Lewy Body Dementia: My Father

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Pebro Productions

Pebro Productions

2 жыл бұрын

This video demonstrates some of the symptoms of Lewy body dementia. It is a personal account of this disease through the eyes of a daughter.

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@raegray5759
@raegray5759 Жыл бұрын
My husband died less than two years after being diagnosed with LBD. His deteriorating was I quick and no-one ever discussed the condition with us. Everything I learned I had to research for myself. When things started to be obvious it was if a bomb struck . It's the only way I can describe it. Everything that happens with LBD, happened all at the same time. The hardest thing was the fact that he was aware of the things that were happening to him. He would looked his hands and say " I can't do anything" He just couldn't figure out how to do the thing he wanted or needed to do. But with the help of the family we managed to keep him at home and he died peacefully surrounded by family and friends, just as he would have wanted. No more suffering, now safely in the arms of God
@mitzi3309
@mitzi3309 2 жыл бұрын
My dad has been stolen also! Some days he just sleeps when I am visiting. So I sit there and think about what a wonderful father and honorable man he is. I appreciate those moments, although his caregivers don't understand why I sit there and watch him sleep. I know the day will come when that blessing will be gone and I will wish I could sit and look at him, uninterrupted... Thank you for your video.
@paulas_lens
@paulas_lens Жыл бұрын
I hear you. I did the same thing.
@dnice3473
@dnice3473 Жыл бұрын
I’m sooo sorry! 😢 I’m so sad right now because this is happening with my dad right now.. it’s so sad and I’m so overwhelmed and scared about the future. And I’m also a single dad to a 3 year old little boy
@javionriley8739
@javionriley8739 Жыл бұрын
I am currently going through the same thing with my grandmother 👵🏿, it hurts ! But. I am beyond hopeful for current gene 🧬 therapy treatment to not only treat but cure it
@RescueOath
@RescueOath Жыл бұрын
@@javionriley8739 I'm right here with you friend. My father was officially diagnosed a little over a year ago but he was diagnosed late due to his commitment to working. He's had the REM sleeping combative nightmares for several years, though he finally got it checked out when he woke everyone up telling us there was someone outside with a gun and that one or two had already broken in. He also frequently sees "little people" prior/during sleep + while waking up. I'll never forget the first time he had a memory lapse in public. We were at a restaurant, he went to the restroom but I saw him come out confused, he walked outside as I was going to ask if he was okay. When I tapped on his shoulder he turned and looked at me with the blank face/eyes glazed over. He didn't know where he was, who I was, or even what his name was. He sleeps the majority of everyday now, mainly because of how bad/frequent his falls have gotten. He also has Hemiplegic migraines that mimic strokes.
@jacquelinegeorge5410
@jacquelinegeorge5410 Жыл бұрын
I'm 71 and have Lewy body Dementia. Very scary on
@patriciaflood506
@patriciaflood506 2 жыл бұрын
My husband had LBD with Parkinson’s for seven years before death: at least after diagnosis. We know now he had symptoms years before. Hallucinations at the beginning were terrible. My husband called the local police a couple times while I was asleep because he saw people behind trees and bushes on our property. Thankfully we live in a small community and they were so kind and understanding. Loss of smell and taste and therefore not wanting to eat another big problem. The paranoia is so very real. He didn’t trust anyone. He has been gone six years now and as much as I loved him and miss him after fifty years of marriage I am so thankful God took him out of his confusion. What hell that sweet, loving, brilliant man went through those last years of his life. Sending prayers for those of you going through this horrible disease and loving caregivers. 🙏💕
@muttleysmith726
@muttleysmith726 2 жыл бұрын
I hear you Patricia...sorry for the loss of hubby.. And for your gallant effort going thru what must have been the most trying time in your life. Stay well friend.
@maryannkelly6454
@maryannkelly6454 2 жыл бұрын
@brettspieleiq2384
@brettspieleiq2384 2 жыл бұрын
Very much the same with my father. As a psychologist, I suggested LBD to the doctors after I had read a couple of studies about it. His neurologist wouldn't have it. For him it was Parkinson's only, and he explained everything away that didn't fit. Seeing this video, reading comments, I am 100% sure he had LBD. Don't know if the diagnosis would have helped in any way, though. My dad passed away 10 years ago ...
@patriciaflood506
@patriciaflood506 2 жыл бұрын
@@brettspieleiq2384 John ‘s doctor was so knowledgeable and kind. He also cared about me as well. He now is teaching at a university in Cincinnati and no longer practicing because of health reasons.
@patriciaflood506
@patriciaflood506 2 жыл бұрын
@@muttleysmith726 Thank you. I pray every day that with all the research some day this disease will be gone. My youngest daughter’s husband found out about three years ago that his mother has dementia. They live in London. I was worried about her because I began seeing signs the last couple years. I think I saw what they ignored because they passed off as just “oh well , just getting older”. But since I visit once or twice a year I could tell the difference in her. My heart breaks for my son-in-law and his brothers.
@lisaerl
@lisaerl 2 жыл бұрын
My sweet mom had LBD for 16 years starting at age 65-66...she passed away in 2011. It was so sad and tragic. God bless you and your dad.
@anneg9305
@anneg9305 5 ай бұрын
That was my MIL to a T. We lost her three weeks ago. It was so rapid at the end. The neuro psychiatric symptoms began years ago. And she was so stubborn she refused to be diagnosed, no matter what my FIL tried. And the delusions. The anger. When it got really bad at the end, the doctors put it together for them, but she almost immediately went on hospice at that point. She had been shuffling everywhere, all that you describe. I’m so very sorry. And we think the same thing about my MIl. Of the 28 years I’ve been married, I had a wonderful mother in law and close friend for around 23, and that’s how I think of her. With love to you and prayers ♥️🙏🏻
@brandy18star55
@brandy18star55 Жыл бұрын
My dear lady friend was sliding quickly into grumbling communication, in the senior's home. I held her hand, and she squeezed my hand. I knew she was still there, inside her body. In short, in one night, she came to me in my dream. She showed me her arms, her skin was like porcelain with a gray undertone. I woke up immediately and phoned the senior's home. They told me she had passed away four day prior. No one else would have told me this news. She was always there, in her heart and I knew that. I felt simply honoured to be contacted by her of her passing. Love you Pearl.
@ss5894
@ss5894 2 ай бұрын
I’ve been in the hospital for 4 days with my grandmother, watching the saddest thing i’ve ever seen😭 we are pretty sure it’s LBD/parkinsons. I thank God for videos like this to help me understand more during all this.💔 thank you
@ss5894
@ss5894 2 ай бұрын
what’s even crazier is i didn’t even search for this. we’ve just been talking about it so much, i guess my phone heard and put this video on my suggested. Or God. idk.
@marynielson1527
@marynielson1527 2 жыл бұрын
He is indeed first and forever your dad and what an incredible daughter he has in you. My heart goes out to you and all others who have to face the cruel consequences of LBD.
