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@well_alby_damned6 ай бұрын
This isn't even dating by red flags. It's dating by looks and personality, and then finding out their red flag five seconds before they leave.
@Tomatism276 ай бұрын
SO TRUE. They should've revealed their red flags in the 2nd round and talk about it afterwards. Or something like this.
@well_alby_damned6 ай бұрын
@Tomatism27 Right? Or slowly reveal worse red flags each round. So awkward them being like "oh haha that's crazy you were almost married, ok bye"
@OTDub6 ай бұрын
@@well_alby_damned There was an old show like that, called Baggage. Kurtis Conner did a hilarious reaction video about it.
@OTDub6 ай бұрын
Calm down, Katherine.
@well_alby_damned6 ай бұрын
@katherinewheeler9606 Frankly an insane response to someone making an observation about a youtube video when you're watching Cody Ko. The dude literally makes observations about youtube videos for a living, so why are you here? 😂
@No_Gravy6 ай бұрын
It’s so funny when he gets hooked on something in a video like the RipG😭😭
@kactus18896 ай бұрын
it’s his goblin mode kicking in
@zak12656 ай бұрын
Shit made me laugh every single time too
@birdie79106 ай бұрын
@@zak1265real lmao
@meadowok6 ай бұрын
the lizard part 😭
@AsherHalperin6 ай бұрын
Seriously though why are they all RIPG?
@_Y3ZI6 ай бұрын
The bad relationship with parents is so stupidly one sided that it hit me right in the feelings for a moment. Not everyone was or is fortunate enough to have good and caring families. A lot of them are rather abusive.. like how can not wanting to be abused or "simply" be hurt by people who should love you for who you are be a red flag? It's so dumb and sad.
@grass34795 ай бұрын
this is real :( I feel ya
@jessicalyon17404 ай бұрын
i was thinking the same thing :/
@ubepandesal73704 ай бұрын
Agree
@eatfeti4 ай бұрын
that’s very true, but i THINK they mean more about people who purposely are rude to their family and dont try to be close at all, some parents are good but unfortunately had children who became egotistical and mean along the way bc of other people they met in their life. but i could be wrong on what they mean specifically.
@_Y3ZI4 ай бұрын
@@eatfeti Could be but then they could've phrased it better.
@shadowhunterartemis6 ай бұрын
It's really weird to have "bad relationship with parents" as a red flag. That's something a person has literally no control over. Narcissists and abusers are allowed to have kids, and their kids shouldn't be blacklisted as bad partners simply for who they were born to.
@spook63943 ай бұрын
There’s lots of things people have no control over that could be red flags though
@ZoeRebecca2 ай бұрын
ig the person just wants to be with someone where they can start a family and have a big wedding and have both sides of grandparents and stuff like that. I agree it shouldn't be called a "red flag" bc it doesn't make the person a bad partner it's more of just a preference
@orthodox_gentleman15 күн бұрын
Exaxtly
@user-vx8lh6xu7l6 ай бұрын
“i’m not toxic it’s just the appearance piercings tattoos chains talking to other women” one of those is different then the rest
@violetcrimes7326 ай бұрын
LITERALLY
@crabrangoonluvr6 ай бұрын
like what 😂😂
@FranzFerdinand556 ай бұрын
maybe he meant like talking to many people while casually dating is bad.
@probably49436 ай бұрын
Use a comma
@shelbywellman6 ай бұрын
one of these things is not like the otherrr 😭😭
@ayeitsabbymash6 ай бұрын
“It was indeed not a fart…then I got fired” that is some fucking commitment and I respect it
@-xxMelissaxx-6 ай бұрын
reading this right now completely out of context before watching the whole vid is so funny and confusing 😂😂
@juliamartins29596 ай бұрын
Fr 🤣😭
@xnng6 ай бұрын
did i miss this whats the timestamp lol
@Em-gj2sg6 ай бұрын
@@xnngit's at the end
@cinnasterr6 ай бұрын
i feel so bad for the guy he was 15 and just doing what he was told when they said no bathroom breaks😭😭 just salt in the wound to get fired for it on top of that
@adamparlette235 ай бұрын
Dude who shit his pants 100% could have and should have sued the manager/restaurant. For the manager saying no bathroom breaks alone is crazy illegal.
