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@VolatilisAzure Жыл бұрын
As a guy I don't recommend seeking relationships with a woman where you work. the risk is NOT worth the reward
@ddome1991 Жыл бұрын
Well, I can confirm that! After a breakup it's going to be damn hard, especially if you're having a hard time dealing with the situation.
@jowensblack48 Жыл бұрын
Get over it when you work somewhere long enough you aren’t going to get along with everyone. It’s all what you make of it. The reward could be more worth than the job ever was.
@VolatilisAzure Жыл бұрын
@jowensblack48 get real, when you have office relationships you risk your job and your career. Women will quickly report you to HR, have you fired, and black listed from furthering your career. Seen it time and time again. NEVER DATE WHERE YOU WORK.
@brightonbryantamangani6226 Жыл бұрын
I will agree with and I regret it
@emotionalsupport Жыл бұрын
As a guy I agree...because you doofuses are ruining it for the one guy who the girls actually want.
@louiep702 Жыл бұрын
It’s hard when she’s just a really nice person to everyone
@MidnightMark12 Жыл бұрын
...you mean like at a Mormon revival, or something? Single daughters to single mothers aren't nice to anyone unless they think that there is something in it for them. They learn this in divorce court from their single mothers. If she doesn't have a recent picture of her with her father, she is a defect, and you should run before the tears stop flowing when you ask he for one.
@samusranzer Жыл бұрын
Or when she just has it in her personality. I've met women who would tease every guy, not necesarily bc she liked them, but because she was like that 🤷♂
@MidnightMark12 Жыл бұрын
@@samusranzer She has a single mother and does not have recent pictures of her with her father. These 304s learn this sort of gaslighting from their divorcee screech-owl mothers, scum of the earth that they are. It's not like this sort of thing just falls from the sky, but the apple never falls far from the tree. Capiche?
@MidnightMark12 Жыл бұрын
@@ViWiHH How old? ...British?
@hleloG Жыл бұрын
@@MidnightMark12 🗿
@disgruntledconservativevet1798 Жыл бұрын
As a divorced man I don’t recommend a relationship with a woman until the court system changes. Never enter into a contract with a woman if she gets rewarded to break it.
@wop27848 ай бұрын
marriage or relationship
@Xenomorphasized8 ай бұрын
I think this is subconciously why I only pursue short term relationships. I'm genuinely terrified what might happen to me if I get married. But I suppose I'm hoping by the time I fall in love the legal system surrounding marriage get's overhauled.
@evorider36897 ай бұрын
@@Xenomorphasized It will never be overhauled! The crooked people within the crooked system are making a ton of money, and will prevent the system from ever being changed! watch the movie " divorce corp" !
@robertmaybeth34346 ай бұрын
@@Xenomorphasized Your instincts are completely correct about this, Xenomorph. Marriage offers not one thing to a man he cannot get without it except legitimacy for your children. And that is really the only good reason for it to still exist - especially for the wealthy men among us. For an average schmo like me, all it did was guaranty I would owe my ex wife 5 figures when I kicked her to the curb.
@Xenomorphasized6 ай бұрын
@@robertmaybeth3434 As an average schmo myself I considered just having children with the woman I eventually fall in love with without getting married, since in my country illegitimate children are treated identically in the eyes of the law and society thankfully (that's assuming I fall for a woman who would actually be ok with that lol). But then it occurred to me that if illegitimate children are treated identically by the courts then any legal binding between my partner and I would still heavily favour her if children are in the picture. I guess marriage and children just isn't going to work for me, even if a big part of me does want it. P.S. I hope your doing alright though man, I've heard horror stories about people in your situation.
@stevenhoughton1406 Жыл бұрын
I went out with my wife last week and we bumped into an old friend and my wife was constantly playing with her hair while talking to him. It drove me mad because she hadn't touched her hair all night except when she was talking to this guy.
@rosssmith9870 Жыл бұрын
I've been married 27 years. Your wife knows how to push your buttons. LOL
@SemeshkoV7 ай бұрын
She knows you well it seems. Perhaps repay the favour? What's that, a cute waitress you say... allow your eyes to follow her along the isle. This will drive your wife nuts
@vaibhav_aryan286 ай бұрын
😂😂
@petroleumlife9285 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@duncanhills5264 ай бұрын
Shave her head
@IaconDawnshire Жыл бұрын
Girls need to quit with the body language and just be up front with us by telling us directly. "I like you."
@brianwaller7383 Жыл бұрын
Even if you read all the signs she’ll just ghost you anyway
@lem3579 Жыл бұрын
r I hate doing research on their behavior like if they're some wild animals or some shit 😂😂
@derekspence724110 ай бұрын
They don’t want to risk rejection by saying it. Even if there is a 1% risk lol
@IkaikaArnado10 ай бұрын
They don't know half the time. The guy gotta reinforce it.
@sionefolau150910 ай бұрын
Body language is a movement of parts of your body in certain ways but you have no idea that you’re giving away what in your mind through movements
@PaulMiller54 Жыл бұрын
I wasn't sure about her vibes but then she helped clear things up by pulling out her bear spray ...
