there’s only one race

@@dominicfaison5889 Enlightening, truly.

@@dataunreadable2437 You added absolutely nothing to this conversation. Also, please highlight where I referenced 'valuable' black men...

@Jo92 - say it louder for the people in the back. Agreed 200%.

Well, when you're chasing men that make $200k+ a year which every girl also wants, such men literally ARE million dollar prizes if they invest their money correctly and don't choose shitty women who make their life difficult and don't deserve them. Deflecting the topic to the race is irrelevant. The white/bi-racial 4-5 will also fall short seeking the apex male you speak of. What Kevin does differently is instead of telling you what you want to hear, he tells you what you NEED to hear so you can actually TAKE ACTION and try to get the man you desire. Men have to take action and make something of themselves. The kind of man who makes the large income you desire isn't going to spend his life sitting around and complaining. Men have a burden of performance. They have to perform and take action to get what they want. Women, if they want a high value man have to do the same, because EVERY GIRL ON EARTH is trying to get with the kind of man you're talking about. What action can you take to better your situation? That's what kevin is trying to get these women to figure out.

Nah, his facts are right almost ALL the time, actually. :)

@@erikjohnson8031 No.

@@Drinkthedamncocoa u havent said how he was factually wrong. all your doing is stating things. "He shows a lot of misogyny, misogynoir and generally lacks a depth" this dont show where he was wrong. men dont care about delivery they care about being right or wrong. Now please show how he wrong

@@Drinkthedamncocoa Yet, 18 months later, she's still without a 6 figures guy.

So which is it? Baby Mama or Fat? The bag secure so then what?

u are here again, u this girl.

Wow u a troll troll. U should focus on your self fr cuz nobody gonna ever take you serious

Other way around sweetie

You men in the comments coming for her proves your insecurity.

men cant have their standards

no thats a lie. no matter what man u take. if u ask him to rate 5 women, and theres 2 obese women in there. they will be at the bottom every. single. time.

I think the thing with the caller wasn’t that she wanted a rich man because she’s after his money. She was simply saying she wants someone in the SAME financial level as she was.

I mean I have seen plenty of rich men with average looking women. Bill Gates, Mark Z, Warren Buffet etc average looking women

@@deedwells Fair point, but those are tech nerds. I don’t see women crying about how attractive Bill Gates or Mark is. These are very intelligent men who realise that marrying someone who’s of equal intelligence + similar looks is better. They still cheat on their wives though. And these tech geeks aren’t the dream for women to marry. Of course at bill gates level you can disagree, but they’d prefer a more balanced guy. Which is why you see actors like Leo DiCaprio have women fawning over him

BAM💥

Why should she settle for a man who's not where she is financially. Who cares if she's 'average at best'. Iam sure she would be a 10 to a man making $12 an hour catching the bus to his walmart job.

@@nahjacutler well my dear men are the gatekeepers of relationships, they decide who is in and who is out . Also you can’t force people to be in a relationship with you that’s how you end up being disrespected. That same man in Walmart maybe willing to give you his whole ten dollars and time whilst your high value man will not give you either. Be wise things are not as they seem.

@@cforcourage4034 Precisely HOW are men the gatekeepers of relationships?

@@robyndismon394 For the person in a relationship with a man who doesn’t want them or are emotionally unavailable; that man is the gatekeeper as he decides where the relationship goes. Those who care less has the most power as you going or staying doesn’t affect you them emotionally. If they do miss you they miss the benefits of you and NOT YOU

Who cares insecure men are harsh

She was disrespectful at what point?

@@teniseuna you didn't watch the full video if you asking this

@@peopleas1healingtrauma insecure women have delusions of grandeur

How old are you? and whats your dress size? lmao

@@jjthoughts9920 lol next question

She didn’t say that men who made less than her were beneath her... she said from her own experience in dating men who dated less than her they took advantage... which is a fair point she makes six figures so what’s wrong with dating a man who is equally yoked? Who don’t find her attractive or may believe that she is average who’s to say another man won’t find her above average... relationships aren’t conventional, if they are single mothers they are single fathers.. she’s not relying on the man she intends to date she has her own... men date single mothers all the time..

