This man is a responsible father. Compatibility is the issue I see here. Communication and manner of approach matters.

When the complainant called judge Funmi Mummy! I busted out with laughter 🤣🤣

This man mouth sweet as he explains his own part of the story. It takes two to tangle. Treat each other with respect. It doesn’t take much to treat a woman the right way. If you treat your woman right peace will be in the house

The lady doing the sign language is even tired of the couple, see the way she is stretching herself 😂😂😂😂

My biggest regret in life is supporting a man that has nothing to something now he telling me am not his class

I'm a man too but I think this man is very malicious and unpredictable. For the children however, they must swallow their differences and raise the children with integrity and love. I can't stand the cry of a mother where children are involved.

Age is not maturity , Understanding is paramount, Communication is paramount, Manner of approach matters a lot ,some persons don't know how to talk ,not everyone is meet you are meant to marry .

They should share the expenses half half. The woman should get a job to support

The children's welfare is really most important . Considering the parents as at present, separation is the best solution. The children are too young to seeing all this drama/wahala from adults that can't control themselves. Thanks to the Judge that could help in resolving this overwhelming case.

The look on Judge Funmi’s face when the woman raised her hand after she has passed her judgment is priceless! Like, you dey whine me? 😂😂

From the judge's decision, you can tell that she knows that the man is a responsible father that doesn't shy away from his responsibilities.. so there was no need asking him the regular question of "How much will you be dropping for their upkeep"

Immaturity is kills all relationships. They two have issues with attitude. Women are advised to get a work for themselves and it must not be dropped because of marriage.

This woman is pained😊😊when things were good she supported this man 😊it’s time for him to reciprocate 😊even pay her

You don't have money but you went and rent another house God is watching you, thanks.

Communication is key to a successful relationship. I can imagine how they both talk over each other in an argument 😂. Children are the ones that suffer in all of this.

It's the judge and the bit for me so good

It's good for a woman to have something doing

I thank God for my country Kenya. Child will remain with me till he or she turns 18 and above but this man I don't trust him men like this can frustrate the wife and manipulate her too

Marry poor man okwu..marry rich man okwu..nawahooooo.anyway rich man is better at least less thinking about children upkeep and future.

Men always remember somebody that has been suffering with you, no woman on earth is Angel, thanks.

Like i said last week they both get for body. At some point she had the upper hand in the marriage but the guys level don change now. they both aren't bad they are just from 2 different mindset that connected via needs at time they met. wish them all the best.

They were both trying to lie and cover some truths... Well done Judge Funmi

This man is something else, just imagine having business issues with him

Thank you madam may God continue to shower u with his wisdom.

Men are really trying! Pay for house rent , electricity bill, children sch fees, feeding, clothing etc 🥺🥺🥺 Make God Dey provide for una 🙏🏽 If you’re a woman and you have money, please support ur man!, if u have opportunity to work, please work, earn money and help out🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 It’s not easy🥺🥺🥺

It's well oo.. God bless you more ma for making things easy for everyone

I say this all the time, whenever there's a problem women always has many things to loose. Look at how this man is moving on very fast. Except for a toxic relationship and man who doesn't live up and take care of his responsibilities women respect your husbands submit it won't take anything out from you. I'm sure this man is already eyeing another lady and from look of things this woman don't want divorce or separation but see how everything is turning now.

my advice for both of you .record each conversation.you can use it as evidence.hard to tell who is saying the truth .

The whole story is due to poverty. Marriage has so many problems but poverty is one of them. I can't take sides because both parties are lying. But for the fact that the woman still wants the marriage speaks alot. It shows that she is the real problem. The man just wants to go😂😂

Even devil shouted Jesus when this man was talking

The man have another woman outside but no woman is Angel, thanks.

How will the woman and 4 children live in a small house and the man alone in 3 bedroom flat?

Teeth can not cut the boxer like that

Edo man no dey ever allow woman pay bills ooooo

Your honor, I think the man is not properly dressed. He should have realized he wasn't going to a nite club.

As per the narration, in my opinion the women have her attitude not only the man. I like the way Judge Funmi advised them to see marriage counsellor and bothe refused. The judgement was fair with both party for the man side he have to be responsible and for the women as the Judge mentioned she can come back if the man default all the responsible. GOD BLESS JUDGE FUNMI🙏💕

Well, the man should be listened to too.

This woman don't want to stay in that old house again 😂😂

JUDGE Fumi you be mama oh i just like the way you de JUDGE you are so patient and kind , Love you ma

As your Mummyship pleases! 😂

This man is dubious 😢😢 very cunny and a liar too So bad this woman has been going through a lot

I like this woman for her wisdom the wisdom of Solomon

What some men are going through in marriage is too much

Liar liar man! 😂😂😂😂. They were rolling on the floor begging him for her to come back? 😂😂😂😂😂 Dey play

THANK you for the intervention

Why are people making marriage look like bondage....

May we never ever be a liability to our Husband's. Ameen😢😢

If this woman goes on her knees now and say husband am sorry please come back …. this problem will end and the marriage will be safe

I really feel sad, when I see couples that were once in love, turned against eachother.

The man never loved her from beginning.She struggled to raise those four kids

They both have their various faults but the woman should be more patient and supportive to her husband for the kids

Edo men😊 if you jam them you jam agbagko... They can lie ehn 😂 and the way they will lie against you, everyone will hate you instantly. All is well

Thank God for civilized society this nonsense will never happen. This can never happen here in America. His pay check will be garnished he will not see a dime from it. His pay check will go for well being of those children.

