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@keslygunawan69485 жыл бұрын
1. Take bigger risks when you're still young! 2. Get to know your inner voice / your intuition / your guiding light / your heart! 3. Be Proactive, not Passive! Don't expect things to come for you, but go out there and take action! 4. Stretch your Comfort Zone! If you're not growing, you're shrinking! 5. Invest in Yourself! Time is your greatest asset, you can use that time to read book, pick up new skills, take courses and learn new things / hobbies!
@MorningMarjolaine5 жыл бұрын
Approved!
@studywithastranger41085 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@katrina61455 жыл бұрын
thank you
@MM-um4pi5 жыл бұрын
i love you so much.. thank you so much
@rookiia17015 жыл бұрын
Thank you 😍😚
@skincarejunkie37875 жыл бұрын
I am now 16 minutes older but also wiser. Thank you
@chimu23874 жыл бұрын
Skincare Junkie go queen.
@rudig56984 жыл бұрын
exactly 🥺❤️
@mayayao49263 жыл бұрын
Your comment is so sweet.
@intentionalliving73263 жыл бұрын
Ha ha yes, but still the youngest you have ever been 😁
@raneemdiary39252 жыл бұрын
Habits for mental health 🧘♀️🌻 kzfaq.info/get/bejne/mtR7gZWoxLvDlXk.html
@nora.c5 жыл бұрын
My favorite quote: "Dreams don't work unless you do"
@MorningMarjolaine5 жыл бұрын
Don't just dream, live your dream!
@vorsable60294 жыл бұрын
And that is called an ambition 😊
@intentionalliving73263 жыл бұрын
So true!! 🤩
@raneemdiary39252 жыл бұрын
Habits for mental health 🧘♀️🌻 kzfaq.info/get/bejne/mtR7gZWoxLvDlXk.html
@CoffeeWithC5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for using KZfaq to create impact in this world. Keep doing what you do Aileen.
@lavendaire5 жыл бұрын
thank you so much 💕
@CoffeeWithC5 жыл бұрын
Lavendaire Thank you!!!
@raneemdiary39252 жыл бұрын
Habits for mental health 🧘♀️🌻 kzfaq.info/get/bejne/mtR7gZWoxLvDlXk.html
@MrsUTCVoice5 жыл бұрын
I am 48 but I listened to this to advise my daughter, so no matter how old you are your advice is helpful.
@chosendebbie5 жыл бұрын
Stretching your comfort zone really does make you feel stronger! And that's a powerful thing because it gives you courage to embark on the next project! Beautiful message!
@lavendaire5 жыл бұрын
it is true! 💕 hope you have a great week!
@intentionalliving73263 жыл бұрын
🙌🏻🤩
@cheska30025 жыл бұрын
That part about finding your inner voice really got me! My parents words always got into my head and they'd tell me "You can't afford to take risks while you're young" and that made failure seem like a bad thing. They'd point out all the 'bad' things that could happen... and it kept me from doing the thing I really wanted to do with my life- make music! Lavi Loves, what's a risk you've been afraid to take?
@maltie1235 жыл бұрын
In regards to your first tip, in my opinion those things don't have to pile up just because you get older! How you live your life as you get older is up to you - you don't have to take out a mortgage or have kids etc. Just a thought! Can be a lot of pressure for young people to try and do everything now! You're great Aileen, been watching for a while, just wanted to touch on that! 😊💕
@lavendaire5 жыл бұрын
it's true :)
@summerjanette21245 жыл бұрын
I really needed this I'm a recent graduate and I've been feeling down... but you are totally right.