@@teniseuna she didn't say they took advantage of her. She said they wanted to partner with her, which is exactly what she was offering to the man she wants when she said she'd help him with his business. Also, women often times don't say things directly which leaves room to interpret things. By saying she was dating down she was saying they were beneath her. It's implied in the statement. Men don't care about her money. We're expected to provide and her money doesn't equal us providing. And men in general don't want a woman that has a child. Sure you'll have some that will choose one. However, more often than not she'll get passed over especially when she's average looking like she is.

@@teniseuna women too often judge what they feel men SHOULD want based on what they are looking for. Instead of listening to what men actually want and are looking for.

@@lincolnward85 you need to watch the video again.. there’s nothing to misinterpret, she literally said that the men she dated in the past took advantage of her she makes six figures so she wants a man who is equally yoked.. what’s there not to comprehend about that? What does “women often times don’t say things directly which leaves room to interpret things” sounds misogynistic.. she has a voice and if you listened you’d understand clearly what she was saying... you should also take heed to the differences between truth and perspective... you think she’s average but that doesn’t represent the collective of men.. no educated person would say something like this.. you should speak for yourself... you sit like sheep and listen to a grown man berate women and swear he’s a shepherd.. learn to have your own opinion! He’s able to make hundred and thousands of dollars from easily led men like you who lap up every word he says like it’s gospel! Beta low vibrational energy.. real men don’t sit and gossip like bxtches on the internet and laugh at a woman’s humiliation.. a grown man accepts that whilst she’s not your type she could be another’s mans type.. and that’s realistic!

@@teniseuna misogynist means hatred of women. Nothing I said was hateful or demeaning of women in general or her specifically. I listened to her clearly say date down. Which implies the mean she dated before were beneath her. Which also supports my statement about women not being forthright in what they're saying to leave room for interpretation and in turn say they were misquoted. I'll ignore your insults and ask you this instead. If a man said he was tired of dating down and wanted a high value woman because he looked good and was physically fit, but wasn't bringing money to the table, what would you say to that man? Regarding a man possibly choosing her. Go back and read my initial response. I said most men won't want a woman with a child. Not all, so by default it acknowledged that she could possibly find someone that wants her in spite of her having a child.

No. Six figure men who are older typically already have children and some are on their 2nd+ marriage already. Successful men marry both successful and unsuccessful women. Whomever is raising the children is the person/party most fit to do so. If you can't work while also instilling morals and values in your child then neither party should be having children. She was no more masculine than Kevin was feminine for being catty and going back and forth with her.

This is some of the dumbest shit I've ever read, having grown up in a household where my mother made six figures and my dad happily reaped the benefits of having a financially successful spouse who could give them the lifestyle they enjoy together. When you love your spouse and see them as a worthwhile human being instead of a trophy, you want them to succeed in their career. A real man doesn't feel threatened by a confident woman, and he certainly doesn't pressure his wife to appear small so he can feel big. Men who are like that are insecure and insecure men are not marriage material.

Insecure men love it

@@peopleas1healingtrauma You seem a bit insecure ijs

What was right about what he said?

@@younglion4441 nah you do thougg

Shut up sir ur dusty

absolutely.

Superficiality will always be part of dating. Kevin’s right about that analysis. But people who aren’t deluded already know that shit. Make money, have abs, be masc, etc. It’s kind of a cliche but it does help you get dates you wouldn’t otherwise get. The other side of the coin is that he’s a shock jock who sells cynicism to downtrodden men and stunts on delusional women. Because if he truly wanted to talk about relationships, he’d come at it with more balance and more depth. For instance, why doesn’t he ever talk about values? Why doesn’t he talk about communication? Tbh my married friends who are all of 30 know more about how to hold down a relationship than Kevin.

