BoiseG what if they are too far away to meet

BoiseG good to know

LuchoGFly I'm shy too, it's hard. I think shy people are usually very nice though

LuchoGFly have you researched ways to stop stuttering? I wonder if there is anything in you tube.

BoiseG correct my friend. Oh sorry I didn't mean that ....as I have no friends lol 😀

Dating apps are not always the answer for lonely people especially introverts. I fear going on dates because I have failed a few times on dating apps. Most people don’t understand introverts very much even on dating apps.

@@teflondon6407 heard that shit all the time. Same old story, same results. It's gotten to the point where I just stop trying. But I wanna keep my head up.

Lol I'd love that, would be cool. Wish I had that in high school

I am an introvert i never know how to hang out with acquaintances and to actually make friends

I just moved into a new city that has a low population so its hard

Exactly...

that happens !!!!

I think we all been there

It’s a terrible thing.. ended a 12 year FAKE friendship last year.. found out she was secretly jealous and spreading my business to anyone who listened..

@@m.shevonmason4232 Did she try to isolate you by talking badly about others to you to give you a bad impression of them and then talk about you to those same people collectively? Did she ever start drama with your other friends or at least try and then turn around and not allow you to be around her friends or try to humiliate you in front of them by talking down to you or sharing confidential information or bringing up things from your past that you'd rather forget? Did she intentionally give you bad advice on things such as dating or dealing with guys? Was there ever a situation where she tried to get you to not attend school or quit school because she didn't finish? Did you guys ever drink or use recreational drugs together? Did she consume a lot of your time? Ask for help constantly but then when you needed help there was always an excuse? Ever have her point out what you did wrong and you responded fairly or with and apology while if you did the same to her she'd fly off the handle and somehow frame it in a way to say it's your fault? Ever had her try and get you to do things for her that could possibly get you into trouble or ruin another important relationship in your life? Has she ever tried to fuck your boyfriend or on the flip side accuse you of trying to fuck hers so she would never allow you to be around him whether they're together or not? Has she ever lied to you?(obviously) Has she wasted your time by telling you she has an event going on and when you showed up you found out it never existed? Did it always seem like if something good was happening to anyone she would say something negative and down play it no matter who it was? Did she often act like someone was jealous or "hating on her" although there was no reason to and more often than not the person she's describing wasn't even paying any attention to her at all? Has she always complained about the people who were simply trying to help her? - Terrible isn't it... I had all of these same experience with a person I called a friend for 13 years. I was too forgiving of his misdeeds and as a result he eventually walked away because he started to see that I was slowly growing tired of all that stuff. A sociopath he is so much so that he's become delusional. But life has been good since his departure. One thing I can say is I have the ability to love a person for who they are. He can not because he doesn't even love himself. He follows the crowd and what's popular but then loves to argue with others just so he feels like he know more than them. He is very much like a girl, that bitchy friend every girl seems to have and for a guy that's really really bad. It's bad either way of course but I guess you get the point. It's painful surely but it's crazy how you realize how wholesome life is all of a sudden when you don't have to deal with that disgusting shit anymore.

Because some lives are more important than others

Tbf the the internet hasn't helped, if there were no internet I bet there wouldn't be no where near as many lonely people as there are now

Billions*

@@DARKMADNESS666???

@@gavinburns9516 *YES* 💯

Unfortunately, I have to admit: *I couldn't possibly agree more!*_

being alone better than hang out with wrong people

I don't know your age but I completely agree and can tell you for a fact the world was (in my experience) a much friendlier place when I was young. I get very lonely too but don't really enjoy most social interactions. If people can put down their phones long enough to have one that is.

Seems like you lack faith that there are good people around, who would make good friends.

You sir, are exactly right 👌🏾👊🏾. lol I mean their not all bad , just watch out for the ones that breathe and shit😚

Masooma, that is a contradiction, if you understood how our mind works, which can be based on our thoughts, some people who have commented on this page are not friendly, who feel insecure and basically is no one elses fault, it's also your lifestyle that may determine if you feel lonely or isolated and yet because of the way we think, we blame other people. The guy in this video thinks he is lonely, has no friends, so other people may be in the same position, understandibly, we can all feel that way, but some people feel trapped.