@intentionalliving73263 жыл бұрын
🤗☀️✨✨
@ChloeEichel4 жыл бұрын
i started crying the moment you said take risks while you're young, i've been terrified to leave california and go to college in missouri where my twin sister and brother are because i've fallen in love with this place. but i live with my step family and they're extremely cruel to me and i can't afford to move out here on my own so i've decided to go back to where i'm from and take a big risk because i'll never know how things turn out if i don't try
@shira10223 жыл бұрын
How are you doing now? I hope you're feeling beeter💕 chace your dreams girl!!! You deserve the best, dont forget it
@mariagratia36125 жыл бұрын
"Keep learning outside the school" Thank you Aileen, you really inspired me. This year i will graduate from campus and i still confuse with my life, with my ability etc. But from now, i will increase and find my own way .. just for my life. ^^
@rainbowcupcakegames5 жыл бұрын
So happy there is someone like you in this day and age to spread positivity. I wished you were around when I had graduated college (more than 15 years ago). Definitely wished someone told me to figure out myself. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
@intentionalliving73263 жыл бұрын
All good because now we (older grads) really appreciate and understand that advice 😁🤗☀️✨✨
@minimalistthrifter49875 жыл бұрын
Having a child is a risk in itself. You must find your inner voice, knowing your values and beliefs constantly. Having a child is definitely getting out of your comfort zone. It’s not easy. You need to invest on yourself to always be there for your child. Because if you don’t learn to take care of your own life, your child will suffer. Pet peeve of mind when someone thinks having a child equals to being held back when really it’s the opposite. I have traveled overseas with my daughter. I have hiked more. I’ve started reading more. I’ve become more open with my family of what I want. I have taken long road trips with my toddler. And so on. Being a mother is an adventure in itself. ♥️♥️♥️ I guess what I’m saying is that the title is misleading. It’s not for everyone. It’s just for younger people.
@TABI21105 жыл бұрын
OMG! The comfort zone shrinking it happen to me, I'm not that person who likes going out amd socializing but never realized even though it was on my own terms I did that a lot, and now that I move out, it went from 100 to 0 and now that I am making friends going out and meeting with them has been a struggle but I'm trying. There is no way I'm letting my anxious head control my life! 💪
@bjzzzz5 жыл бұрын
This is video is full of such brilliant advice. "If you're not growing, you're shrinking" is something I've never thought about!
@huamanwages5 жыл бұрын
Considering our environment problem, i think it is safe to say that investing in the right food and clothes is also important ! ;) But thank you for the other wonderful advice/ reminder!
@Marie-oh8es5 жыл бұрын
Soooo true, I literally just wanted to write the same!
@giuf1755 жыл бұрын
And it's also investing in yourself to spend money on food and clothes
@Jasmine-zu5vm5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for spreading positivity and insipiring me!!💗😊
@lorenafernandez91415 жыл бұрын
Ahh!! I’m graduating HS this week and I’m not necessarily lost in life but I need motivation and this is what I needed thank you! 💕
@l.k.roline42963 жыл бұрын
So how is your life ? Did you achieve everything you wanted even though the covid is still out there ? (Sorry I sound I litle bit weird and random but I really hope it turned well for you)
@lorenafernandez91413 жыл бұрын
@@l.k.roline4296 hi, thanks, things are going well. The pandemic halted some of my plans and a lot has happened in my personal life and school life but I’m determined to reach my goals one step at a time.
@l.k.roline42963 жыл бұрын
@@lorenafernandez9141 I hope you will, good luck 🥰
@prateekshachatterjee31683 жыл бұрын
I'm literally in tears right now...because I came across your channel and I cannot stop admiring you and getting inspired by you, Aileen. I will be graduating soon. But am so lost and stuck. My life is so messy right now. but if am feeling even lil better, lil hopeful right now, its all because of you :'( i so wish i could hug you and tell you how much I'm grateful to you for making such life-changing videos and lessons :'( You are like an angel with the guiding torch. You're an extremely beautiful soul, Aileen :) Please keep motivating. Keep inspiring. And keep spreading those words of love and courage. the world needs people like you. ❤
@staycdnb5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for consistently posting such inspiring content. I hope to evoke the same empowering feelings you evoke in me in my audience. You are such a strong and beautiful lady. Never change. Much love ❤️
@lavendaire5 жыл бұрын
i appreciate that - thank you!
@Thefitty5 жыл бұрын
I'm a recent graduate and *I'm looking to enter into a world of wellness and lifestyle! I'm growing my brand as a life coach and fitness and yoga Guru but finding it a little bit hard, but I know that great things are coming for me. I'm also studying the Law of Attraction! Hello to anybody else out there that wants to connect and be friends :-)*
@kaironical32373 жыл бұрын
“The only constant thing in life is change” -Aileen. Thank you for this
@ohnonad5 жыл бұрын
as a recent graduate, thank you for the advice & inspiring me 🌷✨
@lexieg.4195 жыл бұрын
graduating in 4 days and this is exactly what i needed to hear while on the verge of completely giving up, thank you 💓
@tamannazamanauthy74235 жыл бұрын
Loved the lessons you shared. I remember how it impacted me when i heard about your experiences during your college, i could totally relate and it inspired me so much. Thank you for sharing these beautiful lessons again. You sound more refined and confident than before! It's really beautiful how you've evolved through years ❤ lots of love Aileen!
