gender neutral way to describe a period: LUNAR BLOOD RITUAL

My gender accidentally burnt in the oven after watching this compilation 😬😬

The "Heterosexuals are so slow" is such a mood, one I get every time I walk with my cis straight friends 🤣🤣🤣

Still trying to get my gender pure enough that it comes out blue. JESSIE! WAKE UP, JESSIE! WE'VE GOT TO COOK GENDER, JESSIE!

Man it makes me so upset that these well informed and emotional videos have to use the words “unalive” and “grape”

12:59 god that is so true. you're not the one hiding in the closet- hiding away in secrecy. its everyone else around you shoving you in.

For the stuff around 20:40. My boyfriend tells me in all honesty that he knows and values me as a non-binary person but since I am male presenting lot of times, it’s hard for him to not SEE me as a man. And I think that is valid, since it’s not easy to overcome what you experienced and learned about gender for over 40 years. Especially when it’s subconscious things like how a person looks and how you connect it to gender. I appreciate his effort because I know he constantly gives a lot to overcome himself - and also because our native language doesn’t offer gender neutral options, it’s harder to express the relationship to others without giving a big essay.

That first moony.maroon one really hit home. As a trans lesbian in a long-standing relationship with a now trans man, I have been PLAGUED by a need to justify and rationalize my affection for a person I cared about long before either of us were out of the closet even to ourselves. It is hard to reconcile this, and while I like to think I've made some progress, it's nice to be reminded that fitting into a box is not my job.

12:26 yess! I HAAAATE it when people assume everyone else in the room is straight!!! I relate to this one so much!

"Female has always been less than a person" is such a powerful statements

9:15 as a non-binary person who is good at math & wears ties this just made me feel so much better (:

I'm only 2 mins in and this is THE MOST RESPECTFUL tiktok compilation I've seen so far. The (*) and links, the pronouns, the loud noise warning... thank you so much

Never really got the idea that men shouldn't cook or bake because some of the most famous chefs are men

I hope my gender finishes cooking soon

"it took me a three minute taylor swift song to get there" story of my life right there

I cannot even describe how glad I am that this video was in my recommended. I am having one of the most dysphoric days I've had in a while and this video is healing a part of me 💗🤍💜🖤💙

That last one is how I'm coming to feel being transfemme-enby I want to be perceived as androgynous/feminine, but I have lived experiences and genuine damage that only other people who have lived as men have felt. These spaces are supposed to group people who've had shared experiences with one another, so if a trans man needs to go to a women only space, they should not be excluded, or if they need to be in men only spaces, those should be available as well. Trans people exist outside of the constructs society has been built around. If care is truly taken to help us, then the boundaries must be made fluid to allow us to get the support we need, not our identities be made rigid to place us into our roles.

Ha joke’s on you my gender’s already out of the oven. It’s just cooling.

I love the pronouns in the corner so no one will get them confused, more people should do that 😊

thanks for the loud noise warning i actually appreciate it more than people might say its needed sorry if the structure of my sentence was bad, still learning and happy to learn tips

I transcribed this section of p.45, from Females by Andrea Long Chu. (7:32) "In the United States, the man known as the father of gynaecology, J. Marion Sims, built the field in the antebellum South operating on enslaved women in his backyard, often without anaesthesia-or, of course, consent. As C. Riley Snorton has recently documented, the distinction between biological females and women as a social category, far from a neutral scientific observation, developed precisely in order for the captive black woman to be recognised as female-making Sim's research applicable to his women patient in polite white society-without being granted the status of social and legal personhood. Sex was produced, in other words, precisely at the juncture where gender was denied. In this sense, a female has always been less than a person" (Andrea Long Chu, 2019)

I always just describe my period as "The Blood Moon has Risen!!!"

20:30 yeah speaking from personal experience yeah this is an issue 😭 can relate too hard. Honestly I think it's cause there are a lot of spaces in the gamer community that are actually really toxic, because a lot of "soft bi gamer boys" really have a lot of subtle misogyny and internalized homophobia and they think it's okay to use slurs because their friend knew a goldfish who fit in that marginalized group one time and he said it's okay.

I personally don't know if a relationship w/ a lesbian would make me feel dysphoric [on the one hand, being w/ a WLW & I'm not a "W", on the other, more likely to enjoy my body w/o assigning meaning outside the scope of them being bodyparts]. But... That last person really opened my eyes to why a relationship like that might make sense for some people. I appreciate having that wake-up call & I'll be informing myself more on that subject. 💕

Holy shit! That rock-in-shoe analogy hit hard, even though it sounded kinda silly at first lol

okay im from Poland so US laws don't affect me but I watched the interview with Jon Stewart and the Arkansas Attorney General recommended in one of the tiktoks and it's sooooo good i can't!!! His calm disappointed parent/teacher approach works so well, he knows how to argue with stupid people - you literally can't watch the video and say that HE'S the incompetent one!! so thank you for putting a recommendation of that video in this compilation, because it made me really happy!!