@Joyanima Жыл бұрын
Women are so subtle and elusive eh
@klanks21 Жыл бұрын
Micro-expressions 🤓
@clayne10 Жыл бұрын
But it was aphrodisiac bear spray 😆 🤣
@davidhenningson4782 Жыл бұрын
she just likes the taste😉
@brentbeatty4171 Жыл бұрын
😂
@apseudonym Жыл бұрын
here are some things I do around him that I don't do around other men: run my hands through my hair, bite my lip, touch my face and neck, straighten my clothing, play with my necklace, use a softer voice, smile whenever he comes close to me, give him compliments on his ability (he really likes this), and ask him for help and advice, often about things I already know but I just want to be near him or hear his voice. I am quieter when he is around because he calms my chaotic energy. he responds by running his hands through his hair, giving intense and prolonged eye contact, keeping his eye on me when I'm not looking at him, getting closer to me physically, exuding protective vibes, facing his whole body towards me when we're talking (my body is usually turned to the side), mirroring my body language, initiating "accidental" touches like when we are handing objects to each other, and just being very gentle, which he is all the time but more so with me. we are coworkers, and we are trying not to let other people catch on that we like each other.
@4MyTube4Ever Жыл бұрын
i had same sittuation and we didnt get together cuz it was hard to communicate with her and i was trying to get us to speak and to get to the point what we gonna do..... and she left the work and we had small fight for a stupid thing last day of the work ignored each other for 12 hours she didnt even want to speak with me she came to me hugged me intensly with additional squuiz and said it was nice knowing you. and she went... and there she went and the rest are just a great memories i have from us. work on it girl.... if you will wait for him too long it might slip away.. :/ dont be like me mad for not pushing slightly more to see where it would lead us..
@davidhenningson4782 Жыл бұрын
@@4MyTube4Ever strike while the iron is hot. Life is short... we all have memories of the one that got away. In time though you'll meet someone where it all clicks and comes together. Success is the point where opportunity meets preparedness. If you have one but not the other you will only experience regret for what could have been. Live in the present so that you remain open to the opportunities that become available snd you'll be better prepared when they do arrive.
@rosssmith9870 Жыл бұрын
Your coworkers are not blind and stupid. They already know. In a work environment the male may be reluctant to proceed beyond a certain point due to the possibility of being reported to HR. If he's not married and you're interested and you think he's interested then you should make the first move, not wait on him. Try asking him to lunch instead of pretending you're in a romance novel.
@danmyname11 ай бұрын
Ha...my friend has been giving me mixed body language, I decided to go all in now or never. I asked her if we can be friends with benefits and she said no 😂
@malcomdavila8 ай бұрын
Lol
@MrTripleXXX Жыл бұрын
It's a bit different if the girl is shy. I used to have an extremely shy girlfriend and she was much too shy to show signals like this. Shy or socially awkward girls tend to AVOID looking at you if they like you. I got a question though. I know a girl who shows these signs to literally EVERY guy who isn't a complete stranger to her. Very confusing. Was at a party with this girl and she was touchy touchy, leaning in close but I noticed she did it with the other guys too.
@dimex3362 Жыл бұрын
She’s just a flirt/tease.. or she’s super horny and ready to take anyone she can get to bed her.
@sicksteenwolves5318 Жыл бұрын
She’s for the streets
@johnlewismusicc Жыл бұрын
FAM@@sicksteenwolves5318
@bringer-of-change11 ай бұрын
I know a girl like that too. She sleeps with those guys dude lol.
@ichigotheg.o.a.t10 ай бұрын
Yes, she is promiscuous, more than likely, don't trust it, don't do it.
@andrewrivera1908 ай бұрын
It’s never so simple. I was rejected by a girl I later found out, had feelings for me. She was a more logical person and basically deemed that despite the fact she found me attractive couldn’t see a long term relationship with me working out. She would blush when I saw her, play with her hair, and laugh at what I would say. She had this mindset that feelings make a person weaker. It’s a very bizarre dynamic to be caught up in.
@n2skcmo7 ай бұрын
Typically female logic
@Josh-zn7bx5 ай бұрын
She sounds like Cptsd/personality disorder, they cant handle their own minds and weakness and project it onto you
@Tam-lv1mp Жыл бұрын
Maybe girls stare at me because I’m just that spectacularly ugly.
@nateo200 Жыл бұрын
I could go on and on about body language but my favorite overall sign is seeing and otherwise reserved or serious women turn into a little girl around the guy she likes....and when you are that guy and you see that and you get the butterflies? The greatest feeling in the world!
@MidnightMark12 Жыл бұрын
This is quite common in Manilla, where the girls are cute, feminine, giggly, and adorable. In the west, they are aloud, mean, insulting, and embarrassing.
@JamesRobertson-fh1cs Жыл бұрын
@@MidnightMark12 And overweight land whales..
@MidnightMark12 Жыл бұрын
@@JamesRobertson-fh1cs Yes indeed. *big, loud, mean, insulting, and embarrassing.
@davebellamy486711 ай бұрын
Fetch me a bucket!😂🤮
@penguinman10006 ай бұрын
We men, don't get butterflies.
@donaldwillis629711 ай бұрын
Experienced older men know all these subtle cues. What’s stopping us from responding to those cues is younger women are shallow, superficial, and immature. Some men can handle the immaturity, but we have no time for shallow, superficial women. Be there, done that. Older men love to flirt, just as much as women. Last thing, women cause drama. Older men hate drama.
@LWRC11 ай бұрын
Just over look all that nonsense! Just take her back to the crib and tap her and be done with it!!! Stop all the excuses and drama of what they do or don't do!!!
