It could be hormones, like that guy said. Doesn’t mean you aren’t feeling well though.

Same🥱😔

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@@menenjoyer356 well it depends how long it was present do *not* assume someone's circumstances. Depression can be due to traumatic past events or recent events. Either way anyone should get help if you see dramatic changes in your behaviour that affect you negatively.

And to us parents you guys are our world😊

And then highschool comes along and pushes us off the edge

You feel the way you feel, no one can take that from you. Just because someone has every physical thing they need, they do not have to constantly be happy. It is ok to be sad, anxious, depressed,etc. It is natural to feel things. I do not know your story, but I believe you have a good basis for a decent enough life, and you define the term “decent enough”. Good luck on your journey 😘😉😎

There are hot lines for depression.....seek them out...get help😞

Bonnie Dixon my mom say the same thing.. But she loves me just like u do for ur kids!!! It's only abut the child's state of mind.. The only way to find out is to listen n u will make her happy 😊 😊 😊....

Why I had depression one my parents keeps scolding me on little tiny problems two my parents kept comparing me to other kids three my parents kept cursing me and beating me when I am wrong four my parents kept putting hard responsibility on me five they can't say sorry when you they are wrong or just put the whole blame on me six they don't give me enough freedom

It's okay. My kid too. Ugh god bless

That is the worst reason to be mad. That is guilt tripping her. Theres probably things you don't know about And that she won't tell you because of how you reacted to her telling her principal that she's sad. ~J

Bonnie Dixon you’re a stupid bitch

smalltown 777 my son won't accept help

But to get help even from professional in underdeveloped country is really really difficult.

I feel like most people do but they are just ignored or not helped cause they don’t have 60/hour to pay someone to care

hey hey! Nice video you have there! If you dont mind my sharing; have you thought about " Vidadsmedia Child Anxiety Treatment " (should be on google...have a look)? My step brother had some dealings with them and was impressed by their super treatment when the Anxiety issue was completely rehabilitated !

Yes

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I have to say, while I think that medication is not always the answer (especially at a young age), they should not be ruled out completely. I know my medication has helped me get my life back on track. Therapy is wonderful and I completely recommend it as the first line of treatment. At the same time, this opinion doesn't mean nobody should take prescribed medication for a medical problem causing a mental disorder like depression.

@@criicket3178 True. I just wish people knew they had options.

I'm dealing with a depressed and angry teenage son. As a matter of fact he is just about to be 17. I don't know how to get through to him. Obviously my pep talks aren't helping. Any suggestions? How do you deal? I'm just trying pull different ideas from parents with depressed kids.

@@LO54765 i know I’m incredibly late haha but you could always try counseling. letting your child have someone to talk to that’s their person. someone who’s not part of their family, someone who will always support you and see your side of the story. i don’t know if your child still struggles with depression (i hope not) but if it’s the case, i truly feel like this will be beneficial. then again, i don’t know your son and his needs, but counseling is a very good option!

There are a few tips worth trying Work out why you are shy - the first step in solving a problem is to understand why it is there. Be at ease with yourself - this makes it less difficult Just do it - you will feel better by taking action - especially by doing activities which stretch your boundaries. (I read these and more ideas from Martos magic method site )

Please reach out to an adult you trust and tell them how you feel. Your life is the most important thing that matters. You can get help and depression is manageable.

I hope your well now. Get up super early when the sun comes up and have that fresh breath of air. Make sure in your mind you are number one. Take care of yourself with exercise, try new foods, spend time with friends. And limit your social media, try to read a book you can join a book club. Don’t over think about how your feeling. Your mind will try to attack you. I hope this helps. And I really hope your good.

Is to hard be parents. Don't blame your mom. Nobody. Really. Understand. Why or what to do ! Ask someone else if you mom doesn't. Your life is really important.

@@noemig6989 There are hotlines ...seek one out.ln your hometown...dont suffer alone....get help!

I'm so sorry you did not get the support and love and comfort you needed, even after having the courage to share how you felt and asked for help. I hope you are doing better now💙

My little sister is 15 and has depressions and I would like to help her out but don’t know how. What do you think could have helped you when you were young?

Mine say they care but they act like the opposite, i only talk to my therapist because i suffered bullying but when i told them about my mental health going down they finally cared about it, after many tries of well- you know of what.

There is nothing wrong with taking anti depressants. Depression and other mental health issues are illnesses that need to be treated. Sometimes it’s just for a short time to get yourself out of a dark hole. It doesn’t have to be life long.

I’m sorry you weren’t treated with sensitivity and kindness. Everyone deserves compassion and a safe space. 😘

Road Stealer go to the police. Your brother should NOT be getting beaten.

BeachedWhale sounds just like me... but mine started 5 years ago, and I've only gotten worse. but, I hope things get well for you soon.

Beachedwhale may God bless you. Pray.

JaydePlayz Please reach out to an adult you trust and tell them how you feel. Your life is the most important thing that matters. You can get help and depression is manageable.

I'm trying. I really am. Thanks for believing that I can get better. Have a good day or night.