@lavendaire5 жыл бұрын
Spanish subtitles are available! Click "CC" and check the video settings. Thank you to the contributor listed in the description 💕
@thinphilanthropist41395 жыл бұрын
One of my fav quotes is this: No wind is a good wind for those who don't know where they are going.
@samsidaampuan96205 жыл бұрын
Hi. I really love your videos. I've learned a lot of things, and realization. Thank you for spreading self-loved. 💞
@bookishtopics5 жыл бұрын
You're a big inspiration to me. 💖💖💖
@lavendaire5 жыл бұрын
grateful for you
@berenyililla57335 жыл бұрын
In a world, where you could be anything, be kind;)) It is reminding me to you☺
@NenaLavonne5 жыл бұрын
I will upload a video at 100 🦋❤️
@lavendaire5 жыл бұрын
i love that quote!!
@berenyililla57335 жыл бұрын
@@lavendaire ohh my gooosh thank you for reply😍😍! You're awesome! Keep going!😎
@meetalipalekar31685 жыл бұрын
One of the most underrated channel 🤗 u need more subscribers
@eydsgn5 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Thank you. Thank you! ❤️ Thanks for this motivational speech. I needed it. I love your videos and content. I wish we were friends.😊 It would be great to talk with someone like you. I am trying to find out my own way.. who really I am, after a difficult and depressing time. I am proud of me that I am healthy again and now I need clarity but I know I have to give myself time even if it's hard to be patient but one day everything will work out for me. for the best. I believe, everything happens for a reason. Again, thanks for this video! ❣️
@kimarroxii51545 жыл бұрын
Thank you LaviLoves for your kind and sweet words for motivation in life. :)
@user-pc3vs3bd4j5 жыл бұрын
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@ecocentrichomestead67834 жыл бұрын
I completed a B.Sc. in environmental science. Cost a lot of money and it didn't get me a job. But I don't regret it because it helps me in my normal leisure activities and now I am using it to help with my content creation.
@katiemynette42854 жыл бұрын
Heart of Kentucky. I'm much older than you, and I'm experiencing a real growth spurt. My grandmother said we grow our whole lives. So, it doesn't really have anything to do with chronological age. You have many good ideas. Some of them may take a lifetime.
@anujakindo48544 жыл бұрын
You are so amazing you have unknowingly helped me so much when I was feeling low and depressed, I always reach to your content when I feel lost and it has always been so helpful Keep on your good work I adore you . Love n more power to you girl❤
@arline65285 жыл бұрын
so inspiring and eye opening 💕🌸 thank you so much 😊🙏🏼
@lavendaire5 жыл бұрын
thank you for being here 💕
@kiaramnm5 жыл бұрын
hey i know u
@arline65285 жыл бұрын
Kiara Vanhaerents haha :)))
@NatH-mi9gd5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this, I'm really thankful for you and your channel. You are like the big sister I never had
@lavendaire5 жыл бұрын
aww 💕
@sarast77684 жыл бұрын
This is one of your best videos😍❤u are so amazing Aileen😊
@Simon-je7ko4 жыл бұрын
I really like your channel. Your videos really improve my life. It makes me see things differently. We only regret the chances that we didn't take.
@dynamitereborn993 жыл бұрын
Hiya. I'm nearly 22 and graduating in a year's time and I needed this! Thanks!
@daughterofchrist47265 жыл бұрын
You're so good in every way...you're beauty with brain ...I'm so much obsessed with your video,it's making my life so much easy and you 're making me a better person with Your every single video..it's so much helpful...thank you so much for your hard work for ourselves..keep your good on..much love and best wishes.
@hellymichealroberts3575 жыл бұрын
This video made my life a whole lot better thank u
@SimpleHappyZen5 жыл бұрын
Such lovely advice, thanks Aileen! 😄🌱✌🏻 I can relate to the comfort zone shrinking when working from home 😊 It's definitely something I need to keep in mind
@peyam68955 жыл бұрын
I loved it the advices were really good and of course i write them down...love you dear 🧡🙌🏻
@rizapaolahawkeye5 жыл бұрын
Amazing video. I really needed to hear something like this.