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12:55 this person is so well-spoken!!!! YES!! THIS!!!!!!!

I'm so proud of everyone in the video and the comments. 💚

32:40 bffr. as a lesbian who used to identify as a trans man (until i realized that label no longer fit me) this response is fucking ridiculous. being a lesbian means a non-man who is attracted to non-men. trans men are men. if you use he/him pronouns and identify as a lesbian because you don't identify as a man that's fine because pronouns do not equal gender. but MEN cannot claim to be lesbians, including trans men. the creator is just throwing around buzzwords but what he's saying makes absolutley no sense. (TW very brief mentions of @$$ault) the creator's second response at 35:49 is COMPLETELY deflecting from the original question (which was a very valid point; men are not and under NO CIRCUMSTANCES should be allowed in lesbian spaces). his point about how lesbians won't allow trans men into OUR communities because we're scared of cis men @$$aulting us makes no sense. we don't allow non-lesbian women into our spaces because they're not lesbians, which is the same exact reason we don't allow trans men into our spaces. BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT LESBIANS, THEY ARE MEN. if a cis man were to identify as a lesbian everyone would tell him that men can't be lesbians, and very rightfully so. i don't see how it is at all different from trans men. if you're going to call me transphobic and say that i'm trying to "turn trans men into lesbians" please don't. just because i no longer identify as a man doesn't mean any other trans men should detransition if they dont't want to; i'm not "forcing lesbianism" on anyone. please do some reasearch and listen to people like me. lesbians are shit on so much by cishets and even other members of the queer community and we just want a break and a safe space free from men and non-lesbians, which has never been provided. if i came off as rude, which i'm sure i did, i'm just exhausted from all the blatant lesbophobia and erasure constantly present. thank you for at least hearing me out and i'm happy to discuss civilly with anyone with opposing opinions.

thank you for the last ones! it was important for me to hear and understand as a trans nb person! statistics was also impressive! thank you! have a good day 💚

tiktok at 20:10 UGH. I KNOW this. Here's a rant. I'm non-binary. I use they/them pronouns. I'm fempresenting and AFAB. I'm 16 y/o and not out to anyone other than my sister and most of my friends, a ton of acquaintances who have been told I'm trans ignore it/use the right stuff for like a singular minute and then go back to the incorrect stuff and I do not have the energy or the space to correct them, and even if I did they would probably hate it and not want to talk to me anymore (I won't care about them after graduation, so idc, they choose to ignore who I ACTUALLY am and only believe a fake presentation, that's their problem not mine). Also, safety, I don't want to be outed to ppl who will call me slurs, I'd rather not increase my mental health issues and decrease my self-esteem. Of course, these acquaintances are cishet people. Although plenty of queer people fuck up all the time, don't apologize for it on their own, etc. I happen to be bisexual. I get a lot of crushes that are cishet white males, unfortunately. It's not that I'm not attracted to any other person, that just happens to be how it is. Ethnicity isn't really important though, since a lot of cultural and racial backgrounds carry the whole gender binary thing, I am attracted to anyone of any ethnicity, but the majority of people in my environment are white. Why this is unfortunate is because the vast majority of those cishet males would NEVER accept me. I KNOW I will not be seen as who I am by most people I'm attracted to. And if they do, it would take a lot of work on both parts. I understand why and it's systemic instead of personal, but I don't want to do that work. I don't want to have to expect, every single time I meet someone, to have to explain in great detail who I am, over and over and over again, with the threat of losing my interest. And seeing them fall out and give up- which people have done. People complaining about how they have to memorize new names and pronouns. It hurts. I like the idea of being the feminine role in a relationship in some situations. But I know, because of the sex I was assigned at birth, the genitals and features I bare or lack, how I present, and the lack of energy and ability to change people's minds or fight them on my basic fucking identity, that the SECOND I am perceived as feminine, I will only ever be perceived as a girl, and that man will always be straight. I hate it. It's how it is, but I hate it. I'm lucky to not have as much as gender dysphoria as a lot of other trans people. But I will always, ALWAYS struggle with social dysphoria, especially if I never change how I look. I'm FINE with how I look, because I can see ME, the KADE. But others look and they see my deadname. It's a terrible feeling and such a thing to confront when approaching dating and social life in general.

My gender's done, so now I'm putting in the cookies. At least the oven was already preheated.

