I fully believe if ur momma wasn’t in that chair , she would have her child under control 😭

If I was talking to my mom like that she would’ve stood up that day 😂😂

"stand on that, oh i forgot you cant" is crazy😭

my mom was shot 9xs too and left in a wheelchair. there is no way in the world my brothers and i would do any of this to my mom. sometimes i feel like she asks us to do a lot but it’s just regular household chores. this girl needs major counseling and the mother needs counseling too. there are so many layers of trauma here

I don’t like how the mom’s feelings are getting disregarded. She has a valid reason to be angry. The daughter is a brat and is beyond disrespectful.

“Oh I forgot you can’t “ is a crazy thing to say wow

That apology with the smile and laugh. I wouldn't accept it either.

I feel this mother. That little girl is rude and disrespectful as hell.

She’s so disrespect & cringey she’s gonna look back on this and feel so embarrassed 🤦🏿‍♀️

she don’t need karamo. she needs BEYOND SCARED STRAIGHT

She really fooled this man into thinking she a victim I hate the fact that people don’t realize kids are just as manipulative and conniving as adults sometimes even worse 😂 some kids are just bad and want to be like they bad ahh lil friends, I can assure you 100% that this is the case for this young lady.

Why do I feel Karamo isn't fair on the mum. That woman is really hurt and her daughter also needs help. She's wild!!!

who else here from tiktok 😂😂

Nope. Blaming the mom all the time is CRAZY !!!!! Some kids really are smart enough to manipulate

"on my soul" ..gurlll I would've ran onto that stage so fast ta bop ha in da head !!

I grew up with a physically disabled parent who became restricted to a wheelchair at the start of my life. one thing that I know from my experience is that it’s more than chores. he would ask me to do chores that we both could do- but would make it my responsibility simply because being fully abled made the task easier, no matter how busy I was. and that’s acceptable every once in a while- but when you have a parent who recently permanently disabled, and hasn’t yet fully processed what that means- there’s this whole grieving process, mental health and social dynamic shift in their lives. my dad for example, had so much going on he didn’t consider how much he was putting onto me. He spent my childhood depressed, so my dad glued to the couch for hours not willing to shift to his wheel chair, would shout across the house for me to bring him things, water, soda, cigarettes, lighters, remote, phone, ash tray, snacks, full plates of food, whatever you name it. He’d do this all day, 7 days a week. eventually, when I was still pretty young he forgot what please and thank you meant. so he’s screaming my name across the house, and ordering me to grab something, and not saying thank you, multiple times a day. oh and if I said “in a minute” or “gimme a second” he say “do what I said, right now,” and if I ever said no, he would lose his mind call me everything under the sun starting with disrespectful and lazy through the R-slur and fat. it didn’t matter if I was busy with literal homework, he’d expect me to stop what I was doing and wait on him like a maid. when I got older I realized the disrespect for me and my time I became “disrespectful” right back. my mouth never got as lethal as this girls, but if it had I would’ve put my safety at risk, as my father had gotten violent with me for saying less. it was definitely more than chores because my chores where all still expected along with waiting on him hand and foot while he also expected perfection from a child because I was abled and it should be “easy.” I also noticed how the mom blew a fuse when the daughter mentioned mace and was using more intimidating communication tactics with her daughter in that moment and It was just way too familiar for me. as well the mother expecting the daughter to have adult responses mentally and emotionally while expecting her to stay in a child’s place socially. This may not be the same as my situation, but there is definitely so much more to this dynamic that I don’t think the daughter has the maturity or words to articulate yet. I hope they both get the long term help they need.

Stand on it????? She would’ve been standing right in the foster care system.

The daughter's apology wasn't genuine because she kept smiling. The mother feels helpless because she's immobile.

“Stand on it…..Oh wait you can’t” MY JAW DROPPED 😬

People are blaming the child but fail to realize it starts at home. Whatever you put into your child’s ears pours from their mouths. Although it doesn’t make it right for the daughter to be disrespectful to her mother.. I think it’s time the adults as parents take accountability for what they say and do to their children. Words hurt and they stick… these are learned behaviors that turn into anger and resentment because there is a disconnect in communication. If you cannot learn how to properly communicate with your children don’t expect them to know how to effectively communicate with you. It is your job to be the BIGGER PERSON (the adult). Even if it is hard, it is your job as parents to teach them. This is why children grow up hating their parents because their whole childhood they’ve felt like their parents hate them.

