MickyAvStickyHands so true man, fuck its hard to do

I understand what you’re saying, but generally speaking, your partner shouldn’t hold cards against you. It’s a RELATIONSHIP. You’re two that mold into one. Why would you need to have any defenses when you’re working with someone who is on your side? The point of the relationship to begin with is to let down your defenses and be vulnerable with another.

Aptly said 👏

well said

Garbage Fries - That sounds lovely on a greeting card, but reality is much harsher. My intentions are not to ridicule here but you absolutely need to have resilience and defenses in place to protect your mental and emotional state where your partner is concerned. Take affairs for example. An affair is one of the most traumatic emotional experiences a human being can go through with a lot of experts saying only death of a spouse comes first. I was listening to a pod cast where an Iraqi war vet claimed he would go back to Iraq 100 times more than finding out again his wife cheated on him. That’s absolutely insane. No one should have that much control over you. The people that say that’s why you shouldn’t marry someone that would cheat, or say I would NEVER do that are the most susceptible to trauma. You’re creating your own reality. A hyper false-sense of security and trust in another human being that simply is not possible. People that don’t understand these things completely take the lazy way out and judge and dismiss. Lives are destroyed, children are hurt, all because of bullshit and not enough education and practicality.

Sadhguru!!

That’s deep

Sadhguru 🙏

What if youre alone all the time..you have nobody in your life...too much alone time can be really bad for you too. Its about a balance.

@@365daysgone i believe the same thing

It's a good quote but the full quote is: _Being alone is dangerous. It's addicting once you see how peaceful it is, you don't want to deal with people anymore_

We need people to have a healthy life, we are social animals.

@@srijoybhattacharya9241 Life is getting more and more impersonal and inorganic.This social animal thing is all a thing of the past. We now have families who live under the same roof and have no idea what is going on.

@@rameshrnayak very true.

@@srijoybhattacharya9241 Everything evolves. That's an old motto for old times. I think many people like short periods if have to at being social but most are probably content with small circle. I think that's different Tham saying social as in you need to be out talking to random strangers all day everyday.

Most of them are stupid in their own way😂😂.

I agree🙃😊🙃

loneliness is a negative feeling, it's the state of being alone that brings happiness I know what you were trying to say though ;-;

Yes, I can go days without talking to ppl, days without seeing another person. If you can't be alone it's a weakness. I know ppl that have to have ppl around 24/7 cause they feel lonely. I enjoy very few ppl, but love being alone doing projects learning new things, some ppl just don't know that feeling of complete silence or time alone

Edgy

That is a false quote.

@Joey Shmoey aw well I'm always happy to help the disadvantaged. I just wanna say I think you're a big boy for being able to figure out how to comment - and you nearly spelt everything correctly too! The only way is up for you!

@Joey Shmoey for the sake of actually informing you now I've had my fun, this is the quote "all that is gold does not glitter, not all those who wander are lost, the old that is strong does not either, deep roots are not reached by the frost."

Except for Jim. Jim is lost as fuck.

@@nathanmills335 I don't get it

jaysage what an amazing idea. Thank you. 🙏

I did this and got mugged. Thanks

Thats God

Yeah because yo ass is sleep deprived

@@jvillzy hahaha hell yea o that was you i saw outside my window getting stomped out by some dude with timberlands on

Requires alot of money though. They seem to be getting "costly" each passing day lol.

@@faiqcreates still cheaper than having a family.

@@dtmyco1044 that is true

Alex - so true - yes!!!

Like what ? Give examples please

Honestly bro, this is how my lifestyle is right now. Im not trying to be alone at all just because it seems cool and people want to join. I truly try to fit in and it just never works. I always seem out of place for some reason. This has been my whole life. Starting to be alone and talking less brings me at peace. I wish nothing but the best for you brother.

@@Mrwarrioro honestly everyone is different brother I'm like that too just moving along with life and learning more and more I have friends but they're not like everyday stable one's being alone made me realise how blessed I am

@@raihantahmid7272 🙌🏾🧘🏾‍♂️

Exact same way bro , happiest when alone , god bless

2 years now , no nothing 👍🏾

01undeniable same you took those words right out of my mind

01undeniable since 2016 when I finished school I haven’t talked to ANYBODY I mean literally nobody except my brother like my phone is beyond dead. Trust me like the actual definition of being alone without friends for 3 years. You guys won’t understand till it happens.

@@acerabbit6031 that happened to me when I moved to a different state when I was like 17 untill I was 19 I had no friends but I met a girl and we started hanging out and now I'm friends with all of her friends and met a bunch of other people at work. You just have to get out more and try to meet people. I thought I was the only one and felt alone but there's probably millions of people in the same situation.

