🛑 STOP CHASING WOMEN🛑 Here's What Really Works (MOST MEN DO THIS WRONG)

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🛑 STOP CHASING WOMEN🛑 Here's What Really Works (MOST MEN DO THIS WRONG)

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Joyanima

Күн бұрын

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@staycasual7203 11 ай бұрын

I’ve found winning the lottery really helps

@timkelsey1873 11 ай бұрын

Lmao 😅

@richardle7469 Ай бұрын

I am 40yrs old, and just will let it happen if it happens... to damn old to start over on another girl, I am content being single, lol

@TheapprehensiveTaoist 11 ай бұрын

I have been a stoic so long. It is hard to put up with the games. I am good with me, if you can't be too. Then we can't hang.

@noelgibson5956 11 ай бұрын

I ignore every woman I know. If it's made them interested or curious, they certainly haven't made it obvious. 🤨😕

@josephtreadlightly5686 Ай бұрын

The key is to make yourself mysterious with a little more intrigue to gain their interest. When they show interest then just take it to another level of being mysterious but also personable.

@stephanwilson2148 11 ай бұрын

Allow her to teach you something. She needs to know you’re open to the fact she has a lot to offer you as well. Face it, you don’t have to be the only one that needs to bring things to the table. Let her show you things and introduce you to some adventures you might never have thought of before.

@AB-vc7ox 11 ай бұрын

Yeah it's best to stay away from the low IQ minimally educated types that can be found on the streets. Disparity in that regard is not good foundation for LTR.

@ver-il6pc 9 ай бұрын

@@AB-vc7ox Depends on what a particular girl is looking for. Not all seek a serious long term relationship. Some just want to have fun with casual relationships or one-night stands or they just want male friends with benefits.

@JackPecker911 11 ай бұрын

Some people have won the marathon running barefooted though

@matthalo89 11 ай бұрын

There’s a formula for this. You can’t just ignore them. But be active in things and engage with people and show your personality through encounters and situations. Never being desperate or needy, but low key be actively pursuing. They will notice you around out and about doing and becoming whether it’s revealed or known or not. You as a man have to keep moving forward regardless of what women do or don’t do. Easier said then done. Eventually you will run into someone who sees you and you will slow down your pace to let them in if it’s someone you see too. It’s a beautiful thing when two people find each other and that “seeing” takes place. But make sure you’re truly engaged in life for when that day comes. It will work in your favor. Denzel Washington quoted someone who said “If you hang around the barber long enough, eventually you’ll get a haircut.”

@ver-il6pc 9 ай бұрын

Ignoring girls works only if you do it the correct way and in the right moment.

@matthalo89 9 ай бұрын

@@ver-il6pc my point exactly.

@NoName-zb1gm 11 ай бұрын

Men have to chase because that's how the game works. Men find a woman they like and have to pursue her and ask her out. At least admit the rules have apparently changed. I'm happy waiting for a woman to chase me but that means I'll never do on another date again.

@andersnielsen6044 11 ай бұрын

Perhaps you might go and look yourself in the mirror !

@JohnPickup-CDHS-ze6qd 10 ай бұрын

I think it's more a matter of not chasing them right away or looking desperate by going overboard. Don't show interest right away to keep her ego in check. Then slowly throw in little hints every now and then to keep her guessing. Then eventually shock the hell out of her by asking her out randomly. Call it mind games, call it whatever, but it works. Women aren't straight forward. They're complicated

@mardukdemigod1523 10 ай бұрын

Chasing rarely works my friend. If you wanna make women turned on by you, you'd rather Pursue her instead of chasing. Pursuing a woman means not acting desperate nor needy. Just be confident to approach her in a calm and relax way.

@mikeg2491 9 ай бұрын

@@mardukdemigod1523It’s all about making yourself a target for a woman to want you. Focus on your success, career and body and while women won’t necessarily jump on your crotch overtly they’ll find some way to be around you and make their presence known hoping you’ll pick them, life is essentially a reality dating show.

@mardukdemigod1523 9 ай бұрын

@@mikeg2491 While that is true, in most cases we the guys will be the one to make the move regardless of our successes in life or status otherwise nothing will happen. It is also a reality that in most cases these girls who chase successful men are usually the girls whom successful men despise. Because successful men also want high value women.

@boristagesson967 11 ай бұрын

Today I have been pruning apple trees.

@rickhammar1636 11 ай бұрын

It's a lie. I ignore women all the time. All it gets me is more time to ignore them more.....so yeah kind of a win win.

@stvinney 11 ай бұрын

You're not wrong

@gabrieljimenez5313 11 ай бұрын

Works when you 're body sculpid and socially acepted and the girl that you want is part of your activities in some kind of form.