Child is hella disrespectful, but as we can all see, she do get it from her mama. Mom is ANGRY for what happened to her and her son as she should be. That incident would be traumatizing for all of us. Before she can have a relationship with her daughter, mom needs therapy to gain coping skills. I wish this family healing.

as a girl who used to act the same way, she definitely know what she doing, she just don’t care .

I've actually been in the same school as Mei'lan since 3rd grade and we were in the same class in 5th & 6th grade. She was known as the class clown that was always getting into fights and arguing/yelling with teachers. I haven't seen her since 7th grade, but when this video randomly popped up and I saw her face, I was so shocked. I've never known her personally but hearing about her family's situation is heartbreaking. I didn't see the full episode yet, but I'll definitely be praying for her and her family :((

The fact that he’s blaming her mom is crazy.. this lil girl don’t have a damn about her mom .. and he knows this

The daughter is mad disrespectful and as a teen myself she has no reason for coming out the mouth the way she does. Her mom needs personal therapy.

Mother hasn't accepted what happened to her, and neither has she healed from it. The daughter was put into a situation that took away her childhood. They both had to accept and heal from the situation

If i ever spoke to my mom like that, I'd have not been able to exist to watch this video today 😂😂😂😂

This really made me cry. 😢 I feel sorry for the mother and child. Both were robbed of something special. The mom is angry for what happened to her and the teenager is mad because she lost a piece of her mother. My grandmother was shot over 9 times and paralyzed when I was 8, she died 2 years ago when I was 34. I watched her be angry so many days because of her circumstances but none of her grandchildren disrespected her. I feel for this family😢😢

Her daughter said “stand on it . . . . oh you *CANT* 😮 I would’ve needed Jesus

Her apology wasn't genuine anyway so her mom didn't have to accept it. That girl is disrespectful as hell and should be grateful her mom is only in a wheelchair and not in a grave. You don't treat your loved one that way.

I went to school with her and would've never known this would be her life😢 she is an amazing singer just thought I'd put it out there❤ I'm praying for them 🙏🏽

She’s smirking, cursing in front of her mom. Telling her mom to watch her mouth. I see why the mom is angry because that daughter is wayyyy too disrespectful and she wouldn’t be in my home. Your mom is in a wheelchair and you can’t help with housework is crazy. People are justifying why a child talks to a parent like that, you don’t say certain things to your mom no matter how mad you get when you’re still needing her to depend on

when that lil girl said watch your mouth to her mama I lost it😬

This is so sad because you can tell they’re both dealing with unhealed trauma and they don’t know how to deal with it so they fight :(

She’s a direct reflection of her mother 🤷🏽‍♀️

my mum was like this. and I was like this child, bc she stressed me tf out, her words were hurtful, so I responded with her same attitude. Then I realized that I was doing that with myself and my friends who didn't deserve it. I started therapy and I got better. Guess who didn't. They both need to heal and be respectful and caring to each other. It is very frustrating that nobody listen to you, so I hope that they're both okay, specially that kid, because she wants to heal and got time to do it. I hope her momma too

That lil girl taking advantage of the fact that her mother in a wheel chair.. it ain’t just about the mother being mad about getting shot. She grown as hell

Listen…. Karamo’s face when she told the audience “y’all can stfu too” he wanted to jump out that chair😂🤦🏽‍♀️

It’s crazy how ppl are blaming the child for how she acts but look how her mother acts 🤦🏾‍♀️

The audience stopped cheering the moment they got their own piece 😭

She no longer views her as her daughter anymore she's done with her you can just see it

If mama wasn’t paralyzed she would have her under control I can tell.

“ Stand on that, oh I forgot you can’t.” is crazyy😭😭

That girl is a menace.

The mom is still dealing with the trauma of the shooting, and now, being a woman with a disability. She's got a lot of anger and can't hear anything. She wants to be mad at her daughter. She needs to deal with her anger. She is struggling to accept her Disability. Its heart breaking and it's a journey. I hope she heals. I feel so bad for the daughter, she's 14 years old. She's a child.

I hate when lil girls think this behavior is cute and acceptable

Still don’t give her a right to disrespect her mom she should take care her mom while she down and Unless she repent God will deal with her

Having her mom go through that traumatic experience ending in her being paralyzed and she treats her that way is wild. Mmhhmm CPS, go disrespect them and see how good you had it. Little girls like this reallyyyyyy bother me. The fact she just casually cursing and the mom just sitting there ( no pun intended), then I heard the mom talking….it makes sense. Both of them need healing.