@elementaleighteight Жыл бұрын
Me: high functioning autistic. 32 yrs of social retardation. Then i suddenly caught on to how women communicate. I learned near the rest in several months. 34 yrs old now. All the women at work adore me and none have me.women follow me at the grocery store. I'm 5'7 and probably an 8/10 at best. Confidence brothers.calm and cool. Be one of the gals from time to time and the rest of the time a silent monolith of intelligence/strength and eye flirting them to death. Never individually call out a woman but very occasionally and very noticeably. The rest of the time yell into the open about..whatever. All the women Will listen and it's extremely effective to speak to all of them at once and none of them.make them chase you my brethren
@MidnightMark12 Жыл бұрын
@@josecfdc3240 You must have missed that first line there, 'buddy'.
@rosssmith9870 Жыл бұрын
Congratulations, you have made it to the friend zone. A person is rich and rewarded when they have friends. If you're looking for a possible serious relationship maybe try seeking out an autistic female who would be struggling with the same social environment situations as you. Good luck.
@MidnightMark12 Жыл бұрын
@@rosssmith9870 That's the 'No Divorce Zone'. Let some simp take the 'starter husband' depreciation hit. She'll be on Tinder soon enough.
@Agent.Wadsworth10 ай бұрын
If you got it all figured out, go start a pick up channel
@tagomago21789 ай бұрын
That`s one of the nicest things I`ve ever read
@k2dae142 Жыл бұрын
If you at work and she makes sure she gotta say "hi" to you all the time and each time she sees you..
@Swwatter Жыл бұрын
Not particularly mate. I've worked in airlines, most of the ladies said hi to me all the time because they were (mostly) nice. I currently work in operating theatres and I am forever being stopped by the nurses for a conversation because they are (mostly) nice women. The one I'm taking out tonight for a date, her saying "hi" to me all the time was much the same as everyone else. That wasn't a good indicator of her crushing on me. The indicators were much like what this video said. I was spotting her looking at me when I was talking to others, especially other young attractive nurses. When we talked, she'd close the personal space very quickly if we were standing. She never pulled away if I was talking softly in her ear to her about things worth keeping quiet about. I taught her a little hand shake which she'd go out of her way to do with me if I was around. She laughed with me a lot more than any other bloke I observed her with. Although she is a reserved, introverted woman, her body language would open up completely when she speaks to me. And, the kicker, although she had to cancel the date twice (because nurses are a different breed with their shifts and their lives) she actively sought me out to reschedule (to tonight). We talk on the phone for long periods. In conclusion, her saying hi all the time by itself is not an indicator of attraction. That alone says almost nothing other than she's a nice woman.
@manos-oliveriversen2112 Жыл бұрын
Attention, gentleman, a word of notice! I totally understand Anna's good intentions. But, as someone who has been 53 years in the friendzone and suddenly is being hunted by flocks of women, many of which with we want completely different things, even if a lady shows us that she wants us - subtly insinuating it or directly saying it out loud - chances are that not every woman might be for us. Also, please be aware that subtle signs can be easily misread: An open body language might just mean self-confidence. That she is an open book might just be her character. Playing with her hair might just reveal discomfort or nervousness. And touching others is a very common thing with the ladies here in Greece, without insinuating anything sexual. I have been through all this. So, I have found my peace of mind through a simple solution: Food! And no, I will not go into more details, because otherwise it is like a fisherman giving away the secrets of fishing. And then no fish will bite anymore.
@Swwatter Жыл бұрын
Imagine thinking cooking food is attractive to women is the biggest secret ever 😂😂😂 you're 53 mate, you have about 25 years of life left, your secret getting out won't affect the world in the slightest nor will it affect your potential future "mates" mate.
@manos-oliveriversen2112 Жыл бұрын
@@Swwatter Well, cooking food does attract the ladies, no doubt. But I was not talking about that. I was talking about sorting out whether a lady is proper for you or not in terms of food. As I stated above, even though boys and girls cannot and are not supposed to be "just friends", not every boy is for every girl and every girl for every boy. I am talking about sorting out whether you are the sharing the same core with a certain lady, whether you are walking on a common path.
@Swwatter Жыл бұрын
@@manos-oliveriversen2112 aah, that's absolutely correct. I apologise for not understanding what you meant on the first pass. Her hobbies and interests in a relationship don't matter. Neither does her favourite food. What does matter if you share the same values, as you've pointed out. Does she share the same world view, idealogical views, the desire to start a family? Then she's potentially the type for you. If not, then she's not. Thank you for clarifying your knowledge. I hope you find (or have found) a partner worthy for you 💪
@manos-oliveriversen2112 Жыл бұрын
@@Swwatter You are on a good way, but I am not quite sure you fully understood me. Actually, having the same hobbies and interests do matter. If you are, for instance, all into business and she is all about arts (or vice versa) will not help you understand each other very much. Both of you need someone to share the same spirit, to be able to tell you "that what you did is good, but if you add this and that, you might improve the possibility of getting across the message you want to convey." (And mean it.) You both need someone to help each other evolve. The point is, all too often we do not realise that we have a message for each other. I am talking about the subconscious SIGNS that the one or the other person is right for you. After decades of being approached by flaky ladies, fake profiles on Facebook, people where an alarm went on in my mind as soon as I met them, people that all the signs of the universe showed that they were karmic for me but decided to make their life with someone else, I decided to rearrange my priorities and decide whether a lady is for me or not depending on whether I see her eating the same food as I do. (And I am not talking about eating the same food on a date. I am talking about chance encounters.)
