A famous sequence from 1997, when host Gay Byrne spoke with a recently bereaved mother who was chosen at random from among hundreds of thousands of entries for a postal quiz. A unique moment in the history of Irish television.
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@maryfeehan78968 ай бұрын
The kindnesses, empathy, typically irishness which we are sadly losing. 🙏🇮🇪☘️❤️🇮🇪🙏
@catherinedaly33822 ай бұрын
Ah felt so sorry for that women but rules are rules
@Padraigp2 ай бұрын
@@catherinedaly3382she was a love! But im sure she was very glad the other lady was picked instead. And that lovely poem. Her daughter was surely sending a message to her mom.
@DoctorMeatDicАй бұрын
We're not losing it. The only good thing about Ireland is the people and fuck you for rubbishing them.
@cycleSCUBA2 жыл бұрын
I was laughing along with the audience at the phone hiccups.....then bang, my jaw dropped and i gasped along with the audience. That poor woman. She held it together so well. May her daughter rest peacefully in Heaven.
@oliverjumelle2 жыл бұрын
she passed away in September 2021. she sadly lost 2 more kids since this call.
@anne-mariecallanan429010 ай бұрын
@@oliverjumelleprob the effect of this caused it may they all rip
@mikeryan72139 ай бұрын
@@anne-mariecallanan4290did u ever hear of old age? Like her daughter was 33 in 1997!
@markkettle7622 жыл бұрын
What an incredible live television moment, and so uniquely irish, Gay Byrne, a nun and a great poet, all finding just the right words, when everyone else is left speechless.
@michelleoneill10782 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful TV show, may God bless you Rita and your beautiful daughter 🙏 may she rest in peace 🙏 .
@catherinefenlon58002 жыл бұрын
P l.pp
@catherinefenlon58002 жыл бұрын
p . K -1 l m hkl
@jamesxenophon95052 жыл бұрын
Everything wrong with Irish TV you mean. Two hours of awkwardness and misery on a Friday evening. As if it's some sort of mortal sin to enjoy yourself at the weekend.
@paddypenman26822 жыл бұрын
@@jamesxenophon9505 What exactly do you mean?
@CraftyOldGit2 жыл бұрын
I don't think many hosts could have handled that unexpected situation with such grace & compassion.
@johnpaulveaney37452 жыл бұрын
Tommy Tiernan is the only one for me.Sad incident
@johnwalsh78068 ай бұрын
Handled it. The mans a complete fool.
@DaithiONUALLAIN-ow3es8 ай бұрын
@@johnwalsh7806why did she die !! I don’t blame the woman answering like she did,.
@Wedding_kqpor8 ай бұрын
Except for when he said 'why did she die'
@philomenavaughan15716 ай бұрын
@@johnwalsh7806 tobe ,Co62
@danieldevitt33322 жыл бұрын
Tears flowing like a waterfall. So many layers here. The professionalism the empathy ...the sheer openess and engagement. A stunning piece of television history. Mr Byrne was rightly revered. Never mawkish. Always engaged. I just hope Rita knows how future generations see this and feel her loss and long for her to be comforted.
@babylor12 жыл бұрын
Couldn't have said it better. Somewhere in Ireland there is a little lady, who this Christmas morning doesn't know I am crying tears for her and her family. I hope with time she found solace and great comfort in those around her.
@eddiemurphy29412 жыл бұрын
Opooooo
@lilymoriarty58112 жыл бұрын
💔❣
@johnwalsh78062 жыл бұрын
The professionalism? Byrne's an absolute joke.
@paddypenman2682 Жыл бұрын
@@johnwalsh7806 I'd hate to see what you'd call a professional then
@martinconcannon80282 жыл бұрын
Gay Bryne showing tremendous empathy like the great broadcaster that he was.
@peteys20062 жыл бұрын
Gay Byrne was an absolute pro. Nobody has been fit to fill that seat.
