It's the fact that Kate blamed Collin for having gum and getting gum on his bear when the adult in charge GAVE IT TO HIM. Like he was 3. He didn't know he wasn't allowed to have it.
@tkay795029 күн бұрын
Also - some kids get so attached to their stuffed animals (and Collin clearly was), that to treat their little friend like an object to throw away when it’s inconvenient is insensitive if not cruel! (Their aunt definitely shouldn’t have given them gum - that’s a choking hazard for young kids - but, like you said, the whole issue is on the adult!)
@tanyagsw792027 күн бұрын
@@tkay7950 I think in the full episode she said she didn't actually throw the stuffed animal away but it's still messed up that she pretended she was going to. A safe adult offered him something and he took it... why wouldn't he? I'm not sure why the aunt gave them gum especially without watching them with it but with as annoying as Kate is and as much as Jody babysits them I could definitely see her doing it on purpose just to make Kate mad lol. She probably had no idea Kate would blame and be angry with the kids about it because who does that?
@caitlynr729527 күн бұрын
The fact that Mady who was, what, 7? at the time had more sense and emotional maturity handling that situation - recognizing it was an accident and that Kate's reaction was way too much, and trying to comfort and defend her little brother - is genuinely so embarrassing for Kate.
@She_it_her18 күн бұрын
Even if he did know, kids do stuff they shouldn’t all the time. Kate reacts the exact way a parent shouldn’t
@LaraCroftEyes12 күн бұрын
Kate actually threw the bear away when cameras weren't rolling Alexis mentioned it one of the seasons of Kate Plus 8.
@CeltycSparrowАй бұрын
I WILL say that Jon continued hearing his children...especially when poor Collin sent him a desperate letter, written in crayon, pleading for his father to come rescue him from the institution his mother had thrown him in. He is now living with Jon (as is Hannah) and seems to be doing MUCH better than when he was with his Mom.
@tanyagsw792027 күн бұрын
I think all of the kids are so cute but I've noticed since they were little Colin and Hannah both have unique eyes. I don't mean it in a bad way but I think it's always bothered Kate
@maddiejoy6619Ай бұрын
I have a 3 year old boy whose teddy bear is his best friend. The part where she threw his bear away absolutely breaks my heart as a mother. My son would be heartbroken if he lost his bear.
@niamhmarie4713Ай бұрын
I feel like that’s emotional damaging to a child that small
@livelongandprospermary8796Ай бұрын
Peanut butter gets gum out :(((
@nikkio.9990Ай бұрын
She acted like peanut butter on a Teddy bear was the literal end of the world. Talk about making mountains out of mole hills, she a psychopath
@HidinginyourcupboardАй бұрын
Could have just cut the gum part out of the bear toy, jeepers
@xwannabeetinkerbellx28 күн бұрын
At the age of 30 I would be fuming even now if my mom touched my childhood stuffy
@jwehopeАй бұрын
What trips me out is how young Jon and Kate actually were. Growing up I had always thought they were in their mid to late 30s, especially since they went the fertility treatment route to have their kids. To me, that was always something older couples did after trying for years. To think that they had only tried for a few months and were in their 20s is so wild to me. I’m 29 now and can’t imagine having 8 children under the age of 10. Like..? No wonder their parenting styles were such a mess!
@AnnSmajstrlaАй бұрын
Kate is just a miserable person. Sure, John has his faults, but IMO Kate is 1,000x worse.
@edithnackers7127Ай бұрын
Jon shows empathy, that's the big difference for me.
@chrispleasantable28 күн бұрын
@@edithnackers7127Yes that’s what I love about Jon, he’s more empathetic and willing to listen to his children. Kate on the other hand is all about order and control
@Viteaification27 күн бұрын
kate is just a nag she whines the most out of everyone. she'll start an argument about nothing
@maryalicefike4704Ай бұрын
wait throwing up on command when mad is CRAZY 😂😂😂😂
@HopeGardner3amedАй бұрын
May be an anxiety thing, not so much they are mad just mislabeled anxiety.
@camilleanna2048Ай бұрын
Can confirm that Kate was a nurse before the show started. I have a family member who worked closely with her and apparently, she was a terrible person long before she was famous lol. I also went to the same pediatric dentist as the kids and one time we were there at the same time as Kate and the twins. She cornered the dentist and talked to her for like an hour, holding up the entire office.
@ashleynicolecooke4386Ай бұрын
Why am I not surprised?
@SoCalJellybeanАй бұрын
Am I correct in remembering that the pediatric dental office they went to was originally owned by Jon’s late dad, who was a peds dentist?