It’s not ironic. Most people who post on Facebook DO have real life friends although they may have many casual acquaintances on there too that they don’t personally really spend time with. Look at all those pictures they post. It’s BECAUSE they have friends or at least a few friends which is why they have pictures to post in the first place. The lonely people of Facebook are those looking at other people’s pages because they have nothing to post on their own which is why people like you are saying how it’s ironic . Just because people have Facebook accounts does not mean they have friends and those are the ones that are lonely and are then used to describe how ironic it is when it’s not really ironic at all . Part of the reason why I do not use Facebook is because I have no friends and also too many people use it as a bragging platform . The narcissism is truly sickening.

It's because "social" media gives you te illusion you're being social, sacrificing REAL social interaction. Every "Friend" I make online dissapears in really short time.

Yes indeed

*PSSHHH* **sips** Ah, back then were much simpler times.

I always do. On an unrelated note, everyone thinks I'm an asshole.

I would suggest that is why you feel lonely...its not being surrounded by many or not is make lonely. Its bing surrounded by many and still can't express a feeling - that is lonely truly.

And there answer will always be then make friends

@@nerdrage6970 me too

Nobody really care otherpeople's problems...

DocZero same.

narcissist?

why ?

DocZero Hey bud I’m here for you

anthony same thing I wanna know. People love throwing that word around...🤦🏾‍♀️

Same here but just older. I think it was easier for me having enemies since childhood . This lifetime is a nightmare I want to wake up from soon

alex wintermeyer I dont even belong in my own family!

I understand, my anxiety comes from the negative words my father used to say to me. I can't seem to shake them , despite being a Christian.

Carol Makgalemela ...mine started from many years of abuse by my spouse....yes verbal , emotional or mental abuse can lead to this condition. You are not alone friend.

Same here. 37 and I'm not sure where I belong. It's funny, I have 200+ Facebook friends, but I am not sure which of them are truly my friend.

So true.. I had a similar experience

Well you say that because you have friends and experienced having friends and had good times, learned how to socialise.. but he didn't experience that

Jahlive Polosa Many friends, especially ones made in school tends to downsize their friendships when they marry and have kids.

💯

Yo bro hit me up

Bella Bong I though I was by myself. I’ve never had real friends either my entire life. I’m 51, and even my one sister isn’t close, too much jealousy and envy, and she’s married! I love her, but we have no relationship unless she needs something. Most of my life women pretend to be my friends but secretly hate/never liked me, only wanted me around for their benefit. I’m attractive and get attention, but I am ALWAYS kind and considerate to everyone. Had 1 BFF for many years, then she died of BC 8 years ago, so chronic loneliness every since. My kids are grown and I’m single, so I have NO ONE. I just do everything alone and enjoy my life.. I love life even though it seems the world and people don’t accept or want me.. I hope you meet a new REAL friend, and enjoy a true friendship.. Be blessed!

Both of you sound like an amazing human beings, lovely and caring, it seems like people wanna befriend jerks.

Don't be embarrassed, you are not alone in this statd

Happy Poop it’s the obvious man, people with so many friends are usually assholes and fake that’s why they are attracted to each other.

Bella Bong sadly... I can relate to this. But, I also don’t fit in with my family either; so that makes it more depressing. I’ve just accepted that I’m alone; and such is life...🤷🏾‍♀️

Haha, same.

Same here

me tooo

Same here

Tomatoe Eater You are not alone x

Same

That’s how it is sometimes my dude, sorry to hear that

Yes, when I was in school, I was a class clown and had "friends" but it was make me laugh or don't talk to me...if I ever said anything that was serious, like good information, they always checked with someone else like I was too stupid to actually know anything.

That's how humans work, I've recently discovered. Face it, don't you also approach someone else when you want something from them? It doesn't have to be anything materialistic. It can be their looks, personality, humor, etc. When a friend starts becoming less interesting or boring, it's normal to not want to hang out with them as much.

