"You want black men to be loyal but you won't even be nice!" That truth has the weight of a freight train.

I had a black therapist and she would kind of sugar coat things that she said to me. I have a Russian therapist now and she is super honest and direct with me and told me what I needed to hear. It literally changed my entire perspective of myself. Us black women need to tell each other what we need to hear not what we want to hear.

This man was a beautiful man inside and out. LONG LIVE KING KEVIN

My blood pressure would be high as hell talking to all these confused women. I applaud you bro‼️‼️‼️

Her: “Not all men are great men” KS: “we’re talking about men you chose....” A damn word.

“You Pick Who You Let In Your Body” - Facts

They so stressed and traumatized but they can still make time to do twerk challenges but CAN’T make the time to smile

The truth is the truth no matter what the tone is.

"Marry before you carry!" Put it on a T-shirt! "You can't make this💩up!"🤣😂

The way he told off that lady in the yellow shirt was glorious. More baby mommas need to get told off like this. We need to stop coddling and downplaying this behavior.

"It's not hard to make decisions when you know what your values are."

This man is actually an advocate for black family,more of us need to spread this energy 💯💯💯✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽🪞🪞🪞

Stress? Try to working a 40 to 60hr work week. Then to come home to hear a "modern woman" wife complain how hard it is to stay at home all day.

Ratchet behavior in the black community is not just in the hood, it’s in the educated black community too and that’s a whole another conversation

It breaks my heart as a clinician to see other clinicians who are damaged but trying to help others when they need more healing.

Sisters are in trouble. I didn't know it was this bad. Kevin I appreciate you so much. Thank you for not giving up on us. The struggle is real.

“...masters but I’m getting ratchet outcomes ....” oohhhh lord that cut deep!

I’m a 50-year old Black woman shaking my head. Kevin: “Women, call in with only disagreements.” Black women: “I’m calling because I don’t have a disagreement, I want advice, or I have something else I feel I want to talk about.” In other words, I heard what you said but I’m going to say what I want regardless. Too stubborn to follow simple directions from a Black man.

One thing about the women that call in is 🗣THEY DO NOT LISTEN!!! KS said “I only want to hear from women that disagree,” here comes the “I don’t really have a disagreement but....” Ain’t no way in hell y’all will listen to a man...LISTEN😩🤨🤦🏾‍♀️🙄

The funny part about Kevin's show is that he never changes his message and it exposes the truth about a lot of women's concept of reality. If a woman came on the show and said "I'm a average woman looking for a average man. A man that is average weight and makes about $60K and pays like 60% of the bills" then there would be nothing to talk about. That is the reality of most married people.

Kevin pretty much confirmed what I thought about him this episode... He is nice for the most part if you are nice, honest and straightforward . The second he detects rudeness dishonesty or deceit HE WILL APPLY PRESSURE to get the truth out of you. So ladies, if you call in DO NOT BS HIM!!

The more the women call in, the more they reveal how really feel about us BM. Sleeping with the enemy.🤦🏿‍♂️

Modern Code Words: Starting with " I feel like" " I hear what you're saying, but" " I believe" "I understand, however" " I don't think" " Can I ask you a question" "Well...I think" " That's true, but" " I'm trying to be respectful" " I've never seen your show" "A friend referred me to your show" " I understand, but" " Well...I dont see it that way" " If you knew me, you'd understand" "People I know or knew" " I was with a high value man, but..." " I've dated high value men, but..." " I don't think that's fair..." " I want to introduce a different perspective..." " I have options too..." "I appreciate your show, but..." " Well...look at it this way..." " How do you know..." " Yes & no..." " Me personally...." " Femininity depends on..." " What do you mean by..." " I dont have to..." " I was engaged, but" " I filed for divorce" " I broke off the engagement" " But kevin...." " Okay mr samuels" " Do you have problems with black women" " Well...men do it too" " Why do women have to need men" " Who hurt you..." " You hate black women" " I'm speaking my truth..." " I know plenty of women that did etc, but" "I knew what I was doing, but" " That's a great point kevin, but" " I have a question for you" " Not all men are great men, but" Blah blah blah....modern dictionary!!!

I died ☠️☠️ when KS said "You know how you fix that? Marry a woman" 😭😭😭

She understood the concept of the Section 8 situation she just didn't want to say it!!

He found the Sweet spot. and now these women are showing there true colors.

They’re living outside their role. It’s what makes them unhappy at record levels and stressed.

That part about black women in customer service who greet everyone else except black men is true but they do it to other black women too. Hell I'd say they treat other black women worse than they do black men. My girl is always having problems with other black women. They only unite online. In real life they don't like each other.

