That's very true. I'm thinking n saw the same

Thank you so much sisi. i pray n hope that she will be ok nami.

@@pastor_nrmashinini Amen🙌

U stout lomama😢

She's cruel. That's how she got to live without her son and not even care.

Very cruel indeed. Usaba ukuphelelwa ngumshado. Nkosana has a beautiful heart.

she's annoying this mom.

And she is not even ashamed of hiding the son😢eish

Siyabonga

Joyce Nohlanhla Vilakati Im so worried about Nkosanas mom she is either depressed or something is worrying her but God is good always Nkosana will be there to look after his mum she is not happy at all she never evn pretend maybe she counselling.

@@patiencechivunge8515 I agree completely with you my dear. There's a sad story behind Sthembile's silence. Some of us interiorize our emotions and don't find it easy to verbalize them. That's where therapy comes in to help break down the silence and help us gain our voices.

she doesn't seems to be happy to see her sista and son...she is very cold hearted soul.... Nkosana may God Bless you and your aunt....but at least you saw your mom ...but uswabile noba angathula...she didn't tell the other children about Nkosana ...🤦‍♀️

@@margretmaluleke2195 Siyabonga

ngiyabonga

@@pastor_nrmashinini you were raised well ndodana, baningi abazali who wish and pray to have an awesome son like you, it shows that God is the centre of your life, keep being kind fano.

I'm the first subscriber on your channel and I'm blessed Nkosana, God bless you wow!

His so down yaz❤️

He really is sweet

Ngiyabonga kakhulu

No the mother is embarrassed and doesn't want to be exposed hence trying to hide her face from cameras

Either way, the mother abandoned him cos at the end of the day it's her child and she has the final say. Also she could have came back later to fetch her child. She abandoned him and she cant even pretend

@@mrmkhosana6876 I guess your "no" goes where I say she isn't necessarily cold but wothukile.

@@mrmkhosana6876 I didn't say she didn't abandon him, I said the aunt is at fault too. When you're young and leaving home but you have nowhere to go (a place that you're certain of) you will obviously take any help offered, including that of your sister offering to keep your child for you. You know your child is safer with your family than under some bridge (and that doesn't warrant what she did) but she knew he was better off with his aunt than with her.

@@siba_ponono ok I hear you my sister. But I find it strange that a mother can leave her child and never return to see how the child is doing. And to make matters worse, she keeps you a secret from your siblings and her new family. I'm sorry but only a cold hearted person can do such

lol wangishaya ngeboom

Shem😢😢😢

Poor guy 😓

ngiyabonga sisi you are Blessed.

well life sisi

That part really brole me 😢😢😢this mother is heartless man nxaa

thank you

Ngiyabonga

too be cold like that and ukuba nomntwana womfana ozithobe ngalendlela i kinda not understand how

I see a shy and embarrassed person, I know there's a thin line between cold and shy/embarrassed, I might be wrong.

@@buyaza8918 I'm with you. She even asked "Why are you filming me?"

I feel like she is going through a lot. Seems like she is ashamed of herself. Even asking them to do the convo alone is telling

@@big1ne absolutely! I fully agree with you 💯%

That’s very much true the auntie did something good for nkosana and for her to keep that secret until this day it was necessary

ngiyabonga

Big round of aplause to the aunt for taking care of TK for all this years, you can see she was raised with love and she has done good for herself

Nothing at all

ngiyabonga

Amen I`m healed Big One

@@pastor_nrmashinini That's great to know :)

Eish....

Ngiyabonga

Wa bora shem

She can't because she got so much to answer to her husband and her other kids who don't know she got another child except them and her weight she carried all these years is lifted now.So much emotions going on shem

thank you

She seems to be troubled. Nkosana himself said he will not judge her.

@@halymaabubakar5747 Nah she's just selfish. The moment you bring a human being in this world, you put them first over EVERYTHING. She had her kids but went on to think about herself first. Selfish

Baba vestory rechipiri ranga riri gamba yoh giving his girlfriend an invalid train ticket ahhh ndapererwa ini kkkkk

lol bro thank you.

We missing you here at Knightsbridge and WSP

@@nationrixakabaloyimhlangaz4734 one day I`ll visit

@@pastor_nrmashinini okay Thanks

now u making me cry, but thank you so much you are Blessed.

O very cold😢

Evn if is the case the mother could have came back to get her child after she is settled but she never bothered... Now she's just so shocked n ashamed at the same time... She ran out of words

Ayi nami, ngeke or maybe the Auny wanted the father and chased the mother. This aunt 🤔

Uya bora serious 😢

Exactly what I was thinking. It’s so disgusting. She’s so heartless.

hahahahaha lol

😂😂😂

Amen ngibonge

She made the mother look bad while she became the "superhero" that raise him.

Eish mtase she's so cold she's not even crying

yaz'

That's how I feel too, she couldn't even express her emotions in that moment. I feel like she wasn't necessarily cold, but something was off nje.

Ayi nkosana mfana wami ngiyabonga ngokufuna uma wakho kuhle suyamazi kodwa ngicela uqhubeke nempilo thanda umndeni wakho banike uthando lolu wena ngalutholanga sikufisela okuhle kodwa empilweni

Absolutely!

I didn't see her face😢

The choices i made to better my life and to heal came from within me and no one can take that from me. my assignment now is to make sure that my wife and kids get the best in life. she made her choices yes they affected me when i was younger but now damn I`m glad i had to pass through that so i can be the man i am today.