@sfr2107Ай бұрын
I couldn't believe that story 23:34
@xhannzz6 ай бұрын
The guy she chose, did y’all see his face when she said she was relieved the waiting till marriage one got voted out? He was smiling & then dropped his smile IMMEDIATELY 😂😂😂😂
@777686 ай бұрын
he also gives gay best friend vibes
@shelby66 ай бұрын
Totally @@77768
@aspenisthebest6 ай бұрын
he has the strongest serial killer vibes I've ever seen on one of these shows. Gives me the extreme creeps.
@nyreecrowe6 ай бұрын
Ya notice how he just said "ex" and not she/he?@@77768
@nathangaspacio61286 ай бұрын
@@aspenisthebest Think its the blue eyes. Blue eyes tend to look weird on a lot of people unless they're ginger, though it often makes them more attractive, it looks wird.
@jenicasanchez91536 ай бұрын
"when u sat down for lunch today" he knows what he's doing 😭
@Z533xxx6 ай бұрын
Me on my lunch break realizing I’ve been targeted
@lochnessii6 ай бұрын
tbh i either eat or shower/get ready/do my makeup while watching cody LMAO
@SickMask166 ай бұрын
I know that he knows but in that moment I felt like he was watching me lmao
@jwyaurora78386 ай бұрын
NAH BC I USUALLY WATCH CODY AT ANYYYYY other time of day but today i decided my lunch break and i get this comment from him i cannot
@brklynxjk6 ай бұрын
me mid-bite of my sandwich staring at the screen like 😮.. he knows
@bellamymonroe6 ай бұрын
the toxic guy saying that him talking to other women makes it seem like he talks to other women is CRAZY
@TheSprinkler6 ай бұрын
i assume he meant like people think hes leading them on/not making it known to people hes talking
@blondie99096 ай бұрын
not to be that person especially because i know nothing about and dont really believe astrology but that guy is definitely a virgo hahahahaha just cuz he is extactly like my virgo exes and he felt like he would be toxic exactly the same way they were hahahha does that make sense?
@DS-nw4eq6 ай бұрын
All of these dudes are beta. Men aren’t allowed to be real anymore because testosterone is threatening. They’re all moping around and quieting their voices like their overbearing mother librarians are hovering and scolding them. Pathetic.
@afroman8496 ай бұрын
@@blondie9909 No, it makes no sense. To insinuate that all people who possess that single toxic trait do so because they share the same birth month is insane.
@ariistra1956 ай бұрын
@blondie9909 bro what? You say you don't care about them and then proceed to call Virgos toxic
@brittbc42156 ай бұрын
The first round of guys eliminated were so sweet. When she described her reasoning about only dating musicians in the past and wanting to branch out, they were like “honestly I would do the same” MAD RESPECT.
@ladyoflorien6276 ай бұрын
the guy who said that talking about exes is a red flag for him, but then his red flag is that he’s never been in a committed relationship?? made total sense to me after that.
@00shivani6 ай бұрын
Right... so many of these made no sense to me. Like obviously don't talk about your ex on a first date, but you'd assume that as you got deeper into the relationship, it's important to go through what worked and didn't work in past relationships. Also, history and emotional baggage is important. I worry because I got out of a very abusive relationship last year, and I'm terrified to date and overall just still traumatized. One of the things I know for sure: any future partner will have to be filled in.. not to make them "jealous" but to explain why I might have trust issues or certain fears or traumatic responses... The good relationship with the families thing was also dumb. I try every day to have a good relationship with my parents, because I'm an only child and really want to keep family close after others have hurt me badly. But my parents are not stable, not only was my childhood filled with abuse, but they scream and shout and gang up on me to this day at 24 years of age, leaving me to stay isolated in my room to avoid it. I refuse to move out because they're older and need someone to care for them. I'm a kinder person because of my traumas, because I know what the receiving end feels like. I have and can have successful relationships. It just sucks that these men made it seem like women have to have perfect lives or something... people struggle and those people end up more dimensional, compassionate, interesting, because of it.
@shadowhunterartemis6 ай бұрын
That one made no sense to me at all. My husband and I talk about our exes all of the time. Not because there are any lingering feelings or anything, but because we've both had funny or interesting experiences with the people we dated before we got together. I really don't understand the fundamental insecurity at the core of modern dating relationships. There's all this paranoia about cheating, about wanting or not wanting commitment, etc. How hard is it to just... do what you want to do and be honest about it???
@Anthony-xy3wr3 ай бұрын
@@shadowhunterartemisBecause people don’t go to therapy and pass their problems onto others, which just creates a cycle of insecurity and cheating that spreads to everyone else
@SleepyMoon986 ай бұрын
These dating shows are usually so hard to watch bc there’s always one or two people that are just INSUFFERABLE. But that girl was so sweet and all the guys seemed pretty cool. THATS WHY IT WAS SO DRY BC NO ONE WAS BEING A COMPLETE DBAG.