@Beantastrophe Жыл бұрын
I don't think Chicken Shawarma with extra Tahini will help her rid herself of the dreadful definitely getting raped feeling.
@bryanmccallum4614 Жыл бұрын
This was very helpful! I noticed these in a girl that I met Friday night as I have known her for a while. It has been 4 months since the last time we seen each other. This really clears the air for me ! Thank you Joyanima!
@genechronister7085 Жыл бұрын
Her eyes! A portal to her soul! Awesome vid!
@sweatilaa5325 Жыл бұрын
As someone who is a little bit autistic, body language can be extremely confusing and difficult to read at times... usually I just think that I'm over analyzing someone's body language since I don't really understand it at times and just move on, especially when it's from someone I really like, never knew these things were anything to look out for
@MountainManEriksReactions Жыл бұрын
I can relate to that! I'm autistic as well!
@muscleman369 Жыл бұрын
Don't overthink it. Just learn it with patience, and it will start to become easier to pick up on. I've missed alot of connections being doubtful but that's not a bad thing it's a learning experience. I could of turned out a bad storm if I knew this at that time. Second guessing yourself and hesitating can be the biggest obstacles. If you like her and she's talking with you don't wait until Christmas to ask her somewhere, it can literally be anything. Getting told no is only verbal sound if you don't let it get to you. Regret of not knowing will stick with you for a long time my friend. Take the chance for an experience.
@sweatilaa5325 Жыл бұрын
@@muscleman369 Thank you for the encouragement and advice, king. About a year ago we reconnected after maybe 5-6 years apart and I've come to realize that I fear losing her (again) more than potentially being rejected. I've worked security at several big events, almost drowned, actually died twice, and never been afraid or even worried, but asking her out is somehow terrifying. But we are both going out doing some very mundane things together on Wednesday, plan on telling her that I really enjoy spending time with her and that I'd really like to keep on doing it. Though knowing me it will be even less elegant due to stress... :) Regardless if I've misread her eagerness to help me out at the office with things I don't really need to help with, her always being there with encouragement or a much needed piece of advice, our chats about absolutely nothing, and general gut feeling I have of her being interested in me as well, regardless if I've misread all of that, at least I'll know and be able to move on and get closure.
@DeepEnd-sm3uw Жыл бұрын
Damn I have a high functioning 10yr autistic son . I hope the dating game not cruel for him the way things are
@noyb12345 Жыл бұрын
@@DeepEnd-sm3uw just prepare him for the worst because unfortunately some don't care if you're autistic.
@Immovableobject917 ай бұрын
Every time I see videos like this, it reinforces the fact that nobody is into me. It is what it is. Lmao
@007REAPER007 Жыл бұрын
Womens body language is so subjective specially if the girl is naturally very flirty or very nice, I knew a girl who would jump in my arms when ever she saw me but she never had any interest in a romantic relationship, my friend used to have a GF who used to look at me all the time when she thought no one was looking but had zero interest in me, she ended up cheating on my friend with several people, either she was sizing me up to cheat with (I highly doubt) or I was just that ugly to her like when you drive by an Accident on the road, some people cant help but look loll.
@Cade805 Жыл бұрын
I love the random ps4 in the background 😂
@brianbrino4310 Жыл бұрын
Awesome Anna, I never miss any of your hints discovering one or two but also testing my experience as a way of testing myself! Blessings and lots of love and light to you always!❤❤❤
@themanfromvolantis Жыл бұрын
As an autistic male, i ALWAYS, without exception get it wrong. Either i think she wants to date me when she doesn't, or worse still, i think she isn't interested, only to discover, years later that, "oh yeah, everyone knew she fancied you. We just assumed you were gay when you weren't interested" Me - But.... I didn't... I thought...
@mpclepto182Ай бұрын
Stop thinking of women as fish you're trying to catch for starters. Women are more like sport fisherman with lures and men are the sport fish (You're the catch, brother). If you find that she acts around you in a way she doesn't act around other people, then it's about you. Of course, if you only ever see her one on one, imagine yourself as the best trophy fish in the whole lake and she's trying to win the championship. If she's doing everything she can to bob in your orbit, then that's your cue. Now, to be clear, some women just like a man's attention and those teasers ruin it all for everyone because she's not actually interested and the second you bit the bait, she cuts the line and drives off. So the best you can do is pay attention if she's bobbing around you and, if you are interested, act on it. Otherwise, move on with your life. Not all fish bite all lures, not all lures are intended for you and not all fisherman are acting with sportsmanlike conduct.
@ganis96795 ай бұрын
Hi from Cali 👋🏼. Recently came across your channel. Thanks for sharing these interesting, helpful, insightful videos! I try to watch out for subtle signs like these and things the ladies do and like from guys, having been clueless in the past lol. You tell it like it is and keep it engaging/lively. Good stuff. Stay blessed and be well 🙏🏽.
@john764116 ай бұрын
Thank you for this so when I see these signs, I can run away as fast as possible
@abouthisbiz4330 Жыл бұрын
Dont fall for it fellas. The problem is these videos are not giving you the full context. These ladies are trying to set you up for ultimate failure and possible expulsion and or fired.
