 жыл бұрын
I am IN. THAT. BOAT. my friend....
@_baller5 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@robbirob5575 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@aramrodriguez91415 жыл бұрын
That’s why I quit my job.
@MelodicProphet5 жыл бұрын
I’ve definitely been there. The good news is that this realization can lead to amazing growth. You will come out the other side, when you are ready, understanding the imperative of creating a life that nourishes and fulfills your soul.
@WiseAilbhean5 жыл бұрын
"Home is where people notice when you're not there." Damn.. I’m getting weepy eye.
@martinsigaardmadsen82365 жыл бұрын
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@WiseAilbhean5 жыл бұрын
Martin Sigaard Madsen Oh snap! Thanks!! I’ve only seen a few episodes so never really learned the theme song.
@shanksta42694 жыл бұрын
I guess work is my home
@johanncastillo83494 жыл бұрын
So true everyone notices I’m gone when I’m off to get high But it’s weird it’s like having a home again Kinda kills the urge to get high The they shame me And the junkie in me wakes up again But grandma take me home
@Windrake1014 жыл бұрын
So I'm homeless, is what your saying?
@musicandpoetry_8 Жыл бұрын
“Let me tell you this: if you meet a loner, no matter what they tell you, it's not because they enjoy solitude. It's because they have tried to blend into the world before, and people continue to disappoint them.” - Jodi Picoult 💯
@godmode1019 Жыл бұрын
😭😭
@Jokersmoke106 Жыл бұрын
Perspective of a 27 year old male who is a loner. It does get easier but your definitely changed. People are less interesting and you become self interested. People perceive you as cold too but u stop caring. Also I wouldn't be surprised if it's different for females seeing as raising children takes a village.
@anonymousfloater12 Жыл бұрын
@@rickym18 so what is it for you then?
@sczr1186 Жыл бұрын
Yea ppl do disappoint. Like ppl who think they know why you do what you do by projecting, for example. /s
@jakeedwards4454 Жыл бұрын
Some people just cant put out a fake persona like majority of western culture
@andrewoliver56732 жыл бұрын
Wow, crazy how true this is. During Covid, I never felt more lonely. 30 years old, living alone, no pets, nothing. Just an empty quiet house. Nothing but my thoughts, and sleepless nights. I found myself going out to eat a lot more often, just to be around people. As men we don’t want to admit things like this, but I realized I was lonely. I was disconnected. I had material things, but inside I was empty. You start to realize what’s important in life. You start to take a look at your life, and it becomes depressing when you have no meaningful connections with anyone. No father. No wife. No children. Friends who are all busy with their families. 30 hits different, and your view on the world changes. All you can do is keep the faith and just bare the most responsibility you can in your life. This will at least offer some relief, and make you tired enough to go to sleep at night and not just sit there. Go for a run, work as many hours as you can, so you can be so physically exhausted that you pass out. It’s the only way without medication, when you are alone and have no one. As men, no one really cares. We just have to put our boots on, go to work, and have faith that something greater is out there for us.
@perry67122 жыл бұрын
Dude I feel you I hate this feeling
@asiasmith5685 Жыл бұрын
Me too
@soliderarmatang5664 Жыл бұрын
Start a family brother, its the way things are supposed to be, its how we were created, its the natural way for us humans: To build a family.
@minabotieso6944 Жыл бұрын
@@soliderarmatang5664 conservatives talking about their feelings and loneliness is so funny. The first instinct is to just push it away like you are. If all the many many lonely men out there could find a nice wife and start a family then they would but they are lonely because they don’t have a gf. Society has structured our lives around personal responsibility and individualism making us go at it alone in many ways
@cscs9192 Жыл бұрын
@@minabotieso6944 May I ask you if this loneliness is not self-afflicted? I mean, you can not be the only lonely person in your area?
@llibmukred59066 жыл бұрын
It's weird how lonely one can feel in a city full of millions of people...
@apeman20356 жыл бұрын
Go find another lonely person to be friends with Keep adding more lonely people ...until you are happy
@josh-yx9po6 жыл бұрын
its not weird at all its a metropolis filled with diverse people and constant change people will always feel a disconnect in this society where there is massive inequality and the need to differentiate oneself in banal ways from others doing well
@rogerdat456 жыл бұрын
Llib Derku you are who you are no matter where you go
@WJstudios046 жыл бұрын
Los Angeles
@CC-sp6kl6 жыл бұрын
Llib Derku yea.. i have thousands of people surrounding me but feels lonely af
@Sanderopop6 жыл бұрын
One of my favorite Jung quotes: “Loneliness does not come from having no people about one, but from being unable to communicate the things that seem important to oneself, or from holding certain views which others find inadmissible.”
@gordonm70386 жыл бұрын
Alex Drax "The world hangs on a thin thread and that thread is the psyche of Man." - Jung
@bbraat6 жыл бұрын
The way the country is now, "or from holding certain views which others find inadmissible", is going to apply to a lot of people who are honest.
@cnote35986 жыл бұрын
great posts everyone
@stipengannou62096 жыл бұрын
having no people about one, didnt understood that.
@tripp88336 жыл бұрын
That is ridiculous, like everything Jung has said.
@edwardwilkinson756 Жыл бұрын
I'm 52 and I lost my 14 year old daughter without warning 7 years ago. In the aftermath of her death, I split from my long-term partner (20 years together). I now feel so disconnected. It is so strange to not be part of a family unit.
@mmmm_yesverynice Жыл бұрын
I hope you’re doing good, holidays are tough, I can’t imagine. Take care of yourself, and be kind. When all else fails, you can always fall back to those two principles
@Duncanlinc Жыл бұрын
I wish nothing but love and peace to you bud
@-ram-m2664 Жыл бұрын
sorry, bud. I know it probably is extra hard, especially during the holidays. I truly hope you made it through OK. Just remember, family is whatever you make it. Reestablish friendships, be that super-cool uncle. You might have to push but get out of the house and go where people are, but don't be afraid to say hello I dealt with something similar where I was depressed and was introduced to a boxing gym by a friend and subsequently joined. That little push was all I needed, some new reason to get up and going. Remember there is a big difference between loneliness and being alone. Even Superman had his Fortress of Solitude. Good luck to you, brother.
@sethmaginnipig1801 Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry man
@colinatwood7025 Жыл бұрын
So sorry to hear that - hang in there
@LEilrahc2 жыл бұрын
what hurts the most is being surrounded by people who make you feel alone.
@mamatasahoo54119 ай бұрын
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@Karmaman7778 ай бұрын
Nah, being COMPLETELY alone surrounde by NO ONE is worse than being surrounded by people
@user-lp9ou1hf4e8 ай бұрын
tru, also when you feel good the opposite can happen, people get angry jeaulous, ect.
@annehajdu86548 ай бұрын
That's what Robin Williams said. And he had severe depression.
@derekgregg90096 ай бұрын
Not really. What hurts you most is your own mind. Your attatchments, your expectations. These are what hurt you.
@truthartistic74526 жыл бұрын
I hate being single, but the way most people are these days makes me want to stay single.
@truthseek30176 жыл бұрын
Yeah it fucking sucks, if i didn't have family and hobbies that i love, i'd blow my brains out...
@kasimmalik98066 жыл бұрын
hxanthine More power to you! Just be up front and honest with those guys so you don’t end up destroying a human life 😃
@thelastwaltz7305 жыл бұрын
Glenn Robbins I completely understand what you’re saying but don’t become too cynical. You don’t know what “most people” are like until you get to know what they’re like. Try your very best to give people a chance, some of them will surprise you.
@truthartistic74525 жыл бұрын
@@thelastwaltz730 Yea Ik what you mean, & I do Really try to give absolutely Everyone a chance, it's just that the majority of people I meet always fail to surprise me. I've only really meet a select few people that actually do surprise me & they have all become great friends. Even tho just about all of them, except one, live hours or states away. So technology is beneficial in the sense that I've meet a select few people from around the world that are great loving people, but the problem with the other kind of people is that they don't know how to balance it all out, they also don't know how to love themselves, so they just put on an act to try & get others to love them, but then they don't love others like they want to be loved. I'm not saying that everyone is like that, but the majority of people these days seem to be a bunch of brainwashed idiots. I just feel misplaced in a world full of unenlightened idiots. The world needs more love & less violence & negativity, but "people" are either too stupid to see that or for one stupid reason or another just don't care.
@ccgbassandmore35 жыл бұрын
@@truthartistic7452 I totally feel you, but I wouldn't say it's been like that ONLY recently
@DeepPoeticSociety5 жыл бұрын
I live an extremely isolated life. I work, I go to the gym six days a week, and I go grocery shopping when I need to. That's it-wash, rince, cycle, repeat. Does it bother me? Surprisingly not really. Most of my friends moved away after college, my mom died due to cancer, and my sister and I were never really close. I learned to just be happy with what you have, that's really the only thing that will keep you sane. Loneliness can be a path to self destruction, but it doesn't have to be. The world is a very cold place, where loved ones die, relationships fail, people get fired, and your health can change over time. The only thing that YOU can be absolutely certain of is that NOTHING is certain, and nothing lasts forever. It may not be the answer we all wish to hear, but facing this has helped me adapt to a difficult transition.
@margaretdennehy44075 жыл бұрын
Deep Poetic Society
@a.morais11865 жыл бұрын
Depressing
@DeepPoeticSociety5 жыл бұрын
@@a.morais1186 Perspective
@Jack_-bo9vg5 жыл бұрын
Depressive and defeatist.