@mariec3527Ай бұрын
She seems like a total Karen
@camilleanna2048Ай бұрын
@@SoCalJellybean I think so, though I didn’t know that until Dani recently mentioned it in a video
@SjofnBM1989Ай бұрын
@@SoCalJellybeanYes. It was bought out by another dentist when he passed away.
@virgo1986fulАй бұрын
It’s weird how Kate didn’t go out with the boys she only went out with the girls
@lovefool.99Ай бұрын
She had plenty of boys only days
@katiejohnston988Ай бұрын
Total favoritism right there! She always favored the girls, it was so obvious.
@aricar8178Ай бұрын
I watched this show when I was a kid and seeing the bear scene as a child makes me so sad. Especially since reading a psychology of children book where it says ages 1-3, kids can't feel guilt and they discouraged trying to make them feel guilt as punishment at that age because it can mess them up...
@xwannabeetinkerbellx28 күн бұрын
Makes sense. Before age 3 all that’s there is survival instinct, Cry when something is needed,
@erinsmith5740Ай бұрын
My mom used to love Kate plus Eight. Even back then, she recognized how awful Kate was to Colin. It was all about Kate controlling and intimidating the children. Colin wasn’t cowed by her. If this is what was shown, imagine what wasn’t.
@mariec3527Ай бұрын
I remember when i came across this on TV one day because i was bored, and my mom walked by and saw a part of the episode, and this was before ( Kate & Johns Divorce) she straight out said " they will Divorce before those kids are 6 " 😂😂😂 Even SHE knew how dysfunctional and unhappy they were as a couple 😂
@jenniferdunn206815 күн бұрын
I’m actually cackling at Jon and Kate “hanging out in the kitchen talking”
@NoThankUBeQuietАй бұрын
I feel like Jon annoys me less because it seems like his outbursts are more rare and usually in response to Kate pushing at him. From what I recall.
@tabortoothtiger75806 күн бұрын
I'd be snappy and angry too if I had to deal with and be married to Kate.
@sarahmarie3317Ай бұрын
You sent me into a deep dive of watching this show again 😂 I spent all week watching in disbelief that this show actually shaped my childhood lmao I swear I was like 10 watching this every day 😂 I didn’t remember Jon and Kate hating each other so much 💀
@maddiejoy6619Ай бұрын
@@sarahmarie3317 me too. I watched this show constantly and thought they were a great family 😳.
@michaeldykstra4265Ай бұрын
Hi Dani. I just discovered your channel last week and I am hooked. You are the only youtuber reviewing episodes of infamous TLC content and as someone who group up with the "Monday Nights are Family Nights" era, this is both nostalgic and depressing. Regardless, I love your work.
@MyYoutubeChannelBabyyyy18 күн бұрын
“No. *She* and Maddie. 🙄” omfg
@frankreads861826 күн бұрын
Hearing about how different Colin is when he's away from Kate just makes me sad. It's one thing to be the least favorite child, but imagine your mom's dislike for you being broadcast to the world.
@sierrabutler5011Ай бұрын
DEFINITELY watch Kate + 8 when you get to it. VERY telling with all the stuff with Collin at that time.
@annb88106 күн бұрын
My family used to call it “Jon and Hate Plus 8” because she was so mean
@Emmaline17727 күн бұрын
How do you think aunt Jody feels 😂 ah this had me laughing so hard
@hahalove47Ай бұрын
Geez. Hearing that poor boy cry over his bear broke my heart. I've got 2 little ones and would never do something so cruel. I'm glad she didn't end up throwing it away, but that was awful!
@BabyJoXO3 күн бұрын
"They hang out differently than I do" this took me straight tf out!!!!😂😂😂 I watched it like seven times istg! Thank you so much for these videos🫡 I cannot fathom the stress watching so much of Kate would produce🥴
@lovefool.99Ай бұрын
I loved watching this show growing up with my Grandma. But we would discuss how NOT to be like Jon and Kate as a couple. She would talk to me about how partners should be to each other. Basically a how to not be a miserable wife or husband lol
@sydneyschulman90077 күн бұрын
as vile as the gum scene is, it is sweet how mady comforted colin. but alarming that a 7 or 8 y/o child has more emotional intelligence than a mother
@tkay795029 күн бұрын
I’m definitely very aware of how Jon may come off better just from our biased expectations for how ‘moms’ are supposed to be vs. ‘dads’ - though, I think part of why Kate comes off worse is that she tends to instigate the fights and has a clear need for control. Then again, women also tend to get stuck with extra responsibilities for managing their families, remembering important dates, etc., and that can look like being controlling - that is, one partner not doing their fair share can force the other partner into being the ‘bad guy’. I don’t know if this necessarily applies here (since Jon does clearly do a lot of the chores and kid-rearing), but that’s something to consider… 🤷♀️
@user-rc5bv1jl9gАй бұрын
I always look forward to seeing your videos Dani 🥰
@LaurenForstАй бұрын
It's also interesting to remember that most people don't think about them in at all anymore, I haven't thought about this family for a couple of years until this happened to pop up in my feed due to another video I watched
@pokemom4328Ай бұрын
Why is she constantly body shaming this man? Like i don't think i ever realized it growing up but i swear shes constantly shaming him and he probably has an ED because of the way she treated him sesh.
