FIRST 24 HOURS OF SLEEP TRAINING | FERBER METHOD

FIRST 24 HOURS OF SLEEP TRAINING | FERBER METHOD | KAYLA BUELL

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4 жыл бұрын

Here we go! It's finally time to sleep train Jackson! Here's what the first 24 hours of sleep training looked like for him! Part 2 will be up soon! Love you guys! xoxox, Kayla
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@brennmartin297 Жыл бұрын

It means the world to me that you shared this. Doing all the research was giving me analysis paralysis, but watching you just do it gave me the push to just do it too. I was so afraid to sleep train and upset my baby, but it turns out that she was crying WAY MORE when I was intervening than when she started sleep training. Thank you!

@amathe11 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your first-hand experience with sleep training! I’ve read the books and all but it’s so much easier seeing it IRL. Always appreciate how genuine and authentic you are about sharing your life, hard to come by these days on KZfaq.

@daynagablonski9692 2 жыл бұрын

Hey babe! I just wanted to thank you, like whole heartedly! After watching this video and the following one I started sleep training that night. With in three nights we didn’t have to do any check ins for any sleeps! Thanks to you I knew exactly what to expect and felt like I knew what I was doing for once! This will be night 7 but we haven’t even had to follow the schedule as bub falls asleep with in 5 minutes anyway. You’re a godsend, so grateful. I’ll save this video for all my friends and my future babes! Sending love xx

@Y_Gymraes 4 жыл бұрын

On a lighter note from sleep training... can we take a minute to appreciate how super cute Jackson's Star Wars crib sheets are everyone? 😍 They're so cool! Seriously though, thank you for posting this Kyla. We're in the same situation, so it's reassuring to see your videos and read the comments from other mums 👍

@frenchyrodriguez9137 2 жыл бұрын

Crying rn as I’m sleep training and watching this video for support.

@lindajylee Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this video. We just started ST our third child and let me tell you, the anxiety and guilt we parents experience each time we go through this doesn’t get easier! Despite refreshing my memory with research, watching your video answered so many other questions and gave me the validation that I’m doing what I believe is right and helping my child in the long run. You reminded me that each child is different and it will get worse before it gets better. I especially appreciated that you walked through the naps as that is something that I didn’t see much info on. You gave me the confidence and validation that I was desperately seeking at 2:30am last night. 😅 so grateful to have come across your channel. Thanks again and wish me luck! 🤞🏼

@kelseyscott-miller8141 4 жыл бұрын

This is exactly what I needed to see! We are going through the same thing right now and this was so informative!

@aprilsummers9930 3 жыл бұрын

Here rewatching this while doing this with my 10 month old tonight. I’m late to the game. I tried at 6 months and then gave up. It took 30 minutes but he is currently asleep in his crib. Hoping he stays down cause my nerves are shot!

@kristin382 3 жыл бұрын

How did it work for you? My 9 month old needs to be sleep trained too.

@aprilsummers9930 3 жыл бұрын

@@kristin382 it worked in the sense that he will now go down to bed in his crib. But he doesn’t sleep through the night. He will stay in his crib until 1-2 am. Then I end up just bringing him in bed with me cause I need sleep!!

@lessehead 3 жыл бұрын

@@aprilsummers9930 So you keep rewarding the behavior that you want to stop. Why should he ever change? Good luck with that!

@aprilsummers9930 3 жыл бұрын

@@lessehead luckily I don’t need your validation that I am doing what is right for myself and my son.

@lessehead 3 жыл бұрын

@@aprilsummers9930 Happy sleeping!

