knowing fashion makes you less fashionable

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Laini Ozark

Laini Ozark

Ай бұрын

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@melinathefairy3006
@melinathefairy3006 Ай бұрын
oh my god somebody finally said it about the jane birkin bag keychains. youre supposed to decorate your bag and make it more personal slowly and not in the fast fashion way. youre supposed to love your bag so much to use it often enough to hang random keychains you find through time and life. not just buying something spare of personality and adding it on!! it doesn’t make sense without the emotional attachment
@CeCe1066
@CeCe1066 Ай бұрын
Long comment but just wanted to say it’s a bit crazy to me to think people would go out of their way to mass buy keychains, plushies, and necklaces (worse yet if it’s from a fast fashion site or amazon) just to put them on their bag(s)…And then potentially never actually wear or use those accessories again/throw them out. That really is a sign of peak consumerism and it’s a bit sad. I mean, it just never crossed my mind cause I always saw the “Jane Birkinifying” trend as the best way to personalize bags to suit your style and preferences. And even better if the things you accessorize with have been in your closet for years, or you got them as gifts, or from a big trip, or it’s your mom/dad/aunt’s that you borrowed a few years ago (and still have to give back). Like just “random knick knacks you’ve acquired” kinda vibe! I’ve been doing it to my tote bags and now my “adult girl” bags since college a few years ago. And a lot of the accessories i’ve collected over the years, or are gifts from family or friends. And the most fun parts are mixing and matching everything depending on my mood and outfit, and being able to have a conversation about the little knick knacks if someone points it out. And thats what gives this “trend” so much space for individuality!! So to now have it in my head that people may actually mass buy things to just put on their bags for a couple months and throw away baffles me. This was honestly an interesting video cause it just makes me reflect on my own mass consumption, and i did also watch Ash’s after this too! Really glad to have people on this platform discuss fashion in a more “serious” way. Like yeah i get it, it can be “just” clothes but also fashion is a huge billion (i think) dollar industry that affects millions of lives globally
@bambi9609
@bambi9609 Ай бұрын
@@CeCe1066I think most people see it the same way as hanging keychains on a backpack, which is less of an eccentric knickknack acquisition and collection. When decorating a backpack, you tend to buy a puffball or a plush of your favorite character. I wish people would put more emphasis on going into your own jewelry box and seeing what you don’t wear and repurposing different items (like hair bows!).
@cassinicircuit5810
@cassinicircuit5810 Ай бұрын
I recently had to explain chronically online fashion vs intentional maximalism to a friend. Like everyone should dress how they want but some things I see and I'm just "yeah that;s a very online outfit." Also the Jane Brikinfying thing, I think a lot of people want instant "style" rather than cultivating your persona through dress that actually reflects you, which is how you get people just buying amazon hauls of stuff to slap on bags rather than being intentional.
@sarahe6629
@sarahe6629 Ай бұрын
fr i feel that “instant style” just lacks nuance and like just understanding why you’re doing smth makes the biggest difference
@slaymaster01
@slaymaster01 Ай бұрын
yes good explanation 🖤
@idkuhh621
@idkuhh621 Ай бұрын
Honestly, I just put on cute bracelets of mine from many years ago that I love onto my bags and it makes me happy.
@lja530
@lja530 Ай бұрын
Oh, I feel so called out, I did actually buy cute little pendants for my bag on amazon. But at the same time I think it's okay to be impulsive and have fun with trends, one thing doesn't make the whole outfit.
@izzz222
@izzz222 Ай бұрын
I agree, I think the decorative bag trend is so cute but it’s very obvious, to me atleast, when it’s genuine eclecticism vs people buying things just for the eclectic look.
@dkalisd
@dkalisd Ай бұрын
I love seeing Asian grandmas doing pattern mixing without thinking too much about it. Always look so cool!
@victtayl
@victtayl 29 күн бұрын
So true! I noticed this when I visited Vietnam - loved the different patterns worn together.
@lowkeyayokai
@lowkeyayokai 6 сағат бұрын
what do you mean? that sounds rlly interesting! can you give more examples (culture, country, etc.)? i'm so curious about this :0
@maegantrice936
@maegantrice936 29 күн бұрын
Carrie Bradshaw made athletic dolphin shorts and heels look fantastic. I think the key to fashion is whether you can convince viewers that it’s authentic to your style or not. Are you wearing the outfit or is the outfit wearing you? If it looks authentic and genuine, you can get away with almost anything
@leannarichards9113
@leannarichards9113 Ай бұрын
a combination of getting older, being online too much, and having fashion knowledge has meant that lately I don't even really know what I like anymore and who/what I want to be/look like not to mention that nothing is made of quality anymore and I don't want to over consume so every purchase feels like it has to be THE purchase
@tjasazaloznik116
@tjasazaloznik116 27 күн бұрын
Yess to the second part!!