@---kr3zg 11 ай бұрын

The bitter truth is ignoring only works if you're handsome if your average or below average it isn't going to work and you actually have to be improving yourself and pursuing your hobbies and goals while ignoring them

@stvinney 11 ай бұрын

@@---kr3zg Generally true. If you're really good looking, she's got something to keep you on her mind. Otherwise paying an appropriate amount of attention is necessary

@JuanMoreno-wo5yb 11 ай бұрын

@@---kr3zg I hope there is nothing wrong with improving yourself and pursuing your hobbies!! ❤

@johnrobinson5156 11 ай бұрын

Getting a small dog or two and walking helps 🐶🦊

@CharlieHoof-jn4jz 11 ай бұрын

depends but i love you questions

@2aenthusiastshallnotbeinfr273 10 ай бұрын

Gentlemen this is the Best way! DON'T SIMP!!! Don't Chase Women! Instead Chase your Purpose in Life! Be Cold as Ice!

@kurthanke5788 9 ай бұрын

The best thing to do, is not chase them, period. A lot of men are probably like me, in the fact, that I'm too old to be chasing women. They're not worth the time, nor the effort. If you're single, be grateful and happy.

@rsv3857 6 ай бұрын

You only ignore them if your good looking and dont want to chase and play games!!

@donurb9659 2 ай бұрын

I dont chase woman, tell them to quit chasing me. Make a video of that. PLEASE.

@jim2376 11 ай бұрын

Remain a bit of a mystery man she can't quite figure out. That will raise her interest level in a way that bragging about your self-conceived financial, athletic, and academic accomplishments never will. But there's a caveat here. The interest has to come from her first. If you haven't passed her physical attraction test and you ignore her, it ain't going anywhere. She's happy you're ignoring her and she's going to ignore you. You didn't pass her physical attraction test? Too bad. No pass equals no chance. I'm married so I don't have to put up with this bs.

@thrashmantim 11 ай бұрын

Don’t have to ignore it. Just don’t let the thought of it consume your life

@AB-vc7ox 11 ай бұрын

18 years ago I moved somewhere I knew no one and have met more women since then by doing nothing but minding my own business and just doing my own thing than any other way. FWIW, I abandoned dating sites about ten years ago in my early 50's, after realizing the only women I ever met online were too damaged and broken to ever have a healthy relationship. It's almost impossible to avoid once you're in the over 40 segment of the population in USA. I still watch these vids just in case I run into that one in a million woman that is more interesting, more fun, and less trouble than my boat.

@Antares2 11 ай бұрын

3:06 "A healthy relationship isn't about two halves making a whole. It's about two wholes coming together" That's a poetic way of saying that the two don't really need eachother. And if there is no need, then what's the point? I am not disagreeing with you. This is how most people think these days, and this is exactly why there are less relationships, less marriages and more single people than ever before. Because why should they bother? They are already complete, independent, strong, self-sufficient. So why get into a relationship? Relationships have gone from a necessity to a luxury. There was a time when it was two halves. The two people complementing eachother. One's weakness was the other's strength. And no, I am not talking about old-school gender roles with the women in the kitchen; What I mean is the perceived necessity of the significant other. Today, that necessity is gone. Some might blame feminism and quote the old adage that "women need men like a fish needs a bicycle", but I think the cause is deeper than that. Both men and women have realized that the only "need" for another person is intimacy and the possibility to have children. But even that is no longer a big thing, as a larger portion of people don't want children... and there are other sources for intimacy available. There is less reason to commit to anything, because you are perfectly fine on your own. The worst part is: I think it's good that people feel complete on their own, but at the same time I see the harm it's doing to lasting relationships and how that will in the long run affect society negatively. I don't have a solution to this, but I think your quote highlights one of the biggest problems with dating and relationships in the 21st century.

@jacobcutrer 11 ай бұрын

If you ignore women then they’ll ignore you back. I try to put on a friendly face and act like everything is peachy even though I’m slowly dying inside. That way at least they’ll be somewhat nice the next time I see them.

@dharmadasa66 11 ай бұрын

Wrong. If you ignore women they will try to get your attention. They hate being ignored and will leave their comfort zone to get into your space to get your attention. Stop putting on a friendly face. It makes you look like an inoffensive weakling. Just look like you have more important business to attend to. Imagine you are on a quest which does not include them, and act like it. They will be drawn to that.

@user-bf8ki9tc8j 11 ай бұрын

@@dharmadasa66 Wrong! I broke up with my girlfriend 3 days ago and havent heard a word from her.