@taniasaavedra9183 4 жыл бұрын

I’m a first time mom and my babygirl is a horrible sleeper...seriously finding your channel has been the best thing ever!!!!!🥰❣️

@savanahswafford9027 4 жыл бұрын

Same her girl

@babygirl655 4 жыл бұрын

Same here my baby boy is 5 month thinking of starting sleep training after his 6 month check up

@carrierequejo4357 4 жыл бұрын

Amaris Luengas I was in the same boat as you guys! I decided to sleep train and it was the BEST DECISION EVER! She is now sleeping through the night and barely cries when I put her down. I’m still doing it but I highly recommend

@lauradermatis1372 4 жыл бұрын

Iska just posted a video talking about that! If yours is a newborn I highly suggest you watching it, she got help from a professional and her baby boy started sleeping through the night immediately!

@sierrapipes9347 4 жыл бұрын

I know how you feel. My daughter was a terrible sleeper! We tried sleep training her many times. At 11 months she finally would give it up and would fall asleep on her own! And now she's a amazing sleeper! So it will get easier! You got this mama 💪

@GoodBadBeautifulLife 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you. So much. For making this video. My 5-month-old Jack sounds exactly like Jackson when it comes to sleeping. We're going to try sleep training and your detailed description of the whole process is going to help so much.

@brittanywhalen4436 4 жыл бұрын

I'm doing sleep training with my 5 and a half month old daughter right now, by you doing this vlog at this specific time is perfect. I'm a first-time mama and this is definitely not the easiest but it is definitely the most rewarding keep being a great Mama Kayla ♥️ thank you again for this video! Continued luck with your sleep training 🙏💤

@tziporahn6338 4 жыл бұрын

I legit checked three times this morning for this video, was so excited

@miriamherrera3202 2 жыл бұрын

Tonight was the first night I let my girl cry it out for 30 min she finally fell asleep. She just wouldn’t stay asleep in her crib when I put her down and I was so frustrated! Shes 6 months and I decided to try Ferber method tomorrow and this was the first video I watched. Thank you for the encouragement!

@tunes4kids 2 жыл бұрын

Yes my 2nd son was very stubborn! Separation anxiety was his issue but as soon as I put music on...it was lights out!

@Maccabeesful Жыл бұрын

2 years on and still so relevant! My wife and I are just sleep training our 6 month old and this video has been such a comfort for us both, as well as informative!

@lizfriedewald7874 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for keeping it real about how hard this can be.

@MarleneOrganization 4 жыл бұрын

Watching as I do some sleep training as well. Love every single video of yours Kayla 💕 whether they are 10 minutes long or almost an hour long, I’m watching it all 🤣

@n.moultrie6694 3 жыл бұрын

Such a good video! Started the ferber method a week ago and we finally have our evenings and bedroom back. So thankful!! And the baby is much much much more happier and rested!

@nazekb3756 3 жыл бұрын

This method was actually proven to be emotionally damaging to the baby as an adult

@glheath11 3 жыл бұрын

@@nazekb3756 no it hasn’t

@maryjanedavis9033 2 жыл бұрын

@@nazekb3756 mmm yeah that’s inaccurate

@RE5100 2 жыл бұрын

Mothers and babies are designed to be a mutually responsive dyad. Babies express their needs to the mother (or caregiver) through crying. Letting babies "cry it out" is a form of need-neglect that leads to many long-term effects. Consequences of the "cry it out" method include: It releases stress hormones, impairs self-regulation, and undermines trust. Yes the method will work but at what cost? Ever heard of GENTLE SLEEP COACHING, same results but without the tears.

@eduardapereira4222 Жыл бұрын

How is the naps now a day?

@caitlincollins8565 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for being so real and open. I love it.

@y.gonz_ 4 жыл бұрын

My daughter does good with sleeping but she hates sleeping on her back all of a sudden. She now is a side and tummy sleeper. She tends to be more comfortable on her stomach and she sleeps longer on her tummy. She just turned 6 months. Good luck momma. You got this! ♥️

@katelyndouglas6566 2 жыл бұрын

Your video gave me such comfort and confidence! After 3 days of this method, my 8 month old slept 7 hours straight!! I was so scared to try it at first and had so many questions. Your video was so helpful! Thank you so much❤️

@gracielabarrera4081 4 жыл бұрын

Jackson looks so cute staring at the camera after his first nap. You are absolutely right it’s not their fault, it’s a learning process for them.