@silverkitty2503 Жыл бұрын
he was a gentleman
@stephenholmes1036 Жыл бұрын
Nobody has got near him
@edmundpower1250 Жыл бұрын
God help us with kielty 😢
@michellehealy63469 ай бұрын
I've never watched the show since
@jackiegriffin2556 ай бұрын
Patrick is doing fine, don't be so critical
@mickdunne9812 жыл бұрын
RIP 🙏 to Brendan kennelly a legend of a poet
@babylor12 жыл бұрын
I don't think I've ever heard of him. Beautiful poem. I need to go read some of his work.
@londoncalling151 Жыл бұрын
@@babylor1 He walked past me a few times outside Trinity when I first went to Dublin in the very early nineties. A gentleman walking off the demons.
@patkinsella81648 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@michaelc68282 жыл бұрын
Just said my prayer for all here. Gut wrenching, heart breaking and uniquely Irish. RIP to your beautiful Daughter Rita.
@oliverjumelle2 жыл бұрын
she died in september 2021. since this call. she lost 2 more kids!
@goldielocks26212 жыл бұрын
I just watched this episode of the Late Late Show my Wife and I were both watching that night live as it happened the unexpected turn of events you just could not have imagined we went from laughter to floods of tears but watching it now with the added memory of my own sweet brother Martin who only two years later suffered the same terrible fate his life taken away from his young Wife and four young Sons by a careless driver whilst he was walking along the road. I remember the sadness I felt on hearing Rita telling us about the death of her daughter Lynda but I hadn't a clue of the depth of pain Rita was feeling until it came to our home and it really takes your breath away you cannot breath you don't know if you are going to cope or get over such depth of emotion but Rita like me and others will know that the sadness will always stay with us but the depth of pain eases with time. I miss Gay Byrne the quality of the show no longer has that sparkle for me nor the presence of a genius in control Gay was up there with the rest of the World and anyone who was anyone wanted to be on the Late Late Show I pray one day Ireland will find a new Gay Byrne someone who will have that Charisma and pump life back into this once great great show. I once would never miss a Late Late Show and now I never watch one. Rip Gay , Lynda and Martin God keep you all close.
@digitalmediafan Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry for your loss. This is the reason and others I wish the automobile had never been invented. The catastrophe and heartache it continues to inflict is just awful
@Marlondurran Жыл бұрын
Beautifully said my friend..
@sarahlouisestafford2448 Жыл бұрын
@@digitalmediafanit's not the automobile, it's the person driving it.
@robertpirsig50112 жыл бұрын
Was never a huge fan of Gay Byrne, but he handle this situation amazingly well. The words from Brendan and sister Eileen at the end were beautiful.
@brendamoore7722 жыл бұрын
how very sad for that lady, how beautiful the poem, yes, gay's empathy was genuine.
@anne-mariecallanan4290 Жыл бұрын
He was brilliant
@janeyd5280 Жыл бұрын
That was my first time watching Gay Byrne. I love him from that one fonecall with Rita. Il bet there is no one can fill his shoes. Rip to Linda, Rita, Martin and Gay. I lost my own daughter on Easter Monday 13th April 2020. She was aged 43 yrs.
@tomhughes80668 ай бұрын
Tragic loss of life by car accident. As I watch this for first time today three victims of car crash alone today. On dear Boy 9 years old hit and run Bundoran and two young 20 year olds passed RIP. Such human suffering for all involved. God give them solice peace and love. Pray for them all. It's been a most difficult year on Irish Roads. My heart goes out to all victims survivors and loved ones attached. Lost for words like Gay in this clip.
@doh-ray-meproductions41312 жыл бұрын
Tears poured down my face. How hard life can be. The reflex of the panel who ran automatically and the audience to rally round her. The coincidence of the first caller not being picked and her card coming up. Gay was a brilliant people's person, and mustered up the support of panel and audience.
@eilismcgovern63348 ай бұрын
Not a coincidence...
@kenoneill87832 жыл бұрын
RIP to the late great Brendan Kennelly who died just weeks ago on October 17th, 2021, and who's poem could have been commissioned for the circumstances, incredible coincidences all over this incident.