@danda757
@danda757 2 жыл бұрын
My mother passed away from Lewy Body Dementia. She wasn't diagnosed until 6 months before she died. The stories I could tell... when she fell and broke her hip seems like she really went downhill very fast. She thought 2 men lived in her attic and had a computer that when pushed a button bad things happened. Another was she seen little kids playing that weren't there. So many more. Thank you for sharing your story. So sad this happens. Last time I had my mom visit me she was adamant that I was trying to poison her so she wouldn't eat or drink anything. I had to take her home. Before she was bedridden she eventually couldn't hold her head up. Had to strap her head to wheelchair to feed her. She pretty much starved to death. Last day before coma she had one tablespoon of baby food. That's it. Well won't go on and on but there is so much more. Thank you again for sharing a part of your life with us.
@pebroproductions
@pebroproductions 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing bits of YOUR story! And you're right ... the stories we could tell. Seeing children is a common hallucination for people with LBD ... I don't know why really. I'm just grateful that the hallucinations he has now aren't stressful. I'm so sorry you had to go through it with your mom. So very, very hard.
@rubytuesday1316
@rubytuesday1316 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing! Sending prayers to you and Phyllis -
@frazzledude
@frazzledude 2 жыл бұрын
My mother was very much the same. Her first symptoms showed up about a year and a half before she fell and broke her hip. I noticed that she could not understand numbers, and she was developing the Parkinson shuffle when she walked. After she fell and broke her hip she drastically declined. Fortunately, her delusions and hallucinations were merciful. She believed she was daily talking to her parents, both of whom had died thirty five years earlier. And she believed she was living in the house she grew up in. Occasionally she told me that she had seen my dad. He passed away ten years earlier. Every now and then she would accuse her caregiver of stealing things, but for the most part she had retreated back into her childhood. At the end, she was comatose for two days before she passed away. When I went to see her for the final time and tell her goodbye I thought she couldn’t hear me. But she moved the fingers on her right and and tried to open her eyes.
@pebroproductions
@pebroproductions 2 жыл бұрын
@@frazzledude There were/are times when his hallucinations weren't scary. But he often accused caregivers of stealing and then accused me of not knowing what was "really" going on. He is starting to talk about his father and it seems comforting to him. While he lost all numerical concepts, he still counts like he's measuring and talks about things being even. I'm glad you had that gift at the end ... something you can hold in your heart and memory for the rest of your life. Thank you for sharing your story.
@robingardella6240
@robingardella6240 2 жыл бұрын
So so sorry ❤️
@craig8031
@craig8031 11 ай бұрын
My Father in Law is 80 years old and currently in The Veteran's Administration Hospital for evaluation - they are leaning towards a diagnosis of LBD. Interestingly, we hadn't noticed any alarming decline until very soon after he received his Covid vaccine - that is when his extreme insomnia began. He struggled with that and extreme agitation for about 6 months and then had shoulder surgery which seemed to make his condition even worse (I have read of others who feel exposure to anesthesia often is a trigger or worsens such conditions). His condition has deteriorated rapidly over the last 3 months or so, often involving wild mood swings from day to day or even within the same day. He now suffers at times from delusions, paranoia, occasional hallucinations and has begun threatening care givers during bad episodes. Hoping the physicians can hit upon an effective medication regimen which will improve things without too many negative side effects. Thank You for sharing your and your Father's experiences in this video.
@jaimito2525
@jaimito2525 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for doing this work. It has been not only informational but also a great tribute to your love for your father.
@coweatsman
@coweatsman 2 жыл бұрын
My father died last year of vascular dementia at age 95. The father I knew growing up was a different, more competent man than my father at the end of his life.
@peggylee6086
@peggylee6086 4 ай бұрын
My husband has been living with LBD for the last 5 yrs. and this video has been so similar to what he has been going through. He has been sliding into later stage for the last year and it’s has been quite comforting to watch this.
@mutzicat
@mutzicat Жыл бұрын
My mother suffers from dementia and until just yesterday, I had no idea that it is so likely to be Lewy Body... it was an eye-opener to start watching videos about this form of dementia and in some ways a relief to know more specifically what it is (most likely). I too question - who is this person? Are we still a person if we don't have memories? Good question. I think about this a lot as I look after my poor old mother with the same advanced stage dementia as the man suffers with in the last few minutes of the video. When I see her trying so hard to find a word, help with a small easy chore, make her way onto the toilet seat with so much difficulty etc. I see a human being who is struggling and fighting to prove herself as a worthwhile, functioning and valid being and the great compassion I feel tells me that she is really more human and valid thank when life was easy..
@nanalcd5628
@nanalcd5628 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for the ìnformation, I watched the video, put it on pause, rewound it, and replay it so many times, because my English is not so well. I am on my way to visit my oldest brother in France from USA next month. I found out he had just started to have dementia. Now, I understand the future of my brother. and I am more prepared. All I can do right now is accept and pray to God. I wish you well and may God Bless all of your loved ones. Goodbye.
@pamelafryer
@pamelafryer Жыл бұрын
My brother passed away from Lewy’s body last year. What a horrific disease. I am still in shock how quickly he deteriorated the last 6 months of his life. His hallucinations, his dementia. His wife had to brush his teeth and help him to do the simplest things. What a dreadful way to go. The day he died my sister-in-law came downstairs and he was nowhere to be found. She found him wondering around the neighborhood “looking for my house”. My brother was a vibrant man, always on the go. Breaks my heart and miss him. My brother was only 72.
@katmclaren2897
@katmclaren2897 10 ай бұрын
I am a caregiver for people with dementia. I appreciate your video. It helps families understand a bit more about the disease.
@pebroproductions
@pebroproductions 9 ай бұрын
It's my hope that it will be useful to families and caregivers. There's so little information that is easy to understand and isn't an hour long video. I share this with my dad's caregivers and found out that they didn't know anything at all about LBD. It would have helped them, I think, if they had known more. 💜
@GrndmaTJ
@GrndmaTJ 2 жыл бұрын
Your descriptions and explanations are spot on. My husband passed away from LBD in 2014. He was 62. His symptoms began in his mid forties. He was misdiagnosed for 8 years. I was blessed to be able to stay home with him as his caregiver until the end. Hospice helped me his last 6 months.
@franklinstephen3268
@franklinstephen3268 2 жыл бұрын
Hi 👋 how are you doing?
@bobbibuttons8730
@bobbibuttons8730 7 ай бұрын
God bless all of you, my heart goes out to you. I am singing Mi Shebeirach - Prayer for Healing for you all.
@victoriaboerschinger2891
@victoriaboerschinger2891 Жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry you and your dad have to go through this disease. I look forward to the day in the future when no one will be sick Isaiah 33:25 and no one will be in pain or die Revelation 21:3,4 We need God’s kingdom which is the only solution to all our problems. Please take care.