@haleyn2215 4 жыл бұрын

I can’t relate with the night time sleep since my son is a great sleeper at night. But oh my gosh he does not nap. I feel your pain about not being able to get anything done!

@pitaariel1920 6 ай бұрын

Thank you for being so honest and transparent! this is going to be super useful for us. My babi just turn one and she sleeps so bad, she still wakes up every 2-3 hours

@unfilteredbeauty3889 4 жыл бұрын

My baby girl is 7 weeks old. I want to start sleep training so bad but she is still in our room. Thank you for being super honest about parenting. Love your channel.

@trinidadianbeauty1 3 жыл бұрын

I hope u didn’t try to sleep train that poor child at 7 weeks omg???

@victorialemmon36 4 жыл бұрын

You’re a great mom girl!! Everyone needs that separation from their children at night! My daughter is six and a half months old and we started sleep training her after watching your videos about sleep training Riley 😁 good luck with Jackson and I’m looking forward to more of your videos!! ♥️

@cheerleaderforlife77 4 жыл бұрын

Ok but on a side note even Jacksons cry is adorable !! This baby melts me 💞

@codybruns2544 2 жыл бұрын

Omg i cried when you cried. Thank you for the video ❤️ you have a new subscriber now

@MariamNouser 3 жыл бұрын

This was super helpful! My son is almost 3 months old and even though he naps on his own, he sleeps with us overnight.

@thegallofamily8689 4 жыл бұрын

I would suggest a sleep sack or wearable blanket! Like Zipadee-Zip. On their website it says that babies like it because they feel comfort when they feel can feel the edges. Idk I guess it imitates the womb but okay for older babies that can roll over. Worth a shot! My almost 4 month old wears the Love to Dream "Swaddle Up" since she didnt like being swaddled with her hands down anymore. She cries when I put her down but once i zip her up (and I do use pacifier) she goes right to sleep. She knows when she's wearing it that its time for sleep! I will transition her soon to the Zipadee-zip when she can roll over. Just a thought! It might help.. Love keeping up with you and your family!

@monicabernal698 4 жыл бұрын

Was looking forward to this one!

@chelseajimenez2057 4 жыл бұрын

Hey Kayla I'm a first time mom and i started watching your videos basically the second I found out I was pregnant. You have provided so much great insight on this whole mom thing and I really appreciate it, you've truly been a blessing. I've since given birth to a beautiful baby boy and you've inspired me to start my own KZfaq journey. Hopefully i can be a blessing for other people the way you have for me.

@shajuanhopkins1182 4 жыл бұрын

blessings to you and your child

@seaofrage 2 жыл бұрын

This is a badass video. Thank you for posting this!

@alexislankford3422 4 жыл бұрын

THANK YOU so much for making all these update videos/sleep training/ milestone updates. They're so helpful to me who has an almost 3month (on the 21st) and 2 yr old! Thank you for keeping it real about the struggles & tiredness so I dont feel alone & like I'm failing. This is life & it's real. It's hard but we love our babies & try our hardest. Your the best, hope your day goes great!!!

@colinecleans 3 жыл бұрын

This was really helpful and encouraging, since we are starting to sleep train our 5 month old!

@fransousa13 3 жыл бұрын

Hahaha when you said he doesn’t get tired of crying and he’s stubborn, you literally described my Benny 😂 I used these exact words talking to my husband about him yesterday.