@lukitzo98
@lukitzo98 Ай бұрын
i recently went to lake como and i must say it was maybe the first time in my life seeing so many pinterest-curated outfits together in one place and it made me feel SO sad, everybody looked exactly the same, 90% of people looked uncomfortable in the clothes they we wearing and it just looked like they'd all seen the same pinterest inspo pictured and ransacked zara and adidas in preparation for the trip. it made reflect on my own wardrobe, my own relationship to clothes and realize i actually dont like the way a lot of the things i see on pinterest look like irl, im just brainwashed
@miselomatipa
@miselomatipa Ай бұрын
I personally don't use Pinterest because I feel like the confirmation bias of the algorithm over there keeps me from coming up with things on my own
@amaram6121
@amaram6121 2 күн бұрын
Ah, I totally see that, but on the other hand I really get introduced to lots of new things on there as well
@ohffsreally
@ohffsreally Ай бұрын
I have proof that dressing up athletic pants is fashionable, and here's why. I did this over 15 years ago in my rural village in Germany. I was wearing my oversized men's adidas joggers and was supposed to meet my parents at a village festival. I threw over a black blazer with shoulder pads because it was a bit cold, and I thought to myself: woahh! that looks kinda cool! like the juxtaposition was interesting and gave me this feeling of unintentionally effortless. Back then, there was no instagram or pinterest or tiktok, and I still thought it looked cool. So that's my proof that it has always been cool! 😀
@EbonyMMoody
@EbonyMMoody Ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤love your story
@abimon76
@abimon76 26 күн бұрын
honestly these are my favourite kind of outfit, when it unintentionally happens it just makes it so special
@ohffsreally
@ohffsreally 24 күн бұрын
@@EbonyMMoody 🥰
@ohffsreally
@ohffsreally 24 күн бұрын
@@abimon76 Very true. The fact that I even remember that outfit after so many years
@erikageronimo9599
@erikageronimo9599 4 күн бұрын
I’m curious, if you noticed other people replicating your outfit after wearing it to the festival?
@stephaniesamuel9569
@stephaniesamuel9569 Ай бұрын
Wrong shoe theory is like dressing like your childhood self, which I love. 🥰
@lili.z9950
@lili.z9950 Ай бұрын
For me the blouse + athletic shorts + ballet flat combo really reminds me of secondary school and like dressing half in your uniform and half in your athletic clothes after school. To me it’s very much a private school aesthetic and related to the “old money” aesthetic.
@chantelombard9660
@chantelombard9660 Ай бұрын
I’m definitely more into styling than being seen as “fashionable”. I can’t stand weird outfits on people who simply wear them because it’s weird and they want to be perceived as being fashionable. It shows no personality or curation. It comes across as trying too hard to seem different. Not saying I’m not into weird pieces, but being able to style weird things in an everyday setting is way more impressive to me, but that’s of course just my opinion.
@asantewaaho5313
@asantewaaho5313 Ай бұрын
I think the Jane birkenfying is interesting since we have seen this in history before. People decorating their bags with buttons, their laptops with stickers, their rooms with posters, their cars with magnets, etc. The difference now is that people are taking the “personalization” aspect of Jane Birkenfying without being “personal”. There’s no authenticity when it comes to decorating. That’s why you see people with the same charms on their bags or necklaces. It’s not interesting or fashionable when everyone is rocking the exact same charms on their bags. It’s just people building personality off of each other instead of building their own personality, style, and identity.
@victtayl
@victtayl 29 күн бұрын
And it's ironic because Jane Birkin actually had a really strong personal sense of style. She didn't just copy everyone else. She's still an icon for a reason and she'd never have followed fast fashion trends
@Loveerta
@Loveerta 24 күн бұрын
Problem is, people no longer have the patience to take time to collect and curate stuff. They want it all immediately, they want the final look right now. My other ick is when people go and get 15 tattoos at once to get that "patchwork" look that someone else has authentically curated over the years. You will always spot authenticity vs fakers.
@paygej8710
@paygej8710 Ай бұрын
Never thought adding keychains to bags was a nod to birkin bags. I thought it was Asian fashion influence seeping into western culture. When I studied abroad in Korea (many years ago) this was common practice along with over the top phone accessories which is also popular here in the US now.
@kkuudandere
@kkuudandere Ай бұрын
that's where my mind went, too. especially the popularity of cute plush keychains. interesting to learn an alternate view of it!
@No1PlutoSupporter
@No1PlutoSupporter Ай бұрын
Yeah same!!! Idk about other Asian pop culture, but I’ve watched many kpop idol what in my bag videos and they always have charms and accessories on their bags. I really liked a video of IUs bag, I watched it maybe in 2023/2022 and that accessorized bag hasn’t left my mind lol
@ky_c_c
@ky_c_c Ай бұрын
I agree, however I though of both Jane and like old Japanese girls school bag accessories in 90s and 2000s magazines. But the trend It’s not really a nod to birkin bags themselves but Jane Birkin herself (the muse for the birkin bag), she’s a very interesting person to look into and comes off as chic, down to earth, funny, and fashionable and i think a lot of people try to recreate that energy instantly without even making a niche of their own, but instead just bulk buying shit on Amazon. I always think it comes out soulless looking, especially when you can tell every single item is brand new. Like if it’s an old looking tarnished chain it makes sense to put it on a bag bc you probably wouldn’t wear it as a necklace anymore, but when it’s a sparkling perfectly new chain…. And everything is new it’s just like 🤦‍♀️
@le-mytran8994
@le-mytran8994 27 күн бұрын
I thought this as well. Right now there is a popmart figurine dolls as keychains going on all over asia, partly because of kpop and partly due to the influence of chinese pop culture on the rest of asia. I saw this as a continuation of the super feminine girly asian aesthetic. I have also seen this style in niche artsy subcultures that are heavily influenced by Asian pop cultures as well!
@whatandiesupto
@whatandiesupto Ай бұрын
I feel like women wearing basketball shorts & dressing them up is simply radical. Choosing comfort over style or rather choosing comfort and making it stylish.
