10 Agreements Every Couple Must Have Before Marriage

10 Agreements Every Couple Must Have Before Marriage | Kingsley & Mildred Okonkwo

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3 ай бұрын

Embarking on the journey of marriage is a profound commitment, and laying a strong foundation is crucial for a successful partnership. This enlightening video delves into the 10 pivotal agreements every couple should establish before tying the knot. From finances and communication to personal boundaries and future goals, these agreements are the pillars that uphold a thriving relationship. Join us as we explore these fundamental principles that can foster understanding, trust, and harmony in your marital journey. Don't embark on this lifelong adventure unprepared - watch now and ensure your union is built on a solid framework of mutual respect and shared values.
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@evelynkwarteng7638 3 ай бұрын

1. Agreeing to hault the relationship when you see that it's not going to work. 2. Agreeing that if the relationship end up in marriage, divorce is not an option. 3. Agreeing to have a joint account (make everything finance transparent). 4. Agreement on communication (communicating more). 5. Agreement on no keeping of secret, password (building trust). 6. Agreement on exchange of parents. 7. Agreement on quarrel free marriage. 8. Agreeing to be intentional with intimacy. 9. Agreeing that nobody looks down on the other(more selfless and less selfish). 10. Agreement on using the Bible to work the marriage.

@owohchioma992 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for the summary It’s helpful

@OgooluwaOjo 2 ай бұрын

Thank you

@hannahumukoro7919 2 ай бұрын

Thanks 🙏

@olusolaonanusi5643 Ай бұрын

Thank you

@OsifoMary Ай бұрын

Thank you for the summary

@AgabaRichard7 3 ай бұрын

1. Freedom to Walk away 2. No Divorce 3. Joint Account 4. Communication 5. No passwords, shared devices 6. Exchanged parents 7. No quarreling 8. Intentional with Intimacy 9. Looking after each other 10. Running the marriage by the word.

@elisabetholaniyan9044 3 ай бұрын

Thank you for the collaboration

@12345653569 3 ай бұрын

Thank you

@Minister--pat 3 ай бұрын

You do all ❤

@dejibimbola 2 ай бұрын

I knew a blessed soul would have extracted the points

@ChiafieEthel-fz1pg 2 ай бұрын

This is so heart touching. Thank you pastors

@tobiabraham8574 3 ай бұрын

1. When uncertainty of conviction comes, never leave each other hurt 2. Divorce is abolish (Same as threatening to leaving the relationship isn't healthy) 3. Having Joint Account.(building Trust, Money will never be an issue) 4. Communication is the key ( communicate your pains and hurts often and don't keep silence) 5. No secrets especially on social media handles 6. Exchanging parents 7. No quarreling (we mustn't be mad at the same thing) 8. Mutual intimacy intentionality (Kissing and hugging each other every day) 9. Looking out for each other (Not been selfish, always asking questions of what do you want me to do for you. Are you happy?) 10. Word Center

@kuekiakuffo7167 2 ай бұрын

😊

@ayodejifunmilola2559 Ай бұрын

Lord give me my own, intentional, Godly, ready to listen to me every time 🙏, never get tired of me God i will not marry rubbish in Jesus name 😭🙏

@ishayaukwen 2 ай бұрын

I love the fact that when she talks he rarely obstruct her

@bestmanprobel2971 Ай бұрын

Couldn't drop my phone down till I finished listening. Guess what! My Wife sent this to me

@chisommefor5035 Ай бұрын

May your marriage continue to wax strong

@masilelacalsile9056 3 ай бұрын

"Prayer does not change your Selection" Pastor K.... this captured my attention the most..my fellow Christian ladies while we're praying and trusting God for Kingdom marriage..it is upto us to still be intentional in selecting..so help us Holy Spirit in Jesus name amen.

@veronickollo7786 3 ай бұрын

Amen 🙏

@affyaffy-yk1fq 3 ай бұрын

AMEN

@abenadufie4312 3 ай бұрын

Amen n amen

@jalianabiira9404 3 ай бұрын

Amen

@graceogechi 3 ай бұрын

Amen

@tosinadeoye9931 3 ай бұрын

PST K knows how to lighten up the mood of the room. His sense of humor is great!!!

@maloni_c 3 ай бұрын

Absolutely, he's really good at reading the room! As for his Sense of humor,he's a pure & proper Sanguine😂!

@nyimbonizipendazo 3 ай бұрын

Listening to Pastor K and Pastor M has made me grateful for all the broken relationships I have had.