@catiedobbs3254 4 жыл бұрын

When your voice broke, I started crying 😭 I am with you girl! When I did this with my daughter it was so hard, but now she's sleeping through the night. Love you and your sweet family ❤️ hope y'all are doing well

@tw2525 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing, I was watching your video while my baby cried for a whole hour until she fell asleep. Your video helped me not give up as I did yesterday when I heard her cry so bad my heart broke and I weakened and gave up. Today my baby and I did it, I got the first 3 and 5 then 4 more 5's and then 10 and 3 more 10's... She passed out after it. Thank youuuuuu

@sanchitajain7083 4 жыл бұрын

Finally!! Thank you so much for this most awaited video. Love you for all the efforts you put into making these videos so that we can benefit from them ❤

@sarahcrisafi Жыл бұрын

Tonight is going to be my first night doing this with my 5 month old. Your videos have being so helpful! My baby boy doesn’t even co sleep well and wakes up every 30 minutes so he desperately needs to learn how to sleep. I’m so anxious but I know this is going to be right for him

@oliviarand8453 3 жыл бұрын

Great video! I watched all the way through and you answered my nursing question. Thanks for making this video! New subscriber !

@_itslesley_4727 3 жыл бұрын

You’re doing a great job! I work as a nanny for an almost 3 month old. I have done the Ferber method in the past and one thing that definitely helped was not allowing baby to get so frustrated that he isn’t able to settle down. After the first few minutes, I go in and place my hand on their chest and once I see that they are calm, I leave the room. I know it’s hard to hear your baby cry, this will allow them to learn how to self soothe, before you know it.. they’re sleeping without assistance! Another tip would be to start sleep training during the day - first nap Use a sleep sack-, zen sleep sack is great!

@cuteloverlol568 3 жыл бұрын

Would you train them if they are swaddled??

@_itslesley_4727 3 жыл бұрын

@@cuteloverlol568 you can definitely train them if they are swaddled but I think it’s easier to transition to a sleep sack and train at the same time

@michellesteeves6890 Жыл бұрын

This helped me SO much! Thank you 🙏

@Jjlavids 3 жыл бұрын

Per a program I used and worked in 2 nights. feed before and after naps, every 2 hrs all day so they have all their calories by night. Feed before bath time, so their food won’t come up right before bed. Once they’re asleep, dream feed at 10:30 and then 3 am. Feeding them before they wake rather than waiting for them to cry is the trick. Then you wean off night feed but feeding a minute less everyday. *also* notice how your baby likes to sleep, on their belly? Side? Put them down that way*:( good luck mommies! 🙏🏽 they say the second is easiest and I just wonderrr lol

@soniale3113 3 жыл бұрын

Super great video! 🙌🏼

@jasmintanabe8276 2 жыл бұрын

This was so helpful!

@darrenedwards9754 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your vid I'm just researching about the furber method just done the first night with our 6 month old boy, not gonna lie it's super hard to hear your little one crying so much, but good to know it's not just us going through the hardship

@princesslo007 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for posting this! I have been doing a lot of research on sleep training (because it has been over 6 years since I have had to sleep train!) Know that you are helping so many mothers by posting this (even though it is hard!)

@brittanymiller8855 4 жыл бұрын

This was so helpful love these kind of videos! You do a great job Kayla!!

@Aimeeeeef 4 жыл бұрын

Girl your hair looks so good in a bun! You pull off the 'no sleep' look astonishingly well! Gorgeous

@KaylaBuell 4 жыл бұрын

Hahaha thank you! You made my day ❤️

@pixiesanchez9195 3 жыл бұрын

I haven’t started sleep training my little guy yet very close to it but I remember seeing another video where she suggested that you have a family member or friend or partner someone you can rely on at anytime during the night cause basically if you’re really struggling sleep training you ring up the person and they can help you through it or even come over or stay with you while you do it as it is incredibly hard by yourself so having someone you can talk to can help a huge amount

@melindamegan4193 4 жыл бұрын

My heart goes out to you💔 I'll be keeping your family and other families struggling with this in prayer. 🙏 By all accounts, I've had an excellent 1st baby, and still I am completely amazed by all parents having more than one and have so much more respect for them now.❤

@yadhprz3356 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you, thank you. I just start sleep training my 10 month even though it broke my heart but I definitely need to sleep to survive and to be a better mother.

