Learn to love yourself and nothing else matters it only took me 44 years

‘He who does not desire anything outside of his control can not be anxious’ a stoic quote.

I can't begin to tell you the change your videos have made in my life. This video in particular was the one that blew me away....I've been struggling with a bad breakup from a girl i love dearly. I couldn't understand why it was so hard to let go of her and the fantasy of the relationship I had in my mind. When you said that the suffering Is found not in the letting go, but in the holding on...I felt such a massive shift in my perspective and such an overwhelming sense of peace flood through me that I lack the words to give it justice. You are doing great things for the world. Please keep it up. Thank you. So much.

“What you resist, persist” - Carl Jung

“Reality doesn’t always match our expectations” Sadly it rarely does. Giving people permission to hate or disappoint me has been the most freeing thing. I don’t fight life anymore. Radical self-acceptance can be painful, but liberating. I just say “You’re right, goodbye”. I can’t control anyone! Once you evict people to living rent free in your mind you find peace 😌✨

Thank you. This has helped me in my spiritual growth.

Every time I start thinking about him and fantasizing, I watch the last four minutes of this videos. It helps every time, without fail.

Humans need attachments to make their lives meaningful. It is the suffering and obstacles that provide spiritual and emotional growth, and not something you should hide from. Detachment is just one step away from leaving physical reality. By living in detachment, you have one foot in the physical world and the other foot in the spiritual world, not truly alive or dead. I find that when i live without attachment, I become more isolated, and care lesser for people and things.

“Let go of your earthly tether. Enter the void. Empty, and become the wind.”

I like how he explains attachment can be how we see ourselves not just attached to things or another person. Attachment can be to your own beauty for example. This is dangerous as we all age or can become ill. So what becomes of this persons thoughts and emotions as their beauty inevitably fades

When I moved to Florida from Maryland, I got rid of or gave away everything I owned. No biggie. I missed some of it afterwards but things can be replaced if need be.

Thank you for addressing that attachment is something to be understood, not ignored. Trying to be mindful of your existence underneath, while helps to shift the focus, doesn't allow for growth of understanding why we are suffering. So, instead of avoiding suffering or trying to be "mindful" about placing your attention elsewhere, it is great to hear about placing your attention on what we are actually doing to ourselves. Feeling our own discomfort, giving ourselves a chance to explore this in order to understand, thereby finding or trying to understand why we are suffering to begin with instead of shifting attention away from this.

I’m 28 and just started my spiritual journey this year. You are absolutely right that loving and focusing on myself is all that matters.

Such profound insight, explained beautifully. Thank you.

I’m so grateful for this right now. I got very attached to someone who I was introduced to this side of things and can’t seem to detach even though this person has been quite cruel to me also.

No one deserves loving kindness today more than you do.

So glad your videos.were recommended to me. Sometimes attachment is to an " old part of us" that we have become Stuck in. I get it. That is why sometimes the holding on is because we are repeating the same lesson. I am now moving forward to the next chapter in my life. I surrender all attachments to people, places or things that no longer serve a positive place in my life. Amen. Thank you Jesus. Namaste ❤️🙏❤️

I have found the way out is humility. Humility makes us flexible. Pride and shame solidify the ego.

Man ur topics are quite timely and relevant... definitely a true guide. ☝

This is so true…you have to know who u are first …to know who others are …go within …ur always feel free from attachments …you will never feel you need or desire anything because you’re already it.!!!

I thought I had overcome my attachments, having walked away from a bad marriage, my home, possessions etc and being content in my own company seems I was sent the ultimate test, letting go of someone you're absolutely in love with I've been battling with this for many months now. The attachment is causing me so much pain I'm thinking its maybe better to just let go. This advice is really good and I will look deeper into how I got in this mess. Thank you

Thank you so much! This was so enlightening and profound! Your channel is a game changer for being on the spiritual journey. Infinite love and light 💡💗!

I’ve been listening to all your videos you’ve posted. Thank you so much for sharing. Your voice and insight has been healing, foundational and soothing to me.

This sounds a lot like the philosophy of Krishna Consciousness. Even if it isn't, renunciation of attachment and recognition of illusion are some of the main themes of the Bhagavad Gita. Thank you for helping me to understand these themes a lot better and apply them to my life.