They must have been jealous MastaSmack,

Thats delusional, in this world its not about what you know, its whom you know

@@aladinmofo9555 Well best start with yourself. The most successful people knew themselves better than they knew anybody else.

No man, you need love. Peace♥

How are you now?

So true

@David Sharma It’s not about being modern, it’s about the convenience of having access to these tools and technology. But we humans are so stupid and so irresponsible. We come up with reasons to convince ourselves that it’s normal and OK. But some who think a lot would naturally wonder.

Technology has separated man from nature. People are more connected to technology than humanity. Therein lies the problem.

So true 🙋

@@leighharwood916 hit the nail right on the head

we love you wayne,you are not alone ,god is with you all the time

I hope you are happy and have blessed life☺

Damn

hey bro , Have Courage and Strength , just hang in there bro ....

My thoughts are with you Wayne.I have no one in my life that i can call a friend.Always been lonely so just wanted you to know that there are others in this world who are in the same situation.Be strong friend.

Yes I am not the only one

@p u Thank you very much for your comment!

Hello Samio - I hear you

Yeah same here in New Zealand.

You’re cute, just start simple convos with people. It might be a little awkward but u needa get uncomfortable to grow cuz I think you’d be fine if you put yourself out there

:'( I know this is generic advice I don't do myself, but have you tried joining any clubs? Most people I know made their best friends there. I am too awkward and lazy to do this though

oh boy this is me every single night lmaoo haha ur not alone stay strong and always find a reason to leave ur house

You guys are saying you are so lonely, you know that you can find people with the same interests as you on the Internet. If you are lonely it's just good to discuss with people on the Internet. Maybe people think thats for losers but it feels good for me. Try reddit.

Haha felt that, always see friends walking into Starbucks laughing as they order their drink or these couples while I’m all alone in a corner waiting for my drink and want to leave ASAP

@@rae9766 but what do you think of my idea?

Charlotte C me too, wanna hangout? Where u from?

Same here

@@noorbhatia1200 What's your interests?

Same

Lord!Saameee

That makes it three of us :(

:-(

I had the same problem too with my best friend. Loneliness is tough, no doubt about it

I did the same thing. But with my girlfriend. My two friends didn't trust her and they gave me a choice. Either her or them. I loved her so I chose her. 1 year later she left me for another guy

true

Montu shah I’d rather have a single real friend then zero friends

Absolutely. The pleasure of your own company is luxury.

I have view friends, yes I cant stand fake people

@@batmane7591 *than

So right!!!! 👍

Nalis Solus Maybe you are going to wrong type of parties then xd

@@taikajorma7276 this, parties are wicked for a while

Parties nowadays and for the last decade have been all about doing drugs, drinking yourself to waste, and smashing. Nothing special in these STD infested orgys

@You don’t give a shit about my name wtf is your problem man :/ ?

With all the changes in the world now feels like former system before corona was fake or not real

💯

@@fahadashrafofficial 🔥🔥😀

I quit Facebook and even though I still am mobile addict but I think I kind of am improving my social life. At least I am making acquittances

@@fahadashrafofficial nice. Well done bro 🤘

Quit 2 weeks ago and going strong.

You see this is exactly what pisses me off, they ALL say such things to us, you are so amazing, you are so great, you are probably the most loved and respected guy around yet no one or almost no one wants to do much with you unless they are just maybe bored.

Atle Skorstad Yes he is lovely

Margaret Norvell I’m just suprised they lived to their 30s.

Good input sir

I can't imagine how my parents would feel if they know this kind of state that I am in. I guess they will worry about it like how you feel about your son. Bless you and your family and hopefully we can be happy ever in the rest of our lives

I’m that girl. I am such a loser but not only b/c I’m single

How do you know bro?

Do you know him?

@@robertoramoshernandez2355 Watch his recent videos

You are probaly lonely, but watching Kenneth videoes lying to yourself that your are not. That is why you are wathing this, Sam Sneed. To feel better about yourself. Its sad. You waych him for 5 years, then make a comment talking abou him being sad when hes honest? Com on Sam you are the really lonely one here. (people like) you are depressing

@@TheDjdjyou Do you think I really feel any better

This is true,plus you are mentally a stronger person.