@DeepPoeticSociety5 жыл бұрын
@@Jack_-bo9vg If an individual is unable to connect with other people, how is that "defeatist"? I assure you that this isn't exactly my number one choice, but when you go to ANY social event, what is everyone paying attention to? Their phones. So if people are that disconnected and disinterested in their surroundings which happens to include other people, how does one expect that person in isolation to change the conditions?
@southbayrickybobby5820 Жыл бұрын
My grandfather died of loneliness after my grandmother died. Even when we seen him nearly every day after for almost a decade. We just couldn’t fill the void but atleast made his life somewhat more easy. I remember waking up at 4am every morning for years to go to breakfast with him in the morning. And lunch at 10:30-11. And visiting with him later before he went to bed after family feud at 7. I sure do miss him. I miss them both. They were the meaning of true love.
@lionsden5123 Жыл бұрын
You will always miss them. You can honor their memory by appreciating the example they set for you and your loved ones, and passing it on to the new generation.
@TahitianTreatSkeetJuice Жыл бұрын
There's no such thing as dying of loneliness. But I get your point
@pricklycats Жыл бұрын
@@TahitianTreatSkeetJuice There's a lot of couples who die one after the other, it's super common. To say "there's no such thing" is ridiculous. It's been proven that stress makes you age faster it's a fact that everybody knows. And social isolation alone makes you 50% more prone to dementia. So imagine being super old with declining health and then the person you've been with for 30+ years dies on top of that. You can definitely die of loneliness, even if it's just from not caring to eat or do anything to stay alive. Or by suicide. Or cortisol produced from the stress. I can probably write a list of like 10 different morbidity factors that can be a result of loneliness. You're wrong.
@pricklycats Жыл бұрын
@@TahitianTreatSkeetJuice and don't ask for a source or some shit, you can literally just google it
@FlashxSounds Жыл бұрын
@@pricklycats i get ur point and there have been stories but to say its ridiculous not to belive in dying from loneliness, is ridiculous tbh.😂 I know u really want it to be true but u just grasping at scenarios which dont have anything to do with anything really. Im not tryna start anything but just cause u want it to be true and have no evidence to prove it, same as he aint got nothing to disprove it. So saying "you're wrong" is literally cringe and childish.. Get some data to back it up or just agree to disagree 🤷♂️
@cookingonwheels26952 жыл бұрын
This is why young men get into sports. I promise when you truly get invested in a program and when you get multiple young men invested in a program it becomes an infectious family. the aspect of a family comprised of young men the same age is a truly motivating thing to the individuals in the team/family.
@thereisnosanctuary61842 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately the need to be in a Brotherhood to cause men to join the military and let me use as pawns for rich men in their schemes
@abdullahal-shimri3091 Жыл бұрын
That happened to me. To beat my loneliness, I joined a worship team as a pianist, and we would play and sing each Sunday.
@jumpy2xstreaming Жыл бұрын
Tried that and wasn’t accepted into the regime there’s certain people who don’t get along with anyone at all
@sp00kyd4ddy6 Жыл бұрын
Not only that but it gives you something to get good at especially if you particularly enjoy a specific sport
@pandyne Жыл бұрын
It's a great idea if you're accepted by the rest of the group, but if you're the weird kid that the rest of the "team" decides to game up on it might be one of the worst experiences of your life.
@JayV984 жыл бұрын
Loneliness is hell. Solitude is peace.
@DeathMetalTom4 жыл бұрын
Never thought about it like that, but that's a really good way to put it.
@Abitibidoug4 жыл бұрын
That's consistent with my thoughts. So, what's the difference between loneliness and solitude? It's all in how you perceive being alone. I'll quote French philosopher Blaise Pascal who said: "All of humanity's problems stem from man's inability to sit quietly in a room alone".
@Abitibidoug3 жыл бұрын
@Roberto Murillo I've got around that problem by, if no one wants to do something with me, I go myself. Over the years I've travelled solo to many places, taken part in many fun recreational activities, and many other enjoyable pursuits. I've heard some people say: I would do more things if I had someone to go with. If someone else wants to go with me then great, welcome aboard! If not I'll go myself, I can't wait around forever. If I wasted my life waiting around for everyone else, I would still be waiting for my mom to walk with me to my third day of kindergarten.
@XtinaFerrari3 жыл бұрын
TRUEEEEEE!! and the problem is that people mistake both words and they have very different meanings!!!
@Abitibidoug3 жыл бұрын
@The Czarcasm72 :/ All you need to do is be alone and enjoy the peace and quiet to hear yourself think, and enjoy not being interrupted when you're trying to concentrate on doing something or just relax. At home I have on occasion unplugged the phone so I could enjoy the uninterrupted bliss of solitude.
@emanate04 жыл бұрын
its weird how the screen simultaneously connects us and divides us to such a vast degree.
@vyas13 жыл бұрын
It doesn't connect us as much as it divides us
@smeshsmesh96953 жыл бұрын
It connects because people can talk anonymously or they can talk to people without phsycally being with them, it's just a perfect place to talk for socially awkward people.
@coolpfpbut95053 жыл бұрын
Wow so deep. So thoughtful. So inquisitive
@reedjordan89553 жыл бұрын
Best comment on here
@almostalways2 жыл бұрын
I think it makes a lot of sense. The smartphone is a new, more or less easier way of instant communication. People substitute real interactions for virtual ones because why not? People don't do phone-calls anymore. Video killed the radio star. We use words and not grunts anymore. etc etc. When something new comes along, the old ways are forgotten.
@SB-gy2vx2 жыл бұрын
I'm 32, live alone, no girlfriend, my friends are all marrying and having kids, others just don't look for me. I work at home and I spend almost all of my time staring at the PC screen working or doing other stuff like gaming, or watching random yt videos... It wasn't always like this, I used to have lots of people around me but it feels like suddenly I'm all by myself. Well, almost, I still have my parents and I have 2 brothers, and I feel gratefull for that. But thinking about what my life will be in a decade or so its scary and sad. I mean, it's already sad now... I feel alone, abandoned, sad, depressed, I'm a grown ass man and I cry almost everyday because I feel lonely. And I'm not even ashamed of saying it... I'm too tired of this to feel shame. I will never end myself, but some days I don't feel like doing anything, just existing is depressing... And I too think depressions is mostly caused by social factors, I never felt like this a few years ago. At least not this often or with this intensity. I will never take pills or any of that and I do have hope that my life will change. But one thing that I've learn from loneliness is that we need people to share our happiness, a life without people around you is an empty life.
@somalichakraborty4842 жыл бұрын
You can find a woman and get married and start a family. Human are social beings. They can't live alone. That's why society was created. Sorry for my bad English.
@charlieeleftheriadis9646 Жыл бұрын
It’s not too late, I know plenty of people that have found a wife and had kids in their 40s, don’t give up on life yet, you need to work on yourself, try working out at least once a day, get a routine, do something you don’t want to do. get a job somewhere where u are interacting with team members and build relationships even if it’s just a small couple hours a week. You’ll be okay.
@243wayne1 Жыл бұрын
S B- Consider yourself lucky. Don't screw it up.
@EJleon96 Жыл бұрын
@@charlieeleftheriadis9646 this is it right here… work on yourself in anyway you can and use that as motivation to keep pushing yourself so that you can improve your overall sense of self worth and happiness😌 join clubs like toastmasters that help with your public speaking skills and can help you meet new people
@riaagarwal6840 Жыл бұрын
People, pets and other beings and trees/ plants. Do try these.
@michaelhavers12 жыл бұрын
I spent 11 years in prison and got out 18 years ago. I wasted another 17 years never having a family. I didn't know how alone I was until I just had twins last year at 47. I've been saved.
@yihuda74592 жыл бұрын
Wish u the best ….keep surviving
@knp43562 жыл бұрын
I think just like women, men also want to have family. As we get close to 40 it starts getting lonely and worrisome. We deny wanting kids and family because we have failed at it, and then we try to avoid family and friends because it reminds you of not starting family. I’m happy for you brother. I’m 37 but it’s getting hard to not be married and have kids by now. I promised myself to get married and have kids by 40.
@CyberSecurityFashionDesigner Жыл бұрын
@@knp4356 your right! I want a family too :(
@243wayne1 Жыл бұрын
+Michael Havers- You poor sob...
@Eclass96 Жыл бұрын
@@knp4356💯%
@Agustin-bh9xr5 жыл бұрын
I'm 28, I live in Argentina. I have a couple of friends but I don't really feel conected to them, or anyone. And then I look around and feel that lots of people are in the same situation. I see a lot of insecurity in people's eyes, also a lot of sadness and emotional stress. Our society is very sick...
@kayholand_4 жыл бұрын
totally right and i thought that latino countries were way more social, i think it is the same thing all over the world....
@victorsrur1344 жыл бұрын
have you ever talked about that with them
@thc78654 жыл бұрын
Not colombia tho we are way more social
@alejandroldavidlagos4 жыл бұрын
@@kayholand_ argentina es more close to europe than "latino" countries...we are more cold.
@kayholand_4 жыл бұрын
@@alejandroldavidlagos didn't know about that and I feel you, I also live in a country like that...