I put my gender in the airfryer

I bought “How To Excavate a Heart” because of this vid and I’m so excited to read it! I’m always up for a sapphic romance novel.

im SO glad i found your channel because the amount of effort that you put into the compilations is so refreshing just the detail of the pronouns for everyone or the warnings that you'll put and you also give resources and credits for queer people to use and that just AMAZING honestly its these things that really make a video and creator special and enjoyable like most compilation channels are extremely lazy with their videos and get millions of view so even though you do get that much I think yours are 100x better!!

I forgot to turn the oven on, so my gender is still liquid🫣

The cis boyfriends referring to their nonbinary partners as specifically women is so true. My nb friend has seen multiple cis men now who refer to them as specifically a woman and it's always so frustrating. Just respect your partner ffs

I always appreciate the care you put into these compilations. Thank you!

OKAY BUT THE "not a girl" THE ICONIC LINE ISTG

hey, i know that there’s a lot of comments on this video already but i wanted to mention this really cool trans documentary i found on netflix, it’s called the dreamlife of georgie stone and it’s really short, like half an hour and i thought it was really good and i know everyone here would probably be interested in stuff like this so yeah i would really recommend people check it out :]

i almost choked on my cocoa when i heard "gaygle maps" /pos

So well-put about the closet!

I thought I put my gender in the oven but I might have lost it... Still sending out search parites :l

4:11 this happened to me once google said it should be a 6 minute walk but i get there in 3 minutes±

I wish my gender was reversible bread, shape shifting from dough to fluffy bread and back again. But it's so hot right now that my gender bread keeps going bad and I have to start over.... I'm genderfluid and it's too hot in my city so I can't wear my binder without dying inside

For clothes if you have a target their kid clothes are really cool and usually come in big sizes

10:49 omg surprise Semler cameo !! she's a queer Christian musician, and I highly recommend checking out their music, he's cool as hell! it's been a year and I still cry to their song Late Bloomer sometimes

My gender is slow cooking in a crock pot with some potatoes

33:30- I’m not trying to invalidate this person’s clear thoughts and experiences, but from what I’ve seen, most of the people who don’t like the idea of trans men and lesbians being together are not weird cis people: they’re trans men. Myself included. It just feels uncomfortable to me and the fact that the guy got so angry at people who just exhibit genuine discomfort at the idea of a lesbian in a relationship with a man who just happens to have a vagina not cool. And I don’t mean he/him lesbians. Am I in the wrong here? Is there something I’m missing?

Nah my gender is still defrosting, not even in the oven yet

This is an amazing and considerate compilation, thank you so much❤

love how the back half of this video was just educational, thank you Andromeda !

*Billie Joel plays* We didn't build the closet!

god the way you edit your videos is SO respectful.. THANK YOU with the whole of my big gay heart 🙏💖

Its pretty cool how in the LGBTQ community, the only rules are -do what makes you happy -love who you love -be you

Sometimes I wish the world was silent, then I remember that music is one of the reasons I'm still alive right now. Though, I started learning signl anguage yesterday. I learned the alphabet, number, and whatever the heck serial numbers are. It showed a picture of a barcode, but I don't know why the difference in numbers needs to be specified, if anyone else knows though.

You are the greatest. I live off these compilations

Thank you SO MUCH for the audio warning!!! ❤

The last 2 tiktoks really made me think a lot about gender - sexuality from a different angle but Im still a bit confused.. Are there any trans men or lesbians in the comments who could share their own views/experiences on the topics of these tiktoks?For context, i am a trans man who's very much binary and straight , and who personally wouldn't choose to date a woman identifying as lesbian. But I respect other lgbt+ people's identities and experiences and I would love to understand better.

You have very quickly become my new favourite compilation channel

I had several lengthy conversations with myself about parts of moony.maroon's videos, some of which were disagreeing with points and explaining why, but I very much appreciate the overall message. Though I don't think most cishet people would really understand half of what was talked about, would need far more explaining, but that's what length conversations are for.

my gender is in the target boy’s section

I love the respect that goes into these compilations. It’s a good way to get TikTok content without having to log on to TikTok all the time.

4:50 I dont have tiktok somebody please I NEED you to go tell this woman her tied back hair is literally some of the most beautiful I have ever seen.

yoo we have the same name!! I have never heard of or met anyone else named Andromeda ever so I was slightly shocked when I read the description

I can't thank you enough for making these compilations. This is incredible and overwhelming. I never thought I could learn so much from these short clips, but a lot of this info is new to me. I think lgbtq+ community will always be able to find surprising ideas that make humanity better. I'm proud that I belong to this everchanging community, and I hope my actions can protect and enrich it

This comp was awesome! I really loved the last two and I felt like they were so important to hear. I'm trying to make my feminism more intersectional and understand more about the queer experience and how not everything has a "box" to fit in and how things are complex. That creator worded things so great and helped me understand so much more!

