@Andrew Evans Everybody knows but yet it still remains an issue. It's good Rory brought up because at first listening to the video, maybe Rory thought Mal was dismissing this

That's common sense. Mal is just a dumbass simpin mommas boy.

I don't agree, I used to think this until I realized that we are taught NOT to be emotional, or that showing too much emotion is a sign of weakness. Yes there are studies that show a single parent household is worse in a 2 parent household however, that is for a single parent. In other words, just one parent. That's the real issue the studies demonstrate, not just because dad isn't there. I think you're accidentally framing it incorrectly. Perhaps granted men are more likely to leave a woman as a single mother. After all The Temptations said, PAPA was the rolling stone, not Mama. I think we do not, at least from the social perspective, have the understanding of the range of our emotions; at the least not like women do. So the lesson that Rory is saying "men need to teach other men" is somewhat flawed Because we still, for the most part, lack that emotional education. Men are told, usually, not to display that range of emotions or worse, suppress it. you can see it in some of the comments. Meanwhile, women are allowed that space to explore that range and learn to control it better because they are nurtured to embrace it. Now, whether they do or not, much like men, is another thing but the taboo of exploration isn't really there, it almost seems expected. I was raised by a single mother, and she was gangster as fuck but never made me feel like a bitch about being sad, scared, elated, in love, etc. Whenever I felt my manhood ever really questions by her growing up was when I skirted responsibility or failed to uphold my word. (something ultimately universal regardless of sex) A majority of the time I've ever seen and/or experienced a man getting bitched out about being emotional has come more from men, as well as women that are indoctrinated into thinking "that isn't what a man is supposed to be". We have "allowed moments" of unfettered emotions, such as birth of a child, death of a family member, etc. Mal is getting heat but everyone is forgetting the shit he gave Joe for wanting to be sad over a break up for longer than 10 days, for a woman who had his child mind you. Real shit, Mr. Rogers understood that men are not properly taught proper emotional management, he said so himself in front of congress 50 years ago!!! (you can search the testimony it's crazy) We have come a long long way and that's amazing because now people get clowned for trashing a man trying to be a father but I think we still don't truly understand our emotional potential. This is something that will take GENERATIONS. We are on the right track, which is hopeful.

@@MarceloAbans Really well said brother

And it will continue to "remain an issue" as long as there are irresponsible men & women with high hopes, willing to sleep with them unprotected...

Nah he’s an 8 bro

Hahaha why not!?

Jayy C EVER!!

Weird

Like ever

Facts

Webster Kollie that’s deep I heard that before

A emotional person ,not just man .

so wrong omg.. emotional men make the best husbands. toxic men dont.

No, a man - anyone - who can't control their own behavior to the extent of violence or abuse is dangerous. Being emotional isn't. There's a huge difference.

Mal never knows what he’s talking about.

I think he’s just repeating a take he heard but doesn’t remember why it makes sense

Well...youre right about 1 thing

@@greenmatrix30seven authentic? Yeah.

Yes...although some would argue that women catch feelings quickly or often. “ I fell in love right away”. You see more women say those things more than men. There are exceptions of course but...well yk what I mean

They can forsure catch them around the same time as the girl

Im exactly the same way. I rarely catch feelings. So rare I honestly thought something was wrong with me. Within an 11 year span, I fell in love once. When I do fall though, i fall hard, but it rarely ever happens. I remember an ex thought I had an emotional disorder because I was so detached lol

No anger is just one emotion, and still men cant afford to be as emotional as women. Society does not tolerate it.

You won a thread!

@@edwardmaster9183 you obviously didn’t get it lol

@@TT-xz5sy I misread the comment 😔

Sammy Bissett facts lol thanks for saving me the time of typing this

Shit, you're generalizing. Most if not all the men I know in my life aren't like that AT ALL. We're strong physically and emotionally for our women. When I see people being overly emotional and holding grudges, my natural reaction is to tell you you're acting like a fukin female. So I disagree, maybe up north yall feminine but not down south, we know WHY we have to be strong for our families and kin. Oh and just bc the media portrays men as weak in 2019 DOESN'T make men weak in 2019 👍 it's called narrative dude.

@@mackdaddypeypey1 str8 up, the media makes men look like dumbies and every female a genius feminist when the truth is the majority of people in both genders are tired of that portrayal

Peyton G It’s toxic af to think a man has to bury his emotions to be strong.

@@Kanza535 who said anything about burying feelings? You're assuming. REAL men don't have to bury feelings, they're in control of their feelings and mature enough to let shit that's not worth it go. REAL men, that is.

EEzt when used wrong. For example if he’s suddenly emotional when he feels like he’s about to lose a woman vs in the actual relationship that’s a turnoff and can be seen as manipulative. I just think everyone should focus on healthy expression.

EEzt this is factz

Exactly

some good points there

Someone paid too much attention in science class. Not everything has to do w/ estrogen and testosterone. Js.

@@greenmatrix30seven but emotions and aggression definitely does.

They play a part. But its more than just that

@@greenmatrix30seven Exactly. That's why the original comment also mentioned upbringing.

Did your dad walk out or did ur mom keep u from him

You can't judge emotions in a comments section. Mal is just saying stuff for attention. Men cannot be emotional like women. And not having a father is a key reason a man might be more emotional, he is way off.

brianroyal1 But It Is True Men Are Emotional When It Comes To Women. And Also Jealous

@@hndrxx5339 he said men are more emotional than women. There is no evidence that supports that.