@matthalo89 11 ай бұрын

@@dharmadasa66it’s both. I’ve ignored some women and they don’t care. Other times I’ve ignored them and they made it a goal to get my attention. Not once, twice or thrice. But numerous attempts until I look their way and halfway reciprocate. And this has happened with different women and both scenarios have happened with the same girl. Times she ignores me and I ignore her. And there have been times we try to get the others attention. I don’t really try to get hers anymore but she still does things to get mine.

@dharmadasa66 11 ай бұрын

@@user-bf8ki9tc8j Use your internet browser to search for the meaning of 'individual anecdote' versus 'general rule'.

@cameronnewman3614 11 ай бұрын

True love is two people moving away together or off into the sunset in search of a life and coming back to friends n family to visit. Its 2 people becoming 1. Relationships are modern crap, basically friends with benifits, that screw men over, yaaay

@simply11believelane47 11 ай бұрын

When my crush "ignores" me it's frustrating but I know she doesn't want to. She still glances over n will come say hi 2 me once n touch me😝 women don't get close and or touch guys often if they r not attracted and comfy with them. Think I scare her actually, which is weird cause she's absolutely gorgeous 😍

@lewiskearney3797 11 ай бұрын

Make your move, you only live once buddy 👍

@phabeondominguez5971 11 ай бұрын

@@lewiskearney3797how tho? Like what's the play by play here for him?

@lewiskearney3797 11 ай бұрын

@@phabeondominguez5971 just tell her - even if she laughs in his face, it's better than never saying anything. Trust someone middle-aged - you won't regret the things you did, you'll regret the things you didn't do when you had the chance! Be bold and courageous in life, you want something = you gotta go get it 🦉

@didierbaudot 11 ай бұрын

Every women and situation is different, some women don't Care if you ignore them for so many reasons and other women can't stand beiing ignored especially the insecure ones because it makes them even more insecure. Some women are attracted to muscles other to brains or both its everytime something different that is why it's so difficult 🤔

@didierbaudot 6 ай бұрын

@@BAKER22-l4u i don't have to ask my mother for advice about women i'm 55 and enough life experience to know the difference between different female behaviour and personality and there social Qualities and flaws

@rjakob8073 10 ай бұрын

I stopped chasing femmes 9 years ago. The squeeze is really not worth it.

@zerolbcool 11 ай бұрын

Sitting outside, breathing fresh air, having philosophical thoughts, visualizing 'Sailing to America' in the opposite direction. Most importantly, not chasing but actually following instructions (which i very rarely do) So, very, very Strange... Dr. Strange ;)

@johnroman7659 11 ай бұрын

Spot on again Anna, especially the last few from what I’ve experienced.

@ujwalawagh6433 11 ай бұрын

No obsession , men aim in life

@grovergrandle3018 11 ай бұрын

because we are supposed to do the asking genious!

@bryanmccallum4614 11 ай бұрын

Interesting video thank you Joyanima

@jacqueslee2592 11 ай бұрын

Any advice for men with no money, below average size, and not good looking. Are these men able to attract women.

@RVTGROUP 11 ай бұрын

I ignore woman, still no girlfriend at 21

@howardrhule3084 11 ай бұрын

I thought this video was very informative and inciteful ❤

@martingindulis5310 11 ай бұрын

Boy is she out of touch with reality but she's cute I bet she has never been alone in the evening. Most women don't chase if you are not rich and good-looking just saying her eyes are brown for a reason.

@silvermine2033 11 ай бұрын

Great information. Thanks, Anna!

@Jake-by9ly 10 ай бұрын

This absolutely doesn't wirk in USA

@johnrobinson5156 11 ай бұрын

Hobbies best way to meet and save big money. Since I moved to mountain cabin, met many nice females on the chairlift, skiing or hiking trail in forest. Have not paid for going on a date in 7 years!

@davidnelson7719 11 ай бұрын

So many goats, so little time.

@humbletrader5479 11 ай бұрын

As an older male with several females orbiting and vying for my attention, I’m starting to feel guilty about not putting out after they pay for everything on a date.

@JuanMoreno-wo5yb 11 ай бұрын

…and then you woke up from that dream. 😂

@humbletrader5479 11 ай бұрын

@@JuanMoreno-wo5yb try not to be envious my friend, the key is to outlive the competition.

@AB-vc7ox 11 ай бұрын

@@JuanMoreno-wo5yb When women take you out and pay, you know you’re a high value guy, and they’re not likely uneducated losers after you just for a future home, alimony and child support.

@aelfredrex8354 11 ай бұрын

Going the harem route, eh? I plan on that meself.

