I always find myself listening to them when I’m at my saddest. Here I am again

This song has a strong emotional connection to me. My best friend and I sang this song at the top of our lungs on his porch with his crappy guitar. We'd always talk about recording it but never did. He yelled pure passion and pain in his voice. We had the perfect duet. He moved back to his state after he graduated. He called me one day talking about how he was going to go to this arts school and how he was so excited. The next day Im at a party and I get a call saying that he died in a car accident. This song is the closest thing I have to him. The lyrics hit me so. fucking. hard.

How he can sing this without breaking into tears is amazing

I'll have days where I just put their music on repeat... The melodies, the words, the stories, the emotion, the passion, the skill... It all just drives the bullshit away. That's why La Dispute is one of the best bands out there. No other band can drive out the white noise like they do... You get lost in their music. I get lost in their music. People don't understand that. They give it a listen and say "It's good, but it's not for me" or "He's monotonous" or "I don't like screaming" or something to that effect... And I feel like people just don't get lost in the music the way they should. I think that's sad. It's easier when the music is loud and but it isn't deep. But I think that when it's deep, you fall harder for it... There's a greater distance to fall... And it doesn't have to be so loud.

"Until I die I will sing our names in unison." What a song!

The way the chose to end this song with the guitar on its own always gets to me. There's really something about every single one of their songs that you can feel, something very genuine that they have somehow found a way to express. I'm never unimpressed with their music.

Their songs helped me to get over the loss from people I used to love with all of my heart. And they always will. I'll come back here for the rest of my life.

Just everything about this song is perfection. The Guitars, the bass, the drums, the anger, the pain, the desperation of the sound of his voice. God, one of the best songs off this album.

I think this is beautiful. I think this art like. His voice is raspy,kind symbolizing pain. And anger. Its amazingly poetic.

These guys have made so many grown ass men cry. Thanks

If you cant listen to his voice, then you arent or havent been in pain enough to have these songs relieve your anger and distress. He screams and shakens his voice because hes a small being with emotions and past experiences that probably feel like tidal waves, and he expresses them accordingly.

What will I find? Some sacred thing to help me handle the tragedy? Or did I once-Did I have it and lose it? No one should ever have to walk through the fire alone. No one should ever have to brave that storm. No, Everybody needs someone or something. And when I sing, don’t I sing your name out Right at the same time that I sing my own? Some days I swear I can feel you splitting the light through the window frame. The shapes it makes are always warmer, always brighter than the rest of what comes through. Some days I swear I can hear you sing to me or whisper my name in the slightest way. It’s like the warmest light now laid across my bedroom floor is somehow actually you and Not just sunlight. I have the memory climb down the balcony. I put a flower on the back of its dress. It’s probably best to forget it. It’s probably best to let go. I paint it the shade of where the skin and the lip meet, Only a moment after breaking the kiss. And I blur out everything else. That’s how I choose to remember it. Some nights are a lot like the days, I lay awake too late, I watch the shadows casted Trace your shape. Those silver slivers on the wall then on the bedsheets. I hear your song in the trees. I finally fall into rest. Often later when I’m sleeping you show up in my dreams. Just doing simple things, like buying groceries. And when I wake up I could swear you must’ve just left me Like you got up to make breakfast or maybe just to get dressed. But the truth is, you were never there. You won’t ever be. Sometimes I think I’m not either so what do I do When every day still seems to start and end with you? And you won’t ever know, you won’t ever see, How much your ghost since then has been defining me. I leave the memory up atop the balcony. I tear this flower from the back of the dress. It’s best this time, I bet, to just forget and let go. Paint it the shade of where the lip bleeds and blur it out. I blur out everything else, just blur out everything else. And let go, and let go, and let go. Everybody has to let go someday Everybody has to let go. I wonder when I will. I wonder. But if I still hear you singing in every city I meet After I blur it all out, our every memory, if You never fade with the days, your shape still haunting me then, Should I not just sing along? Should I not just sing along? I will sing sweetly hope that the notes change but I do not need it to happen. I’m not resigned to it. And If they never do I’ll sing your name in every line. Just like I did throughout this. Just like I’ve always done. In every gun, the empty church, and every tortured son. In all those giving up. In all those giving in. Until I die I will sing our names in unison. Until I die I will sing our names in unison.

7 years later and i really needed this today

This band has saved my life

I always come here at some point in my life. Especially about hard broke ups. And yeah this band saved my emotions 100 times, thanks La Dispute, really.

Raw. Passionate. Purely unique. No other band's music gives me the chills so frequently. I absolutely love La Dispute.

