[Eng] [한국어] We both respect each other’s boundaries! In England, it is courteous to open up your home to friends/family who need it. However, your bedroom is your sacred space, and it is very rude to be asked to give this up with no prior reason or warning. In Korea, there is a family hierarchical thinking and elders must be given the upmost respect and comfort. Continuously working through these cultural boundaries is a part of any international relationship and it requires compromise on both parts. Whilst you might not understand one culture, it does not mean you can write nasty comments. We make these videos to provide an insight into our lives and the struggles we face as an international couple. Our goal is always to learn from one another and educate. 진우와 해티 문화교실 서로의 문화를 맞춰가는게 중요한 거 같아요! 영국에서는 특히 머물러야 하는 친구나 가족이 있으면 초대를 해서 머물도록 하는게 예의 이지만, 침실은 아주 개인적인 공간이고, 사전에 말이나 경고 없이 침실을 비우라고 하는게 예의가 아니라구 하네요! 한국은 개인보다 전체를, 어르신 공경하는 문화가 있다보니 이러한 문화적 마찰들을 통해 지속적으로 서로를 알아가고 배워가는게 모든 국제 커플들의 고충이 아닐까 싶네용, 두 가지 측면에서 타협을 필요로 합니다. 그렇지만 문화를 이해 못하는것도 저희는 이해합니다! 저희가 문화적인 충돌을 겪고 이걸 통해서 저희는 항상 서로에게 배우는걸 우리 진티님들께도 전달 해드리고 싶네요! 오늘도 감사합니다 ☺️

I'd love to see Jin unexpectedly meet Hattie's parents too now~

Hattie's face when they called her 😂

Jin: they are next door Hattie: *nervous laugh* *Panicks in different languages* 😂😂😂

Hattie's morning voice is so soft and adorable! and the way she panicked but showed calmness is sweet! and your parents are right, she really is pretty when she wakes up!💞

"They have to stay in our house for a few weeks" Hattie: NO Also Hattie: *already plans in her head where they will sleep* 😂🥰

In my dad's culture, a couple's bedroom is considered their own sacred place that nobody else should use. Guests too would never ask you to let them sleep on your bed, if you don't have a guest room they would voluntarily ask to sleep in the living room soI totally understand Hattie's reaction. As for my mom he would say otherwise 🤣 having different cultures isn't an issue when both people respect each other's boundaries

What the heck😱😱. That's how Hattie looks when she wakes up. If I looked like that when I woke then I would probably never shower. She's seriously beautiful.

Parent anxiety is real! Hattie needs to prank jin 10x harder now!!!

You can tell Hattie is really trying! In England this just would not happen. Respect the elders yes BUT everyone respects their space and privacy first and foremost. It’d be so much fun watching the roles reversed when Jin comes to England! 😂

부모님들이 해티는 방금 막 일어나도 이쁘네~ 잠에서 막 깬 공주같애~ 하면서 말씀하시는거 너무 스윗하시다.. 근데 진짜 방금 막 일어나도 이쁘긴하네

Y’all Hattie is doing her best. She’s very independent maybe there’s a cultural difference in that. If you’ve followed her from the beginning you know she has like mild ocd not that I’m a doctor but she’s said time and time again that she’s very clean. Imagine the stressor of sharing your space with your fiancé’s parents. She doesn’t want to over step or under step. Every human jumps to worst case scenarios but in the end she would’ve worked something out that she’s comfortable with. Stop judging her for being human and having very human like reactions. Be more compassionate and send her love instead 💛

I appreciate Hattie being so open about setting boundaries. Even if this is a prank it's so nice to see her speaking openly with jin. She's not afraid to speak with him.

it's nice to see the discussion about cultural things and everyone gave their opinions. So I think I would like to hop a comment in although i'm not expecting anyone to read otherwise it's nice that I can share my own experience, I can relate to this a lot, I had to gave up my room for any guests (usually relatives) as a child and even until this day. Main bedroom (parents) is always the last option.