@eno-obonglambert8433 3 ай бұрын

"It takes two intentional people to build a marriage but takes one to scatter " Thank you Sir

@adebimbola8532 2 ай бұрын

😊😊

@darlingtonodom6913 2 ай бұрын

Wow...I just heard everything that was wrong in my previous relationship. My priest who is also a marriage counselor told me I dodged a bullet; I didn't understand it. My ex fiancee just hated the fact that I listened to Pastor K's teaching too much, I was like, what's wrong with trying to know how to love you better.

@ekweozorpromise2976 2 ай бұрын

All Pastor K's messages I sent to my own he didn't even care to listen to them

@diamondp8438 Ай бұрын

Currently

@jackiekobusinge3745 Ай бұрын

Wow!! Imagine

@ebubechinedu194 25 күн бұрын

Aah... I'm surprised o I'd definitely love me a man that listens to Pastor K

@janeteneadikwu301 23 күн бұрын

Same here as well.

@adedoyinolamide6266 3 ай бұрын

The family you build is of more priority than the family you're from.

@StarrStuddedEnt 3 ай бұрын

Most men, especially mama boys don't understand that!!!

@Aiii_me6682 3 ай бұрын

@@StarrStuddedEntso true

@pelumiraheen4936 Ай бұрын

@@StarrStuddedEntGod bless you 🙏🏾😊 my thoughts exactly

@nalubegalydia42 3 ай бұрын

This couple has blessed the kingdom proud of you more grace

@mercyogbu5681 15 күн бұрын

I'm preparing to be married again after the death of my husband, thank you pastor K and wifey, I will be more intentional about my spouse this time

@sublimeswhite 10 күн бұрын

This time ???? Oh women . Your statement is a show of relief that ur late husband was a pain. Na waoooo. Won't you stay. Why do you want to marry again.

@JohnTemitayo-gk2hz 3 ай бұрын

Whoever is earning more is not superior to who is earning less

@friederikemaragela6363 2 ай бұрын

Say that again

@akpachukwuloveth3152 2 ай бұрын

Thank you Jesus, I don’t know how God does it… but everytime I need clarification on something especially relationship, I just open KZfaq and God leads me to a message or preach I should listen to. I especially love the part you said ‘’WE would not think of divorce no matter what happens, we are in this for life. I also learnt about the sulking, that’s me .. but I have changed now… because it’s not a good character. God will help me Thank you so much.

@oluwabukunmibamikole1737 3 ай бұрын

Communication is the life of every relationship. 🤔 It takes two intentional people to build a great marriage and marriage is between two givers

@cryptoairdroplover7172 3 ай бұрын

One thing I conclude with this is that everything from a to z has to be intentional, it's risky to act on your feelings i.e doing what you feel like doing in the marriage.

@generationalworshippers9472 3 ай бұрын

Right intentional

@speaktothewisepassionforwi9538 3 ай бұрын

~Nobody has successfully begged for love......not for long.... ~Marriage won't give you what you don't have..... Have a life. ~when you have self-esteem and self-value, you'll become very selective of the person you journey with in marriage... Nuggets from Pastor K.❤😊

@kechamartha2337 2 ай бұрын

Never beg for love. Have self esteem & value yourself

@TheVictoriaC Ай бұрын

I used to sulk too because I felt that it was better than talking out my emotions and it was definitely worse. But now I talk and sometimes I over talk, so, I just keep praying to know 'WHAT TO SAY AND HOW TO SAY' when angry!😊 We all really need to unlearn and relearn in this thing called marriage. 😅

@JohnTemitayo-gk2hz 3 ай бұрын

No secrets,no password and no hidden things

@pstphilipnewmantv7628 3 ай бұрын

Marriage without tolerance will not work, no body is perfect

@indibala3941 2 ай бұрын

Tolerance is not a virtue, Patience and Acceptance is a great virtue.

@victoriaeffiong2777 3 ай бұрын

Wow! I love this teaching, i have never heard it in this version. Exchange parents, look out for each other, be intentional about intimacy etc. God bless you sir/ma, for letting people like us into some of the secrets to your marital success/bliss.

@ewanembohfiona6451 2 ай бұрын

When you are both inlove with each other, almost all of these rules/agreements comes naturally. Respect will make it come naturally. Love will make one be patient till the other partner can accommodate his/her presence. Etc

@sannom5467 15 күн бұрын

Love is more than a feeling, it's a choice. You choose to love, you also choose to be intentional.

@edziemacpelashalom610 Күн бұрын

@@sannom5467 Your statement is just powerful

@oluwatosinevelyn4165 21 күн бұрын

I needed these secrets shared I have been selecting wrongly and God has been faithful to be saving me from the relationship. I knew God has a better plan for me. I just have to wait build my capacity to be the right person while the right person comes

@Arrows_4_Christ. 3 ай бұрын

I'm blessed. Though I'm single now but I trust God to be a great partner to my spouse when God settles me in Jesus Name,Amennnn.