This band has saved my life more times than I can count.

5 years later and this band still freakin rocks! ❤❤

I adore the emotion in his voice.

There is only one band. That is this band.

Favorite song of all time.

I will never be able to describe my love for this band. La dispute will always be my favorite. All their songs tell a story and they're all so beautiful and amazing. I love the emotion and the beauty.

The emotion in his voice is one of the most important reasons why they're so good.

the first time I listened I got chilled because of his voice and the depth of the music . it's not everyone's thing obviously but I think people who can understand the emotions and anger of him are the ones who've been through such pain .

This band is so damn incredible. They are something very special.

one of my favorite LD songs

We all go though hard times, this song is a dedication, my dedication, our dedication. Let's not forget thoses we lost, dead or still alive.

Favorite song off this album! This song is so great 💕

"U-N-I" in Unison. Holy shit I get it now.

I’ve been listening to them for years and I finally get to see them live next month and I just.....this band has helped me through so much.

Just style of screaming and singing how he alternates back and forth sounds really hard but fun and creative at the same time, like he doesn't have to scream the whole way though or only on some parts, he just switches on and off yells, screams, and vocals. I love it.

Ah jeez. I got into emo and alternative music in general in the early 2000s. Got more into punk and metal and totally mjssed everything that came out in this genre in the 2010s, only to find it now. This band (and otbers) have been a real treat. I fucking love this song. Over and over again im playing this.

I love everything about La Dispute. They changed my life so much. Their vivid tales in music make me so excited. I can't stress enough how much I love them.

im so excited to see them live. words cannot come to explain my love for every single thing about la dipsute

The lyrics truly capture the nuances of intense connection. The memories they leave behind, like fossils, just echo.

Definitely one of my favorite songs. It really resonates with me in an overwhelming way.

Going back to this album 4 years later... It aged so well with me. Such an amazing album and they seriously killed these sessions.

This is basically a continuation of All Our Bruised Bodies and the Whole Heart Shrinks and I think that's beautiful

can you freaking see a kind of relief after the second 0:47 or am I crazy? holy shit, like after yelling “what will I find?” you can see his face relaxing, he seems like he’s smiling, a little, fast shy smile. I can’t properly describe it but these first few seconds are so powerful to me. it’s like all the emotions he feels during the song are compressed in two seconds, in that facial relief/expression. please tell me you’ve understood that lol

*sobs* this is so beautifully poetic like oh my GOD. ;_; Words can't explain how much I like this band ;_;

flawless

La Dispute will always be my favourite band no matter what. This is beautiful!

I love this band, I’ve seen them five times and I’m still amazed by The imagery Jordan utilizes throughout this record and throughout their catalogue its unlike anything I’ve ever heard. if you get a chance, listen to conversations with la dispute Jordan analyzes each song, if you haven’t heard that yet I’d definitely recommend it. We’ve all been through some sort of suffering, we may not be able to relate specifically to the circumstance but the way we cope with grief and come to terms with it is what defines us and I too wonder when I will. I too wonder what my purpose is. The record is fixated around holding onto memories, fixating on the past and self deprication and what the next step is, fight or flight. But our problems are so minuscule compared to true tragedy, to true loss. Some losses I’ve seen I wouldn’t wish on my worst enemy.. and I, selfishly only see my problems, the grief I’ve felt, the pain I’ve endured or have caused and can only see world through my own perception. our problems are still impactful, no matter how small. It’s hard to forget, but I can’t change what happened to my mother or my family, or how that impacted me to this very day. But we must press forward, onwards and upwards to the bitter end and find what truly defines us and I don’t want my past to define who I can be and I believe there is better memories to be shared. La disputes music is the epitome of capturing the anger and the sadness and the pain we all feel and embody it, as not one person, but all of us screaming out together for something better together in unison. This band has helped me through suicide and I believe in them full heartedly, this record deserves so much more praise than it ever could of gotten, this record is the definition of why music truly incredible, it can bring completely different people together to sing even if we hate our own voices we still have a voice, and together we can make anything happen. music truly does save people.

so beautiful.

it was this video and this song and the emotion the band as a whole displays that gave me chills and made me fall in love with this band

I always find myself coming back to this band, especially this song. Reminds me that it was once real

What a beautiful, true and definitely relatable anthem ❤️ What a wonderful special band💕

This song really hits home... Love it to death.

Fuck, these guys are fucking amazing.

this song hits every time

La Dispute, cette chanson, l'une de mes plus belles trouvailles du mois.