Totally agree with this, and Kenneth seems very intelligent, I would totally hang out with him, I lved hanging out with geeks and nerds in college, and I "may have" fit into this category :)

Me too.

Whosoever is delighted in solitude is either a wild beast or a god.

Blackout043 lol same I've always been told that I'm intelligent and not had friends since I was 10. Makes sense now!😜✨

Because he wants to help others I guess.

Man with all that technology how can you not connected

It's actually that simple, if you're alone it's mostly your own decision. How in the world do people expect to get friends when you're alone all day in your room

Just a random dude there is a difference between being alone and being lonely. I agree you can choose to be alone, most introverts do it to ‘recharge’ after a social or crazy time/events that has happened. However, loneliness is different, you could be in a room full of people you know or at a party and it’s this voice or thought at the back of your head saying “your not worth the trouble, your lucky your in this position don’t push your luck, you aren’t worth being friends with, etc” you ask a lonely person what it’s like it feels like this. Just my opinion on this whole topic.

Hi r you looking for a relationship with a good man 😇💭💌💌💞

Wow...that's unbelievable

Let me know if you would like to talk, from Mouse in Ireland ☘️🐭

Oh my God, Rohan Bora! Now why would you have me sobbing right along with you? I just can't stop my tears from flowing because I thought I was lonely but now I'm at a loss for words after reading your comment.Rohan please know that someone is always praying for you,and wish you were here near me.my dearest I am lonely too but I feel for you,and hope that ater you read all the comments on this post it will bring you some comfort knowing you're not alone in this, we're too many to be counted.god Bless your sweet heart,and just say a prayer for me as I'll always be saying one for you.much blessings.

Hang in there buddy

Same with me. Idk what's wrong with me. I open myself, I am nice to them but yet all I get is insults and get ignored. I guess this world is truly ruled by looks.

@@sajivdoley6949 true words. "This world is ruled by looks". You get respected most of the times by the way you look and your social status.

@@ahmadistanbouli6136 the sad truth

Ahmad Istanbouli ...me too friend

@@angiem7130 💔💔

Keep your chin up 👍

Me too. That's life.

Just go MGTOW

thats fucked up

Have you considered that maybe she finally realized that she may not have wanted to be engaged for another 5 years or a roommate with benefits for another 5 years?

Hi 😇💌💌

Be the best version of yourself*. Visualize the ideal you, what would you look like? Would you be more social? Would you work harder? would you be more fit? Personally, if I were to "be myself" as in do whatever I feel like doing, then I'd just sit at home all day and get nothing done. However, despite not wanting to wake up in the morning and go to the gym, despite not wanting to go outside during the day and meet new people, I still force myself to do these things because I know it will allow me to achieve my ideal self. The strongest version of myself.

I think you need to the opposite quite frankly, don't be yourself

Makenna Bobenna It takes time and effort, learn to be patient and be smart, know when to pull out and see that they're your type. Often, if you're quite different from the crowd the niche group of friends will be harder to find obviously.

Makenna Bobenna The world is fake AF.

True . I feel different and I still have no friends. I socialize with others but only make acquaintances. I do have one good friend but she is busy a lot.

Pineapple I hope you will find that friend some day. A real friend makes life better... i hope you will find that friend some day. I was just surfing the internet and find this video and then go in comments and saw a lot of...stuf. True friends do exist, for everybody, don't lose your hope!

And in 2018 as well

For me to also bro

All this negativity, breeds negativity. There’s lots of great people out there. It’s about attitude. There’s plenty of ways to meet good decent people. One doesn’t find them at pubs or clubs etc. join a library, they hold book clubs etc. join a church, there’s many wonderful people in churches. Go help out a homeless person, think outside of yourself and look around for people that are in need. You could also volunteer in you’re spare time.

@@myroom4640 This is a great way to be taken advantage of by a perpetrator.

:( Feel ya! Sending love!

Same

Lies. Women cant be lonely. Especially if you really look like that profile picture.