@kevinbarajas95384 жыл бұрын
I feel like the way we live is not shaped for the human spirit
@katenka_ana39974 жыл бұрын
exactly.. our values are screwed up and the brain would rather be miserable than try to make some changes. Misery = comfortable. This life sucks
@ancientone26054 жыл бұрын
This is so very True, Thankyou for sharing
@guysovereign4 жыл бұрын
Sebastian Junger's Tribe
@wealthyblackman26554 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@Matty944 жыл бұрын
@@katenka_ana3997 exactly, i literally don¨'t see any point in improving myself whatsoever, even tho i know i am not dumb and have great potential. My brain just do not see any reason to change. maybe i misunderstood your comment.
@IusedtohaveausernameIliked Жыл бұрын
Loneliness is NOT about being alone. It's about a mismatch between one's social expectations and reality. One can be lonely in a crowd or feel fulfilled with solitude. Loneliness is a widespread problem but it is very different for different people.
@nblacud2 жыл бұрын
I'm from South America, lived in the States for a while. I really liked living there, but there is a problem of loneliness in the US. I am not sure why, probably the enormity of the country, or the way cities are built or the culture that makes it such an efficient place, but I saw incredible loneliness amongst my coworkers. Now I live in my hometown roughly 250K people, its a walkable city, and every time I go out I meet some 6 to 7 people I know, sometimes relatives of mine. It's one of the puzzles in my life, what makes the US such a lonely place.
@adversary09322 жыл бұрын
We have been taught to be selfish consumers, that money means more than love, and that being alone always equals suffering. I enjoy being alone most times because I do what I want without someone nagging me or telling me I should be doing something else. I come from a big family and yet still most days I prefer solitude. Except for my children I am always happy to see or hear from them because they are good kind people and I raised them to not value money over love and to always be kind but not stupid.
@ayewey29452 жыл бұрын
I blame social media for fuckin up these young people's heads
@padarousou2 жыл бұрын
@@ayewey2945 Yea they never learned to talk to people they didn’t know face to face. If you aren’t on social media you may as well not exist to most young people
@AstroMartine2 жыл бұрын
It's not just the states. I live in Europe, very similar situations, even in East Europe. It's "big city life", but then I heard of villages that are even worse than living alone in a big city where the neighbors don't know you.
@nblacud2 жыл бұрын
@@AstroMartine Yeah I had a buddy from Check republic that told me people were very wary of each other in little villages. Perhaps the soviet inheritance left a serious mark there. However, although I abhor communism, I went to Cuba, and people were jolly; complaining all the time but they even dance when going to the market. Culture and weather seem to play an important role.
@bordercollie11403 жыл бұрын
Been through a lot of things in life, but loneliness is by far the worst.
@alisonsnow6272 жыл бұрын
SO true. Heartbreaks are preferable and they were excruciating. Love your name (I co-own a fabulously wonderful Border Collie).
@bordercollie11402 жыл бұрын
@@alisonsnow627 I think you found the name subliminally through the Border Collie name. It caught your eye and what a wonderful dog you and I both have. If loyalty had a picture, it would not so coincidencely be my best aul' friend in the world, my Sammy. Sticks to me more than a thumb tack. What a really nice message to receive from yourself . I hope that you're doing well in this sticky world, and that's putting it mildly.
@jeremiahtoribio2 жыл бұрын
pretty good dog at least
@bordercollie11402 жыл бұрын
@@jeremiahtoribio My main reason for living is my border collie and that's not an exaggeration. A dog will never let you down when it comes to loyalty, where as humans......not so much.
@alisonsnow6272 жыл бұрын
@@bordercollie1140 True. Unconditional love can come from dogs and children and parents. In that order and those are the only ones you can mostly depend on. Dogs completely - the others just typically.
@XelaJN4 жыл бұрын
I want friends that have the same KZfaq recommendations as me
@Bimbologyexpert4 жыл бұрын
Right?😂
@AyushSingh-zp2ey4 жыл бұрын
The real soulmate
@Newbport8494 жыл бұрын
Genius
@lorenab53094 жыл бұрын
Yes 😞👌
@kirkmcgraw7354 жыл бұрын
Word!
@peace-a2 жыл бұрын
My aunt came to visit us here in the US from South America. After a few days she said she wanted to go back because she missed hanging out with her neighbors and friends because they hang out every night. Here, we get home, lock our doors and hardly see our neighbors much less hang out with them.
@forman208 Жыл бұрын
I've lived in multiple buildings and have literally never spoken to my neighbors lol.
@archuk60583 ай бұрын
Most Americans dont know how to be social. they are just very weird in general.
@aubiekaronga1753 Жыл бұрын
I think we were suffering from loneliness for a very long time and covid has made us realize how much it is important to connect with each other.
@your-username-here2308 Жыл бұрын
Lockdown was the best time for me.
@mtichy82986 жыл бұрын
I would say that those lone wolf type of people are rare. I would not recommend to anyone to stay alone for rest of his/her life. I am introverted as fuck but I noticed that longer I stay disconnected from other people the more depressed and insane I become. You start to believe all of your stories (good or bad) as universal truth because there is none to tell you that your ideas are completely insane.
@carrot926 жыл бұрын
Same, we are social animals after all and we need each other to live well.
@thebrazilianatlantis1656 жыл бұрын
"They are called liberals!" Be serious, some liberals and some conservatives do that, and others don't.
@zendavis35016 жыл бұрын
Iam a lone wolf. Very misanthropic and cherish solitude. Some of the greatest people the world has produced were loners. Tesla and Einstien to name a couple. People are so superficial and fake these days, I'd prefer solitude.
@lilben41846 жыл бұрын
Natalie that's racist
@drunkenrampage15886 жыл бұрын
You don't need people to tell you that your ideas are insane. The Internet will do that for you.
@gimmehugs16155 жыл бұрын
“Once you know how to take care of yourself company becomes an option not a necessity.” - Keanu Reeves
@gayleclanton33115 жыл бұрын
I have been taking care of myself since I was 14. All those years....I only needed help 3 times. Alllllll of the reasons that I failed those 3 times was because of health issues. Learn something before you make assumptions.
@gayleclanton33115 жыл бұрын
P.S. How old were you when you were tossed out on your own?? Did you have a key? A wallet? I.D.? Clothes? An address book to call ANYONE besides a RAPIST?? I'm pretty sure you had all those things to help you along.
@bobojenkins58055 жыл бұрын
@@gayleclanton3311 if you didnt fail those 3 times his quote makes sense
@jeanski92565 жыл бұрын
Gayle Clanton sorry what was that gay clinton
@jasonchandler27545 жыл бұрын
@@gayleclanton3311 lol bragging about how tough your think you are on KZfaq leads me to believe that you aren't as tough as you think. People that brag about something are usually compensating for the opposite of what they're bragging about.
@goingblindenjoyinglife2 жыл бұрын
7 yrs in solitary confinement, no human contact. I know there's something different about me. This gives really good insight as to what i was feeling in there. Thanks for the great people you bring on to your show.
@emerax63062 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry man, can't imagine how terrible it must have been. Now that is over just know that there are people out here that care and want to break this bubble of loneliness once again (in the real world). People like you are rare but exist, we just have to keep looking with a smile on our face.
@goingblindenjoyinglife2 жыл бұрын
@@emerax6306 its a hard adjustment. Its strange but there are these cycles in my life where i find myself crav8ng that loneliness feeling. I close myself off from everyone just like i used to in that cell. People think im insane for always singing out loud. But little do they know that my voice was my companion in that cell. My thoghts were my enemy therefore i sang my ass off. I sure as hell got bent. But never broke in there. So i thought. Now i acknowledge my brokenness and am sure to apple super glue from time to time to keepnit together. And now as i go blind it makes it that much harder to wake up and smile. But God knows i do.
@ryanolson2405 Жыл бұрын
@@goingblindenjoyinglife you definitely went crazy 😂 what the hell are you talking about 😂😂
@anthonyfernandez82 Жыл бұрын
@@goingblindenjoyinglife they really did a number on you
@goingblindenjoyinglife Жыл бұрын
@Anthony Fernandez yes indeed. I'm out 13 yrs this year and I'm still not all the way right lol
@sigil805111 ай бұрын
What really sucks is when you can feel the loneliness in your chest as pain
@kotenoklelu34718 ай бұрын
Try vitamin D. It's seems weird. But I had chest pain for many years. I thought it was soul pain. And it's stopped when I started taking vitamin D to prevent COVID-19 complications
@pikachuchujelly76283 ай бұрын
Vitamin D ain't going to cure loneliness.
@snugray_p165923 күн бұрын
I feel this pressure in my chest and when I think about it, a wave of something goes through my body and fingertips.
@ek83866 жыл бұрын
I’m Cuban born and raised. Yes, there’s poverty, misery and a lot of bad things in Cuba. I never had a bike or toys or PlayStation , but me and my friends had the beach, rivers and lakes to swim, 1 bike to share for all the kids, we were outside all the time, running, playing soccer or baseball or basketball, maybe watch tv at night after coming back home late. Maybe spent the day fishing or looking fruits in the wild. There was nothing else to do, just to hang around with friends. No need for a gun, no need for a game console, just you, your friends and the whole world out there to discover, no depressions, no suicidal thoughts, just having fun.
@ek83866 жыл бұрын
Clarice1933 you nailed it, I live in the Midwest, Chicago area. I’m a truck driver and travel a lot. Americans don’t appreciate family, just the fact of seeing very old people driving cars, that makes me cry, those old people have family, I’m pretty sure of that, but their family don’t care about them. Americans are apathetic to their relatives, and that sucks. Money and position are more important for them.