@CaseyBowman7
@CaseyBowman7 27 күн бұрын
THIS! I have sensory processing issues and I have to wear loose fitting clothing and certain fabrics, but when I was younger I convinced myself that I looked "ugly" because I couldnt wear form fitting clothes or frills or many accessories. Now ive learned that casual and comfortable outfits can be very stylish and pretty with intention put into colors and patterns and fitting. Just because I am very limited in what I can wear doesn't mean I can't look stylish or express myself!
@adriana12995
@adriana12995 Ай бұрын
When I see an outfit online that is considered trendy and fashionable, I like to imagine the person wearing their outfit where I live and I ask myself “would she look completely insane if I saw her walking down the street in my city wearing that?” While it’s good and fun to experiment with fashion and wear whatever you want, there is something to be said about just how much the internet is making us believe that crazy trends are supposed to be fashionable. Yeah, a girl wearing sporty shorts with kitten heels looks cute on Instagram, but how does she look walking down a middle class average town? 😂 There is a very fine line between unapologetically wearing what is truly your style vs wearing crazy impractical stuff just because you saw others do it on the internet. “Fashion victim” is a term that comes to mind and I think we are seeing a lot more of it due to the internet and too many changing trends.
@sqrlgrl
@sqrlgrl Ай бұрын
The idea of "Fashion vitim" is such a good point to bring up
@abimon76
@abimon76 26 күн бұрын
i remember when bows were really really in, i saw my classmate come in wearing a white button down shirt with pink nylon dollar store ribbons clumsily tied strung into each individual button hole, all the way down the shirt, i remember suddenly and viscerally feeling like extremely sorry for her
@jisoolove7499
@jisoolove7499 Ай бұрын
So agree, especially with the Jane birkinfying of bags
@jadev9223
@jadev9223 Ай бұрын
this is so interesting and I feel like before Pinterest there was chronically reading fashion magazines. I read them nonstop growing up (rip nylon) and there were always outfits that didn’t make sense and when I would try to (badly) emulate them everyone in my life would be like what are you wearing??
@haleighen
@haleighen Ай бұрын
I think being people are more focused on being fashionable than they are on being stylish and building personal style. And I do sort of mean that in the way of the definition of fashion - as that being “in fashion” historically meant trendy. I just turned 35 so my personal style is probably more set than folks in their 20s but it gets better the more offline I am because I make choices that make sense for me instead of based on what the internet thinks is cool.
@imanbenerrabeh
@imanbenerrabeh Ай бұрын
i am in love with this background. the muted coral couch, the yellow scarf like fabric, the red fire extinguisher, the big off white fridge with everything in the kitchen shelves out in the open, the sleepy dog. love love love it so personal and so warm!
@Rosa-sv4yc
@Rosa-sv4yc 26 күн бұрын
I feel like a lot of people get caught up in copying/ getting the exact next new piece they see on TikTok or Pinterest in an attempt to be fashionable and completely forget about being imaginative and developing your own fashion sense. Your videos always put my thoughts into words. Love love love your videos!!
@ImpulseKombucha
@ImpulseKombucha Ай бұрын
I think the athletic shorts/pants with a dressier top and shoe is totally the natural progression of jeans with nicer tops and shoes. I think there 10000% was a time when we were talking about wearing a blazer with jeans or heels with jeans like it was a sort of kooky fashion girl choice
@KayceeStrand
@KayceeStrand Ай бұрын
I’ve been decorating my bags with pins and keychains for a very long time, so all my pins and keychains have sentimental value or are a reflection of my personality. I find that’s more stylish because it reflects me as a person not just a trend that I want to participate in.
@toyaJM
@toyaJM Ай бұрын
Was just commenting on another video that true style takes time, curating anything that is unquestionably you takes time. People want to rush through everything and the real art of styling your fashion, home, life takes lived experiences.
@jericson1109
@jericson1109 Ай бұрын
The Birkin came out at the end of a massive multi-year trend of decorating handbags with keyrings and other ornaments, that spanned the late seventies to early eighties. The bag that was most often decorated that way was called a buckle bag. You should be able to find photos of some examples if you search for buckle bag 80s. We've been here before...45 years ago.
@hanaaarow7941
@hanaaarow7941 Ай бұрын
I think a big part of avoiding empty and trend chasing outfits is wearing things that reflect your personal interests, even if it’s the most random thing, if you buy things that are really specific to you and what you like it will end up being way more unique and something you treasure long term. I think it comes off more chronically online when it’s clearly just like a costume with none of the individual’s personality.
@ranyaahmed8641
@ranyaahmed8641 Ай бұрын
i get it like normal people dressing rather than online dressing - really trying to find the balance of what works for my life and still looking cute cause the heat is actually killing me as a modest girly
@slaymaster01
@slaymaster01 Ай бұрын
chronically scrolling is at the cost of our fashion and health! these are very reasonable discussions to be having now in this futuristic year of 2024
@dudemcgee4959
@dudemcgee4959 Ай бұрын
as someone who likes fashion and uses pinterest, i try to stick to saving only specific items. so for example, instead of one pin thats a full outfit, ill save seperate pins for items that could make up an outfit. i find this more engaging since it actually lets me practice putting things together + figure out specifically what i do and dont like
@ezerstudio9195
@ezerstudio9195 Ай бұрын
I’ve definitely done these trends without realizing they’re trends because it was a genuine processing of my love of different variations of myself, a varied schedule, and maximizing how I feel & the transition between activities. So for me in that moment it was fun- and I felt fashionable- and I wasn’t wearing those fits when I wanted others to think I looked cute- it’s genuinely fun and for me.