@winifredkal5 жыл бұрын
I'm a Nigerian graduate!!! Thank you for this💙
@nomibeardiy92485 жыл бұрын
How can I subscribe a billion times??? I just found you today and have already watched over 6 videos I think. You’re helping me so much already with my way of thinking. You’re going places. Foreal! So awesome!
@isabellab58065 жыл бұрын
Just graduated from HS and while I do not consider myself lost in life and know where I’m heading, this served as a great source of inspiration and motivation💛 thank you
@thahav27723 жыл бұрын
Thnku for everything cause Ur advice and the way you live changed me so long ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@wafaaali82785 жыл бұрын
Journaling is really a great way to know what is your inner voice
@hellocat13025 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate your videos and the positive energy you seek to spread. I personally try to invest in my relationship with God everyday so I try to relate to your videos through that form of self-betterment. I wanted to share that for me personally, it can be challenging for me to hear about manifesting this dream life for myself when I know that God is truly the one bringing me blessings. We are the most important to our lives at the end of the day but I feel like our jobs on this earth isn’t to just make ourselves happy but to help others as well. But of course, we need to be in a good place mentally in order to help others! ☺️ I know that many people are discovering self-care and how important it is so thank you for sharing your knowledge and wisdom! 💖
@padmajawagh86803 жыл бұрын
Love you so much Aileen . After watching this video , I am like that I have found my way to the life success and my dream .God should always bless you . Love you so much 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙
@RealPolya10 ай бұрын
Aileen, thank you for being such a light! I am so inspired by you and your story :)
@lavendaire10 ай бұрын
thank you for your kind words! ♡
@jcwalrus5 жыл бұрын
Excited about your new course! Is it relevant for an over 50 who is still finding her way?
@arannivian5 жыл бұрын
I work from home too and what you said about social anxiety was right. Whenever I go out, there's something 'hit' you to step back and stay safe in the comfort zone. Now I think that I should go out more often :') thanks for your advices, Aileen!
@spaces33455 жыл бұрын
Omg how did you know I needed to hear this?!?❤❤
@lavendaire5 жыл бұрын
the universe is guiding you 💕
@hy9308075 жыл бұрын
Uni got my feel so fulfilled and happy and more confident. After uni I just feel like my life paused...and stuck in time. Month after month no reply or rejection to the jobs. I loose motivation and passion to draw as a result no new portfolio to apply job with everyday I jus feel like I’m wasting life
@nurerreyanajusi3207 Жыл бұрын
Hello my love, welcome back to lavendaire🥰🥰. U're so inspiring dear🥰. I'am yana 25 years old from Malaysia. All of your videos was so beneficial to me. Thanks for all guide, inspiration and motivation. May god Allah SWT bless you whereever you are 🥰🥰
@cosmocelli5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for the wonderful advice, Aileen! I, no, we, needed this so much ❤️
@katrynapona5 жыл бұрын
I’m glad you made this video! Im 21 and just graduated from college 5 weeks ago and I think your course will be a great tool for me and others! I definitely will purchase or hopefully win the scholarship, because everything you mentioned in this video is my life right now. Thank you! 😊
@SonicaSuon Жыл бұрын
Thank you Aileen ! U r so inspiring ! ❤
@melissameli64745 жыл бұрын
love you keep up the good work
@amruthamadhavannair10565 жыл бұрын
This is what I really needed now.! I was lost somewhere and couldn't find and its was difficult to track on. You helped me at the right time.! 😘😘
@595bernadette5 жыл бұрын
I’m trying to change my life at the age of 38 by doing KZfaq from January I have got 24 subscribers my most successful film was a run I done and that got 201 views in a month still plugging away at KZfaq so I don’t have to work for a company anymore
@mlpdiamonds75305 жыл бұрын
I love this video Lavendarie ( sorry if I spelt it wrong). I've been watching your videos for a while and I love them. They have really help me. And I was wondering if you have any advice for homesickness.
@rafaelicedrim39042 жыл бұрын
Yours videos are so amazing. I love learning with you :)
@lucindasmith96194 жыл бұрын
Thank you for all of this advice My favorite one of your videos is the stress one because I am very stressed from school lately
@mukulikamukherjee57544 жыл бұрын
You are amazing.. Your videos helped me grow... Thank you love 🌼
@anni16195 жыл бұрын
Best timing Just graduated! Greetings, Aileen!!