@thebrazilianatlantis1656 жыл бұрын
"rivers and lakes to swim, 1 bike to share for all the kids, we were outside all the time, running, playing soccer or baseball or basketball, maybe watch tv at night" That was my California in 1976. Black and white TV. Nothing wrong with it a bit. Now people care which phone I have.
@thebrazilianatlantis1656 жыл бұрын
"I think many relationships fail because people expect one person to give them everything they are missing in life that an entire tribe or community used to give." That's really deep Clarice. My ex-wife pretty much did that, she wanted me to be magic instead of just fun and hardworking and _really_ patient with her and so on. And I pretty much did it to her.
@TheGreenlove876 жыл бұрын
The Obedient Worker I am an immigrant from africa. We did not have fancy games or toys but we had tons of friends. We climbed trees. We visited each other. The simpler days. I rarely see kids play outside now a days. God help the kids now.
@jamessteele71026 жыл бұрын
A Very Stable Genius We Americans used to have that rural, carefree childhood experience, too, but mass immigration destroyed that. At least you still have a homeland where you can bask among your people in solidarity if you so choose. We no longer have that option.
@empathagain5 жыл бұрын
Most of my life, I never really felt lonely. Then I got stage 4 cancer and (at first) a lot of people go out of their way to show that they care, but only if it is something public or they could bring up how "inspirational" i was (usually for doing the simplest things) and get credit just for hanging out with me. It felt a little forced or extra from some people, but at least people were there. After a few months though, people start avoiding you or dropping you from their lives silently, you see yourself go from having people check in on you on a regular basis to having no one call or even text for months on end. Then they get mad at you for mentioning that you haven't heard from them lately and they act like you are too needy (because contacting close friends, seeing if they could come by once every couple months is "exhausting," apparently). Dying alone and in excrutiating pain in my 30s and all I ever hear is negativity and that I'm not grateful enough (if I hear anything at all). Loneliness amplifies the pain and the pain makes you wish there was anything you could do to distract yourself from it, but when people only contact you to tell you how their problems are worse (than dying from cancer, i really don't understand how people can do that with a straight face), steal your medications, or ask for something from you, you can't help but want to die even sooner. I feel like I still have a lot of life left in me despite the pain, but without people or really much of any resources (cancer is just about the most expensive thing you could ever imagine), I truly, deeply understand why relationships are so important, but the longer I live the more people I lose (this is over the course of 2 years or so) and while the pain from cancer in my bones and the chemo-induced neuropathy in my left hand makes it essentially nonfunctional (yet hurt 24/7), there's nothing more painful than knowing you will die alone in agonizing pain long before even just your 40th birthday. I wish people actually cared about each other. And, sure, maybe its selfish but i wish anyone, at this point literally anyone, cared at all about me.
@Wamsuo58u5 жыл бұрын
@TURK religion is a lie sold to desperate people.
@EnergizingBane4 жыл бұрын
Empath Again i understand where you’re coming from and yea, it would be amazing if more people really cared about others.
@RationallyMe4 жыл бұрын
So sorry.
@hokulaninalani69754 жыл бұрын
Sending you so much love I wish you can feel it. I hope you start feeling better. I’m sorry people are so stupid. If I knew you I would definitely be a friend to you, but I hope you can still find some happiness in your life in this fucked up world.
@coupleofbeers314 жыл бұрын
I am sorry for what you are going through. I feel your pain. I wish I were there to take care of you because I would not be one of those people who abandons you, for sure. Take care.
@darkknight89932 жыл бұрын
I am heading this way... 45 yrs old... was focused on my career and now because of covid the career is in the shits.. no friends.. no significant other..financially ruined and my family lives overseas.. Started to take anti depressant last month because it was difficult to even get out of bed.
@beachmasterX2 жыл бұрын
I was 26 back in 06 worked in auto industry near Dayton Ohio. Made good money went to school to be a machinist all that went away. Nobody could or wanted to help I leaned toward wanted to. I still can't help thinking something good will come but I've just been treading water since. No family of my own is the most regretted thing what I wouldn't give for a family.
@darkknight89932 жыл бұрын
@@beachmasterX it is difficult isn't it? One day, I stopped calling " friends", maybe a month into the Covid Pandemic. The day I stopped reaching out is the last day I ever heard from anyone. The feeling of not existing is hard.
@ericsmith66772 жыл бұрын
man ive been there it fucking sucks dude the sad part is there is no quick fix
@SeanConnery-j7b Жыл бұрын
Hey man, I'm sorry to learn that. I just wanna say you may wanna be careful with anti-depressants. They can cause a lot of problems. I've been down that road. I've suffered from depression and got a lot of benefit from a book called "The Depression Cure" by Stephen Ilardi.
@glorytoglo23072 жыл бұрын
I was a super high achieving student in a crazy competitive field. And no matter what else I did- exercising outside, vacationing, hanging out with people, etc, the most joy and peace and LIFE I’ve ever felt during that time was when I just turn off my phone, go out into my parents garden, spend 2 hours picking weeds, picking my lettuce and kale, bringing it inside, spending another hour picking through it meticulously, then making a salad from scratch and sitting down and eating it.
@guccisega2 жыл бұрын
yeah nature is very good for us Humans, nature is natural its not fake like most things in this world. very cool of you to share :)
@soberanisfam1323 Жыл бұрын
Do you smoke the weeds?
@pvbfl9049 ай бұрын
Sounds great😊 That right there sounds like utopia. Sometimes it’s a gift just to be able to slow down & really be able to let yourself enjoy things like that.
@Kinesiology4118 ай бұрын
@@soberanisfam1323no need if you actually connect with nature regularly.
@charlesa.reidiiiesq.23425 жыл бұрын
Dog is man’s best friend. They always notice when you are gone.
@semperfi-19184 жыл бұрын
My dog when I was at my old place with roommates when I was in military and left for 3 weeks she would whine and howl the first few nights.
@xllisaiah74364 жыл бұрын
My allergies would say otherwise
@amyjkr4 жыл бұрын
Absolutely. It might not be as obvious to people living lives in the range of normal. But, if you have trauma and a toxic environment, there is no other living thing on the planet that will stick by your side through anything. If bet my life that if I walked into the depths of Hell, my dog would follow. She never turns away. Never judges. Never does the “tisk tisk” thing that humans do. Even the ones who love you most can only handle so much. And you might even protect them from your experience like I do. A dog never shames or judges. All they want is to be with you. As long as my dog is near me, can see me, she is fine. And my girl was abducted by my abusive almost-ex, had all four paws butchered with blood splattered up all four legs. Her tag was gone and microchip didn’t scan. Kali, my dog, now has nightmares like me. She has more anxiety than before, like me. She seems to have a stronger need to have her pack around her than before,’like me. I feel terrible that she suffered because I love her. The asshole told my kids, “Mama sure loves her dog. It’d be a shame if something happened to her.” Fucking dick. But my dog is a better person than most people.
@cherrypoplol74354 жыл бұрын
When even your dog doesn't care about you
@fromeveryting294 жыл бұрын
@@amyjkr I'm so sorry that happened to you. You are bringing up truth here. I have grown up with a lot of dogs (my parents adopt homeless and abused animals), and the pure love you get from even abused dogs is amazing. Like you said, they never judge, get tired of you or won't accept you. Dogs save so so many human lives each year. I love them.
@Superunknown15 жыл бұрын
The realest people dont have alot of friends -Tupac
@drinkthekoolaidkids5 жыл бұрын
Then I must be pretty fukin real ....
@runeplate1235 жыл бұрын
Six Ronin that awkward moment when in reality you just down have any friends...
@jettrainbow5 жыл бұрын
The realest people know that "a lot" is two words. -Biggie Smalls
@danielchristensen36575 жыл бұрын
Six Ronin lol well that’s just not true mister pac
@bballer1915 жыл бұрын
“People think being alone makes you lonely, but I don't think that's true. Being surrounded by the wrong people is the loneliest thing in the world.” -Kim Culbertson
@jerrygoldstein30282 жыл бұрын
Home is where people notice you’re not there Sometimes I feel like extremely lonely, I have lived in the same house alone since getting out the Army for 13 years. As time goes on people move on, it gets old convincing yourself to be grateful or not feel bad because it’s selfish. I completely agree with what they talk about. Money, nice things , travel the world , never replaces a person you deeply care for.
@carsonf14842 жыл бұрын
I retired from the army a few years ago and have lived alone since. I think ours is a different kind of loneliness.... we belonged once, but now no longer have the same type of connection with anyone. Not with people who used to be in the military, or even with people we were once in the military with. I could disappear tomorrow, and none of the people I associate with would have a clue for weeks or months.
@chazsmith202 жыл бұрын
It has to be the height of irony that we live in an age where the ability to communicate has never been so abundant (cell phones, internet, fax, ground lines) . I mean EVERYONE has a phone right next to them 24/7. And yet actual meaningful communication is near zero.
@Belfreyite Жыл бұрын
That's because mobility and choice have directed us towards others who have the same narrow outlook. It hasn't brought cooperation and tolerance towards our closest neighbours.
@treasurechest2951 Жыл бұрын
That’s the intelligence of the human race for ya. We thought better phones would cure lack of communication. We’re just idiot monkeys
@lucid_delirium9764 жыл бұрын
Everyone suffers, but everyone hides it. If everyone was more open about it, everyone would suffer less. The problem is that everyone kind of sucks, and everyone knows it.