You might be an introvert.

@@Oscvrz Yeah dude I imagine there's tons of other people out there in the same situation. But it really sucks when u have nobody to talk to out in the world other than online and then they end up disappearing anyway. I really believe in the term "things will get better" I just gotta wait for it :)

Yup 😘

Tobi Wobi personally i don’t have social anxiety at all, i’m usually one of the loudest and funniest people in the group when i do go out. but yeah, gossip annoys me and feels like such a waste of time and i prefer being alone to meditate, heal, read books, and ascend my consciousness to bliss lol

Have you just passed your early 30s by any chance?

@@babygorl9541 I can defo relate

Tobi Wobi Or he’s just an introvert.

No lie!

That and even a drive a lone

Yes yes

Not an introvert but still love it

It is but society doesn't like quiet, aloof beings

Wasn’t that merlins owl?

He who dwells in the light is either a god or wild beast

Imma god

@Abhishek Tanwar how do you feel

@Abhishek Tanwar would u like to tell about changes u feel..i m trying it for a year on and off max 45 days till..sometimes i get frustrated..how do i get it to 100 days atleast???

and I bet you are one of the most interesting people one could ever meet.

Ok

Dude I’ll be your friend, unless you’re weird

whhattt.. we been friend friends bro!! :D

Hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh some ppl are just lucky lol

I smoked a cigarette today. I don't smoke. It was just my rebellion I guess. Nobody to say oh no! Don't. Lol. It's kind of nice.

Aw 🥰

I have said the same thing for years, bullshit is the key word.

Id be like o shit that’s joe and his trippin on dmt, then proceed to flash neon lights in his face

I’d try if I can see my reflection on that bald head

@Ricardo Ignacio prepare to get kicked in the nuts

@richard kaye in America rich people get a better form of care. If you didnt know. For instance i worked 84 hours a week in America and was literally paid 5 dollars and change an hour. As a "private contractor" i could not even afford basic health insurance/dental. AMERICA IS FUCKED.

@Phil Myass Um, no

me too

Same! Especially when they are sucking your energy!

What was it Tommy Lee Jones said in a movie once.... something like "Individuals are fine. It's people that are the trouble".

Love from a distance!

I relate

being an introvert and a empath. I genuinely enjoy being solitary.

@@suezworld i'm the same, I can go months without seeing someone and I can be fine with it.

I literally dread invites. I get resentful that I have to use my time to socialize with people I’m just not interested in. It makes me feel guilty actually, I just wish I could shake that feeling & just own who I truly am at my core. Society won’t seem to let me though. 😔

​@@kima260society isn't keeping you tethered to guilt. You are. Which is good news because it means you can just stop feeling that way. Saying no to invitations is just fine. And you will find out who genuinely respects you the first time you say no to them. Boundaries reveal a lot.

Put a smile on my face, a healthy marriage in all ways 🙏🏻👌🏻

That's why I never got married. I'm content with having beautiful relationships until I die. I hate our society and culture and that's why I'm not main stream. There's an infinite amount of ways to achieve happiness why have people allowed themselves to be so brainwashed to think there's only one?

@@mjohnson1741 Most people are shallow thinkers. They don't exert the mental energy to really think things through. If they did the world be unrecognizable.

I have met many women who hate the idea that their boyfriend or husband is away from them and is enjoying himself. In that scenario, I wouldn't have answered the phone. When I got home, I would tell her I wanted to hang out with my friend. It's not easy to create your own space, but, it's worth it.

@@garrygrant2394 They would actually be terrified if they found out what so called elites think of regular people.

Brando I agree

yes bro less people less drama

@@abcxyz-py6uw yep. Everyone now adays is worried what other people are doing and what they have. Once you spend time alone you get to see what you have and appreciate it.

Me too. I’m on Georgia O Keefe status.

G M so true

That's so true i love being alone but am never lonely specially when you have God.

That English bloke nailed it.

@Seyvonn DeLivrus ....I'm in the best company when I'm alone. ..and if you have control of your mind then you should be too..😎

Yes yes

I've certainly been alone & lonely,but I also have been lonely for being alone...

Going though those things taught me to love being alone. I had to learn from mistakes I guess.

@@BFRIZZLE909 I learnt that through my parents mistakes and growing up through them

Yap man 2022 is best thing to do is beonf alone that is powerfull for mind and conect to natural good

The problem is when you grow old you'd better hope you feel the same.

Yea I agree tenfold but this same sentiment won’t happen when your older.

Currently deciding which grass is less brown... in an otherwise great relationship where I'm judged for spending my time the way I like to (video games) and guilted into participating in things I don't sign up for.

