Sooooooo damn true😅

😂😂😂😂😂😂

“I gotta WoRk”

Hahaha yes

Nailed it going through this rite now

You're already a great father! Good for you!

@@CyberMachine Thank you . We need to support all families

As a mother I respect you man.... really u r a good man....

Precious bonding time for you both also. I had the same issue after birth, but it took a month and loads of trips to the hospital to tell them something wasn't right. In that month, as I suffered agonising headaches/muscle aches and fever, I was up with my son for feeds, expressing when he went down, which left me exhausted. That experience let me know how strong both myself & my pain threshold were 😅

❤️🙏🙏🙏❤️

Ты существуешь?😂

огромное уважение вам. вы без преувеличения герой нашего времени❤️

У нас две няни, дневная и ночная, отдельно няня-медик сопровождает старшего. Мы с мужем сразу просчитали такой формат и прекрасно все высыпаются, не стресуют, есть время и на работу, и на себя, и на побыть вместе. По бюджету это абсолютно не космос, а здоровье, нервы и отношения бережет невероятно.

Ел я хьо кутам😂

​@@umardudaev2593ше бери хьяжч котам хоьл.

DADA

It can have a calming effect which is why us mum do it when bub is still newborn

Sounds close to my hubs

That's how it's supposed to be!!! We should be able to recover. I got stiched up 5 times on my VV and I could barely walk or even sit or even think about it 'cause it would hurt so much. My doc recommended to stay in bed for the next 8 weeks and focus on recovery. But how?? There is noone looking after me, my baby or the household. My fiancé says "I'm bringing the money home. It's your duty to do the rest!"

My husband helped as well. He always took the 4am feeding. And on weekends he would let me sleep in and he would have time with our daughters.

@@anastasijachantalkunstner1893that’s a pretty rough situation to be in do you have other family that’s willing to help you out and physically be in the house with you to try and help out a bit so you don’t have to do everything alone.

thats a good hubby!!!

She mentioned somewhere that the dad do all the household work, cleaning, cooking, etc... besides his work.

@@wafaaibrahim9020 not even 50/50... where can I get a man like that

​@@wafaaibrahim9020well that's a good dad, I know it may not seem fair for a lot or ppl, but she barely recovered from the labor pain and she still can't have a decent night of sleep, plus changing a baby's diapers is the last thing I'm planning to do in my life, not even the last, that's impossible for me, I'll probably vomit after that (I know i was baby once too but I just can't-) anyways even if she gets day time sleep it's not as near benifictal as night sleep one, but still I appreciate the husband's effort if he truly does all that, he's not just a good husband or man but a good father too

Why does she need to wake up, if the baby start crying at night time. Why cant she just sleep through the noght and handle the baby problems at 7 o’cock at the morning, when she wakes up.

​@@jout738bro...

Muy cierto.!

Вполне оценимый, няня называется.

والله إنه انا عندي ٢:١٧

The perfect Mom!❤😂🎉😅

And some men think women got it easy.

I wish you would've been my mom growing up. Lol. Someone I could talk to about anything.

@@carmensmithaguirre3049 Blessings and hugs, sweetness ❤️

@@ifyousayso9392 Aww thank you! You too😊

Yes

The strongest, dads are too☺️

​@@lilnugget5961definitely they are not at all😂

No.

​@tokam.01782 as far as I know, a man didn't give birth to you.

Вы правы

❤

ほんとそうですね！

Nie wszystkie. Ale 80% jest wspaniałymi matkami

♥당신 말이 맞아요

Siiii igual yo ,es una etapa difícil,es increíble como criamos a estas personitas con amor y paciencia 😢😢me emociona ver éste video.

Y al crecer un poquito y hablar Comienzan a contestarte a mentirte.....

ну так не рожайте, и проблем не будет

А просто спокойно принять ванну и выпить чашку чая?Просто была мечта.