@the90sinfluence3 жыл бұрын
Great comment, on point, i feel the same way
@shayily25533 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@Toblerone73103 жыл бұрын
Dude this is a great comment
@wondr76083 жыл бұрын
The problem is, everyone is not gonna change. It’s depressing but there’s not really anything we can do about it.
@willsmith45753 жыл бұрын
No joke this is a highly underrated comment
@BoraKimBUZZ4 жыл бұрын
I learned how lonely we are in States after experiencing a small poor village in South America. The children clung to me and shared their food although they were still hungry. I went there as an outsider but treated was treated as if I was one of them. I think that is what is lacking in States. We are too polite to barge in to other’s lives and too scared to clash with others. We never really connect outside of social media. Loneliness grows deeper as we learn to be not honest to ourselves and just put a facade on our Instagram accounts.
@einwithshades16774 жыл бұрын
"We are too polite to barge in to other’s lives and too scared to clash with others" I feel that IS the fundamental aspect on why it's so difficult to form any kind of relationships, be it fleeting or new. You've worded it perfectly.
@austinstout82204 жыл бұрын
thank you, well said. strongly considering leaving this country once i’m out of college
@Hobbymusiker843 жыл бұрын
@@austinstout8220 in Latin America people are living in class societies...thats the WORST thing ever...do not underestimate the freedoms that USA provides you....
@johnames64302 жыл бұрын
yes, social media has made it all worse. It can bring people together but not in a meaningful way like face to face interaction does.
@lmaoooo87642 жыл бұрын
Most Americans just want to be by themselves so they rejected any open new contact & stick with the people they known for periods of time.
@lex67942 жыл бұрын
I'm in my forties, I've never been married, No kids. Not even many relationships in my life. There are some lonely nights and it gets depressing. However, my father said loneliness will make you stronger and he is right. I've gotten used to it, It motivates me the loneliness to go to the gym and I've built my body pretty well over the years. My meditation keeps my mental state healthy as can be as well.
@zesebi Жыл бұрын
Bro you should try to start a family as soon as possible or you’re gonna regret it when your old
@lex6794 Жыл бұрын
@@zesebi Thanks for the advice.
@zesebi Жыл бұрын
@@lex6794 no problem and good luck
@IamWoodstaman2 жыл бұрын
I'm 24 and I've never felt like I've fit in. I've spent my late teens onwards devoid of true communal kinship. I have a few friends here and there which I almost never see. Some people do care about me, but I've not had any success in forming a real community. Outside of my family, I'm nobodies favourite person. I am a loner. I also have poor discipline, I'm insecure and I've never tried my hardest at anything. I am making strides and in 10 years time I hope I am still healthy and I have done myself justice. I know I'm capable but it won't be easy and I don't know if I can hack it.
@mma7712 жыл бұрын
Almost 34 and i can identify with everything you wrote... somedays better than other
@IamWoodstaman2 жыл бұрын
@@mma771 Sorry to hear it man. We both have decades of productive life ahead of us. One day at a time.
@guyperson7192 Жыл бұрын
Hey man. Why did you write this comment about me? Not cool dawg. Joke aside, exact same situation and feelings as you. 25 is coming soon too. It’s a rough journey. I hope you find your happiness.
@BrainsInBlackButter5 жыл бұрын
I've felt loneliness in crowded NYC, where no one really sees me or looks at me... but when I was in a beautiful bucolic setting, in the country side... I felt at peace. Not lonesome. And there was no one else there.. is that fucking weird or what?
@timmc84445 жыл бұрын
Not at all..cities suck
@Ravie15 жыл бұрын
There has been some research on this, cities are just neurologically overestimating for a lot of people.
@margaretdennehy44075 жыл бұрын
BrainsInBlackButt
@paumcd5 жыл бұрын
@@Ravie1 what does that mean?
@Ravie15 жыл бұрын
@@paumcd www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/mind-wandering/201208/stress-and-the-city From what I understand dense cities have more stimuli, we see more colors, shapes, and people, and that wears on the human brain causing increases in anxiety depression and other mental problems. Keep in mind though, long commutes are associated with heart problems and shorter life expectancy for many of the same reasons.
@Soulology86 жыл бұрын
Swear down I learn more from KZfaq comments than I ever did in school . You're all fascinating creatures. Have a beautiful day 😆😆
@tarzaan26036 жыл бұрын
24Pdaddy thank you, rest easy tonight , you just made my day!
@GCDissapointment5 жыл бұрын
24Pdaddy appreciate the positive vibes, but tread lightly. As insightful and informative as YT comments can be, they can be equally mind-numbing and soul draining lol
@TCt830676955 жыл бұрын
Love this comment lol
@luisg.73435 жыл бұрын
You should put up a profile picture of yourself, I'm sure you're a beautiful person.
@sataniccommunist90455 жыл бұрын
fart
@forman2083 жыл бұрын
When I was in my teens and early 20's, loneliness was a really palpable emotion. I would legit feel depressed if I had to spend a prolonged period of time by myself. Now after 30, when it comes to socializing I can take it or leave it. Idk if it's just getting older or possibly the covid lockdowns changing my perspective, but my interest in going out is legitimately non existent. Just the process of getting ready, showering, getting dressed, taking a 40 minute train ride to the city then an additional subway while dealing with crowds of people just to grab dinner or drinks, a relaxing night in watching a movie or show from the comfort of my home sounds much more appealing lol
@thetruth98162 жыл бұрын
You should still shower though bruh. For everyone’s sake.
@joshtaylor48932 жыл бұрын
@@thetruth9816 I think his point is he doesn't like to get ready and to take a lot of time out of his day for something that he's not even looking forward to doing
@thetruth98162 жыл бұрын
@Josh Taylor ok but still take a shower please
@jakesteel902 жыл бұрын
Eh probably good to socialize with actually people
@nicholasbiddle78932 жыл бұрын
That's exactly the problem though, isn't it? I seriously doubt the Amish imagine being social in the same co text as that
@darcysandler9522 жыл бұрын
I'm 43 and never had a family growing up my mom was always partying I haven't talked to her in 20 years and I never met my biological dad it made me tough and strong physically but always affected me mentally even though I would never admit it now I suffer from addiction .I hope and know I will beat this problem and find happiness one day.
@243wayne1 Жыл бұрын
Drink more beer and party with your mom.
@treasurechest2951 Жыл бұрын
Hello there the tough exterior is a shell but shells will break in impact. I hope whatever you had to protect with that shell, you can learn to care for it because it is the hurt you’re protecting. God bless
@jamesjirik224510 ай бұрын
I wish you happiness. I also dealt with addiction my whole life. My father was sober, but a workaholic and my mother she pop pills. It was a drunk before I know her but she still love me and try to raise me the best she could she’s passed now and I really miss her a lot now I got my dad he’s 74. I try to do the best I can and spend time with him and I have a dog but I’m only no girlfriend and I’m in a small town and the people are not friendly any change, but I’m focusing on being happy and solitude, and try not to feel lonely, but I know I need companionship.
@BusinessWolf19 ай бұрын
1) You don't beat addiction, you surrender to its power and take steps to not do the behavior without having to choose to not do it 2) chasing happiness is stupid and impossible, chase joy instead
@MrNightpwner4 жыл бұрын
Ever try to meet your neighbor? They look at me like I'm trying to steal their credit card
@forman2084 жыл бұрын
Wherever I've lived I've literally never even spoken to my neighbors, absolutely no interaction with them ever
@AJ-ly8si4 жыл бұрын
@@forman208 May I ask why? I have always had great relationships with my neighbors we go golfing all the time and hang out.
@brandon177604 жыл бұрын
@@AJ-ly8si because of the fear of rejection, so many times I've tried to talk to random people only to be seen as a nuisance.
@hfl66543 жыл бұрын
But back in the day you would literally bring a gift to your neighbor to break that barrier of not talking to them. We as a society have gotten Away from that big time
@AdamKoenigseggCCXR3 жыл бұрын
@@hfl6654 yeah sad times unfortunately the sense of real community is disappearing
@geovanniramirez24444 жыл бұрын
Sometimes when I feel lonely I remind myself that some of my most beautiful experiences were ones I went through alone
@fujidenzo_kid41473 жыл бұрын
I need to hear that. Thank you.
@hermitkrab7922 жыл бұрын
Yeah but some of the most beautiful experiences were also when I had them with other people. So it's an impasse. Lmao
@emisama78002 жыл бұрын
This makes me every more sad
@Dragonfist02 жыл бұрын
That’s right👌
@AshBethel Жыл бұрын
I love being alone, the only time I feel stress or anger is when I have to interact with other people. When it’s just me I’m at total peace. Wish everyone else was as secure with being alone as I am.
@devilsoffspring55198 ай бұрын
Awesome! You have the makings of a happy life and I envy you. Avoid most of the world's people if you're a natural introvert, you'll avoid a life of pain, waste and bullshit. We're all still social animals though--but only ONE person you like is plenty. The only problem is that women insist on popularity in guys, so if you're the guy you're still largely screwed if you want a girlfriend--even a nice one. I've come to the conclusion that for guys, one person they're fond of is fine. It's all they need. This obsession that our society has with popularity as a part of image is rather pathetic actually, regardless of whether you're 16 or 60 (or anything else.) Socializing is fine, falling apart inside if you can't do it constantly and incessantly is lameass.