@chikadibia7064 3 ай бұрын

Amen

@adedayoademokoya9109 2 ай бұрын

Amen

@venunyesrabi 2 ай бұрын

Amen

@euniceganadzi4644 2 ай бұрын

Amen amen 👏👏

@Honeywhitebiz 2 ай бұрын

Amen dear

@user-xu1uo1rt2b 2 ай бұрын

Communication is the life of every relationship Thanks so papa❤ and mama❤

@modupekalejaiye5981 3 ай бұрын

Kingdom marriage is the way to go. No other way. Thanks for your exemplary marriage. God bless you both.

@user-pp9ik8zn2g 19 күн бұрын

It's worth the time You guys are worth listening to... But one thing that distinguishes you and your from others is this: you have a financial woman unlike most men in our society!

@ojochideadams4975 3 ай бұрын

I agree for joint account only for contributions to run the family. Joint accounts and also to have individual accounts. I like to help people around me so I still need my own money.

@vitalisanasudu8408 3 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@alinayili2199 3 ай бұрын

No matter how you explain it, you want to live an individual secret life. There's no way, your partner will say don't help except it's at the expense of the family which is a foolish idea to begin with

@the_eduthusiast 3 ай бұрын

You are still giving excuses...

@the_eduthusiast 3 ай бұрын

Pick the right partner, heal from your insecurity and you won't have to have "your own money"...

@charleschidera6306 3 ай бұрын

I don’t think it’s about being insecure, I don’t see anything wrong with keeping personal accounts, like me for example i like to plan surprises and it’s easier to do that when you have a separate account

@naomi5940 3 ай бұрын

Powerful. Marriage is a ministry.

@princesskezia4713 Ай бұрын

Communication is the birth of any relationship

@GidsongsIsreal 2 ай бұрын

The family you build is better and more important than the family you're from

@elizabethoteng7632 3 ай бұрын

Thank you🎉, Pastor Mildred

@TeesSpace23 3 ай бұрын

Thank you so much pastor K and Mrs K ❤

@EberePreponey-uv2rq 3 ай бұрын

Thank you Pastor K & M ❤

@alumanidavid 3 ай бұрын

Thank you Pastor sir😇😇😇

@brightchukwuegbughe3855 2 ай бұрын

Thank you so much pastor Kingsley

@janeumeh1623 17 күн бұрын

Pst k, you are wonderful humorous being, and you are lucky to get a like mind, bcos some folks maybe born again but still very manipulative.Thanks for this presentation,it will go a long way to produce futures wonderful kingdom relationships.God bless your wonderful union

@KennethBenedict-tv5hg 3 ай бұрын

Total transparency

@po7495 3 ай бұрын

I've gone back n forth on this finance (especially the matter of prenup) issue a lot. I wish I cld send him a question directly. It's not that u don't trust the person but rather u cannot control how the person will change 10 yrs from now. Even God said he regretted creating man at some point. Of course the person u marry today is someone u trust but if that person gets up 10 yrs from now n walks out regardless of counseling etc., u can't force them to stay. Why are we ok with every kind of insurance (life, home, car) but not a prenup😢 which is pretty much a financial insurance? Like he mentioned person can be determined to fight for the marriage when the other one mentally left a long time ago n nothing can change their minds.

@petakiliyaonlinetv2051 21 күн бұрын

What is prenup about?

@SoTech- Ай бұрын

I love this pastor Kingsley

@EstherNneka-l2q 7 күн бұрын

Am blessed to hear this pastor k More grace

@MundiFurniture 12 күн бұрын

Thank you very much Sir and Ma

@vimbaisibanda9446 3 ай бұрын

Powerful teaching ♥ thank you Pastors blessed

@ofoegbuujunwa5673 3 ай бұрын

The part of exchanging parents is 👌👌👌👌👌👌👌 God bless you

@Just.Celestina 3 ай бұрын

Thank you so much Pastors❤❤❤

@specialagbinor465 16 күн бұрын

This message is so powerful

@dorcasbrownson 3 ай бұрын

I hear you Sir!!!!! The choice of partner is the foundation!!!!!

@Remnantteachings5070 3 ай бұрын

Thank you Jesus for this

@adzovimajoie1708 3 ай бұрын

Thank you ma’am and Sir. GOD bless you ❤

@otumchiamaka4626 3 ай бұрын

God bless you so much, Pastor K and Pastor M

@Smart_Diamond. Ай бұрын

This is wonderful...thank you Pastors.

@stevepeace4205 3 ай бұрын

Y'all are blessing to me Sir/Ma

@ruthzango7638 3 ай бұрын

I love the balance in your agreements.