@robertpirsig50112 жыл бұрын
He held the door for me going out of Dunnes one day with a smile on his face. Such a lovely and decent man. RIP Brendan Kennelly.
@Michael_Arnold Жыл бұрын
24 years later I've just heard this, and am fighting the tears right through.
@willodonnell99692 жыл бұрын
What an amazing lady to take the question in memory of her daughter. Gay was fantastic and I’m sat here realising how short and precious life is !! RIP Linda 💚
@earlybhoy11192 жыл бұрын
I remember watching this, one of those moments you never forget. Never seen it since that night.
@dgoggin2k102 жыл бұрын
Not usually fond of poems but that rang true so elegantly there, beautiful.
@christopheroshea97992 жыл бұрын
The beauty and sadness of the Irish The magic and the light Broken hearts 💔 tears fall Let this be
@davidking65562 жыл бұрын
Never seen this before but Gay Byrne just proves what a professional he was don’t think many of today’s TV Presenters could handle a situation like that
@davidbosquette29402 жыл бұрын
It was a beautiful moment for sure. The poem was just EVERYTHING in that moment when mundane condolences could never prove their worth. Very Irish indeed. Hope the prayers helped to lighten the load for dear Rita. 💔.
@mfphonepics2 жыл бұрын
December 2021 - I'm a hard man with salty tears rolling down my face for you Rita and your beautiful daughter who is in heaven RIP.
@Magjmcd2 жыл бұрын
Gaybo was one of the best. A unique technique. Happy Heavenly Christmas.
@adriannedelacy21002 жыл бұрын
Only true professionals and genuine hearts could handle this awful situation so well. I'd say Gay was relieved to have Brendan to call upon for support. May they all rest in peace.
@anne-mariecallanan4290 Жыл бұрын
The last time I watched the late late was when this guy did it he’s an absolute legend can’t be replaced rip to an icon ❤️
@timjkiely9 ай бұрын
only gay byrne could do this with such empathy . a genuine human being RIP sir
@tom_1232 жыл бұрын
What an incredible and almost surreal clip. Thank you for tracking it down and uploading it.
@mb-vf3qb8 ай бұрын
Gay was the late late. It died with him..❤
@snowman74872 жыл бұрын
Amazing moment. And a great decision to involve the guests, especially the poet.
@judgedredd35682 жыл бұрын
Ireland The realist place on Earth Lived there From 1981 to 1989 15 yrs to 23 yrs old as my parents were Irish Been back in NYC for 33 yrs now After seeing this show (we never missed it back then) It reminds me of how we were all connected in Ireland...4 million people living in the country and we practically all knew each other or had someone in common...Such a sad unexpected moment handled in the best possible way as the Irish do.. very moved by this...makes me realize I should have never left to return here..I love NYC..but its moments like this that reinforce the fact that I made a bad choice...
@SuperJimbell6 ай бұрын
Maybe you had no choice.
@judgedredd35686 ай бұрын
@@SuperJimbell I didn't have a choice moving there.. so I resented it at 1st....but looking back....I was too young to appreciate Ireland.... Couldn't afford to move back now..
@ita79672 жыл бұрын
Absolutely heartbreaking 💔 Poor Rita. Rest in peace Linda. 🙏 Gaybo was one of a kind. A true pro.
@elizabethreilly5513 Жыл бұрын
Rip all who died in road traffic accidents ♥
@coogo2 Жыл бұрын
I watched this as a child..still epic,Gay was a master then
@brave_gravity2 жыл бұрын
This is one of the finest pieces of Irish television I’ve ever seen. I love how everything else melts away in the face of a mother and her unimaginable grief laid bare for everyone to come together in a beautiful moment of humanity. Bless you Rita. And Gay and the panellists too. X
@drushe1983 Жыл бұрын
I’ve never seen this before and it was incredibly moving. How we as strangers can show kindness and love and prayer for those in times of need. We don’t appreciate how precious life is and how simple a kind word is to someone. This entire exchange, is incredibly poetic. I love my island nation and I miss it. This makes me feel closer to my homeland.
