How To Know If He Really Loves You

How To Know If He Really Loves You | Kingsley Okonkwo

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Many times people ask this question and over time I have realized sadly, that a lot of people get moved by words and forget love is an action, so I thought to make this clear to everyone who needs to learn and know how love works.
Join Kingsley Okonkwo as he shares 'How To Know If He Really Loves You'
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@haniebrown8876 Жыл бұрын

Im glad I met this channel b4 I messed up things...... I've realised many red flags already. Thanks for the advice.

@vimilchar 2 жыл бұрын

Oh! It's so good to watch a pastor dressed plain and simple. No big rings...No big chains around the neck...Ah!...and then he still speaks truth and give advise that you can really apply...Ah! Praise God!!!!

@speranzakiragu3491 2 жыл бұрын

Yes,,, but not all with big chains are false pastors,,,,,,

@Nurseafenomijessica Жыл бұрын

There’s nothing wrong in a pastor wearing big ring or jewelries What!?? Hmm abeg abeg

@moureenmachanwe8986 3 ай бұрын

Are you seriously focussing on what pastors put to listen to the message.. kindly check your intentions

@ezinnepaul2999 2 жыл бұрын

So this guy really loves me this much. Father thank you for giving me the Best gift 🎁 in the world 🌎 ☺️

@PrettySarah31 2 жыл бұрын

These Honourable Pastors make serving God soooooo beautiful. Single women please let's be wise ooo

@ruthandrew3945 2 жыл бұрын

Now I'm 100% sure my boyfriend truly loves me. Thank you sir 🙏

@abbagoziemsylvia6568 2 жыл бұрын

I'm here bursting heavy laughs and Wondering how people are not laughing at the voice change when he read the passage about Tamar and amnon. Pst K has effortless humour

@heritageoyebamire6795 11 ай бұрын

😂😂😂 I swear

@omoladeoguntola4824 10 ай бұрын

As in ehn! I don laugh tire😂😂😂😂

@temmyal7990 9 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂Still laughing

@FunkeOgunsina 22 күн бұрын

😊😊😊😊❤❤

@oziiluv 10 ай бұрын

1.If a guy loves you, he will pay attention to you. He will listen to you. 2. He will be willing to wait for sex. He will be patient. 3. He will be glad and quick to introduce you to people that matter. 4. He will be protective of you. He will be protective of your welfare. 5. He will include you in his future plans. He will share his future plans with you. 6. He is willing to invest in the health and well-being of the relationship. He will like to go for seminars, to church, read books about relationships at your insistence.

@phoebeappiah1245 2 жыл бұрын

I hav ever ever see any pastor who coach like this before..... he is very intelligent

@damiflexsolutions 2 жыл бұрын

Powerful message intro - 01:01 How to know if he truly loves you 1. He will listen you her, by paying attention. - 11:39 2. He is patient for sex after marriage. - 14:13 3. He will introduce you to people of integrity that matter to him, by being proud of you. - 20:12 4. He will be protective of you from his relatives, friends and everyone. - 24:27 5. He will include you in his future plans. - 31:04 6. He is willing to invest in the health/well being of the relationship. - 33:01

@nancysamson3185 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for the summary ❤

@winuzeh5570 Жыл бұрын

Thank you

@helendelailomaloma6249 Жыл бұрын

Thanks

@chiemeziemanorue6809 Жыл бұрын

What about the girls

@ambassadoremmanuel1553 Жыл бұрын

Please how do I get the concluding part of this mesage

@zonywest4262 Жыл бұрын

Soooo True! I had an experience.... Before sleeping with this guy, I was the most beautiful woman he had ever seen, he showed me off around town etc telling me he loved me. As soon as I let my guard down!!! He got mad at me! I suddenly became short and Ugly! I was one of the worst things on the planet. 😂😂😂 I laughed my but off!!!

@milikamalata7650 Жыл бұрын

You are the voice that we need in this generation Pastor Kingsley. Thank you so much for all this wisdom. Keep increasing 🙏🙏

@daramolaayomide2859 Жыл бұрын

As soon as the red flag is seen runn True love reciprocates each other it’s not one sided

@exhortationsbyeva6345 2 жыл бұрын

Infatuation and obsessed can get mistaken for love!

@nyaramakurumidze9352 Жыл бұрын

l wish if all girls could listen to these wise words full of wisdom and build permanent homes for Christ.

@ernestmulenga3890 2 жыл бұрын

"I love pastor Kingsley Okonkwo so dearly deep down my heart. His teachings has really changed my life. May God keep you long sir for the sake of the next generations to come who needs to hear to this kind of wisdom. Commenting from Zambia."

@adaofcharles1217 Жыл бұрын

Amen in Jesus name.

@evaarloo5452 Жыл бұрын

God bless u papa don't stop what u are doing for as🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

@ernestmulenga3890 Жыл бұрын

@@adaofcharles1217 Amen.

@ernestmulenga3890 Жыл бұрын

@@evaarloo5452 Amen.

@mscurvy6922 2 жыл бұрын

Love .. If a man loves you .. Your happiness he will put first .. and show in action! And same for a woman ! If not it’s not love .. but just glossed up as love ❤️!