I like being alone, I just don't like being a virgin at the age of 26 haha

@Ginsung Thanks homie, appreciate the compliment :) where my fellow incels at? #IncelsUnite

@Christian get some hobbies and watch anime then you will never be bored because there's too many anime to watch you'll never run out I recommend: Hellsing ultimate Gantz Parasyte Attack on titan Seven deadly sins Fist of the north star Jojo's bizarre adventure 2012 Black lagoon Afro samurai Re:zero Juuni taisen Redline Trava fist planet Tailenders The animatrix Genius party Highschool dxd Akame ga kill

@Ginsung LMFAO fax

@Ginsung but at least you will die happy if you watch anime...totally worth it!

Mike Petersen yeahhh!

I'm both but trying to work on it lol . Trying to be ok with my own company . One day at a time though as they say 😇

If he just had a legal job ;)

That scene resonated with me...what a great line.

Found another Mann fan! Nice!

your story motivates me.

Yeah SumTimes its like....peace

How

Feel you ..same here

Same, in the middle of learning rn. Last relationship was a good one but we became codependent and called it quits. Been in the journey of self discovery and it’s been a b**ch

True

That's low self worth not introversion

@@ShahabAhmad1398 not at all. When you are introverted lots of people drain you. Especially superficial conversations. I would rather be by myself or have a good conversation with one person then listen to a group of people trying to one up each other. Next time you're around a group of people sit back and just observe. Most people are full of shit and not saying anything important. Waste of time. Ego driven people enjoy this.

lonliness is not about how many people u are surrounded with, but how many people u can relate with.

That isn't introversion. I see A LOT of people mistaking unhealthy habits for introversion. If you are with your friends and you feel MORE alone, then they aren't your friends. I'm introverted too, but when I see my friends I have a great time, I just need more time by myself than most, I still see them once or twice a week though...

#FACTS

Ah the bold introvert. A rare find.

I’d disagree, there are a lot of extroverts that are very self aware and vice-versa there are introverts that aren’t.

You can be both so it makes no sense to separate them. According to the occasion you can easily switch to being an introvert. I don't believe in either cause I know plenty of people who act quiet around strangers but run their mouth around friends.

I can be both ....but i was more extrovert ....now iam full of this mad society ....these people are just distracting me ..... after a toxic relationship and bad friends ...i learn now with 28 to be a introvert .... to focus on my goals ...and being happ alone ..... never had the chance in my past !!!!

same here.

Any tips on how you achieved this?

@@moeedmajeed you've got to fill your hole..

@@rickymassey look

@@gabi2k16 hey

@Adz K fuck you random citizen FUCK YOUUUUUU

If you are happy it's cool but some form of human interaction is good

prajwal sharma I’ve got a lot of friends I still go out to hangout with them obviously I also have a big family im surrounded by I’m saying whenever I’m alone I got no issue with it. Master the art of loneliness

@@jorgeguzman9592 nice

@Adz K nope

You have a wife and children, you're definitely not a loner. A loner is someone on their own.

I can relate to some of this. Anyone who tries to shame you for that is an idiot. They do that,then wonder why we aren’t social 😂

That is what I was thinking@@charlottetaylor4471

Preach

Man, thats only one of possible interpretations of the fact. Some people write just to write and to express themeselves and dont give a fuck whether a stranger read this or not. The same way you can elaborate whether a person do a totoo to himself or to draw attention of others? No one knows this for sure :)))

The "do nothing method" really is great. I started three years ago. And back then i was totally owned and raped by "my" mind. Today, man... its so still. Now the thought is my slave. So thankfull.

That was deep

I just comment too try to plug my channel. Haha

this really helped me a lot right now ❤

You think its bs because you dont like it. Because you are introverted.

@@blurrycolours3624 it is shallow though which is bs.

Small talk is great, most introverts who say that it’s “unnecessary” buts that’s just because they don’t like it. I love my friends but personally I just find an enjoyment being on my own, a certain freedom comes when it’s nothing but me and my brain

Facts

Agreed

Absolutely, humans destroy rather than build up others moreso than not!