А я наверное просто ещё не родила, поэтому кажется что это так легко😂че там с ребенком не справиться, да легко

Na verdade vcs filhos que são os Maiores presentes de Deus ❤

Both parents are

the problem with this society tradition is putting the baby away from you. of course he gonna wake up every hour he miss his mom. animals keep theyr puppyes always close the first weeks

Men just is sometimes mean to women

​@@KAMI-q3cIf men was as mean as you say to women then we would have never built a society to make them fell safe.

@@LarryBonson how does that prove anything? yes men did some society building stuff (because women were treated like slaves and property in history and weren't allowed to do it themselves) but all of those men are dead now. what have you done to build society? your argument is nonsensical

Some mums are terrible. Not every women who give birth is amazing

My grandpa who I cared for 6 years used to say that to me. He always got so worried and would be like “Would you sit down for 5 damn minutes!” 😂 But he said that same quote to me. I miss him dearly.

The baby is so cute

Yo jamas me desvele así con mis niños, mi suegra me enseñó como acomodarme al bebé para darle el pecho acostada, comían y luego me los cambiaba de lugar y a seguir durmiendo. No padecí desvelos solo que estuvieran enfermos

​@user-hr3oz9ri4z her baby has colic... not everyone has/had such an "accommodating" newborn. 😉

Una pregunta si ella hacía todo y de amanecida quien filmaba...el verdadero padre mientras un payaso dormía....a pensar

Damn we really are!!... Raised 4 on my own... ❤

Ye right

You’re a pro! You got this. My kids are grown adults but now my doggie wakes me up

Absolutely 💯

Yes it is

😂😂😂😂😂😂

Thanks for the likes🤗

Adevarat

lol you spelt through wrong

They are never forgotten, there are literally pushes to abolish fathers day

👍🏼

That's crazy, I didn't even know that could happen. It must have been so stressful, not knowing if he was OK or not because he gave no indication. Glad he's OK now, thanks for sharing.

​@@hayley8907el bebé no tiene que dar ninguna indicación. A los bebés hay que alimentarlos cada 2 o 3 horas, sin importar si lloran o no, porque cuando lo hacen significa que están HAMBRIENTOS. No hay que permitir que lleguen a ese estado, porque sino les cuesta ser alimentados o regurgitan la leche

@@Minakitonyu oh true... I dont have kids and never thought of it like that... thank you so much for this comment

@@Minakitonyuthanks ❤

Right on cue 😍💗

Menos as narcisistas!

What about respecting our fathers too?

Yup God bless all patents and intellectual property rights

well it bcz they heared their mom saying it say Daddy that why

​@@dustybrubaker2257😂 je te dis façon c'est énervant 😂😂

They always are 😭

Yeah and before someone start raging because of this, we know fathers work hard too, but they're mostly not even with their kids, so it's kinda not fair for the first word to be otherwise than who spent nights waiting for the next cry to calm them out

He has a house to pay off in the morning

@@jhkk1269that's no excuse to not help out with your child that took 2 people with responsibility to make. I'm sure feeling a bit sleep deprived won't hurt if it's something worth helping out for or doing. That's what marriage is about, committing and helping through thick and thin, you are clearly not in the state of a mature person.

@@aishaaa-17 have you considered his job may pose a threat to life to himself and others if he is on an hours sleep a night for a year? And if he then loses his job because he is sleep deprived how long before the house is taken away

​​​​@@aishaaa-17first of all he has a job to do to pay off, secondly who said that he doesn't help in child rearing? Have you even seen other reels to vent out like that?? I am a woman too ...but we should understand his part too...his life and health also matter too..he is also a human being... This baby is not their only child...who takes care of the other kids?? She even mentioned her husband helps out in household chores...even her in-laws are helpful..Yes, marriage means commitment and understanding so it takes two...so assuming like this is only gonna hurt both of them...peace out

Both parents are important but I only have my mom so I have to act like a dad😢❤

I have 6 kids and it's a blessing ❤

@@Alice-bb5itmy mother tried to sell my older sister and I for crack & $. I was 1 my sister was 10