Thank you so much for this. Your message brought me to tears and I realized how attached I am to how things used to be with my family and loved ones. I realize that my actions and pushing others away has led to the reality of how things are. I'm working on letting go and accepting the reality so that I can experience healing and move on. Your channel is helping me so much.

thank you so much i cannot thank you enough you’ve saved my life

Thank you so much, took me three years of suffering to figure out what was wrong and where it came from all thanks to your video

This is absolutely precious. Thank you!

I’ve just discovered this channel and it’s giving me such peace. Wise wise words, delivered in a calm and insightful way. Thank you so much

The best 4 minutes of my day was right here at the end of this message! Brilliantly said!

I want you to know you’ve changed my life for the better. You’ve made me realize so much and helped me on my spiritual path.

Thank you for making these videos and trying your best in this life. I appreciate you and your content so much.

I am so happy I've met you, I find your channel so helpful and valuable, it's really priceless to me. I just don't know why you don't haveso many views. I feel like you should be reaching to all the people out there in the world, you are so wise.... Thank you for sharing it with us. Thank you from Uruguay

I landed on your video unintentionally as my finger pressed on and the video started playing. I decided to watch as my current state of mind is going through the process of detachment. I just loved the way you explained everything step by step and you presented a comprehensive picture of attachment and the importance of their presence. Thank you!!!

I did this naturally, I really value my detached mindset. However, over time I allowed other people to convince me to attach to them and that caused me great pain because I was now subject to their expectations and my emotions were easily swayed by them now I am learning how to detach once again and appreciate the autonomy of all of my loved ones.

Thank you for your wise insight! This was exactly what I needed! 🙏🏻 Namasté

Please teach us more, you have deep wisdom the world needs, namaste

Spectacular. Great content here. I've saved it so I can re-watch over and over.

Thank you, I can really process what you are saying, your slower speaking helps me a lot. 🙏🤗

Many thanks for this! One Attachment I have let go of is "do as ye would be done by!"

I usually think my attachment is to life or separateness and sometimes I feel like I will stop existing if if I let go. Maybe my attatchment is to multiple perspectives or validation. I sometimes think I am attached to love. My understanding gets very paradoxical and I am led to believe I am crazy by others but they seem transparent to me. I don't know much about spirituality and have been a militant athiest up until recently. All that I feel is true is that perception exist. I have issues with self doubt but they seem to be working themselves out naturally. Religious trauma from childhood and having to rely on my discernment has been challenging. I had a sudden flood of awareness but I have questioned if it is spiritual or just psychological or if it even matters. Experiencing my biggest fears had me wishing I was delusional at times. Your videos "ironically" validate my experience. Thank you for posting them.

A wise man! Love your videos and very helpful

Your so peaceful, sometimes when I listen to you I drift off to sleep. Love your content. Thank you 🙏

This was so easy to understand yet so powerful. Thank you so much for the offering

thank you my friend. your words have given me innerstanding ~ you have soothed my soul. im grateful for you beautiful being

First of all, kindly accept my love and reverence...I badly needed to overcome a strong attachment of mine and I was praying to the Universe and to my soul to show me the way and see who HE presented in front of me...thank you so much dear awakened soul. Secondly, can you please throw some light of your wisdom on the concept of collective consciousness and how we can heal a particular pattern we have recognized in our family lineage or culture or even in our country. Waiting for your guidance.

Thank you so much for your amazing ability to explain traps and holes that we fall into and have no idea how to get out. I thank God for the revelation that you have to allow COMPREHENSION on complex situations and uncover what is obvious, but at the same time NOT. For me, it was so deliberating to understand that I have control over my fantasies and illusions but very little over reality and that fantasy is temporal, but reality always is present is always there.

Great video, I really like the ideas you present on attachment. The last minute of the video summarizes everything beautifully. Thank you so much, as this is something I've been struggling with recently

Beautifully said and explained. Thank you!

Yes i agree 100% with princefiggys comment below mine. I really enjoy your honest perspective & videos, it really hits home, i so dont understand why you dont have tripple the likes & subscriptions, their loss!! THANKYOU keep up your great work!!

Wow. thank you for this. I am going thru some major changes in my life, emotional and material. This is helped me a great deal today. I feel lighter this morning. namaste

Thanks so much for such deep insight !

Thank you for that video, it was really inspiring. I have a long way to go before letting go of attachment but your video definitely helped me and gave me some keys to understand why do I need attachment and control. I'm gonna try thinking about it and answer these questions. Thanks for your content 🙏🤗

This is saving my life! Thank you for this very clear and clinical explanation!