@jessejuangwa854 2 жыл бұрын

Your messages have literally shaped my way of thinking sir and loving

@preciousglory6735 2 жыл бұрын

What you are teaching us the generation our parents never teaches us this if they did .,…. God blessed your home sir

@chituruoji8939 2 жыл бұрын

Correct pst k. Sex confuses so many things.

@faithethomas2823 2 жыл бұрын

Very informative, I love it. This is coming from a man, listen very carefully.

@Angiie._tm 2 ай бұрын

I love how we laugh while learning over here!😂😂👏🏽🔥

@zoefrancis4417 2 жыл бұрын

May God strengthen you Pst K.

@Marie_Doresse 4 ай бұрын

Thank you Pastor K for this teaching

@tojuirone1997 2 жыл бұрын

Always blessed by pastor K...God bless u Sir

@japhettonbrapade4112 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you pastor sir this is an eye opener.

@comfortattah3623 11 ай бұрын

Thanks for your words of wisdom pastor

@gemanwaneri 2 жыл бұрын

Kia! Sir, You are so full of Wilson. More grace to you, pastor K.

@Barnabas_Akinrinola 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much, Pastor K! This is the stuff to learn.

@sampsonhope8215 2 жыл бұрын

You're very correct pastor K, obsession is oftenly mistaken for love and that's why whatever the lady will say doesn't count,God bless you pastor K

@joycepatrick6862 3 ай бұрын

All this is true.Thank you pastor

@edehchioma2561 2 жыл бұрын

God bless you sir🙏🙏 I’m always blessed by your words ......

@evahhonour5008 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Sir eye opening message.

@tinaluyo98 Жыл бұрын

Some truths are bitter to swallow but sweet when they get into the stomach. Thank you sir

@dorcasiyanujesu6954 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Pastor for putting us through. God bless you

@foyinlolasworld6072 2 жыл бұрын

Beautiful points Thank you Pst K

@MaryOsabutey-b9g Ай бұрын

This is a powerful message of wisdom

@chidinmaokeke9909 2 жыл бұрын

Thank u very much for the advice God bless you.

@chinenyehappinesschidi5167 2 жыл бұрын

Thank You So Much Sir.. God Bless You Richly 🙏🙌

@fatmatasesay7467 2 жыл бұрын

Great speech, thank you so much sir.

@deborahakindeko2040 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Pastor

@maggiemkawuda5870 2 жыл бұрын

Be blessed man of God

@ohonbazillah4547 2 жыл бұрын

Dear pastor, this is very interesting, thanks so much, God bless you

@abigailojieh 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you always Pastor K and Pastor M for your teachings.They are always worth listening to.God bless you sir

@attahprosper3610 2 жыл бұрын

You are a blessing to me daddy 💕, I'm really learning a lot

@oluwadarasimi852 Жыл бұрын

Thanks you so much sir This is really helpful

@Nikky707 2 жыл бұрын

Wonderful message

@wana4592 2 жыл бұрын

Deep truth,,,, marriage is not a private issue,,,,, very important points raised!!! Thank you, Pastor K

@uchennakennedy65 Жыл бұрын

Pastor k. Ur teachings are inspiring.. I got value from it.. thank you sir nd God bless you.

@faithiris9614 2 жыл бұрын

Finally am here ,I thank God

@bueze4016 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you sir. You re a good influence for our generation.

@rhulanipoetryfactory7623 Жыл бұрын

This is wisdom- great wisdom. My eyes are opened, thank you Pastor.

@classicalretroback 2 жыл бұрын

Real talk sir. You nailed it well.🎯

@terryondecks350 2 жыл бұрын

I've been waiting for this teaching for so long.I only had short clip❤

@otobongedem9586 2 жыл бұрын

Very helpful thank you

@anitaboima2582 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Lord am grateful to listen to this wonderful massage, well-done sir 👌

@mirriamm.3277 2 жыл бұрын

Amen... getting blessed by your insights on marriage and relationship.... God bless you Pastor K and Pastor M....I love how you serve God together

@TaiwoPeterOdeh 2 жыл бұрын

I celebrate you Pst Kingsley

@serahmyls6208 Жыл бұрын

❤❤❤❤❤❤ thanks Man of God ..be blessed 🙏🙏

@mercyn5422 2 жыл бұрын

Wow!!! Thank you sir

@rianangaemaluta 2 жыл бұрын

Eye opening message.. Thank you Pastor K 🙏❤️🖤💜 The best relationship coach ever...

@helendelailomaloma6249 Жыл бұрын

Priceless!

@ritakane2010 11 ай бұрын

Well done PK, more grace 🙏

@mihlalimirandambasane8340 Жыл бұрын

Wow thank you Papa this is really helping alot.💯❤️🙏🙇🙇🙇🙇we really needed this🥺

@nyagowalavender4455 Жыл бұрын

What a message. 🙏🏼

@proxpee8984 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much sir

@ebunlomooreoluwa Жыл бұрын

Thanks so much daddy...

