Josh McDowell Shares His Heart about the Ravi Zacharias Scandal

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Sean McDowell

Sean McDowell

3 жыл бұрын

How should Christians process the heart-breaking news about the sexual misconduct of Ravi Zacharias, one of the leading evangelists and apologists of the past few decades? In this video, I interview my father Josh McDowell for his reflections. We consider a few questions, such as:
Should Christians continue to use his resources?
How can this happen?
What needs to change?
What message does Josh have for those who were led to faith through Ravi's ministry?
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@pamgessler5923
@pamgessler5923 3 жыл бұрын
My husband made rules for himself like not being alone with a woman other than family, never eating with a non-family woman. Women who criticized him for it were often surprised and comforted when he explained to them that he was protecting our marriage and family and his relationship with God. It was refreshing to them to think of men actually being faithful.
@MaryamAsksr
@MaryamAsksr 2 жыл бұрын
Islaam taught this over 1,400 years ago
@pamgessler5923
@pamgessler5923 2 жыл бұрын
@@MaryamAsksr It's a good idea when one wants to be careful to avoid temptation. It doesn't, in itself, make one pure; but it helps.
@pamgessler5923
@pamgessler5923 2 жыл бұрын
@God's Whisper Completely agree. The practice is for self-protection and to avoid the appearance of evil. It does not, in itself, make one righteous.
@tsegaberhane8690
@tsegaberhane8690 2 жыл бұрын
@@MaryamAsksr Maybe . However that's not to say some muslim men don't fall 🤔 or are adulterous !!
@sidepot
@sidepot 2 жыл бұрын
@@tsegaberhane8690 Adultery is rampant in that community.
@bikunbikun
@bikunbikun 3 жыл бұрын
“To those who were led to Christ through his ministry or strengthen by it: Ravi Zacharias didn’t save you. JESUS DID IT! “ 🤩
@sidepot
@sidepot 3 жыл бұрын
This man lied through his teeth directly to his followers. You people are idiots.
@johnjaso385
@johnjaso385 3 жыл бұрын
@@sidepot all idiots can point out an idiot.
@bernhardbauer5301
@bernhardbauer5301 3 жыл бұрын
@@johnjaso385 This is not true.
@just1servant
@just1servant 3 жыл бұрын
@@sidepot As a survivor of violent abuse. When you tell me I AM AN IDIOT for allowing myself to be beaten abused, and controlled by a VILOLENT PERSON, who by the way was not a chiristian, then I AN IDIOT can never KNOW THE TRUTH. You my friend are wrong. How do you save someone who is a sexual slave, etc... how to you call them out of there hurt situation? CALL THEM ALL IDIOTs, if I had never recieved excellent counsel, I would still be a slave, or dead today. REVEALing truth to all is so IMPORTANT to reveal those who are LIARs... Just because a task master is wrong does not mean all he taught you was WRONG... No you have to learn to divide the truth from the immorial act.
@sidepot
@sidepot 3 жыл бұрын
@@just1servant I am sorry to hear of the abuse you were put under. It’s something I despise. I have worked in social justice for many years and have also worked with an activist group fighting against sexual predators and particularly against trafficking and enslavement. I worked also in educating people with what to watch for and how these predators operate. Please understand I am calling out those who followed this sinister offender Ravi. I have called out those who continue to defend him or claim that somehow he cannot be judged because he is dead. I was naming this man as a misogynist for years before he died. No one listened and now we finally have the truth. I do not by any means put you in that category. I am glad you found help and healing. May you continue to be safe and find loving relationships.
@jolenegleghorn4936
@jolenegleghorn4936 7 ай бұрын
I am 78 and listened to Ravi for several years . His teachings were so helpful in my spiritual growth but trying to grasp what he has done has saddened me to my depths. But it hasn’t diminished my faith in Jesus at all. Just praying for everyone involved in this scandal.
@budikusnawinata44
@budikusnawinata44 5 ай бұрын
The problem I have with Ravi scandal is not just Ravi himself. The people around him must known what was going on and yet remained silent to the end. Not until after he died the whole thing sprung out! If they claim of not knowing, then they are all a bunch of liars! This I do not condone! Each one of them are just as guilty as Ravi was!
@accordingtothebiblewithl-nv1ku
@accordingtothebiblewithl-nv1ku 3 ай бұрын
Ravi is not here to defend himself. That is my concern. Why didn't this happen when he was alive.
@jumpa619
@jumpa619 3 ай бұрын
@jolenegleghorn4936 ..Well said! I feel the exact same way. I don't even know the whole story about Ravi tbo.. and not sure that i want to. I'll say this, King David messed things up. His son went astray as well. Many examples of Faithful men in the Bible that really mess things up. Many examples of those Christians that Ran the race well also. I've been a drunk since I was 16 years old (long story but true). I've prayed the sinners prayer hundreds of times and just truly hope God will let me in.. I am an embarrassment to the family of God. I feel like I shouldn't even talk about my faith anymore because of my drinking. *RABBIT TRAIL* sry, anyway. I was Blessed enough to have a Father to teach me God's word from a young age. I've never put TOO much trust in My family in Christ... They are still in the flesh until we get our new bodies. It has always been easy for me. But, like you said... His family needs prayer and also, the people that he might of turned away from the faith. Very sry for long response
@ellenyearick1039
@ellenyearick1039 2 ай бұрын
i would not be quick to judge his ministry partners. Maybe they had no clue. Honestly, if someone had accused him before he passed away, they would have needed to provide some convincing evidence, for i would not have believed such accusations.
@paulgoodfellow6313
@paulgoodfellow6313 Ай бұрын
@@accordingtothebiblewithl-nv1kuto be fair it did come out before he died. RZ suppressed the story with every legal means at his disposal.
@susiepingleton3614
@susiepingleton3614 3 жыл бұрын
Never put anyone on a pedestal. Stay ever so close to Jesus. We must pray for protection constantly from the enemy. Stay so close to Jesus.
@umberceri1441
@umberceri1441 3 жыл бұрын
I agree, and Satan attacks those who have big responsibilities for God more and harder. Not an excuse, but a reality! Satan loves to try to put God in a bad light! JUst as the world does!
@floydgraves1003
@floydgraves1003 12 күн бұрын
You must always keep your eyes on Jesus! Don't allow anyone or anything to distract you or gain your focus! Peter, for prime example. When he started to walk on the water, he was focused on Jesus! But as soon as he took his eyes off the Lord, he began to sink! Very important lesson!
@carolfalls8466
@carolfalls8466 3 жыл бұрын
I remember many years ago, when he was probably in his 30's, Josh McDowell saying to young girls during one of his meetings, "If a boy says to you, 'If you really love me then you will let me'; you say back to him, 'If you truly loved me then you wouldn't even ask me that'." I thought that was one of the most powerful things I had ever heard and still do to this day. Every church should have had him talk to their youth.
@apotheosistheurbanmonk2341
@apotheosistheurbanmonk2341 3 жыл бұрын
Amen. One of the things to wrestle with when you have daughters , is that usually a boy is not offering your daughter something she DOESN'T want... Women enjoy sex too and are not victims of men's advances. They are both driven by desire and hormones.
@george.s.8491
@george.s.8491 3 жыл бұрын
Excellent!!
@coachtouden
@coachtouden 3 жыл бұрын
I remember that. I got josh's book for my daughter when she was a teen. It was people like him who delivered the truth of Gods word, was a testament to my daughter abstaining from sex prior to her marriage to her NOW husband.🙌🏾
@sandybabcock1633
@sandybabcock1633 3 жыл бұрын
I remember him saying that too, and have never forgotten it.
@donsimonds5186
@donsimonds5186 3 жыл бұрын
@@apotheosistheurbanmonk2341 your statement you made is a blanket statement, and it's untrue in an appropriate, but that's just my opinion.
@sarahborders2348
@sarahborders2348 3 жыл бұрын
This is a good lesson for me to spend more time in my actual Bible, and not so much listening to a certain pastor or preacher.
@isabeljansen6162
@isabeljansen6162 3 жыл бұрын
Q
@vitg7043
@vitg7043 3 жыл бұрын
😊😊
@accessb6744
@accessb6744 3 жыл бұрын
Agree with you 100 percent.
@heartstrings110
@heartstrings110 3 жыл бұрын
💯
@sidepot
@sidepot 3 жыл бұрын
How about a good lesson to leave this hypocritical religion.
@user-cx2hq8og6i
@user-cx2hq8og6i 3 жыл бұрын
Golly. This father-son relationship is so sweet. You can see the connection and empathy and love they have for each other. Love it
@squiminysquoo
@squiminysquoo 3 жыл бұрын
You can tell Josh is the real deal
@VickyRBenson
@VickyRBenson 3 жыл бұрын
@@squiminysquoo And Sean, too, is the real deal. I’ve just recently known about Sean. It’s wonderful to see children walking in truth.