@CarlosGarcia-tv4rk Жыл бұрын
Yup they play games
@abouthisbiz4330 Жыл бұрын
@@CarlosGarcia-tv4rk the ones that make these type videos never say how they know it means they like you. They just say if she does it thats what it means. But how do they know that, wheres the proof. Also their definition of "like" is much different than mine.
@CarlosGarcia-tv4rk Жыл бұрын
@@abouthisbiz4330 true "like" is different than being interested
@wolfnoggin216510 ай бұрын
Nah bro, the trick is that a girl has to do three or more of this behaviors at the moment you are interacting with her in order for you to know if she is attracted to you or not. If she is doing one behavior and that’s it… then don’t reach to the conclusion that she is attracted to you… that’s the trick
@MrakdNadvladar Жыл бұрын
Thank you Anna😊I feel like I'm learning more and more each vid🎉🎉😊A Ray of sunshine on a cloudy day. ❤❤
@Joyanima Жыл бұрын
Love to hear when people are learning lots of great things from the videos!
@dhscsa Жыл бұрын
Just proves women aren't interested in me. I've learned to accept it
@TheArrow198711 ай бұрын
I like videos like this because I know I simply don't want and need love relationship, I never did. Might be because I'm autistic even though I know there are some autistic people who want relationships. But I never felt the desire for it. I'm thankful I am that way because it means I would never go on a date with someone, means no stress no pressure, no anxiety because of a certain person. I love to be on my own at home, here I am safe and comfortable, and no one can disturb me or doing something bad to me. Also, so far I was never even able to make friends, but I realized years ago it's simply not worth it for me. I think this is where having autism even helps, as I don'T need others around me to keep myself occupied, I never even feel bored or lonely. I should be thankful for that and I am. I think I'm just not made for having friends. Keeping friendships alive might be much too hard for me and would cause too much mental stress and anxiety in me.
@paulau7981 Жыл бұрын
It always turns out they were just being friendly
@benwelch4076 Жыл бұрын
Now this is gold, especially for us 'dense' guys. Had to watch twice. Cheers all.
@Joyanima Жыл бұрын
Glad to hear you found it helpful! Good luck!
@dimex3362 Жыл бұрын
One thing I don’t like about channels like these is they don’t give examples of what they are saying. Just saying eye contact means nothing unless you show the kinds of eye contact to look for… as an easy example to give.
@strongbow217 Жыл бұрын
Her body language was pretty clear she ran as fast as she could down the street away from me
@ViWiHH Жыл бұрын
Some are avoiding because they are afraid you might realize
@TerreHauteRemoteGoat Жыл бұрын
Leaning in while wearing something low cut is an even stronger cue.
@kingkanoworldmedia4389 Жыл бұрын
This one girl I NOW like, is because of her smile. Even with or without those stupid masks, her eyes light up widen and her smile grows so wide, no joke. Because she works at a fast food, she does not touch her hair at all, but those smiles, make me smile and now she smiles even more. I finally got her to remove her mask, since they are not required, and I saw she was shy and or hiding. She had all of these excuses not to remove it, then after complimenting her smile, it was gone. her excuses was I am tired of getting pimples LOL yeah, sure. Now she is more open and laughing with me. There is more, but I am careful because she is shy
@Unknown1959511 ай бұрын
If only girls would do the same for us guys but nope you need be attractive to get there attention.
@bryanmccallum4614 Жыл бұрын
Wow this was a perfect video. Thing's that I was not aware of ! I've seen similar videos but this one really gets to the point. Thank you Joyanima! This helps my confusion. I would like to see more like this ?
@Joyanima Жыл бұрын
So glad to hear that! There's some deeper dives on body language coming soon!
@oddindian1 Жыл бұрын
When you physically touch someone there is a download of information physiologically. There are many articles about how primates reinforce communal behavior. This promotes and reinforces survivability and ensures tribal cohesion. This is true of mammals that are communal.
@tucomalanga826 ай бұрын
I'm a mature male and at work this attractive young lady started just talking to me and straight out flirting, well I ask her for her phone number and she said that it would bring her complications. Well I immediately apologized and said to her that I thought she was single and that was why I ask for her phone but she never answered. Two weeks later at work we accidentally touched hands and I noticed that her eyes dilated well me also and my heart was running lol , but she also came closer to me and it was a magical moment.
@saulroot1337 Жыл бұрын
Its simple really They always let you know and if your confused? Then they really isn't much point in pursuing? Today i went to a fund raising day and the women doing the face painting was beautiful ❤️ I got my face painted? Good Move . She asked if i was single and i replied yes ? When she finished i left ... 10 minutes later she came over and asked if i would like to meet up next weekend. We swapped numbers .. No confusion there is they ...
@solrosenberg6728 Жыл бұрын
A gesture I frequently find with eye contact is a bright smile with their hand out when they walk up to my car!!.....$$$
@DarrenBocksnick Жыл бұрын
Enlightened empowerment never sounded or looked so beautifully articulate….
@neilkellett732 Жыл бұрын
She never signals to me, we avoid each other, but we are locked externally and internally at every opportunity.
@bradmossman720110 ай бұрын
Two times with women who are of interest today. Unfortunately both married. The second one was, “Save me!” I have known her for 49 years. Not a passing acquaintance.
@Nave6W5 ай бұрын
If you can’t tell if she’s into you, she’s not. And if she’s doing any of these hints, she’s leading you on.