@loischoji2031 3 ай бұрын

Doing what you don’t feel like helps build your discipline 🔥

@carolinebisieri7674 3 ай бұрын

I love it when you minister two God bless you

@funmiolaiya2203 3 ай бұрын

This was very helpful. Thank you

@awaniiyanuoluwa2113 2 ай бұрын

I just loce listening to you. You're blessed daddy&mummy.

@immaculatemario69 3 ай бұрын

I love this message. Thank you Pastor K and pastor Mildred

@GodgiftOkponya 19 күн бұрын

Wow, Thanks for this. God bless you both.

@susannamuli2756 3 ай бұрын

I'm blessed by this message. May,God bless you Pastors.

@user-nb3wi7dj4z 27 күн бұрын

May God continue to bless this couple. Such an insightful message.

@longlifeangel3850 3 ай бұрын

I love this man, that's marriage.... Now I'm ready

@charlottekuradusenge3407 3 ай бұрын

Wowowo, thank you sir, Wowowo, am so blessed This is so powerful,

@stephanekalenga2473 Ай бұрын

How a real blessing your teaching and life ! God bless you !

@lizkahwa5321 3 ай бұрын

Wowwwww... Thank you. I am blessed

@Stella-cf9vq Ай бұрын

Watching this makes marriage interesting to me.

@ritaodionobasuyi6553 3 күн бұрын

Communication is the life of every relationship

@eseemily360 3 ай бұрын

Thanks pst.K and pst.M thanks 😊 for this teaching 🎉.God bless you both

@luciamabunda8545 3 ай бұрын

Nice to be on this platform. 🙌🙌😊🇿🇦My Favorite Pastors. May God Bless you more ❤

@cherishsotonye940 3 ай бұрын

It's easy to do marriage if you do what Jesus says,... make your marriage word ruled👍

@graceogechi 3 ай бұрын

I agreed thanks for this wonderful message

@lucymremi1066 2 ай бұрын

I am surely blessed.Thanks alot Pastor K and your lovely wifw

@ekpereamakafavour2621 3 ай бұрын

Knowledge is power

@akellodoreen4280 3 ай бұрын

May the good Lord protects and blessed you both Amen ❤

@DebterOmeh-ui9fi 3 ай бұрын

This is an eye opener Sir/ma.I celebrate you

@gloriatondo2857 3 ай бұрын

My God thanks very much pastor have learnt alot

@giftnze7247 2 ай бұрын

Wow... This teaching is so open minded ❤... Thank you!!!

@oladejodamilola 3 ай бұрын

Very inspirational teaching...thanks so much sir / ma'am.

@ChombaPriscoviaKasabali 2 ай бұрын

Hearing this at the right time, thank you 🙏

@judychungu9131 3 ай бұрын

You can't pick a weak team and get surprised at the poor results

@oseymavis7135 2 ай бұрын

This podcast is everything...my God! Pheew!!!

@goldamadds1635 Ай бұрын

Thank you Sir and Madam.This is profound

@paulamarachi6252 2 ай бұрын

This teaching is wow thank God it came my way

@ifyvictory6309 2 ай бұрын

Thank you power couple, more grace🙏

@julietogana959 2 ай бұрын

Thank you so much pastor k and pastor m,i love you both...keep blessing minds.

@peaceinneh1990 3 ай бұрын

Oh my , I've learnt so much from this and im grateful for it

@annahrevaival7187 Ай бұрын

I was blessed. Thanks alot for the guidelines drawn

@blessingprincess6393 3 ай бұрын

I'm so blessed with this wise words ❤

@gideonaameen9469 3 ай бұрын

This is so powerful and life transforming ❤❤❤

@susannamuli2756 3 ай бұрын

Making alot of sense.....

@jacintachijiuba702 2 ай бұрын

God bless you sir. Thank you for the nuggets 🎉

@psjudahdaniels6557 3 ай бұрын

This is so educating and inspiring. Thanks Ps K and Ps M.

@foreganoreka4047 Ай бұрын

GOD BLESS YOU BOTH FOR THIS MESSAGE

@ahanotujovy1688 3 ай бұрын

I bless the day, I cross path with pastor K and his wife.. May God continue to bless & protect your marriage Sir.

@bisiriyurukayatabiodun3833 3 ай бұрын

So many thing to Emulate here. Thank you mummy and daddy I'm blessed

@najjukamariam1986 Ай бұрын

Unique arrangement. Thanks for sharing.

@aminaii7961 Ай бұрын

Very helpful as always. Thank you

@abidemifalaiye7803 2 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for this teachingg...I have learnt alot