@umberceri1441
@umberceri1441 3 жыл бұрын
I agree, I just love these two guys what a privilege to see and hear them! My first time to hear Sean! And Sean if you by chance read ths you are terrific, I just watched you in a high school in FLA you were terrific! It was amazing! I saw Ravi in Redding CA. several years ago, I drove 150 miles one way! I am still grieved, it does not change my relationship with the Lord! But I still greive!
@AngelaYah
@AngelaYah 3 жыл бұрын
I was just thinking how blessed these two people are to have such an open, close father-son relationship. I thought about my own father and to sit and talk about anything more than day-to-day to-dos never happened. Josh and Sean McDowell thank you for being a real example of how, with the Almighty's Guidance at heart, family relationships can be. 💓
@squiminysquoo
@squiminysquoo 3 жыл бұрын
What a heritage! I pray my faith is shared like this and passed down but stronger and with more influence
@cdlilley23
@cdlilley23 3 жыл бұрын
Several times I was reminded to pray for Ravi’s wife ... since she lost her husband... Lord bless her & keep her .
@peggycampbell8226
@peggycampbell8226 3 жыл бұрын
And for his children...devastated.
@marysteele4371
@marysteele4371 3 жыл бұрын
Blessings dear Family and Ministry in the Precious Name of Jesus Christ Amen and Amen..❤🙏❤🤗🤗🤗🤗❤🙏❤
@chikkipop
@chikkipop 3 жыл бұрын
@@marysteele4371 Why are you so gullible? Just curious.
@user-zv4on3zp3t
@user-zv4on3zp3t 3 жыл бұрын
He committed adultery and broke their marriage vow. Honestly, she is better without him. His heart was rotten to the core. I pray she may heal from the pain of this abuser and move on with her life.
@weswright3187
@weswright3187 3 жыл бұрын
@@user-zv4on3zp3t I hope you aren’t married.
@tyingharmonyunlisted3050
@tyingharmonyunlisted3050 3 жыл бұрын
“Ravi Zacharias did not save you, Jesus did” - perfect.
@wakeuppeople7180
@wakeuppeople7180 3 жыл бұрын
No, Ravi Zacharias did not save you, he just lied to you through his teeth. And you say "Jesus did", presumably because very knowledgeable and charismatic people like Ravi Zacharias told you so, right? I doubt you ever heard a peep from Jesus himself concerning your salvation, but you heard more than a mouthful from Ravi. Yet, the fact that the guy was a scoundrel and, obviously, didn't believe anything he said about this "salvation" stuff doesn't seem to make you reconsider what you heard from him! That's very curious thinking. Until the scandal broke out, all you could hear about Ravi from his fans was "he is very knowledgeable, surely he can't say the things he says if he doesn't believe them to be true". Now, when you realize he actually didn't believe those things, you refuse to admit that, since he didn't believe those things, they might actually be NOT true (surely he couldn't do the horrible things he did if he believed them to be true), and this might be scary, so you choose to just ignore the issue. Perfect, indeed!
@JM-px5xj
@JM-px5xj 3 жыл бұрын
@@wakeuppeople7180 no
@sharonm.3101
@sharonm.3101 3 жыл бұрын
@@wakeuppeople7180 No, you’re way off. Humanity is flawed-sinful, we do wrong even when we know what’s right. Jesus saves not parents, grandparents, ministers etc. I’m praying for the verd
@sandiegipson6098
@sandiegipson6098 3 жыл бұрын
@@wakeuppeople7180 ummmm what?
@wacerahchege8
@wacerahchege8 3 жыл бұрын
Remember God servant role is to sow a seed. Then the Holy Spirit take care of the rest.
@MG-hy5yf
@MG-hy5yf 3 жыл бұрын
18:03 - Spot on, Josh! If a Christian leader falling into sin shakes your faith, then your faith was in the wrong thing all along.
@Jayinseason
@Jayinseason 3 жыл бұрын
That's why we always have Christ in us, Jesus, Holy Spirit, man will have their faults, as will the Mcdowells.
@suzannegriffiths4795
@suzannegriffiths4795 3 жыл бұрын
Wolves and false prophets/Teachers ask for money. Jesus and His disciples NEVER did! We were warned. If we give money to these "ministries", we are left with blood on our own hands. Motive is EVERYTHING! HE WHO SOWS TO HIS OWN FLESH WILL DIE...
@crissgerwing1704
@crissgerwing1704 3 жыл бұрын
It's not the point. I'm more angry what he did to the name of God. I shared his ministry with unbelievers. I will probably not listen to anyone anymore. Faithful Bible reading and prayer. How do we know to believe you two?
@suzannegriffiths4795
@suzannegriffiths4795 3 жыл бұрын
@@crissgerwing1704 I understand and I agree. We do need to test whether people who wield power in the name of God are legitimate or charlatans. I just want to make a couple of points. 1) Jesus and His disciples never asked for money. Charlatans have the wrong MOTIVE for representing God. If they ask for money, promote their own reputation, and glorify themselves, they ARE dubious. Don't give money for ministry, or you add to the power they wield. 2) False teachers and false prophets etc don't speak of dying to self. Jesus spoke many times about submitting our wills to walk by the Spirit of truth. These include; John 12:25, Matthew 10:37-39, 16:24-27, Mark 8:34-38, Luke 9:23-26, 14:27, 17:33. He also speaks of lifting your cross and following Him, and that no-one can come to Jesus unless the Father enables him (Jn 6:65) My point is that we should be very careful about what a person preaches and their MOTIVE. We can tell if they have chosen to "die to self" by their own words/focus. If they appear wise but don't preach what Jesus did, instead focussing on self-actualisation, their own reputation, rights, wants and abilities, THEY ARE FALSE, or at least very fleshly. I hope this helps!
@crissgerwing1704
@crissgerwing1704 3 жыл бұрын
I'm just going to take a break from certain teachers right now. This sex addiction most men have is so degrading to women and their family. Get over yourselves guys and be Faithful.
@debra3155
@debra3155 7 күн бұрын
Excellent interview 👏 Listening to this on the heels of Tony Evans and Robert Morris stepping down. I was on a 2 wk mission trip with your organization JMM to Moscow and Vladimir Jan/Feb 1997. Profound experience!✝️ Josh, you share wisdom 🙏 and truth 🙌 in this video. Live in such a way as to have no hint of impropiety! Our souls are saved through Jesus alone! Not celebrity pastors. We are human, and we fall. We are forgiven. ✝️ And we must listen, listen, and listen some more to those who hurt. You nailed everything of importance on this topic! Much love and respect 🙏
@cletemast7917
@cletemast7917 3 жыл бұрын
I dare not trust the sweetest frame, but wholly lean on Jesus' Name
@marysteele4371
@marysteele4371 3 жыл бұрын
Blessings AMEN and AMEN ❤🙏❤
@troyclay2889
@troyclay2889 3 жыл бұрын
Amen! Christ Alone! Cornerstone!
@lorebeth
@lorebeth 19 күн бұрын
Amen Amen!
@peterg6468
@peterg6468 3 жыл бұрын
"It can happen to any one" is the caution for every one
@hotice8885
@hotice8885 3 жыл бұрын
So many are forgetting that, and so many are twisting it to only mean that "anyone can be _victimized_ ," when the truth is that any one of us is capable of committing, *at any moment* , sin that is as devastating as what Ravi did--and MORE.
@AdamGeest
@AdamGeest 3 жыл бұрын
@@hotice8885 This is demonstrably false. Not all of us can do what Ravi did to those women. Not all of us can lie about our academic credentials to millions of people year in and year out for nearly half a century. This doesn't mean that we are without sin.
@AdamGeest
@AdamGeest 3 жыл бұрын
The notion that any of us could potentially rape a woman is utterly absurd. Surely, we've all fallen short of the glory of God. But that doesn't mean that all sins have an equal chance of manifesting in our lives.
@hotice8885
@hotice8885 3 жыл бұрын
@@AdamGeest , I don't know what your basis is for believing we all are not capable of committing sin on a level this serious and more, but Jeremiah 17:9 and all of Romans 7 (especially verse 18) make it clear that scripture says that we all have the same problem Ravi had. The only thing that would keep any of us from doing even worse is a dependence upon the Holy Spirit of God, _continually_ rooted in scripture.
@hotice8885
@hotice8885 3 жыл бұрын
@@James-nq8eh being a sexual sinner has actually always been a global sign of a global problem--a sin problem which was part of the reasons churches needed to exist in the first place. There are just people in every church who have not been _transformed by Jesus Christ_ , through the power of the story of His life, death and resurrection. Plenty of people know that story, and yet have still not given themselves to that POWER.
@scott_the_ancient2
@scott_the_ancient2 3 жыл бұрын
I love Josh McDowell. I'm in my 50s but when I was in my 20s I was in college. I had a public speaking course and I did a speech on the book Evidence that Demands a Verdict. I just remember after reading it how great it was to know that my faith isn't blind but is based on evidence. It really helped me. Later in life, I fell away and starting drinking. I came back again and am dedicated to Christ. I think having the foundation of having read things like Josh's book probably helped keep me from completely abandoning my faith. Sorry my comment isn't related to Ravi but I just felt inspired to share my love for Josh.. :)
@unapologeticbeliever
@unapologeticbeliever 7 ай бұрын
Amen!!!!!
