John Gray: Better Relationships & Boosting Male Testosterone

John Gray: Better Relationships & Boosting Male Testosterone - Ep 43

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4 жыл бұрын

#love #dating #relationships
John Gray is one of the best-known and bestselling relationship authors of all time. He’s written 26 books and is most famous for his iconic ‘Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus’ franchise.
John has been teaching millions of men and women how to achieve more fulfilling love lives for over 40 years - and it might come as a surprise to hear that, prior to training as a psychologist, he was a celibate monk for nine years.
[This episode was recorded in London just before I relocated to America.]
In this episode of #healthHackers, you’ll hear John’s views on:
🔹the number one most important aspect of a relationship
🔹why men are losing their libido
🔹how a male can boost his testosterone and become “superman”
🔹why women today feel so overwhelmed and stressed
🔹how a female can bring out the best in her male partner
🔹an easy technique for better communication between men and women
🔹how watching porn changes a man’s attraction for his real-life partner
🔹what causes a man’s #testosterone level to drop
🔹the things females ‘need’ to be happy in a relationship
🔹how women unknowingly make their male partners feel like failures
🔹why women should let a guy do more for them
🔹how to improve physical intimacy
🔹the problem with being an independent woman
🔹how tech and instant gratification are changing our brains
John’s website: marsvenus.com
KZfaq channel: / @johngraymarsvenus
Facebook: @Mars.Venus.John.Gray
Twitter: @MarsVenus
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@CW-fh2ql 2 жыл бұрын

This small clip said so much! He's amazing.

@HealthHackers 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching and commenting!

@unicornrainbows9920 4 жыл бұрын

Absolutely love Dr John Gray's words of wisdom. I am a female and I agree 100% on what he says. Biologically some things cant be changed.

@SunshineSurfsup1 3 жыл бұрын

~7:15min There is a structure for women to become open in relationship, they are (in order): 1) She must feel good communication from him 2) She must feel his romantic affection 3) She must feel that she has a partner who can help Women go to the men to get the boost of estrogen...that happens when a "guy does more"

@user-cz9dh4yy3g 2 ай бұрын

this guy is the real deal

@sariettetichaa6794 9 ай бұрын

Madonna mia he has some depth of wisdom and nuggets

@HealthHackers 9 ай бұрын

😁

@michaelvandenheuvel317 Ай бұрын

It goes hand in hand naturally. Just the right ingredients.

@maryspangler2872 2 жыл бұрын

John...Thank You sincerely for the love you put into helping people find happiness. Also for the great examples from your own experience which helps us to understand.

@thetaraparker Жыл бұрын

Really great interview.

@HealthHackers Жыл бұрын

Thanks so much!

@TheAcrenshaw 4 жыл бұрын

Sooooo smart and informative.

@crismeow 4 жыл бұрын

He is amazing .. !

@katiie7 3 жыл бұрын

This was so good!

@HealthHackers 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching Katie!

@LoveMoneySecretsTV 4 жыл бұрын

This was very informative and you asked very good poigmant questions, Bravo you really mined some good jewels out of John. Thanks for this Episode.

@HealthHackers 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the comment! 👌

@playsaboutmycat 3 жыл бұрын

So interesting.

@hanish346 2 жыл бұрын

This man just got me motivated to stop watching porn!

@user-cz9dh4yy3g 2 ай бұрын

and because of that you are already automatically more attractive. Chad 👑

@hrealthyfoods6032 2 жыл бұрын

This is a great interview! I love John Gray. He is so spot on. I hope he releases his new book on grief soon. He mentions his new partner at the end of the video - Lin Wang, his long-time translator and tour guide in China. They were happily married May 4, 2020.) It's great to see that even Dr. Gray can come full circle after loss and grief to find love again. He is an inspiration to all of us that have lost a spouse.

@user-cz9dh4yy3g 2 ай бұрын

how old is his new wife Lin Wang ?

@dakotablueskies 4 жыл бұрын

I love the look to camera when the interviewer underscores , “he must stop looking at porn”

@colleenmoore9920 3 жыл бұрын

Yh. John so right. Femine side * cuddles soooo important.....too much estrogen is not good.....

@carriedouglas9933 Жыл бұрын

What about Warriors then? Military men who are fighting wars, training for wars…. It seems like angry work but I don’t feel it’s estrogen fueled… would love to know what Gray says about warriors.

@chnill2172 3 жыл бұрын

Hehe John has a weakness for cookies, 😂that is the darnedest thing, so cute.

@dakotablueskies 3 жыл бұрын

And ice cream... totally into ice cream

@Wawa-kn8sd 3 жыл бұрын

Ohhh hahaha i can tell that there is attraction here, the way his looking her and she is shy and in her feminine so cute

@humble166 3 жыл бұрын

It seemed liked the details of his sex practices just made her uncomfortable😅😅😅

@sonagenics22 3 жыл бұрын

He’s is a man !