@rachelt2482
@rachelt2482 2 жыл бұрын
Wow, great video. This is the reality of LBD. I’m going thru this with my older sister. She calls me multiple times a day every day with one crisis after another and wants me to come over to her assisted living facility. She’s a hoarder, very paranoid, thinks people are stealing from her and trying to poison her. Loses things constantly. Some days I don’t know how I can keep doing this. Thank god she can afford assisted living. It’s very stressful for the caregiver. Thanks for sharing your journey!
@pebroproductions
@pebroproductions 2 жыл бұрын
I know how it feels to not know if you can do it one more day. I got to that point several times. And yes, the blessing of assisted living is tremendous. I knew he was cared for .. and I knew I didn't have to be the only one. And LBD is so hard!!! Unpredictable, scary, behavioral, etc. I wish you ease as you go through it. ❤️
@brendarobertson5011
@brendarobertson5011 2 жыл бұрын
My mums the same :( x
@angelgaze9317
@angelgaze9317 2 жыл бұрын
God bless you and your sister ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹
@sabrinamaria2707
@sabrinamaria2707 2 жыл бұрын
My father suffers from hallucinations EVERYDAY!!! They are awful. He sees people in the house every day and argues with them for hours at a time... who are you, what are you doing in my house? This is my house, get out. Than he turns on me...you are stupid, you are gonna lose everything you let these people in. They dont care about you. It just goes on and on. You got two minutes to get out of here and then I'm gonna hit you until the blood comes out. Everyday I wish him dead. Can you imagine wishing your own father dead? It is an awful awful disease To suffer like this? 40 percent of all caregivers die before the dementia patient. Sometimes I text a friend and ask them to text me in the morning and if I dont respond to call the police because I am dead. This disease takes 8 years off your life. I wonder if I will live another year? 10 million people a year will be diagnosed with dementia. And, the way dementia is treated is the same way it has been treated over 100 years ago. I feel like crawling in bed and staying there for a week... but i can't. I work full time and then come home and have to deal with all of this. Today before I even left for work at 730 I changed 2 beds, washed 3 loads of clothes, made him breakfast, changed him, fed 5 cats, got myself together and a ton of other things. My stress level is out of this world along with my blood pressure.
@florida1795
@florida1795 Жыл бұрын
@@brendarobertson5011 mine too
@user-xe7mf1ld6z
@user-xe7mf1ld6z Ай бұрын
Wow. I needed this. My mom was just diagnosed with LBD and you have no idea how this helped me to listen to this. It has been a nightmare and I can relate to every single thing you said and showed. God bless you and your father and thank you for sharing this.
@retiredyeti5555
@retiredyeti5555 Жыл бұрын
My wife and I both worked in health care until our retirements. We both worked with Alzheimers patients and those with other forms of dementia. My wife retired 5 years before me, to care for her mother, who had Alzheimers Syndrome. Mom's doctor refused to listen to us when we told her about Mom's symptoms of paranoia and memory loss, and inability to clean house, because Mom would deny it and the MD did not do any cognitive tests. After we moved Mom out of her home, to ours, we got our MD to take her as a patient, and the correct diagnosis was then made. She lived with us until her death here at home with us by her side one morning, quite suddenly and unexpected. She needed assistance with cares, constant encouragement to take a bite, to chew and to swallow. She never became combative, but she could be extremely argumentative at times. We are grateful that we had training and experience with Alzheimers, but it can really be wearing on the main caregiver. We had Mom in a twice weekly daycare, so that my wife could get a break. Now, 10 years later, I am seeing the early signs of dementia in my wife, who is 5 years younger than me. As a retired nurse, at least I am not unaware of what is happening, and how to deal with it. Bless all those folks who are caregivers for their aging and demented parents or spouses - you are all secret angels.
@ToddLuvsGolf
@ToddLuvsGolf 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. I’m suffering with the same condition and am somewhere around Phase 3-4. My heart goes out to you and am very happy he has such a supportive daughter. I’m very concerned for what my kids will go through caring for me as this progresses.
@pebroproductions
@pebroproductions 2 жыл бұрын
Oh Todd, it's so wonderful that you are thinking ahead about that and that you are aware of your condition. This was not the case with my father. Of course, family dynamics are complicated and influenced by many things, but while I wish this hadn't been our journey, it has given me the opportunity to really become the daughter I want to me. At the end of it all, I can look in the mirror and feel good about my choices. Perhaps your children, or even one (statictically, daughters are twice a likely as sons to step up) will grow, learn and become a better person as a result of this journey. Best to you and your family!
@ToddLuvsGolf
@ToddLuvsGolf 2 жыл бұрын
@@pebroproductions Thank you for the kind words. As I’m sure you’d agree, I wish nobody has to go down the dementia journey at all. Someday I pray there will be a cure and families won’t feel the pain and anguish it causes. I still miss the Old Pueblo. Coming back in October for my 40th class reunion.
@pebroproductions
@pebroproductions 2 жыл бұрын
@@ToddLuvsGolf I do agree whole-heartedly. Glad you'll be here in Oct. when temps come down. I wish you and your loved ones as easy of a journey as possible.
@ToddLuvsGolf
@ToddLuvsGolf 2 жыл бұрын
@@pebroproductions Thanks Phyllis!!
@muttleysmith726
@muttleysmith726 2 жыл бұрын
Todd Brodsky...you are so brave for announcing Your sickness like you have, my hubby is going thru the same only mild at present 23 out of 30. We have said nothing at the moment to him But it is a little confusing for me as I don't know what to expect, as yet I can see some obvious changes, but what next?? Stay as well as you can Dear friend.
@Pink_143_6
@Pink_143_6 Жыл бұрын
My mom is in late stage Alzheimer’s. She is home and hospice is with us for support. I left my job to care for mom during this time. It’s a cruel and unforgiving disease. I love you Mom ❤️ TY for sharing this video and your expertise. It helps.
@passionatesingle
@passionatesingle Жыл бұрын
Like you I did the same,quit my job four years ago and I have been taking care of her since then. My dad at 93 cannot help her as she doesn't like a man she doesn't recognize giving her any aid. We shall never put our mum in a home as we want her showered with lots of love all the time.
@deborahlecomte6802
@deborahlecomte6802 2 жыл бұрын
I found this video of your Dad so interesting.I feel privileged to be able to listen to your video.
@pebroproductions
@pebroproductions 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. I hope it helps anyone who is coping with a family member of loved one who has this disease. 💜
@krisi3128
@krisi3128 10 ай бұрын
This was a very helpful video, thank you for sharing your story. I’ve been caring for my mother who’s 65 years old, she was misdiagnosed with altimeters 4 years ago and was recently diagnosed with LEWY body dementia in January 2023. Altimeters never made sense to us because it originally presented as a movement disorder with delusions, mood changes and hallucinations. She’s had symptoms for about 7-8 years now and I’ve been fortunate to be able to live with and care for her. Thank you for spreading awareness about this disease.