@samanthadawson1490 3 жыл бұрын

wonder whos heart broke more. your childs.

@cynthianatalio7272 3 жыл бұрын

Hey how did it go? My baby is 8 months and imma start soon!

@piggybabytiffany 3 жыл бұрын

@@samanthadawson1490 do you have experience about your baby cry 10000times a night , and you and your baby can Not have a good sleep every night?

@sambito702 2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely! You need to take care of yourself to best take care of your baby

@siddiquabanu6792 4 жыл бұрын

I love your vlogs 😍

@amberhanson3320 2 жыл бұрын

Having cherish cry herself to sleep is the most painfullest thing I've ever had to do. I'm crying my eyes out as I watch this

@Roxana-ji4vx 3 жыл бұрын

Hey! I am new here , but i love your video, is so realistic . All the video i see on yt about sleep training is sf, the child on the second night is sleeping all night🤨 no struggling , nothing! But i love how u show us everything , how hard is for u , for baby , and how u admit that de baby dont sleep yet all night but its ok. Good job! I follow your video for sleep training for my baby ! 😘🤗

@ashb2404 3 жыл бұрын

Was it after Dad's check in that he fell asleep? I'm curious, because, once I passed on sleep duty and checking in to my husband my daughter started falling asleep quicker... Once she saw I wasn't the one responding to her cries she surrendered to sleep...

@El10O1 4 жыл бұрын

I really would use a sleepsack and a breathable cloth. It gives them a lot of comfort.

@teramonte7077 3 жыл бұрын

When it feels like you will loose your mind if you don’t get a nights sleep THEN you are ready for sleeptraining:) WELL DONE, Kayla👍🏻

@citychicken9949 4 жыл бұрын

Idk why anyone would give you hate, your kids cannot sleep in your bed forever. That's not healthy for you, your husband, or the child. My niece slept in her parents' bed until she was six and then they finally tried making her sleep in her own bed. I can't even imagine not having that alone time with my husband for 6 years. You're doing the right thing for your kids and your family :)

@u842 4 жыл бұрын

I totally agree my oldest sister had all four kids sleep with her. The youngest was in her bed until he was 13 years old. Ugh I could not go that long.

@littlegirl1989 4 жыл бұрын

How can you compare a 6 yo with a 6 mo? A baby needs his mother's warmth at night. It is a western thing to want a baby to sleep in their own room, it is not natural and goes against the baby's instincts.

@jellybun25 4 жыл бұрын

Something that has helped us beat the early morning wake ups is to choose daily wake time and continue Ferber until that time comes. Ours is 7:00 and so if she wakes up before (which she doesn’t anymore) we would continue pop ins until 7:00 and then once it hits 7:00 we go in happy and ready to start the day. Also we do a dream feed at like 10:30 and it helps a lot.

@jlam4618 4 жыл бұрын

I have a 3.5 month year old baby girl and I so look forward to your videos! Your videos have helped me so much!

@Dollytimebabies 4 жыл бұрын

Kayla at about 7 months i gave my son a little bottle of juice he used to hug it to him and go off to sleep!! Probably not at all good but it worked. I hope he settles into a routine soon

@hettastic 2 жыл бұрын

My cousin did that and it ruined her child’s teeth. She got cavities in every tooth. Juice is not a good idea.

@MaritsaElena 4 жыл бұрын

I love watching all your videos, they are so helpful! 💛I have a question tho, do you check if he’s wet his diaper during these check ins? to see if that’s why he’s waking up? Especially if you’ve nursed him before laying him down? And if you do, do you check every time you go in just to make sure that’s not one of the reasons why they are fussy at all? I love the sleep training method, am definitely doing this with my next boy due this October!

