Well, I can confirm that! After a breakup it's going to be damn hard, especially if you're having a hard time dealing with the situation.

Get over it when you work somewhere long enough you aren’t going to get along with everyone. It’s all what you make of it. The reward could be more worth than the job ever was.

@jowensblack48 get real, when you have office relationships you risk your job and your career. Women will quickly report you to HR, have you fired, and black listed from furthering your career. Seen it time and time again. NEVER DATE WHERE YOU WORK.

I will agree with and I regret it

As a guy I agree...because you doofuses are ruining it for the one guy who the girls actually want.

...you mean like at a Mormon revival, or something? Single daughters to single mothers aren't nice to anyone unless they think that there is something in it for them. They learn this in divorce court from their single mothers. If she doesn't have a recent picture of her with her father, she is a defect, and you should run before the tears stop flowing when you ask he for one.

Or when she just has it in her personality. I've met women who would tease every guy, not necesarily bc she liked them, but because she was like that 🤷‍♂

@@samusranzer She has a single mother and does not have recent pictures of her with her father. These 304s learn this sort of gaslighting from their divorcee screech-owl mothers, scum of the earth that they are. It's not like this sort of thing just falls from the sky, but the apple never falls far from the tree. Capiche?

@@ViWiHH How old? ...British?

@@MidnightMark12 🗿

marriage or relationship

I think this is subconciously why I only pursue short term relationships. I'm genuinely terrified what might happen to me if I get married. But I suppose I'm hoping by the time I fall in love the legal system surrounding marriage get's overhauled.

@@Xenomorphasized It will never be overhauled! The crooked people within the crooked system are making a ton of money, and will prevent the system from ever being changed! watch the movie " divorce corp" !

@@Xenomorphasized Your instincts are completely correct about this, Xenomorph. Marriage offers not one thing to a man he cannot get without it except legitimacy for your children. And that is really the only good reason for it to still exist - especially for the wealthy men among us. For an average schmo like me, all it did was guaranty I would owe my ex wife 5 figures when I kicked her to the curb.

@@robertmaybeth3434 As an average schmo myself I considered just having children with the woman I eventually fall in love with without getting married, since in my country illegitimate children are treated identically in the eyes of the law and society thankfully (that's assuming I fall for a woman who would actually be ok with that lol). But then it occurred to me that if illegitimate children are treated identically by the courts then any legal binding between my partner and I would still heavily favour her if children are in the picture. I guess marriage and children just isn't going to work for me, even if a big part of me does want it. P.S. I hope your doing alright though man, I've heard horror stories about people in your situation.

I've been married 27 years. Your wife knows how to push your buttons. LOL

She knows you well it seems. Perhaps repay the favour? What's that, a cute waitress you say... allow your eyes to follow her along the isle. This will drive your wife nuts

😂😂

😂😂😂😂

Shave her head

Even if you read all the signs she’ll just ghost you anyway

r I hate doing research on their behavior like if they're some wild animals or some shit 😂😂

They don’t want to risk rejection by saying it. Even if there is a 1% risk lol

They don't know half the time. The guy gotta reinforce it.

Body language is a movement of parts of your body in certain ways but you have no idea that you’re giving away what in your mind through movements

Women are so subtle and elusive eh

Micro-expressions 🤓

But it was aphrodisiac bear spray 😆 🤣

she just likes the taste😉

😂

i had same sittuation and we didnt get together cuz it was hard to communicate with her and i was trying to get us to speak and to get to the point what we gonna do..... and she left the work and we had small fight for a stupid thing last day of the work ignored each other for 12 hours she didnt even want to speak with me she came to me hugged me intensly with additional squuiz and said it was nice knowing you. and she went... and there she went and the rest are just a great memories i have from us. work on it girl.... if you will wait for him too long it might slip away.. :/ dont be like me mad for not pushing slightly more to see where it would lead us..

@@4MyTube4Ever strike while the iron is hot. Life is short... we all have memories of the one that got away. In time though you'll meet someone where it all clicks and comes together. Success is the point where opportunity meets preparedness. If you have one but not the other you will only experience regret for what could have been. Live in the present so that you remain open to the opportunities that become available snd you'll be better prepared when they do arrive.

Your coworkers are not blind and stupid. They already know. In a work environment the male may be reluctant to proceed beyond a certain point due to the possibility of being reported to HR. If he's not married and you're interested and you think he's interested then you should make the first move, not wait on him. Try asking him to lunch instead of pretending you're in a romance novel.

Lol

She’s just a flirt/tease.. or she’s super horny and ready to take anyone she can get to bed her.

She’s for the streets

FAM@@sicksteenwolves5318

I know a girl like that too. She sleeps with those guys dude lol.

Yes, she is promiscuous, more than likely, don't trust it, don't do it.

Typically female logic

She sounds like Cptsd/personality disorder, they cant handle their own minds and weakness and project it onto you

This is quite common in Manilla, where the girls are cute, feminine, giggly, and adorable. In the west, they are aloud, mean, insulting, and embarrassing.