@pebroproductions
@pebroproductions 9 ай бұрын
I'm so glad if it was helpful at all. The lack of accurate diagnosis adds one more layer to the challenges. I hope this will improve in coming years. 💜
@Mickey-jn8hz
@Mickey-jn8hz Жыл бұрын
Just breaks my heart what people have to go through before finally dying….we should all be able to cut the cord when this happens. Once you are far along with dementia you can no longer do anything. We should be allowed to make a living will that we can be euthanized before it gets to this. I am 80 this year and fear this for my family. I would hate it for them to have to go through something like this and also for me to be afflicted and live in fear or disbelief until the end…..thank you for making this video and explaining every step of this awful disease or condition…..may this wonderful man finally rest in peace….
@Alfie198
@Alfie198 Жыл бұрын
I absolutely agree with you. I wouldn't be able to live with the reminders of how a loved one suffered so much towards the end. It is inhumane to allow such suffering when we are expected to care about people's welfare. Nothing short of cruel.
@AA123TD
@AA123TD 21 күн бұрын
I just saved my 80 year old father's life just to find out that he is suffering from Lewy Body Dementia and it wasn't just an UTI and pneumonia. His decline has been shockingly fast. I feel guilty for saving him because he lives daily in fear of his hallucinations and he can become violent. I hate seeing my father like this and being afraid of him too. 😭 I have told my children that if I have dementia and something goes wrong with my health to not prolong my life.
@maryschmidt9420
@maryschmidt9420 11 ай бұрын
Well done and very informative. My brother has LBD and was misdiagnosed with Alzheimer’s from 2016-23. He was recently diagnosed with LBD when he was admitted to a care center. He is only 67. His case seems rather severe as he has extreme anger and anxiety. The disease has taken away my sweet brother.
@sammie20
@sammie20 7 ай бұрын
until I found your channel as well as others...I would not have known about Dementia/Alheizmer etc. I couldn't get my darling husband to see a Specialist...He showed Parkinson motor and non motor signs for about 20 yrs. I was resentful and sometimes frustrated and thought he had no common sense ...and all the host of other symptoms...I am ashamed and asked for his forgiveness each time...He has been diagnosed after rushing him to emergency...my heart goes out to my husband...a very brilliant Scientist...He denies he is ill and it's ok...He is now in a Care center...I see him daily so we can have beautiful moments still...He was fearful, I would leave him...I assured him...I would not! He is grateful...he still remembers me but no other family or colleagues and friends...I will forever love him!!! Before Dementia and all other illness under that umbrella...I heard but never knew...I pray, he will NOT Suffer till the end...He is such a beautiful HUMAN...
@alfredgeorge317
@alfredgeorge317 2 жыл бұрын
I wish I had see this video four years ago. Our late mother was suffering with dementia.....it took four of us to care for her that we didn't have to put her in a facility. She passed away in her own bedroom surrounded by her things, and her loved ones. Obviously, you have done an excellent job sharing this information, but I would like to contribute one thing.... As moms situation worsened....we found out that CBD oil was helpful (we live in California), we checked with her treating physician, and he agreed it could be helpful.....it was. If you live in a state where CBD is legal, you may wish to speak with your loved ones treating physician in regards to that "medication", and find out if it could be beneficial to your loved one.
@sallyking8330
@sallyking8330 Ай бұрын
This video was so well done and will help many people dealing with this disease. Thank you.
@nicklutostanski9006
@nicklutostanski9006 22 күн бұрын
what a wonderfully kind person you are for making this video. my mother in law was diagnosed with mild cognitive decline (MCD) and it has been one of the most difficult, soul-ripping diseases I have had to experience. I struggle all the time about how to best support my wife in how to best support her mom, but I feel like I just fail all the time. Again, what a wonderfully kind person you are, for helping me to understand it all.
@myapurple9751
@myapurple9751 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your journey. I had to fight the system so hard to finally get my dad diagnosed with his frontal temporal lobe with Lewy Body dementia . He passed in 1999 . It was a rollercoaster of a journey for us all . The Rare Dementia Support group based in UK has excellent information available on line and they also hold conferences too. They are a very good resource to be aware of. Sending love to all of you travelling this journey. Be gentle with yourselves. Take one day at a time. Reach out for support . 💜
@rozgardner6541
@rozgardner6541 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing this journey. This described my dad so perfectly. sadly he passed on August 18th 2020 and due to covid, we could not be with him. He was in a lovely care home and although it was difficult to see such a strong competent man decline we just rolled with it .one day we visited he told us that they (the staff) would not allow him breakfast and he was upset and said I'm going get me out of here. when we spoke to staff they told us that dad would come for breakfast at 6 am as a lifelong early riser he was hungry. The kitchen staff would give him as much toast he could eat with a pot of tea as it was too early for a cooked breakfast, dad would then go back to bed for an hour and then show up at 7 am for breakfast again he was served toast and tea .8am again dad shows up I want the porridge to which he was given porridge tea and toast 9 am again he turns up and is served cooked breakfast. He was upset that he couldn't get his cooked breakfast at 6 am and this was the part that he remembers.so sad but the staff were so good to him and really cared so much 💔
@dorothycotten5231
@dorothycotten5231 Жыл бұрын
My dad had a stroke in 2017 and seemed to begin The symptoms of LBD. He has Seizures/hallucinations/anxiety/suspicion/anger/mischievous. I have been with him taking care of him since his stroke. I just called in hospice for him because he has really turned to a distant place. And it’s just too hard to try to get him to doctors anymore. I’m blessed the Lord has made a way for me to be able to care for my dad, as he cared for me in my life. My heart goes out to all the caregivers out there. No one really knows how much strength it takes to be you. May the Lord bless you all❤
@quil10it
@quil10it 2 жыл бұрын
Incredible. Thank you so much for sharing with us. You are a wise and caring woman. Your dad is so lucky to have you.
@pebroproductions
@pebroproductions Жыл бұрын
Thank you for taking time to leave this comment. It really means a lot to me 💜
@grammyb5216
@grammyb5216 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so very sorry. This horrible disease took my daddy in 2014. You are in my prayers. ♥️🤠🙏
@pebroproductions
@pebroproductions 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry. I imagine it was even harder in 2014 as it was even less known. It's a hard journey, isn't it? Thank you for keeping me in your prayers. That touches my heart! 💜
@chrisconnors7418
@chrisconnors7418 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the video. It highlights what so many go through but those who suffer from it and their family. My dad has Alzheimer’s and vascular dementia. He lost his ability to speak quite early. Before then he would horde keys as people were breaking in and stealing them. He’d even take vehicle keys in and get them copied. When he finally moved into a care home we found hidden keys all over his basement and garage workshops. Also lots of tape measures. So many tape measures. He was a brilliant mechanic (and great hobbyist woodworker) and could just look at something and figure out how it worked. Among other mechanics in town, he had a reputation of being able to fix the things others couldn’t. But as his disease progressed he couldn’t even figure out how to set up the awning on the trailer. Strangely, he wouldn’t remember a simple fix but was ingenious at finding the complicated “fix”. Eg He flicked a switch to turn the trailer water pump on, but then forgot the switch existed. To turn off the pump, he emptied the storage crawl space, crawled in, located the water pump wires, and cut them. My mom would come home and find several things in the house “fixed” in a similar destructive manner, often done through the basement wiring or plumbing. He’s in a wheelchair now. Mostly just stares into space or sleeps. He can still feed himself and has a healthy appetite. He’s 82 now, and likely won’t make it to 83 which is good because who he was is long gone. Not even the child-like person he became remains. But I have many of his woodworking creations. A table, cabinets, magazine racks, wooden games and toys, bird feeder, and many of his old tools that I take pride in using when I’m fixing things. I have newer tools but if my dad’s old tool works, I’ll use that. It makes me feel connected to him…and rather aptly some of the tools are ones his dad used so I like knowing I’m using the same tools my granddad and my father used. I don’t think I’ll grieve when his body dies because who he was died a while ago. I’ve done lots of grieving already for him, and now I get comfort in the things and lessons he left behind. I’ll be visiting him tomorrow with family but he will just stare into space so we’ll (mom, brother, me) recount good memories of his time with us. Maybe locked somewhere inside is a part of him who will understand us and recognize what his life meant to us, and he will feel at peace.