Omo that man don get another woman outside that's it. I can't stay with such a pretentious man for up to 1 year.

"The man married five wives"...in this economy! 😳

The man is no longer interested in the woman the children is all he's after.

Landlord has 5 wifes. Don't divorce, just add😊

This man is a terrible person, how can you not buy clothes for them for that 3 days period they were with you. How much is bend down boutique that you had to wear them your own cloths for crying out loud.

The woman no dey work? Man can not do everything for you naw. Wake up woman

Such toxic individuals this two.

This my genda! 😅 she was the who packed out first and she is jealous now that the man is living in a duplex, she doesn't want anymore but the man has already moved one 😢 na waow!

The only thing I'm see here is a minor misunderstanding, the woman should respect the man

The woman is just envious about the new house

Sometimes I wonder how couple go from Love to Hate, it baffles me how they got to that point🤦 Serious Marriage counseling is needed before saying I do. Make God help us for this marriage matter ooo

These two were never meant to be from the onset. Life just happened.

What kind of crafty man is this ? Edo people and being dubious are 5 and 6. Judge funmi is patient ooooooq

This man showed many bite marks and other evidence in court and I didn’t hear Judge Funmi ask the woman why she inflicted all those injuries. The bias against men should not be institutionalized. I really love Judge Funmi, this could be an oversight.

Justice funmi and her facial expressions ☺️☺️

Lessons learnt. Manipulators everywhere.. always listen to both sides. An intelligent person has drawn a conclusion here. 😊 ladies keep ur home. Simple. Husband love ur wife.

😂😂😂 I know he’s saying the truth… about the fight

The woman is violent and man is a responsible person as regard the children.

This people are too funny😂😂😂😂 laughed so much

You cannot eat your cake And still have it!!

Marriage no be small thing may God strengthen dose in it

we wey never marry make una dey give us hope ooooooooo abeg

They two can work on their marriage. They need to go for counselling. They both don’t have interpersonal skills. They can’t relate with each other. They never did learn how to be friends and lovers. I hope they can sort themselves out and stay together. The lady is quarrelsome and the man doesn’t know how to calm her down so his solution is escape.

This man is just too rude the way he talked if you know how to have children you will know how to bring them up all this are minor issues.

How much them Dey pay that girl on suit wey dey use hand talk.

This man has to be more patient with his wife. He shouldn’t have moved to another apartment so quickly. Love is patient!!

I think i believe the man cos when the woman is talkin he did not utter a word buh once he started talking she started interupting and do side hmmm, stop this u are doing ooo, the woman is forming quiet and i hope am not wrong tho

Well done justice court

This woman is wicked. You can see that in her face . She is stubborn.

The moment a relationship becomes violent, I don't advise either couple to remain. Separation is key here but children warfare paramount.

I don't think the guy should pay for the house rent,what does the abusive wife brings to the table!? I can't pay my rent and pay hers

The hand writing on the wall that this man is manipulative , calculative & defensive… am not saying the woman is a saint, but you won’t understand how disappointing it can be when you invested so much in someone all in the name of Love and at the end of the day. Hmm. The relationship shouldn’t have happened not even having children

This woman really loves the man but the man is tired of her drama

Both of them lack understanding, and I think the man has gotten another woman waiting

These guys need therapy, this matter is not just court matter otherwise the children will suffer.

Unless you are facing life and death, you cannot take yourself and your children and leave your matrimonial home without discussing with your spouse. Where is the respect and fear of God in both of these people? Say no to violence and any form of abuse. If you sincerely love your husband, he becomes that sick and his leg is that infected… should you two not work together and find a better solution? This is part of the reason he no longer wants the marriage. You cannot use the children as pawn. Have self respect and move on. Both are claiming their business is not good. She is adamant about his business, what about her own business? When marriage is over, both are equally responsible for the children… Money money money… God help us. Children deserve to grow up in a safe home. In U.K./Europe, the social services will take the children away.

They both look troublesome

What I see here is financial crisis and lack of love.

This man is a liar..at the beginnning he said he didn’t move her but bcos of work that he sleeps with the boss and shop and come back to his home..liar liar

The court needs to stop laughing when a man says he was beaten

Why be say na only poor people dey come this court, where the rich men dey.

This man is looking for someone to manipulate. Yes , how much can a woman put up with ? When her man has fallen out of love with her . I feel that he has his eyes on someone else and are looking for excuses to Go on with his life. However, they both have faults but the woman is the one that suffered the most because she has to be responsible for those children especially when they are not well. So my dear sister, please seek God’s love . He is the only one that gives true love not man.

The worst thing to happen to a man is to marry a liability in the name of a wife.

This story off me ooo .lol I don't even know who's sincere with their confession here Judge Fummi is really doing a good job, because I've yelled so many times while watching her patience in listening to all these stories isn just amazing

Women should keep themselves busy. Work, take care of yourself and the children. If you are busy you won't have enough time to see your husband misbehaviour. Men can be funny. Most of them have wondering eyes. Just ignore and focus on your work.

I'm not happy seeing marriage scartter like this how I wish this man can accept this woman back all what they need is councilor...

Why swallow their differences, and subject the children to all this abuse. It's better that the children have one bad parent than two bad parents.