@kwamesolo3315
@kwamesolo3315 3 жыл бұрын
I'm not a Christian but I have alot of respect for both you gentlemen. It was great listening to you both
@KM-zn3lx
@KM-zn3lx 2 жыл бұрын
I hope you find Jesus. Ask Jesus to reveal himself to you!
@kwamesolo3315
@kwamesolo3315 2 жыл бұрын
@@KM-zn3lx I can't worship a God who can be killed. Thanks tho
@sarahlawrence599
@sarahlawrence599 Жыл бұрын
@@kwamesolo3315 that’s the beauty of it though; He wasnt killed. Jesus gave up His spirit for us and died, but He was not killed by human hands. there are many prophecies in the Psalms and Isaiah that talk about this
@kwamesolo3315
@kwamesolo3315 Жыл бұрын
@@sarahlawrence599 So is Jesus the God of the Old Testament?
@sarahlawrence599
@sarahlawrence599 Жыл бұрын
@@kwamesolo3315 yes He is. The Son (Jesus), The Father, and The Holy Spirit are all one yet also fully separate beings. this is the Trinity
@dmcleod1000
@dmcleod1000 3 жыл бұрын
My heart goes out to his family.
@les3094
@les3094 3 жыл бұрын
When I hear rape described as "sexual misconduct" then it tells me that there is something wrong. Rape is nothing less than violent criminal activity which can totally ruin the victim's life. The term " sexual misconduct" is a slap in the face to any victim of rape.
@getstartedwebsites
@getstartedwebsites 3 жыл бұрын
I've been trying to post things and point that out. they deleted my first post let's see if they delete my second one I just left.
@Andreamom001
@Andreamom001 3 жыл бұрын
Rape can be non-violent physically, but is is always emotionally violent and damaging. I think "sexual misconduct" is used as a broader term to encompass everything from watching porn to sending nude photos to saying crude things over the phone to inappropriate touching and so on.
@DJRickard2010
@DJRickard2010 3 жыл бұрын
The Ravi foundation should be shut down and all of the money go to serve victims of religion.
@firstarticle3779
@firstarticle3779 3 жыл бұрын
All of these videos about this subject and I don't even 2% of these people would have had the back of any of the victims if it hadn't been for the Mea Culpa. It's revealing. And I've seen almost none who address that while talking about how it affects them.
@ksedillo2233
@ksedillo2233 3 жыл бұрын
@@getstartedwebsites I have experienced similar problems, not on this video. Many Christians with weak standards delete anything that would make them look bad.
@ayeloen
@ayeloen 3 жыл бұрын
I love how he explained things.."God's word will not return void.." My faith is not shaken but saddened about the truth. I'm not here to judge because I'm a sinner as welI.And I believe that at the end of the day it's between me and God always. Pastors are the instruments that God uses to know HIM but it's our responsibility to pursue and to get to know HIM better. Just fix our eyes on HIM despite how the enemy works so hard to win the world.
@JesusMyLove14
@JesusMyLove14 3 жыл бұрын
Josh, Zacharias didn't seem to be a Christian
@marysteele4371
@marysteele4371 3 жыл бұрын
Blessings AMEN and AMEN ❤🙏❤
@oraldinepoellnitz4475
@oraldinepoellnitz4475 2 жыл бұрын
You're closer to being a Christian then some who confess christianity ✝️ 😉
@s.m.3423
@s.m.3423 3 жыл бұрын
Videos like this one are needed for the healing of the Christian community. Thank You Jesus. Let us work out our salvation with fear and trembling ya'll.
@jfender8023
@jfender8023 3 жыл бұрын
Another triggered gossiper
@marysteele4371
@marysteele4371 3 жыл бұрын
Blessings AMEN and AMEN ❤🙏❤
@kevinlee3562
@kevinlee3562 10 ай бұрын
My teenage son and I enjoyed the radio ministry of Ravi. This was a way for us to grow together as we listened together. He was so thorough and intelligent, and passionate. I am glad for the reminder that the good news is that the Good News goes forward. Jesus is the Savior and God's word does not return void!
@younghaehong7318
@younghaehong7318 23 күн бұрын
Amen!
@sebastianbecher8927
@sebastianbecher8927 3 жыл бұрын
“The world will run right without anyone. God doesn’t need us, he desires us” thank you
@Lgalitz
@Lgalitz 3 жыл бұрын
Try this. G-d created us because He NEEDS us. We are all here for the same purpose. To serve Him by serving one another. It's pretty simple.
@sebastianbecher8927
@sebastianbecher8927 3 жыл бұрын
@@Lgalitz hey Laura! How’s things? I don’t know of any passage that shows clearly that G-d needs us. He wanted(!) to create us but it wasn’t necessary for him to do so. Creation could have been designed without us. But that is bedsides the point. What I was referencing was simply the point Josh was making: G-d can and will accomplish his plan with or without you. If YOU aren’t up for the task, then he will find another way. He’s more interested in your heart, your love. In terms of grand stages and important missions, we shouldn’t take ourselves too seriously.
@maryellen6153
@maryellen6153 3 жыл бұрын
@@sebastianbecher8927 Matthew 21:3 God CAN do anything. But He limits himself by His promises, and by His word. God created us with responsibilities. He gave Adam and Eve the job of subduing nature. God's not going to do mankind's job. Nature runs amok not because of God, but because of mankind. God "needs" us to step up and do our job. He's not going to step in and do what He gave us to do. Same with every other job God gives us to do. Just as when a parent gives a job to a child, the parent needs the child to do his job. Not because the parent couldn't do it, but the parent's job is to train the child, and if the child refuses to comply, the parent can't get that job done.
@wakeuppeople7180
@wakeuppeople7180 3 жыл бұрын
@@maryellen6153 "...if the child refuses to comply, the parent can't get that job done". And then the parent burns the child in never ending fire. Out of love for the child, of course...
@maryellen6153
@maryellen6153 3 жыл бұрын
​@@wakeuppeople7180 No human role can completely depict God's relationship with humans. God is so much more than Father. He is also perfectly holy and cannot allow sin to live in His home. If you choose sin instead of God's holiness, then you've chosen to be something that God must condemn to destruction. Spirit cannot cease to exist. We are spirits. We must exist somewhere forever.
@SpringRain23
@SpringRain23 3 жыл бұрын
As a woman and a wife, I appreciate men that will not be alone with a woman. It not only affects your marriage, it affects other men and women. Other marriages and their children. Thank you.
@berenwarrior6276
@berenwarrior6276 3 жыл бұрын
What about women who don't stay around men ?
@berenwarrior6276
@berenwarrior6276 3 жыл бұрын
As a single female , I have a rule never be alone with a married man, engaged man , or one that is dating . If I have to ask a married guy a question I make sure his wife is present , and I have her permission to first even ask that question , same with his girl friend, and betrothed . I make sure I'm in a group and pay more attention everyone else than a married , engaged and daring guy.
@berenwarrior6276
@berenwarrior6276 3 жыл бұрын
@DadisDad the idea is to avoid all appearances of evil. I respect the boundaries of relationships , and would rather be thought of as anti social than as flirting with a guy I have no business doing that with .
@qwaxerty
@qwaxerty 3 жыл бұрын
@DadisDad I like your answer especially that it comes from a man. Are we a generation of Christians lacking any self control to the point that a man can't stand being alone with a woman? And I'm not talking about alone in a bedroom here. What type of message are we sending to young Christian men? "Women will make you fall so avoid them?".
@stefanydower1350
@stefanydower1350 3 жыл бұрын
Well said. I also want to add, this should apply to all social media accounts. (not engaging in private conversations with women other then your wife, sister or mother.)
@camapots
@camapots 2 жыл бұрын
I so appreciate both Josh and Sean, how gracious they are discussing something so tragic, painful and heartbreaking. My hope and prayer are for all his victims, especially Ravi’s wife, children, and those in his ministry that are just as shocked as so many of us were and still are. His victims were not only physically abused, but mentally, emotionally, and most tragically spiritually abused. It will take years of therapy for them to heal. I pray they turn to God for that healing and will be able to forgive him.
@dianawinkler1221
@dianawinkler1221 2 жыл бұрын
As an abuse survivor and abuse advocate, this was the best conversation I have ever heard on this matter. It is challenging to find ministries and preachers I can recommend that understand abuse from the victims viewpoint and leaders who have integrity and accountability. Thank you Josh for your transparency and your vulnerability with your story. Thank you both for your ministry and your obvious love for each other. Every survivor should watch this. Everyone in leadership should watch this. I will be profusely sharing this. God bless you both.
@carolfoster8835
@carolfoster8835 5 ай бұрын
I cant see anywhere to make a direct comment on this video so here I am. Your abuser was not only a sinner, he was e.v.i.l. But you can be a sinner and NOT be evil. Therefore this👆🏻could not happen to a.n.y. of us. We are not all evil.
@greywolfcommunications4637
@greywolfcommunications4637 5 ай бұрын
You survived abuse and now advocate it?