@@joeem1502 i totally agree with that point. A successful marriage only works if the two people involved are willing to do the work and fight for it. How long have your friends been married who you mentioned?

@@joeem1502 you wanna know why kevin doesn't talk about values and communication mostly? Its because the women who call in are already set in their minds what they want and not what the other person may look for. KS not trying to talk to a brick wall if you know what i mean. Lets be honest the majority of women have unrealistic expectations because they've been told for so long that they are perfect and deserve everything. On the podcast Fresh and Fit i remember them asking the women on the panel, "outside of sex, what do you ring to the table"? They all talked about nothing that was tangable of value. A lot of them expect more than they are willing to give when it comes go relationships.

@@joeem1502 it annoys me when i hear of FAT women and i dont mean thick or curvacious talk about their superficial standards in men physically but won't do anything to improve their body healthwise. Like what fit dude you know wanna walk around with a chick who weighs twice as much as him! I watched a lot of Kevin Samuels videos and you actually learn a lot when it comes to facts and statistics. Relationships should be about giving and taking and not be one sided. Thats why modern women today still want a traditional man while being traditional themselves isn't an option. If your man is teating you right then YOU should do the same. Looks and wap wont cut it after a certain point.

No, there are disagreements with that too. He simply told her that she didnt qualify but didnt give her all of her options. She can find the men she wants at conferences, yachting clubs, charity events, ect.

@@TomikaKelly She can meet them, yeah, but it's not about finding, it's about attracting. She'll have to attract them too.

Insecure delusional man grow up

Not entirely. Her point still stands in the sense that his harsh delivery merged with his personal views (fuelled mostly by unrealistic societal beauty standard) collides to create a unpleasant experience for anyone seeking advice so again: why wld anyone go to his channel ???!!!!!

@@ahil.8 Not “societal” beauty standards. Men’s beauty standards. And men are pretty consistent on what a woman who is wife material looks like.

@@ahil.8 The reason why women go to his channel is because they realized the stats of black women being married by any race is very low in America, about 1/4 low. Now the question is why is that? well if you watch the show alot of the ladies calling in, show their lack of knowledge of men across the board and what they want. They also reveal their lack of interest of maintaining femininity and youth cause they been told to be this independent STRONG, i don't need a man, women that puts out this masculinaty energy to which their ignorantly unware they behave in, when dealing with high value men. Feminism told Sista's to focus on their careers in your 20's , and when you reach 30 plus with either a child you had at your "young and dumb" stage, or being overweight, that'll you get to deserve a High value men because of your income.

@@AJweathersby I think I’ll stick w ‘societal’ rather than ‘men’ so I don’t disregard that there are some women in society that also contribute enforcing stereotypical standards on women telling them that look a certain way. perhaps some women find that having a certain appearance worked for them so they impose it on others but whatever it is it’s definitely a overall societal issue

But wouldn't the same can be said about women who are born with Value and men who has work for it. Some women are born beautiful which give them an advantage in society. a typical man doesn't have that advantage when they are born

@@jjthoughts9920 yes.... That was my point. Example: a guy can work to attain a certain level of "value" financially however if a women has a preset (like dark skin) that society previously and currently does not see as high value, according to someone like Samuels, shes fucked and shouldn't even be unrealistic because she can never improve on that value enough for a valuable man

@@destined2bebossy It mostly sucks because women are also the ones making the biggest sacrifices with their bodies. In many animals, the female is the one to select the male because she is the one bearing the children.

@@starchannel123 Except she can only select amongst the males competing for her. And no 6 figures guy is going to compete for a woman that can barely speak intelligently and looks like her.

So, what did you find attractive about her? Her eloquence? Her wisdom? Her ease with words? What hobbies of hers made you find her attractive? go on!