For some reason, I got emotional reading this and wants to give u a tight hug. I hear you.

hope he feels better

Can't afford concealing

Arianna Is Dork You are such a beautiful person and God loves you. Im very proud of your accomplishments in school! Great job! You should pray and seek God about your career. You have to go with your Passions before PAY. Meaning... what are you passionate about? Alot of ppl go to work daily for the PAY $$ (money) and hate the job! You will need to be able to provide for yourself in life. Maybe get a 4 yr degree that will help you truly benefit in making music. Now, just my opinion on another note. Not judging you at all. This my personal belief not the governments. This is why you are feeling horrible about being bisexual.... you have a war going on inside.... The Bible Says You shall not lie with a male as with a woman; it is an abomination. 1 Corinthians 7:1-40 ESV / 17 helpful votes Now concerning the matters about which you wrote: “It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.” But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband. I will pray for you and i wish you the best in life. I pray that you get married someday and give your parents beautiful grandchildren. They will be beautiful just like you :)

I had this as well when first understood my bisexuality but I got through it buy talking to my friends,family and my teachers and I felt so depressed I felt suicide was the only option

Did you give him CBD oil? If so did it help? Thinking of doing the same with my 17 year old son.

I'm sorry you're having a hard time 😔. And I hope you can reach out to others who can help or listen or guide you. We (parents) do want to know what's wrong but sometimes we are very unskilled and I guess can make you feel worse. Take care, and love yourself and have compassion for yourself and know that you are worthy of a good life, which seems unobtainable right now but which is within your reach. So please, don't give up and reach out for help!

Mom, don't stop, there is hope. DON'T give up, you are not alone it seems that nobody cares, but that's the way it is, we have to keep trying until things get better. Come on, you can do this and pls take care of your self too you are also an essential piece in your son's life.

I think you need to find her some help. An adolescent child counselor. If you can’t afford one, many counties have mental health centers/counselors that are affordable.

Danie van der Westhuizen Please reach out to an adult you trust and tell them how you feel. Your life is the most important thing that matters. You can get help and depression is manageable.

I am the adult looking for help on how I can help my 17 year old son.

Danie van der Westhuizen Oh Okay! My apologies! Try looking up behavioral hospitals or hospitals with behavioral help/care units in them in the nearest area closest to you, with some population. I'm in a very rural part of Illinois but within a 45 minute drive, we have two. If you can't seem to find any info on the net, take your son to the nearest ER and they will be able to get him to one of these places or a hospital that DOES have a behavioral health unit within it. If he voices actual plans on how to suicide, take him asap. This means he could carry out his plan any time and you just can't risk losing him. All my best to you and your lovely son. ♥️

Bulldog Football I am 14 and my dad says it's my hormones making me down

Dragge it depends on what it it put the reason I have depression is because I have been bullied a lot over the last 4 years and I self harm to

Sorry to hear that :(

Bulldog Football don't hurt yourself. consider the source of the bullies. you are doing something right because they are jealous of you or else they have no need to pick on you. hold your head high. those bullies aren't worth the dirt on the ground. love yourself,appreciate yourself and write in a journal what you love about yourself. :)you are not alone and also remember we are living in unusual times right now as there is alot of evil out there. when that evil shows itself via bullying or whatever avoid those people as much as possible. remember that you won't be in school forever with them. I suspect that you are in high school am I right? if so you will leave those idiots behind. a person who bullies someone else is insecure, unsure and hates themselves truth be known they are doing that to make friends and be accepted because they are weak and it will backfire on them eventually so ignore them. if they get physical with the bullying get help immediately even if they are not talk to a grown-up you know and trust .contact Josh who did this video and talk to a family member you are most comfortable with. good luck. don't forget to do what you love as in a hobby. nothing that would harm you though .such as if you love movies watch movies,read more books if that is your thing,cook something new whatever so on :)also visualize yourself already enjoying your life after school. keep it positive and if you start thinking thoughts that depress you,think about something else like a reminder of what you need to do later on or what are you going to have for lunch ,dinner so on just an example whatever you do stop the negative thought process .focus on what you want .

Abeer Aldubyan Please reach out to an adult you trust and tell them how you feel. Your life is the most important thing that matters. You can get help and depression is manageable.

Your posted a very simple and down to earth comment dear friend: "Where do I start first?" That's a sincere question many people ask, myself included. I'll be totally honest here friend and tell you the truth.....start with the One who created you. Almighty God. He loves you more than you could possibly know. He sent His own Son to give His life for you. That, dear friend, is the best and only place to start. Once you've done that, tell the person you are closest to exactly how you feel, be it a friend or family member. Don't hold anything back. Then give all of your pain and suffering to Christ and let Him take over. It works beautifully. I'm living proof. I am praying for you at this very moment. Be richly blessed.

ThaT_EPOCH - see a doctor, they can help you even if your depression is generic

I would say the same but i cant find the word that isnt depressed or numb, its hard..

I wish the same but sadly they wont understand.

Similar in my house. Sought out help with a psychiatrist and on week #2 of antidepressant. Also will start separately with counselor. I feel like the pediatrician or regular md could have prescribed and would have saved me a lot of money but I’d do it again if it helps. Sometimes you just need help to get out of dark place.

Thomas Caldwell My Dads violent

my dad is one of the best people I know but I can't make him proud of me

The Avalanchilator I am proud of you!

The Avalanchilator Your dad does love you but probably does not know how to show it. He is doing the best he can according to his own conditions and it has nothing to do with you if he fails in showing affection. You are a great person and thank you for sharing. Cheers

@@TheAvalanchilator You wanna know something? The truth is your dad realizes and appreciates everything you do and inside it does make him happy, but unfortunately he is also just a human being and sometimes life's challenges overwhelm a person to forget to show emotion. Trust me. I know he's proud. I know my dad is the same. Ask him if he is proud of you. He will tell you the truth

Try to talk to your school counselor or nurse one on one.