@greywolfcommunications4637
@greywolfcommunications4637 5 ай бұрын
​Sin is all evil of any kind to any degree. We all still harbor some degree of evil until we are made perfectly good in Christ.
@ActualFaith
@ActualFaith 3 жыл бұрын
Best Advice: “Give people the freedom to confront you.” Amen.
@cathyc1730
@cathyc1730 3 жыл бұрын
When you are deep in sin, that is the last thing you are going to do!
@clarahilairetessier5431
@clarahilairetessier5431 3 жыл бұрын
@SK Coll how wrong, what do you mean ?
@honeydew4483
@honeydew4483 3 жыл бұрын
@SK Coll to
@yopekok5448
@yopekok5448 3 жыл бұрын
All the advice is good. However, a deceptive person would not want to be so transparent, as in Ravi’s case. The fact is, if we are truly God fearing, then we should also know we cannot hide from God our innermost motives & thoughts. All the scandals Ravi committed, he has cautioned us not to do. He spoke with such conviction too. That’s bizarre & frightening. Like Josh, I would really like to know why he did what he did.
@democracyforall
@democracyforall 3 жыл бұрын
Good, so ravi was not that guilty as portrayed by the fools, He was married to these ladies as his secret wives and they agreed to the damn thing and when they wanted more and more and tried to some how black mail him he refused. And he was right, they agreed to be his secret wives by signing papers, but then they had something else in their mind so they turned against the very agreement of marriage they made. So who is guilty? According to the bible you can have more wives so that is not a sin. So he did not sin at all. It is so easy to fool the masses of religiouse people anywhere.
@augustine.c8204
@augustine.c8204 3 жыл бұрын
this father-son relationship is so beautiful :')))
@rtldulin
@rtldulin 3 жыл бұрын
Oh wow did not catch that
@johnsosito8340
@johnsosito8340 3 жыл бұрын
I may be late. It really hurts as to what had happened. Let me give my firsthand experience and what happened. First, I really like Sean and Josh, they've been like the best role models for me. I am hoping that one day, my family would see light like I have. When Sean and Josh went to Manila, I really went to the conference and wrote almost every pointers they gave. So with the topic. My first hand experience was my father. He was a pastor and showed me how to read the bible correctly, taught me a lot of parables and all. He was a great pastor. We even went to the Middle East as a family to build a church there. I will not disclose where, but it is still there. My father fell to adultery. When that happened, I back slided. I became agnostic. I hated the ministry. Because it wasn't just the family that was broken, my faith slowly was broken, then we realised I can't finish the university too, during that year, 2011, I severed myself from my Christian friends. I started to do all kinds of stuff. I was depressed and every time I'm reminded of God, I would curse Him. Cutting the story short, I started working as an undergraduate student. Met a lot of people who led me more to sin. But there was this one moment I saw Sean on youtube around 2017. It was a message for people who has a broken family. I slowly understood it. But I still continued on my sins. It was kind of a turning point too! I started checking out other religions and sectors. Cutting it short again, 2018, I met someone whom I was inviting over to drink and fool around, she instead invited me to church. I realised myself that I was just scared to face God to have Him say that I was wrong the whole time. And now, I'm back. I'm singing with a choir in our local church. I have this urge to lead people too. It's true that if God wants you back, He will get you back. I was wrong the whole time. I hope, for those who were relying financially from Ravi's Ministry, and was looking up to Ravi, snap out of their misery if they were. God uses all opportunities to teach us. He can even let a rock preach the gospel if He wanted too. Let's look to Christ, not the messenger. Always remember, Christ saved us, not the messenger. Up till present, my father hasn't repented, he won't apologise too. The Bible taught me not to dwell in it. God taught me a lot of things when I was lost. Right now, all I can say is I love God. P.S. I may be a gaming channel, but I'm thinking of changing it to my personal channel posting things that is for the Kingdom of God.
@songsfromthelord888
@songsfromthelord888 3 ай бұрын
Hi John. It may be that your Dad (in all due respect) never had a heartbroken repentance when he first came to Christ. Many of us who call ourselves "Christian" have never had a truly godly sorrow over our sins, sad to say. Let's pray that your Dad will come to that place. 2 Timothy 2:24-26 24. And the servant of the Lord must not strive; but be gentle unto all men, apt to teach, patient, 25. In meekness instructing those that oppose themselves; if God peradventure will give them repentance to the acknowledging of the truth; 26. And that they may recover themselves out of the snare of the devil, who are taken captive by him at his will. Glad God got ahold of you and turned you around. 🙂
@MTknitter22
@MTknitter22 4 ай бұрын
It is extremely hard and it’s extremely important that wrong gets exposed. It was awful to watch some trying to salvage Ravi’s “ministry” empire as the most important thing for even a couple of years after Ravi’s death. This was a precious and transparent interview with these two men of God. Thank you Sean.
@suebillingham8181
@suebillingham8181 3 жыл бұрын
It really helps to hear Ravi was the last person you expected this to happen to. Thank you for your sorrowful tone with realism that this could happen to anyone.
@hotice8885
@hotice8885 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed, Sue: It really was good medicine to hear him say all of that, and to express what he did. We are to weep with those who weep, rather than condemn along with those who condemn. Reproving deeds of darkness without guarding against our own fleshly attitudes (self-righteousness, arrogance, etc.) is a MUST.
@marysteele4371
@marysteele4371 3 жыл бұрын
Blessings AMEN and AMEN ❤🙏❤
@lisamoore5890
@lisamoore5890 3 жыл бұрын
"My Word will not return void." Amen!!! Such a healing discussion. Much needed. May God continue to bless and keep you and your family.
@DJRickard2010
@DJRickard2010 3 жыл бұрын
the Bible also says it’s okay to own and beat a slave, if he or she doesn’t die right away. In 2021, there are far better, and less damaging, sources of morals. Time to do away with religion, or at least quit giving them tax free status and acknowledging their damage to civilized society.
@ianfrancis777
@ianfrancis777 3 жыл бұрын
But Ravi's witness takes the salt out of the word that he preached. It's not that the word loses its power, but the likelihood of unbelievers or weak Christians not receiving that eternal word is increased. Remember, the Pharisees spoke the scriptures, but there was no power of the Spirit emanating from them. Lucifer knew and spoke scriptures, even to our Lord. But his spirit was wicked.
@candeffect
@candeffect 3 жыл бұрын
@@DJRickard2010 Why are you an atheist when all criminals are atheists and fake believers? Why tax post-tax money when it is freely given?
@DJRickard2010
@DJRickard2010 3 жыл бұрын
@@candeffect The first question is loaded. As for the second, churches in America yield and exert a lot of political influence, so there are separation issues at hand.
@gabrielacosta2267
@gabrielacosta2267 3 жыл бұрын
The amount of love, compassion, sympathy, and respect that your dad has towards victims in general is beyond what I have seen and shocks me. Truly honoring towards Christ.
@deborahsimmonds653
@deborahsimmonds653 5 ай бұрын
This was very inciteful, because Ravi was a big influence on my faith and i wasnt sure how to handle this information. I will continue to live for Jesus and my Lord and saviour
@YukuuS13
@YukuuS13 3 жыл бұрын
I'm deeply saddened by Ravi's sin. My faith isn't shaken, but my goodness, I spend so many hours on my commute listening to his messages, blessed by them. I'm sad for his family whom I'm sure they're especially hurt. Thank you two for your faith and helping us navigate these issues with grace. Soli Deo Gloria!
@NewYawkahBroad
@NewYawkahBroad 3 жыл бұрын
When one of my first pastors got arrested for sexual assault on young girls I was stopped when I wanted to throw away my notebook. I was told the Holy Spirit gave me those things to note, not the pastor. I did, however, throwaway all the tapes.
@tam4givin
@tam4givin 3 жыл бұрын
There are much better teachers. Ravi wasted way to much time telling stories, and bragging about his travels meeting big wigs of other countries. What are those big wigs thinking now? He hurt the church a lot more than helping it. Warren Weirsbe is a great teacher. Mike Winger on KZfaq is good. BibleTrack.org is good. Chuck Swindol is good. Nothing can replace good expository teaching.
@NewYawkahBroad
@NewYawkahBroad 3 жыл бұрын
@@tam4givin Steve Kozar and Chris Rosebrough are excellent teachers. Chris has a degree is languages and teaches biblical Greek. His teaching is is very technical but easily presented. I especially like when they teach together.
@jairowardaddy358
@jairowardaddy358 Жыл бұрын
The accusations are false the women accusing have been known to falsely accuse pastors before his son is the only one defending him and the organization went in public to believe the women to save their pockets and the organizations well being
@willpower6720
@willpower6720 6 ай бұрын
@@jairowardaddy358 Nope. You’re wrong. It’s true. He did it. Ravi covered it up by bullying people. But it finally came out. These were many women who didn’t know each other who had similar stories. Only his wife and son refuse to accept the glaring truth.
@Lakeslover1
@Lakeslover1 3 жыл бұрын
I have never met you both before but what has impressed me most is your wonderful Father and Son relationship. It’s loving, and respectful .