@isratchowdhury1525 4 жыл бұрын

I'm so grateful to you...when I was pregnant with my baby I was watching your videos saw how hard it is with Jackson..my son is 4 and half months old...he uses to a decent sleeper until he was 2 and half months old and I had to nurse him to sleep..every time he wakes up until couple of days ago I started gentle sleep training 🙏 we're still not there but we're making progress thank you so much for these detailed videos...😘😘😘 I learned so much from you..

@calvinliu6304 4 жыл бұрын

Love you kayla hope you have a lovely weekend. Stay safe

@insanityismynormalcy 3 жыл бұрын

Just want to mention that sometimes with full extinction, they stop way faster overall. I tried ferber at first, and she could go for literally hours because she was just reinvigorated every time I went in. When we tried full extinction, 20 minutes flat. Also worth mentioning that my baby would cry while being rocked to sleep as well, so we really weren't getting her to sleep cry free at any point in her life past newborn. But now that she's sleep trained, she only cries when she's overtired and only for a few minutes.

@terriwhite3372 4 жыл бұрын

My two are adults, and I truly don’t remember how we got through sleep issues. I think those times were a fog of exhaustion! Take care of yourself, you’re an amazing mama.

@KaylaBuell 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Terri! I really appreciate it! Of the fog of exhaustion is real lol we won’t remember any of this in a few years lol

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@charlottegourley5273 4 жыл бұрын

Have you considered giving him a lovey? My baby boy won’t take a pacifier either but we give his one of the Aden and Anais security blankets and that seems to comfort him and they’re thin and small enough that I feel safe. Just an idea! Go Jackson, good job buddy

@tamaraorourke2117 Жыл бұрын

I used your videos to help with baby #1 getting ready to Ferber baby #2… thank you for the videos

@janineangel6373 4 жыл бұрын

Great video! We co sleep with our 18 month old. He sleeps in his crib for his naps, he puts himself to sleep. However night time is much different lol We've tried to sleep train at night but it breaks my heart to hear him cry 😔 Hes also teething right now, the last molars are coming in. So we are going to commit to sleep training once hes done teething. When hes not teething hes a great sleeper but I know it's time for him to sleep in his room. My husband & I need our room back 😔

@u842 4 жыл бұрын

This video came in just in time. I have a 14 month soon to be 15 months and she's been in our bed since she was 9 or 11th months old. She doesn't sleep through the night she gets up to nurse but I know it's comfort nursing. When she was 5 months she was a great sleeper, she was in her own room sleeping through the night. When she hit 9 month she also hit regression and I'm not sure what happened. Well next week we are going to put her back in her room. I need sleep. I started to tear up when you put Jackson down for his nap. I know that cry and it pulls on the mommy's heart. Thanks again for the video. And best of luck. ❤❤❤

@sandrabarnard2308 3 жыл бұрын

Love watching your video's! Thank you for being so open and honest! :)

@trinidadianbeauty1 3 жыл бұрын

Lord I’m dreading this!!! My baby calls for me in her own little way! When she sees me she smiles! I can’t imagine hearing her call me and not going in! I’m exhausted but I’m her mommy and I just can’t bring myself to leave her all alone to cry. I want to sleep train her when she’s 4 1/2 months old but I don’t think I can! 😭

@veromoon3386 3 жыл бұрын

This is me at them moment. Pack n play, CO sleep, 30 min naps , up all night for feedings. I tried but I start bawling as aoon as he gets into second gear cries.

@jadoremel23 4 жыл бұрын

I’m crying thinking of having to hear my bby cry when I do this🥺

@rosestreamer8235 3 жыл бұрын

You don't have to do it, there are other methods or you can continue co-sleeping, what ever makes you and baby happy

@jackiemunno8841 3 жыл бұрын

You ABSOLUTELY DO NOT have to sleep train. I personally would never and I do not! My baby and I cosleep 🤍

@egorxeke3465 3 жыл бұрын

On our first born we bought a bigger crib and decorated his room and everything but on our second baby we have a smaller crib inside our bedroom that way when he wakes up we can hear him.