@@pastor_nrmashinini Wow God is amazing for you Pastor Nkosana to grow and be the man you are. I was so touched but at the sametime happy that God kept mom until you met her. Her decisions are not to be questions by us but lesson to give our families love and support. May God continue to bless you

@@asiphileni8949 Amen and You are Blessed

Am I missing something in your comment or I dont understand you.....the fact that Nkosana went through al the hurt and all doesnt take away the fact that he is a sweet man. You make it sound like people are wrong to say he is sweet because he might be hiding depression.

​@@pastor_nrmashinini Hey man of God, this was not to take away from the best man that you became. I was just trying to illustrate that usually it takes struggles to show the greatest in us, but the journey is not that easy. By the grace of God you chose the right path, it is not a lot of people who can keep their life together like that. I respect your tenacity and your character. I was just trying to point out that all of us get build by our circumstances. I am talking from my own personal experience. My mother cheated on my father and gave birth to 3 kids who are not for my father, 4 of us are from my father. I saw my father's life changing, depression. I spent my adult life with my father and seen everything he was going through, he did his best to push my other siblings to better their lives but they were all successful, I also tried to assist him. He got sick 3 years ago, I went to fetch him from his place and came to stay with me for 3 days, on the night of the 4th day that is when he passed. I was sitting on my desk working and he was sitting up on the mattress, I looked at him and smiled, he ask me why was I smiling, I responded nothing really, He told me to open the door as it was getting hot, I opened the window and the door of the room, when I looked at him he had closed his eyes, I thought he was napping. After some few minutes the sound came off as his tongue shifted and some air was freeing itself from the mouth, that's when I knew lord took him. His funeral got prepared and everything went well, He was the kind of a man who got broken and people I know for sure believed that it was going to be impossible to bury him, cause he worked so hard but nothing produced anything. My siblings chose their own lives, they always commented and said who was going to take care of him when he got very old if he was kicking them out of the house, I always stated that he will leave us one day and everyone should use the chance and opportunities he was trying to give them to better their lives cause the day he leaves nobody will do anything. As I am sitting here and writing this, I am not seeing the point of going back home, because after my father passed, they all went back to my father's house like now he is gone then they are free to be back as if nothing ever happened. I don't have any grudges or anything, but I came to learn that people choose the life that they want to live and will always become what they want to become. Your mother's story is a sad one cause clearly she did not choose that path, on the other hand my relatives chose their path. Let me stop rumbling. But another thing I learned is that sometimes people find an escape from their own life or from feeling and focus on something else, like overly focus on that one thing like its an addiction, either being substance abuse, religious or adultry etc. that is an example, I am not trying to say this is you. What I am just trying to say is that Everyone is sweet, but circumstances can also mess one and not be as sweet. So I am not trying to take anything away from you, it is just what I came to learn about life and I am still learning. I do respect you and I believe that you are a good person, but I also believe that good people also don't like to be lied to like the way you got lied and told that your mother left you and they did not know what happened when the truth is that your mother came clean with them, so WHAT i AM SAYING IS THAT, It is natural to feel disappointed, yet you can choose to make peace with it or not, which obviously by your character you will choose to believe. But hey my brother, I am just learning. On my side I sacrificed a lot for my siblings and my father sacrificed everything, so right now where I stand I believe they chose the life that they are living, poverty and I don't see myself stepping in cause I believe I gave everything I had. I made a decision a long time ago that I my father ever passes, I will focus on building my own life and assist and get assisted by others, but as for my family we do love each other and respect each other but my sweat will not work for them. I wish you all the grace in your life. As a pastor, can you say something about the bit I stated about my own family? I believe in light and higher, I believe that everyone one way or another believes in the almighty. Lets be blessed.

She has a heart made of stone. I cried for Nkosana

Dankie Bhuti

ngiyabonga

You are on my mind yaz

I doubt she had no interest in him, she is just a humble and shy for the camera. Am sure she had so much to say about the aunty and perhaps how it came for her to want to leave their house.... LIKE YOU SAY HOW DOES A PERSON CONVENIENTLY FORGET SHE IS THE 1 WHO HELD THE BABY NOT TO GO WITH ITS MOTHER....Even the hugs and kisses she gave her when they arrived you could she was playing into the mother weaknesses, she was all over.

lol serious?

Sotho/Tswana languages and most SA share idioms and sayings

It is also Sepedi proverb...

The way the saying is worded will differ slightly depending on whether it's a Sepedi , Setswana or Sesotho speaker. You'll be able to tell from the pronunciation and sentence structure. Also these 3 languages share many idioms and sayings just worded slightly differently.

@@perfectlyimperfect1095 yes all in all we say they're the same, much like how English bibles may be worded differently but we all think they're the same

Ausi Southern Sotho sere Mme o tshwara thipa ka bo haleng.maybe le pedi and tswana ba buwa jwalo

iyangiqgiba nami but akukho esingakwenza cause Nkosanana unomoya ophansi

Unginyanyisa nyaaaa nyaaaa udoti lomama

@@noziphontini1821 🤣🤣🤣🤣uyahlekisa nawe "ukunyanyisa nyaaa"

Yuuuuuu strong shame🤮

Hahaha naze nangihlekisa

long time ago i forgave her

Good , You did it very good. Mama will stay Mama.

life sisi we just need to trust in God.

This life

Kuningi nje abakufihlayo labayana.

Why in the first place a fitlhetse bana ba bangwe ba gagwe, gore bana le abuti. I don't think gore o humble.

Unonkiloyi lo wabaleka nendoda eshiya ingane emnva usile nje qha arhaaaa uyanginyanyisa

Kuningi akufihlayo lo usile