@@MidnightMark12 And overweight land whales..

@@JamesRobertson-fh1cs Yes indeed. *big, loud, mean, insulting, and embarrassing.

Fetch me a bucket!😂🤮

We men, don't get butterflies.

Just over look all that nonsense! Just take her back to the crib and tap her and be done with it!!! Stop all the excuses and drama of what they do or don't do!!!

@@josecfdc3240 You must have missed that first line there, 'buddy'.

Congratulations, you have made it to the friend zone. A person is rich and rewarded when they have friends. If you're looking for a possible serious relationship maybe try seeking out an autistic female who would be struggling with the same social environment situations as you. Good luck.

@@rosssmith9870 That's the 'No Divorce Zone'. Let some simp take the 'starter husband' depreciation hit. She'll be on Tinder soon enough.

If you got it all figured out, go start a pick up channel

That`s one of the nicest things I`ve ever read

Not particularly mate. I've worked in airlines, most of the ladies said hi to me all the time because they were (mostly) nice. I currently work in operating theatres and I am forever being stopped by the nurses for a conversation because they are (mostly) nice women. The one I'm taking out tonight for a date, her saying "hi" to me all the time was much the same as everyone else. That wasn't a good indicator of her crushing on me. The indicators were much like what this video said. I was spotting her looking at me when I was talking to others, especially other young attractive nurses. When we talked, she'd close the personal space very quickly if we were standing. She never pulled away if I was talking softly in her ear to her about things worth keeping quiet about. I taught her a little hand shake which she'd go out of her way to do with me if I was around. She laughed with me a lot more than any other bloke I observed her with. Although she is a reserved, introverted woman, her body language would open up completely when she speaks to me. And, the kicker, although she had to cancel the date twice (because nurses are a different breed with their shifts and their lives) she actively sought me out to reschedule (to tonight). We talk on the phone for long periods. In conclusion, her saying hi all the time by itself is not an indicator of attraction. That alone says almost nothing other than she's a nice woman.

Imagine thinking cooking food is attractive to women is the biggest secret ever 😂😂😂 you're 53 mate, you have about 25 years of life left, your secret getting out won't affect the world in the slightest nor will it affect your potential future "mates" mate.

@@Swwatter Well, cooking food does attract the ladies, no doubt. But I was not talking about that. I was talking about sorting out whether a lady is proper for you or not in terms of food. As I stated above, even though boys and girls cannot and are not supposed to be "just friends", not every boy is for every girl and every girl for every boy. I am talking about sorting out whether you are the sharing the same core with a certain lady, whether you are walking on a common path.

@@manos-oliveriversen2112 aah, that's absolutely correct. I apologise for not understanding what you meant on the first pass. Her hobbies and interests in a relationship don't matter. Neither does her favourite food. What does matter if you share the same values, as you've pointed out. Does she share the same world view, idealogical views, the desire to start a family? Then she's potentially the type for you. If not, then she's not. Thank you for clarifying your knowledge. I hope you find (or have found) a partner worthy for you 💪

@@Swwatter You are on a good way, but I am not quite sure you fully understood me. Actually, having the same hobbies and interests do matter. If you are, for instance, all into business and she is all about arts (or vice versa) will not help you understand each other very much. Both of you need someone to share the same spirit, to be able to tell you "that what you did is good, but if you add this and that, you might improve the possibility of getting across the message you want to convey." (And mean it.) You both need someone to help each other evolve. The point is, all too often we do not realise that we have a message for each other. I am talking about the subconscious SIGNS that the one or the other person is right for you. After decades of being approached by flaky ladies, fake profiles on Facebook, people where an alarm went on in my mind as soon as I met them, people that all the signs of the universe showed that they were karmic for me but decided to make their life with someone else, I decided to rearrange my priorities and decide whether a lady is for me or not depending on whether I see her eating the same food as I do. (And I am not talking about eating the same food on a date. I am talking about chance encounters.)

I don't think Chicken Shawarma with extra Tahini will help her rid herself of the dreadful definitely getting raped feeling.

I can relate to that! I'm autistic as well!

Don't overthink it. Just learn it with patience, and it will start to become easier to pick up on. I've missed alot of connections being doubtful but that's not a bad thing it's a learning experience. I could of turned out a bad storm if I knew this at that time. Second guessing yourself and hesitating can be the biggest obstacles. If you like her and she's talking with you don't wait until Christmas to ask her somewhere, it can literally be anything. Getting told no is only verbal sound if you don't let it get to you. Regret of not knowing will stick with you for a long time my friend. Take the chance for an experience.