@flamingivy7334
@flamingivy7334 Ай бұрын
yeah same. I'm developing my style more but it just happens to be lots of what is trending. like, no I'm not being trendy the trends just aligned with me
@chelfie3000
@chelfie3000 Ай бұрын
I feel like the more I watch KZfaq, especially KZfaqrs focused on trends, like this channel unfortunately, the more I lose my personal style and have a warped idea of what’s cute.
@elenalai6036
@elenalai6036 Ай бұрын
I honestly think this subject in general can vary a lot between places, like I'm Italian and I live in an Island thats pretty cut off from the rest of the world, so even if we look at Pinterest outfits all the time it's never gonna be a weird "What the heck did I put on" kinda fit, it's always gonna be tailored to the culture I'm in and where I live. Sometimes I match an easy pair of mary janes with socks and people look at me like I'm crazy, so I think what we consider the "everyday person" changes a lot depending on where we live. I dont see many "fashion girlies" here hahahah
@ashleighcallaghan
@ashleighcallaghan Ай бұрын
EEEEEEE WHO IS THAT SEXY KZfaqR U MENTIONED !!???!?!? she looks super cool. loved everything pls i have a video coming that reflects this so much :') thank you so much laini xxxxx
@bananacreampudding
@bananacreampudding Ай бұрын
the jane birkin thing turned corny so fast. it’s now about throwing the same 5-6 trendy items onto your bag- jellycat keychain, a bow, a rosary, etc etc.
@thegillmachine
@thegillmachine Ай бұрын
mine has a pronoun pin and a gummy bear hand sanitizer holder 🤭
@thegillmachine
@thegillmachine Ай бұрын
also a heart carabiner
@lja530
@lja530 Ай бұрын
I totally get it - there's outfits that are pinterest trendy but to the untrained eye they're just crazy. I'm not about that but there can be exceptions - like, I think a ballerina could look chic and elegant with adidas trackpants, you know the long and flowy ones, or with a pair of baggy jeans, if the lines are still elegant. If that makes sense. Edit: I actually saw versions of athletic shorts and button downs or fancy tops a few years ago on the streets of New York, maybe that's where the trend originated. NY was also where people actually wore those Converse with the chunky trekking sole. They're not my thing but I love when places still have their own vibe and not every trend stems from social media.
@jeffbuckleysurinal
@jeffbuckleysurinal 27 күн бұрын
I so wholeheartedly agree with what you said about Jane Birkenifying your purse. The whole essence of Jane Birkin's Birkin is like life, and the passage of the time, and especially UTILITY. So when you're Jane Birkinfying your bag you have to think about how Jane Birkin herself saw her Birkin as an item that facilitated her life and day to day instead of a fashion accessory. That's where the Jane Birkin in Jane Birkinyfing should come from.
@Nicole-xl2kw
@Nicole-xl2kw Ай бұрын
Laini you look so beautiful in this vid😢 like the lighting, that purple on you, your lip color.. ugh!!!
@fatimakhalid5572
@fatimakhalid5572 Ай бұрын
I always say the more you go into fashion the worst your outfits are, sometimes you have to go back to basics
@nyashamuwalo5886
@nyashamuwalo5886 Ай бұрын
I don’t think knowing fashion makes you less fashionable. In fact, I would argue that my relationship with fashion became far more intentional once I studied designer fashion. There, I began to appreciate the time, effort, creativity, and labor that went into making some of my favorite pieces. It was no longer a matter of sustainability in the superficial sense, but more so, how can I look inward to really understand my personal style? And you can only understand why a piece of clothing is so important once you understand its back story. Like, what is the designer trying to communicate? Are they simply copying from other lesser known/well-established brands to hop on XYZ trend or are they trying to tell a story? And the problem with Pinterest is that it is really focused on aesthetic and self-expression rather than storytelling from within. Just because something is cute doesn’t mean you should own it. That's how corporations want you to feel so you can spend a bunch of money on clothes that ultimately say nothing about who you are.
@crybbyjaimie
@crybbyjaimie 12 күн бұрын
you’re so right ❤
@cakemeat8321
@cakemeat8321 Ай бұрын
the brown and black thing reminds me of when I was in highschool and I loved dressing up (not in a chronically online way since social media wasn't a thing how it is now) and one of my friends who didnt seem to care about clothes told me youre not supposed to wear navy and black. like what?? I never heard that until then and never listened to that advice another silly thing is how when I used to play games online like 15 years ago I'd make my character wear a frill dress and some armour looking boots and once again my friends said it was ugly. it's always good to look back at your childhood for inspiration!!
@marijab96able
@marijab96able Ай бұрын
I have the EXACT same thought of the Jane-birkinifying our bags with random stuff. The reason why Jane was an icon with her stuff hanging off her bag is because she spent so long curating the things to put on it. It wasn’t random junk from Amazon
@chelfie3000
@chelfie3000 Ай бұрын
YES this needed to be said! If you have to be online and see a lot of “fashionable” people do a trend in order to KNOW it’s cute or fashionable, it’s not!!! Actual good fashion and style is like when you’re at a museum seeing art thinking “why is that important” or “I could have done that” and then seeing a piece that makes you think “THAT is art.” It makes you feel something, it has a je ne sais quoi that these Pinterest outfits don’t. Also, the adidas track shorts and a blazer or a “going out top” don’t have much variation, they don’t pull from an expansive cohesive style. They are a copy and paste that shows it’s a very specific trend.