@elissabellajoy
@elissabellajoy 2 жыл бұрын
I just wanna say 2 things: 1) It's one of the most beautiful testimonies in the Church to see father and son like this. I think a lot of us envy you, Sean. Well, and your dad for having such God fearing son. 2) The telltale signs. I completely agree. I've seen so many leadership boards and meetings where you could taste the discomfort because of the leader's behavior, lifestyle or words, yet no one, not a single person stood up to confront them. I've been approached by a lot of these people sharing their concerns, yet even when I felt the need to stand up and confront these leaders, nobody had the courage and sincerity to stand with me. People take leadership positions super lightly and in my journey I've found a huge lack of accountability. I think it's very scary. Everyone is busy "building the Kingdom" with no time to invest in checking on people, neither to encourage nor to question. It saddens me a lot. The Lord bless and keep and multiply such godly men like you two. 🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️
@jackielouw6407
@jackielouw6407 3 жыл бұрын
This was so respectfully handled. Thank you for sharing your story of horrific abuse. Just breaks my heart that children have to endure and experience this terrible evil. Since the Ravi scandal broke I have been somewhat dumbfounded. My faith in the Lord is never shaken, but am so confused as to how easily I trusted this man. I honestly believed I was so much more discerning than this and it worries me how easily I may believe wrong teaching in the future. Especially in these times when we are warned about a great deception coming over the world.
@loiscarteaux9389
@loiscarteaux9389 3 жыл бұрын
There is no such thing as a private moment, all is laid bare before the Holy eyes of God. He is our Audience of One. I'm so thankful for my husband who practiced the advice Josh gave.
@zamf18
@zamf18 3 жыл бұрын
More questions should be answered.
@anitaleo5551
@anitaleo5551 3 жыл бұрын
Our God is omnipresent
@michaelsolizjr5701
@michaelsolizjr5701 3 жыл бұрын
Don’t be so quick to put your husband on a pedestal. Only God knows the heart of man. Most men fail when a pretty girl walks by. It’s not the second glance that snatches them into sin, it’s the internal thoughts, that a wife can’t hear.
@loiscarteaux9389
@loiscarteaux9389 3 жыл бұрын
@@michaelsolizjr5701 it's called bouncing the eyes. And while my husband is not on a pedestal he is a man who loves Christ deeply and loves me as Christ loves the church. The Lord used us almost divorcing to bring us to salvation, we value our marriage greatly and protect it so Christ is glorified. 42 years later he still makes my heartbeat quicken at the sound of his voice!
@theintrovertgospelmusic1676
@theintrovertgospelmusic1676 3 жыл бұрын
Man is defiled even at his best. Our confidence must be in Jesus Christ and in His eternal Word, and let no man shake your confidence in that.
@ranyadhellecabahug248
@ranyadhellecabahug248 3 жыл бұрын
exactly!
@nathanbarnes8535
@nathanbarnes8535 3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@francesgrigsby7400
@francesgrigsby7400 3 жыл бұрын
That's right!
@TheGuitarrmann
@TheGuitarrmann 3 жыл бұрын
Amen.
@marysteele4371
@marysteele4371 3 жыл бұрын
Blessings AMEN and AMEN ❤🙏❤
@myhappyspace4533
@myhappyspace4533 3 жыл бұрын
Sean looks like an amazing son. So gentle towards his very strong dad
@SternDrive
@SternDrive 3 жыл бұрын
I have many mistakes in my life, and one of them was to be in the car alone, and in the home alone, with our pretty young nanny. When our daughter was about 7 years old my wife (out of the blue!) asked for a divorce. She thought I was having a relationship with our nanny. I can understand why. I have feet of clay, but was I ever happy to tell her that I never touched the nanny with one finger. Please go downstairs and wake her up and ask her tight now. At times like this I was so glad that I stayed pure in this area. We're still together today, and the nanny is gone.
@songsfromthelord888
@songsfromthelord888 3 ай бұрын
Thanks be unto God! 🙂 Thanks for sharing! 🙂 Truth is NOTHING AND NO ONE is worth breaking up a God ordained relationship over. God put you and your wife together for life. Not you and the nanny. (Nothing against her.) God kept you and you did the right thing dismissing the nanny. 🙂
@Hamsayehministries
@Hamsayehministries 3 жыл бұрын
The only wise, mature, humble and godly opinion that I heard on Ravi’s case. Thanks brothers.
@steflondon88
@steflondon88 3 жыл бұрын
yeah people have been nasty and arrogant, not thinking of the family. We are all capable of dark things. We need CHRIST.
@ianhelgerson6146
@ianhelgerson6146 3 жыл бұрын
Listen to Mike Winger and Todd Friel on it.
@karidentinparadise5272
@karidentinparadise5272 3 жыл бұрын
I have actually heard several very wise and biblical responses to this situation. Frank Turek of CrossExamined.org and Mike Winger of biblethinker.org are two. Both of these can be found here on KZfaq.
@markmaier9184
@markmaier9184 3 жыл бұрын
Definitely excellent.... I especially appreciated Alisa Childers discussion, as well.
@ungmd21
@ungmd21 3 жыл бұрын
I am a medical doctor, but I don't like people calling me doctor. I want to be known for who I am, not what I do. The Lord gave me the call and ability to be a doctor and the glory goes to Him. I met Josh years ago and found him to be one of the most genuine people I know.
@karmendillon2465
@karmendillon2465 3 жыл бұрын
Kenneth i love this, it shows humility. I honestly find it amusing when Dr's request to be called such as though they need confirmation of their degree. In any case, the thought has seriously crossed my mind, would i ask people to address me as Dr if I had the degree? A resounding "no".
@bellakim9169
@bellakim9169 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah!
@johnnyc1227
@johnnyc1227 3 жыл бұрын
@@karmendillon2465 i have a friend who upon meeting his boss who said to address him as doctor turned it around & said then call me Mr. .........
@karmendillon2465
@karmendillon2465 3 жыл бұрын
@@johnnyc1227 , exactly 💯!
@NewYawkahBroad
@NewYawkahBroad 3 жыл бұрын
"Give honor to whom honour pertains" Your name doesn't define you, either. Whose you are does😊
@barbaraklueg518
@barbaraklueg518 3 жыл бұрын
Sean - Thank you for this interview with your Dad. It was excellent. My heart is broken for Ravi's wife and family . . . and these poor victims. The Bible says that David was a man after God's own heart and look what he did! Adultery, planned murder! I'm thankful the Bible is not sugar-coated but tells openly the sinfulness of man - and how we need to guard our hearts EVERY day! And - how we need to confront one another as brothers and sisters in Christ and speak up . . . and hopefully avoid falling into sin. I'm also SO very thankful for a forgiving, loving God. I really do believe that God took Ravi home early. The Bible talks about this.
@eliasayele8989
@eliasayele8989 2 жыл бұрын
I love the comment, but I don't believe Ravi is home. He made his choices.
@rafaelgarza6562
@rafaelgarza6562 2 жыл бұрын
If Ravi repented and turned from the said sin, then Ravi is home with the Father.
@BIBLE-UNBUTCHERED
@BIBLE-UNBUTCHERED Жыл бұрын
Barbara, David didn't do that willful sin over decades, nor did he carve obscene images of many poverty stricken women, saying it was 'a godly gift for the Lord's servant' (per transcripts). Dont kid yourself, - 'Teacher's will be judged with a double portion' says the Lord of Hosts.
@lizmelanson2073
@lizmelanson2073 11 ай бұрын
Ravi was a predictor. RZIM on a public comment said Ravi maintained he was innocent until the day he died. He did not repent, David did .
@samsmom400
@samsmom400 10 ай бұрын
David didn't live in the same sin over and over. He admitted what he did.
@JoGaPeach4259
@JoGaPeach4259 3 жыл бұрын
Oh-My Goodess I haven’t seen Josh McDowell in years! So good to see and hear him.
@annielopezamigo4358
@annielopezamigo4358 3 жыл бұрын
I first started listening to Ravi on Sunday while I was getting dressed for church, he will come on around 9:am on Sunday this was in early 2003 . This is so Sad to hear but God is still on the Throne and is very much alive not dead.....praying for his family and the victims.🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
@tinagomes6185
@tinagomes6185 3 жыл бұрын
Love the gentleness & wisdom in which Sean & Josh have handled this dialogue. To fear God & shun evil is what I have learnt. God is watching!
@marysteele4371
@marysteele4371 3 жыл бұрын
Blessings AMEN and AMEN ❤🙏❤
@lynnlewis9938
@lynnlewis9938 3 жыл бұрын
I love seeing the beautiful interaction between two generations. What a great relationship this father and son have. Despite the sad subject matter, I feel blessed by this discussion.