@PhillipplaistedPlaisted-qu7ncАй бұрын
Female magic get in our heads like black magic lol 😀
@jessejordache1869Күн бұрын
What if you're really accurate in judging when a woman is interested, but it's entirely intuition? Like you'll be talking to someone you just met and go "she just established me in a sexual context. I'm highly acceptable" but you have no idea how you know? I think there was a point when I was looking at individual cues: mirroring, looking at you until you look back, then holding eye-contact for a quarter of a second before looking away, repeat and keep repeating, the elevator glance (that one I think is an ogle and isn't meant to be communicated), touching their hair, folding their legs towards you, inhaling deeply when they hug you, until it's just this unreadable mass of "yes" "no" and "maybe". I went seven years without a rejection, and deliberately broke my own streak because it was making me nervous. I've even picked up on a girl moving me from "acquaintance" to "object of desire" while my back was completely turned. ?????? The mind can do some amazing things. Oh, you missed the mother of all micro-expressions: pupil dilation. Most of the time you won't see it directly because you won't be close enough -- it's just their eyes get shiny.
@tipslm7252 Жыл бұрын
Nice video excellent tips loved those two plants🌿
@Joyanima Жыл бұрын
The plants appreciate the compliments!
@garrettwilson26265 ай бұрын
There's this girl at my job that im interested in. See, we work at a restaurant. She works jn front of house, i work in the back (dishroom). She's a busser, so she clears tables and brings the tubs back to the dishroom. It is then that we'll make slight conversation before she heads back out. Every time i come into work and we see each other, she has a huge smile on her face followed by an almost flirty "heyyy". She always maintains eye contact whenever we talk, shes laughed at little jokes i make when they arent really "laughable" i guess lol. Bottom line is, i like her. Shes cute, friendly, good sense of humor, and above all, a hard worker. Now, i wouldnt say im ready for a relationship. Theres a few things in my life that im working on straightening out before i go the dating route. In the meantime, i only just wanna talk to her. Get to know her. Preferably outside of work. The problem? I don't know how or when to approach this. Then again, i could very well be overthinking this entire thing and she's probably just really polite. I have so many questions and so little answers. Last thing i wanna do is throw myself at her and ruin my possible chances. Or worse, make her uncomfortable. Any advice would help tremendously 🙏.
@samc73127 ай бұрын
I’m a woman and I like a guy. But I only have #1 sign when I’m around him and the rest of signs I don’t have.
@richardpoole19499 ай бұрын
I think if you work together and you both love it, like a Garden nursery, or interior decorating, go for it.
@peterhansen5096 Жыл бұрын
There is a girl who works in a shopping center where I live and she often stares at me. There has been some other things like observing me (it often feels like she's trying to analyze me/figure me out). She reacts if I react to a sms as if she's wondering "What's happening? What did the read on his phone?" Here's the thing that confuses me the most and which I've never experienced before: if you catch someone staring at you, that someone would likely look away right away. Most people do that. However...this same girl has remained eye contact with me for a few seconds when I look back at her (catching her in the act) before finally looking away. What does that mean? Is it because she's self-assured and not prone to being shy? Is she trying to show me some interest by keeping that eye contact? Like I said I cant figure her out. She is obviously aware that I am aware and it feels like there's this weird ping-pong thing between her and me. Maybe it's just her personality and maybe she does the same to other people. However...she acts a bit odd whenever she seems me and something is definitely going on
@grantwerner7332 Жыл бұрын
Well if you just go there a lot and she starts to notice you, maybe she thinks you're stocking her. Same thing happened to me. A girl kept coming into where I work multiple times a week for months, then one day I just mean mugged the fuck out of her and I never saw her again.
@SilkySouth11 ай бұрын
@@grantwerner7332that doesn't sound quite right
@Arvidje9 ай бұрын
That looking thing will only get very attractive guys. They make long eyes contact or stare to the attractive person. If u behave normal. That means u should also get these signs from almost every other woman. If not , more likely she don’t trust or feels u are danger or behave improperly
@rgc35296 ай бұрын
It's like observing sharks in the ocean . . . It's better to watch them from the safety of a cage . . . But if they start circling around its best to get out of there.
@stevehazard311011 ай бұрын
This stuff only has merit if you're the ONLY person she does this with. You need to see how she acts around other similar guys to you. If she acts the same with them, it's just her personality.
@doublelighting0 Жыл бұрын
It's seriously sad to hear this because the person who I like. The person is doing all this to someone else it's so sad for me Well I will find my own someday.
@ViWiHH Жыл бұрын
You will❤
@youbetcha6880 Жыл бұрын
Most women are so subtlely into me--if at all--that I totally miss it. Or, rarely, she's awkwardly into me. The most awkward woman into me? The woman I had never seen before who came up to me in the bar, took the drink out of my hand, grabbed both my wrists, and tried dragging me to the dance floor. And there was no dance music playing. She never got the dance from me.
@youbetcha6880 Жыл бұрын
I had another woman several times at the school pub in university blatantly stare at me until one time she found an excuse to talk to me and insist that we dance. I didn't want to dance, and she wouldn't take no for an answer. Well, the dance was short and awkward, and she never talked to me again. You know, ladies, not everyone's into dancing. It was do painful! She kept saying, "Look at me in the eyes!" No thanks.