@Taylor-gb5gf6 ай бұрын
i think the nectar ones are usually worse bc they don't know how to produce these types of videos, cut at least has someone asking questions to stir things up and they edit better to cut out dead air
@derinwithaq58116 ай бұрын
Am I the only one who enjoyed this much more than the ones where there’s someone being a jerk? I liked how nice everyone was, but I guess it doesn’t make great “content”
@icu38696 ай бұрын
@@derinwithaq5811it shows you’re a kind person who values stability, it could be a sign of maturity or intelligence because you aren’t sucked in by petty conflict. Wrestling attracts a different audience than Ballet, you know?
@dinospumoni56116 ай бұрын
@@icu3869can also be a sign that you're FUCKING BORING
@coalvarner18136 ай бұрын
Personally I think these men's opinions and versions of Red flags were demeaning and oversimplified with not much wiggle room for real life situations or hardships. They just came off as boring and vapid to me, but still shitty.
@No_Gravy6 ай бұрын
The way she was more upset with the waiting till marriage instead of literally shitting your pants is so funny
@Refiningforge6 ай бұрын
Right? lol wow
@LittleBeams6 ай бұрын
Hey man shit happens
@mgw53776 ай бұрын
she didn't want to sound ableist lol
@miranndall696 ай бұрын
i feel like shitting your pants is more relatable. cause we've all done it, right?
@byletheisner82696 ай бұрын
i would be lmao, no way am i waiting like two years. sex is a big emotional thing too
@xaustrander6 ай бұрын
I knew I recognised this girl- this is Salem Ilese, she wrote mad at disney and that one song that's like "is it me or the PS5"?
@l34fz6 ай бұрын
NOOOOOOOOO LOL
@Medisapq6 ай бұрын
Omg i have been thinking so hard about where i know her from, thank you i can watch the vid in peace now😂
@CleverUsername694206 ай бұрын
Oh god no not the PS5 song
@raymond96426 ай бұрын
I promise you it's not an accident she's on this. And she's probably releasing an album soon that the record company is going to force a hit out of. Industry plant all the way
@likithakota34896 ай бұрын
THANK YOUU - i was triping cause no one else seemed to mention this
@dondraco48196 ай бұрын
5:37 call that grovid lmao 🤣 how no one heard that got me dead 😭
@handlethesenuts6 ай бұрын
i miss cody so much RIPG 🕊🕊
@krisjoy50696 ай бұрын
i’m so sick of the "having a bad relationship with your parents/family is a red flag" mindset. people don't choose their families and some people get an unfortunate hand dealt to them, and sometimes distancing yourself from your family is the best decision you can make for yourself. people with rough family relationships are not exempt or incapable of having healthy loving relationships.
@martagustafsson57496 ай бұрын
I was thinking about this as well. What if your family is shitty but you ain't. "No I'm not gonna date you because your parents fucked up and you don't have a good relationship with them now"
@zoeezzes66026 ай бұрын
This^^^^ 1000%
@iKickBullies6 ай бұрын
Who cares if you choose your parents. People have preferences. Someone having a redflag is them knowing that something may come with issues that they would rather avoid. Generally it should be seen as a redflagg. Nothing wrong with being a good choice even if you had issues. You just have to work alittle harder. Short people gotta work harder, different races depending on where they are gotta work harder, different genders work harder depending on culture etc. Tha'ts life.
@locktay15076 ай бұрын
@@martagustafsson5749 Yeah, the most toxic guys I have dated have "a loving relationship" with their mother.
@locktay15076 ай бұрын
@@iKickBullies probably said by a white guy
@aspenisthebest6 ай бұрын
I remember when Cody got that dragon as a gift and he was ranting about how it was the worst gift anyone could ever give. It feels so strange to hear him bring it up again when I already know the story.
@Jakrabat946 ай бұрын
"Having bad relationship with parents/family" Well... my dad is a narcissistic, manipulative, alcoholic and my mother is an overly compassionate enabler struggling with anxiety; they are still, to this day, in a toxic relationship. Me, my brother and sister, have pretty much raised ourselves and are very "self going" we therefore don't rely on each other or hangout very much, but we also don't dislike each other. I wouldn't say we are close, but also not "bad relationship". This "red flag" is very superficial and immature, if you ask me. A bit of a "Dunning Kruger effect" moment to be honest.