@Chunkyshoesuk
@Chunkyshoesuk Ай бұрын
Outfits mixing obvious seasonal pieces confuse me. See them loads online. Athletic shorts with a think winter wooly scarf in same outfit makes no sense. Looks cute on pinterest but when or why would anyone wear it? Defo online fashion rather than real life. I am loving the bag charm trend. Been doing it for months. Not seen anyone else in real life doing it tho
@Polly-Jean
@Polly-Jean Ай бұрын
Yes. When people totally ignore the weather (isn't this what clothes are primarily about, protecting you from the sun, wind, rain etc.?) The weirdest thing I ever saw, maybe, was someone in a trenchcoat style but waterproof looking rainjacket and those roman sandals (with the ties up the leg) and no visible skirt. There is no weather for this outfit to make sense When you look at a picture of several fashion influencers together and every one of them is dressed for a completely different climate...
@b1sib1si
@b1sib1si Ай бұрын
LITERALLY MY BIGGEST ICK. I see it so much on Pinterest and it is really online fashion, like it would not make any sense irl
@PEACELOVEMUSICA
@PEACELOVEMUSICA Ай бұрын
Yes to the Jane Birkin note. Adding charms cute. Buying bulk charms online to add, boring and frankly ugly.
@georginalobo-clarke2412
@georginalobo-clarke2412 Ай бұрын
I’ve gotten to the point where my brain is too consumed by media to imagine outfits on me without looking at similar ones on someone else first-what makes me have original style is to see what I find beautiful in paintings, nature, tapestries, architecture-anything that isn’t other peoples clothing because then it inevitably becomes me trying to be someone else-hope that helps ❤️
@paygej8710
@paygej8710 Ай бұрын
I'm so rude I realized I was just watching Ernie and ignoring what you were saying until you threw up pics over where he's sitting lol
@LainiOzark
@LainiOzark Ай бұрын
I have trouble editing these videos because I also just watch him
@idkuhh621
@idkuhh621 Ай бұрын
He looks so adorable just sitting there, my heart 😭😭💗
@adriana12995
@adriana12995 Ай бұрын
I think the term you’re looking for in this video is “fashion victim”. I see a lot of fashion victims on social media and I think they conflate experimenting with fashion with just wearing every single trend in one outfit. Having a sense of personal style is completely lost when you try to wear things just for the sake of being trendy.
@cmulo
@cmulo Ай бұрын
Omg you have been uploading so much it makes me so happy!!!!!!
@jensewsvintage
@jensewsvintage Ай бұрын
you're always speaking facts ! i think thats what makes you stand out (: you pay attention to the nuances of fashion
@darklinaendgame
@darklinaendgame Ай бұрын
Your makeup looks so prettyyyy
@wroniskoooo
@wroniskoooo Ай бұрын
To be fair the best thing I did for my style was deleting tik tok and reducing time I used to spend on Aesthetic Wiki. I still like watching reasonable fashion youtubers like You and Alexa Sunshine, I also love browsing pinterest, but I feel so free and confident now when I'm not desperatly trying to find my aesthetic. And I don't feel bad for looking really stupid in baggy jeans anymore ;)
@darklinaendgame
@darklinaendgame Ай бұрын
Early!! I like every video even before I hit play love u laini. Totally agree what you said about the birkinifying purses. It’s like buying a bunch of cheap mass produced stuff for your house to show you have personality instead of allowing your life and the things you collect over time to demonstrate your personality or style
@ryeofoatmeal
@ryeofoatmeal Ай бұрын
I think the wrong shoes or wrong outfits thing, we've been doing it since teenage years 💀 and people just realised that rule bcos we have so many resources to buy this and that. but back in the day when we were in financial constraints or we just simply has less outfits and we kinda go with whatever we have in our closet. the same thing as how garments nowadays tryna imitate the 'homeless/poverty' look while we're wearing the worn out trousers or shirts naturally cuz we had that for many years 🙃
@milkypony
@milkypony Ай бұрын
had no idea people were buying tons of stuff to 'jane birkinfy' their bags!!!! :( that indeed looks kinda ugly. i love charms and keychains that have a storyyy behind them (they are your favourite character, your friend gave it to you, you found it on a trip somewhere...)!
@jaredflores2074
@jaredflores2074 Ай бұрын
Laini Ozark, fashion philosopher loll great vid 🤙🏼
@alyfaith16
@alyfaith16 Ай бұрын
Love Ernie keeping us company during the video☺️
@cirrusm.2829
@cirrusm.2829 Ай бұрын
I support all this crazy experimentation and wrong XYZ theories (as long as it doesn't lead to dramatical overconsumption), even though I'm the complete opposite of it and will alway try to choose the "correct" thing every time 😅
@andreja9425
@andreja9425 17 күн бұрын
as someone who went to fashion school and is now trying to weave my own way into the broader industry but has been somewhat outside it, online fashion can be really cool but also makes me sad sometimes. I am not immune to the influence of the net by any means, but I find that taking inspiration from a wide swath of sources like older films, art and fashion history, the legacies of old design houses, the innovations of young designers etc has been far more rewarding and has helped me keep perspective on what is style. I’m not saying I dress timelessly by any means but it’s way more fun to me to incorporate influences from all sorts of eras into my style in ways that feel personal and expressive. I have for example been really influenced by Rococco, coquette, 60’s space age, New Wave and Mod aesthetics, 90s/2000s Japanese movies, 80s goth, postmodern sleek casual, horror protagonist girl next door style, and glam rock, Giallo cinema, Early 2010’s pop/rocker fashion, 1920s glamor, and a myriad of contemporary and ancient influences as well. The way I dress moves through all these influences organically but can also be somewhat over the top for many but I love it. Some media that has really inspired my style lately would be : Ritual (2000) Cleo from 5 to 7 Fallen Angels Marie Antoinette Orlando Stop! Hibari Kun! Letter From an Unknown Woman In the Mood For Love Suspiria Pose A Tale of Two Sisters Hausu Pretty Woman Last Night in Soho Batman Returns Climax Flashdance Tenebrae Sid and Nancy Blade Runner Clueless Bones and All The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo Christiane F The Doom Generation Apologies for so many of these being horror oriented (it’s my favorite genre) but definitely check some of these out if you haven’t seen them! Trigger warning for some of them though lol. I just find collecting influences semi organically way more fun!