@helendaly33112 жыл бұрын
They will never be another Gay Byrne. Rip to all of the them 🙏 💔
@gracesanity63142 жыл бұрын
Thank you Brenden K..a true Irish soul. Our Uncle Gaybo...talented, gracious. Us Irish do produce such precious brings. Ireland
@seanoconnell68452 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for sharing this incredible piece of television. Only Gay Byrne could have handled such a tragic situation so professionally and with such ease. To have to clarity of thought to turn to Brendan Kenneally for his beautiful poem at the end...another master of his craft.
@sineadmoylan10652 жыл бұрын
I agree. How he could even come up with the thought of thinking of asking brendan for the Poem, and knowing to clear it with brendan first, as only performers can know if a piece will fit the mood, is a testament to his sensitivity while still remaining in control of all that is going on. Under all those lights, the audience, the time constraint, and knowing the calls he would get on his radio show on Monday morning. You can't teach this.
@patcoughlan83212 жыл бұрын
How can something so sad be so beautiful.
@stevenoels27578 ай бұрын
I was watching that night, I had forgotten this, but to relive it here now is very powerful. Lovely upload.
@nicholaswarrington90902 жыл бұрын
Rita died on September 16th 2021. She outlived three of her eight children.
@iBaillie2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the info.
@yvonnehyland17532 жыл бұрын
Ah God love her! ❤️
@kevinkelly64792 жыл бұрын
God bless you Rita and Linda rest in peace. ❤️❤️❤️Prayers for you 2 angels
@tommymullen7300 Жыл бұрын
That break heart
@anne-mariecallanan429010 ай бұрын
So sad May there all rip ❤❤❤❤
@annoneill41692 жыл бұрын
Gay Byrne, an amazing host, man & a super human being. I don’t believe in accidents either & Linda was giving her mother a beautiful message. Rest in peace Linda & peace to the heart of your lives mother Rita.
@MrCrazyrob6662 жыл бұрын
The first name they pulled out, Peter Lavelle, had an address on the North Circular road in Limerick and was at the tennis club, likely the Limeick Lawn near the North Circular. That road is a very affluent area of Limerick. By contrast, Rita lived in Togher which would not be considered a very affluent area of Cork. The right person won the prize.
@shane6115 Жыл бұрын
Great, I’m delighted.
@edmundpower1250 Жыл бұрын
It was meant to be
@tomasjoconnel53672 жыл бұрын
Now that's great live television. Its also why GB was the best broadcaster Telefis Eireann has had in its 60 year history.
@portumnadaz8 ай бұрын
HANLEY (Togher, Cork): On September 16th, 2021, peacefully, at the Mercy University Hospital. RITA (née McCarthy) late of Shandon Street, dearly loved wife of the late Noel and much loved mother of Steven, Paul, Neal, Valerie, Sonya, and the late David, Lynda and Ruth, and loving sister of Florrie, Chrissy, Len, Alec, Denise and the late Olive and Nuala.
@velvetunderpants442 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad this was finally posted I remember it vividly
@kevinkelly34548 ай бұрын
Wow. Randomly came across this. Never knew about this clip. Gay was an amazing presenter and human.
@tylarjackson79282 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the upload! Far more moving than in text form.
@SpeccyHorace11 ай бұрын
Wow, amazingly handled situation. That poor woman. Not one for religion at all but seemed like truly comforting words from the nun, that was nice. Wonderful poem too, very emotional. Never seen this show in UK, been looking at some clips on KZfaq, would have liked something of that quality here.