@petra32174 ай бұрын
i agree w u but what i think happened is that he didnt wordit right and meant to say like people who are shitty to their parents by choice just because ?? yk
@bambii-_2 ай бұрын
@@petra3217 ok but im going off of peoples words and not what you want to read into it.
@orthodox_gentleman15 күн бұрын
I completely get that. My parents are the same way.
@dillona10016 ай бұрын
5:38 Cody missed "Call that GROVID" 😭🤣
@wat57096 ай бұрын
Everyone in the room did 😔
@aysehannanui6 ай бұрын
yes!!!! i laughed🥲
@frickfrack70756 ай бұрын
I pointed that out to my husband bc I love to combine words like that and it was hilarious!
@micahpediford6 ай бұрын
Yes exactly I laughed.
@dillona10016 ай бұрын
@@wat5709 At least they have the excuse of being on the loud set with mad people talking over each other, but Chotis' elderly father had a tough time hearing it in room alone, with speakers, and a zoomed camera shot on the guy saying it who he also knows 🙄 Chody just a geriatric clown🤡
@jadyn99826 ай бұрын
Cody not liking old movies is his red flag
@Random-sk6hm6 ай бұрын
Nah, I hate older movies too. They're always incredibly predictable, I can guess what's gonna happen within the first 2 minutes. Modern movies are way better in my opinion.
@ames_elaine6 ай бұрын
nooo! there are so many amazing old movies! & awful ones to make fun of!
@FlyingFormosa6 ай бұрын
Check out criterion collection, there are some amazing older movies in 4k
@user-gr1io9is3v6 ай бұрын
not all of them are predictable, its more like a limit in special effects that make it seem unrealistic but some have amazing scenarios despite that @Random-sk6hm
@samr64086 ай бұрын
Yeah that was a terrible take ngl
@kayteebarga96946 ай бұрын
The whole "they have to have a good relationship with their parents" sometimes is way deeper than that. I've been told I had daddy issues before and my dad used to abuse me for no reason so like... how's that my fault I haven't talked to my family in years
@tamerahamilton77156 ай бұрын
the fact that cody has never seen the breakfast club is a red flag but him saying he doesn't fuck with "old" movies is EVEN BIGGER RED FLAG
@katet86396 ай бұрын
Getting fired from McDonald's for shitting your pants is way too funny😭😭😂
@privatename81116 ай бұрын
Not watching breakfast club is criminal... especially for Cody's age
@loganhurley47646 ай бұрын
Facts considering he was born 40 years before it came out.
@Random-sk6hm6 ай бұрын
Never watched it either
@Swerv0.6 ай бұрын
Exactly! And he seemed like he didn’t even know what it was too. RED FLAG!!
@renp96106 ай бұрын
FR wiiiild that he looked it up
@Mimi-jl5ci6 ай бұрын
Yeah. It was before my time too, but it’s a solid movie. And whenever I hear 🎶 don’t you, forget about me 🎶 I think of that movie
@liv_hann6 ай бұрын
the 'if you have a bad relationship w your family you can't be in a good one' is an awful mindset and doesn't account for abuse or neglect or politcal disagreements-- like sorry your mom isn't around you'll never be in happy relationship
@nrivera07176 ай бұрын
20:20 idk these couple of seconds my gaydar was going off
@tanusree35175 ай бұрын
exactlyyyy
@seanmaher30185 ай бұрын
100% plus a broken engagement 😬
@guyanomaly6 ай бұрын
“Having a bad relationship with your parents” is pretty unfair as a red flag, imo. Sure in some cases it could mean they’re a bad person, but in other cases it could mean they were abused, or left an extreme religious sect, or any number of things. Edit: Also, “bringing up your exes” as a dealbreaker?? I get that talking about an ex all the time is a red flag, but I was engaged to someone and lived with them for three years, it’s kind of hard not to bring him up if I’m discussing anything from that chunk of time. That guy is gonna need to grow out of that if he ever wants to date past his early 20s lol.
@lenerush15206 ай бұрын
And if you have kids, like me. 😅 like i gotta have some communication with the babydaddy, since we are coparenting the same child.
