Sometimes there isn't an answer to Why? I've seen anorexic, drug addicted women conceive and carry multiple times. It is mostly out of our control. I hope whoever is reading this knows there truly is no personal responsibility when it comes to miscarrying. It is a tremendous loss we must grieve and then find peace.

Thank you for this video! Thank you for speaking openly about what you went through. Thank you for not making a miscarriage at 8 weeks pregnant seem like nothing happened. Wish you all the best ❤️

I had 3 miscarriages before I had my daughter, followed by another miscarriage before I had my son, then another miscarriage before my youngest daughter so I empathise totally with your situation. Don’t give up because you will get there in the end! I now have a granddaughter too! Sending good vibes to you ❤

Laura, I was so moved by your account of such a traumatic experience. So eloquently explained you will help countless women by sharing this.

Thank you for talking about this so openly on this platform. I went through a chemical pregnancy last March and literally had no idea what it was prior to it happening. Miscarriage isn’t spoken about openly enough and I feel like it should. Talking to my family and friends about it after it happened was so therapeutic and really helped with my healing. Also, as a fellow Type A personality, I can relate so much to you with the tracking, vitamins, pre-seed, grapefruit juice discussion. I definitely fell down the conceiving Internet rabbit hole! I now have a healthy 3 month old baby boy and, although the journey to getting him wasn’t the easiest, I can certainly say I appreciate every moment with him and do not take even the late nights/lack of sleep for granted. I wish you all the best on your journey. Sending you and infinite amount of love and baby dust from Canada ❤️

I miscarried my 3rd child at 21 weeks. To say I was devastated is an understatement. Part of my healing has been naming him, remembering him, and not "hiding" him. Even having a little goodbye "service" for him. Sadly miscarriages are all too common, I could write a book of all the friends and loved ones who have had them, 😢. You are doing all the right things Laura, so sorry for your loss. But just wait, once you start having babies your home will be filled to the brim with utter joy!!! 🤗

Sending you and Ollie the warmest thoughts and prayers, Laura. Hugs and cuddles to your sweet pup too. ❤

I had a miscarriage 28 years ago and still cry about how I felt that day.

What a strength and grace you show through such a tough subject. I'm sure that this will help so many people going through the same thing. Praying for y'all ❤

Thank you sharing this and for being detailed. My ttc journey has been hard and I'm glad people feel they can share their experiences for others

Thank you Laura, that must have been hard and is so very generous of you to share. Your positivity is amazing, you will be the best mum ❤

So eloquently put. You will help so many people with this. Sending so much love to you and Ollie ❤️

I will be praying for your journey❤ Thank you for sharing this difficult experience.

You are incredible for taking so bravely and honestly about your journey. I’m so, so sorry that you are both going through this difficult time, through sharing this you will be helping lots of other couples feel like they are not alone. Sending love xx

I can not thank you enough for sharing much a difficult experience! Sending all the positivity your way! xxx

Thank you Laura for this video, it was so informative and so well delivered I have no doubt this will help a lot of women going through the same thing. I am sorry for your loss but hope is a wonderful thing and I will say prayers for you and Ollie. ❤❤❤

Well done Laura and thank you for sharing. I’ve not been through this and I totally agree that having the knowledge beforehand would be an absolute gem.

Well done Laura, that was all so sad but you told it all so well and I’m sure it will help others who may be going through the same thing. I wish you well for the future.

So brave of you to share this, I wish you both all the best for the future. I’m sure everything will work out for you X

Thank you so much for sharing this Laura, this will help so many women ❤

Sending you love and strength - thank you for the level of detail and honesty, very brave and so informative for others ❤

This will help so many women Laura. My heart goes out to any woman going through this. Such a vulnerable time ❤️

Thanks for sharing, I am sure it will help a lot of people going trough that tough time. Glad you are feeling better now & hope you will soon see your wish granted 🙏

Thank you for sharing Laura! All the best for you and Ollie💗

You are so brave to speak out and I truly believe great things are on the way for you and Ollie❤

Thank you so much for sharing that, it’s great to have an insight into your experience and how you’re doing. I hope things continue to look up! ❤

Very informative, thank you for taking the time to make this video .