@edeancozzens3833
@edeancozzens3833 6 ай бұрын
When i was in college in the early 70s, Josh spoke to a church youth group on a Friday night in downtown Greeley, Colorado. Just a dozen or two were there bu Josh put his heart and soul into that like with a big crowd. Then he wanted to go with me the next day antque hunting on our farm and in a shop in the small town of Ault, CO. We visited for a while with my mom and dad in their home. Josh signed a copy of his new book with the red cover EVIDENCE THAT DEMANDS A VERDICT. We still have that book with Josh's signature in it and my farmer dad always cherished it. Thanks Josh for being the real desl. Your talks on the resurrection at a college Crusade conference at the Hilton Hotel in downtown Denver in about 1971 really helped solidify my faith. I returned to my dorm at NJC in Sterling and played thise tspes over and over for myself and to others. I may still have them. Thanks.
@suesalama9417
@suesalama9417 3 жыл бұрын
Dear Josh, that you have risen above the terrible sexual abuse you experienced and done what you've done with your life is such an inspiration and encouragement to people. God bless you greatly.
@SJ-vd1jh
@SJ-vd1jh 3 жыл бұрын
Your relationship with your father is so beautiful. 💕I really enjoyed watching you both love on and praise each other toward the end.
@getstartedwebsites
@getstartedwebsites 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed, I really enjoyed the Father and son dialogue in this video! That is something you don't see everyday.
@OxentiaTourism
@OxentiaTourism 7 ай бұрын
Sean - Thank you for this interview with your Dad. It was excellent. Thanks for great advise for Christian business people, very much appreciated. May God bless each of you !
@zeldamarcus3568
@zeldamarcus3568 3 жыл бұрын
Dr McDowell has been encouraging throughout this video/interview to live integrity!
@marysteele4371
@marysteele4371 3 жыл бұрын
Blessings AMEN and AMEN ❤🙏❤
@mariofalwasser7968
@mariofalwasser7968 3 жыл бұрын
The heart is deceitful above all things. We can never put our trust in Man. Thank you Jesus we can trust you and only you my Lord.💙🕊️
@jamesmadison3108
@jamesmadison3108 3 жыл бұрын
That is why I do not give my utmost respect to any pastor, worship leader etc. Its just a business. All u need to be is to be biblically knowledgeable and be a convincing motivationAl speaker. Its just business.
@marysteele4371
@marysteele4371 3 жыл бұрын
Blessings AMEN and AMEN ❤🙏❤
@kobersonlanghu
@kobersonlanghu 3 жыл бұрын
Ravi meant so much to millions of people. What he did deeply crushed our hearts. I am grateful Josh McDowell has brought some comfort as we try to find healing for our wounds.
@AllenHamon-dc4jl
@AllenHamon-dc4jl 7 ай бұрын
From Montana and I have considered it great joy to be able to follow both of these men (apologists) in their ministry. I have seen them both, had the extreme privilege of chatting with them, read and listened as a shark follows a blood trail. Having said this, I gained such an appreciation for the McDowell's (both father and son) for sharing this and answering questions that have bothered me. The standout remark made by Brother Josh had to be that "God does not need us... He desires us". Thank you for this presentation.
@glennpesti6519
@glennpesti6519 3 жыл бұрын
Ive been reading your father for decades this was a beautiful video, thank you for sharing your dad with us.❤️🙏
@MJS-PS144
@MJS-PS144 3 жыл бұрын
"Ravi Zacharias didn't save you, Jesus did. Ultimately, you grew through Christ" -J. McDowell This is probably the most impactful statement in this video for me. Ravi was a large part of my understanding and development of my faith in Christ. I had so many questions and he always pointed me to Jesus in the most profound way. But he was a man, and a deeply flawed, troubled man at that. Though he so elequently pointed to The Truth in his books and lectures, he is certainly not the only one. I can not bring myself to continue to utilize his resources in my studies. His lies and extreme sexual immorality have tarnished that beyond repair. So incredibly sad. Praying for his victims, his family, and praying that he sought forgiveness for his sins. ❤️
@angiep4649
@angiep4649 3 жыл бұрын
I think you meant to say: “... HOPING that he sought forgiveness...” it’s kinda late, to pray for that☝🏽Now... I too, am praying for his family and victims... “Truth is truth, no matter who says it!” Thanks for your insight, and faithfulness, brother McDowel!❤️
@MJS-PS144
@MJS-PS144 3 жыл бұрын
@@angiep4649 yes, "hoping" is more accurate❤️
@angiep4649
@angiep4649 3 жыл бұрын
🙏🏼❤️
@yvettetrujillo1856
@yvettetrujillo1856 11 күн бұрын
Too late for that! You ask forgiveness when you’re alive, and confess your sin and change when you’re alive. He is in Hell 😢
@joefeldpausch
@joefeldpausch 3 жыл бұрын
“I’ll pray, you pay!” Spoken like a true road warrior. I spent nearly 20 years traveling as a singer/songwriting hocking my wares and singing my songs in universities, churches, and coffee houses for whatever folks could afford to pay! In all seriousness, I read Josh McDowell books and attended his engagements in the late 80’s and early 90’s. Thanks for getting your dad’s take on the tragedy of one of his contemporaries. That’s a tough subject to deal with, but you all addressed it appropriately and many others can benefit from the call that was heeded. Keep up the great work🤘
@annmurray9297
@annmurray9297 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, so much. This has really helped me. It’s so unfathomable, just hearing you both talk it out has helped me process the facts.
@crohm42
@crohm42 5 ай бұрын
I looked up to Ravi and learned a lot from his books, preaching and presentations. Amazing insights, a great communicator and philosopher who helped me with many of my doubts/questions as a young, maturing Christian. As a matter of fact, I was distraught to learn he had cancer and was essentially on his death bed, and was upset and mad God allowed it. Cried out to God on Ravi's behalf. At the time, from my standpoint, here was a man who sacrificed so much with his time and relationships with family to serve God all over the world and was in harm's way on many occasions....totally sold out to Christ. Then the truth of Ravi's sin and failures came to light and God taught me a number of good lessons (some covered by the McDowell's): 1. God knows all, God is Holy, God will make all things right, God is worthy of our trust: we don't, can't, and aren't 2. God uses sinful man to do His work and accomplish His will (one of His greatest miracles): Ravi was guilty of grevious sins, but we all sin as Christians. Not an excuse, but a reminder that we need to be humble, gracious and kind as we reflect on Ravi's life, legacy, family, and many others who've fallen so greatly. Flip side, don't wait to serve God until you're perfect, won't happen this side of heaven. 3. Accountability, and checks and balances are needed and should be welcomed to help prevent unhealthy lives, relationships, and ministries so we don't ultimately don't misrepresent Jesus and comprise our testimony of Jesus. 4. We have an enemy who wants to kill, steal, and destroy and he has a whole army working against Jesus and His followers: we need to keep our relationship with Jesus and each other as strong as possible, in Him, we have the victory. Again, stay humble and be gracious and help each other out when failures come. 5. Don't fall for the "cult of personality" where individuals are put on a pedestal and portrayed as if they can do no wrong and we become their "fans" and "followers" and all that entails (idol worship): besides being sinful, they're not worthy and we'll be disappointed. This seems to be a common strategy of the enemy that can do a lot of damage to the idol and the worshipper. Thanks McDowells for all you do to help the body of Christ! I appreciate your videos and still use the New Evidence that Demands a Verdict, another book that was instrumental to helping me thru questions/doubts.
@daisybrown3819
@daisybrown3819 3 жыл бұрын
I was raised in a Christian home and went to church claiming to be saved yet lived a terrible wicked life for over 20 years. I only came to true repentance with godly sorrow two years ago some people would say i was not worthy of forgiveness because i lived a double life so long. Well in a way it wasnt double because people knew i was being immoral.
@Jayinseason
@Jayinseason 3 жыл бұрын
Amen, Jesus loves you!
@daisybrown3819
@daisybrown3819 3 жыл бұрын
@@Jayinseason thank you! 😊
@lauraretail3923
@lauraretail3923 3 жыл бұрын
Dear Sister Daisy, God bless you for your testimony. Be encouraged! The good work that the Lord started in you, He WILL most certainly bring to completion! Stay in the Word, have accountability, a sound community of fellowship. You are an overcomer in Christ!! Bless you Sister☺️
@bethrow2002
@bethrow2002 3 жыл бұрын
None of us are worthy of forgiveness. For people to tell you aren’t worthy is disturbing. Instead of judging you, they need to give words of comfort and pray with you.
@marahaynes2088
@marahaynes2088 3 жыл бұрын
@Benjamin J Park I don't think the details will help you I think will do the opposite. Be blessed
@aaronjohnsamuel2024
@aaronjohnsamuel2024 3 жыл бұрын
During my graduation at Dallas Theological Seminary in 2005, Dr. Josh McDowell was the speaker. I expected him to speak on 'Apologetics', but, he spoke on 'family'.
@democracyforall
@democracyforall 3 жыл бұрын
Good, so ravi was not that guilty as portrayed by the fools, He was married to these ladies as his secret wives and they agreed to the damn thing and when they wanted more and more and tried to some how black mail him he refused. And he was right, they agreed to be his secret wives by signing papers, but then they had something else in their mind so they turned against the very agreement of marriage they made. So who is guilty? According to the bible you can have more wives so that is not a sin. So he did not sin at all. It is so easy to fool the masses of religiouse people anywhere.
