Una vez leí un estudio que decía que las mujeres siempre solemos estar más alerta ante los peligros, siempre queremos prevenir antes de que ocurran las cosas, es algo natural, mientras que los hombres no se alarman tan rápidamente, tardan más en detectar ciertos peligros.

almost like there’s a reason for that 🤔🧐 men, do better

Well naturally with the way woman can easily become victims of murder crimes and sex crimes committed against them mostly by men and where men can easily overpower most women, women will have that instinct to stay on guard at all times. As a woman myself, it becomes second nature to make sure you protect yourself from danger. Whether a woman decides to listen to that instinct or not makes or breaks their potential of becoming the next victim.

@@anonnnymousthegreat On the flip side, men seemingly feigning ignorance or assuming these actions aren't nefarious is clearly a problem. There is no world in which Joe's actions are supposed to appear "okay" so thinking otherwise & ur statement puts the responsibility on women when they aren't the ones doing anything wrong (just out their existing)

my thoughts exactly!

yessssss how they didn't instantly find something wrong with his behavior the way the girls did speaks volumes.

@@lils4341 Hm. Think it just makes it obvious the differences in thought between men and women. You say it's a problem that the men aren't that concerned- I say it's a problem that you're overly concerned. Okay, I'll give it to you, turning up at her house was slightly stalker like behaviour- but it might have been an alternate route to work and he might've just wanted to see what kind of place she had- I've done it to co-workers (male AND female) out of curiosity when I wanted to take a more circuitous route home so I can ride my bike (but not aimlessly, I don't enjoy aimless riding I need a destination.) As long as he only did it once it's not a problem- I've never intentionally gone to a co-worker's street after the first time and I've only done it to like three co-workers, I'm not gonna go that far out of my way, it's just a side-destination, a reason to expand my riding radius. The online shit looking at her profiles etc, that's not stalker behaviour either- EVERYONE does that. You gotta know who you're dealing with, it's why we ask for Instagram now instead of a phone number. With IG we can see the shit you get up to and if you're in like five places with bikinis and on boats and shit- you're a whore and most dudes will smash and pass you. Your IG is basically a reflection of whether you're run through or not. If your IG checks out that you're not just a one night stand then your FB profile is the next port of call- learn if you have any pets (compassion), kids (liabilities), what your family is like, where you work so what sort of income you're earning as to what kind of girl you are- if you're working at an office but on a yacht in your IG, some shit isn't adding up. It's not stalking, it's background checking, vetting to make sure of who you are before I commit resources to wooing you. It's the modern equivalent of asking around about you to see what you're about- which imo is more creepy because then you know about it- whereas what you don't know, won't bother you.

@TheK-PopInPublicAuthority I'm not reading this shit anybody justifying Joe needs help. Go argue with yo mama k? Have you a blessed day.

@@TheK-PopInPublicAuthority you wrote this long ass comment just to say a whole bunch of nothing while letting the world know you're an idiot

@@TheK-PopInPublicAuthority sorry to be the one to say it, but everything you described is NOT normal behavior. I’d recommend seeing somebody for that… best of luck, and get well soon 😕

It sounded more like he was playing it up to make the girl seem more surprised when she was proven right lol

@@Kingdom_Of_Dreams No i doesn’t seem that way -.- it seems he thinks that controlling behavior and checking up on everything the woman you say you “love” do, is ok -.-

VERY concerning

@@Blania well he is a Korean man. And from the stories I have heard this is not uncommon behavior for them (in general)

@@kimleemoon well, I know it :) and also Koreans in general ( from what I observe in mass media, so …you never know ;p) Koreans often believe that - what others do, and what is “popular” , whatever it is is, it must be OK ….. -.- And that is sad :|

his smile was predatory, on an instinctual level, women/people can sense that because we are also animals. animals dont use language which can be honeslty disracting at times but read body language and tone of voice and facial expression and eyes. joes eyes and expression were those of a predators. Women can sometiems be a bit more intune with their animal instincts because they often can be dealing with hyper vigilance, especially in countries and eras of high crimes, and or violence towards women by men so they can "sense'/ see when a man is predatory.

ikr like bro im scared for the women in your life

The show talks from Joe's perspective so it sympathises his actions. Obviously later on that one guy tells "this isn't what I thought" after the murder. And unfortunately people do stalk people on social media. The address part was ofc psycho.