MrShaiya96 it doesn’t matter if you’re pretty or ugly. Do you know if you’re pretty more often than not people only care about your looks..not your personality and your quirks, what matters to you and the details of your life. Beauty can be a curse

@@MrShaiya96 classic incel response. Because you are the only one who has issues in life right? Boohoo you. Such bs.

@@msgirly6827 I dont know what "issues" have to do with loneliness. Clearly different things. My statement is either correct or it's not. Facts dont care about your feelings, little girl

@@msgirly6827 secondly, why should you care about Cindy's problem any more so? Boohoo her too right?

Don’t worry about it, you can fix your social anxiety by testing yourself in situations that make you feel uncomfortable,

I think it is possible to cure HIV than social anxiety for me

G do you feel like people are judging you because I do. That's why I spend most of my time alone. I feel I'm not good enough for anyone. I googled that feeling to see what it meant and it said it was a symptom of depression. That in reality everyone had doubts about themselves and some people seek out relationships to lose themselves in that other person which on turn is bad for the relationship. So maybe being alone means being strong and sure. I don't know. Who knows anything anymore?

You should really try nofap. I know it gets a lot of shit, but just search on youtube the benefits of nofap. Just try it for a week and I promise you will feel the difference. You really have nothing to lose I recommend this video kzfaq.info/get/bejne/nsh5lLNnycDedHU.html

Would you please go please stop using the word suffer? Everytime you say or write that word you self prophesy it. Every time you call yourself a sufferer you are a sufferer. Social anxiety can be overcome quite easily in fact however suffering can't. You need to see yourself as stronger than that and stronger than whatever your issue is. You need to realize your worth more than that and I have a very hard time with that because my mother never shut up about how good enough I was not even though I excelled at everything I tried. Whatever the problem may be social anxiety stuttering thinking you look ugly they are all just reasons to keep you where you are. You need to break that bubble and breathe some fresh air. It's not easy and it will be damn difficult but once you do you will wonder where life has been all your life! :-)

Hi😇🌹💌💌💌

I'm in San Francisco

If you can't say some thing nice just shut up.

This was for tin Fanny lv mogesen. Shut up.

Tine Fanny Ly Mogensen Kilumba

im currently 3 years alone, know the feel and feeling it actually but im not wasting it, learnt german and english and got fit as fuck, but for what? thats the thing.

No man, you did good ! You will be better prepared for the future.

Tudor Renegade me too. feel free if you need to chat

Tudor Renegade in order to not be lonely we have to accept ourselves including our weaknesses and strengths... if people cant accept us then forget them, but at least we tried... also sometimes its less of a case of what they can do for us but what we can do for them, how we can help alleviate their loneliness for them to do the same, i think social skills and pyschology come into this too.

Tudor Renegade perhaps all we need is good social skills and the rest will follow...

that's truee

@xrcrx ftfghjg that's not how it works anyways

Good !!! Nothing better than to FEED his pathology and narcissism.

I guess I'm Hercules, then. ;)

No, that's dumb.

Same.

Im truly sorry DeepFriedL, this also sounds like depression, obviously, you are not on your own here, Im sure a lot of us feel for you, see your doctor and get help. I wish I was there for you

Dear Deep, a lot of people around the world going through same problems. I m lonely so I joined yoga, Gym nd like to meet under privileged children nd elderly people too. I like to visit spiritual places nd explore different aspects of life. Love u

Friends will make you cry even more, you're not missing out on anything.

DeepFriedLemonWedges you are not alone. No need to cry about it just try your best to get out there and meet new people. I'm struggling with depression and anxiety I've withdrawn from my brothers because they think I'm weird I lost my good friends they don't even want to talk to me. I've been struggling for over 5 years now the doctors are horrible they just prescribe you with medication thinking it will work but instead you just get hooked to them and can't come off the medications. I've tried talking to my parents about this but they don't seem to understand fully they just say eat and go to the gym I've tried that but still have these harsh symptoms. But I still try to cope with life and make little goals everyday for myself like go to the swimming pools and go for a walk by myself. People think mental illness is a joke but really it's not a joke millions of people suffer each day from mental illness.