@biancrbs Жыл бұрын
I'm a Brazilian and I been in America for a little longer than one year. Everyone there was very lonely older or younger. I believe that's a lot because of the culture Americans really live in their own bubbles but right now because the lifestyle became so fast and also social media people are isolated in it. Brazilian people are very social and talk to anyone anywhere If you try to cheap chat with an American it's almost like you're cursing them
@dorothyrmrz Жыл бұрын
oi. saudações de Las Vegas, NV
@trueseeker256 жыл бұрын
I've dealt with PTSD depression and anxiety on an unprecedented level most of my life due to Serious trauma and an incredible amount of abuse when I was younger. I became addicted to all kinds of things mostly alcohol. I live alone and all my friends are several hours away. But I became best friends with someone who is one of the most happily married people I've ever known, they're both some of the best people I've ever known and they have a really big family that's awesome and they are very positive and happy most of the time. I started going to their house to hang out on a regular basis. One time I stayed for several days over a weekend. One of the things I noticed in hindsight after I would leave and go home was that I realized that I didn't crave a drink. Not once. My depression went completely away in my anxiety too. All of the obsessive negative thoughts that I have constantly 24 hours in my head just completely disappeared. I realized at some point when it hit me that what happened was my environment changed. I realized that when I walked through the door of my friend's house his kids would run up to hug me and I felt like I had a sense of belonging. We would play games or I would help my friend put in a garden or do some work around the house. They treated me like I was one of their own. And so it's no surprise that all of us need some kind of community or tribe around us. A sense of belonging. A lot of my negative thinking and addictions went right out the window when I planted myself in the right environment. I still struggle occasionally with certain things but since then I've made a conscious decision to put myself in better situations and environments and force myself to not stay as lonely and isolated as I have been. The difference is night and day. If you struggle to with any of these kinds of things, I would encourage you even if you don't feel like it to change your environment and situation. It might not be easy but it will certainly help you create a balanced positive Baseline to start from and go forward from there. Also as a side note exercise has recently been the other big thing that has changed the game for me. A lot of times I don't feel like exercising but I force myself to get up and go for a vigorous Sprint through the neighborhood or do hundred push-ups and drink lots of water. Now that I've given myself over to exercise better nutrition and a sense of belonging with some good friends things have started to change dramatically. I hope you will do the same. Love and peace.
@darrenwells36426 жыл бұрын
trueseeker25 very courageous of you to share your story! Thank you
@terrancehector81616 жыл бұрын
wonderful story! stay focused.
@EekZombies5 жыл бұрын
LMNOP same happened to me!
@chad44525 жыл бұрын
Gregory Courson You sound miserable af. Keep that shit over there..
@taradunn43685 жыл бұрын
Trueseeker25 I give a fuck that you are choosing to heal regardless of what anyone else would tell you. That's so awesome that you didn't give up. I have ptsd also and understand the struggle.
@Mark-zs7sz4 жыл бұрын
I really like Joe Rogan. He's a very good listener and a great conversationalist.
@UncleMichaelable4 жыл бұрын
Agreed.
@DarkWandererAU4 жыл бұрын
He is without a doubt, the worst interviewer to ever be on a screen. But his guests and the format of his show are really good
@aghadmtl4 жыл бұрын
@@DarkWandererAU this is not an interview you know
@DarkWandererAU4 жыл бұрын
@@aghadmtl *sighhh* I know, its a podcast, like you n every other person say. Doesn't make him any less shit at being a host and talking with people
@dinmardrom67524 жыл бұрын
@@DarkWandererAU Have you seen Larry King?
@Welcome012132 жыл бұрын
When I was diagnosed with severe depression and anxiety, it actually helped me a lot. It’s still hard but it helps me to understand and listen to my body, which makes it easier to not fall in it. Instead of me here thinking it was all laziness. I think some people do need to hear their diagnosis to help them become aware of themselves and the state that they are in so that they can progress and maneuver through life.
@shae23306 жыл бұрын
Work notices when I'm not there. I would not consider that home.
@MrUndersolo6 жыл бұрын
Shae But you can be replaced.
@mikemorgan12416 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha!!!
@guberization6 жыл бұрын
Has anyone seen Shae? I haven’t received any TPS reports in a month.
@truthseek30176 жыл бұрын
Shae Life is great, isn't it? It could be, if we weren't slaves.
@MA-de8mn5 жыл бұрын
They will notice for a maximum of 5 days in a row and then they could care less! Don’t believe me go try it and come back and tell us how it went.
@robertray8510 Жыл бұрын
We spend our whole lives as children wishing we were adults and we spend our whole time as adults wishing we were kids. When we are with people we often would prefer to be alone yet when we are alone we often wish we were with people instead. We often wish we had wealth. When we have wealth we envy those without wealth who can find their joy in simple things. The grass is always greener....only until you're on the other side.
@francisco6969 Жыл бұрын
There’s millions and millions of people around us but yet we’re lonely. It doesn’t make sense.
@ktowniecity72696 жыл бұрын
Crazy how we used to laugh and feel sorry for the Amish. Now I completely get it! They were the ones laughing all along at us. Our society is so fucked up
@rogeliomaldonado47455 жыл бұрын
I don't know how we go from talking about the Amish 2 someone's atheist beliefs but if we can get back to the topic at hand you are absolutely right... I looked at the Amish as a bunch of weirdos but they seem to be the ones keeping it together in a time where everything seems to be becoming unglued. I don't necessarily feel that I would wants to be Amish 2 benefit from their ways but surely there is a medium where our current society can benefit tremendously from.
@martypopeye82365 жыл бұрын
@lmnop or maybe they weren’t lies and worked for a reason? Just as I can’t prove to you there is a God, you can’t prove there isn’t one. Let’s say being a Christian is the best way to live life even though you believe it’s a lie, would you Deprive your children of the best life because you don’t like to believe or would you follow along to better your children’s life?
@SunnyD6985 жыл бұрын
@LMNOP bingo
@rgt3215 жыл бұрын
@@SunnyD698 the rules that you have to follow were put there by God for your benefit. To keep you from not ending up alone.
@kirkberryhill81715 жыл бұрын
Somewhere an Amish person is really wanting to tell you that you are totally full of shit, but they have no ability to click that motherfucking thumbs down symbol;
@jonathanvilario54024 жыл бұрын
I'm upset he didn't talk about how detrimental the internet is to depression. Social media is a huge factor into creating anxiety for people nowadays.
@JayV984 жыл бұрын
Ironically, I've met my closest friends from the internet. People who I'm proud to call my friends.
@joeltaveras1984 жыл бұрын
Why do you still use it then
@precipitated62634 жыл бұрын
@@joeltaveras198 addiction
@dr.froghopper67113 жыл бұрын
@@joeltaveras198 because some people are able to distinguish between reality and bullshit! Unlike trolls like you that search for significance in this world by trashing the true emotions of someone in pain. You don’t even know your own worth (or- in your case, lack of worth). I know who I am because I’ve survived 64 years of hell on earth and actually have enough experience to know what I’m talking about. You? Insignificant worm!
@ThatsaToilet3 жыл бұрын
@@dr.froghopper6711 U mad?
@therawksaw21352 жыл бұрын
I'm 57 now . I moved almost my whole life especially when I was young . Two years here two years there . I never had the chance to really connect with anyone . There's not someone for everyone . Love is only for the lucky ones . Reality sucks ..
@robbenvanpersie1562 Жыл бұрын
reality is often disappointing
@tattoo62 Жыл бұрын
Im 60 yrs old when i was younger i was lonely all time. Was married 2 times had a few kids and i hated feeling lonely i had friends but i got to a point where i realized most of the people i know wasnt really friends women always screwed around i know alot of the men do to but i dont go out with men. So i got to the point where i started staying away from people and i started feeling much better. Once every 3 to 6 months its was nice to go out and eat with a friend but that was plenty. I dont know why anyone wouldnt want to be alone its so much more peaceful
@johnlothrop19374 жыл бұрын
I'm 59 and no children no family no connection to anything. I saw this coming my way my whole life. Just the way it is. I was married twice and I was lonely in the marriages. Being alone doesn't translate to loneliness.
@Dragonfist02 жыл бұрын
Well atleast you were married dawg
@Luboman4112 жыл бұрын
I was just talking to my mother about this, since I am pretty fine with the group of friendships I have in NYC. I get a lot of belonging out of them, I don't feel lonely with them. Yet I know people in marriages who feel very lonely. So just because you're hitched in a proper, socially-sanctioned romantic relationship doesn't mean you won't be lonely. That's one of the bigger fallacies in today's society--privileging marriage and long-term romantic relationships over good, solid friendships.
@nataliee.36414 жыл бұрын
I'm in a wheelchair, so its socially awkward going out, but I got my best friend by my side, my dog.
@Kal-El2074 жыл бұрын
And that dog loves you.
@singulardude64533 жыл бұрын
So do I, I don’t know u but that doesn’t matter
@dr.froghopper67113 жыл бұрын
I’m in a wheelchair too and all my friends bailed on me because I can’t go and do what they want to go and do. They weren’t interested in modifying their behaviors to meet my needs so it was easier to just suddenly pretend that I’ve ceased to exist. At least you have a dog to share your life with! I bid you well!
@theash11113 жыл бұрын
Prayers out to you
@blazinbuc993 жыл бұрын
I would hang out with you anytime! A wheelchair isn't a condition it's a tool
@RB-rz3pj8 ай бұрын
I used to play random movies (dvds at the time) over and over just to hear other voices in my apartment, and it made me feel like people were there, and I could hear them from the other room, but I was completely alone. Now I could care less about a TV or movie box. It took a while to learn how wonderful the natural sun feels on my face … self love is not selfish, but necessary. The necessary starting point 🌺
@Kinesiology4118 ай бұрын
Ah yes, I grew up a Gen X latch key kid so the tv was always on for that noise. I'm 53 and only within the last few years have I learned to love silence.