@sherryjohnson4307
@sherryjohnson4307 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you a million times. My husband and I moved in with my mother 4 years ago . She has Lewy body dementia and it is the most insane and heartbreaking thing I’ve ever seen. You are right that my mother is no longer there save a few lucid moments. She was the most logical human I’ve ever known and not being able to reason with her has been the hardest struggle. The hallucinations are mostly terrible as well as the delusions. I love what you said at the end- it’s the disease- not my mother and I hold dear the lifetime of memories I have of her being her.
@pebroproductions
@pebroproductions 2 жыл бұрын
I so share your description of this experience being the most insane and heartbreaking thing you've ever seen. Me too! And not being able to reason with person who was previously logical, was definitely one of the hardest parts. It didn't help us that he had been very stubborn throughout his life. That personality trait made it hard for us to see it as the disease instead of his personality. And doctors were of no help at all. The memory loss and repetitive conversations were so easy compared to the "behavioral disturbances". I applaud the courage I know it takes every single day to be your mom's caregiver. I've told so many people that this has been my opportunity to really define who I am as a daughter. Perhaps this applies to you too. I wish you comfort along the path. Thank you for sharing some of your story. 💜
@sherryjohnson4307
@sherryjohnson4307 2 жыл бұрын
@@pebroproductions Thank you so much. When I was dealing with mom hallucinating that she was being “told” she could not use her bathroom this morning I just remembered that I’m not alone and that someone somewhere was dealing with something similar. It gave me strength.
@sherryjohnson4307
@sherryjohnson4307 Жыл бұрын
@@suzymoon2067 thanks for the advice. Sadly my mama passed one month ago. Hospice allowed her to have a peaceful, pain free transition from this world to the next. Dementia sucks.
@dianeschaub4369
@dianeschaub4369 2 жыл бұрын
You did a lovely job compiling this video. I noticed three years ago that my husband had dementia and balance issues. It took another 2-1/2 years to get a diagnosis of Dementia with Lew Bodies with Parkinsonism. It is so frustrating for loved ones who want to help, and do not get any help from the medical field. I learned a lot of what you mentioned in your video from support groups. And yet there is so much more to this disease that is still unknown. I wish you the best on the journey with your father.
@pebroproductions
@pebroproductions 2 жыл бұрын
Not having a diagnosis or understanding that what was happening was a disease was in many ways the worst part. We couldn't stop him from self-destruction until we could step in legally ... and that took way too long. I wish you the very best with your husband. It is a horrible disease. 😢
@terrijob7818
@terrijob7818 2 жыл бұрын
Your video has given my husband and I better understanding of this dementia. His mother passed away a few weeks ago from this horrible disease. The different stages you describe are exactly the ones she exhibited. My mother-in-law was a nurse and extremely intelligent making this almost unbelievable to us. She went through every stage you covered in this video. She passed away just 3 months after diagnosis. I was very concerned about my husband's almost stoic reaction to her death. He in my mind was not not grieving as deeply as I thought he would be at her sudden death. When out of concern I asked him about his grief he quietly told me that he had been grieving for 3 months. He said “my mother died 3 months ago”.
@alexmorgan3435
@alexmorgan3435 2 жыл бұрын
Yes you lose people twice, firstly when they develop early onset dementia then when they actually pass.
@pattih2732
@pattih2732 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your video. My mom was bipolar, which later in her life had a medication reaction which brought on Lewy body and Parkinsonism (the specialist did nuclear brain scans and many other tests for the diagnosis) with practically over night body function shutdowns. Hers was bad, bad, bad. My heart broke and shattered so many times, especially getting a call in the middle of the night from nursing that my mom called 911 because someone was coming through the window to kill her. I won’t say who, but it was a family member she was frightened of. I’d talk her down from the ether for many hours, more than I can tell you all the while having my dad here living with me having vascular dementia. I was alone, no support or help and ran on no sleep for several years. There wasn’t help offered, not any to get. Anyhow, your video was interesting and I’m so happy your dad doesn’t have the really scary bad moments that some have. It’s so hard on them and us.
@pebroproductions
@pebroproductions 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing a small part of your story ... the details are so similar to my journey including that overwhelming experience of being in an endless, high level crisis (every day for years) and alone in my effort so save him from himself. It was one of the most isolate experiences of my life. And while he was always healthy in terms of mental health prior to dementia, when the was first being assessed, I had to tell the experts over and over that he had never been depressed, never been bipolar in his life. We also experienced some of those more violent hallucinations and paranoia. He would call the police because someone was trying to break into his house with a gun. His behavior is stable now but he functioned as a person with psychosis for several years. Again, thank you for sharing a part of your experience. It helps to connect with others who understand. ❤
@AZHITW
@AZHITW Жыл бұрын
I was the sole caretaker of my partner of 44 years, I kept him home until the end of stage 6, it was the hardest thing I've ever done; the incontinence, the hallucinations, the falls, the sundowner episodes every night. I didn't sleep, couldn't eat, couldn't leave the house for fear of what might happen. When he finally got violent, I had to call 911 and they said they couldn't leave him in the house with me because he might hurt me. He was admitted to the hospital for evaluation and moved to a care facility three weeks after his meds were stabilized, the progression of the dementia in four weeks was mind boggling, he lost his ability to walk, speak, eat unassisted, and at the end he could no long swallow. Death was a blessing; I'd lost my loving partner three years before his death.
@pattih2732
@pattih2732 Жыл бұрын
@@AZHITW it shows what a wonderful and selfless person you are. You did what so many couldn’t or wouldn’t. I don’t know about you, I have reflected back to the many years i was doing similar for my folks and there isn’t anything I would have done differently. It was the right thing to do. I hope you find solace, comfort and happiness.
@louisgabriel9155
@louisgabriel9155 10 ай бұрын
​@@AZHITW What you've gone through is so much like what I'm going thru now.Mine was Diagnosed with Early Onset 3yrs ago...Just sad😢 I'm so sorry that you went through all of that.Prayers❤
@user-hq5hs7bt2c
@user-hq5hs7bt2c 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for your last comment...he is not his disease. Your video was like watching my own Dad, still trying to figure out how to best help him...thanks.
