If you managed to get out of Spain along with your kids after all you went through............I confirm God's power and protection.

Accept he's gone out of your life, live within your means and explain to your kids that things have changed. I raised my four kids alone after my husband left. They were under 10 years. I cried alot until I let go. I interacted with people and my mindset changed. .change starts with you. Today am a proud mother of beautiful youths and today one is a pilot

I went through the same with a German man mbaka I took my kids hocha! For 13 years .Alhamdulillah he brought himself back na akaanza kuwasaidia!

I have three kids and I have raised them alone my daughter is in form four and my twins in class six and am a single mother hata sitaki kufwatilia about there father

That guy is a Psychopath,a Narcissist. lea watoto wako mummy.Gods grace is sufficient.

just my 2 cents. you can relocate to a place where its normal to have mixed race kids. like mombasa or malindi there are so many such kids some somali, arabs, european, barawas, indians so you wont stand out and look unique. and your kids and yourself you will have a normal life. i personally know several single ladies ambao they are just hustlers wamepata watoto na people from europe, america etc na wanaishi maisha ya kawaida tu and their kids go to public school in malindi and mombasa but in other parts of kenya especially if you're not well of financially you might look out of place with mixed race kids coz in other towns it's not an ordinary thing. watoto hua wanaadapt any lifestyle you give them

When people shows you who they are believe them the first time, when he went back to Spain the first time and he went quite that was the first sign to show you he isn't a trustworthy,you can do better without that man

Pls, these kids were born here...help them to know, colour does not matter they are Kenyans. Stop thinking of going to Spain, please Kenya is the best country. You didn't learn a lesson being discriminated! East or west home is best

This life is not a Walk in park... people suffer..but God will help us 🙏🙏

Beautiful girls...be strong mamma😉God is in control..

Why care of spain after all that u passed thru🤔 ati watoto warudi kwao spain yet there born here in Kenya. Its just 2 kids mama hustle acha maringo ya colour, private school if u have reached a place ya kulala njaa u shouldnt even have time kuthink sijui there father ni mspain or whatever kaa maisha rahisi even in America we have whites who are in streets yaani tu kenya ndio mtoto hawezi enda public juu ni mixed race 🤨 sorry for my comment but as a mother cant understand u got a job even kuja mathare uone waliachiwa watoto 5 na kazi kupika chipo n life goes on.

Pls do not take those beatifull girls to their mad musugu pls to avoid abuse.pls take care of your kids

Even if the world ends today I can't be married 💍 by a mzungu never

Breaks my heart. But also gives me strength to know that I'm not alone. Pole mummy things will workout for you.

I sympathise With you and it’s very unfortunate you have had to go through this ordeal .. but I don’t understand why the kids can’t study like other kids in Kenya . Skin colour dosent define success! I just don’t get it

There is a law that was passed in Europe about parent having children with European nationality, that give you rights to apply for European residents permit. Ruth research on that and you can be able to come back to Europe and probably with your story go to a different country and start a new life with you kids. After your children get the passport approach different European embassy there in Kenya and try to find help.

Yaaaani hawa wazungu!!!!!, i love and respect them coz Am married to them but they give some ladies so much pain !!!!!, God help us

Woiye surely there is a God in heaven... May God restore all that has been lost❤️

My heart goes to this lady n her kids....she mentioned an important aspect that through experience i respect so much...she said that she don't want her kids to be taken away as a form of help...she would rather take care of her kids. Please well wishers never give a mother an option of giving away kids.

I think Spain embassy in Kenya can intervene and reach out to that deadbeat

Wooi jeremy maya maundu maaah....may our lord bless the work of your hands...wairimu God is in control

So sad . May heavenly father see you through & fulfill your heart desires...

She needs to accept her situation, and hustle for her kids. There are a lot of single moms who are hustling for their kids. A lot of mixed kids being brought up in Kenya, and African in general and they attend local schools like other kids. Saying that her Kids should attend private school because they are mixed sounds to me like she has a complex, and feels her kids are more special than other kids.

Ruth, am sorry kwa yake ilikupata. If you want peace, tell yourself you have no husband. If you keep thinking of somebody who is not thinking about you, you will just hurt yourself. He is a merciless person from all angles. Wengi wamelea single handedly even 5 children and they have managed. Jipe nguvu you will go far. May God heal your stomach sooner than you can imagine.

Utimo sacco umoja we love you RUTH....you kids are always cute and I adore them....mwaaaaest 💕

Beautiful kids ,watching from saudia Arabia

God be with you brave mum. You survived that odeal because there is a future for you and the beautiful souls. Thst man will regret his evil actions. Utasaidiwa. Please display the number again.

They are such beautiful kids.