​@@muscleman369 Thank you for the encouragement and advice, king. About a year ago we reconnected after maybe 5-6 years apart and I've come to realize that I fear losing her (again) more than potentially being rejected. I've worked security at several big events, almost drowned, actually died twice, and never been afraid or even worried, but asking her out is somehow terrifying. But we are both going out doing some very mundane things together on Wednesday, plan on telling her that I really enjoy spending time with her and that I'd really like to keep on doing it. Though knowing me it will be even less elegant due to stress... :) Regardless if I've misread her eagerness to help me out at the office with things I don't really need to help with, her always being there with encouragement or a much needed piece of advice, our chats about absolutely nothing, and general gut feeling I have of her being interested in me as well, regardless if I've misread all of that, at least I'll know and be able to move on and get closure.

Damn I have a high functioning 10yr autistic son . I hope the dating game not cruel for him the way things are

​@@DeepEnd-sm3uw just prepare him for the worst because unfortunately some don't care if you're autistic.

Stop thinking of women as fish you're trying to catch for starters. Women are more like sport fisherman with lures and men are the sport fish (You're the catch, brother). If you find that she acts around you in a way she doesn't act around other people, then it's about you. Of course, if you only ever see her one on one, imagine yourself as the best trophy fish in the whole lake and she's trying to win the championship. If she's doing everything she can to bob in your orbit, then that's your cue. Now, to be clear, some women just like a man's attention and those teasers ruin it all for everyone because she's not actually interested and the second you bit the bait, she cuts the line and drives off. So the best you can do is pay attention if she's bobbing around you and, if you are interested, act on it. Otherwise, move on with your life. Not all fish bite all lures, not all lures are intended for you and not all fisherman are acting with sportsmanlike conduct.

Yup they play games

@@CarlosGarcia-tv4rk the ones that make these type videos never say how they know it means they like you. They just say if she does it thats what it means. But how do they know that, wheres the proof. Also their definition of "like" is much different than mine.

@@abouthisbiz4330 true "like" is different than being interested

Nah bro, the trick is that a girl has to do three or more of this behaviors at the moment you are interacting with her in order for you to know if she is attracted to you or not. If she is doing one behavior and that’s it… then don’t reach to the conclusion that she is attracted to you… that’s the trick

Love to hear when people are learning lots of great things from the videos!

Glad to hear you found it helpful! Good luck!

Some are avoiding because they are afraid you might realize

If only girls would do the same for us guys but nope you need be attractive to get there attention.

So glad to hear that! There's some deeper dives on body language coming soon!

The plants appreciate the compliments!

Well if you just go there a lot and she starts to notice you, maybe she thinks you're stocking her. Same thing happened to me. A girl kept coming into where I work multiple times a week for months, then one day I just mean mugged the fuck out of her and I never saw her again.

​@@grantwerner7332that doesn't sound quite right

That looking thing will only get very attractive guys. They make long eyes contact or stare to the attractive person. If u behave normal. That means u should also get these signs from almost every other woman. If not , more likely she don’t trust or feels u are danger or behave improperly

You will❤

I had another woman several times at the school pub in university blatantly stare at me until one time she found an excuse to talk to me and insist that we dance. I didn't want to dance, and she wouldn't take no for an answer. Well, the dance was short and awkward, and she never talked to me again. You know, ladies, not everyone's into dancing. It was do painful! She kept saying, "Look at me in the eyes!" No thanks.

@@youbetcha6880 man that would be so uncomfortable if you were on the spectrum

​@@youbetcha6880 sounds like you're a really fun guy 😂

@@youbetcha6880what’s wrong with looking into eyes though 🦸‍♂️

@@youbetcha6880 u could just i am not in the mood for a dance but only in the mood for a kiss .. u drag her..

😅

Before she come to u to talk or u spot her at distance looking at u , she will have romantic interest

😂 dang if she was hot with the wig on maybe u could get her to use a bunch of different wigs to spice things up

She might have looked good bald.

@@te9591 Haha im bold also.😂

@@birdpee8699 yeah, so quit discriminating and bust those cheeks.

😂😂😂😂😂

I'm a firm believer that the whole process of attracting a mate is primarily based on deception. It's a game of odds. Let's face it, some are better than others at winning the game

@@hopefulvoyage could be. And also deception for many reasons aside true attraction eg the feeling of being wanted, attention, have the image of being chased etc

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Thank you!

Thank you so much!

Sounds like a positive

Make humor and live in the present with her. When she give off more sign proceed and lead further. When lacking this, u will get nowhere unfortunately

She liked you dawg

@@sludgerat666 Or perhaps his credit card..

@@sludgerat666 i mean its pretty dam obvius, i just need the validation, bcs im that kind of guy, also i suspect is a way of trying to get into my head, i have been practicing concius internal silence for a while now, and if whats she wanted to acomplish as in, for me to think about her, it goddam worked lmao

​@@jamesRay-iv3etim getting pretty good at not thinking, its just that this particular vid made me think of that lol, also i did not search for this vid, it appeard first on my recommended

U shouldve kissed her

She comfortable with you, could be good or bad.

@@bellmane45 Yep, either she is super into you or sees you as a puppy. It's been 17 years, so not relevant to me, but always hilarious to think about.

Also while she was try to see my eye color she got within an inch of me and didn’t show any signs of not wanting to be that close