I really appreciate Hattie being honest in front of the camera and also being honest to Jin about when she’s uncomfortable. It’s clear to me that they both understand the hardships of being in an intercultural marriage, but they’re willing to listen to each other and work it out. There will be days when Hattie is uncomfortable, and there will be days when Jin is uncomfortable. But that doesn’t mean that they disrespect each other’s upbringing and beliefs. Also, it’s so nice to see how accepting Jin’s parents are of the relationship and it’s progression. So people need to stop judging and watch the video and enjoy for what it is.

I have one doubt: WHY DOES JIN SCRUNCHES HIS NOSE SO MANY FREAKING TIMES WHILE TALKINGIN ENGLISH...ITS SO FREAKING CUUUUUTE😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😍😍😍

The way she greeted his parents is cute,while talking in Korean her voice is sweet

I dont think she was being too inconsiderate, shes just not used to the cultural difference clearly. especially if you haven’t prepared anything for people staying over. In England, guests usually just stay in the living room or spare bedroom because bedrooms are our private area where we keep our own things.

Jin's parents sound so beautiful and caring. Such a good voice both of them have💞💞💞💞

Lol Hattie's expression was so FUNNY😂😂😂

1:48 that nervous laugh is everything omg😂😂

ngl Hattie looks so damn pretty even after when she wakes up.. I mean is it possible?? I would look like a gorilla that escaped from the zoo 😂

It is unexpected for Miss Hattie to meet Mr Jin’s parents in a sneaky/mysterious way, but it is also a surprise, too.💖

If Jin's wise (and I know he is), he should worry about what Hattie is going to do to him. We all know she's not going to let this go.

Damn Jin planned this for months or what. But that nervous laugh Hattie. That was it for me. I am laughing so hard😂

How much I like the fact that his parents kept on complimenting Hattie 🥺🥺

it's so pleasant to see that despite you have cultural differences, you're so respectful to each other's families 🙌 and Hattie is so pretty even when she just wakes up 😍

Here in Brazil, at least in my family, we are taught that we should treat visitors like kings. When our family members go to sleep at our house and we don't have a guest room, we are used to offering our beds, even more if it's our parents or in-laws. I've slept in the living room several times because of visitors hahah I was surprised that in some countries it's different!!

The cultural difference is so obvious and it’s funny af… Hattie is so funny and same with Jin 😂 keep it up!

Oh this is interesting. It actually IS cultural difference thing that parents should sleep on bed. Here in the Czech Republic guest should always sleep on bed otherwise it's considered rude. Guest's comfort is the priority :D

OKAY BUT JIN'S PARENTS ARE SO KIND AND CUTE?? 🥺🥺🥺 This gives me so much hope for getting along with my boyfriend's korean parents when I meet them. I'm so nervous they won't like me because of cultural and style differences, but this warms my heart and encourages me so much to see how they love and support you both with such soft kindness. Seriously, it melts my heart. 🥺💜

Хэтти хаха такая милаха проснулась утром )😄💝

Jin’s mom has such a sweet voice. 🥺

Hattie, I feel your pain! My in-laws have randomly shown up to my house several times, while I was asleep and the house needed cleaned, and I have a full-blown panic attack when they do that! lol 😫😅

The discussions about the cultural differences in the comment section is so funny 😂 Just the way I wouldn't offer guests my bed (we either have guestrooms or have air mattresses for guests to sleep on) I wouldn't accept someone else offering me their bed. I know that's coming from a kind place but I would feel SO uncomfortable 😅😅 Is that a European thing? Maybe North west European? Fascinating

I like how Hattie twirls back to the room to escape the awkward situation. She handled that really well.

I’m Korean and I just want to tell people who are not Koreans that even in Korea parents don’t expect the couple to let them sleep in the couple’s bedroom when they have to sleepover because couple’s bedroom is considered private place in Korea too just like other culture. This was just a prank to surprise Hattie so he went a little bit far. This video was hilarious Hattie’s reaction is so cute😫

Yes, every individuals have their own culture.Sometimes we may won't be able to accept what the other one says, but we need to respect their words. Every one in this world deserves respect for their choices 😊

Actually most of the Asian culture do this if any guest arrives at home and we have to serve them the best, like if you don't have spare guest rooms , we provide them with main one, etc.. every culture have unique ethnicity , and we should respect it.