Lmaoo

Someone could easily say your average... he was speaking from his own perspective of her there was no truth in it..

@@teniseuna How many men agree with him? If I say that Kevin Hart is attractive, you'll think what you'll think, you won't care of my opinion. Because you're the one who choses who attracts you or not. It's the same for men. It's up to men. Ask random men in the street how they'd rate her, and they'll tell you.

@@nathanl.4528 it doesn’t matter how many men agree with him... if your opinions are exactly the same as his no indifference then clearly your sheep... You literally just certified by point.. everyone’s level of attraction is different.. but collectively you don’t all have the same attraction..

@@teniseuna So, you're telling the buyer, a man, that it's not what I see that I don't like, it's because I want to agree with Kevin about her looks? When we men we tell you what we want, you refuse to listen. You have the right to make that choice. But I also told you to ask random men in the street, but you probably won't, and if you did, you'd argue with them as well. Just like you, women, we have our say in who we find attractive or not. Like it or not 🤷

@@nathanl.4528 what are you talking about? You don’t find her attractive doesn’t mean a next man won’t... it’s simply that Kevin samuels gives an objective perspective but doesn’t speak to men collectively... “When we men...” speak for yourself! Grown men should lead and not follow...

Ma'am, lol. Most people would take that if you offered it to them.

Because when she was dating average men they were trying to take advantage of her and use her for her business.

@@TomikaKelly Um, no. If he is average, he have a stable job and he is content with the job. Meaning he have decent salary to take care of the family. Like blue collar jobs; for examples: electrician, firefighter, policeman, plumber, sanatory man, construction worker, etc. I am not talking about street boys who can't not live without support from his woman or his parents. This woman want top 10% men who make 6 figures when she have 16 years old teen from a shady man who probably aren't even at average level of income.

She deserves a six figure man because that’s what she earns. Most men are not attractive but still want beautiful women. So we all went what we want

@@daliaa5294 Women want men's money way more than men want women's money. Men want women's beauty. (Youth, thinness, pretty face).

Part of the issue was that she called in on the wrong day and insisted that Kevin help her. He, begrudgingly, helped her when he didn't want to then got frustrated with her and lashed out when she needed more patience and understanding. Moral of the Story: respect your business rules so you don't end up being a jerk or hurting anyone.

And point out where sense was made in your comment apart from it being misogynistic

@@fitchgirl02 biology isn't misogyny.

The funny part is that physical attractiveness is usually not biological in the modern world. The most fertile women are the average ones. The wide hips and slight stomach fat allows women to best carry children. Women who eat few calorie and have skinny legs have more problems having children.

@@starchannel123 true. You may not remember the laywer drama comedy with Calista Flockheart (alley Macbeal) she had to do surrogacy I believe because she was too petit.

@@TheAntisocialSocialitePodcast I suppose anything she doesn't like is misogyny, LMAO. Women can have standards, but if a man has standards that she doesn't meet, it's miso?

You're too busy getting emotional about worshipping him instead of letting her have her opinion. Just like Kevin didn't ask women to come to his channel, she didn't ask you to come to hers. So stop getting your feelings hurt. The girl in the video wasn't trying to play him-relax with that. Bit dramatic. Let people have opinions, just cause they're not men it doesn't mean they don't count. No need to get personal and ask about her family. You wouldn't want women to ask Kevin Samuels that so have some respect

You aren't listening to her but you want women to listen to men 🤔 you're a hypocrite 😒

She earned 6 figures too though... its not like she was a girl with no money wanting a 6 figure guy. And from her story she did try with men who ear6less, but it didn't workout. (I don't think she is choosing her men well though)

@@xXurbansweetnessXx What she makes is irrelevant to us guys. Cause women generally expects the man to pay for their stuff, while women rarely pay for ours. So, what she makes becomes irrelevant.