The young lady is very disrespectful and wrong. She has taken advantage of her mother's situation.

The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree! The daughter talks just like her mother!

that little girl is grieving the person her mama was before she became paralyzed. she acts out because her mama hurts her. laughing and smiling is a coping mechanism used when you can't cry in front of others.

Y’all do not understand. The mother is supposed to set an example for her kids. And it doesn’t take a psychologist to know that parents have in influence on their kids. The girl is clearly under pressure from everything she has to do and the mother refuses to understand that. Specially in relationships like these you don’t know everything thats going on with your children. She could very well be struggling at school or having a hard time to do all the chores or whatever, and her mom doesn’t want to acknowledge that and say shes lazy.I’m not saying the mother’s feelings aren’t valid but she has to understand that as the adult you always have to be the more responsible one, that’s part of growing up. Notice how the mother even started shouting at the host, not with the same agression but still. She is easily angered and that little girl is taking after her. Kids don’t know how to show restraint, so her anger is being shown to its fullest. Notice how when the host started talking to her like a normal human she softened and even started saying sorry after disrupting him? Her laughing, smiling and being disrespectful is a coping mechanism. I know that because I did the exact same thing to my parents. She won’t even accept her apology and immediately cussed her out. Im not completely excusing her actions but the mom is stooping down to her level as an adult, she is to blame.

Not her telling the audience stfu and then saying "On my soul" is crazyyyyy 💀

That smirky apology definitely wasn’t enough for mom. That’s why she snapped. But mom also had this coldness in her heart for her daughter. Sad.

These kids these days dont understand a disobedient child will shorten your days of living 🙏

Parenting is the hardest occupation on earth. but when you are injured and broken physically and mentally and they are all that you have.. frustrations, tears, cursing, mean words, manipulations spicy emotions and brokenness comes out more often than. kindness and niceness. *hurt people hurt people* and everyone needs help because the entire family is crushed & broken.

Her cursing, her tone, the eye rolliing…she is beyond disrespectful.

She was rude before her mom was. She’s rude in school, she’s stealing out of stores and all the mom wants is for her daughter to respect her!

Oh my God. How can life be this level of messed up? I understand that Karamo can only do so much with the time that he has. And I appreciate the work he does. That child needs discipline. SHE WAS LAUGHING at her mother while she was "apologizing" to her... what? I hope that family finds the healing she deserves. I really do.

“Stand on it oh wait u can’t.” HAD ME DEAD😂

As a child who’s mom was paralyzed from the waist down when I was 8..I could never. Karamo didn’t acknowledge the hurt of the mother. That is why the mother is hurting. She laughed during her apology. As a child who is now an adult. I would never..this behavior was unacceptable and it wasn’t made clear enough from Karamo for me.

That little girl is smirking. We are in a different time, she doesn’t care. She’s clearly fooling Karamo.

I went through a hard time when I was 14, I’m 17 now of this year. I know exactly what this girl is experiencing. I fought, I got suspended, I got in trouble all the time, I cursed at my parents, I got into fights (even physically) with my parents, etc. Unfortunately, this girl has some trauma and when you’re already messed up as a child you mingle with the worst of the worst, especially in school. Whatever “friends” she’s fighting at school, she thinks she needs to be strong and stand tall to feel power because she has no control in her home life because she needs to be older in some forms of fashion. She takes that anger and that “strong” behavior back to her mother which is extremely disrespectful. I understand her mother has some shitty behavior and traits but come on, as a child you really do have a place as a child. There’s no reason she should be assaulting her mother and not doing the chores she gets payed for WAY MORE than I do in a month! This little girl carries a smug look on her face apologizing to her mother and it’s disgusting, she grew up too fast and she’s already pushed into this frame of behavior, at this point she’s just confused. I hope this mother and daughter truly make a comeback from this.

i hate these comments just coming for the daughter when she clearly gets it from her mother. that baby is hurt and her mom isn’t making it no better by talking to her any type of way. they’re both speaking out of anger and until her mom can grow up and fix it her daughter will keep doing the same thing as her

I guarantee you the school is NOT lying about her behavior. She’s extremely belligerent & disrespectful. Unreal!!

The mom is cursing back…the daughter brought her to down to her level. She is a child don’t do that. When you act like her she is going to treat her like everyone else in her life!

And she didn’t mean that apology, she smirking and playing and thinks it’s a game.