@IssynothereАй бұрын
Hey Dani, just wanna thank you for the closed caption, I have a hard time hearing. I’ve been binging your videos and the captions help so much.
@danixxgreenАй бұрын
I'm so happy you benefit from them! Even as a hearing person, I always prefer CC and love providing them for my viewers!!!
@kaylah9206Ай бұрын
11:44 you gagged me
@Art_thecl0wnАй бұрын
Ahahahaha oh my lanta. I thought my daughter was the only one who made herself throw up when she gets upset 😂
@ktg6403Ай бұрын
Love this channel so glad I discovered it! Every video is so good 🤌
@Michaelcollin-wu2ng5 күн бұрын
John just looks so f&@king defeated in these episodes. You can tell he is just hanging in there for the kids… of course Kate wouldn’t let that last long. And then she was free to brainwash her kids without anyone interfering .
@sleepygirlofficialАй бұрын
I was just thinking about your jon and Kate series! Thanks for the vids keep it up!!!
@8656737s2 күн бұрын
Kate is a classic narcissist. What did she do when the cameras weren't on? What a freak!
@chrispleasantable28 күн бұрын
Dani what you said at 7:04 made me think of what the character Z from the movie “Antz” said to Princess Bala, he said “What have you got to lose? I mean think about it, so you really wanna be Mrs. Raving Lunatic?”
@dyl180Ай бұрын
Never stop making videos, I love this channel
@HopeGardner3amedАй бұрын
I wonder if they go into the corporal punishment during the discipline episode. That shocked people when it was released via tabloids.
@em-sv1hf27 күн бұрын
They did and Kate lied and said she didn’t believe in it. You can often see her with a wooden spoon in her hand while dragging her youngests to time out
@stormystevenson4753Ай бұрын
If you do decided to start doing the episode of Kate +8 that would be awesome so we can see the difference that would be really cool and awesome
@debbiedebonair80295 күн бұрын
Colin looks so much like the dad , that’s probably one of the reasons she dislikes him. Too sad
@frankreads861824 күн бұрын
I can't believe how insufferable Kate is. Good God. How could anyone be ok with her behavior?
@kthomp38Ай бұрын
I used to love this show but now I am like. I could not be Aunt Jodi. She watches thd kids a lot. I have twins and when they were babies and toddlers it was hard enyto get a babysitter for 2
@winzie-hz7zkАй бұрын
THE WAY I INSTA CLICKED
@melslittlebows_k-12Ай бұрын
You should watch outdaughterd it’s a lot like Jon and Kate plus 8 but they have only 6 kids (that are all girls). they talk about abt financial issues and not having much baby sitting options.their oldest daughter blayke is 4 at the beginning the other five girls are quintuplets Ava ,Parker ,hazel ,Olivia, and Riley it has 10 seasons and is still going in 2024
@Supersoccerchic6 күн бұрын
Outdaughtered sucks. All the kids are spoiled brats and Adam and Danielle are so rude, especially to the fans. They literally say that people hate on them because they're jealous of them. I hate on them because all of their kids are brats.
@59mmmcookies27 күн бұрын
Love this series! My vote is please do Kate Plus 8 as well!
@SoulkeeperSoraАй бұрын
Been waiting for this video aaaaa
@jasander33Ай бұрын
Just found this series and so hoping you continue it!!!
@88mph8527 күн бұрын
I wonder if they had gotten couples counseling early on in their parenthood, maybe they would still be together?
@88mph8527 күн бұрын
She really needed it more though.
@MyYoutubeChannelBabyyyy18 күн бұрын
“It’s well known Kate doesn’t like Colin” what? 🥺🥺
@smashrawkz31122 күн бұрын
I love your recaps of all these different shows and hearing your opinions ❤
@nm0852Күн бұрын
Aunt Jodi had better been getting paid handsomely!
@annc60465 күн бұрын
I do feel bad for the baby when i see him crying over the bear, I understand kates reaction, because growing up we were banned from chewing gum or eating sunflower seeds in the house. My mother would have reacted just like kate unlike my dad because she would be the one that would have to clean the dam gum out of our chlothes and hair, not my dad 😅
@stumorningstar5170Ай бұрын
I just wanna know why they got married, and had kids😭😭 I wonder if they ever liked each other.