Thank you for sharing your experiences. You are helping a lot of people going through the same thing. I am so sorry for your loss and wishing you the best. ❤

It's so kind of you to share and provide information for others . I'm sure your dreams will come true.x❤

You are such a brave woman to share this. There will be people out there that this will help. God bless you and Ollie!!

As always, I’m touched by your grace and thoughtfulness when sharing such an emotional topic. Thank you for adding in the details, that must have been very difficult but I know it will help so many people me included. Wishing you both all the best ❤

Thank you for your bravery in sharing this deeply personal experience. Lots of love to you, Ollie & Otto x

This was incredibly brave & selfless of you to share Laura, I can’t imagine how hard it must have all been, the fact you will help other women/couples by sharing your experience ❤, I admire you greatly & thank you. Much love x

I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my first and 3 more later and remember feeling so scared, heartbroken and alone. This is going to help so many women. ❤️

Laura, this is so brave of you to share this and also generous. I'm on the other side of child-bearing years but feel for you and your loss and hope that soon you will have your heart's desire. You and Ollie are such a wonderful couple and it's easy to see how much you love each other!

Thank you for sharing this Laura. Praying for you

Thank you so much for sharing your experience. You are so amazing to open up about this devastating experience and share the details no one else does. My prayers for you and Olly as you go for testing and all the next steps. Praying for healthy, full-term pregnancies. 🙏❤🙏❤

I’m so sorry this happened to you, but this video is so informative and so good, when I was pregnant I was so worried and looking for as much information about anything really and it was so limited. Sending lots of hugs and love and happy thoughts for your future rainbow

Hi Laura, I’m so sorry you are going through this. Thank you so much for sharing your journey. This may be the most informative video I’ve ever seen on this topic! Honestly, as woman we don’t know what to except and it takes a brave heart like yours to help others and she’d some light. This is a very important video so thank you. Sending you and Ollie all the love and support. Your dream of having a baby will no doubt come true. I already know the kid will be so lucky to have you guy! ❤️❤️❤️

Thank you for making this Laura, it takes real strength and grace to share such heartache. Sending you and Ollie all the luck and love in the world. Be patient with your body and be kind to yourself always xx

Bless you for your bravery speaking of your experience. It will be of so much help to others in your position. Bless you both ❤

I’m so glad you had support from both family and friends and the early pregnancy unit. I unfortunately did not have a good experience and would never want someone else to go through that.

Thank you for reaching out to other women and their partners during a difficult personal time. Interdependence is much more helpful then independence when we need information as well as support. Thank you Laura and Ollie.

This is so valuable; thank you for your frankness. Wishing you guys the best of luck 🤞🏾💕

Oh Laura I'm feeling all the emotions watching this as I've gone through exactly the same as you a few months later 😔💕 xxx

Thank you for sharing this part of your lives with us, Laura. You’re so lovely and yes, if you feel lead to make this experience known to others, you may, indeed, help another through it. Thankfully, I never had a miscarriage. I’m a grandmother who had to google “yoke sac” and “chemical pregnancy!” Ultrasounds were not typical in the late 70’s-mid 80’s. God bless you and Ollie. 🙏♥️

Thanks so much for making this Laura. It's clear from your level-headedness in filming that you've done a lot of processing, and it's really admirable to have the confidence and peace to share your journey. I know most days are rougher than this, but it's wonderful to see you feel positive and hopeful about the future. Rooting for your family! Also re: documenting, I've made a couple of vlogs about having long COVID and they are so precious to me, I'm 100% sure you will treasure having captured your state of mind at this time, no matter how things progress. Sending lots of love x

Thank you so much for your honesty and vulnerability in this video ❤

Hi Laura,so brave of you to share this.I’m sure listening to this will help a lot of people who are going through similar experiences. It’s so heartbreaking for you both to go through this as we all take for granted that we’re going to be able to just get pregnant. You are such a lovely couple I hope & pray that you get all the tests done and that sometime in the near future you will have a brother or sister for Otto…lots of love to you both xxx

Amazing. I congratulate you on your strength and courage to share your experience and in detail, which not many do. You conduct yourself with such elegance even through tough times. My prayers, thoughts and good wishes go to you and Ollie for a much fuller home, how ever that happens.