@lydialily8462 жыл бұрын
Handled as only Gay could do , I loved the late late when Gay was at the Helm , the guests all participated & audience joined in ,, nothing like it since …
@anthonym33512 жыл бұрын
I was too young to see him in his prime but watching the old episodes I adore him, he's like Irelands grandfather
@deemcdonagh30972 жыл бұрын
OMG. I remember this so well. So so, sad. R.I.P. Linda.xxxx
@kevinsimpson86862 жыл бұрын
This guy was and still is a true star. Personable and very talented he sure knew how to keep a crowd happy. I always liked Gilbert and always will. This track has always been my favourite.
@danieldoherty80092 жыл бұрын
There was only one gay byrne ,a true master of the airwaves, the likes of which will never be seen or heard again .
@jc92892 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing this!
@user-we6fi9se3g Жыл бұрын
That was the most amazing few minutes ever on the Late Late , live TV is brilliant
@anothercomment2 жыл бұрын
I remember watching this when I was about 12 and trying to hold back the tears, a tv moment you don't forget, so sad for that poor Mother and her family, I hope she's reunited now with her daughter. This was May 1997 one of the last late late shows of the season and Gay handled the situation professionally which completely through him off guard.
@TheActualCathal2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for posting this.
@kevinkelly64792 жыл бұрын
And gay and brendan too and all the departed R. I. P❤️❤️❤️🍀
@rotonda4068 Жыл бұрын
This is incredible television. Literally.
@golfman9240 Жыл бұрын
Different times in 1997...we all miss Uncle Gaybo...and RIP Rita Hanley September 2021..who tragically lost 2 more children since her serendipitous night on The Late Late Show.
@FjS-GLY2 жыл бұрын
... though we live in a world that dreams of ending. What a line
@colinjoyce468511 ай бұрын
I distinctly remember watching this live in 1997, I was 16.
@thomasmorris17622 жыл бұрын
Thank you for uploading this.
@patrickreals75672 жыл бұрын
What an incredible person Gay was will never be replaced RIP Gay
@buddymacbuddington Жыл бұрын
Wow that was unexpected, fair play to gay he handled that about as good as anyone could have in that situation I hope that lady found peace
@Irish7802 жыл бұрын
It was meant to be that's why the first person was not there , and being called second, just proves and shows a miracle
@digitalmediafan2 жыл бұрын
Just time and chance imo
@edmundpower1250 Жыл бұрын
Tha amazing thing is just before this clip Gay referred to the large container of cards as a coffin. That made it even more eerie 😮
@mickdunne9812 жыл бұрын
I remember watching this the poor mother how heart breaking 💔 😢 to loose her daughter in road accident days before hand.
@allisnotwhatitseems. Жыл бұрын
This changed my mind in Gay Byrne. Respect.
@commisarwinter8 ай бұрын
He handled that with dignity and class, what a situation to find yourself in.
@welshaccenttutorials31042 жыл бұрын
Wow. Tears rolling down my cheeks
@MrPaddymarley2 жыл бұрын
An amazing sensitive segment...love the Irish heart!
@paddypenman26822 жыл бұрын
RIP Brendan Kennelly
@musiclover67932 жыл бұрын
Aw that poor mother hope she enjoyed the prize even though she lost her precious daughter 😢 ❤
@anne-mariecallanan429010 ай бұрын
Rita passed in 2001 rip
@edmundpower12502 жыл бұрын
Amazing emotions captured live and could only be handled by one presenter the way it was. Rest in peace to the young lady and Gay
@margaretigoe14452 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this.....
@bouse232 жыл бұрын
To be fair I don't think any other tv show host. Could or would have handled that so well.
@francis53262 жыл бұрын
I remember this well I was watching the late late show that night very sad on the woman RIP Linda 🙏
@donfoley159027 күн бұрын
This was when The Late Late Show was watched by millions. I wouldn't look at it now
@pj-fn1dv2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing
@xamurai00 Жыл бұрын
God is very much real. God orchestrated all of what you are about to see.. from the other caller not been available.. to there been a nun and poet to offer comfort. Some of the best live television ive ever seen
@rockstoneballs8 ай бұрын
No he isn't. If he is why did he take that woman's child?
