Jordan Peterson: The Power of Gossip and the Cost of Reputation Damage

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Dr. Jordan Peterson discusses the impact of gossip on individuals and how easily it can damage someone's reputation. He shares his own experiences with selecting podcast guests and the challenges of overcoming the negative halo effect caused by rumors. Join Dr. Peterson as he delves into the complexities of human interactions and the consequences of assuming 'where there's smoke, there's fire.

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@anyviolet 10 ай бұрын

Someone spread a (false) vicious rumor about me at my workplace very recently. Peterson is right: the cost to the person gossiped about is really, really high.

@hxhdfjifzirstc894 5 ай бұрын

Lemme guess... nobody bothered to even ask you about it.

@vodkavuitton 19 күн бұрын

😢 aww now who problem is that. Should you care? Don't think so

@laxus5 2 күн бұрын

@@hxhdfjifzirstc894 people should start double checking on the gossip

@ghost-xx4wv 6 ай бұрын

I had my reputation publicly destroyed

@dennisrobinson8008 4 ай бұрын

A lawyer can't enact "anti slander" legal action in this case? They will go after potential money...

@palaho 3 ай бұрын

Same, and all because of a random motherf*cker

@Stoicambition93 22 күн бұрын

Me too but after years I’m learning that the power is truly in your hands. It’s not what happens to you it’s how you react.

@DisciplineToSuccess101 13 күн бұрын

Sometimes it affects your life so much that you become unsafe to the point you’re attacked out in public.

@claudiamanta1943 3 ай бұрын

Peterson. I agree with you on this one. It’s human nature. I’ve given up on people. At individual level maybe I don’t feel instantly nauseated, but the bloody mobs (i.e. two or more)… Oh, man, that is DISGUSTING 🤮

@Cobra427Veight 5 ай бұрын

The Gossip on steroids , is the covert workplace bully and community social bully .

@GratefulG 5 ай бұрын

I am in depression because of losing a potential relationship destroyed by a woman gossiped at work only coz she was jealous and unhappy in her relationship. I am heartbroken. The person I liked has left the workplace and I have to deal with all of the gossip, talks and reputation damage myself. M just so hurt and I am a 100 percent confident fearless woman but my emotions have been fractured by this woman. She is insecure and will die that way but it’s just so hurtful to see her and her gang everyday at work. I wanna quit my job but I won’t coz I am strong. But on somedays m exhausted since I can’t trust anyone and have no one to share what she did with me. It’s devastating!! M hurt and on somedays m done being strong!

@lotteboom4682 4 ай бұрын

Hey, how are you doing? Have things gotten better?

@vodkavuitton 19 күн бұрын

She did you a favor ✌🏽 God works in mysterious ways

@SuperLovelove88 5 күн бұрын

I think you're great for facing the trouble makers, but if it's stressing you out in an unhealthy way, it might be better to move on , if you can.

@aya_johnson Жыл бұрын

Hello👋 Jordan thanks a lot to bring this subject alive as defamation have almost killed me if not "the let them theory am hanging to,as iam avoided wherever I go.Iam an HSP but laballed & framed with mental health I dont have in a world where the stigma of mental health is so big so am facing it all,all dark side of what human is..

@ghost-xx4wv 5 ай бұрын

Avoided everywhere you go i relate but i cant get used to this

@ArcherOO78 3 ай бұрын

I wouldn't take it personally it could be you or someone else the reason why they do this is because they're miserable and usually misery loves company, they can't stand to look in the mirror. A person who truly loves themselves [ not in a conceided or narcissistic way ] would never do that !

@LeviKerrison 28 күн бұрын

Feel this for sure

@greenthumbstrummer 4 күн бұрын

I don't think there has been any force more destructive than the gossip that was spoken about me most of which was completely untrue and the parts that were were grossly exaggerated. Many religions compare gossiping to killing someone because you're killing their reputation. It's a horrible thing to do. If you have ever gossiped about someone you owe it to them to do the exact opposite and say just as many positive things about them in public.

@Rugz-smoke 3 ай бұрын

I’ve experienced both sides. It’s stupid horrible don’t do it.

@grumoso8090 26 күн бұрын

Very insightful and very useful, Pastor Tim. Thank you and God Bless your ministry.

@gabrialtome4478 Жыл бұрын

as a guy i also have to fight my gossiping tendincys

@DazeyChaineMusic 10 ай бұрын

seems when i feel unhappy w myself is when there is the most tendency to talk smack

@st0a 8 ай бұрын

Pathetic.

@markchappell4148 13 күн бұрын

Spreading faleshoods is like sowing thistles amoungst the wheat seed. Yet if the gossip is true then the damge can not be repaired and the thistles seeds grow into mighty trees.

@stephenkenny7661 5 күн бұрын

1982 "THE PLAGUE DOGS" is a cartoon about many things!!! But one of those things is gossip and indifference and caring and of course after all of it !! comes death!!! Death as a welcoming escape from the gossip!!

@Persion4786 3 ай бұрын

I regret my gossiping.

@stevengoldstein114 4 ай бұрын

Jordan is not the victim of gossip, he filed a lawsuit against his peers in the case of Peterson v. College of Psychologists of Ontario, 2023 ONSC 4685 DIVISIONAL COURT FILE NO.: 714/22 DATE: 20230823. He also practices defamation of children when he made the video against the GAG order of the Montana Supreme Court involving the Montana Kolstadt family court case. And to boot, the US Supreme Court just affirmed it in a case identical in Indiana be reusing to even hear the case for certiorari.

@Pond770 Ай бұрын

I’m sure you would do everything thing for him but he new he is a tool of something you don’t understand 😊

@Pakchikpakrajababuu Ай бұрын

Please pin full video link not description pin in the comment

@stevengoldstein114 2 ай бұрын

Lets see the ENTIRE story of Jordan Peterson. His bad conduct in courts in the case of Case 1 Sordi v. Sordi, 2009 CanLII 80104 (ON SC) he defamed a parent in court. In the case 2 R. v. Pearce, 2012 MBQB 22 (CanLII) he tried to free a murderer. Then in the case Peterson v. College of Psychologists of Ontario, 2023 ONSC 4685, he tried to avoid taking responsibility. He also tried to interfere in a family court case in Montana, the Kolstadt case, where there was a GAG order, he unprofessionally diagnosed a minor without interviews or assessments, and tried to defend unfit parents.

@Scot_Tz 2 ай бұрын

The irony

@ymaaw3735 Ай бұрын

I have learned something from reading Plato. The important thing to take when interacting with anyone is the beneficial ideas they might have for me regardless of who the person is or might be. So, take what you can learn because it might be true regardless of whether the person is someone you like or dislike.

@stevengoldstein114 Ай бұрын

@@ymaaw3735 But Plato was the one that also promoted the elimination of BIASES. Which Jordan champions BIAS in everything he says. Still, Plato’s goal was, in essence, to help people see through their own biases and flawed assumptions-things that are just as pervasive today as they were in Ancient Greece. Although he lived more than two thousand years ago, his work reflects an understanding of many cognitive biases and heuristics that have been coined by modern-day behavioral scientists. Again, Jordan has ACTED on bias and done so for selfish purposes.