Can’t stand when ppl say this but I get it it’s a me problem lol

@@kerstieamiya4880i mean you did say she tried… it could always be worse she could have succeeded. 😢. A lot of bad things happened to me and my siblings (not ready to finishing dealing with it all so I’m not going in to detail but it was BAD ) the thing that really helped me was to realize- Your mother is not some all powerful being … not a super hero and has problems of her own with no help and we’re too young to help back then AND the only thing she has to go off of is what her mother taught her. So i thought about grandma (her mom) who was 6 days old and given to a family member for years because her mother was very sick grandma was taken care of by an aunt for many years but sent home at 13 to take care of her (still stick) mother who basically taught her nothing of being a mother. My great great grandma was beaten all the time. Even while she was pregnant with everyone of her children (even lost a few bc of it). My great grandma was being beat by her father and taught very little of being a mother by her mom. My grandma was very abusive to my mother who beat us until she gave us up for adoption. I haven’t had babies yet but the cycle will be BROKEN with me. When and if i ever have babies they will never know what it is to be beaten by your mother for no reason. You can teach lessons with out laying a finger on your children. Edit: the old saying “ you only know what you’ve been taught”. IS NOT AN EXCUSE TO STOP LEARNING NEW THINGS especially if it’s going to improve your life and the lives of those around you.

@@kerstieamiya4880 Damn!! I'm so sorry!! (((Hugs))) hope you can find a positive maternal figure. I cherish mine.

Sorry for you

​​@@jasonseaton3905sorry for what lol😂 who said youre destinated to be Mooom just because you are a woman , nobody right ? A ok 😅 And in my opinion it's much better say the truth instead of doing 10 children and abandon him or not have to give them the love they supposed to need 😊

@@jasonseaton3905 why do u men always assume every woman wants to be a mother? its not for everyone and thats ok

​@@corsicanlulutrust me we don't assume but if you look around majority of you may not want to be a mother but you sure as heck may want a baby

This doesn't make sense, how can a person want a baby if that means being a mother?​@@dawn78145

The same…. I literally forgot and just got reminded 😅😅

Right!!! 😂😂😂 Then the more you have the less sleep you get.

The hard part is what makes the women mothers and it will strength the bonds between the moms and the babies and don't forget that babies need to survive by crying asking for milk or for changing nappies cuz their are weak poor creatures😁❤. if it was an easy task some women will care less about their babies and act reckless that's what called bonds and starting a family with attached emotions.we all were babies in the past and did the same to our moms and dads.😁

Really? I have a 23 month old and this gave me severe baby fever 😅 I love the newborn stage ❤❤

@@Kayd2111 yes, being up all night feeding and caring for my new born babies was a very precious and exhausting time. I enjoyed my babies more once I slept a little more and I wasn’t a zombie in auto pilot.

😂😂😂

So true ❤❤❤❤ perfect comment

💯

Looking at my 2 month old in amazement that she used to be that size

​@@celiag7253yes perfect comment!

So true the hard part is what makes the women mothers and it will strength the bonds between the moms and the babies and don't forget that babies need to survive by crying asking for milk or for changing nappies cuz their are weak poor creatures😁❤. if it was an easy task some women will care less about their babies and act reckless that's what called bonds and starting a family with attached emotions.we all were babies in the past and did the same to our moms and dads.😁

Being a father is just as hard as being a mother.

@@bennydevries539 HARDEST THING IN THE WORLD JAJAJJAJAJAJAJAJA.

@@justmyopinion5763 You must be used to freeloading.

@@bennydevries539id say being a mother is a bit harder though. . But okay

@@bennydevries539ehh no.. being a mom is definitely harder than being a dad

I also have twins and it is still soo tough 4 months in. You learn to feed them both at the same time even if ones still sleeping. You have 2 nursing pillows and one baby sitting in each. And then after a 1-1.5 hour feed you hope that they both sleep for atleast 2 hours so you can also get some rest. Can't wait for them to sleep in 5-7 hour stretches!!🤣🤣 With one baby it's still super tough and you're doing great mama!!❤️❤️

I m a mother of 8 month old twins.. life is really busy and tiring with them..