1:52 I experienced this. I could hardly look at myself in the mirror before I got my hair cut

i love the fact that you included two two nosy meerkats guests in this comp! we got clara and sunny(twice), meerkats!

those last 2 videos.. UGH /pos that’s the good stuff💞💞

4:25 her normal hair give me vibes of the hair of afrodite/venus in that paint of her birth where she is in a shell, and totally her hair when is taid is how I imagine the hair of helen of troy would be like

10:13 I love this lady she’s great.

I'm now going to ask everybody when they name a distance "what's that in gay miles?"

3:26 Summer also does music now and she's really good at it from my opinion so you should look at her other work!

Thanks for the loud noise warning!

Thé tips for transmasc dressing is great + I gravitate towards those kinds of jeans already so that’s cool

20:47 I remember learning about cabesa de vaca in elementary school like he was the good guy

Oh how wonderful it was to hear the words "Trans men are not our oppressors" from someone other than me shouting it to non-listening ears. So so often, trans men's oppression is ignored, and never spoken about in our community. The relationship that trans men have with male privilege is so so so complex, but it is so often just boiled down to "once you pass, you are an oppressor" which is just not true. For example, in social situations especially, trans men have the capacity to be horribly misogynistic towards cis and trans women alike, and that needs to be discussed. But the systemic power we have as trans people is non existent, and we simply don't have the capacity to be structurally oppressive to other people. And these are just a few examples of the power we don't have vs the power people think we have, which they use to demonize us. We still suffer when it comes to reproductive justice, invisibility in trans discussions and media, infantilization from terfs and fetishization, and like the video said, some of the highest SA rates by gender and transness. We have things completely unique to our experience that hurts us that no one talks about, and it is so refreshing to see another person talk about it, even if that person is also a trans man (meaning, I wish non-trans men would advocate for us too, because as it stands, I feel very alone in this discussion because people simply don't know/understand what we go through as a result of our invisibility) tldr; transmasculine oppression unique to our experiences needs to get talked about so much more than it is in order for the complete liberation of the trans community, and even for our LGB+ siblings

You came right out of the gate with what I assume to be Lewberger and that's just fun.

18:10 Sing it from the roof tops my dude. That last message is so true. P.S. this won't send you to the beginning of the clip.

The last one was kind of healing. Trans people need a safe haven really bad. Excluding them out of fear of them being predatory is not even statistically disproportionate, but also coming from a place of privilege. It isn't trans peoples' job, to make everybody around them comfortable, of they aren't actually hurting anyone. It isn't MY job. I still do it a lot, but I should know that I am not responsible for others' wellbeing.

11:53 - the end of that tiktok All I do in that situation is when a woman brings up boyfriend/crush, I will respond talking about my girlfriend/crush (using she/her pronouns or really whatever they go by other than he/him) and wait for them to ask or just leave it alone

I didn't go the cooking route I'm pickling my gender instead 😆

The last one got me so rallied up like preach the the f#cking music drowning out the last part, I was like seriously man T~T why

I feel called out 8:22 as someone who never is going to have bio kids 😅

Fantastic comp

1:31 the good place sound is so perfect😭

oh sh*t I left my gender in the oven!!!

3:50 WHAT IS THE NAME OF THIS BOOK!? I NEED TO READ IT!

My gender sticks are frying I'll just take a nap while fry...

Now I need to read that book about black, deaf, gay faries

12:37 (to the tune of we didn't start the fire) We didn't build the closet, it was cishet white men, now we're doomed to silence Facts in the form of a joke is my favorite activity

32:00 omg thank you so much

the last two are SO GOOD and SO IMPORTANT PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF GOD WATCH AND LISTEN AND READ

*when your gender is still cooking* now I know why I suck at cooking 🤔

My friends all forgot my deadname until I ran away from home and it ended up all over Facebook sooooo

20:27 shut up 'cause I know my relationship is that, I know he's straight and doesn't see me as guy (non-binary trans masculine [he/they]) but he treats me so nicely and always respects my pronouns, and doesn't says he has a girlfriend but a partner instead, and buys me food, and makes a 40min trip six days a week just to see me, but he told me he doesn't see me as a guy and that makes me wanna end the relationship sometimes but I don't know, 'cause I love him and it is such a nice relationship, we support each other in everything and talk and watch movies and cuddle… I don't know, mate…

13:35 the thing about the pants is that it only works if your legs aren't thick and your hips aren't so wide compared to your waist that it's hard to find pants without tailoring them at any point- I'm a size M at my waist and leg length but the rest is a size L or above, I hate it here

8:44 I love this and it’s so true