유령도 영상을 올리네요 허허

"You want them to stay outside?" "Yes." Hattie looked like a deer in the headlights upon hearing Jin's mum's voice.

Hattie’s face reaction is EVERYTHING 😭❤️👏🏾

해티언니 너무 예쁘다,, 진우님 어머님도 성격 되게 러블리 하신것 같아요 !! ❤️ 행복하세요☺️☺️

진짜 몰카여서 해티님 반응이 더 재밌고 귀엽네요 ㅠㅠㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ Hattie Don’t worry Everyone thinks you are cute❤️ Everyone understand your feeling💗

와 근데 해티언니 원래도 예뻤지만 살 빼고 진짜 더더더더 너무너무 예뻐지셨다 진짜 미드에 나올 거 같아요 너무 예쁘심 와 ….. 7:00 특히 여기 너무 예쁘다 분위기도 뭔가 드라마 같고 나와서 웃는 것도 댑악 오마이갓

Jin: Oh my God my parents came 😮 Hattie: Please wait a little bit to bear the shock 🔄😫

I love the relationship Hattie has with her in-laws!! So cute!!

The way hattie starts laughing at 01:44 & continues to -- such a sitcom thing to do 😄

Happy Chuseok to everyone, may this year's celebration bring blessings to you and your entire families. To the person reading this: Even though I don’t know you, I wish you the best of what life has to offer.

Huge cultural shock for me. People live in joint families here (3 generations living togther). So guys don't generally move out of their childhood homes.

7:35 어머니 is always pretty

조용히 구독하고 영상보는 사람중1명입니다 일상생활블로그 잼있게 잘보고있습니다 진 앤 해티 채널 200만 가즈아!

I agree with her. You want to make a good impression on your in laws. I would be angry, confused and upset to wake up without any warning that they had just come over. Plus I would be suspicious of being filmed.

6:48 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 1년치 웃음을 여기서 뽑네 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ

Hatties reaction was priceless when she heard Jin’s mom

Hattie it's also time for you to surprise jin with your parents 🌝

I was dying at the end when she was respectfully having an argument while whispering lol

First view Iam so happy 😊😊😊😊😊 iam from India 🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳 iam big fan of the Jin and Hattie sister

와 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 당황한 모습이 ㅋㅋㅋ 웃기네용 ㅋ

진우님.....당신은 악마입니깤ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ

This was Jin's last prank, we'll miss him!!

I'm at an age where I'm still accepting myself and coming to terms with that its okay and valid to not do things my parents way (l'm twenty, but being in a culturally traditional household kinda put me behind stepping into my adult identity independence and feeling like I'm allowed to), so it was so relieving and insightful to see them discussing having space and boundaries, while in a traditional culture like Korea, especially with Jin being the firstborn son (I think, but correct me if I'm wrong!). I was raised where its polite to give up your bed and always host family every day (mexican culture, tho I'm american) and I've never felt right with having my family over at my childhood house every day. Its very draining to me, and ruins any plans for me to work or get things done in my own life, while still living at home. My extended family comes over literally every day, and its very stressful. Its normal to my parents and their boundaries of what they feel is good, but it was never mine... I need that space and independence, or I feel anxious and stressed too, like Hattie! So it actually encouraged me to feel like its okay to be different from my parents, and stand firm in that being a personal boundary for later on in life, when I have the choice in my own home. My boyfriend is a firstborn Korean son, so taking care of his parents is a big cultural expectation on him. But this made my heart feel relieved that its okay to have a different view, and its okay to compromise and still do what you feel comfortable with and set those boundaries, with it being okay. It made me have hope for our future. Thank you so much for sharing your perspectives on this, and these moments of how you both would handle these things!

JIN'S PARENTS ... MY GOD. HER MOM COMPLIMENTING HER, DAD AND MOM MAKING HER FEEL LIKE THEIR OWN DAUGHTER.