@frickfrack70756 ай бұрын
It's def unfair, but I guess I kinda get it. Coming from toxic parents, I have a lot of issues. There's baggage there and not everyone is equipped to handle that... Or they just don't want to handle it. I get it. It's a lot 😅 Luckily, my husband came from a similar household so we are able to relate to each other's struggles and accept each other's "baggage". There was a time in our relationship, though, where we were hella toxic to each other 😂 we had to figure out what traits were basically cPTSD and which were just us being assholes 😅 We've been together 13 years now, and better than ever 😊
@ekboobooboobie6 ай бұрын
Totally agree with you!
@dariakov76 ай бұрын
i completely agree and was just thinking that about the “bad relationship with parents” thing. it’s completely unfair
@Random-sk6hm6 ай бұрын
Thank you! It always irks me when someone says that because most people would love to have a great relationship with their parents - but not everyone has that privilege. A lot of parents are abusive unfortunately, and that doesn't reflect on the kid or their ability to love a partner/children.
@fdklvkvneiowrkgio6 ай бұрын
R.I.P G bro we miss you. FLY HIGH
@cannablissful39676 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story about your dragon. I had one years ago that I ended up giving away for the same reason. I feel so bad to this day and hope he found a loving home. They are just SO MUCH work and so expensive to take care of. Definitely not an ideal “gift” even though they are really cute lol. Pets shouldn’t be given as “gifts”.
@TheLeeLee6 ай бұрын
I think saying "If someone doesn't have a good relationship with their family they won't have a good relationship with you." Is pretty ignorant and unfair. No one asks to be born into an abusive or neglectful household yeesh.
@abdullahumar81506 ай бұрын
I just sat down to throw rocks at my neighbors. Thank you Cody!
@DanSoloha6 ай бұрын
Can you imagine trying to throw rocks at your neighbors without a Cody Ko video to keep you entertained 😩😭
@semjart6 ай бұрын
‘Rip, g’ got me everytime
@13siyahkedi5 ай бұрын
Same😂
@5elfcontrol6 ай бұрын
Ngl it hurts everytime they say they wouldn’t date someone who has a bad relationship with their parents like- some of us grew up in abusive households??? So does that mean I don’t deserve a loving relationship?
@vgam73645 ай бұрын
I dont like the red flag either however its pretty much agreed that it only is the case if the parents are normal
@bergen-schmidt6 ай бұрын
Bro when they all walked in all I could think is "ok which one of these is the pooper?"
@greenfox426 ай бұрын
21:20 This is why I invented the "puppy prenup" where you decide who gets to keep the dog if anything ever happens to y'all's relationship the moment you get the puppy. Even though I miss many dogs I helped raise in previous relationships, it's been super healthy to not have to play "divorced parent" with my ex's.
@taylorshaw71566 ай бұрын
Ngl this is actually genius and such a clever name lol
@LadyGl1tch6 ай бұрын
We've done this with our cats!! We don't have a cool nickname for it, but we know who's cat is who's and what happens if we break up 😂 we've been dating 7 years now though!
@valkylva6 ай бұрын
I had someone agree to take 2 cats, was with him for 4 years and over time we gained 5 cats. One was a stray and he had kittens with each of my female cats and we kept one kitten from each litter so we ended up with 5. In the end he said “your cats” so it made it 5 million times harder to find a place to live. Sometimes people do shady stuff and don’t go with the original agreement because they’re a holes
@NinjaShark20026 ай бұрын
@@LadyGl1tch kitty kontract, kitty kontingency, Feline failsafe. Just some off the top of my head.
@dinospumoni56116 ай бұрын
That doesn't even solve the problem That's like getting a children pre-nup
@dillona10016 ай бұрын
Rizzless = non-frictionless rizz
@jdw96 ай бұрын
She seems like genuinely such a nice person and someone you would want to hang out with. I love when they cast people who are really chill like her
@annaquinlan6156 ай бұрын
I was once gifted a bearded dragon, too!!! Such an insane gift! But I loved her all the same
@azizaaman42906 ай бұрын
RIPG ✊🏾
@anipokie926 ай бұрын
glad im not the only one that drives in silence sometimes. it’s peaceful.
@derinwithaq58116 ай бұрын
I was surprised there were people who drive with music on all the time
@ilovebunniesooomuch6 ай бұрын
@@derinwithaq5811i can’t have silence at all 😭
@RestorativeWaves1236 ай бұрын
It's nice. I used to listen to music all day long working data entry, every day. While driving too. Non-stop. You can still love music and really appreciate it and listen to it, while taking some space to have peace in silence. I noticed sometimes it takes practise in the beginning. It's uncomfortable at first... then it gets better. I think everyone should try to experience that, for their own nervous systems' sake, their own minds, their own sake overall. Just sharing my experience with this. I actually either pray, just enjoy the ride, or think through what I need to now, instead of constant distraction.
