Social anxiety gives you regrets

social anxiety can especially make you miss out on a potential girlfriend... from my experience

Facts you got to win the battle in your mind. I dm this girl I was interested in and said “hey, how you doing” she blocked me 🤦🏾‍♂️, but I got over the fear to dm her and have no regrets 😂😂.

2022 was the year that I asked a girl out for the first time. I got rejected. It hurt a lil bit but it's okay. After that I went to talk to more girls and started to get a little bit more comfortable communicating. On Christmas Eve I asked a girl out and she gave me her number. We are still talking. I said that to say this: I have a stutter and even I went and stepped out of my comfort zone. Talk to that girl that you want to talk to, fellas. If I can do it so can you. Update: This girl lead me on. She didn't tell me from the start that she wasn't looking for a relationship. When we first met, I literally asked her if she was single. She said yes. So I thought we were gonna build up to a relationship when she gave me her number. 2 weeks later (today) she texts me "I'm not trying to lead u on or anything but I'm not really lookin for a relationship. we can be good friends tho". Like why didn't you say that when I first approached you?

in middle school/ early highschool i had no anxiety i gave 0 f's. i was able to talk to women and anyone really with an obnoxious amount of confidence/borderline arrogance lol. a 'popular' buddy of mine in high school told me he used to want to be like me back then. when i got to high school i started to let things get to me, and cared too much and resulted in me isolating myself from people. I took a lot of L's and let peoples slick comments and disrespect affect me. i lost all confidence in myself and had terrible social anxiety ever since. I'm slowly getting better. it's a challenge you have to work on every single day no matter what. happy new year

Bro just saved my life, was nervous asf for my first job but i walked in with a w mindset🙏

Facts bro u can't let your emotions control u always remember it's one life we have and we can't live in sadness forever Always do what makes you happy and stay positive.

This man is preaching facts, in this video. Social anxiety holds a lot of people back in life.

Perfect video to end the year.. Thanks Kam! Need to take control fr fr. Been a solid ten years of social anxiety lol, shit gets tiring as hell.

Kam I’m so grateful I found your channel bro, you have genuinely changed my mindset for the better, I’m so much more confident on how I think about myself, and I don’t care what others think about me anymore, this all made my nervousnesses disappear. My life seems so much more enjoyable all because of you man 🙏

I can’t thank you enough I’ll start the changes asap I might get embarrassed but I won’t die, thank you

This guy is sent straight from God 😩

Bro I’m in my junior year of high school and I been going through social anxiety since my freshman year bro I watched vids and I been thinking and thinking so much that I finally realized what I was doing wrong and I’m on Christmas break and I find out that the girls that I had my eye on got a man’s that quick I feel like I threw bags upon bags. So when I go back idk what to expect but to carry myself

Wtf man… 9:12 explaining it perfectly. we’re even in winter break now and Im tired of not doing sh. You cant live like a loser forever so its time to step tf up!

I love you man thanks for this💯🙏🔥

thank you for this video. You've helped me and i needed this. Happy new years!

W message, I appreciate your work

This is a New Years resolution for many! I fw it Kam!

I saw this video when the likes were at 555. Change and growth. I needed this bro, thank you.

This video needs to be seen by millions. You are the man brother thank you

Thanks fam🦅 I’ve learned a lot from you.

This channel has changed my life, thank you for everything Kam

Honestly you helped me realize that the one thing that’s holding we as humans is that we tend to overthink the outcome of whatever situation we wanna face and think the worst would come but in reality people just don’t care better to take the risk then not too

This video helped me a lot fam i appreciate it

This is the greatest youtuber ever. The most underrated channel on the planet.

3:50 nah you worded it so perfectly, this is exactly what i’ve been tryna tell other ppl

Thx I really needed this

This is it. this video solved all my problems

Thank you man ❤

i needed this video

After watching your videos for a couple of months you inspired me to start a KZfaq channel next year about self improvement

😭 you amazing bro

Thanks, keep it up bruh 💪

Imma be fr this video is life changing, it’s changing my whole perspective on life

Good video bro keep it up

Love the vid ❤️

In the first 3 mins of this video I realized how to own my style and I have to be the bigger man and lead

Great video

Even if sometimes I think I got it, I still have to fight and never thought about the mind is a battle field. Thanks for this massage bro legit.

I tried to tell my friend this but she just kept making excuses for her anxiety. Deep down some of us don’t wanna let go of it for some reason.

best youtuber best advice

Yep, the only actual way to beat social anxiety is by doing things that seem uncomfortable to you. I'm still working on it myself but I've seen progress. It's all about risk taking. Socially savvy people are good in social situations because they take risks. They'll crack a joke when everyone's silent and risk it falling flat or everyone thinking they're weird. However the reward is that they are now the funny guy/girl and people appreciate a good joke sometimes. Or another example. Meeting new people. A socially savvy person will risk rejection and/or embarrassment all for the potential reward of making a great friend. So basically if you have social anxiety, it just means you're a coward who is afraid of risks. Take a risk, you'll be fine either way

The most effective way to cope social anxiety is a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) which is powerful tool that allows you to control your cycle of thoughts, emotions and physical action. We appreciate you Kam for bringing up this topic, can't wait to hear you preaching more about it!

This is heavily underrated

Smoking weed gives me social aniexty so had to quit it

I’m on my senior year of high school like 4 months untill I graduated and the whole year this was holding me back now I just felt alone

I try to fight my social anxiety everytime but my head hurts and i go blank talking to people, lord knows I've tried.

Only at school class for some reason

I moved a lot and I think it started as a kid. It continued until after highschool I didn’t even spend 2 years in one school

16:00 cmon Kam is cultured w avatar

Cam gon flood his house with all the facts he spittin ong

Yo I have this aswell and I need serious help man bc of this I have been limiting myself for too long I need to find a way to stop it or ill be going out sad ngl🙁

I love you b fr your the brother i always needed how can i donate money to u bro i wanna do it cuz i appreciate u but also as a promise to myself that ima push myself more every chance i get

Wow man wow

that avatar bender quote was deep

Figure out who’s toxic in your life and separate yourself from them.

Im in 11 grade, I get the invites to gatherings but I always say no because parties are not my thing. I already have a couple close friends and I only wanna converse with them, and I messing up?

Common Kam W

Needed this man, thanks

+1 sub. This shits good

6:44 this is real asf

Yesssirrr

facts

Ima leave this comment so i can’t fall back and say forget it.

And what if it's not consistent like on and off sometimes you want attention and sometimes you dont

Michael Jackson was right. Great video man

Why is he not at 100k subs yet...shizz why is everything not a 1M subs yet💀

Go to places that benefit you, there's no need to unite with people you don't see a benefit from

How do you be a leader as a man?

So u weren’t socially awkward when u forced urself to talk to people? I did the exact same thing and people thought I was weird which I rightfully was so. So I was just chasing people 97% frfr. I’m not as awkward rn though.

What if you don't want the eyes but you want the attention💀💀💀

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