@IaconDawnshire Жыл бұрын
@@youbetcha6880 man that would be so uncomfortable if you were on the spectrum
@Swwatter Жыл бұрын
@@youbetcha6880 sounds like you're a really fun guy 😂
@SaurabhKumar-ee4cb11 ай бұрын
@@youbetcha6880what’s wrong with looking into eyes though 🦸♂️
@Arvidje9 ай бұрын
@@youbetcha6880 u could just i am not in the mood for a dance but only in the mood for a kiss .. u drag her..
@nickwilliams6869 Жыл бұрын
If someone is flirting with someone I can tell but if there flirting with me I cant
@wrestlingfan41547 ай бұрын
Most girls I meet just stare they don't smile or say anything they stare for a long time
@dptenk1407 Жыл бұрын
Now I'm sure most of the middle aged and old women in the local grocery store like me. The problem is that I have 3 lives less than them, I am 17 years old.
@wilburosgoodwormsleyАй бұрын
I dont know about the hair thing ive talked to girls whove played with their hair while talking to me then start telling me how great her new boyfriend is
@scottfowler5244 Жыл бұрын
I love your accent. ❤
@tommacbride3654 Жыл бұрын
Sometime it's in th air, try not to wake up married or marring th same one twice. Cheers !💥💥💥
@Joyanima Жыл бұрын
😅
@adaptivegamer9905 Жыл бұрын
The girl I’m. Taking to is SO SHY I mean like a timid mouse! I have no idea if she likes me or not, she’s very timid but she’ll come up to talk to me all the time, smiles and talks with me more than anyone else, but she’s not the touchy type or anything. I’m so confused I’ve never messed around with a girl this shy idk what she’s comfortable with 😭
@Arvidje9 ай бұрын
Before she come to u to talk or u spot her at distance looking at u , she will have romantic interest
@birdpee8699 Жыл бұрын
Body language for me is the big Smile,Eyes and lastly the hair the last lady I spoken to had a "Wig" on. 😂 She was flirting with her hair due to the bad windy weather the "Wig" came off 🌬️ sadly had to give this one a big pass.
@zacinnc78 Жыл бұрын
😂 dang if she was hot with the wig on maybe u could get her to use a bunch of different wigs to spice things up
@te9591 Жыл бұрын
She might have looked good bald.
@birdpee8699 Жыл бұрын
@@te9591 Haha im bold also.😂
@te9591 Жыл бұрын
@@birdpee8699 yeah, so quit discriminating and bust those cheeks.
@theimmortalkaaligorkha6194 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@user-sr6bg4ip6e Жыл бұрын
That touch thing works this girl always seems to touch me when ever she is in arms reach sometimes I don't realize she is there until she makes the touch and she does this a lot this is a girl I normally do not think of as attractive but I for some reason cannot wait to see her or talk to her
@MrAnsonBear3 ай бұрын
So when u see her circling in, getting closer to you, trying to touch you..... Run brother, just run
@Dominic-sp9zp Жыл бұрын
I know this woman from my last job. I gave her friendly hug around her shoulders and neck. I initiated the hug first was that a bad idea.
@PlanetWomble Жыл бұрын
I have been deceived so many times I gave up.
@hopefulvoyage Жыл бұрын
I'm a firm believer that the whole process of attracting a mate is primarily based on deception. It's a game of odds. Let's face it, some are better than others at winning the game
@PlanetWomble Жыл бұрын
@@hopefulvoyage could be. And also deception for many reasons aside true attraction eg the feeling of being wanted, attention, have the image of being chased etc
@danadane2501 Жыл бұрын
I had to pause simply to acknowledge the words "precipice of uncertainty". I'm putting that one in the verbal artillery vault.
@PracticeMakePerfectMuslim9311 ай бұрын
as a man we should seperate between a relationship and work 😊
@wairuatapu6783 Жыл бұрын
I like your content it is helpful. Here is a suggestion, add some images to your advice so we can see and analyse to understand you. Men are visual creatures whereas many women are audible. You are talking to us in a way women interact, add pictures to your communication methods and you will get thru to a mans psyche. Learn some Midjourney and some ai skills and your offerings will take on a whole new dimension and be received with high praises too.
@dmace814 ай бұрын
What if she acts like she likes you but don't look at you and runs away. Yet still comes into where you work to see you. lol
@thenorm20942 ай бұрын
As a guy going through divorce do not get remarried
@ni_wink846 ай бұрын
This is also called the friend zone…. Make the mistake of thinking it’s more is exactly how you can make someone uncomfortable and cause a big problem
@JOHN-ei2tn6 ай бұрын
Appreciate you! Having Actual actors displaying your words , would have been more interesting .
@jamesnorthup77178 ай бұрын
Now I know what to do to keep people away from me!!🤣😂
@stanvalentine1839 Жыл бұрын
I don't think you realize men don't want to put up with entitled women with bad behavior. Just because she like someone now that will change within a week and she is gone. Just because a car has fancy wheels does not make it a good car.
@jimlockhart5632 Жыл бұрын
I need you as a wing girl Anna!
@byronryan4216 Жыл бұрын
🧚
@mrwizzardknight Жыл бұрын
I honestly think I’ve got more chance of winning a fencing competition than I have ever dating a girl of my dreams! 😜 And I haven’t got much chance of winning that either! :( Last year I never won a single fight at that competition! I’m THAT bad! And I’ve been fencing for 13 years! :(
@smferreiro2610 Жыл бұрын
Great video! I love the careful setup.