@meganharvey61506 ай бұрын
my friends think I’m so crazy but the world is already so stimulating like sometimes it’s nice to have a break
@sjaaksjok6 ай бұрын
wsh I coul experience that, unfortunately with my tinnitus silence is pure hell.
@cheyenne59136 ай бұрын
I can’t drive in silence I’ll hear all the things wrong with my car that i can’t afford to fix
@Denycia6 ай бұрын
I get so annoyed when people say having a bad relationship with your parents is a red flag. Some of us have parents who are cruel and/or abusive and refuse to grow and be better for their children. That's not the fault of the child that their parents suck. In fact I would go so far as to say it's a green flag that someone walked away from an unhealthy relationship with the very people they were supposed to be able to rely on in their life. That takes strength and shows that person values their mental health and well-being enough to walk away from toxicity. I don't know. Just my two cents. I didn't find the strength to leave behind my toxic abusive relationship with my mother until going through years of therapy and learning her behavior isn't acceptable.
@HannahFellAgain6 ай бұрын
Dude saying that bc someone isn’t close with their parents they can’t be family oriented or have a good relationship with you is INSANE like whattt
@Abraham-cy9ye6 ай бұрын
“That guy has to be the poop pants” is a crazy line 😂😂
@mercedesc6076 ай бұрын
You made the poop your pants joke a lot, and did I laugh every single time? Yes. I already knew each time you’d bring it up too, and still, I laughed
@Lemthepoetofficial6 ай бұрын
Thanks for the book recommendation Jeremy ! "dopamine nation" I am gonna buy that ASAP.
@snowpeace33206 ай бұрын
just finished and making my partner read it:)
@kendrakelly2616 ай бұрын
as someone that has taken the nectar love print quiz and labeled as a RipG, i can confirm that i am in fact deceased
@afrodan73506 ай бұрын
How did no one, including Cody, react to "Growvid" that was a SOLID joke and it went completly unapreciated 😂😂😂😂
@jamienicole19876 ай бұрын
The guy who said "if you have a bad relationship with your parents" ...... umm some of us are victims of abuse and cut ties for good reason, doesn't make us less worthy of love 😢
@laurathiele95916 ай бұрын
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Also a child of family abuse and did not want to risk my children ever being hurt...I would hope that the dudes that said this would be open to hearing why the person has poor familial bonds instead of flat out dismissing a person based on that alone...not to mention so many people are children of the system and have no family...doesn't make them less than or any less deserving
@RO-ROFLOW6 ай бұрын
my first thought as well.... how is it the kid's fault if they were born to bad parents? just a weird red flag....
@samalexandre60426 ай бұрын
not that theyre less worthy of love but if one is extremely family-oriented, then they’ll have a completely different mentality from someone who isnt, regardless of the reason. so its just avoiding wasting time on something that wont work (statistically)
@sarafrikinbeara6 ай бұрын
I think it is in general, possibly having a healthy relationship with any guardian or support system. OR, if you relied on yourself to be your own parent due to extreme circumstances, then having a good relationship with yourself and the values you wish to have if a parent ever yourself. Maybe, I made that up based on how I'd approach that situation.
@Random-sk6hm6 ай бұрын
Exactly, some people's parents are abusive or in literal cults and that isn't reflective of them. They can still have a perfectly healthy relationship with partners/children just like anybody else.
@muddnelson6 ай бұрын
she picked the one gay guy
@rosafranciapolanco47656 ай бұрын
love how cody knows we watch him during lunch, felt very watched
@l.watson34066 ай бұрын
ngl I actually enjoyed the mellow vibe in this video, it was nice seeing genuine interactions for once even if it's not as entertaining
@luke46346 ай бұрын
No comment on the random imperial alarm sound?😂
@rebeccahicks23926 ай бұрын
The meaning of "red flag" has gotten really watered down. What it means is a sign of a toxic person who you shouldn't date at all. It doesn't mean "ok these red flags are deal breakers but these other ones aren't."
@vignotum1326 ай бұрын
Semantic shift better get used to it because it happens with a lot of things. Common ones are swear words which become less taboo (e.g fuck) and euphemisms which become more taboo (e.g “retard”)
@KreeZafi6 ай бұрын
I thought it just meant warning signs? Like "this can be indicative of a problem" - but doesn't necessarily HAVE to be. Taking one example from the video, never having been in a committed relationship can be a red flag, but you need to figure out the reason behind it to determine if it's ACTUALLY a dealbreaker. Does it mean you have comittment issues? Or have you just not met the right person? I think red flags are just, well, flagging potential issues. Key word being "potential" as you may figure out it's not actually a dealbreaker.