@T.A.K.I.N
@T.A.K.I.N 11 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing. I particularly love the way you ended this… most important perspective in the grand scheme of things. Again, thank you.
@pebroproductions
@pebroproductions 9 ай бұрын
Thank YOU! And yes, I think of that photo, that man, and our lives. LBD was a horrible disease and not my father! 💜
@nan639sullivan4
@nan639sullivan4 2 жыл бұрын
So sorry you are going through this with your dad. My grandmother had Parkinson's induced Alzheimer's. She passed away many years ago. It's horrible to see someone you love in the throes of this disease. Thank you for sharing. I try to just remember the good old days, too.
@pebroproductions
@pebroproductions 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your kindness and for sharing a bit of your story. 💜
@noongourfain
@noongourfain Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video! My dad, who died of vascular dementia, had 10 flip phones. He stopped doing things he ALWAYS DID like picking his teeth with tooth pics. He started sleeping in his clothes. He forgot how to turn off the lights with the wall switch and would instead unscrew the bulbs, even the ones on the ceiling. This last one really got me! He was somehow smart enough to hide the ladder so I kept replacing light bulbs & and wondering why they were blowing out so fast! I could go on and on! He had so many lucid moments I would get confused. Many people thought he didn't have dementia....because of the lucid moments. I say dementia is catching because I had to mirror or go along with his crazy beliefs, because he was my dad and always such a dominant personality. If your family member is suspected of having dementia? Do your best to get the diagnosis ASAP. Has anyone had trouble getting the dementia diagnosis for a family member? It took me 9 months to get the diagnosis.
@rehellinen5649
@rehellinen5649 Жыл бұрын
"He is not his disease." Important to remember. Thank you for this video.
@pebroproductions
@pebroproductions Жыл бұрын
Yes, it's a reminder I've had to tell myself many times. Thank you for your kindness. 💜
@robpeel9414
@robpeel9414 8 ай бұрын
My father died four years ago with Parkinson’s and LBD. I do not think he forgot anything until the very end, he just couldn’t recall when he wanted to. I believe he was able to comprehend more than he was given credit for at times but many thoughts were lost between his brain and his mouth. Also, he was partially deaf so he was attempting to hear and comprehend simultaneously. His quality of life changed but was not lost. He never lost his love of music, the outdoors, the great grandchildren, and the pets. Once we went for a walk in the woods on the farm where he was raised and we had hunted. His whole demeanor changed, his gait changed. This was a serious activity for him. At times he could explain different aspects of music to me that I didn’t understand. He was able to recite a specific Bible verse he learned in school as a boy, but at times not recall my name. He still enjoyed eating at places like IHOPE and Waffle House, where the patrons are more likely to overlook suspensions in dining etiquette. We had to plan our outings, take a change of everything. Dementia is an awful disease but it is not the end of the world. The more family there is to help the better, and friends. If the afflicted becomes mean and hard to live with steps must be taken to deal with that. But that wasn’t our experience. We must deal with life the best we can. We take it as it comes and helping out a loved one for a little while isn’t too much to ask.
@torontokat54
@torontokat54 Жыл бұрын
Your vlog has helped me more than any other. My father is 95 years old and is in the same stage as your father. It is challenging for the caregiver and distressing for the person suffering from it. There is no rationality to what my father is going through. He has days where he is very angry and accusatory with me. His world only involves him now with no concept of the needs of others. I am his sole caregiver and I can say that I am lucky to have a very supportive husband although my husband doesn't really fully understand my father's condition. He still thinks that because my father is able to hold a conversation, although the conversation is full of delusions, that he is still able to understand and comprehend concepts. I have to continually remind him that my father doesn't have the ability to comprehend simple things anymore. My father will argue that things haven't been done when they in fact have and when I ask him to come and see that they have been done, he still tries to say that they haven't been done. He has no appreciation, no gratitude, no happiness in his life and everyday is a day that I have to be stronger than I have ever been in order to deal with him. Thank you so much for making this vlog, it is greatly appreciated.
@sheilastevens5608
@sheilastevens5608 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. This was fascinating and very well done. Blessings to you and your Dad.
@pebroproductions
@pebroproductions 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for taking a moment to leave this comment. It means a great deal to me.
@pay4fish
@pay4fish 2 жыл бұрын
I live with someone with Louy dementia. She is the nicest person but when she has a delusion her personality totally changes. I appreciate your work in compiling all this information. I will share this video with others. I can't stress enough to be kind to yourself. And use your pain to be stronger for your dad. God's peace.
@jeanmariebach2005
@jeanmariebach2005 2 жыл бұрын
Thank You for sharing your story.It helps for people to get a better understanding of this disease. I'm so sorry for your pain.
@alisonyoung7636
@alisonyoung7636 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for posting this excellent video. My grandma had Alzheimer’s, and my father’s doctor doesn’t believe me when I tell him that this disease is so very different from what my grandma had. My dad has a lot of autonomic nervous system dysfunction, the Parkinsonian rigidity, and the cognitive fluctuations. The caregiver fatigue is suffocating at times. I look forward to more videos if you feel so inclined to share.
@pebroproductions
@pebroproductions 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing a bit of your story. Yes, trying to tell others, especially family members from a distance, that this is NOT like other forms of dementia can be very hard. And your description of caregiver fatigue being suffocating is a perfect choice of words. I am still documenting my father's decline and will likely share more. 💜💜💜
@gloriamaggs5453
@gloriamaggs5453 3 ай бұрын
You are so right....your father is not his disease! How wonderful that you have lovely memories of your father! Thanks for sharing.
@pamabbey3057
@pamabbey3057 2 жыл бұрын
I am sorry for your pain and I thank you for this video. Sending good thoughts your way.
@christinaworth566
@christinaworth566 3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing your story. This is the journey I am on right now with my Dad, and this video was very helpful ❤🙏
@florida1795
@florida1795 Жыл бұрын
God bless everyone that’s living with this disease and the families who are heartbroken helping their loved ones through it. I always wonder when the last time I actually saw my mom aside from her disease. Just like this video says, like they were taken from you over night. This video along with all the comments, do give a true description of what it’s like. My mom was diagnosed with Corticobasal Syndrome, with an overlap of LBD. She’s in her 60s and it’s taking her so fast. For what we see in her it’s a cross between Dementia and Schizophrenia with her major symptom being Aphasia. More attention needs to be focused on these neurological diseases in order to find something to slow it down, and maybe one day cure. Thank you for sharing your journey. God bless your Dad, he’s a strong man for enduring this disease. Prayers to you and your family 🙏🏻
@drusydrama
@drusydrama Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for making this video and passing on this information. My aunt had LBD and passed away last year. The disease progressed in the way you described.
@elainepoos7914
@elainepoos7914 Жыл бұрын
That is an excellent video. It is so sad 😞 anyone has to go threw such a terrible illness. From Wisconsin, take care, you did such a great job explaining it.