Single mothers bring up kids up to university..Fanya kazi Ruth..May God gives you healthy to manage this case.

My neighbour, we once visited her after her operation, May God see her through.

Dating a white guy doesn't guarantee you a ticket to good life.Lea watoto and forget about him.Nimeona ma dame wengi wameashwa kwa mataa hapa Nairobi after kulingia wasee hapa

*Sioni sababu ya kufikilia kurudi spain na ile mateso yote umepitia huko karibu kupoteza maisha. Mummy hii life ni kung'ang'ana 💪 watoto kuitwa wazungu na wenzao wakienda public school itafika mahali wazoee, bona unajiua na shule za bei ya juu ilhali ata chakula mnakosa? Mungu akufungulie jia upate kazi ulee malaika wako bila stress🙏* Nima kindu no mwene Jeremy ukifanyisha interview huwa ina flow vizuri 👌

Daughter of the most high God May God be your strength as you raise and protect your two beautiful girls. It’s so sad how the Father of your girls mistreated you. Forgive him . I thank God that he protected you. Many women in similar situations face their worst. Be encouraged God will make a way for you and your children. Shalom, Much love and prayers❤️💕❤️💕❤️💕🙏❤️💕🙏💕❤️🙏

The earth is hard.ati watoi hawaezi enda public school juu ni mix?

Ruth home is the best feel comfortable and let the girls know they're Africans and be proud of it. Dig yourself in prayer and let God drive you and never think of taking those kids back to Spain raise them in Kenya when they grow up and they want to go there it will happen. Sweetheart you're capable of doing all things through Christ don't worry about anything you're not alone God bless you and your beautiful girls. Jeremy thank you for the highlight something good will come out it be blessed and may the KDM family do something. Lots of love ,hugs and kisses. ❤❤❤❤❤🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭

I remember her story she look very different,I believe Ruth can do better in Kenya than in Spain

Hi Ruth, take your children and yourself for counselling. This trauma is real.

Subhanaallah yaarabi wanawake tunapita maisha mangumu sana tukisha pata watoto pole sana dada

Home is the always best l love kenya

I saw her on Tuko...please let go and let God...Let Him fight your battles...May God heal you and all suffering in Silence...

This gal has changed her body a lot may God see her through but saying baba yao inaniudhi pretend you geri them from irungu or kimathi like any other lady out here don’t hold on the colour that because they are white be you and yourself

Only God knows what people go through far away from home.

My sister ety umesema unaeza rudi Spain 😳😳😳😳upatane na ule mwanaume mwenye alitaka kukukata shingo?🤦🤦🥱ingekuwa ni wewe sigewai think about tht man ata kama niko na watoto nayeye ...I wish unaweza kuishi maisha Ile uko comfortable nayo bila stress , anyway pole Sana everything gonna be well.

Beautiful children watching from Spain Barcelona

I am a chotara and I went to a public sch Life has to continue .

Ruth youre a strong woman, you've been handling alot of things at the same time for a long time, the beauty of it is every time you're not where you we're yesterday, your tomorrow is brighter, just take heart , it's has not been easy but you've been making it,

Kenyans kenyans kenyans Ladies Hw many time did I called you oohhh Pliz kenyans men are vry sweet why are you not comfortable wth this good mens in kenya am happy to have my kenyan man oooooh olekeni tuuu kenya yawa😢😢

God bless you ❤️🙏.. very sad for the kids..

You are Blessed my brother 🙏

I had a seen her interview on tuko last year with Lynn ngugi ,her body has totally changed. My fellow meru don't give up in life ,trust in God everything is possible

May God see u thru this soon in Jesus name 🙏🙏🙏🙏

Wish you all the best mummy. Put God first in everything. Forget that white man kabisaa. Lea watoto.

God bless you my namesake and may His purpose be done in your life

I really hope the lady can be able to pick up her pieces and move on ..for me i would never want my kids to a man who treated me like that -i wish she accepts her situation as it is and helps kids adopt this life as we hope for better future- counseling for herself n kids is key.

Try to come to uk. I can invite you to my house until you get help.

Wafrika mutachana kufuata white skin juu unaona feature will be bright

Hii maisha Una faa kukaa ngumu watoi hua tuna lea peke yetu na ss ni hastle life watoi niwa mama mtoto ana ishi vienye Una mlea tafuta job dear Wanaume Wana fanana

Haha..weu Jeremy,ati hakuulizi ni nny umekuja nayo?anyway take heart ma'am, your children will grow to be gr8 pple.

It's very hard for kids to adopt to new changes. I can tell from my own experience.. may they find grace to get through it all

the guy went for introduction and after that things became bad. may God punish the enemy!