@Duke_23733 жыл бұрын
I would rather wake up alone! than, wake up and wish I was alone..
@vietnamese_man5 жыл бұрын
Technology is truly both a blessing and a curse...
@OXSkuldream5 жыл бұрын
Well said
@missionpupa5 жыл бұрын
We invented technology to make life easier, but unfortunately because of that, we stopped asking for help too.
@RobotMillionaire5 жыл бұрын
Devestation no it’s just a curse
@FOxXyYgRaMpA4 жыл бұрын
It’s definitely a blessing. It only becomes a curse when you rely on it.
@houssemehsn4 жыл бұрын
Technology is a blurse
@GODzbleach5 жыл бұрын
One thing that help me get through loneliness is finding a hobby and keeping busy.
@P9rkour904 жыл бұрын
That’s the key right there. Idiot hands brings in our demons , at least for me
@Kal-El2074 жыл бұрын
Very good to do.
@Mark-zs7sz4 жыл бұрын
I agree. I collect things. I fix things. I put things together. Alone. It's me and my things and things I create. Bring someone into the mix, and you will lose what's yours.
@michaelopolski57592 жыл бұрын
Find a purpose, that lasts longer!
@arturogotti3790 Жыл бұрын
I’m lonely in the US, when I travel abroad, I make genuine friends easily
@twochampsboxing9 ай бұрын
“It’s better to be Alone, than to wish you were Alone”. - DAD
@mitchg78095 жыл бұрын
Being around my family is soul draining & I've been in relationships with a person yet it was the loneliest time of my life. You can't rely on other people to make you less lonely.
@arraikcruor64075 жыл бұрын
I hate it when people simplify things. Everyone needs to be in a tribe according to them but they never talk about people who hate being in a tribe and is draining them.
@sidneyvicious11284 жыл бұрын
@@arraikcruor6407 Don't do crowds. No Black Friday bullshit. Ever. I made the mistake of going to Disneyland with friends one New Year's Eve. The lines were so long that in 8 hours we rode 1 ride.(Haunted Mansion, my favorite)😢😠I just walked to the car and went to sleep after that.
@coupleofbeers314 жыл бұрын
Same here. My family is not reliable. Maybe meet a girl and start a family of your own? Just an idea.
@pamspencer57334 жыл бұрын
@@sidneyvicious1128 LMAO
@Papa-dopoulos5 жыл бұрын
I realize how “pretentious freshman philosophy student” this is going to sound, but really, as a post-college person struggling with loneliness, my life was completely changed by what I read. The Tao Te Ching is amazing. It taught me to counteract the harmful normative values of the western world. It taught me that being obscure, unnoticed, and silent is a beautiful and righteous way to live. We place so much value on how others perceive us, but when you realize that this doesn’t matter at all, you become free.
@VegasRDL4 жыл бұрын
True that bru. We're here today, gone tomorrow.
@ottopotatum57754 жыл бұрын
Its not just the west. Bruh.. entire world could use silence and obscurity.
@jakepokemonman12274 жыл бұрын
Hey man I’m going to try reading it. I’m a college drop out who can’t stand doing boring work online, but I love philosophy and I’m in the process of saying fuck it and joining the Air Force. I’ve read the entire Bible multiple times, the Quran once (HOLY FUCK THAT WAS BORING TOOK ME A WHOLE SUMMER TOO), Art of War, I started Nichomachaen Ethics if that’s how it’s spelled, I also started Meditations by Marcus Aurelius but I have like zero order in my life nowadays and never finish. I’m going to start reading that book man I want to be the best version of myself I can be, if that means alone, shit, oh well. I never really suffered from having no friends until lately, i hope I don’t have to live my whole life alone, but I guess we’ll see how it turns out.
@QuietlyCurious4 жыл бұрын
Lol there's nothing pretentious about that. The Tao Te Ching is one of the most powerfully sublime spiritual texts in existence. You might also like "The Power of Now" by Eckhart Tolle which is very much in line with Taoism :)
@hata62904 жыл бұрын
not for me
@h9peless Жыл бұрын
Loneliness is everywhere not just America.
@JacobC4793 жыл бұрын
Nothing is worse than feeling lonely in a room full of people.
@SoulfulVeg6 жыл бұрын
They tried to put my daughter on stimulant meds, saying she would never function without them. She graduated from college with a 4.0. They tried to put me on an antidepressant. I just needed exercise. They medications are appropriate for some people, but damn, not everyone!
@heyhuda565 жыл бұрын
SoulfulVeg on point
@lionelhutz51375 жыл бұрын
I was put on adhd meds while in college...went from a 2.6 to a 3.1. They do generally work for people who genuinely have trouble focusing in academics. Bad grades in college can severely reduce your employment options and possibly ruin your life. Outside of academics I wouldn't recommend it though.
@Phoney.Baloney5 жыл бұрын
The first thing we ask ongoing Carr with psychiatric patients is “have you been exercising?”. Very important
@jakkuhl62235 жыл бұрын
Same happened to me in a private kindergarten class. My mom was like, "nope," and just homeschooled me until 9th grade. I'm now a college grad slated to go to officer school for the army.
@TheZimboNation5 жыл бұрын
Big Pharma.
@TheReal_Pim_Tool3 жыл бұрын
The older I get the more I face the reality that I will be alone and lonely for the rest of my life. I never wanted it that way but no matter how much I try, people just don’t want to be around me and or I don’t want to be around them because I see how nasty and terrible people are.
@thomashamilton90463 жыл бұрын
Your Not alone, I might not know you, but I care, and I’m proud of you, I hope your doing okay
@eddybrevet68163 жыл бұрын
This was insightful of you, to realize the path you are on is headed there, what has helped me, not enough cause of ignorance or avoidance is sex therapy
@sirg-had88213 жыл бұрын
Welcome to the club.
@jaerockchalk32163 жыл бұрын
i agree i feel like most people are faking everything , instead of being themselves . they want to look virtous and popular and nothings wrong in life . i hate being gaslit lol . hope all is well Richard !
@alonzosoprano72422 жыл бұрын
Story of my life. I just turned 37 yesterday, still single with no kids. I drown myself drinking Heineken.
@kanoamisawa99012 жыл бұрын
If your 70 childless and lonely there are always children standing by to be adopted. Your never alone because children are never alone. Right now there’s a child with no parents who is suffering from loneliness and abandonment. You can step in and totally heal that child’s life, and heal your own life by healing their life.
@tomyost39592 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. I'm 54. Only child. Have no kids and I struggle with this. Thank ya Joe
@tom44122 жыл бұрын
Are you in a relationship
@mma7712 жыл бұрын
34 here and not interested in being with anyone really... so how does it feel at 54? Any regrets?
@tomyost39592 жыл бұрын
@@mma771 ya. Hard to get to this age without a few
@brianjanssens80204 жыл бұрын
there's a saying that goes: "If you want to go fast, go alone. But if you want to go far, go together"
@emanate04 жыл бұрын
an african saying. bbc blue planet show ftw.
@DoubleoP4 жыл бұрын
More deep stuff!!
@remainfocused85703 жыл бұрын
Yup....I did learn the saying originated in the Motherland....Did my Ancestry.com couple Christmases ago.....8% Cameroon... 10 and 1//2 percent when I’m wit wifey👁🤟🏽
@Dubcongaming5 жыл бұрын
I was single for 10 years until 3 weeks ago, it can happen guys. Don't give up.
@discardmyfriends4 жыл бұрын
From what age to what age were you single
@k.b.s47034 жыл бұрын
0-10 lol
@sagnuts60144 жыл бұрын
Pshhhhh 20 years
@crabtrap4 жыл бұрын
i have a friend like you(in our 50's) he never had a serious GF, he's a mildly odd bird...i finally met an internet chick and has been doing great. he has a home and good long hour job and thought he'd never get a chick or even know how.
@Aus10McNeal4 жыл бұрын
@@crabtrap Damn what app did he use? Haha
@Cee_B2 жыл бұрын
I wish here in the west that we’d focus on mental recovery for ppl. There’s so many angry and horribly sad young men and woman and decisions are blurred and quickly made when the mental space isn’t clear and joyful or calm but yet we want to solve every effect of the condition instead of going to the root of condition to fight it.
@lenibanez73108 ай бұрын
"There are worse things than being alone but it often takes decades to realize this and most often when you do it's too late and there's nothing worse than too late."
@lando49015 жыл бұрын
True loneliness isn't just feeling alone. It's also having people around you but being unable to connect with any of them. A level of isolation that makes you feel like being in a foreign land with people of your own culture. Has single-handedly caused the whole array of social anxiety disorders here in the most crowded societies on earth
@axlh.18275 жыл бұрын
I thought I was lonely, then I started eating better and working out and making music, and I realized I didn’t really need company or friends 24/7, and I’d rather be alone doing what I love. Sometimes you can fix loneliness
@OfficialLuceMusic4 жыл бұрын
Yeah...