I was like this as a teen but I never cursed at my momma. Deep down I knew she was just tryna help but I didn’t want it. I was going through a lot of shit and she ain’t know nothing about it until I told her years later. Sometimes kids act out because they’re going through something deep down. I haven’t finished watching the video but I hope to God she realizes the pain that she putting her momma through. I put my momma through so much shit and realized that them so called people that I called friends, didn’t gaf about me…my momma did. Edit: they both need counseling! The momma needs to start respecting her daughter and the daughter needs to respect her momma. I understand exactly what both of them are going through!

That girl is disrespectful Karamo did not handle that correctly at all

That mother is going through it. My heart goes out to her and her children

“On my soul🙄.” That had me deadddd😂

Karamo is SO understanding omg. I love the way he tells them he understands them. Because the way that little girl was talking I was losing patience🤣

Everybody goes through something, this lil girl needs a reality check🤦🏾‍♀️

Y’all have got to stop blaming the mom all the way. The daughter came in rude asf in the beginning. Yes them mom probably has a big part into why she speaks that way but the way these kids are today, you could have a angel as a mother and they’ll STILL act this way.

WHEN SHE SAID “Y’all can shut the f*ck up too , on my soul “ I FEEL DOWN ON MY FLOOR LAUGHING SO HARDDD😂😂😭😭

“ we are survivors (the pain i her voice 😢😢)

OMG , THIS LITTLE GIRL IS GROWN AS HELL , I'M 50 AND I COULD NEVER TALK TO MY MOTHER LIKE THIS, I DON'T EVEN CURSE IN FRONT OF MY MOTHER, THIS IS DOWN RIGHT RIDICULOUS !

The fact that she said sorry while smiling just means that she’s not serious 😭😭

no respect given, no respect gave. this is the case here . both parties is wrong & daughter is getting it from somewhere. “I” believe even if the mom wasn’t paralyzed, they would be going through the same thing . Mom lacks accountability and her daughter mimics what she sees

As a person who has trauma with her mom like this ongoing I feel both sides so hard.

That child is having a traumatic inbalace, she needs psychological help.

Mom hasn't healed from what happened to her. It changed all of their lives! Her daughter is at that crazy age. I pray for them to find peace & healing.

The moms energy rubs off on the child‼️the child is also angry because that day changed her life as well

Children are a reflection of the person raising them. Not saying the girl is right for cursing and being disrespectful but we don’t know what is being said and done to her behind closed doors

no way the daughter is smiling like that the whole time. i couldnt take an apology from someone like that while they smiling about it too...crazy

I think sometimes Koramo excuses these teenagers bad behavior. They are bad kids, just admit it

I hear you on the teacher contacts. I be like damn, again?😂

Both are victims and both have feelings that are valid. But let's also be clear, that girl is a child, still learning, still making mistakes, and can still be redeemed. Mom needs an outlet as well. She's matching energy with a 14 year old. They both need help.

That child has some demons. She really needs to be prayed for. God help that family

The daughter is a mirror of her mother. Change your behavior, and then she will change hers. It starts with you, MOTHER!!

The daughter didn’t mean it with all that smiling and laughing

I see a lot of pains on both sides, please guys get the help and you guys can do it . Also sees lot of love ❤️ don’t let the anger and pain win, you two can do it

Imagine experiencing a home invasion, seeing your siblings shot and your mother ended up paralyzed. Karamo empathised with her because he sees a very hurt and traumatised child. She was expected to be "normal" about something so deep that adults break down over. Her attitude towards her mother and the audience is unresolved defensive anger and she only gives her mother the same energy back. I pray that they can heal from this.

Please get that poor girl some help. Seeing my mama in a wheel chair is no joke. It sets her off big time. That family NEEDS emotional support😢

The smirk on her face is a dead giveaway that there’s nothing genuine about her apology. I wouldn’t except it either.

KARAMO!! Your calm voice nature is everything! The mother straight said FU after her daughter apologized. The mother needs to grow up and the poor daughter needs attention and parental guidance while she's trying to grow up.

This breaks my heart and pisses me off. My mom was paralyzed from the waist down. The best mom in the world and she passed in the pandemic. I miss her so much. I pray this family can come together..😢

She is really is tired of her daughter…. I get it! Some people can verbally break you til the point they are 💀 to you and I get that vibe from the mother

My 13 year old sent this to me. She is so mad. She wants to cuss this kid out.

i feel for this mom so much… her feelings are valid & she doesn’t deserve to be shitted on by her daughter after going through so much…