@Swerv0.6 ай бұрын
@@KreeZafiyou described this perfectly.
@vignotum1326 ай бұрын
Semantic drift
@farwest92186 ай бұрын
That’s subjective though
@lilaindica36735 ай бұрын
i just realised the guy standing to her right was on your latest video of the real life tinder!
@getteedoff6 ай бұрын
If you think about it, don’t we all have a history of pooping our pants?
@emeraldjohns32366 ай бұрын
the fact that there are 16 different loveprints and so many of them got RIPG is actually insane
@elizabethnoneofyourbuisnes28066 ай бұрын
I'm glad you realized Razor needed a different path! People gifting pets is so weird unless you are super close with the person and you know they have been studying and preparing to take care of that specific pet.
@RealTreeCrew6 ай бұрын
thank you for making even the worst of days a little bit better Cody 🙏🏼
@GaaraFan016 ай бұрын
“a huge red flag is if you have a bad relationship with your parents” bro they literally abandoned and put me up for adoption 😭 like??
@krisoak66 ай бұрын
Cody’s red flag is that he won’t watch Breakfast Club. It’s a CLASSIC!!!! You gotta
@hollow_me_out6 ай бұрын
Na it's sexist, there's no plot and it's unbearably boring
@Heyheyhaleyd6 ай бұрын
@@hollow_me_out Well it’s a teen movie from the 1980s it’s gonna be a little sexist, because every movie back then was. I’m not excusing it, but literally every movie from the 1980s has an offensive joke. Second of all the plot is that 5 people from different cliques/groups spend a morning together. Not every movie needs a huge action plot or a huge conflict. Some movies are just about about life and talking. Third jt might get a little boring at times, but it’s an overall good movie. It’s just about teens hanging out.
@ajogoz6 ай бұрын
It’s a reductive, patronizing piece of shit
@noitsholly6 ай бұрын
@@hollow_me_out I’m glad I’m not the only one who found it boring
@NauticalNauticalNautical6 ай бұрын
1:38 fourth wall break alert cody knows we eat lunch to his videos religiously
@vignotum1326 ай бұрын
European so dinner but yeah
@Swerv0.6 ай бұрын
Lmao duhh it’s not like there’s 500 different comments with the same 5 jokes about it every vid.
@azizaaman42906 ай бұрын
i watch it while doing my nighttime skincare
@karis76495 ай бұрын
I do still find it hard after 15yrs living with a guy who won’t eat many foods including tomato & onion - it spreads into a dislike of cooking, and especially of adventurous eating - both of which are things I enjoy and miss. It does affect the relationship more than you might think.
@maratesfaye4 ай бұрын
i’m very picky with who i date and this definitely plays a part (although it might be one of the most unproblematic ones on an interpersonal level). when they tell me they only really eat pizza, mac & cheese, and sandwiches on repeat, it already turns me off them heavily. especially when they dislike more fruits and vegetables than how many they DO like, or equally annoying, have ever even tried. i can’t imagine cooking for myself, him, and the kids, if not even more family later, and having to tone down his meal by leaving out crucial ingredients because he’s just so picky - or even worse, having to cook an entirely different meal for him every damned day. nuh uh.
@duckiily6 ай бұрын
1985 isn't an old movie lmaooo the breakfast club is a CLASSIC
@bambii-_2 ай бұрын
its almost 40 years old,.,,... movie-time-wise it is an old movie
@owenschauss70006 ай бұрын
this timing is INSANE. Literally just started eating, nothing to watch, and BOOM. thank you Cody.
@amandaxpanda36 ай бұрын
Sameeeee!!!!!!
@milesmissesyou6 ай бұрын
ong
@GetEmMitch6 ай бұрын
Same but on my break
@paigethompson20176 ай бұрын
SAME
@alicianotfound80586 ай бұрын
same hahah
@Guus1156 ай бұрын
This was soo much more wholesome than a jubilee or cut video. All these people are great
@natefroggy36266 ай бұрын
same company
@calmyoshiz6 ай бұрын
They actually all share the same red flag, willing to do a video like this
@ohkaykaykayla28916 ай бұрын
As a fellow bearded dragon mom.. I appreciate the shout out… beardies rarely get love !