@blairwitch20044 жыл бұрын
Same thing. I started working out, eating better, and making music too. Although I still feel lonely often
@axlh.18274 жыл бұрын
CJD Beatz same bro. Just keep doing it, eventually you learn to conquer loneliness, maybe write a song about how you feel
@axlh.18274 жыл бұрын
Ricky hawkins well it’s been a year & im doing great 🤷♂️
@buddyroe612 жыл бұрын
I married really young, My wife and I rased three wounderfull children, and We help them while they were raseing there kid's, and We were a very close family, Now with the viruses BS, I don't see any of them anymore, Don't kill Grand pa. But at 74, I have no one and my great grandkids hardly know Me, I just should have waited and outher 15 years before I go married, and I would have had My Family to help me Die, All My friends, still have there Grandkids,. They have gotten so used to avoiding me, until now they don't even call anymore. It really is making me so sick, with being so lonely. It's like being sick in person.
@WholeHealthConnections2 жыл бұрын
This is a really good clip. Something I needed to hear exactly in this moment. Thank you 🙏🏼
@humanbeing67194 жыл бұрын
Solitude brings self awareness and getting in touch with the inner self. Loneliness can be a tool, but too much isn't good. Humans are social creatures.
@purplehaze70935 жыл бұрын
"One year of love is better than a lifetime alone" -Freddie Mercury
@neilpeartspurplenose87395 жыл бұрын
Yeah, Freddie got a little too much love. As he said himself " Too much love can kill you" talk about a self fullfilling prophecy!
@andymillington46914 жыл бұрын
Don’t look to Freddie Mercury for life advice 😂
@DX-d3 жыл бұрын
Don't agree.
@Micha3lHinrichs2 жыл бұрын
I’ve been single, and haven’t had any contact whatsoever in 9 whole years. Mostly I am able to handle the self isolation as an introvert. However, there are times when the loneliness turns to deep depression and fear.
@benbelzer83032 жыл бұрын
Loneliness can be a deeper issue for some people. Some people lack empathy for understanding that other people have their own stuff going on. If you are wondering why people can't read your mind it's because the world doesn't revolve around you BUT (importantly) if you can learn to be truly grateful when someone offers their ear to hear what you may be going through that is a solution. The gratitude allows you to be in the moment, which allows you to bond and lose some of the loneliness. The bonding creates friendships. BTW we all have A LOT more in common with each other than we do differences.
@ambiguousacronyms6 жыл бұрын
Japan is a perfect example of what's going to happen to the west in the next couple decades in terms of the amount of single people there. It's extremely cliched, but technology is causing loneliness on an unprecedented scale. It's rotting our mind.
@marleyjanim50336 жыл бұрын
Correct
@willsmith57256 жыл бұрын
I think Japan is a great example of culture rot. Delusion on a scale of insanity. The fact that tentacle, gay porn for the opposite sex and a ton of other out there shit being mainstreamed is a good example of this. No wonder they're all lonely.
@apeman20356 жыл бұрын
Will Smith True
@ktowniecity72696 жыл бұрын
Pacific NorthWest is halfway there. Most clique place there is. No more depressing places to live than Seattle and Vancouver, BC. Ppl are very rude and cold here. No eye contact between strangers. Nothing like the East Coast. At least in NYC they will tell you to shut the fuck up. No matter what happens no one stands up for themselves in public in the Pacific NorthWest
@shae23306 жыл бұрын
Japan > Rest of the West Considering Western countries are high on the *"loneliest"* country list, including Japan, I say you won't have to wait decades because they're already on par. US living alone population is 28% while Japan is 31% and other countries are relatively close to those, Canada is 27% as another example. The difference is American will continue to be a racial war zone decades from now and Canada as will France, Britain, Germany, Italy, so forth and so on will crumble under the cult of diversity and multiculturalism while Japan remains a homogeneous country.
@josephguigli53905 жыл бұрын
The pain of loneliness is excruciating, when I was younger, I felt like I had time to rake care of the problem, but now that I'm 36 I feel like my time Is running out...this breaks my heart...
@lukeulibarri39245 жыл бұрын
Never too late, God bless you.
@jesserochon31034 жыл бұрын
You're a beautiful soul.
@carlosmartinezz30224 жыл бұрын
"Where there is Determination, a way can be found" - Richest Man in Babylon
@sidneyvicious11284 жыл бұрын
36 is the prime of life. So much to look forward to! But its not always that way. It's easy to talk yourself into being depressed and feeling hopeless when we are upset. I was the poster child for that stupidity. but the reverse is also true! Using positive statements may feel silly at first but that shit WORKS. Otherwise you may need to see a professional. Oh and get your ass outside. Talk to people. Get to know your neighbors. This stuff is hard for me but I'm so glad I did. Senior citizens usually appreciate someone to talk to and nearly always they have the best stories of bravery, love , Adventure and deep sorrow. Plus sometimes they have a sexy granddaughter or son who is so grateful to you. LOL
@matthewcastillo99514 жыл бұрын
I know how you feel. I’m 51 and I’ll always be single. But in my case I drank for over 35 years. Been sober for 2 years. Was born drunk. I probably will always be alone and alcoholic. Never had a relationship or been in love and its way too late. I hope this makes you feel better that your not alone as far as your situation goes..
@djsusan00 Жыл бұрын
Nothing wrong with being alone. Its nice. You don't have to worry about anything. Focus on your hobbies, money, job. Its pretty good. I dont have anyone to tell me anything or hold me back.
@theking834710 ай бұрын
Humans can't like that. It's not natural, it's not how we evolved.
@chadjergins23242 жыл бұрын
you can never be happy around others if you cant be happy alone first. Being alone isnt bad, whats bad is being around people who make you feel alone.
@Clintsessentials2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely!
@waedjradi4 жыл бұрын
"If you make friends with yourself you will never be alone. . ." - Maxwell Maltz
@xgalarion86594 жыл бұрын
how do you make friend with yourself?
@mastercontender61394 жыл бұрын
XGALARION look at your right hand...
@mitchellbaker48064 жыл бұрын
This is unhelpful.
@ZBjs-oi5hz4 жыл бұрын
ACE A 💀
@Kelberi4 жыл бұрын
@@mastercontender6139 mrs. Palm and 5 daughters.
@_baller5 жыл бұрын
I'd say the biggest problem is that we are being made to live longer but not being told how to properly live.... I don't even know why ppl enjoy being alive, a lot of ppl are dying out there mentally... And for what? New car? House? And then die anyway?
@predatorsnhl13895 жыл бұрын
tommy d u b b s exactly everyone’s gonna die so what difference is it gonna make
@OhSleeper114 жыл бұрын
come on man don't you want that nice new car? It's only $504 dollars a month! Anyone can afford that! So many people throw their life away into expensive cars and houses when that money could be used for camping and exploring equipment or other hobbies instead
@forman2084 жыл бұрын
@@OhSleeper11 The saddest irony is, they spend all that money on a house and they barely spend any time in it. Their whole day is spent working to pay for it, and the only use it to sleep
@sunnyteagarden12374 жыл бұрын
We are being told though. by The Holy Bible.. You're spot on about the futility of collecting treasures here. When you collect treasures through works, Those are eternal! Salvation isnt through works, but a free gift given to us by Jesus for repenting for our sins. Take the leap, if not for this life, for the next.
@jasonmason20554 жыл бұрын
@@sunnyteagarden1237 Allah will show u the way repent of your false Gods or be destroyed
@hardasnails11b152 жыл бұрын
Do not mind growing old. So many have been denied the opportunity. I myself am one of those fitting Joes description at the beginning at 59yrs. I find it increasingly difficult to motivate with each passing year.
@michaelm56012 жыл бұрын
I wish I had a buddy I could talk to like Joe, he is such a good listener
@sean67094 жыл бұрын
Just got dumped by the one person in the world I trusted with my life. I’m devastated
@johnmolfese53274 жыл бұрын
Time helps ease the pain. It’s hard but when you go through all the emotions your going through now it’s we’re you grow the most as a person. Chin up it gets easier that’s for sure
@Corpus_Callosum4 жыл бұрын
They did you a favor. Now you can learn to be careful who you trust and spend your time/energy/love with.
@az0938724 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear that Sean, I hope things are going better for you man!
@rickycastro65553 жыл бұрын
Hope you’re doing better now. Things happen, but we have no choice but to move on. The bills don’t stop coming in, time doesn’t stop, the world keeps going. She dumped you, she didn’t care about you anymore. So you shouldn’t either. Don’t ever let a human being have that much power over you. Why should she have the luxury of moving on, while you feel like 💩. Man up, move on & live your life. Don’t ever stop exploring the great possibilities and wonders that are in this world. Especially not due to another human being that’ll pass away too and eventually be easily forgotten from this planet just like you will.
@fumarate13 жыл бұрын
@@rickycastro6555 And our souls shine on..
@BangMaster963 жыл бұрын
Most of us have two options. 1 - Be alone 2 - Be with people who you can't stand, and want to avoid
@mma7712 жыл бұрын
Be alone is better
@friedose40992 жыл бұрын
Underrated af
@turtleanton65392 жыл бұрын
Yeh
@cornerstore_d2 жыл бұрын
Most of us aren't losers
@friedose40992 жыл бұрын
@Sonic Hedgehog That´s my fate.
@salutaldegrandfan61713 жыл бұрын
I deal with loneliness and rage everyday of my life.
@cscs9192 Жыл бұрын
Rage will consume you. Kill your ego.
@BeachBoyJ11 ай бұрын
Being present and having a plan is definitely better than having money
@Kinesiology4118 ай бұрын
This.
@slipnorris58825 жыл бұрын
a big problem of today is over thinking things too
@andthnwat5 жыл бұрын
I'm learning to be my own best friend. Someone I can count on.