@daisyevia
@daisyevia Ай бұрын
your doggie ❤❤❤❤
@carlachua
@carlachua Ай бұрын
I love watching you ramble
@cphr69
@cphr69 Ай бұрын
Omg second, sorry i am one of these ppl I’m just so excited, I f-ing love ur outfits and all the new summer trends on Pinterest I could imagine everything I see on Pinterest on you! Love you
@rubywednesdays
@rubywednesdays Ай бұрын
Omg i love Ash!!
@Olivia-Foster198
@Olivia-Foster198 Ай бұрын
Do NOT take a shot every time she says fashionable
@susanma4899
@susanma4899 Ай бұрын
Love Ash! Also love Kat!
@Onionsareleng
@Onionsareleng 29 күн бұрын
STOP❤
@rahavi5416
@rahavi5416 29 күн бұрын
I mix outfit "vibes" for example a dress with sneakers (feminine and masculine (in the traditional sense)) intentionally and have been doing so for a very long time because I see it as representing the different aspects of my personality that is very specific to me. For me it's about expressing myself in a way that I see myself- I don't think I complete relate to a feminine vibe or a masculine/athletic vibe or a gorp core vibe or a city chic vibe, I feel like I kind of fit 25% into each of those categories and so I tend to combine elements to showcase that. I wouldn't necessarily just mix any two outfit vibes for example preppy and masculine JUST because people like having contrasting elements in their outfits because it's trendy. But I do totally agree that practicality and function are core aspects of street style fashion. I think couture gets to be impractical and avant garde because practicality isn't a requirement, creativity and ideas/ concepts are. Couture gets to be impractical so that when it funnels down to the high street people can choose the elements of a couture season that they like and incorporate it into their wardrobe. But I think the unique opportunity that we have as everyday girls doing fashion is that we get to combine function with art in the way that we dress.
@ervinsmoviecorner8748
@ervinsmoviecorner8748 Ай бұрын
Nice one, Laini ❤
@jillibean7231
@jillibean7231 Ай бұрын
This may be random but, I think kids and babies are the most fashionable. I have two little sisters at home and I get all my inspiration from them. This could be a fun video idea! Looking at photos of you or your family as babies and just recreating the outfits or styling it your way. Or even creating outfits for baby and then creating outfits that match in a cute subtle way. (Just the baby outfit in the video not actual baby)❤️
@laurenk2677
@laurenk2677 Ай бұрын
pup couch cozzzzy
@thegillmachine
@thegillmachine Ай бұрын
love seeing Ernie he is very beautiful
@rocksyumyum9244
@rocksyumyum9244 13 күн бұрын
1:27 the puppy eyes 🥺
@closetgoround
@closetgoround 23 күн бұрын
So agree on this! People look like the same walking Pinterest boards. It’s better to not follow trends and sticking with your intuition! Also we have the same dog same colorway 🫶🏽
@jorjiesims
@jorjiesims 26 күн бұрын
ernie is everything
@phionakobusingye7162
@phionakobusingye7162 Ай бұрын
Just like when people post blurry pictures or pictures that don’t make sense. It’s cool sometimes but sometimes it’s overly done.
@benjaminnavarro4324
@benjaminnavarro4324 Ай бұрын
Great presentation I always watch your videos!! Nice content 👊🙂👍
@anijaetwa
@anijaetwa Ай бұрын
I like wrong shoe theory with kitten heels
@weetz806
@weetz806 Ай бұрын
laini where's your shirt from! i love
@MsCristina38
@MsCristina38 22 күн бұрын
I agree with everything you said.
@aycanadgozel688
@aycanadgozel688 23 күн бұрын
Great video but I have to disagree about heels with casual clothes/athleisure. I always thought it was really cool. I remember Zendaya wore a red adidas track suit, a trenchcoat and white stilettos to fashion week some time and it looked so good. Also I think the sport shorts + feminine blouse combo sounds good in theory but doesn't work in reality. I just can't get into it. It looks much better if you wear distressed dark jeans with those "coquette" blouses.
@liatkan
@liatkan Ай бұрын
the nice thing about being 40 is that i remember doing all those things in the 2000 with slight changes. the wrong shoe, over accessorizing my bag. it always comes back in some way shape or form. today there is a shift cause the level of mixing genre is higher but sometimes i see these things that for me are old fashion and ask my self: this is fashionable now? ok wow.
@Nina-wx3yg
@Nina-wx3yg Ай бұрын
agree 100% abt the jane birkin-ification. i love collecting keychains and plushies so ive always put them on my bags. the way some ppl r doing it feels soulless. i think what is cool abt the trend is seeing ppl's interest and personality shine through.