@killian04082 жыл бұрын
That was certainly no accident she was picked. Amazing stuff
@mahie568 ай бұрын
Only Gay Byrne could share a nations deepest sympathy to Rita on her enormous loss.
@johnnywhite582 жыл бұрын
It's amazing television really.
@Mojo16011973 Жыл бұрын
Gay was flustered initially but he handled it so well afterwards.
@martinmcdonald42072 жыл бұрын
Simply magic TV. Live and Dangerous! R.I.P. Gay.
@liammacaodha4783 Жыл бұрын
Unreal coincidence. A wonderful Irish response.
@johnjoyce3412 жыл бұрын
Only Gay could have handled that situation.It was just so unexpected and he had to think so quickly. Gay's professionalism was unique.He had to so such empathy.Nobody before or since came near him.
@edmundpower12508 ай бұрын
Rita died on September 16th 2021 and Brendan Kenelly died a month later on October 17th 2021. Who would have thought they would both live another 24 years and die a month apart! An even more eerie moment from this segment of the show is that just before Gay asked Brendan to assist him choosing the card from the large rectangular container he said "Brendan, would you come down here and pull a card out of the coffin!"(omitted from this upload). The power of the spoken word!
@MultiKs226 ай бұрын
edmundpower thank you so much for sharing that information on Rita' death and Brendan Kennelly Rita is now in heaven with her daughter sharing the good times together .. Rip to Brendan Kennelly fine intellectual man .
@dr7858 Жыл бұрын
Gay Byrne what an absolute legend the way he handles this situation what a pro. Rip
@patkinsella81648 ай бұрын
I believe her daughter . 🙏 r.i.p. AMEN her hand picked her card out. A miracle ✨ 🙏 🙌 ❤❤❤
@liamholton8937Ай бұрын
Hearing the pain in Rita's voice as she talked to Gay on the phone, such an amazing woman to have such strength to talk about such a tragedy like that. Hope Rita and her family are at peace these days. May Rita's daughter and Gaybo rest in peace.
@MakeArtForLife6 ай бұрын
I am lost for words but to hear how this lady was able to go on was good for her duaghters memory. Hope she got a poem sent to her she was very brave.
@daneosullivan17492 жыл бұрын
Master class in presenting 💕
@hughjass84308 ай бұрын
Incredible television. Yes, Gay was one of a kind and few could handle that situation better, but it goes beyond the host. Everything is so much cheaper now. Commodified. The modern Late Late, no matter who hosts, will never again see moments like this. And there were many similar moments over the years. Just a simpler, more genuine time.
@JohnSmith-uc4ku2 жыл бұрын
Rita,!, in dublin ireland ,was living in London 97 I hope you have had a great life I'm sorry too hear about your daughter you were picked for a reason 😣😣😣😥😥😥 I hope heaven is everything to your daughter, how did this happen you get picked! I cycle by sutton grave cemetery, a lot on my way up to howth were gay is buried near fergal Quinn and Phil lynott, l will drop in and say hello for you and a prayer for your daughter, so sad only hearing about this now all these years later 😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇
@ericamccluskey17149 ай бұрын
The beautiful Brendan Kennelly also. So gentle..
@1111sage2 жыл бұрын
For once i agree with a Nun . Her name was picked . First caller out playing Tennis . Even the Poem fitted RIP Linda . Tears are flowing for you
@petertr20002 жыл бұрын
You agree with her that God doesn't make accidents and so the card was picked by him? But then also ignore that in that case, the car accident wasn't an accident, and also done on purpose by him?
@grannymaterielgowrl78322 жыл бұрын
My God..how incredible
@wanemergency35918 ай бұрын
It's like I watch this yesterday. Well it actually was yesterday coming to think of it
@JohnSmith-nu9jz Жыл бұрын
This is why Gay Byrne was the perfect professional for the show. It's been a steep downslide since he finished.
@ebneigh51912 жыл бұрын
If you don’t believe in at least the power of spirit after seeing things like this, there is no hope for you.