Respectfully...i feel like this is one major thing people so so so get wrong and perhaps need to reflect on a bit more. "...other human beings have been the source of all of my stress, anxiety, insecurity, and every other negative experience I've had..." False. 100 percent of what you just said... and this is key to understanding much of what's wrong in our world currently anyway... Literally every emotional feeling you feel, or have ever felt about a person, thing, or situation ... has been generated by and withib your own body...nobody on the planet has any control whatsoever over what you allow or do not allow yourself to feel...even Think... this is a wildly common way of passing off responsibility of something we can and should be in control of, to someone else and then blaming them for "making us feel..." some way or another.... this is rubbish to the max...I, as a human being, despite whatever behaviors i may exhibit or not exhibit, bad or good or whatever they may be, am in No Way Responsible for how You allow yourself to feel in Regards to my behavior...nobody Makes You feel anything that you do not in some part in some way First have agreed to Let yourself feel. Imagine the implications of a world where, as these types suggest...all other people have absolute control over what i feel like and when i will feel it.... total horseshit.... and a very common and sly method of not ever having to learn enough proper self-discipline and control of one's own mind and thought patterns, and just go around blaming everyone else for "making us feel..." some way or other.....nah buddy, you're the only one with that power over your own shit...it is no one elses responsiblity on this Earth how You feel or dont feel.....get a fucking grip and take ownership of that which is your own creation.

@@fortwynt5607 u are the reason i hate people just let us have an opinion and stop trying to be right all the time

I'm alone pretty much 80% and I love it!

How? You mean you unlearn things?

@@capo-amg6755 yeah your social skills

Paradox 420 ya thats if you become socially inept. He is saying be okay with being alone occasionally. He is not saying he alone in a blank room or stay in your hone for the rest of your life. We are social creatures, we need to socialize but becoming mentally okay with being alone you will only be stronger when in crowds

Pedro Rodriguez I agree. I actually feel like it makes me so aware that I actually get exhausted after socializing.

No. Alone as a do-nothing type of situation not isolating yourself and voluntary not taking to anyone. Try get a chair and just stare at the wall for 2-3 hours and you’ll see what they mean.

Seems like it could be great, especially if you are driving thru beautiful scenery, but being able to have people you enjoy is good too

I'm trying to get my CDL. And I'm looking forward to what you said about it too!

I’m glad to hear this, I’m about to start on my cdl!

@@ballzmahoney954 get it man, it will be rough your first year as your learning but soon it becomes as natural as driving a car. Then it's great!

@@ballzmahoney954 where do you get CDL? What kind of truck you going to drive? Which pays the most?

lol you typed anal. lolll

David Murphy hahahahahahahha I miss being alone

@@ajohonly3721 Me too buddy....me too😂

Yup and you’ll be able to enjoy after the next 17-25 years

@@bryanbroacosta Wonderful eh?😂

Pretty extreme way to learn a lesson i reckon 😂😂

2fac3 lmaoo same

Right!!

Congratulations

2fac3 that’s dangerous. Learn to love to be alone, while staying responsible and being productive for yourself.

@Gerald Jackson exactly

next try to fall asleep with your mind awake thats where the real fun happens

Next try to empty your eyes and close your brain

AM3X So you didn’t get Alex Mendez eh, lol

That's not really a problem.

No im the same way! Im not depressed or a bad person. I just literally prefer to be alone. I dont want ti speak with anyone or conerse whatsoever just alone

Yeah, cause that's your PREFERENCE. You have the OPTION to not be alone. The people who are depressed are that way because being alone is being forced on them.

@@FLdancer00 my preferance is simply not being around peoples company i dont enjoy. If theres any bad trait about them i dont wanna be apart if it. Being alone is not forced. Thats like saying because your mind is in such a bad state your incabable of reaching out to people for help. And you cant respond and say no one will help because thats bs. Being alone is always an option. depressed or not.

Same

SAME

Yeah too many men don't prioritize relationships until it's too late

"You are my Kween" -Jon Snow

Yes, it is.

I agree. As long as the people are decent, it's a great experience to be with others. We are made for love and connection (of course, it doesn't have to be constant. Nothing wrong with time alone too.)

I'm dealing with that now

She considers your solitude as the"other' woman lol.

Whenever I miss her I remind myself how tiring it was to listen to her

😂

Women do have a greater need to talk than men, but I think most women of today are neurotic and can't shut up or get off their phones at all..

"Soldier for christ" punk religion follower. Religion is fake. There is no afterlife idiot.

Don Khan why are you mad

Don Khan seek help please! Seems like you’re a lost soul projecting your insecurities on others

Don't take any kind of support for ur back

Have you ever been alone on DMT though ?

"The happiest of all lives is a busy solitude" ~ voltaire

Me 4. I enjoy being by myself

@@adams115 I would be down too ;)

Lukas Stössel, alright lets all meet up at your place

how was your trip to iceland? I'm going in 2 months or so! Excited for what's to come

Kelvin Chiu passion project he says

@@devynsingh9421 icelands great but go north out of rek and avoid the crowds / tourists.

Tell me about it. London is the epitome of a rat race. Everyone in constant competition. And the highest value is your bank account. It’s sad and harsh to say, but true.

That's becuz they probarly not Ad the same level. Nowadays its all fake.