@livilain
@livilain Ай бұрын
💘
@acureformyheart
@acureformyheart Ай бұрын
Oh man this video called me tf out. Honestly though it makes me mad how my fashion style has turned into a soulless micro trend. Listen, I want to wear what the old men in my life wear and that is a sweater and sweatpants/track pants and loafers like cmon yanno that exists outside of the Pinterest eclectic grandpa thing
@dani3083
@dani3083 7 күн бұрын
The best outfits are outfits which photograph well but also look real and lived in when you see them in person. The Pinterest brain rot outfits tend to look too picture ready and therefore it doesn’t sit comfortably with that particular person. It’s uncanny bc you can tell that people who wear chronically online outfits dress for others and not for themselves! And fashion is all about personal expression.
@tjasazaloznik116
@tjasazaloznik116 27 күн бұрын
I want to update my wardrobe every once in a while, but I want less pieces and all of them being good quality which is usually more expensive. And it’s not just the price, I don’t want to overconsume and have an enormous closet. I want to buy things that feel like me and that I will love and want to wear for a long time, but pinterest and the internet in general has made it harder for me to differentiate what is actually my style and what I’ve just seen enough times to start liking. So in the end everything that I consider to buy becomes this big purchasing decision and I never buy anything for myself and just keep wearing things I bought during hs and college. But these clothes in majority do not represent what it feels to be my personal style and do not make me feel as confident and as seen as I want to. I hope it makes sense. Idk I hate it here
@yvonnemurphy7487
@yvonnemurphy7487 Ай бұрын
You hit on something here about people and fast fashion businesses just catering to and 'consuming' trendy styles in a cookie cutter way without thinking about it. It becomes more about commerce and copying and in the end just becomes more generic and uninteresting, less authentic, individual and thoughtful.
@kelseyc203
@kelseyc203 Ай бұрын
We all just wanna dress like Carrie Bradshaw, no matter how impractical it may be to do so. Of course, that could just be me. 😂
@susanswanson5487
@susanswanson5487 22 күн бұрын
I would make a case for the heels with casual clothes.. this was something Pat Field did with Carrie Bradshaw’s character in SATC allllll the time and she looked, imo, undeniably chic because she had a point of view. If that’s not already your style though, I feel like it’s going to feel very uncomfortable.
@catmoon-
@catmoon- Ай бұрын
I think the brown and black, and even dark blue and black, being a fashion faux pas come from formal wear for men. You are not supposed to mix those colours in suits, like blue pants with black jacket or accessories, like black belt with black shoes. But people don't wear formal wear most of the time, so it's fine to wear black with brown and blue. Also they look good anyway. I disagree with ~"if a piece of clothing was never worn that way before in history then it's not fashionable". T-shirts used to be only underwear and now they're mostly outerwear. Same with slip dresses. Fashion is always evolving and many different things that were considered inappropriate and a fashion faux pas can become fashionable and normal.
@donovanstokes5511
@donovanstokes5511 19 күн бұрын
You look just like Rachel McAdam 😮 💯
@aprilsage7303
@aprilsage7303 5 сағат бұрын
omg i thought i was the only being a b-i-t-c-h about 'jane birkinifying' bags bc i also thought that it's more of a sentiment and personal thing than a trend. i'm a fan of kpop and have been to plenty of concerts over the years and one of my favorite things is people dressing up and for YEARS kpop fans have been putting as many keychains on their purses and clear bags at concerts (and just in general) whether that keychain or charm be a picture of their favroite member or an animal plushie that reminds them of their favorite artist and each and every bag at a 10,000 person concert looked different and it was so special bc each thingamabob they attached onto there had meaning and now people are just buying shit off amazon bc it's what the trend is aksrHGFKHFKSUhrkfjhu
@rachellai527
@rachellai527 Ай бұрын
in defense of the athletic shorts, I just wear them because theyre super comfy and breezy, but they also (at least the ones I own) still have the silhouette of a normal short (flat bottom hem), as opposed to the side cuts and divots that say running shorts have. And they add a pop of color! I typically wear it with tshirts and tanks, but it is fun to dress it up with a more feminine top for a bit of juxtaposition and to just feel more feminine and put together while staying comfy. So at least in my case, it makes sense like sneakers and dresses do.
@vintageaddict4552
@vintageaddict4552 Ай бұрын
I been birkinfying my purses for a while just like wearing bows on my hair for years but i recently stopped because i feel like to overly trendy even though i been doing it for years people are just over doing it and i hate fitting in with everyone else
@samaaldahmashi6659
@samaaldahmashi6659 Ай бұрын
earlyyy hehe
@loverofthesacredheart
@loverofthesacredheart 10 күн бұрын
if i see one more conventionally attractive woman in a sports jersey with bloomers, white socks, and kitten heels i will scream. and no, basketball shorts and heels do not work together. my opinions on what you mentioned: 1) brown and black can be cute, it depends on what you do with it. 2) wrong shoe theory-- unless it's like some sneakers or chunky boots with a skirt/dress-- is horrid and gives the impression of "i just throw my mom's heels on to take out the trash even though i'm wearing basketball shorts". 3) pattern mixing can be cute! but there needs to be something intentional about it like you said, or maybe a common color. 4) sheer skirts I am immensely, deeply, vehemently not a fan of, being walking p*rn is not beautiful, 5) not into dressing up athletic shorts because I dislike shorts immensely anyway 6) charms on a bag is very cute just make them personal!! of course, people can ultimately wear what they want, but I believe that fashion should attempt to convey transcendent beauty rather than meaninglessness and irony, such as many recent trends of wearing things that are so unbelievably ugly that it becomes almost ironically cute to some, or is merely intriguing, which somehow makes it good... but ok i'm not responding to the rest of these but these are my opinions for now, i need to go to sleep goodnight!