@@Latte23749 Yeah but like I feel like even when seeing things from Joe’s perspective it’s very easy to sense that what he’s doing isn’t right - like yes, people stalk others on social media but it never goes to that extent. Like saying that finding someone’s address through stalking isn’t weird is kind of alarming

@@_laurenolo_ Ikr this is lowkey scary

@SHELE i feel like it’s still very easy to see that what he’s doing isn’t right though

Yeah that give me the creeps

Sus indeed

Red flags all over this video

It seemed like he really wanted to give the guy the benefit of the doubt well past what's normal... but hopefully being called out like that was a wake-up call, bc that way of thinking is very concerning.

nah frrrr red flag

Same

Fr the ML literally found the girl’s address thru cyberstalking then WENT TO HER HOUSE AND STARED AT HER?? Creepy 💀

The show is from Joe's perspective so it sympathizes his actions. Obviously later on that one guy tells "this isn't what I thought" after the murder. And unfortunately people do stalk people on social media. The address part was ofc psycho.

@@Pear109 its clear just by looking at his actions that its wrong. You dont need to know the show to see that

@Mieya Young I know, I'm just giving him the benefit of the doubt. After all, they looked a little confused at the beginning of the movie.

what are you watching? im watching you😮

thats cute

The show is from Joe's perspective so it sympathizes his actions. Obviously later on that one guy tells "this isn't what I thought" after the murder. And unfortunately people do stalk people on social media. The address part was ofc psycho.

@@Pear109 the social media part i agree i wouldn’t call it stalking but when he said the address part wasn’t stalking i was like hold up

@Cheetah lol, yeah, I agree.

The show talks from Joe's perspective so it sympathizes his actions. Obviously later on that one guy tells "this isn't what I thought" after the murder. And unfortunately people do stalk people on social media. The address part was ofc psycho.

​@Pear109 stop making excuses in every comment. it's getting annoying and anyone with half a brain who isn't a weirdo can tell its stalking regardless of what Joe says

@@Pear109 Stop making excuses for him. He is clearly defending the stalking and gaslighting her. It takes quarter of a brain cell to know this is stalking.

I'm just saying, maybe give him the benefit of the doubt. They don't know english he could have been confused, you don't know.

@@Pear109 lmfao do you not see the Korean subtitles 💀

I came back to this because it stuck in mind for some reason but…she was already yelling “run away!!” not even a full minute in 😭😭

Not really anybody with the common sense could be able to tell that what Joe was doing was psycho. It has nothing to do with men or women as a whole . That Korean guy was just dense as fuck.

@@m.hol4229 Alright thanks for clearing that up. Have a good day

Yeah, Joe is something else😂

@@kimleemoon ohh you bet 😅

Well, hold on your horses. The guy probably thought that it was a romantic series he didn’t think it was horror. Can you not read he says “that’s not the general I was thinking of.”

@@M_usef no matter what the genre is which is understandable he might not know, the act of stalking someone online to go to their address is not good in whatever genre.

@@kimjansen660 obviously stalking is not good. It’s just that the guy is probably dense s.

online yeah because everyone does it online, its free information, you dont need to stalk to get information people upload voluntarily. the stalking begins when thy stalk you in life. dont act as if you never checked your crush or a first date online.

​@@rainbows5232to the point of searching for their family's accounts and her home address? Hell nah

The show is from Joe's perspective so it sympathizes his actions. Obviously later on that one guy tells "this isn't what I thought" after the murder. And unfortunately people do stalk people on social media. The address part was ofc psycho.

@@Pear109 yeah ik. He was only talking abt the genre of the show as 'this isnt what i thought'. He still didnt say "oh thats def stalking" but instead told her friend that she was paranoid. The social media stalking part we can forgive bcz ppl's profiles are public but not every1 follows their "crush" around or install cameras in their house. Even tho he saw Joe doing that he was still like "wait thats not stalking" prob thinking maybe something else wud be revealed to show Joe's motivations for doing that but no matter what it cud be, its still stalking. Not all stalkers are killers but killers are stalkers first. It escalates

@@Pear109 you keep writing this same comment under people's comments. just give it up. it doesn't matter if it's from joe's perspective, anyone with common sense can see that it's creepy. especially after he showed up to her house. and that guy was STILL DEFENDING HIM. so he's a creep too.

@@pearluniverse7878 Calm down, I was just saying to give the guy the benefit of the doubt. Tons of people miss read things all the time, when the character showed up to the house the reactor could of thought that he was invited. You never know what people are thinking or feeling, we aren't mind readers.

@@Pear109 there’s nothing to calm down about bc I’m not upset lol there’s nothing to misunderstand, any man that defends another man through stalking especially after he goes to her house and watches her through her windows, goes everywhere she goes and even follows her at night is a creep. Argue with yourself bc you sound crazy. “Could’ve thought he was invited” to watch her through her window?? Are you insane? You must be his secret channel or something with how hard you’re trying to defend his weirdness

Same!!!

I think they have other things to do in their life

@@TheMorSkull01 not everyday lol...

Only works in English

@@TheMorSkull01 what?