I'm a twin. My mom was fortunate enough for her mom to help her, she lived with us the first 6 weeks. Pregnancy was so rough on her. She also had to have an emergency C-section, so she was also recovering from surgery. My dad was working overtime to cover the costs due to my mom having to take off work at 7 months due to being high risk, and then having to be home with us 24/7. She didn't go back to work until we went to preschool because 1. Expensive and 2. she didn't trust anyone enough to watch us every day as babies, aside from her own mom but she lived in another state so that wasn't possible. Now we're both 27 and we love our mom. I still live with her because of money and she's not in the best health.

They are typical Russian mams❤❤❤

I mean they dont have a choice anymore lmfao

It is difficult for only a second lol the terrible twos is what's always gotten me....and oh boy teen years 😭 not ready for that 🥺

​@@tinakinz123the teen years have me depressed most days...I wouldn't change it for the world tho...that's my headache 😂

Wish i could had experienced this. But naaah my baby boy was too good for me the whole newborn stage. But now hes a toddler, my gad alwayssss 4am awake till 8am

I hope things are better now.

Same pero sin ayuda del papá (ignorenme yo también quería desahogarme 😢)

guys work all day to provide then still protect the familly fathers are super humans

​@@notskelton2670 Ok... Not degrading a father's work but this is not abt him.

yeah ik but fathers get no aprectiation at all bcz girls think womans job is harder both are equally hard@@hopeworld134

​​​@@notskelton2670 meu pai só trabalhava (4-6h) e vegetava em casa, minha mãe trabalha (8-10h por dia), cuidava de mim (e ainda cuida) e ainda tinha que cuidar e fazer os serviços em casa, minha mãe é uma super humana, meu pai só era humano

@@notskelton2670my mom worked full time as an equine vet right after a c section. Moms work too ya know

I used to sit there feeding my baby wondering how many other mums were up right now. Sounds strange but I kinda miss it now that she’s 13 months and only wakes up once some nights and goes back to sleep quite quick, I miss it but I also love getting a full nights sleep again 😂

It’d be cool if there was moms only social media where moms could hang out and cheer each other on during those late night feedings

@@GymclarkI think there is one.

​@@GymclarkThere are many mom groups on Facebook. They really helped. Especially as I was a first time mom.

I was dirt poor in an attic apartment filled with black mold with no money in July heat and no family or vehicle, no washer or dryer. I'd never held a baby and had no internet to teach me. It is hard to watch these KZfaqrs who have so much. Not to take away from the beautiful mother that she is, but there is more than one kind of tired. I wish I had been this wonderful mother kind of tired. Please understand, no offense meant but it does bring back memories.

Кто виноват?? Дала бы грудь, вместо того, что бы сцеживать, в какие то бутылочки переливать, и ребёнок сыт и мама спокойна

​@@user-mb4ls9bd1uно вы думаете, если кормить грудью не нужно вставать, переодевать и укладывать, единственное не нужно быть молокоотсос потом и вме6🤷‍♀️

God bless you

Euh non, refaite et pas réussi

Fathers deserve the universe, They do all this and still go to work while the mother naps all day.

@@topherh5093 lmao...the father is literally sleep the entire video but go off

@@goodnessgracious777and does all the house work

@@iliketowatchnfl3515 literally! don’t even get me started 😭

Both parents are equal. Doesn't matter if she's up with him at night as a baby.

Wym? The father provides money and everything for the family. He works his ass off to provide for them. No one sees the the things the father does. A woman gives birth and suddenly gains alot of respect and this is what the father has to face. People like you are ruining the world and making a imbalance.

​@@MaxiineX_X kunde mucchu me adabe yaavu ninna abatara nai da maga malla batthe paterre ☹️

​@@MaxiineX_Xbro mothers are better u can't change that

@@nidhirao776 what?