@MK-di6sb
@MK-di6sb 3 жыл бұрын
@@democracyforall you are a liar.
@fashionaturstreets
@fashionaturstreets 3 жыл бұрын
@@democracyforall as christians we don't have secret wife's.
@theelizabethan1
@theelizabethan1 3 жыл бұрын
@@democracyforall What you're describing is Islamic "marriage," not Christian marriage.
@democracyforall
@democracyforall 3 жыл бұрын
@@theelizabethan1 Correct but that is what he tried to do because there are people who believes in different teaching that you can get married to more than wife. That is the reason he did not go to young prostitute abroad secretly if he wanted sex so bad. He wanted to make it legal in his own head so this way he can live with himself. He justified it to himsel not to feel guilty. If he was after sex the wrong way like people are assuming sure, he would have done that young girsl as young as 18 in prostitute houses or places and no one would have known about it. But he tried to make sure that he does not feel guilty so he did the old testament or Islamic sort of way. There are people like me who believes that you can have more than one wife if you do not divorce the first one. He was simply a man like me and others but I wont do that , I did tell my wife and she laughs but of course I cannot find any otherwise I will marry in the open but I cannot find and my Wife knows however, ravi just could not say that in the open because he thought his ministry will be gone so he tried it the Muslim or the Jewis sort of way but in secret . For me I will do it on broad day light and people can take pictures as well ha ha ha.
@marybehr8678
@marybehr8678 5 ай бұрын
I am so thankful that you interviewed your Dad. Great interview. I am 76 & enjoyed every teaching of Ravi & was so shaken by what he did, it was very interesting to hear your Dad's thoughts on the matter. I cannot imagine the hell that his family went through possibly still going through same for all his victims.
@lourdesvelasco9319
@lourdesvelasco9319 5 ай бұрын
Thank you Josh and Sean for this conversation.I am with the Nazarene Church and I saw all these those precautions that you mentioned and my husband and I have been together for 45 years and committed our marriage to God because it really can happen to anyone regardless.God Bless you both.
@alnaing
@alnaing 3 жыл бұрын
I never heard of Josh McDowell until I watched this video for the very first time. His message is full of wisdom. I would sit for hours just to listen to him. While I feel deeply sad about the truth on Ravi Z, I feel hopeful after hearing what he has said here. God bless him! 👍♥️
@cyndidempsay5542
@cyndidempsay5542 3 жыл бұрын
@a naing If you like to read, read Josh McDowell's book, "Evidence that demands a Verdict" and "More Than a Carpenter." He helps Christian's know why they believe what they believe and how to share it effectively. He is a wonderful "Apologist"!
@alnaing
@alnaing 3 жыл бұрын
@@cyndidempsay5542 Thank you. Will definitely get the book. God bless!
@murielleyoung5542
@murielleyoung5542 3 жыл бұрын
I have really enjoyed this discussion. I found Josh to be very kind and honest. Thank you to both of you for this interview. My heart is broken and I was pleased to hear you explain that God’s word never goes void. That was very comforting as well as other things you have shared. Much appreciated.
@donaldstirgus2243
@donaldstirgus2243 3 жыл бұрын
God bless brother McDowell for the wisdom he has.
@heavencanwait421
@heavencanwait421 3 жыл бұрын
And humble...
@sharonshoop495
@sharonshoop495 3 жыл бұрын
Why in the name of God are we looking up to man!!!!!
@misterjones78
@misterjones78 3 жыл бұрын
@@donaldstirgus2243 People said the same thing about Ravi six months ago.
@democracyforall
@democracyforall 3 жыл бұрын
Good, so ravi was not that guilty as portrayed by the fools, He was married to these ladies as his secret wives and they agreed to the damn thing and when they wanted more and more and tried to some how black mail him he refused. And he was right, they agreed to be his secret wives by signing papers, but then they had something else in their mind so they turned against the very agreement of marriage they made. So who is guilty? According to the bible you can have more wives so that is not a sin. So he did not sin at all. It is so easy to fool the masses of religiouse people anywhere.
@BlueWambat
@BlueWambat 2 жыл бұрын
Once when I was praying through being disappointed by some people who had taught me most of what I know, the Lord said to me clearly, "The truth of a lesson does not depend on the teacher's ability to carry it out." I think that may be helpful for people suffering from this revelation of Ravi's sin.
@melissaculpepper7663
@melissaculpepper7663 5 ай бұрын
Don’t blame Jesus for man’s failings.
@BlueWambat
@BlueWambat 5 ай бұрын
@@melissaculpepper7663 That’s right
@beverlypasco262
@beverlypasco262 6 ай бұрын
Thank you for this! I was a RZ fan who was devastated especially for his family. This incident shows us to keep our eyes and heart devoted to Jesus alone, not on anyone else. It provided me a crossroad to go deeper with Jesus and hang on to Him for dear life. I pray Ravi’s family are also going deeper with Jesus and they are healing. My heart grieves for them, and has hope that they are being hugged extra tight by the Lord!❤❤❤❤❤❤
@sarahlee8022
@sarahlee8022 3 жыл бұрын
Amazing discussion. "God doesn't need us He desires us." #deep. Thoughtful, heartfelt talk.
@Jeremiah17910
@Jeremiah17910 3 жыл бұрын
Serah Lee, thst is not a Scriptural statement, nowhere does the word of God says, He desires us, that is just man made stuff to feed our self love, and so called self esteem. But i tell you what God does desire, He seeks true worshipers and the only worship that is acceptable to God is when we worship in spirit and in truth. Worshiping in spirit is a matter of the heart, not external actions and is grounded and directed by truth. What God desires from us is obedience, He actually commands obedience from His children. Something today's so called Christians rebell against it, and embrace cheap grace of their own making, because according to the word of God, the true grace of God teaches us to deny ungodliness and wordly desires and to live soberly, righteously, and godly in this present age. Titus 2:11-12. We are in the truth war, You better study the Scripture 2 Tim. 2:15, Submit to the Holy Spirit and walk in Him Galatians 5:16, or you will surely be deceived and you will be tossed to and fro by every wind of doctrine Ephesians 4:14. You must know that it is by God's Holy Spirit and not by our power that we obey God's word and walk in His truth. The Devil fears nothing but God and His word of truth. He runs from the truth because he is a father of lies, and there is no truth in him, he literally can't stand the truth because he has no power over it whatsoever. The only reason he is so successful in tripping and deceiving many, so called Christians today is, because they are literally ignorant what God's word says pretty much about everything. False teachers are everywhere and they are literally Satan's ministers of light, 2 Corinthians 11:14, they are disguisesd as ministers of righteousness by twisting the word of God just like the devil always does and has done from the beginning in the garden of Eden when he deceived Eve, and Adam disobeyed God and they fell and sinned against God, and the LORD had to curse the whole human race and the Universe He created. Jesus Christ through the death of His cross and resurrection has FINISHED the will of God and His plan of redemption for those who believe trust in Him, and submit to Him as their Lord and Savior, and the Lord also dethroned the usurper of the earth, the devil himself. The Lord is sooner than later going to come back to earth and claim what is rightfully His. Even so come Lord Jesus, Amen.
@carolsampson5511
@carolsampson5511 3 жыл бұрын
Be careful unless you have walked in his shoes you are passing judgement God is the God of all we will be trying to pass your opinion on all and can hurt more people you are not perfect
@carolsampson5511
@carolsampson5511 3 жыл бұрын
U may turn people away from by even passing gossip God hates gossip this is not rocking my faith God will judge all even people who claim perfection
@truthwatch2858
@truthwatch2858 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Josh for not compromise by not going to conference
@kennyblue5538
@kennyblue5538 7 ай бұрын
Dear Josh Mcdowell , you set the bar high, sir. much respect to you. "More Than A Carpenter" great scholarly book.
@ginetteolsen2627
@ginetteolsen2627 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this wonderfully insightful conversation. Your father nailed it and provided me with much needed comfort and safety in the decisions I had been making about this excruciatingly painful situation. His guiding words, his compassion, his transparency and proven commitment to precautions and safeguards are helping me heal and to keep on trusting.
@CynthiaLSimmons
@CynthiaLSimmons 3 жыл бұрын
I interviewed Josh several years ago. He was so down to earth, just like he is here. I am thankful for all Josh has given to the kingdom
@lizpellizari
@lizpellizari 3 жыл бұрын
Can you work so hard for God‘s kingdom and loose your salvation?
@chrislim7976
@chrislim7976 3 жыл бұрын
Josh sounds a little paranoid and a lot off actually. Sad.
@CynthiaLSimmons
@CynthiaLSimmons 3 жыл бұрын
@@chrislim7976 Not surprising given the circumstances.
@CynthiaLSimmons
@CynthiaLSimmons 3 жыл бұрын
@@lizpellizari Not if you are a true believer.
@lizpellizari
@lizpellizari 3 жыл бұрын
@@CynthiaLSimmons just God Knows....nur i think believing is not enough...the enemy also believes ... can you ignore the Holy Spirit for years and say that you love God above all. Who are you serving?.... I repent of my judging thoughts.. but I discern and humble my self daily to be lead by the Holy Spirit in Spirit and in true!