I am already annoyed halfway. What? I didn't know such racism exists in the world. Spain, I have stopped supporting their football team, Barcelona

Her story was in Tuko i think 🤔 these are the wazungus people die for 🤦🏿‍♀️.

Wow very sad particularly for the kids

It's sad how fellow women have no empathy for Ruth. Why push the idea of her going back to a country that she experienced so much trauma unless her inner guts gives her an ok. She's asking for help from those willing to help her and kids continue living in Kenya. Only Ruth knows how the trauma has internally affected her and her beautiful kids. Please be sensitive as you make comments (to the point of telling her to take the kids back to their father if she can't take care of them) why? why? If you can't help don't make them feel like people don't like them especially now.

Ruth this is what I can share with you... "Not that I speak in regard to need, for I have learned in whatever state I am, to be CONTENT: I know how to be abased, and I know how to abound. EVERWHERE and in ALL things I have learned BOTH to be full and to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer need. I can do ALL things through Christ who strengthens me." Phillipians 4:11-13.

Malawi is part of southern African countries just like we have kenya, Uganda or Tanzania as part of East Africa countries

GOD will help you just focus to GOD n forget about everything and that wicked abusive man.

Pole dada,I agree with you not easy God will see you through forgive wale hawaelewi about mixed coloured kids

Sad story but thank God you're alive

Thank you Jeremy for the support and gd work

God is good you are healthy you can hustle for your 2 kids

Mtaacha kuabudu wazungu wakenya.. Cheiii

Nkatha e muka. God bless you kirembo

Take care of your kids God will support you. .usitugemee mtu tumainia Mungu pekee

Someone goes for 3 yrs no communication anarudi unapata another kid men..

Sorry for what you went through mom.I live in Spain and I use public transport everyday na sijawahi fungiwa nje na bus na pia hosi i'm attended like any other person have all the rights here.They are racist it is true but that mzungu ni evil sana

This is when family comes in. We are family.

You are a strong woman ...

may God see you through babygal 🙏🙏

Jeremy!!You so funny 😂 ati hata hakukuuliza umekuja na nini..

We had a family that used to rent from us in Kabete, they were half white half black. They all went to public schools and that was in the 80's and 90's. Just let them attend public schools. kids get bullied for all kinds of reasons. They will become strong. They will also have kids who will really stand with them.

Just do what u can n God will see u pass all this u will see .. it not the end ❤️❤️❤️🙏🥵

she can apply through the international court for child support. The non custodian parent has to pay for the children’s upkeep.. there is a table of guidance towards it in spain any can be backlogged from when she started taking care of the children alone.

Peleka watoto hope international, tafutana na hawa, Embakasi Tasia

am so sorry for what you have gone through but. if i were you I would just asume The baby daddy is dead dead dead! then pray to God for strength and His divine provision then move on with on with life..... Trusting God for and 'with all' you is the key in this life... dont go back to Spain... God will see you through...

Pole Ruth....this too will also pass away.

No no no! Watch out. If if your discriminated even by those who could not let you board matatu, follow your conscience. At this time am sure it hard to make a "decisio" due to hardships. But with God everything is possible. Let those in spain and ready to assist assist you while in kenya.

Madam ,forget about that Spanish father,take care of your children and forget about him. God has some blessings for you in store,just keep praying and put more effort into your life until something happens. Prayers work ,keep it up.

Sorry, but forget this ‘husband’. The man does not love you nor his children. Focus on raising your kids with whatever little you have. They will understand. No need to send kids to Spain and go suffer there. You will still struggle there without Spanish language. You almost lost your life there.. Abroad is not all that. Your kids need you. Don’t take them back to the mzungu that doesn’t even care about them.

😥😥😥 aky mungu akukumbuke na awapee nguvu wewe na hao watoi

I know her but I lost her number..help me get her number..used to be with her in umoja

Behaviours of a narcissist, appear, disappear..silent treatment...they are worse than murderers, you never know what's coming next!

Ati juu niwazungu hawawezi kaa ghetto! The kids should learn thy r Kenyans!!

Unless she goes to Spain and lives alone with the kids and try to struggle alone but not take them back to that man. If he can try to kill her in front of them, then they won't like their father. They will be depressed. Kids can live in Kenya and survive if only she has a good job.

Ng'ang'ana Mami..Kuna wengi wako na watoto na wanapitia mengi zaidi..for me i don't see the difference of your children and the other black children, they are all the same but as long as they have good health there is no problem....

Matatizo ya kukimbilia wazungu

So painful but take heart mum,, and where did you meet your husband AK

For the time being try to look house work cleaner supermarket cleaning etc

Accept tuu wapeleke public school,wacha kuwabeba na hiyo mentally ya rangi,they are normal children.

I would advise these lady to go back to Spain then go to uk and settle there permanently