@teresapribilski1493
@teresapribilski1493 2 жыл бұрын
Mom was diagnosed as early onset at age 95 with LBD. She lives with me and we now have hospice coming in several times a week. The other day I didn't know if it was a UTI or another hallucination. The roller coaster ride breaks my heart but I keep a brave face for her even if she doesn't know who I am at times. The most heartbreaking part was her depression when she realized something was wrong
@pebroproductions
@pebroproductions 2 жыл бұрын
Yes! The depression! He used to say that he was going to kill himself if he could find a way out of his memory care facility. And I understand the ups/downs related to UTI's. Those cause falls and hallucinations so it's difficult to recognize. And I know that brave face all to well. It must be hard to keep it for so long while she lives with you. Thank you for sharing this part of your story. 💜
@pyrmom
@pyrmom Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this personal story. The last sentence is, for me, very important. In my previous work I have creating teachings for clinical staff to remember the ‘person inside the patient’. I’m so glad that you try to honor him in this way.💕
@suzannetaylor9110
@suzannetaylor9110 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. My husband is 84 and has some dementia. The way you explain what is happening with your Dad will help me a lot. Praying for you guys
@pebroproductions
@pebroproductions Жыл бұрын
Praying for you too.💜 It's a hard and unexpected road. I'm glad you have the knowledge to better deal with it all.
@vikimoody8783
@vikimoody8783 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this. Very helpful. May God bless you all during this very difficult time 💖
@suzannewhitaker3507
@suzannewhitaker3507 Ай бұрын
Thanks for the video. It helps to see how he presents.
@susanconner6586
@susanconner6586 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry this is happening to you and your family. For what good it may do, you and your father are in my prayers.
@disco3112
@disco3112 2 жыл бұрын
Currently going through this with my father in law- he’s skipped straight through to stage 6 in about 10 weeks :( the hospital treatment is awful and we’re still fighting to get him moved to somewhere secure. Thank you for this
@pebroproductions
@pebroproductions 2 жыл бұрын
The hospitals/doctors were often barriers, not supports. The decisions are impossible ones ... how do I save a man from himself so he can live a life he no longer wants or even understands? Impossible. And good memory care places are hard to find. I wish you success in finding a place for him to be.
@TheLitehart1
@TheLitehart1 Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for sharing with us your father's experiences with LBD, and your own story related to that. There's so much I can relate to. My father officially had a Parkinsons diagnosis, but it bothers me to this day that it was almost certainly not a fully accurate diagnosis. I saw how rapidly his cognition declined (he'd been very highly intelligent, so the shock of seeing this was hard to digest) and after doing some research, I felt very sure that he actually had LBD. No treatment he had ever received seemed to benefit him and I'll always wonder if this was why.
@Alfie198
@Alfie198 Жыл бұрын
What an honest video this is, showing such love for your father. It is such an awful disease. Sufferers need as much support and love as possible. It could happen to anyone and no one asks for it. Thank you for educating me on LB dementia.
@JamesMartin2014
@JamesMartin2014 6 ай бұрын
Thank you this is so much more helpful than you know! My step father was just diagnosed with LBD last month (after a year of navigating the wonderful medical system we have in the US) and we estimate him to be in stage 5. He has gone from not being able to remember how to get home and losing his job as a truck driver to tremors, hallucinations, and a severe cognitive decline in the span of 8 months. It's good to hear your persepctive. Thank you for sharing.
@JustIdeas000
@JustIdeas000 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this fantastic clip. What you have described is exactly what so many of us have seen with our loved one with LBD. Your calm descriptions, documented evidence and explanations are very helpful.
@pebroproductions
@pebroproductions 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for taking a moment to leave this comment! This journey so isolating and without the dx, we had no idea what was happening or what to do. I hope that our journey can help ease the suffering of others who are experiencing the same thing. 💜
@paulmenard4114
@paulmenard4114 2 жыл бұрын
@PhyllisBrodsky I am so saddened to see what your Dad went through; you are an Angel for all you did and especially sharing such a personal story. God Bless You and your family and May God watch over your Dad… 🙏🏼
@pebroproductions
@pebroproductions Жыл бұрын
😭Thank you!
@jodilyssy4460
@jodilyssy4460 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. I am going through this with my Mom and finding such comfort that others are having similar experiences.
@michele2855
@michele2855 2 жыл бұрын
Very thoughtful video. Thank you so much for sharing your experience with your dad.
@pebroproductions
@pebroproductions 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for taking a moment to reply. It means a lot to me.💜
@christinemann6027
@christinemann6027 2 жыл бұрын
Thank for sharing your family’s story
@MO_xina
@MO_xina 11 ай бұрын
Thank you sooo much for this. ❤ seriously you are brave for sharing this. This helps others to better understand a tough situation. I know it helped me.
@pebroproductions
@pebroproductions 9 ай бұрын
I'm so glad. I find it comforting to know that I can take my own struggles and help others in any way. 💜
@connieparuch3407
@connieparuch3407 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video from a daughter's perspective. My dad had his first hallucination about 20 years ago (that was his only symptom for about 12 years and they were rare)...he was not officially diagnosed until 6 years ago. The part where your dad is playing the piano and he says a nonsensical question and then you answer him so quickly trying to appease him. I do this with my dad all the time. Trying to figure out what answer he wants or what to say back sometimes is very challenging. My dad knows me but does not always understand my role in his life. He knows I am "one of the most important ones" so really that is all that matters! It has been so hard to watch him dissolve away! God bless you and your dad!
@pebroproductions
@pebroproductions Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this post. Your description of your experience is so similar to mine. In the future, I hope to work with families and loved ones around that communication part. It can be so challenging but it's everything. Best to you!💜
@jesusbermudez1764
@jesusbermudez1764 9 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing. My sister, 73, has just been diagnosed with LBD, a month ago. This is really hard and your information helps me understand this disease.
@lucillewilson8288
@lucillewilson8288 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for helping make sense of such a horrible disease. As a fellow family member, you feel stuck on the side-lines, not knowing what to expect next or what is the new normal each day.