@melaniebrown6805Ай бұрын
She is horrible.
@chrispleasantableАй бұрын
I believe there was an episode in this season where they had a family movie night
@sharonsnyder8519Күн бұрын
Kate was and is a narcissist. It was obvious also that she favored Maddie, who coincidentally had Kates personality.
@jamielikzht9 күн бұрын
I don’t take out the trash, not because I can’t- I just don’t like to lol
@mistybethune911625 күн бұрын
i dont know how old kids usually are when they start using a scooter but my 20 month old nephew tries to use his sisters scooter its adorable he cant get it to move but he does get the idea of it
@nyalazah4677Күн бұрын
It’s funny seeing this & then seeing the accusations that Kate & Maddie made towards Collin if you ask me Kate always had it out for him.
@pagejames8754Ай бұрын
I dont understand churches that send the kids off to a nursery. In Catholicism these little ones are as welcome as anyone else during Mass. They are our brothers and sisters. And they can be taught with quality parenting to be quiet in a quiet environment. It's a necessary skill.
@Viteaification27 күн бұрын
its boring for them and church in protestant denominations can take up an entire morning. there's but so much patience a 3 year old has
@mollysmith122625 күн бұрын
I agree
@Supersoccerchic6 күн бұрын
@@Viteaification True but I wish they had the same thing in Catholic churches. If I ever went to a Catholic church, I'd make sure to have a place for my young kids to sit and learn how to behave and also have fun too.
@Pixel-Pop21 күн бұрын
He only annoys you less because you’re watching him being degraded nonstop.
@tessaract76952 сағат бұрын
I personally don't think it's because the standards are lower for men I actually think John goes above and beyond, late is not the "bad guy" for the most part imo John also disaplens the children well also being able to have a wonderful connection to most (at the time of filming) I think Kate not only gets way to overwhelmed easily I think she takes all a lot of the frustration out on John and not in a good way you can see John just kinda take it. As well as you can see that maybe at one point they did like to poke fun at each other and now Kate does it a lot more and when John does Kate does not like it
@theartofnina26 күн бұрын
1:52 am I going crazy or is the 3ds eshop loading sound effect playing in the background there
@dylpickled2 күн бұрын
I struggle sm with throw up and medical/surgery stuff and watched this as a kid. I’m struggling to watch you describe this last episode as an adult so Ik I hated it as a child, ick 🥴
@perezhernandez80974 күн бұрын
AND FOR MADY TO BE MEAN TO COLLIN IS WRONG SHE SAID HE'S THE BEHAVIOR PROBLEM CHILD IN ONE INTERVIEW
@DarciEngelman3 күн бұрын
They were my neighbors i hated Kate always fucking screaming
@marissapaige5701Ай бұрын
Maddy really had some behavioral issues, I just knew she’d grow up and be a criminal or something, she was abusive but also super manipulative
@prixe125 күн бұрын
Weird thing to say about a literal child. How are you beefing with a 7 year old at your big age?
@simply.samarahАй бұрын
16:36 why do I see a NACKED child on my screen
@GavynGageHudsynGentry4 күн бұрын
Well I feel guilty I don’t put gas in or take out the trash :/ I could and have but my husband just does it for me!! But there are things I do he doesn’t
@Supersoccerchic12 күн бұрын
I found it disgusting that Jodi literally says to Joel that he looks pathetic being sick as a 3 or 4 year old. How gross are you to say such a thing when your children are sick as well and only one of them is healthy? That's gross to me.
@pagejames8754Ай бұрын
Discipline makes your nervous? Parents who don't discipline are awful parents. Letting your kids do what they want without consequence is ridiculous. When they're little no one expects apologies to be heartfelt. You're teaching the idea on a basic level ... They learn more as they get older. But you have to start early.
@katnikkerkayla28 күн бұрын
sticking a kid into a corner and making them apologize as opposed to teaching them why something isn’t okay doesn’t make someone a good parent and inherently doesn’t make a person grow up to be a well equipped adult. you can literally use these kids and who they’ve all grown up to be and the relationships they do/don’t have with their parents as an example.
@spinergirlkristie4 күн бұрын
Always irritated me that Kate pronounced it as "are life" instead of "our life."
@jczbas29 күн бұрын
Idk who worse John or Kate also I never wanted to grab a belt so bad these kids too much 😂
@strawberrycherrybaby25 күн бұрын
Belting 3 year olds? Grow up for fucks sake 🙄 how embarrassing a child can rile you up so bad.
@Miaow61023 күн бұрын
Physically abusing kids isn't funny. Sorry for whatever happened to you, I hope you don't continue the cycle.
@MyYoutubeChannelBabyyyy18 күн бұрын
Why does Kate keep implying Jon is fat what is going ONNN