Such a women comment

what did u mean by that@@iliketowatchnfl3515

With my second daughter, I was the ONLY one that could hold her. By the time we had her, we had 2 other kids. So my husband was well versed in newborns by then. But no one, not my mom or mother in law or anyone- could hold my daughter without her screaming for the first 6 months of her life. My husband would hold her while I showered and she would scream the entire time. She nursed every hour and a half for the first few weeks. It was brutal, but no one else could do it but me. You don’t know the dynamic of their relationship. Maybe he husband had to get up early and work at a demanding job. Maybe they previously agreed that she’d get up with the baby. Maybe the baby won’t take a bottle from the husband.

Wanna cry ?

she explained later that he helps a lot during the day but he has to be well rested for work so he doesnt take the night shift

Feel for her… like she was forced and like she is the first time mama. 😂😂😂😂

Don't worry about the negativity on this page, it's nobody. Get it "nobody". 😂

@@Nobody91795 she’s not a first time mom, the baby is her 5th child..

@@Nobody91795it doesn’t matter if u have 12 kids this newborn phase is tough when they aren’t sleeping through the night yet. Being a parent is tough period but it’s worth it forced or not. It all pays off in the end.

​@@Chaniechan777I needed to hear that. My little one is six weeks. It's tough.

Проверьте, если ребенок не будет спать с 2-х до 6-ти, то он не умрет с голоду😅

🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

No te lo creerás pero mi hijo con cinco días ,le daba la toma a las nueve de la noche y le tenía que despertar yo a las 8 y media por tenía que llevar a su hermano al colegio y no se a muerto de hambre. No sabes lo que dijo el pediatra? Madre mía qué suerte tienes ni te se ocurra despertarlo que el sueño teniendo su peso le alimenta más.

realmente mãe é mãe.

I understand the body insecurity but you literally just did something amazing you brought life into the world so please don't be hard on yourself. I wish you good rest ❤

That's the spirit! You are strengthened and encouraged by GOD!

There is no need to speak without knowing, the man takes care of the other children and also the baby in the afternoon so that the girl sleeps during the day and can do her things.

Thank you for your words, they inspired me!

@@belujk.97 I’m not saying her man doesn’t help her. I didn’t speak on her man at all. I’m speaking to the ladies who will inevitably see this video, and either be reminded and resentful of their men who don’t assist, or be discouraged because that mentality is so normalize. I’m speaking to those women and saying there ARE hands-on fathers out there. There are great men who will be happy to help you and be an equal parent to the child they helped create, but women need to be more intentional when dating to look for those qualities.

​@@mf7269cada quien vive su vida como quiere y nadie es perfecto, porque siempre se tiene que juzgar a los demás sin saber 😢 si ella lo hace sola, si el le ayuda o no y al final ellos viven bien y felices y otros criticando lo que ni saben por ver 1 video que dura unos segundos y creen que así es toda sus vida....

@@mf7269 Of course yes, but you bring your husband in when he has nothing to do with it and it looks horrible because it's as if you were comparing him, and no, at no time did you say what you're telling me now. Because it can be taken in many ways.

Считаешь, что должен помогать жене со СВОИМ ребёнком?🤦🏻‍♀️

@@natulya6828lmao, I guess not He’s acting like 50 hr work weeks somehow are more than 24 hrs a day?

@@LivinLaVidaLokaa I want to see you work 50 hours a week for 50 years. There is not a single woman on this planet who would trade raising children for working 10 hours days doing back breaking labor until you're pushing 70.

@@natulya6828 Do you think you should be on the front lines if a war breaks out and your whole existence is threatened?

@@bennydevries539 пиши по-русски

Also mom need to recover at same times

Oh my goodness yea because my baby girl is a HUGE snuggler.