Sorry to hear that...but people suck.

I wish I could know more about your life could be a good ass movie

Me too

Fee there is a world out there u have the world at ur feet go for it I am ur friend and I don't even know u God bless x

Fee there is a world out there u have the world at ur feet go for it I am ur friend and I don't even know u God bless x

@@sangeetasrivastav4704 find God, learn his word.

Sounds like they weren't friends in the 1st place. I think it's best not to be around people like that because they will lower your self-worth which would stop you attracting the good friends that you deserve.

Story of my life...

Me too!!!

damn right, me too

Yeah

Very hard being lonley in ethiopia all peopels are together only me lonley

Same tbh

AMEN, Jesus is the bestest friend we can ever have!

@Tine Fanny Ly Mogensen Jesus truly IS the best friend we can have. And did you ever consider the possibility that *not everybody who is lonely is a "weirdo"? Certainly, there are always weirdos out there, but how many of us are simply misunderstood, or smarter than the average person? And shame on you for making fun of anyone who's mother died.

Just don't get pumped and dumped.

Charity Garcia I know it's hard...i really know. But you are a strong person and i am sure you are also a kind one. I suggest something: go volunterring (i probably wrote that wrong).

Good. Sweet tears of emotional pain and eternal vengeful suffering. Keep it up you NASTY NARCISSIST.

You envious bitch.

😥😭 I can understand your pain of spending holidays alone

I disagree with your comment here Niki, It sounds as if you have completely isolated yourself from the real world. I used to teach computing to school pupils doing their Duke of Edinburgh Award and made friends with them, so it's also a case of who you know, you see smart people as weakish, people who may not like sport usually excel at learning to play a musical instrument and has therefore been proven to enable you make new friends which I did, so how can you not relate to other people, I take it you don't understand yourself as a human being then. If somebody can't understand me, Im not the weaker one, Im only human, not another person, Ive been called arrogant by a mate of mine and he called himself a thicko, I said you're feeling emotional, but he was drunk at the time, no mate of mine, that's reality.

@Niki ... You are absolutely spot on ! Most people who claim to be your friend , end up using you or betraying you.....Don't need people like that ! I find that the vast majority of people are not remotely on my level (not bragging) and simply can't comprehend me. Soo many dumbed down people out there now....don't want anything to do with any of them ! .....I may be 'alone' but I'm not lonely ! ....... Clearly Wayne doesn't understand either.....he's misread what you said.

I'm sorry but no. 1. There are different kinds of "smarts" you can be academically smart or emotionally smart or whatever.2. most people that are popular at my school get really good grades and are really smart. I honestly think that's a bit of a myth.

Sorry I know you trying to make yourself feel better but this is so inaccurate. Plenty of smart people have great social lives. My friend goes to Harvard and when I visit so many brilliant people are there having fun with other people. It's all about who you involve yourself with, what community you live in, etc.

There's smart and arrogant..it's the arrogant that repels people.

Same bro, similar age.

I can relate.

Same here. In my early 60s oh well.

@@chicagomike How sad it is that so many of us lead such lonely lives.. So many of us on the planet yet we find it so difficult to bond with others.. 🤔

I am very similar

sharingan

nic tamere being an anime fan ( and a gamer) u know how great it is to be alone, and how unnecessary being social is. I don't need people to feel happy. I'd rather live alone.

nic tamere Every day the phone doesn't ring is another day in paradise.

Yes especially, if the phone rings, don't answer, they're not friends, probably scammers.

that's true 2/3 couples 40+ I know are now divorced with a whole host of baggage and problems.

probably once you pass the 25 years old mark its really difficult im 23 and struggling a lot for 3 years trying to establish some kind of friendship. I used all that time to learn useful stuff and get fitt but for what.

Hi Callie I know how you feel!

***** feeling it mate, all support

So true, feeling loneliness sucks so much

Same

@Shirley Jackson not all of them, there are not many nice people but they exitst. But this world is generally unfair and sucks most of the time. But that's supposed to make you stronger

you are very clever person.