Very brave of you Laura... it´s great we have this information at our finger tips now... even 30 years ago, it was not talked about, talking from my own experience.. sending you massive love & respect xx🤗

Thank you for talking about this Laura ❤ I think it's so important to talk about as so many women go through it and don't have a good support system around them, so im sure being able to watch this would be really helpful ❤ I was born without a womb so have had to go through my own grieving process, we got a puppy and he helped me heal my heart too ❤ he's still helping 9 years on, we are now very happy and settled without children. Wishing you all the best on this tough journey ❤

Well done Laura on sharing your sad experience 😢. Sending hugs and positive vibes to you both 🥰🥰🥰

Laura, so brave of you to share such a personal and devastating thing to have happened. There will be many women who can relate and will thank you for being so open. Wishing you and Ollie the vest best 💐🙏

Thank you for sharing. It is useful to other women to know what to expect when such things happen. Being outside in the garden and cuddling up with the dog helps. Best of luck on this journey! All support from your community!

Wow thank you so much for sharing that and being so open Laura. I really appreciate you sharing your experience in detail even if it is hard to hear. I have no children and have never been pregnant so had no idea that is what happened in that situation. I hope you find some comfort knowing your bravery is supporting and educating others. Lots of love to you, Ollie & Otto. Best of luck with your pregnancy journey. It will happen for you I just know it xxx ❤

Just thank you for being vulnerable and speaking on something you of course do not need to. I feel for both you and Ollie and I hope you both have nothing but happiness and get that dream to come true ❤❤❤

Thank you Laura. I have found that in the midst of something traumatic and heartbreaking, facts give some small measure of control and comfort because you understand what is happening and so it's not perhaps quite so frightening. Thank you for sharing your story so thoroughly. I think it will help many going through this. I wish you well xx

You are such a strong and reflected woman, you have all my respect! Sending power and love to you and Olli and wish you alle the best!

Thank you for being so open about your experience. It makes me so sad that miscarriage isn’t talked about as if it’s a taboo subject. Thank you for the detail too. It really helps to know what happens and how it can feel physically. Thank you. I’m so sorry you have gone through this. xx

Thank you so much for being this open and sharing your experience with us in such details. I am not even conceiving and anywhere near trying, but still am very interested in learning and there is so much we just don't know.

Thank you so much for posting i dont think people realise how emotional and mentally draining trying to get pregnancy is. I am sure this video will help so many people going through it.

Thank you for this video. I recently suffered from a placenta abruption which caused my son to be still born at 32 weeks. I have spent so much time looking for women’s experiences like my own. It’s incredibly helpful to talk with other people when you are in the thick of it. I’m so sorry for your losses 💔

Thank you thank you thank you for doing this Laura, sending love and hugs to you both ❤

I admire your openness about this. It is so hard to talk about. I am so sorry for you and Ollie.

Thank you so much for your honesty. I really appreciate it ❤ Sending you and Ollie lots of good vibes xxx

Laura, what a brave and wonderful person you are. Your generosity in sharing your journey is an absolute gift.