@JA420love 3 жыл бұрын

It’s ok to not sleep train. You can keep your baby happy and comfortable at night instead, that will bring baby confidence in your love and a sense of safety that will lead to more confidence and true independence that is based on love, not separation or stress. Check out “breastsleeping” by Dr. McKenna.

@89therrera 3 жыл бұрын

It’s hard mama but I promise it is worth it! It only takes a week if you do it right

@courtneylee5633 3 жыл бұрын

No hate momma, I’m doing this myself, I tried making the nursery the comfiest I possibly could for the lo. Even putting similar things or smells from my room in there too. I feel for you. My lo does this exactly! 😭

@carrierequejo4357 4 жыл бұрын

Watching your sleep training video with Riley helped me sleep train my daughter! And now she is sleeping through the night in her crib! Jackson’s sleepy eyes are so cute btw 🥺

@tamstreisel4751 4 жыл бұрын

My daughter would cry until she throws up and that even when I nurse her to sleep and she sleeps in bed with me. That's why I haven't been able to do any sleep training.

@nimoarab7137 4 жыл бұрын

Good luck! I am planning to start with my son tonight! Thank you for the motivation!

@erikar.5277 Жыл бұрын

Thank You for this video !!!!!

@tabithasanders5407 2 жыл бұрын

I just went and watched Riley’s video-these babies look EXACTLY alike!

@livingwithkayla2258 4 жыл бұрын

you are doing great kayla!! sleep training was rough on me as well but we got through it!!

@Jillydisco 2 жыл бұрын

Desperately sleep deprived with my 4 month old. Thank you

@autumnwilder9437 4 жыл бұрын

Been watching your channel for 5 months and I’m currently in labor with my baby girl! Her name is Riley as well💝

@KaylaBuell 4 жыл бұрын

Oh my goodness!!! Congrats mama!!!! Wishing you an awesome labor + delivery! You got this! Beautiful name too 😍❤️

@jessmenegakis7163 4 жыл бұрын

With my daughter we didn’t sleep train until 14 months and it was the best decision we ever made and I wish we did it sooner!! Up until that point she was still nursing through the night and waking up multiple times 😴 Best of luck with Jackson’s sleep journey, seems like he’s off to a great start!

@u842 4 жыл бұрын

My daughter is 14 months old also and sleep training starts this week. I've had her with me 24/7 even all her naps are with me the past few months. So that hasn't given my husband and I alone time. He says we may need to renew our vows 😂

@jessmenegakis7163 4 жыл бұрын

ashley Noff Sleep training definitely helped out marriage so much! Good luck with the sleep training. It’ll be hard at first but I promise it gets easier. You got this momma 💪🏻

@u842 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you Jess

@peaxnutii 4 жыл бұрын

Awesome Video!! Thank you for explaining the whole Ferber Method and when to go in and out, etc. We are getting ready to sleep train our little one and your video is going to be our resource. Great step by step. Can't wait for the second part. Don't worry about all the haters, you're doing an awesome job!

@Evee101 4 жыл бұрын

Your so awesome! Thanks for all of your advice and your vlogs. You have helped me so much as a first time mom. Thank you for always being honest and showing your journey. You give me reassurance that i will be ok!!! 💕

@MamaBear_2629 3 жыл бұрын

Whew, yeah I could NEVER do this with my daughter. I just could never listen to that devastating cry, ugh breaks my heart. You’re SUPER strong for being able to do this I would never and could never. Not for me, nope. Thankfully I LOVEEE bed sharing with my girl, she JUST turned 7 months old and I still nurse and I know they should be able and can go without nursing in the night but idk for me personally I love when she comfort nurses and snuggles next to me. I just genuinely enjoy her being right next to me💜

@HS-nc3ko 3 жыл бұрын

I co-sleep with my 5 month old at the moment and really love having her near me. Out of interest where does your baby nap in the day? I would like to put baby down for naps and co-sleep at night just wondering if this is possible. All naps in sling atm. Thanks!