@ancelaa_5 жыл бұрын
I'm a recent graduate and hearing your advice, enlighten me a lot. Thank you so much for this amazing advice. I'm a fan
@victoriasosing26394 жыл бұрын
Hi, I am just a newbie here been watching your vlogs and I learned a lot from it so far. I love that you put a subtitle at your video, especially that my surroundings is so loud so eventhough I cannot hear it, I love how I read it, and remember it. love watching your vlog from the Philippines!!!
@Audrey-vf8gb5 жыл бұрын
Wow, I really needed this. Thank you so much! Anytime I nedd inspiration and more guidance, I look up to you. You truly help a lot. Thank you!!
@rosegoldmermaid5 жыл бұрын
Wow Aileen I'm really gonna need this! Thanks for the constant GREAT content! 💓 Lavendaire is THE BOSS! She inspired me to create my own channel about self love and personal growth 💪 LOVE YOU AILEEN! Thank you for the amazing inspiration.
@belli92815 жыл бұрын
thank you!! ure a godsend i really needed some general life advice right now.
@RababAlhunaidi5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the motivation. That was very helpful
@hananaitahmedouali19655 жыл бұрын
Oh what a coincidence, rabab i love your channel thanks for your valuable contents keep going😊
@superadna85025 жыл бұрын
thank you sis
@dineshwagadare5 жыл бұрын
I love your videos. They are so helpful , useful and calm.❤️❤️
@lauracools80485 жыл бұрын
These advice is so great, but I feel stuck by the fact that I don't have goals and passions, so basically nothing to aim
@aninditanair4684 жыл бұрын
Laura Cools think about different hobbies that you have and ask yourself questions, like what do you want, why do you want it, ask 4-5 basic questions, and the answers will start coming out in your mind, that will be the basic step then, write it down, I mean maintain a copy or a diary (like a journal)
@lauracools80484 жыл бұрын
@@aninditanair468 thank you for the advice !
@miraclelynnette20785 жыл бұрын
thank you 💕☁️🌈
@missmisschelle3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for another amazing video with amazing advice ❤️
@intentionalliving73263 жыл бұрын
Great advice at any time ☀️✨✨
@ismezara85023 жыл бұрын
you inspire me a lot....I just love ur channel....love from Bangladesh 🇧🇩💞
@jellybean93825 жыл бұрын
I have a teacher at sixth form that drills not being passive into every single one of her students and I can already see the benefits of it in other areas of my life
@savi31653 жыл бұрын
Wow! I never knew that I could be motivated this much in just 16 minutes. It's my first time here and I'm already in love with these tips and content. I'm definitely subscribing. Thank you ❤️😊
@Usagii19965 жыл бұрын
This is just what I needed right now? 3 years after graduating from high school, I am still contemplating what I should do in life. I have started a major in International Studies and is 1/4 in. However, I am not sure if this is what I should be doing.
@AnnChan5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. More power and God Bless
@_withluvrxmy89794 жыл бұрын
Thank you for these advices , i feel happy when i watch your videos honestly because you motivate me 💜
@juliacattarossi39925 жыл бұрын
hey, aileen. i'd like to tell u how calm and happy your videos make me feel. i'm always looking forward to watch your videos since you give wise and sensible advice and just the way you are motivates me to realize more things day to day and be active in some sort of way. hope you're doing gr8 ;)
@kaitlynlee33844 жыл бұрын
This deserves more attention. Thank you
@Stephaniealicianaturalhair5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for giving this advice ! Moving forward !!!!!! :)
@isabelvargas.48815 жыл бұрын
Tomorrow I will be in my new job and I was very scared (i am a gradute) Thanks for the video you made me feel in peace and better. Love you 💛 from Mexico!
@hibak81965 жыл бұрын
The shrinking of comfort zone is so freaking real
@alexandrachrobakova93945 жыл бұрын
I’m from Czech Republic, I graduated and thank you so much for this video ❤️🥰
@chatswithny13484 жыл бұрын
Good advice, thanks for sharing
@nomibeardiy92485 жыл бұрын
Watching your videos is as therapeutic as meditation!
@MsAimm5 жыл бұрын
We LOVE YOU ❤️ God bless you 💛
@creativemind69395 жыл бұрын
And yet again another great video👍👌👐 😀😊. Can't wait to do the course😄😃😃😃
@jenniferbriol85302 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your very informative vedio... super inspiring...