@Shirley Jackson bad n good people everywhere fuck them

@Tine Fanny Ly Mogensen I only see one ugly person here.

I relate to you Briana, Ive found that in the past I buy somebody a drink in the pub and they don't get you one back, and I thought I bet they didn't come in the pub with any money

What's your email ?

Julie Macmillan Lee Same here

Julie, Facebook is NOT real. People put their best faces on--beneath this happy face is very frequently a sad soul. Please do NOT pay any attention to the people on Facebook. I have heard of people going to for example, the Grand Canyon in the US. My friend saw someone take a selfie to upload to facebook and said that the guy did not even bother to look at where he really was. He was more concerned with his image than the beautiful sight that lay before him in the present moment. Now Julie, that person is so sad and insecure...can you see that...don't feel mad or sad...these are people who enjoy impressing everyone else, except their true selves. ROFL

Excellent advice, so true.

Joyful For His Glory Is this why I find it hard to work with a team?

How can I become a Christian??

leaders have a group of followers. if you have no followers then your not a leader, your a loaner.

andrew ortiz , to become a christian all you have to do is fake most of the things you do in your life and pretend to love god . yes its that simple . learn how to lie with a straight face and brag to people of how much you help others . oh and always try to have a smile that looks real , people love a nice smile :) .

Social media intentionally or not really just gives all of us a reason to not call or see someone in person to connect, Theres people i have added on Snapchat who I met once two years ago and still see their story, like there’s less of a drive to get to know a friend/acquaintance’s life when u see how they think or what they do. i still try to meet up with people, not on social for a few weeks

Social media is the worst thing that could happen to us human beings. I decided to delete completely everything. It’s is a competition and appearances, especially Instagram.

So true I stay on the internet

I agree,because if people weren't posting where they were every second..and whom their with,we wouldn't feel so much pressure to have a good time.Also if your not invited to things then the paranoia starts and relationships change.

@@mml1426 exactly. I've just deleted instagram. Seeing people "having a fun time" with friends and "living a perfect life" made me depressed. I'm done with that bs.

Nancy Rivas heyy you're not alone

same

I'm 24 with no friends either, I have one back home in Michigan, and I just have my boyfriend in Washington. Been here almost two years and haven't made a friend, I don't want just a friend or many friends though. I want to find a girl-friend who is like, my soul twin.

not in this world aha the best and only true friend i had and have found was a guy we were friend form 18 years old to 21 years odl and he decided to cut ties with me im now 23 years old and i feel disconnected from most people who make friends easily ect i feel so lonely i feel like i will never find someone that will be able or try to understand me and in a most genuine way :((((

@@SpiritGreatness I'm also 23 I don't have any friends

I don't believe it you're too pretty

She is pretty but maybe she's an introvert though?

she can just stand in the club, and wait for guys to hit on her

Michał Lewandowski..That doesnt mean anything man...just because guys hit on her, doesnt mean they value her company. Many men use women and visa versa

Michał Lewandowski that’s pretty ignorant dude

Spongey PegasiTM When they do that it's just that they have nothing better else to do. Remember this, what someone does and says only speaks about themselves, not you. In other words they're making themselves look like the real retards. But just for every person gossiping about you there's a dozen more going about their day like nothing happened and will forget the next day.

That's what hurts me too. I only ever spend time with my parents and it's really sad. I watch all the other kids go and do stuff with their friends but I have nobody.

At some point in life we all go trough this

No FU, even an animal can feel lonely, as dogs and cats may suffer with separation anxiety, humans can.

Z Mundo Nothing to feel bad about. Don’t put yourself down. One suggestion is to look for activities you enjoy doing and you’ll likely hook up with others who enjoy the same thing. Discuss common interests. Join a club, hiking group, a Meetup etc. so many options. It’s best with small groups, easier to talk one on one.

I agree, it's so easy to put yourself down and feel this way, we are human beings, we can be sociable and adapt, not everyone thinks that way, when you do lose friends, it's not our fault, it;s life, but don't misjudge yourself

You are not the only one.

I totally relate 💯

Everybody in this section should be friends just try to contact each other and you will not be alone.