@emilydenny5276
@emilydenny5276 Ай бұрын
Turns out I'm not as chronically online as I thought I was because a month or two ago I went "why the heck am I not putting a bunch of cute keychains and dangly things on my bag?? this would totally be a trend!" so I spent like two weeks looking for the perfect Kirby plushie, since I love Kirby but don't really wear pink it seemed like a good way to incorporate. Then in helping my bro-in-law clean out his room he was tossing out a keychain of Portal 2 Wheatley so I stuck that on there. I've got a denim jacket with a ton of pins on it but since it's warm weather now, I moved some of the pins to the bag... TURNS OUT IT'S TOTALLY A TREND. Actually, I'm sure that I was subliminally influenced to do it, but I just didn't realize I had even been seeing it. ANYWAY great video topic, really interesting. The best advice I've heard about participating in trends in a way that won't make you look back in a few years and go "wtf was I thinking??", or at least not so severely think that, is: If you want to try a trendy item, make sure it's only trendy in 1 way. Example being: metallic color sambas with ribbons instead of laces. That's throwing it all in a blender and might feel cool for a hot second, but will quickly lose it's charm. Remember neon cropped puffer jackets from however many seasons ago? Too many trends on one piece, and probably they sat in the back of people's closets last winter. But if it's classic, timeless, or simple overall but incorporates a trend in one area - trying desperately to think of something but I can't, uh, so oh well.
@user-rz5xr5ce7e
@user-rz5xr5ce7e Ай бұрын
… my opinion 🤭 one word “clutter”
@susanma4899
@susanma4899 Ай бұрын
The title of the video has me scratching my head. I think it would help if you defined "fashion" and "fashionable." I was thinking, so...are you saying that being trendy makes you less fashionable? Not quite? Trendy looks are not timeless? Closer. Rule-breaking looks are...interesting because they break the rules? Yes. Are rule-breaking looks trendy? Yes. Are rule-breaking looks fashionable? Only time will tell. These looks that you're showing are very "model in NYC rolled out of bed and threw on whatever was next to her on the floor." But it's cute because the person is young and thin and attractive. It's kind of like "look at me, I can wear whatever I want and look cute." The question is how does this translate for the rest of us, or can it? I'm not that thin and I am def not young--if I wore this kind of fit it would frankly be a disaster.
@sarahmalik6134
@sarahmalik6134 26 күн бұрын
Dog!
@sydh7490
@sydh7490 Ай бұрын
the birkinifying stuff is so boring like there’s no personality it’s just consumerism
@northwoodfalls1403
@northwoodfalls1403 28 күн бұрын
Gotta disagree with the wrong shoe theory one re dressier shoes with athletic clothing and I’m kinda surprised you don’t see where the influence stems from having been a dancer. There have been iterations of it in the various “dance core” looks that have surfaced sinced the 80’s. I remember times when we girls would wear ballet flats or deck shoes or moccasins with our adidas shorts. But, I will say, it was low key. We weren’t pairing them with blouses or frilly tops. It would be like a white t and pretty low key ballet flats. But, also, it wasn’t the norm for us to have a lot of shoes back then. We didn’t have a lot of choices when trying to do something different lol. The first image that came to mind when you touched on that one was like early 2000’s madonna in adidas shorts with black fishnet stockings and heeled boots. She had a concert look back in the 90’s that was biker shorts with socks and loafers. Which made me think of the classic short adidas short with leg warmers and heels look in the 80’s. I don’t think it’s the “wrong shoe” with this trend as much as it is the wrong shoe AND the wrong top. Although, I remember polo shirts with short gym shorts, socks, and deck shoes being a look ….. The addition of the wrong top makes me think of the Dad sneaker phenomenon … same sort of thing. Everyone’s dad back in the day had a pair of adidas shorts that he’d toss on with his short sleeve button up to do yard work and embarrass the hell out of us 😂. Anyhow .. I get your point. That one just has references I can follow. Maybe it’s my age ….. when you get into your 40’s, you realize you have literally seen it all before, even the “crazy” and “out there” things. I’m sure there are lots of images out there somewhere of the hot babes from the late 70’s early 80’s in short gym shorts and high heels …… Heck, in the 80’s there were adidas pants, socks, and heels …. Yup. We’ve seen it before, I’m afraid lol. I think the difference pre social media was that it happened more organically and everyone was in the same pond more or less. People had different aesthetics, but they all happened out in the public square together so it wasn’t maybe as disconnected as the Pinterest or IG girlie is from her natural, physical habitat today.
@chelfie3000
@chelfie3000 Ай бұрын
YES this needed to be said! If you have to be online and see a lot of “fashionable” people do a trend in order to KNOW it’s cute or fashionable, it’s not!!! Actual good fashion and style is like when you’re at a museum seeing art thinking “why is that important” or “I could have done that” and then seeing a piece that makes you think “THAT is art.” It makes you feel something, it has a je ne sais quoi that these Pinterest outfits don’t. Also, the adidas track shorts and a blazer or a “going out top” don’t have much variation, they don’t pull from an expansive cohesive style. They are a copy and paste that shows it’s a very specific trend.
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