@@erikjohnson8031 maybe we should get rid of these social norms that we created

The question is, why wouldn’t a six figure man want her? She has other qualities (and the ones listed aren’t negatives for the right-minded person) and the man should be more than his money. You lot get stuck on this because you’re shallow, small-minded and broken. A man making six figures may have many options. But most of them will be for his money only. Especially if he subscribes to your mentality... I mean... it’s his only value right? Are you also aware of the fact that the quality of men’s sperm diminishes with age? Meaning, they’re genes are more responsible for defects etc after the age of 35. How much do you think those odds increase with men in their 40’s and 50’s? If everyone thought the way you did, no one would ever seek out a relationship with anyone over the age of 34. And that simply isn’t the case now, is it? You don’t have to ‘see a need’ for a man to ‘pamper her’. She isn’t checking for you. It isn’t about you. The bunch of you really need to turn inward and figure out what’s got you so twisted. Heal that and move forward. None of you will ever foster balanced and healthy relationships with this mindset - which through your very odd behaviours is actually what a lot of you are seeking. Build yourselves up. Understand your values go far beyond you money and women’s beyond appearance. Develop a personality and stop subscribing to this shit that will do nothing but pull you further away from the attention and connections you actually want.

@@CelestialSoular for anyone reading the comment above, men’s sperm being more responsible for defects after the age of 35 is a complete lie

No one "deserves" mistreatment. If that were the case how do we decide what you deserve?

@@TomikaKelly well im not selfish and rude to people for starters 🤷🏾 Kevin gave her a way out but she wanted what she wanted and in the beginning he said he is going to use her as a teaching moment, and he did 😎

@@636racer It doesn't matter if you're not rude and selfish, you nor anyone else deserves mistreatment. (Although I find it hard to believe that if one were to interview everyone you've ever come in contact with since you've been alive, that they would all agree with you 100%. I wouldn't expect someone to tell me if they WERE rude and selfish. 🤷🏽‍♀️) People can correct without stopping to a deplorable level...otherwise, what's the difference between them and you?

@@TomikaKelly i hear what you’re saying but thats not how the world works, base on your stance karma should not exist

@@636racer Karma doesn't exist, how we conduct ourselves do. It's merely what we tell ourselves to justify and rationalize the world. The issue isnt how the world works, because if we go off of that the world can never change and change has always been brought about by not fully accepting and ingratiating ourselves into the world. The issue is that we cant go around thinking that someone deserves to be mistreated because they are desperate to get a question answered. As the business owner, he could've and should've declined the call. He could've and should've stuck to his guns and not entertained her. He could've and should've realized that he was getting frustrated in the workplace and ended things right there. We have the right to feel as we please, but we don't have the right to behave as we please.

Oh, this is why so many older men prey on younger more vulnerable, easily manipulated women. If they had means of their own, they wouldn't want anything to do with you. A great foundation for a successful relationship.

@@kikijo92 Actually no because this is what most women are after they want the stuff but no responsibility. I have met many women who do not care about building something from nothing and share in the success and failure while remaining feminine. As an example my wife is a doctor and opera singer. When there is a decision too be made i seek her advice and she let's me lead, if the decision is wrong or doesn't work out I don't get i told you so instead its evaluate it again and do it again. The same goes the other way for myself. So we know that when we come home after fighting the world we have peace of each other. This kind of realationship takes work, but most black women keep proving him right they are combative argumentative and do not take criticism well, so why would men go for that? As I said when beauty fades and money is gone what do you have if you have not built a realationship ?