@MamaBear_2629 3 жыл бұрын

H S hi there! :) I get what you mean completely!! For me what I did was for naps I slowly coordinated her eating schedule with naps. For example.. I would nurse her from 12:15-12:30pm and then in my bed I’d lay right next to her until she was sound out and then SLOWLY get off the bed. Of course I make sure there’s no way she can fall off the bed etc and then she naps there. It works well because she’s familiar with the bed and feeding her right before helps A TON!! I hope this helps a bit to get an idea of something to possibly try out! Good luck 💟

@amythompson88 3 жыл бұрын

Its not being strong, its being lazy

@AlejandraFloresAcaboDeLeer Жыл бұрын

I am doing the same training with my LG. Second night and .... it's really hard but I hope it's for the best.

@MsEnchanted137 4 жыл бұрын

thank you SO much for these sleep training videos. my daughter is a few days older then jackson (december 8th) and we started sleep training using the ferber method when she hit 6 months. I was really skeptical because she was the worst sleeper ever lol reminded me a lot of jackson she depended on me to sleep and it was so hard on both of us. I saw you use the ferber method with Riley so I tried it and holy crap was it life changing. I have anxiety so the first two nights were the hardest thing i’ve ever done I don’t think I ever cried so much lol but by the 3rd night she was sleeping from 8-5 which was life changing and now she sleeps from 8-8 and it’s honestly the best thing ever. i watched the videos you did with Riley to help me through those first few days when I REALLY wanted to just give in but you helped me through it and now I will recommend this to every parents I can haha I wouldn’t never known about this without your videos so thank you!

@keristafford6916 3 жыл бұрын

I just started this with my son tonight! He’s almost 10 months old and hasn’t went to sleep on his own at all or slept all night. However, he cried and I went in at 3 minutes, cried and I went back in at 5 minutes.....I DIDN’T HAVE TO GO IN ANYMORE AFTER THAT! He went to sleep on his own before the 10 minutes. We’ll see how it goes throughout the night!

@chas745 3 жыл бұрын

I just tried to do this but my husband said no more after 3 mins..😩 my son is 11 months 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

@ptrekboxbreaks5198 3 жыл бұрын

@@chas745 ahh you gotta give it time tell him lol

@user-et2fy8jv2v 3 жыл бұрын

You're doing great! I'm patiently impatiently waiting to start this with my son. Also. How fking rude of some of these people to make it seem like your a bad mom for wanting your privacy. There's NOTHING wrong with that. Love these videos. All videos!

@JulietteLatte 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so so much!!!

@LaraLlanillo-ci8bf Жыл бұрын

Watching and learning! April 2023

@trinidadmichelle001 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this honest video. I have tried to sleep train my 4-month-old last week and gave up after 5 minutes, I was ready to cry with her. But you gave me the support I needed. Thank you, thank you!! Wish me luck

@elsie.nguyen 4 жыл бұрын

Hi i have a question, if he settles quickly for nap, but wakes up 20-30mins after that, are you applying the check-ins to teach him to lengthen his nap? Thanks.

@YaYaPaBla 3 жыл бұрын

He’s precious 🥰

@GoPrissyGo 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for posting! Yes sleep training can be very emotional for parents to go through. I had a hard time imagining not co sleeping with my 1st baby. But sleep training really helped her sleeping and gave some great sleeping skills.

@GoPrissyGo 4 жыл бұрын

The Happy sleeper was the sleep method I used. Loved it!

@realrealwithkimmy1851 4 жыл бұрын

Hi Kayla plz answer as soon as u can. Is that a jumperoo jackson is in or an activity center. Plz list the one u have. I want to see if I need both ( the skip hop activity center & fisher price jumperoo).thanks alot ur amazing. When u delivered b4 me I thought I wld be left behind but ur taking me right along with u & helping me. 💕💕💕Am a first time mom😂😂