@tardybloomer6 ай бұрын
the "no bathroom breaks" is the crazy part of that story. absolutely ridiculous. but midorder shit is indeed hilarious
@rishika71496 ай бұрын
PERFECT TIMING I was just starting to get scared of my thoughts
@abdullahumar81506 ай бұрын
Oh my god I was just about to pummel 6 year olds on fall guys. Cody Ko, you’ve done it again!
@-xxMelissaxx-6 ай бұрын
read this too fast and my brain completely omitted/didn't comprehend the fall guys part that gave this SUPER important context 😂 lmao
@lukedepriest36066 ай бұрын
I'll forever be looking for ripg in the rest of these videos, thanks cody
@dinospumoni56116 ай бұрын
16:47 I love that she's visibly upset that she eliminated the pants pooper
@scarmo066 ай бұрын
1:41 HES SELF AWARE
@Loregasmo6 ай бұрын
I like how it’s like they’re all giving their application to the only female in the room
@micahfields48396 ай бұрын
not liking the breakfast club is the biggest red flag here
@MariaFMH3 ай бұрын
18:06 how we have the same reactions to our favs being eliminated.
@thingl78596 ай бұрын
Cody bringing up the RIPG everytime had me dying 😂
@M00T3N6 ай бұрын
I like when all people seem like nice & normal people. It’s not as “trainwreck entertaining” but it has its own charm and gives me faith in the world.
@cyn.g6 ай бұрын
Cody knowing how to crotchet bc of his grandma is so endearing I could cry
@ne55626 ай бұрын
Cody really broke the 4th wall when he said “when you’re watching this eating your lunch”
@stephaniec87716 ай бұрын
I always have to remember to turn the radio on when I have a passenger because that shit stays OFF. Not turned down, just off. I love it.
@kamisawekchim6 ай бұрын
WHY DID I LAUGH SO HARD AT RIPG 💀💀💀💀💀 honestly that could be the new lmao
@thatcandian_guy33126 ай бұрын
Codys face at 20:47 is absolute gold
@aliek44596 ай бұрын
Cody you literally crack me up with your commentary!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@TheOneNOnlyNathanielB6 ай бұрын
I really liked how each guy in this ep was so chill, and not loud and saying "bro" every second.
@peachypowder6 ай бұрын
"Sometimes I just care too hard"
@nickg46956 ай бұрын
I mean the whole "gotta have a good relationship with your family", I raise you "what if your family sucks?" That's not on the individual
@bambii-_2 ай бұрын
honestly... my red flag is not even considering that other people have lived different lives than you... like how can you come out and state that people with bad relationships with their parents cant be a good partner? tf
@gracie34976 ай бұрын
“did they not mic that guy up- what’s good” cody HAHA the one liners
@kjtheperson6 ай бұрын
he always knows when i'm gonna eat, what a nice man
@yummilyyuckchonk6 ай бұрын
I was crocheting while watching this video, when crochet was mentioned, I skipped a few stitches in awe
@lemongingerlexi6 ай бұрын
This is like the TV show Baggage
@DougLas-gt3fw6 ай бұрын
CODY your movie take was spot on! Old movies are so tough to watch on a nice TV I always just want to watch new shit too lol
@dayasandhu19626 ай бұрын
I had my untouched burrito sitting in front of me i swore not to open it until bro uploaded
@Clownpunx.6 ай бұрын
Dude I literally just did the same thing
@Whybotherlifeismeaninglesslol6 ай бұрын
This sounds Sus
@graymon80936 ай бұрын
cody’s take on old movies is his red flag
@catfasoldt2 ай бұрын
I swear no other KZfaqr makes me laugh as hard as Cody does
@m0riana016 ай бұрын
same i don’t go for old movies, respectfully give me the ick IM SORRY
@drxyz5126 ай бұрын
For some reason, I understood history of pooping pant as someone with a hyper fixation on the history of pooping pants 😂
@adamtauqeer6 ай бұрын
cody referring to us having lunch is so 4th wall break core.
@Potato-776 ай бұрын
CODYY!!! I was drinking water when you made that joke in 22:52 and almost died laughing LITERALLY I choked lmaoo 🤣
@BackyardBeardMan3 ай бұрын
I am mesmerized that there are specific types of people that don't eat Tomatoes and Onions (7:16) - my wife is one of them (I simply eat all of them for her)... It turns out it is a common combination of dislikes Just made me laugh that those 2 foods were his red flags