@@amedis9824 Your view is myopic and your opinion on 'most black women' is baseless and plain wrong. I'm not sure what your anecdote had to do with my comment on men going for younger women in response to you saying that 'not too many men that want baggage when they can have younger and no baggage'. I have an irrelevant anecdote too: my black 6ft 3, gorgeous, athletic build, confident, social butterfly, emotionally intelligent, honest, vulnerable, amazing cook, clinical doctor fiance doesn't care to 'take lead' or have me submit, he doesn't shy away from debate or being proved wrong, he isn't insecure and doesn't suffer from self-hatred/ low self-esteem (a unicorn- I know I'm lucky &also more than happy to provide proof!). He's all this without bashing countless black women based on his daily interactions with a fraction of them. He loves me regardless of if I shave, cook, clean and present as feminine (which I sometimes do- when I'm in the mood). Everybody he meets loves him and he rejects women weekly. He loves black women- in all shades. He's what you'd call 'high value' but wouldn't stoop so low to use such pathetic terminology as he acknowledges that women are prizes to be fought for, not men. He doesn't make grandiose self-declarative statements like that because he has no need to, he embodies it and has no need to front on the wide web, other races of men don't do that, so what kind of fool would he look like doing that too? He wouldn't dare open his mouth to downgrade his own race of women, he cares to be in community with them and build them up. Dig real deep to find out what your issue with black women really is, because the unfounded hatred we receive is embarrassing on your part at this point.

@@kikijo92 And you just proved the point. There are very few black women such as yourself. Most are not willing to actually take accountability for their poor choices then expect too then get something better. This cuts both ways not just one. Having as I said run a business and have had too deal with a great many people. There are plenty of studies too show this that given a choice alot of men will date black women last, which is sad, within my circle of friends I see it all the time and know for a fact that because of the attitude both cheat on each other which makes me laugh and frankly stay clear of them why I'm glad I met my wife when women where actually women instead of whatever today's women are. And I'm grateful I taught my daughters how too be strong and feminine at the sametime.

@@kikijo92 And it is too show why men will go for younger and no baggage. The rules of today has been set by you as women and as men why would we burden ourselves with issues when we can be free again not what I would choose too do but those are the rules

thats not what she said in the video though. If you watch the full video, kevin asked her if she wants a guy who makes less than a 100k and she said no and we all know everyone will do well with less than 100k

@@jjthoughts9920 she learned how to make 100k, and she wants a man who is a capable as she is.

@@ReadySetRum and thats fine, everyone has a right to what they want. But you gotta understand the reality. She wanting a guy who makes 100K cuts down her options by 80%, which is means she more unlikely to get a guy in dating marketing because most guys don't make that much

@@jjthoughts9920 I agree. Woman are quite content dreaming and wishing and playing the love lottery. Her chances are slim and I think that’s the main point of Kevin Samuel’s arguments, women want so much and rather be single moms than settle. It’s a weird world we have created.

Same for women insecure dude

@@peopleas1healingtrauma 😂😂you really tracking all my comments uh

A simp

@@peopleas1healingtrauma no because men control marriage , that’s what’s lost on a lot of women and that’s basically what Kevin’s message is

@@ERoss338 Yep. My Mother told me that.

Thanks for your misogynistic comment that didn’t add anything to the world or do anything to challenge the stupid ways of the world

I don't care about how much money a guy has, I look for handsome guys. I'd pick the poor yet handsome man over the rich and ugly man any day. Stop acting like all women are gold diggers.

@@fitchgirl02 women are the hypagamous sex not men, how about u starting from there. THIS IS NATURE, nothing misoginistic about the statement made

@@fitchgirl02 Salty

@@abdulbabatunde9151 She's just bitter about reality.

Why should insecure men bash women sir

Grow up

@@peopleas1healingtrauma I don’t understand... what’s ur point? What is grow up? I guess u can’t create a sentence

Precisely. Personally, I hope my brothers and nephews avoid single mothers all together and build their families from scratch without all that baby daddy drama.

@@peopleas1healingtrauma What is the difference between "bashing" and "critiquing", I wonder?

He was unkind, imagine a woman saying that and how she'd get called a bitch. You know for a fact she would

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@@AdellaAfadi lol this interaction😅 ☠️

Jesus Christ dude lol not all women are trashy . This girl def doesn’t look like the type. ❤️