Knowing Your Attachment Style

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Knowing Your Attachment Style

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Proverbs 31 Ministries with Lysa TerKeurst

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Do you know you have an attachment style that was formed from early childhood? Attachment styles influence how we connect with others relationally.
Learn from Lysa TerKeurst, Dr. Joel Muddamalle and Jim Cress in Episode 5 of this six-part series of Therapy & Theology titled "I Want To Be More Self-Aware." Each week, we'll hear conversations providing tools for how we can live as the most healthy versions of ourselves.
00:00-03:27 Where did attachment styles come from?
03:27-06:45 Different attachment styles explained
06:45-11:29 Can my attachment style change?
11:29-13:46 Our words have power
13:46-18:29 We were made for attachment
18:29-21:12 Are some attachment styles better than others?
21:12-26:11 Moving towards a more secure attachment
Related Resources:
- Have you ever wondered, What's it really like to do life with me? Lysa TerKeurst put together a free resource, "What's It Like To Do Life With Me?" to help you find out! Through Bible teaching and honest assessments, this resource will help you grow in self-awareness and strengthen your relationships. Download here! proverbs31.org...
- Ready to take a personal next step in finding a Christian counselor? The American Association of Christian Counselors is a great place to find the right fit for you and your circumstances. Start your journey here. aacc.net
- Stay connected with Lysa TerKeurst, Jim Cress and Dr. Joel Muddamalle on Instagram.
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/ muddamalle
- Proverbs 31 Ministries reaches women in the middle of their busy days through free devotions; podcasts; speaking events; conferences; resources; Online Bible Studies; and training in the call to write, speak and lead others. Learn more by visiting our website! proverbs31.org?
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@stachiano 9 ай бұрын

as someone who is into psychology, love that this is getting spoken about from a christian perspective, however, i believe dr. mentioned the enneagram and i think it’s important that we look at the origin of these things. please look into yourself if you care to. lack of knowledge, the people perish 💙

@GenazJourney 5 ай бұрын

Thanks for the suggestion I found this All believers should be diligent in their research, use wisdom, and ultimately, decide for themselves. We think Christians should use the Enneagram-if they find value in it-provided they always keep in mind that the Enneagram (like other personality assessments) is simply a tool.

@RestoreTheBody 4 ай бұрын

I agree. Enagram has nothing to do within church. We DO have Rom 12, 1.chor.12 and Eph.4:11-13 about both spiritual gifts and leader rolls. We rather should look at what The Holy Spirit has given us of resources, and seek to be in the center, which is to be Christ-like in ANY direction. NB!! To be baptized; in The Holy Spirit, speaking (or praying or singing) in tounges is indeed the PORTAL to greater gifts. AND of course, make sure that our spirits are renewed, not in old, bad patterns.

@Calicokitty2 9 ай бұрын

Thais Gibson, Personal Development School is all about healing your attachment style. It saved my life emotionally!

@That1grI 9 ай бұрын

I always hoped I was avoidant bc it made me more “gangsta” but when I heard JM give the description of anxious w low view of self and high regard for others …. I’m like ohhhhh that’s me. That’s for making it simple for me in this way ❤️❤️❤️😅

@donna-colorado8443 9 ай бұрын

I definitely have an anxious attachment style.

@jane77722 Ай бұрын

"Attachment style is not who we are, it's what got wired into us." "Our words frame our reality." Really significant concepts!

@diannatomson3193 7 ай бұрын

My husband always asks if I love him, how much I love him and why I love him. Very exhausting and definitely a covert narcissist!

@michellemurrell74 9 ай бұрын

I love that you’re covering this! I teach attachment styles each semester to my Lifespan Development classes and we just covered them this week.

@debstrunk892 9 ай бұрын

But let’s remember and not forget that God is the one who has hard wired us to be attached to Him. Our Heavenly Father first!!! Born into a sinful world has in part caused these unhealthy attachment styles relationally

@tarabrickle8745 3 ай бұрын

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@whitneygonzalez350 9 ай бұрын

This was very good. Thank you.

@lisar5349 9 ай бұрын

Joel's definition was fantastic, so helpful 🤯🤓

@RoseC1209 9 ай бұрын

Doctor Jim touched on the fact that His attachment style will come out now (tho more infrequently than younger years). I am curious to know why and what circumstance triggers it to come out and how he works through it to get back to a place of "safety". Thank you so much in advance for answering this question. 🙏 Rose

@nnylasoR 8 ай бұрын

Sooooo so so so good! Thank you so much to all of you - especially Jesus!

@OfficialProverbs31Ministries 8 ай бұрын

We're glad you enjoyed it!

@KA-ux9qb 9 ай бұрын

So glad you are talking about this topic. Saying that narcissistic people tend to be avoidant may not be totally correct. There are narcs in all attachment styles.... especially covert narcs which may lean more anxious. I highly recommend checking out The Personal Development School with Thais Gibson for in depth attachment style information. She talks about how the styles act in relationships.

@jennifergramirez 9 ай бұрын

Agreed…e.g. I’ve noticed narcs who are “mama’s boy.” They have an over-secure attachment towards coddling mother but avoidant attachment with significant other or spouse.

@Priceless16 8 ай бұрын

Great insightful discussions! It gave clarity to behavioral tendencies in theory, theology and life. Please continue with more discussions like this. Thank you all

@OfficialProverbs31Ministries 8 ай бұрын

We're glad you enjoyed it!

@terrahillman151 9 ай бұрын

Tysm for allowing God to lead you to these real life, profound conversations ❤🙌🏼Bless each of you for living in (& owning!) your ‘Lights!’ 👌🏼💯

@donna-colorado8443 9 ай бұрын

Can you have different attachments to different people?

@cindyrobinson3882 9 ай бұрын

Much needed!! Thank you!! 😊

@travelingredhead5238 2 ай бұрын

Im attached to my adult daughter & she totally detached herself from me. I feel she does not care if I live or die, once was empathic & now that shes older & in a relationship with a mamas boy who has bad mouthed me for years she no longer defends me and at times acts very hateful towards me

@bonitahopkins2958 9 ай бұрын

My attachment style is anxiety. I am very ok with myself. But there's still a longing to be attached?

@amandaelsts4863 9 ай бұрын

I love this episode and I want more on this topic! Is there any way for some visuals to go along with like diagrams or a breakdown with examples written out? I'm a visual audio learner 😅

@DoctorCarrieHall 9 ай бұрын

Good evening, watching from Tulsa Oklahoma.

@tanyabaughn3639 9 ай бұрын

Hi I’m in Tulsa as well ☮️💟✝️

@elidepace8975 9 ай бұрын

💡

@debstrunk892 9 ай бұрын

Need to do more talks on this

@jilllingenfelter4682 9 ай бұрын

I’m a secure attachment style and I’m a women of God:)@Official Proverbs 31 Ministries

@sunnysideup2663 9 ай бұрын

Is there a test to know exactly which one is the dominant one? I believe I have a little of all of them.

@GenazJourney 5 ай бұрын

What if our womb wasn't safe? Inwas adopted out by my bio mom amd dad said no. She started beating on me by age 6 until 35. I have begged her for the mom love until this past September. I listened to Goodbye and Goodboundaries last year and I have do the most healing since listening to the audible (I hope to get the actual book one day) and I learned the way to set and hold boundaries and learning that when my morals/beliefs/rifhts are violated I will do a,b,c and I now can not let her harm me. Life changing for me! Thank you