Thank you. Took some notes!

Thank you for sharing your thoughts and insight

i saw the symbol of the eye in a meditation, it appeared in front of me. And I thought it would resemble my third eye. seeing this now shows me that it is, and that it was guiding me to your page. Thank you. Had a really bad day yesterday bc of my addiction and my perspective to it. now I can work on myself. Rather than changing the surface itself.

shift in perspective i guess that what enlightens us 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 thank you for your time and words

Thank you so much for this precious video you helped me understand this intellectually and it’s a guidance to know where do I have to keep looking in order to find peace and be free

Very helpful ❤️ grateful I found your channel just at the right time ☺️

Thank you for this video. I can see how to remove/work thru the jungle toward clarity.

I appreciate your insights.

Thank you for this awesome explanation!

Thanks for your insights it's really appreciated 🙏 I can totally relate to where you are coming from ❤

Great video!

Amazing video. Thank you!

Good perspective! Thank you!

I believe the movie starwars episode 1 to 6 has alot of messages and philosophy of buddhism engrained. Anakin skywalkers entire story is of attachment,which led to his suffering and eventually turned him into Darth Vader.

Thank you with my heart ❣

I really enjoy your channel :) Thank you for the work!

So Powerful! Thank you.

You are the best thank you, u are saving my life ♥️

Very cool, I learned a lot of valuable info so thank you!!❤

Thank you Nada! 😊🙏

I know this video was created a while back, but thanks so much for the advice, it has helped a lot to understand the attachment and suffering associated with it.

Brilliant.

Wow. Wonderful insight. It helped me a lot. Thank you thank you thank you.

37 and started my healing journey 5 years ago.

100 percent agree with you!!

During a meditation session I asked myself: why I do resist a relationship? The response was that I do not feel worthy. I again asked myself: why are you not worthy? And the response was: I can’t control myself! Therefore, my conclusion was that I shouldn’t control myself. After this I began to notice in a lot of different aspects of my life that I have this need for control. I do not know how I continue, but I guess I just have to be patient.

Beautiful video 🤩

Thank you so much for this video.

It's taken me 42 years to be woken ⏰ so glad lovely place to be in my life x

Awesome needed this. Thank you 🧡

Great video! Thank you brother 😁

After certain spiritual experience, I don't find interest in anything, everything looks tasteless, i question everything i am doing, feel like quitting my job, society and everything and resign to woods but my family and relationships keeping ke tied down. My job keeps me irritated/frustrated i want to quit it but i become insecure how will i take care of my family. These attachments and insecurities don't allow me to live my life peacefully. I feel like i m zombie in this concrete jungle. Don't find solution to my problems.

Thank you for this very nice work here

one love brother, excellent content

I just got emotional just listening to your advice. I’ve been in quite a predicament for about 2 years, and I believe my issue is due to my own insecurities, thinking that I have to help people, in order to be loved. Which isn’t entirely wrong in itself, but it’s come to a point I felt used, but I couldn’t walk away from the person. In a way, I don’t hate the person, since we communicate our concerns with one another. I just don’t want to feel drawn to him anymore, and I’ve tried pushing him away, only to be even more drawn in. It’s tough for both of us, but hopefully at some point we will both figure our own way.

so wise and true !

WOW thanks soooooo much I am very 😃 to hear this information 🤗

thank you, thank you.

Thank you, that was great.

Namaste. Thank you so much for your words. We are interested in Eckhart Tolle, Moogi, Sadhuru and find you a wonderful complement to our spiritual growth.

Attachment limits our life. Freedom from attachment makes our life unlimited and infinite. It is boundless energy.💯🤗

Thank you so much!

Thr effort we r making is not in letting go its in holding on. Effort itself is attachment.

i lost my phone that had about two years worth of photos and memories. Some precious photos that I had taken of my passed grandma and my dog (the best dog that I've ever had the pleasure to care for...) it's really hard on me. the worst part is the bargaining stage. I sent it to get repaird and it was lost in the mail. I have little to no hope of getting it back from USPS and am struck with such a sudden grief over it. I need to let this go...... I have the memories in my mind and that should be enough. I can't understand why this anxiety keeps overcoming me.

Thank you so much❤

Too good thank you 😊🙏 👍