Thank you so much for being so honest and sharing the details

Thank you Laura for sharing your journey for all women trying to find answers. You have such strength and a beautiful light and I’m sure your blessing will come when the time is right. Hold on to positivity and joy and lots of puppy cuddles. 🥰🦋

Hey Laura, you are such a lovely person, to bare all to help others whilst you're still currently on your pregnancy journey is so selfless 💖 Both you and Ollie are such and example of how we all should be. Take care both, I wish you so much joy, happiness, health and love for your future with your baby journey xxxx

Thank you so much for including the actual details. I think for so many people part of the trauma is having no idea what other people have experienced because so much of this is taboo. This was beautifully explained and I'm so grateful

You spoke beautifully about your experience Laura. I'm sorry it had to happen. Thank you for sharing so generously! I think Mr. Otto Paws will be a big brother in time :D

Laura I’m sending you and Ollie a big hug 🫂. You are amazing sharing your story to help others. You will be a wonderful mother of that I have no doubt. Love to you both and Otto xxxx

Thank you so much for this video! my experience was very much like your experience (though 16 years ago) This was such a great thing for you to share for others who will need to hear this inthe future.

You are so brave. Thank you for sharing such a vulnerable and detailed story about this unbelievably difficult time in your life. I think it’s so valuable for women to talk through this, as so many more struggle with this than any of us ever realize. We went through our infertility journey during the pandemic, and it was such an isolating and lonely time…We were so fortunate despite that difficult stage and just celebrated our girls’ first birthday. Leading up to our pregnancy, though, I was deeply depressed. Having a resource like this video would have been so comforting. The best of luck to you and Ollie. I hope things work out the way you want them to, and thank you again. ❤

My heart reaches out to you. I wish you and Ollie the best; you are great supportive partners to each other and that's wonderful to see. I admire your positive attitude to this life challenge and feel you will be fine as time goes on. Otto will have a loving and lovable human brother or sister at some point in the future!

Laura, thank you thank you for the detailed information!! We got married a few weeks after you guys. TTC here too, it’s stressful but trying to not make it my all consuming personality, but I like the research and having details like this is really so helpful. I think it’s super positive you’ve been able to get pregnant. And you’re on the right track I’m sure. If not too invasive, I can’t wait for the next TTC video and eventually positive test for you (and me!) and a healthy pregnancy. Rooting for you from London x

Thank you for sharing this story, it's so important to normalize things women go through regularly. 🙏 - I'm so sorry for your loss, and it's really encouraging that you guys took the calm science approach as a way to heal through it while it was happening. All the love.

Dear Laura, you are so strong for sharing tbis piece of you. I am so sorry you two had to go through this. Your baby will fing you. Love everything that you and Olie do. ❤

All the best for you! It is very good to tell your loved ones early about pregnancies - because you get help and understanding if you miscarry. It's good to be able to share joy - and grief.

That was very touching and brave of you to be so open about your miscarriage. I can only imagine what you went through, sounds very traumatic. To lose a baby how ever must have been hard. I hope your video will help others go through what you experienced and I hope you get some comfort from that. Don’t give up trying, it will happen when you lease expect it x

I understand the heartbreak of wanting to conceive a child. I was trying to have my third child and believed it was going to be as quick as my first two. But about 7 years had gone by and I guess things changed in my body. From going to being sure I had conceived to getting my period was crushing. I cried so much. I just prayed every time hoping to hold on to each pregnancy. Finally, I missed my period. I was so hopeful. I felt my body going through changes. Then, I started staining. I went to the doctor and he said I was pregnant, but I was losing the baby. He gave me vitamins because he said I am going to be losing blood. I just cried all the way home. I had already falling in love with that baby. That next day I noticed I wasn't bleeding anymore, Then the next day and the next day no bleeding. I started taking so many pregnancy test not being able to believe I was still pregnant. It took me up to the second trimester that I could really believe I didn't lose my baby. I loved your story. It was so very informative for women. I really believe it will happen for you both. You are a lovely couple who deserve it. Thank you so much for sharing!