Used to have a gf that would get mad at me for telling her the truth. I asked her what does she want me to do, lie? She said yes! So she can feel good 😅 I’m not making this up

I’m going to be showing my daughter these videos in a few years. That therapist 2nd caller is what’s wrong with our women. Lord help us 🤦🏿

Not a black guy, but I watch your videos religiously. Keep spitting truth. Love it.

Ever notice how they start out the conversation with how they don’t have a disagreement...until they do :)

Mr Samuels said he’s having problems determining “if these women are actual women when they get on camera”🤦🏾‍♂️.... I’m paraphrasing but I totally get what he’s saying. These women don’t even have the sense to try to look decent before they get on the INTERNET!

We need to protect this man. He is telling too much truth. Whoa! Everything we think he says. It’s all out of love but it stings and it’s needed ....

I work at a Whole Foods in Houston and it’s weird as a black guy the other races of women that come in 4 out of 5 women usually smile even though they got a mask on say hello and ask “how you’re doing?” on the other hand the black women 1/5 might actually talk and interact with you they’re usually quiet and if you say hello or ask them how they’re doing they’ll keep it short or just won’t speak to you shit crazy

"You can astral project and get the reality stone, whatever you want, but ma'am these are first world concerns" LOOOOOOL

You want us to be loyal but you can’t even be nice 🥺 wow, that really hit a nerve

The lady with the mini-fro who was 37 with 3 kids with a masters ......that’s gonna be a no for me dawg... hard pass

I know a marriage counselor who has never been married and has only been in one serious relationship. It's the blind leading the blind. As Kevin would say, "can't make this stuff up."

We should be careful on money usage,if you are not spending to earn back,then stop spending.

She was tryna hold back the tears when she realised she was a section 8 😂😂😂

The way Kevin broke down and disassembled a licensed professional.

Are the counselors getting counseling... Whewwww the truth 🙌🏾🙌🏾

I'm buying his first book whenever he writes it

The stress is from pretending. They come outside in a costume and try to uphold a fake image day in and day out....and no one is buying it.

I love how these women call up to tell Kevin he is wrong and don't know...but will ask him how to land a high value man lmao

Kevin: "Only women with disagreements" Every other caller: "Well I don't have a disagreement..." It can't possibly be that hard to follow instructions. Kevin needs to start giving them the boot as soon as they say that

Wow Kevin made such an amazing point, we don’t even check each other as black women. My goodness preaching facts!

The BW is realizing that the monotony of obligation to the “career” (aka job) they have to work isn’t enough to make them happy. After the degrees they put themselves in debt to achieve, they only end up wishing a man who embodies their unrealistic expectations comes and saves them from themselves .

I'm not going to lie, a black girl at the counter of a store did this shit to me last week. She was courteous with everyone before me, but when I came up and greeted, she didn't even acknowledge, straight transaction, not even a bye at the end. I was dumbfounded, but I innately knew what was up. This isn't the first time either, I thought I could've been tripping. This stream helped me know that I wasn't.

These shows be waaay better than reality tv. This is reality right here.

I recently had an event in harlem. And everything was amazing. It seemed all the BW stayed to themselves and snickered, while the WW all greeted me and said thank you for the amazing meal.. Its literally lil moments like that in which the black man wish our black women did it more. As much as i appreciated the complements from the WW, it would have meant the world to me to get that type of feedback from my BW in which i love so much. But they ended up looking at me sideways for conversing with the WW in a professional business manner.

This is why I stopped going to my black female therapist, she was late, kids always interrupted, and her appearance was untidy like the first caller. Now I have a male therapist, I've gotten better with each session.

“I don’t know what you think you just said” was hilarious 😂

We have to protect Kevin at all cost. The world needs him

The Bali chick was cute, nice hair, articulate, on a phone with 1080p front camera quality and with Airpods in her ears trying to downplay her privileges talking about "I live in a 3rd world country now." From Los Angeles and probably making more money in Bali than the majority of the people that live there lmao. And essentially had an issue with logic itself.

“Masters or Section 8” part was GOOOOODDDDD!!!! Got her on that one!!!!!

I'm from East Africa and I love this man! His channel is like a wake up call for me. So grateful for his work

Kevin break down these callers so exquisitely he shows them that even tho they don’t think their the woman he’s talking bout he makes them realize that no you are ma’am accountability is a woman’s Kryptonite

Kevin should do a segment exposing the "Sister code".

“Picking BETTER requires you to have a calibrated picker” Lmao come onnnnnn Kevin!!

Fathers and elders in the community used to help young women pick a suitable mate. She moves from her parents home into her husband’s home with no trauma attached. Nowadays it’s all different

For many women, stress & trauma is self inflicted. She can give it but, She can't take it. 😒

Unfortunately, a lot of our sister's mindset are routed in the (short game) aka (feelings), instead of the (long game) aka (reality).