@janeallee9230
@janeallee9230 3 жыл бұрын
Satan comes to destroy, lives. Jesus came to give us life, and that more abundantly..
@sarahzapanta4809
@sarahzapanta4809 6 ай бұрын
I hope Pastors and other church leaders would have a chance to listen to this conversation. There’s so much wisdom to learn from Pstr Josh Dowell. God bless you both, father and son.
@unapologeticbeliever
@unapologeticbeliever 7 ай бұрын
I can feel both your heartbreaks… and I share in it. I’m so grateful for both of you and your ministries. The original “Evidence That Demands a Verdict” was a mainstay in my home growing up and the new one has been in my home with my children!
@ellarodriguez3773
@ellarodriguez3773 3 жыл бұрын
People can pretend to be who they r not Only God knows the heart
@marysteele4371
@marysteele4371 3 жыл бұрын
Blessings AMEN and AMEN ❤🙏❤
@leenieledejo6849
@leenieledejo6849 3 жыл бұрын
Actually Jesus says "by their fruits shall ye know them" (Matthew 7) and that deeds begin in the heart (Matthew 5, 12 & 15) so yep, those of us with the Holy Spirit indwelling certainly CAN know their hearts. But narcissists, predators and abusers (and even murderers in some cases) aren't noticed in churches (and are even given positions) precisely because of unbelief in Jesus's clear warnings about false brethren and false teachers (the warnings are actually all over Paul's letters, Acts and the other epistles) and because they are carnal and deny and reject the Holy Spirit. They reap what they sow i.e they get what they deserve. I just feel angry for the innocent victims. Abusers AND their enablers (the ones who say "oh we had no idea. Only God knows the heart") are EQUALLY to blame
@ruthalbala2181
@ruthalbala2181 3 жыл бұрын
“If you’re standing watch out because you can fall as well!”
@nanettemontilla9412
@nanettemontilla9412 3 жыл бұрын
Awe I love them both, what a gentle spirit. I miss my dad listening to Josh. He is funny and humble.
@lindawickman1388
@lindawickman1388 3 жыл бұрын
A blessing to hear this interview- thank you. I respect your Dad- heard him years ago at Moody 's founders week and read his Evidence that demands a verdict and it helped me in college. His attitude towards Ravi is refreshing with all the chatter today about the Ravi scandal. We all need to pray for the family and the impact that affected so many who were blessed by Ravi's ministry.
@carc2000
@carc2000 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Sean and Mr. Josh for this conversation and lessons.
@manidk3107
@manidk3107 3 жыл бұрын
Whoa Josh sir ... @ 19:53 what a sharp insightful scary truth : " THE PERSON WHO COULD BE MOST DECEIEVED IS YOURSELF ... "
@athleticnerd9225
@athleticnerd9225 3 жыл бұрын
This was such a good discussion. Thank you Sean and Josh
@carlaa.springs1107
@carlaa.springs1107 3 жыл бұрын
What a blessing to hear Josh McDowell again! My first job out of high school was with Campus Crusade in 1974, which is where I learned of you and your ministry. Wonderful words of wisdom!
@IrresistibleTruth
@IrresistibleTruth 3 жыл бұрын
I remember meeting your dad Josh on a cruise with my wife (it was a Christian cruise many years ago). Josh was one of the speakers. He invited us to sit at his table for a few minutes and we spoke about some pretty legit stuff concerning some "dad issues". He had some great wisdom, insight, and advice.
@mississippichris
@mississippichris 3 жыл бұрын
Josh McDowell has certainly helped me in my walk with Christ. The last couple of years, I tuned in to Ravi Zacharias here on KZfaq. I found him to be fresh air. The revelations have been painful, but the pain I feel is for his victims and the damage done to young christians who were drawn to Christ by his ministry. Thanks for this video.
@PutDownTheBunny
@PutDownTheBunny 3 жыл бұрын
Josh McDowell has been a major foundational part of my faith in Jesus Christ. Thanks Josh
@longstreet2740
@longstreet2740 3 жыл бұрын
Mine is Dr Peter S Ruckman ( 1921-2016 )
@mjsmith-jones7607
@mjsmith-jones7607 2 жыл бұрын
As a Christian I have failed probably in ways I don't even know. Our sin nature is so deep and deceptive that we seem to be able to justify anything. What happened is a warning to us all. I have read East to West and believe that Ravi is with the Lord.
@dorothyyoung9523
@dorothyyoung9523 3 жыл бұрын
Josh, my family and myself were so honored to meet you at Camp of the Woods in Speculator, NY. One of the highlights of our children’s, who are adults now, experience at Camp was when you came down to the beach area to speak directly with young people. It’s a rarity for Camp speakers to engage with so naturally with the youth attendees. Thanks!
@marilynbinay5812
@marilynbinay5812 3 жыл бұрын
Best reflection on that matter. I really admire Josh McDowell. His heart is in the right place. I love his books. Glory to God.
@shannalee80
@shannalee80 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your wisdom Josh McDowell. God Bless you, your son Sean, and your family. 🙏
@thomaspaul3187
@thomaspaul3187 3 жыл бұрын
That was excellent... Keep up the Good work both of you... Mr. Josh McDowell, the Lord bless you and (continue to) make you a blessing... and you as well brother Sean. The Lord raise up many more like yourselves.
@user-is3vy6es9d
@user-is3vy6es9d 16 күн бұрын
A properly brought up son that's what Sean is.Thankyou Jesus for these two men.
@josephinerintoul1935
@josephinerintoul1935 3 жыл бұрын
Giving no appearance of evil is important and very difficult at times in this dark world ..be humble enough to always keep your intimacy with Jesus only.
@fandude7
@fandude7 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Sean. This is by far the best discussion on this tragic event. A balanced and thoughtful conversation about Ravi Zacharias. May the new discoveries and openness from RZIM start to bring healing to the victims.
@DJRickard2010
@DJRickard2010 3 жыл бұрын
. In 2021, there are far better, and less damaging, sources of morals. Time to do away with religion, or at least quit giving them tax free status and acknowledging their damage to civilized society.
@waltercarrillo7381
@waltercarrillo7381 3 жыл бұрын
“Unto you therefore which believe he is precious; but unto them which be disobedient, the stone which the builders disallowed, the same is made the head of the corner, and a stone of stumbling, and a rock of offence, even to them which stumble at the word, being disobedient.” - 1 Peter ii. 7, 8.
@DJRickard2010
@DJRickard2010 3 жыл бұрын
@@waltercarrillo7381 thank you. Do you know who said that, and how do you know it? Was it God? Jesus of Nazareth? A myth? - Why did you pick those sentences and not Exodus 21:20-21, “20 “Anyone who beats their male or female slave with a rod must be punished if the slave dies as a direct result, 21 but they are not to be punished if the slave recovers after a day or two, since the slave is their property.”?
@jairowardaddy358
@jairowardaddy358 Жыл бұрын
This was far from being a thoughtful conversation it was irresponsible and to me I think it comes from a Side of envy they said all this without any evidence at all. I speak with his son on Facebook all the time. The accusations are false and the organization sold Ravi out for the organizations interest and funding, his son has gone public exposing the truth. There’s not a single shred of evidence against Ravi. The women have been known to do these false accusations to past pastors
@hankgroff77
@hankgroff77 3 жыл бұрын
Sean, love your Dad. Been following him for 30+ years
@danaro7563
@danaro7563 3 жыл бұрын
So thankful for this broadcast to help work through this disturbing situation. I really looked up to Ravi as I learned so much from his Christian ministry. Thankful that my faith is built on Jesus, my blessed hope, and no one else.
@jeremys.2451
@jeremys.2451 3 жыл бұрын
This video and Mike Winger's at bible thinker are by far the 2 best videos regardi g this heartbreaking issue/topic. On a secondary note when y'all were discussing the name change of JMM, the simple answer in my mind is brand recognition. As a lay person I hear the name Josh McDowell and there is a level or trust that has been established due to reputation.
@uploadingjoy9120
@uploadingjoy9120 3 жыл бұрын
Sean, I love your dad! When I was in a Christian high school in Phoenix in the 80s, I was privileged to hear your dad speak in chapel 2 or 3 times. I still remember it because it was so good! I'm so thankful for the influence he's had in our world all these years and glad to see you have followed in his footsteps. Thank you for getting his perspective on this issue. May God continue to bless you both!
@glendamasti7363
@glendamasti7363 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. This has helped me. I have prayed for his family, the victims, those christians that he has taught and spoke strength into them and their ministries...and how it has left them shaking their heads... May God strengthen them and their ministries and use this to strengthen their wisdom and faith in God. That we aren't to look at man as the answer but we are to look at God, first and foremost. God bless you Sean and Josh, I will add you both to my prayer list. The more responsibility God gives you....the harder Satan will come after you...I will pray for you and your families.
@julietascheidt
@julietascheidt 3 жыл бұрын
I loved this conversation, Mr. MacDowell, father and son.
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