Hi Laura, I messaged you on Instagram as I had a mirror experience of your miscarriage and what is strange is that I have also had a chemical pregnancy since then too last month. Thanks again for sharing your story. Helps so much and I hope you can heal in time ❤

So sad to hear what you experienced and to remember these same feelings myself from 15 years ago when I had several miscarriages. Thank you for using your gift of eloquence in sharing this to help others, such a brave and kind thing to do. I still clearly remember the hours googling and needing information during and after. I have since been blessed with two children who are now 14 and 12) but you never forget your miscarriaged children no matter how early it happens in the pregnancy. Best wishes .. be kind to yourself. xx

I think all are on the same page about you being so open about the highs and lows of pregnancy and miscarriages. My heart goes out to you and Oli for sadness and also joy. Sending love from across the pond ❤

Thank you for sharing your heartbreaking experience with everyone. Some people go through a miscarriage alone and haven’t got a clue what to expect or how to process it. You were very frank and honest and literally told people what might happen along this upsetting journey. Speaking out may also help you process your own experience and aid with your healing. You also gave people the opportunity to move forward on the clip and not listen to the details. Well done you for being brave and honest. I have had 2 miscarriages so know exact how hard it is to talk about it and how painful it is. Take care my lovely xx

I don’t normally comment, but always follow you both, now three with the absolutely adorable Otto. You are incredibly brave to tell you’re sad story and to let other people who are, or who have experienced the same pain of miscarriage. I also feel that one day soon your little family will increase and you will be telling a different story of happiness and great news soon. All the very best wishes and good luck to you both, you are such lovely happy people. ❤️❤️❤️💐

Thank you for talking about this. I also had a miscarriage in my eight week and I found this so comforting to watch

Thank you for this video, there was so much I was unaware of. I've recently split from my partner so babies aren't on the cards for me right now but one day they will be and I find these video SO informative. It's so helpful to know this, I'm the kind of person who wants to be prepared for the good or the bad. This journey will be so helpful for so many and I know that you guys will become parents one day and that will be a joy to watch ❤

I think what you said about enjoying life together at the moment is the most important thing you can do. Sorry you've experienced this loss and thanks for sharing, this will help others xxx

Excellent vlog and much needed to explain simply, honestly and openly the physical and emotional aspects of miscarriage.

Thank you for sharing your experience so sensitively. I miscarried at 9/10 weeks and found out at the 12 week scan that I’d had a Missed Miscarriage (I had no idea what that was). I found Tommy’s so helpful and The Worst Girl Gang Ever podcasts and book - although the podcasts can be upsetting so best approached when feeling strong enough. Sending you love and luck for the future xx

I have had 3 miscarriages ( 2 of them have been in the last 6 months) and I wish I could have come across a video like yours when they were happening. Thank you so much for sharing this. I am sorry about everything you have gone through

Ahh bless you, I know exactly what you’re going through. I had 9 miscarriages, the doctors couldn’t find anything wrong but my age was against me. I didn’t get married until I was 42. It took 4 years then a pregnancy caught hold and I had a healthy baby girl. She’s now 17 and we also have a 3 year old cavapoo, life is good. Try not to worry easier said than done I know. You are still very young and healthy you have lots of time. Absolutely love your videos and thank you for sharing xx

Thank you so much for sharing. I am sorry for your loss and remember feeling like something must have happened to you but respected your privacy. ❤ take care

Your honesty is amazing and I'm sure will be appreciated by others. I am so glad you are in a better place , enjoying life with Oli and Otto . I wish you luck and love aplenty along your journey , you are such a lovely couple ....honest , open and real ....sending lots of love ❤️

I really appreciated your honesty in this video. My husband and I are on our fertility journey and it’s so tough. Hoping for a happy and healthy baby for you!!

Thanks for making this video Laura, I know when I was going through a miscarriage I was looking for something like this to help me know what to expect. So I have no doubt you’ll be helping lots of women with this information. After 3 miscarriages, we now have our healthy rainbow baby, after going private and getting the progesterone pessaries, along with a few other bits. Reading through the comments, there are lots of inspiring stories, that hopefully give you faith in your journey, stay strong and keep positive. Sending some baby dust your way.

I'm in tears. You are so brave and strong

Your statement starting at 12:13 was so beautiful and resonated with me so much. I feel exactly the same way, that we are able to move on with our day to day life but you never really heal from the loss of your baby completely. Sending you so much love and hugs on your fertility journey together ❤❤❤