@JuanMoreno-wo5yb 11 ай бұрын

@@humbletrader5479 You’re not even close to the league when nobody even picks you to be on their team. I have lived in several States and visited and lived in some 13 Spanish speaking Countries and my experience is that it’s quality vs quantity; not the other way around. You want a show dog or a bunch of sickly street mutts?!? My early years were filled with girl after girl, three in one day since I had a job and had to be there too (also three at the same time in Panamá.) Now days I just let them come to me and I pick the best personality and intelligence. I have scruples and priorities and I am always in charge of what happens even when the gal thinks she is making a decision, it will be of my choice first and foremost. Many could learn a ton from a guy like me. They don’t call me Don Juan for nothing!! Get a life and then the girls will come after that; otherwise you will be spinning your wheels or sitting in neutral all your life! ❤️

@markpack1111 6 ай бұрын

Hi Anna, good work.. Jack:

@renemontenegro6143 11 ай бұрын

WE DONT T CHASE

@user-zp5cl3vp7j 11 ай бұрын

Great advice Joyanima. 👍🏾

@mcmann201 11 ай бұрын

My journey of improvement 😊❣️

@alexandervandenboschnoa 11 ай бұрын

Cool 😎 I will

@romanjaspe4172 11 ай бұрын

Thanks so much

@TheapprehensiveTaoist 11 ай бұрын

I get tired of the unreal expectations of others.

@TheArrow1987 10 ай бұрын

I'm tired of people in general. Luckily I realized years ago I don't even need friends. I'm just not able to make them or keep people interested in me. Most people are just assholes and not trustworthy. I don't even need others around me while pursuing my hobbies at home (most on my PC). I also never feel bored and lonely. I also realize I get more and more misanthropic with every passing year (I'm absolutely fine with that). Love relationship? I'm thankful I never wanted those in my whole life.

@jackjohnsonsr6806 11 ай бұрын

Joyannima

@srprice2383 11 ай бұрын

YES I WOULD LIKE A COMPASS THAT CHANGES IF I CHANGE DIRECTION. HAHAHA

@spidersj12 11 ай бұрын

Ignore women completely...

@TheArrow1987 10 ай бұрын

I ignore almost all people I know and see, I just don't care anymore. I don't even know how it is to have a real friend, as I'm simply not able to make them. I'm just thankful I never wanted love relationshp anyway, and I realized I don't need friends. It means less mental stress, less mental pressure, I can do what I want when I want, I feel safer on my own. I'm never bored and lonely anyway. Also I could never keep conversation alive for more than few seconds. Maybe it's because I am autistic. Maybe I just am not interested enough in people.

@NOAHCASAS 11 ай бұрын

3RD TO LAST PLACE

@markchristopher420 11 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@user-ze5qb4bk8p 11 ай бұрын

What kind of hobbies do you like? besides helping single men like myself understand women better I appreciate you so thanks.

@jameshohmann1251 11 ай бұрын

Build your mind and body, then maybe they'll look at you. When I was overweight, they never even looked my way.

@jessemedina4482 11 ай бұрын

I am walking proof. Lost 45 lbs and now I'm with a younger woman that is drop dead gorgeous and a genuine sweetheart. All this after six years of misery and heartache following a nightmare divorce from a selfish and manipulative woman.

@jameshohmann1251 11 ай бұрын

@jessemedina4482 I'm proud of you brother! I've lost 82 lbs and also have an amazing woman that appreciates me.

@aelfredrex8354 11 ай бұрын

Know thy "enemy". Her dream man is nice guy in the streets, very bad boy in the sheets. So just play the Game on Incubus mode. Then they chase you.

@raiders3168 11 ай бұрын

I've been ignoring women for over 20 years and I've gotten used to being alone. It's pretty hard to try and break that mindset and so many doubts pop up that get me to question is it really worth it. Some people are just ment to be alone.

@phabeondominguez5971 11 ай бұрын

Not if you are a human, we are social creatures by design..

@timm8998 10 ай бұрын

@@phabeondominguez5971 That is true for the big majority, but there are always exceptions.

@TheArrow1987 10 ай бұрын

@raiders3168: Yeah just like me. I'm meant to be alone. I still have my parents but those 2 are really enough for me. I'm thankful I was never interested in love relationships and I also never had someone that could be called a real friend. Years ago I realized it's not worth it wasting time and mental energy to keep trying to make friends which I'm just not able to. Also, conversations will quickly make me feel tired and exhausted. Maybe it's because I'm autistic. Maybe I'm simply not interested enough in other people. However, I'm thankful I never feel lonely and bored and for the hobbies I have at home I don't need others aroudn me to pursue them. Also I feel safest and best when being at home where no one can harm or disturb me

@phabeondominguez5971 10 ай бұрын

@@timm8998 very true, but those "exceptions" are not on here viewing this type of content, feel me?