Team no sleep

No you don’t!!😅😂😂❤❤lol

@@robinettebattle3029 lmao true I’ll be ready after about 5 more years of quality me time 🤣🤣

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But don't fathers deserve appreciation too (Only the committed, present , diaper changing, sleep sacrificing fathers who contributed to not only conception and financial aid but also raising the children tho, those are rare but still there are some out there)

@@All.the.handles.are.taken. yea I guess but my cousin is young so he doesn't really know much. But I'm not like him appreciate my father

Why did i read it

Bro it is a comment or story

Does he work

​@@lawman8877absolutely! What kind of question is that? He sacrifices for our family just like I do.....

@@lawman8877you think they’re sleeping during the day?? it’s not like working and sleeping are at the same time

😢😢

That’s so cute 🥺

Работает

Если ему на работу это логично. Мама может днем поспать с ребёнком. У мужа шанса уже не будет.

Ты серьёзно? По квартире видно как он впахивает, они оба устают, давай ещё на каждого дополнительно обязанности скинь. Отец работает, мама охраняет очаг дома!!!!

Не обязан. Да и кто сказал, что он не помогает ей иногда. В семье всегда распределены дела - один с ребёнком, другой работает

Спит, потому что работает.

😂😂😂

Just advice for new mothers : New born babies's (specially in the first 40 days) need the most is the skin contact,to feel secured,so breastfeeding directly from tits is giving not only milk but also security.. Second secret is, while they are breasfeeding , mothers should be hydratating themselves by drinking liquids, tisanes specially.. The total liquids per day should be 3 litres at least . Other thing ,during the night,the secret to return them quickly to sleep ,is "no eye contact, no verbal contact" ..no changing pampers only if its poo.., so nights,only breadfeeding (milk+skin contact). Good luck for all mothers.

When she ticks you off, puts you on the line, knocks you around bc she's in menopause, Remember it was she who chose to lay down and get knocked up; you didn't ask to be born.

@@sunshineandwarmth abusers not included in normal considerations. Get help, get out! Gl!

2nd

How about you tell her how grateful you are to have her instead? One day you got and her and the next you don't.

Как правильно вы сказали! ❤

Same lol

I promise you, it gets easier. 💙 I know it's hard. But you will eat a hot meal again. You will sleep thro the night again. It seems like it won't end. But it does. I promise. Just remember this, and cherish this phase. It really is short. 💙💙💙

Nothing can prepare you for being a first time mom, but it is so worth it.

Me too. I’m due in December & even tho I was up all night with kittens crying and needing to be bottle fed this is completely different. Good luck ladies. X

@@ShieldMaiden95thank god its short

You are good as a dad 🎉

Wow that's strange😂

@DashieNCheekie loving your child is strange? your mindset is sad

@@gallantmaxxing no I'm saying loving being woken up all hours of the night by an annoying screaming baby and they said they miss that yeah it is strange 😄 tell me where did I say that loving your child is strange?

@@DashieNCheekie I'm ok with being strange. The lack of sleep sucks in the moment for sure. But looking back the baby snuggles, the time with my kids, those moments where all they want is to lay with mom/dad. My kids are between 3-10 now. Every stage is special, the late nights of quiet time with the babies has it's own charm. Also babies don't always wake up screaming. Often you'd hear them start to stir and you can get them before the fussing starts.

Fathers also love the child's and do care for them,you are just appreciating moms but their is also a big role of dad in our lives

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Exactly!

Dats y in islam your mother have rights on u three times more den father

Ничего нет геройского в том, что по факту заложено анатомией. Каждый сам решает рожать или нет. Каждый сам решает вставать ночами или нет. Есть няни, сурогаты и еще куча возможностей облегчить жизнь. Но лучше же записать видео, какая ты жертва.

@@teshatesha3489 у вас дети есть?

@@kari_nas какое отношение это имеет к моему комменту?

@@teshatesha3489 прямое, милый человек. Мы с вами говорим и материнстве.. Лучше всех знают о воспитании детей и родительсве в целом, люди у которых нет детей, как бы это не было абсурдно!🤣

​@@kari_nasи таким обязательно нужно вставить свои пять копеек про то, что "никто вас не заставлял рожать" 🤷ну не хотите детей, раздражает эта тема, проидите мимо молча. Нет блин надо обесценить все