Both are equally as emotionally damaging. One has you overcompensating your masculinity to validate identity and the other creates an unhealthy discontent for something thats supposed to be your equal opposite

@@JohnAnderson4610 you clearly grew up with both parents

A toxic mother still feeds you and keeps a roof under your head so anybody saying a toxic mother needs to stfu

Masked Savage doubt it, the abusive father would do it and use it has levearge. Thats why “absuive” is the term in the picture. A toxic mother is the worst bro. Some of my broa wo grew up with that shit it was a war zone every dayz toxi mothers would kick u out, change the locks on the doors, steal from u, lie on u, and kick u out for a stranger (male) seen this shit happen.

An absent father is toxic by default. A similar question was raised "is a narcissistic mother worse than an absent father"?. Absence doesn't doesn't make one void or exempt of being toxic or narcissistic. Absent father (unless they died, or are in the hospital sick, on tour with the military or something) is neglectful, unemotionally unavailable, etc. These traits are found in abusive people. Abusive people are considered toxic. To my other point (which is connected), a narcissist doesn't have to be present to have a negative impact on someone. Similarly to a toxic person. Either of these people who have problematic behaviors, thinking patterns, and communication styles (etc) have negative impacts on those they are close to daily and if they're absent. The absence is the fkd up narcissist and toxic behavior. Especially if they pop up every now and again because they never effectively address their absence or the impact it has on the kids. They make it seem normal, justified, etc. That's toxic and narcisstic. On the flip side, while a mother is referred to as toxic or narcisstic, said mothers have times wheh they're good. There are days when the toxic and narcisstic traits and patterns are not causing major problems. In fact, there are great days and great experiences. This doesn't negate the bad ones or excuse the shitty times, but it is something that requires recognition in this conversation. Why ? Because all things considered, the good experiences children will have with their toxic and narcissistic mother will never be experienced (at the same volume) as an absent father. It's not possible. So when we think of things like holidays, birthdays, graduations and other milestones in a child's life and vacations and support at school games and concerts... trips to the doctor, dentist, heart breaks and other difficult situations, a toxic and narcisstic mother will be more emotionally available and helpful (overall) than the parent who isn't there. Who's absence likely pops in and invades that child's mind on a conscious and subconscious level. Even if the mom doesn't akways have it all the way together. A toxic and narcissistic mother may not always be noticeably toxic and narcissistic to outsiders, as well. People may rarely ask a child "to, what's up with your mom... She's acting off". But, a child will have the question asked "where's your dad", directly or indirectly, and will be reminded in various ways of his absence. Especially during those times when mom is there (whether she's having an episode or not). I see so many absent fathers and stand back and watch how they move through life neglecting their responsibility to their kids. How could anyone say that is less problematic than a mother trying to uphold her responsibilities even if she's not perfect at. Toxic and narcisstic people, this includes absent and present parents, have mental illness yet one is taking responsibility and the other isn't. Both will cause their children pain but one is there on the good days and the shitty ones. The other isn't. That needs validation.

Most definitely he got angered which means hes super emotional

straight facts when mal said dudes with both parents are more emotional than dudes without em i tuned him out smh growing up the most hostile and angry dudes were the ones without dads

@Lillel thats nonsense....women dont kill over relationships cos there less violent in general.

@Lillel "have a degree in medicine"😂😂😂😂😂😂so?

@lamar rose even so called wrong guys they pick want to be there for there children,they just dont want to be in a committed relationship with the mother cos 9/10 he wasnt in 1 with her before she got pregnant.then wen that happens they make it a nightmare for the man to see his child n poison the child against his father.. women have no1 to blame but themselves for being single mothers. if they wer getting pregnant by men they was in committed long term relationships with they wouldnt have this problem but instead they getting pregnant by guys theyve known for 6 months or guys they met on facebook or i.g. Women decide wat men become fathers and men decide wat women become wives.

David Hardison it’s crazy that mal thinks he’s right 😂🤣

as usual

I don't think women judge emotion correctly to make that observation. The simple fact women are allowed to get away with so much shit means y'all are far more emotional than men.

Mal is right so fucking much.

This is the internet. This is where the lames come to congregate.

Yes step fathers count too, I had my dad, step father and all of my uncles

It does depend on your environment. However...there’s a lil bit more too it than just that

Lies

Shut up with your weird new generation thesis

@@greenmatrix30seven Oh, I'm not saying it's entirely a social construct, I think each person comes differently, but with most people I'd say it's where you grew up and who you grew up with and the state of society in your zeitgeist.

Ik that but...again...theres more to it than what you typed. Its not all estrogen and testosterone.

Robert Drake cuz they get on social media and at catty like women. Arguing about gossip and bs.

Covert Wolf define emotional and see if that don’t apply to men lmfaooo

amy Klick men are sensitive but not vulnerable. Women are EMOTIONAL

Lmao

and rory and joe and savon and pretty much everyone except parks

simp comment of the day

GN0J nah, u just that person therefore u took offense to it lol it’s ok, i do that too at times.

@@tenzinpassang4812 please tell me what a man in a relationship is supposed to dress like? I wanna know from a simps point of view 😕

Ikr i♡it 😂😂

Hell I never thought he was lmao

You mean he’s not as smart as you thought he was lol

@@versatillion15 I never thought he was but, people really do.

I don't think anyone is as smart as they think they are.

@@EVSTravels There are a bunch of people who know how smart they are and pretend to be smarter than they betray. There are a lot of level headed people out there as well.