@Joyanima Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@blackcastle1599 ай бұрын
I know a woman who shows almost all these signs.... Aaaand she's got a boyfriend.... I give her zero attention outside of what is absolutely necessary in the moment we are in the same place.
@Djsplenda6 күн бұрын
i've subscribed
@Joyanima6 күн бұрын
Thank you so much!
@whitebathroomguy Жыл бұрын
Im a body mechanic..😂😂😂
@AlphaTiger49 ай бұрын
I don't fear rejection nor ghosting, rejection is Protection 🧿
@richmondcobbina2927 Жыл бұрын
What if she constantly repeats a certain phrase which makes you laugh ?
@Joyanima Жыл бұрын
Sounds like a positive
@LoveOneAnotherHeSaid8 ай бұрын
The only thought worth hearing on this "video" - Never enter into a contract with a woman if she gets rewarded to break it.
@ashleyrutters20867 ай бұрын
I had an chance to get kissed but didn't not recognize it so that was stupid
@justinbarhorst553111 ай бұрын
Leaning in I know women that do that when they just want to hear things in the room because it is loud.
@TheMilitaryandPolitics155311 ай бұрын
Thanks for the help, I am into my classmate and I have seen signs you have mentioned in her. I think she likes me but she's kind of shy to admit it.
@BrandonQueen-fe4rx2 ай бұрын
I subscribed
@jenniferliman66707 ай бұрын
Hi Joyanima, i have this woman who gave me signals that she likes me. But then, when i msg her, she replied in negative vibes. When we meet, i can see she is nervous and awkward. What should i do? Thanks
@JamesRobertson-fh1cs Жыл бұрын
You're wrong, There's never a guarantee she likes you....
@jonathanbowles257711 ай бұрын
Good morning Anna. A very good video. Body Langauge is a mine field. I always try to keep Good eye contact, let the other person speak first. I have tried my hardest to Understand how a woman thinks and behaves. I really feel it is so much better to friends with someone, than try to come on to them. I am a Gentleman. I Truely Respect and have complete Honor with women that meet. I am Single and very Happy with myself. But who knows??
@Arvidje9 ай бұрын
Make humor and live in the present with her. When she give off more sign proceed and lead further. When lacking this, u will get nowhere unfortunately
@lordgrimm2905 Жыл бұрын
Yesterday a woman did something really interesting, i noticed a good chemistry building up among a lot of very clear singals, and then when she got up to leave she kissed me on the cheecks and then she kind of exhaled onto my nose, it was kind of weird, i have never had a woman do that to me, it was pretty obvius it was on pourpose, she smelled nice and kind of maked my brain go blue screen of death for a solid 10 seconds, so anyone knows what was that about?
@sludgerat666 Жыл бұрын
She liked you dawg
@andersnielsen6044 Жыл бұрын
@@sludgerat666 Or perhaps his credit card..
@lordgrimm2905 Жыл бұрын
@@sludgerat666 i mean its pretty dam obvius, i just need the validation, bcs im that kind of guy, also i suspect is a way of trying to get into my head, i have been practicing concius internal silence for a while now, and if whats she wanted to acomplish as in, for me to think about her, it goddam worked lmao
@lordgrimm2905 Жыл бұрын
@@jamesRay-iv3etim getting pretty good at not thinking, its just that this particular vid made me think of that lol, also i did not search for this vid, it appeard first on my recommended
@CallOfDutySniperzzz Жыл бұрын
U shouldve kissed her
@pelestsetung Жыл бұрын
Thank you, Emilia Clarke
@SynthRockViking7 ай бұрын
Communicating with, The girl is litterally more heart-palpating than defusing a nuclear device 😫
@elizabethmaniglia42239 ай бұрын
Body language,eye contact,twirling her hair,women ultimately look for one thing,and one thing only,MONEY.
@mpclepto182Ай бұрын
Is there such thing as plutonic cuddling? For example, you and your friend group of half a dozen sits down to watch a movie and she plops down next to you so close your keys are jabbing you and then she puts a blanket over the two of you and then even puts her legs over yours? Like, is that a sign or is she just really into cuddling? 17 year old me needed the answer two decades ago.
@bellmane4511 күн бұрын
She comfortable with you, could be good or bad.
@mpclepto18211 күн бұрын
@@bellmane45 Yep, either she is super into you or sees you as a puppy. It's been 17 years, so not relevant to me, but always hilarious to think about.
@tylershaw4880 Жыл бұрын
Could I get some help with someone. We are on a smaller sports team together and this was at the state competition. For are team my event with 4 other guy which she mostly doesn’t like we’re out there and we had to pause halfway through and the first thing is she walks up to me and tells me how I could improve her parents were not near at the time they were getting breakfast at the concession stand and it’s was cold and wet outside and she chose to be out side instead of inside which was within 40 feet. Also she noticed that I never take off my sun glasses and the one time I did to put anti fog on them she noticed the day after I had them off but there was no was she could see my eyes someone else brought up that I never take them off but she continued to talk about for the next 4 hour while we were waiting for awards. She mainly wanted to know my eye color so I told her a brief description to see if she remembers that that will be determined next year. Lastly her parents really wanted me to go to the end of the year dance by saying it would be fun and other things like that. I would really appreciate it if someone could get there point of view if she is crushing on me or not with this story.
@tylershaw4880 Жыл бұрын
Also while she was try to see my eye color she got within an inch of me and didn’t show any signs of not wanting to be that close