@shedrachameachi8183 2 жыл бұрын

Thank uh sir for this 😊😌😌😌

@chimchimo.5050 Жыл бұрын

Wow, this was very insightful 🥹👏🏾

@user-od7ft8rt7t 6 ай бұрын

The 😂voices got to me😂... but great wisdom through God's vessel Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo.

@goodnessogbonna9851 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for all you do sir God continue to bless you

@anazodoifunanyac 2 жыл бұрын

Very educative. This video was reposted

@borderlesstv777 7 ай бұрын

Superb!!!!!!!!

@tojuirone1997 2 жыл бұрын

Can't wait for that of the famales

@victoriaoluwatimilehin8770 11 ай бұрын

Thank you pastor 😌 By God's grace, I hope to bring my future husband to you as my distance mentor when I'm ready to marry 😊

@ifeomadibiagwu9528 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much sir. This is very helpful ❤️

@happybutterfly7124 Жыл бұрын

Awesome teaching. I don't want to be adversarial, but I dated my ex-husband for 3+ years. He didn't push me to have sex with him; he simply had sex with others instead. Fathered a child; lied to me about fathering the child only to admit it 40+ years later to our children after we'd divorced.

@jachinmajayc445 Жыл бұрын

In all these things, you should marry or date a born again Christian. Anyone can pretend. And if you are not discerning, you will fall for their pretence. Important factor is to have the holy spirit.

@victoriachidinma2019 Жыл бұрын

I'm glad, and praise be to God I can find all these in my fiance.. we have even done introduction without sex.. some people will insist they come back from abroad, spend time with the woman probably have sex bfore doing anything... I'm grateful to God! He planned it!

@Agu-042 8 ай бұрын

I don't think sex after introduction is bad though....it's already official nau!

@citygirl237 2 жыл бұрын

"The food burn" 😂😂😂

@gemanwaneri 2 жыл бұрын

If he is hiding you, he is scamming you📌

@Angiie._tm 2 ай бұрын

“They go dey call you our wife, they all know that you’re not the one”… “those boys are wicked” 😂😂🙌🏽

@favourewere Жыл бұрын

This so true

@ntokotom147 2 жыл бұрын

"She thinks because she's cooking for us, we will vote her. Don't marry her" 😂😂😂😂My goodness

@RandibelAkam 17 күн бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂

@KateTriumph 2 жыл бұрын

Hello, Pastor Christopher, I ordered the A to Z of marriage for about 2 months ago but haven't received it please could you advise. Thanks and remain blessed.

@moeshaj.6637 Жыл бұрын

Loved this 😂😂

@angelknight6626 Жыл бұрын

Alwayz love your teachings but thought you said you was gonna teach 6 each n 7 combined...I was disappointed it finished so quickly 🙄😔😉

@ElizabethBimela 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you papa for this words of wisdom 🙏 sometimes we hardly get this thing's cuz we fail to understand actions...but actually today I'm blessed with this teachings, God bless you pastor 🙏🙌

@ufink Жыл бұрын

So I love this teaching but the part that doesn’t feel right to me is every time he talks about Amnon and Tamar story is that he says Amnon was not a bad person because he thought he was in love. Amnon was a bad person who raped someone and it cost him his life. I don’t think that story should be told lightly.. He forced himself on her.. so I think the way he also portrays Tamar as talking so sweet and making light of it is not fair, she was probably terrified. I can appreciate the message from the story.. but that was a very sad story and should be portrayed as such.

@adedoyinbadejo679 Жыл бұрын

I felt exactly this way, I understand he's just trying to add humour to his preaching but this passage can never be humourous in anyway. I'd have preferred he used a "silly" voice for amnons part to portray Amnons stupidity A person who thinks he's In love won't even consider rape, Amnon and his friend where evil for that orchestration

@kalenuka-bestlifegeng461 2 жыл бұрын

My mum can’t wait to get to Canada oh🤣🤣🤣🤣 I understand the joke wella🤣🤣🤣

@ambassadoremmanuel1553 Жыл бұрын

Please how dp i get the concluding part of this message because im eager to hear what he says about guys

@davefx_ 2 жыл бұрын

Every fornicator is an adulterer in training!!!

@lExN34 3 ай бұрын

But PK 😂😂😂, The first voice change I actually thought my speaker had malfunctioned 😂🤣

@aregbesolazainab9267 2 жыл бұрын

Ahhhhh chai…… too bitter truth 😭

@joanneclarke4226 2 жыл бұрын

Lol separating anxiety 😅 🙃 😬

@neroonose4585 2 жыл бұрын

The voice change to 😂😂

@successokoro5959 Жыл бұрын

Is now I know am not in relationship at all 😩😩

@brendandong9344 Жыл бұрын

Good evening pastor. I'm Brenda from Cameroon. I wanted to know if the guy is supposed to have all of these qualities or just some? What if he's lacking in a few, should the lady still leave him?

@adedoyinbadejo679 Жыл бұрын

He should have all, these are the bare minimum if a man loves you, he must have all these qualities

@laraiyammah9467 Жыл бұрын

What is lacking now, are you ready to deal with it for the rest of your life?. Think about it