해티 헤어스타일 역대급 잘어울려요 존예 역시

어머니가 해티님 완전 우쭈쭈ㅜㅜㅜ아 부럽다😿😘

Oh ...really enjoyed ...take love from India 🇮🇳❤

Jin’s mom voice is sooooo sweet, I’m melting really 🥺🥺😭😭❤️❤️

I was in ur channel when u uploaded this video what a nice coincidence 😌love you guyssss❤️

How can someone look so damn gorgeous right after they woke up....... ❤️

okay but how wholesome were jin's parents tho. I love how they called her a princess ajdkrhekrjrhejd they're so cute♡

This is the cutest thing i have ever seen on the internet ... Hattie acted very sweet.

Jin's parents are the sweetest !! I love them 💕

Jin's mom sounds so cute calling Hattie 💙

I love watching this content , one of my favorites, Hattie's natural reaction is awesome. Thumbs up for both Jin and Hattie and hope many more contents are coming every week.

Hattie is always such a mood...you cannot not love her!!!

I love Hattie how she's respectful with your parents anyway. It's like a movie watch her reaction 🤣🤣.

Hattie I'm rooting for ur revenge,, if I were u I would panic too,, Jin should feel the same 🔥🔥 🤣

if i were in a relationship and my boyfriend did that i'd literally jump off the window with no hesitations omg i was panicking with hattie 😂😂😂

It’s the threats✨ behind the smile for me! gotta love Hattie ☺️

This Is most funniest video 😂 I watched today. In the whole video I Lough a lot..... And @hatti reaction was amazing I never forget

해티 부모님 영국서 찾아올라 어휴 리벤지 감당 되시것슈? ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 07:17 해티: 진, 너 죽고싶냐?(눈빛발사중)

Jin should name there channel 'digging my grave ft my gf' 😂😂

진짜 너무 귀엽다...즤러니까 자꾸 더 장난치고 싶은거임...볼수록 귀염 짱이네요

Haha hattie's reaction was so nice and her smile. Really she looks very pretty.

She really took it well. Hats off to you, Hattie. I would've been panicking and sulking the whole day.

😂😂😂😂Lmaooo Jin- next door Hattie almost hyperventilating 😂 "what if we had had an argument and they listen to it with the cup against the wall" 😂😂

시어머니의 말소리를 들었을 때 해티 눈이 금방이라도 튀어나올 것 같이 커지는 것이 정말 재미있네요. 6:47 It's so funny when hatty's eyes nearly pop out at the time of listening the voice of mother-in-law. 😂😂

New subscriber from Philippines ♥️. I really loved your content guys, more pranks to come and be healthy always🥰🎉

Lots of love from India .... May God bless both of u

I'm mexican living in the UK so I understand both of you. In Mexico, depending on the family, they leave the main room for the parents and you move to other room. But being here made me a notice about the self space we have, the privacy your room offers to you and what that mean. Jin, you are a evil mastermind, because even telling was a prank I was the same anxious as hattie. 🤣👌🤣👌🤣👌

Jin's mom has a very calming and soothing voice haha good to hear in the morning

해티랑 진우는 우리에게 즐겁고 활기차게 해주네요 해티마이 놀랬죠 오늘도 Have a nice day😜

Hattie was cool initially but As soon as Jin said they have to sleep on the couch, she wasn’t having it. Having his parents come over while Hattie was sleeping was not one of Jin’s best ideas. Obviously, she was not enthused. I’m sure that he is going to really get it this time. I’m looking forward to her revenge prank.

Hattie's face at 8:30 is so funny🤣.

Jin you have made my night .... I was just smiling and laughing for the whole video😊

Jin your parents are so sweet. Awww and Hattie does look beautiful even when she wakes up.

장난이 너무 심해요!🥺 해티님이 착하셔서 다 이해했을 지는 모르지만 보는 내내 조금 눈살이 찌푸려진 적도 있었어요😢 실제론 서로 챙겨주며 이해하고 지낼 거라 믿습니당!🤭

did hattie actually dye the under parts of her hair black now?? it looks so good!!!

므흣하고 따뜻하고 재미있는 생활이야기 잘 보고 있어요

This prank is the best I’ve seen so far. Jin got Hattie really good 😂