OG fooled around and got me hooked to these vids 😩😂. I'm over here playing catch up on all this game lolol

"What can I find to complain about men today." Modern Feminism in a nutshell

They be ducking and diving like the lil Kim dance 💃 when it comes to accountability lol 😂

One of the best shows you ever had this far... Thank you Godfather

What sad that I realized is that collectively as black women we don't correct each other. That truly is an issue and I will do better at ensuring our black men get treated with respect.

I pray all black men listening in feel that you matter today and everyday forward. I hate that a lot of women are truly this selfish and I’d never think all my sisters were like this until I listened in myself 😢 the fact that they don’t get it...kills me 🤦🏽‍♀️

When it’s all said and done you deserve the noble peace prize my brother 👍

The building metaphor is an excellent microcosm for society as a whole. I don’t want to live in a 100 story building built by women and I don’t want to live in a society planned out, built and maintained by strong women.

You treat the men you want to functionally mate with ,the very ones you claim to want provision and protection from ,worse than all other groups of men .But somehow expect them to give you unconditional love in return and miraculously build strong families, and a thriving community with you . You make that make sense.

When you learn to hold yourself accountable for your decisions 90% of that stress will go away

Everytime he plays taps I stand up and salute lol

Kevin I can’t thank you enough I’m a 25-year-old black guy and recently I went in to patronize a black woman owned business, a café. The owner spoke to the 2 white male guest and told them about how her business was struggling the woman did not greet me. if she would’ve greeted me I would’ve told her that I have a business that specializes in SEO and Facebook ads. My partner and I manage clients that make over 80k per month. But she wouldn’t even thank me for supporting her business.

We often refuse to accept an idea merely because the tone of voice in which it has been expressed is unsympathetic to us - Friedrich Nietzsche

Growing up my brother in his teen years would express this to me, how the black girls had horrible attitudes and their demeanor was stale. I noticed how he would always date outside of his race and I thought it was bc of self hatred. Like why won’t you date black girls? but hearing this conversation gave me an epiphany. Even at young black little girls are picking up this type of behavior towards black boys.

I cannot tell you how many times I had heard my ex wife talk about how stressed out she was and how much I didn't know what she was going through. I would ask her to explain it to me. What are you going through ? I would get you just won't understand. I said explain it to me. She has nothing to say. So alot of this stress is to me is made up.

The 2nd girl was a therapist and I’m worried about how many other women she’s given advice to 😂😂😂😂

The catastrophic trauma is.... NARCISSISM! More people need to learn what is look like and what it does to relationships and families!

Kevin you have been giving a gift and you have such a short time frame to do it. "make the most out of all of it my brother"

Who else is waiting to see someone they know call in? 🤳🏾

My reasoning and soft skills have doubled just by watching this channel for a couple months. Kevin is amazing. He deserves our support.

Imagine at the NBA draft: 1- A team pick poorly a player 2- Give the max contract to that player 3- Then complaint that the player is not delivering up to his contract Who is to blame first? The player or the team?

The last shall be the first!! As women we need to check each other. Wow this is one of my favorite videos

It’s true, you fear an altercation when speaking to someone even if you have good intentions. I recall a situation where I was attempting to warn a member of my community of how they were behaving and that person responded in a aggressive manner even though I was just trying to look out.

Stress not able to find a man. They know they were lied too and still defend it because they can’t be wrong . They’ll never admit they were surely wrong. They’ll battle to the grave

This man can make a living off of cognitive dissonance of others! And they keep calling in to demonstrate it.

Kevin is a genius!!!! I'm glad he's here 😊!!! Thank God 🙏!

Been watching this guy before he went viral. Thank you for your work brother.

I had the door routine done to me. Leaving the YMCA held the door open for a black female and not a Thank You. I actually stopped and questioned myself and walked home

I looked Kevin up after meeting him at the grocery store. After watching some of your videos I changed a few things I have been doing, and now I'm engaged! Difficult to let go of my pride, but I am much happier and my family is prospering.

*Eastside Low Bottoms sh*t !* _Tappin' in from South Central LA_ It's late November 2023 and this information is STILL relevant ! Rest easy KS 🙏🏾 You are appreciated. 🤜🏾💥🤛🏾

This guy doesn't budge a smile when he debates and stays on topic!

Bro, you need to add the Twilight Zone sound clip. these interactions are bizarro😂

If he was a toxic man why did you continue to have kids with him and having kids with toxic people makes the relationship go longer than it should

That’s First Lady in the yellow shirt was tryna hold her crazy in lol

Lmaoooo at “Squeezing Out People” - so true!

Poor mom of three. She was *CONFUSED* the entire call ⁉️🙃🤔