@priscilamartinezavila194 Жыл бұрын

I think she was uncomfortable… maybe a face of disgust at the beginning but changed at the end… nevertheless, I enjoyed the content

@NishitKadam-fh6dz 2 ай бұрын

Me a guy feeling empathy on women who make female friend zoned

@KWk-dg9uc 3 жыл бұрын

My man wants me to do things for him in return because he says it's not only women who want to receive and be romanced. What would you say to that? Thanks for your reply. :)

@franz6688 3 жыл бұрын

As a men I would say he is right 😂 I love to give and enjoy it. But sometimes it is also a pleasure to sit back and relax 😁

@user-cz9dh4yy3g 2 ай бұрын

what things? sexual stuff he saw in p0rn? then NO!!! you are not a prostitute outside of that, You appreciating him is you giving. Besides that you give him a tenth of what he gives you, so he better be giving you support, helping you in the house, providing money, emotional safety, physical security, not cheating on you, not watching porn, not flirting with other women, listening and you feel heard and understood, not dismissing your feelings. careful, woman giving too much makes men lazy

@user-cz9dh4yy3g 2 ай бұрын

@@franz6688 you're lazy, what are you doing for her such as she "should" give you, you lazy life couch potato?

@annalisadelbove1366 3 жыл бұрын

In my opinion is not ok to pretend that my suggestion to watch a specific movie is his idea.. this is a lie and I do not care at this point if he doesn't have his testosterone boost. I can say instead he made me happy to accommodate me. If in a man mind he thinks that if a woman says he selected the movie and it was a good one he is the director of the movie this man lives in a fantasy world and has narcissistic tendency taking credit for things he didn't work on. Also my ex boyfriend once after me having a great business idea for his brother instead of saying that is a great idea he repeated back as if he was his idea.. what about my mental health that was affected? Ah but he had to boost his testosterone at my expenses.. sky rocketing my testosterone and made me feel I was not acknowledged but also respected, instead of bringing up another great idea or just use it to make this happen and help his brother.

@gamerchristina1079 4 жыл бұрын

👍👍❤️❤️‼️

@AurorasHuman 4 жыл бұрын

John is Amazing . Why does she look uncomfortable and uninterested ? Whew ,her body language is contradictory to her words .

@estherweekes7571 4 жыл бұрын

Yes, it is very conflicting to hear some of this as an "independent" woman but there is alot of wisdom in it. I am glad he doesn't hold back because of how old fashioned he could seem.

@dakotablueskies 4 жыл бұрын

I don’t know why you would say that! I found her to be quietly attentive. She let him speak without drawing focus by uttering “uh-huh” constantly or visually drawing focus by nodding her head. She’s a stunning woman so cheers to her being able to do that even when Gray got a little graphic.

@AurorasHuman 4 жыл бұрын

Why I would say that . I’m an expert in body language . I have been a professional certified sign language interpreter for over 20 years and my parents and close friends are Deaf . I traslate screenplays into an ASL performances . Her body language contradicts her words . Plain and simple. I very much appreciate her time and John’s time . Great info Thank you to both of them . This IS just my opinion. Her discomfort came across loud and clear non verbally . Best Wishes to All

@dakotablueskies 4 жыл бұрын

Thx for more info, Esther. I’m fascinated by body language and am definitely not an expert. I hate to think I was offensive, just giving my take. Would be interesting to climb in her head and find out her truth, but that is for her to know. ☮️

@AurorasHuman 4 жыл бұрын

I probably could have expressed it better . Thank you for prompting me to give it a second thought , instead of my initial response . Love and Light

@crescermeditando 3 жыл бұрын

She's discovering things about herself...

@HealthHackers 3 жыл бұрын

What gave it away?

@crescermeditando 3 жыл бұрын

@@HealthHackers Body language, mostly

@jeanettekniebusch9812 3 жыл бұрын

What if like my girlfriends husband he wants to be fed and ignore you always says hes tierd 2pm 11am yet has energy to cheat (they had active sex life for yrs before his cheating starved her of a normsl life stopped sex w her cruel and selfish )and lie about it.shes shattered fighting ddpression and crying 5 times a day some days every movie every shoe add reminds her of sex. Woukdnt take her to movies in vakentines yelled at her dint start sge just asked nicelt. He gave her no card no gifts. He stopoed gifts ect years agi lazy rude.. Moody rude never wants to talk watch a movie too tierd for years no sex buzy elsewhere devieving just grouce betrayal.

@Oyuki-Mayonesa 9 ай бұрын

She is better off leaving that situation. He cheated, therefore the marriage is over.