La Dispute is fantastic. Such energy and emotion in every sound wave that this band manages to throw out. Wildlife is a momentous triumph for the alternative genre, in my opinion. I could listen to that album, and about 99% of everything else la dispute. You guys rock. Come through riverside or San Diego!

The beginning of this song gives me the feels... I love it!

when youre so happy you want to scream this at the top of your lungs but your parents are asleep ;(

saw these guys perform this live in frisco.these guys are a powerhouse live.

I can't get enough.

They are so flawless

I like what I hear here!! This is going in my digital album today! Great sound

I wonder when I will...

simplesmente lindo.. hilde from brazil

fave song

This song is hard for me to listen to, because of heart break but I find myself coming to listen occasionally.

what a great song

Not saying that the album version sounds horrible or anything, but the live version is SO much better... There's just so much more emotion, not only from Jordan, but from all the members. These men are are super talented... I'd love to see them play live💕

I cant listen to this for too long because it just gets too emotional and relates to me too much then i start thinking about my life too much. small doses indeed.

these are amazing

Such talent.

This song changed my life.

Love them sm

I personally enjoy his voice because of the self expression and emotion involved with it.

love that guitar tone.

I love this band so much, I don't think I can love a person more than this band. This band says exactly how I feel sometimes and how I think about things. I love you guys ❤

beautiful

simply amazing band , live or on record fantastic!

This is so good

RIP David. I wish I was there for you more.

can't wait to see them. my cousin introduced me to this band. mosh!!

fantastic

Did these kids just come up with these lyrics? It’s just a level above anything I have heard.

lit

So damn beautiful

Music will ceep us strong

Beautiful beautiful song

Masterpiece simple as that

When I get hung up on memories and past lovers How things should have ended and how things really when down.I find myself listening to this song.

I got to see them with Thrice a couple years ago and they're sooooooooooooo much better live. They have so much energy and the atmosphere is so weird and emotional. Screaming every word to every song they sang with them was probably one of the coolest experiences I've had, especially since I usually go to metalcore shows (so a different vibe altogether) but holy cow, they're amazing live

❤❤

What will I find? Some sacred thing to help me handle the tragedy? Or did I once-Did I have it and lose it? No one should ever have to walk through the fire alone No one should ever have to brave that storm. No Everybody needs someone or something And when I sing, don’t I sing your name out Right at the same time that I sing my own? Some days I swear I can feel you splitting the light through the window frame The shapes it makes are always warmer, always brighter than the rest of what comes through Some days I swear I can hear you sing to me or whisper my name in the slightest way It’s like the warmest light now laid across my bedroom floor is somehow actually you and not just sunlight I have the memory climb down the balcony I put a flower on the back of its dress It’s probably best to forget it It’s probably best to let go I paint it the shade of where the skin and the lip meet Only a moment after breaking the kiss. And I blur out everything else That’s how I choose to remember it Some nights are a lot like the days, I lay awake too late, I watch the shadows casted Trace your shape. Those silver slivers on the wall then on the bedsheets I hear your song in the trees. I finally fall into rest Often later when I’m sleeping you show up in my dreams Just doing simple things, like buying groceries And when I wake up I could swear you must’ve just left me Like you got up to make breakfast or maybe just to get dressed But the truth is, you were never there. You won’t ever be Sometimes I think I’m not either so what do I do When every day still seems to start and end with you? And you won’t ever know, you won’t ever see How much your ghost since then has been defining me I leave the memory up atop the balcony I tear this flower from the back of the dress It’s best this time, I bet, to just forget and let go Paint it the shade of where the lip bleeds and blur it out I blur out everything else, just blur out everything else And let go, and let go, and let go Everybody has to let go someday Everybody has to let go I wonder when I will. I wonder But if I still hear you singing in every city I meet After I blur it all out, our every memory, if You never fade with the days, your shape still haunting me then Should I not just sing along? Should I not just sing along? I will sing sweetly hope that the notes change but I do not need it to happen. I’m not resigned to it. And If they never do I’ll sing your name in every line Just like I did throughout this. Just like I’ve always done In every gun, the empty church, and every tortured son In all those giving up. In all those giving in Until I die I will sing our names in unison Until I die I will sing our names in unison

Perfection..

God love this

@audiotree la dispute is the greatest band ever

they're like an evolve codeine

❤️

deepest meditation ever

My favorite band is wearing one of my other favorite bands shirt. Into It. Over It.

Every day still seems to start and end with you

i feel so lost and numb

God. Love and miss. So much.

damn they're so good live

so fucking beautiful