@phabeondominguez5971 10 ай бұрын

@@TheArrow1987 well said, and as long as your good, that's all that really matters

@MrWackaloon 10 ай бұрын

So I have to plan my entire life for months around trying to go on one date? No thanks, perfectly happy single.

@ray_dorian888 11 ай бұрын

A woman will not forget how good you treated her and didn't expect anything in return. Whether your there or not, it will fester in her mind. If you treated her like a good man does especially if she's from a toxic relationship, it will gnaw at her more because sooner or later she'll realize she had something good and womderful.

@Nevinhere 11 ай бұрын

I go gym. 🍷🗿

@paweszaduro7946 6 ай бұрын

Żadnych związków! To szaleństwo. Samobójstwo. Chcesz zostać wariatem? Wejdź w związek.

@RobinJohnstonphotography 11 ай бұрын

I don’t have the energy to chase. Anyway I have a wee dog to take care of.

@Razear 10 ай бұрын

"It's about two w(holes) coming together." More like one hole and one stick coming together...

@vanessajones5594 11 ай бұрын

Just tell yourself, that will never happen. Then relax. Next thing you know, panties.

@OpEditorial 10 ай бұрын

The only women the men in your audience are likely ignoring are their own mothers, especially when they're asked to get a job. A lot of these guys need more than just a bit of *reverse psychology*, as they're already being ignored themselves.

@OpEditorial 3 ай бұрын

@Ttell3grammme_Joyanima I'd love to but I'm shy 🤭

@donjan6950 11 ай бұрын

I ignored her & she's with some1 else now

@roman_kofyno 11 ай бұрын

Travel? Like, isn´t that quite about money (and also visa, va**ination)? And what if i´m introvert (and women can also be)?

@chrisedwards2178 11 ай бұрын

It’s all bullshit, I keep reading all the same ‘advice’ about how to attract women and to get them to chase you. I have got more hobbies than I know what to do with, I’m always going out etc. It never happens. Unless you are really good looking women are not interested from the outset.

@juniortorres3967 11 ай бұрын

Reverse psychology

@juniortorres3967 11 ай бұрын

Hi Anna you always looks so pretty 😍

@kenndavis8680 9 ай бұрын

All bogus advice. She said everything except "be yourself" which is the only thing you're suppose to be doing. Stop making changes to yourself to accommodate her. Of course you should improve yourself the best you possibly can but be sure to go in the direction that benefits YOU & makes YOU happy. As long as you do what you enjoy doing & going places you enjoy going to then maybe you'll come across a woman that enjoys what you enjoy. But please don't go out of your way trying to learn stuff you're not interested in just to impress women. Do whatever works best for YOU, not her.

@Martin_Priesthood 11 ай бұрын

👍👌💯⬆️☑️❤️

@Scorned405 10 ай бұрын

Don’t simp you must pimp. Listen to Paul Elam

@juniortorres3967 9 ай бұрын

Well just do the opposite you have always done, before go after her now ignore her so is just reverse psychology 😂😅

@Jake-by9ly 10 ай бұрын

Throw Trump on jail now!

@MichellesdesignsEtc 11 ай бұрын

These days if a guy ignores me I just keep doing what I've been doing just minding my own business if a guy doesn't show interest I'm not going to show any interest either been heartbroken over not being picked 1 too many times... why should a woman chase a guy ? Growing up in my time that was a big no no! My Mom has that engrained in me! It's just like when men say they like it when women don't wear makeup and then they don't andddd it's a different story! Men you do not want to be asked, you want to do the asking... you aren't the only one who is nervous either! So when a guy ignores me I think either he just doesn't like me or he's playing a game which is a turn off at least for me!

@andersnielsen6044 11 ай бұрын

OMG..

@geisterfahreruberholer2171 11 ай бұрын

You are whats wrong with women. In the very moment a woman expects me to do all the work while you - and especially you in person because you mentioned it - doesnt match my energy, that women is out.

@jacqueslee2592 11 ай бұрын

Women contradict themselves and are inconsistent in what they like or do not like, what they believe in. Either way if a man shows interest, a woman will say that he is being a simp and needy.

@andersnielsen6044 11 ай бұрын

@@jacqueslee2592 And at the end of the day, the guy she is attracted to can do whatever he wants to her - and she will still accept, forgive and love it.

@rahbones7020 11 ай бұрын

She’s what’s wrong with women? Sad reactions here