@pebroproductions
@pebroproductions 2 жыл бұрын
SO stuck! Not knowing what's happening or what's next. I wish you an easy road to travel. ❤️
@CaribbeanQueen72xx
@CaribbeanQueen72xx 2 жыл бұрын
This is a very educational video, and very hard to watch at the same time ; Hard to see your hero going through such changes in life and can’t do much about it smh . Thank you for sharing with us ♥️🙏🏾
@pebroproductions
@pebroproductions 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for taking a moment to write this comment. Thank you for watching it even if it was hard to see. There is comfort in having others witness the journey. 💜💜💜
@ConsciousConversations
@ConsciousConversations Ай бұрын
Fantastic chronicle of lived experience. Tremendously valuable share❤❤❤❤❤
@ConsciousConversations
@ConsciousConversations Ай бұрын
I’m in Gilbert right now. Curious to chat .. I think my email might be in my page or I can leave it here if you are interested ❤ I really appreciate the way you speak your perspective and questions you pose ❤
@heathleehol
@heathleehol Жыл бұрын
My dad’s journey started 9 yrs ago after he suffered a heart attack and had to have a quintuple bypass. During the first year following his surgery, he began shuffling his feet. A year afterward they mentioned it to the cardiologist who referred him to a neurologist and he was diagnosed with Parkinsonism. Similar to others here, my dad was an electrical engineer until his forties when he left that career and went into the ministry. He pastored for almost 3 decades until he retired 4 years ago and since then he has declined so rapidly. His mobility is almost nonexistent. He has to use a rollator to walk but that is becoming difficult too. He has had hallucinations for a few years. My mom recently ran across LBD and thinks he has it as well, but it’s symptoms mirror Parkinsonism so much. One thing he has been experiencing lately that I’ve not read linked to either is that he starts his day good, but his condition worsens as it gets evening time and now when he stands to move from his lift chair to his rollator (my mom rolls him to bed) he has been having blackout seizure type episodes. Smelling salts or just comforting him until it passes is all we can do. We have checked his blood pressure during those episodes and it’s normal. He has an appointment with his neurologist in a few weeks and it has also been mentioned to his home health nurse, so hopefully we’ll have answers soon. Just sad to hear so many enduring this terrible disease with loved ones. Prayers for each of you.
@KeithCooper-Albuquerque
@KeithCooper-Albuquerque Жыл бұрын
The diagnosis should help. My wife's father passed away from LBD on 8 April, 2023. He had it for about nine years. He was diagnosed in 2015, and was put on Carbidopa/Levodopa and that helped his cognition a great deal. I hope the visit with the neurologist is fruitful. Good luck!
@suemount6042
@suemount6042 2 жыл бұрын
My heart goes out to you my dad had Lewy body his hallucinations towards the end were horrific. I wish I had had something like this video back then to refer to seeing your dad reminds me so much of mine.
@pebroproductions
@pebroproductions 2 жыл бұрын
Like you, I also wished I would have had anything that could have explained in any way what were were going through. We didn't have answers or support. I know you understand. Thank you so much for leaving your comment. It really means a lot to me. 💜
@carlinesimeon9440
@carlinesimeon9440 Жыл бұрын
Absolute great video! Thank you so much for sharing. It is clear, simple, to-the-point and very informative and practical. I've been an Occupational Therapist for over 15 years and everything seems accurate.
@pebroproductions
@pebroproductions Жыл бұрын
Thank you for that feedback! I hope it helps anyone who is learning, suffering, or just needing acknowledgment. 💜
@krzysamm7095
@krzysamm7095 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this information and your story. As a RN with a cardio/thoracic surgical step down back ground the doctor just assumed I understood what he was saying. First off my specialty was heart and lungs and secondly as a daughter I am not necessarily thinking like a nurse and that was frustrating. I am fortunate in that as a RN I am able to find the info I needed and that I know how to advocate for what is needed.
@chrissiewindsor
@chrissiewindsor Жыл бұрын
This is incredibly helpful, thank you. My Mum has both vascular dementia & Alzheimers, she “sundowns” which was very weird at first, she’d phone me & we’d have a lovely phone chat, then she’ll immediately call my sister & call me horrible names! We have family code when she’s being angry, we just look at each other & say, “That’s not my Mum.” Thank you so much.
@pebroproductions
@pebroproductions Жыл бұрын
Now in the last stages and with good meds, he doesn't sundown any more but when he did, anything could happen. And like you, he said terrible things to me and about me with family members. Still, we keep going, don't we? Thank you for sharing a bit of your story!💜
@soniabembry4653
@soniabembry4653 2 жыл бұрын
This clip was a great tutorial for me. Thank you for this.
@pebroproductions
@pebroproductions 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad that it was useful to you!
@clare5805
@clare5805 Ай бұрын
This is so very interesting. Thank you
@gailtester8749
@gailtester8749 2 жыл бұрын
This just popped up on my feed and I was thankful for it. My husband has PD with LBD. He is sharing many of the same symptoms as your dad. I have subscribed and will be interested in seeing his progression if you care to share. My husband is in Stage 5 Parkinson's, and about Stage 4 LBD, I think. Bless you and thank you for sharing. Very helpful!
@pebroproductions
@pebroproductions 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for leaving this comment. I'm continuing to document his decline and plan to create more videos in hopes of reaching others who are sharing this impossible journey. Thank you for encouraging me! 💜
@josephgagatch7462
@josephgagatch7462 Ай бұрын
My Dad exactly this. So sad and so hard. Video was helpful thank you
@laurels.6532
@laurels.6532 9 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing. This is one of the best videos I have seen on this subject. My mother had what we believe to be LBD, although no doctor said that until a couple of months before she passed. We had lots of paranoid delusions and were told she had major depression with paranoid features. She has been gone 2 years now and I am still waiting on the pathology report from the brain bank to verify LBD. The delay is still due to COVID. Prayers for you and your dad. It is so hard. We are in Tucson too. ❤
@denisehoffmann5006
@denisehoffmann5006 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experience.
@terywetherlow7970
@terywetherlow7970 2 жыл бұрын
Excellent video!
@eedgerton769
@eedgerton769 Жыл бұрын
Your father is very present within you. He is still here, and the world still knows him, just in a different form - through you.
@CrystalParanormally
@CrystalParanormally 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for your video. I am just now learning about LBD. My Father is almost 91 and he is changing so quickly now that I wanted to get some kind of idea of what is to come. He hallucinates and has become combative at times and that is a shock to me because it's not my Father. Thank you for the information. It's very helpful.
@jeannieschweck364
@jeannieschweck364 9 ай бұрын
This was amazing! You did such a good job. I
@kamhart
@kamhart 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!! …thank you… your father would be proud… you have helped me so very much….I know you will touch & help many more….
@pebroproductions
@pebroproductions Жыл бұрын
Thank you for taking time to say that. It really does mean a lot to me. 💜
@Courtpie443
@Courtpie443 Жыл бұрын
Amazing documentation of such a cruel disease ❤❤❤
@margaretclark3657
@margaretclark3657 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your journey of heartbreak withh us Having lived with a person diagnosed with Paranoid Schizophrenia I have noticed similarities in behavior. I wish you and your family strength for whatever lies ahead. It takes a lot of patience and )ove and understanding to have to deal with a situation like this.🙏💝
@pebroproductions
@pebroproductions 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this reply. You're right ... it was very similar to paranoid schizophrenia. Except for the memory loss, he was functioning like a person with a severe mental illness. We didn't know about Lewy body back then and now, in retrospect, it all makes sense. I wish I would have known as it would have made it easier. I'm grateful that the worst of of it is behind us. I wish you the very best. 💜
@jkgermany2182
@jkgermany2182 Жыл бұрын
Thank you. That is my dad. But they still know who we are and trust us. That is so comforting right now. The rivastigmine patch helps my dad a lot ... All the best Julia
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