LIFE-CHANGING BENEFITS of a Style Uniform

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@atomic_poppy 7 ай бұрын

I’m almost 60 and have had so many incredible comments from young women. Saying I’m cool or striking, or saying “I want to be as cool as you when I’m your age”.. and let me tell ya, I look my age. Im tall and fit, but I have long silver hair, wrinkles, no Botox or surgery. It’s all because of how I dress and present myself. Thanks to you! You’ve helped me find my style and I’m rocking it. I even got a free coffee at Starbucks the other day - the barista said “I just love when you come in here, you make the place elegant and fun for a few moments” so.. THANKS!

@edithbessette9985 7 ай бұрын

Amazing!

@theprousteffect9717 7 ай бұрын

Love it! I'm sure you're stunning! Mature women are just as beautiful as younger women, they've just been wrongly desexualized for so long. But beauty is everywhere and we can make the most of it by taking care of ourselves health wise, good grooming, and style. Age doesn't really matter, anyone can look frumpy and unattractive if they don't put any effort in.

@user-pk6ml1ug8w 7 ай бұрын

I would love to hear more about your personal style, Poppy.

@heidimeigs5192 5 ай бұрын

I suspect that it’s YOU people are responding to. Your personality and positivity. But it never hurts to look terrific. 🙂👍🏻

@cindyhuebert1616 7 ай бұрын

I have slowly been realizing I am a denim jacket/converse gal. I heard a style gal say that no one needs more than one denim jacket, though she needed multiple blazers. Turns out, I need only one blazer, but I have FIVE denim jackets (dark blue, stonewashed, black, pink, and white). And while many gals can't get enough heels, I have basically none, while now being the proud owner of SEVEN pairs of converse in different colors. I have kinda felt guilty about having so many of the same thing, and wondered recently if it was fair to call it my uniform. Then, behold, your video today, encouraging a style uniform. All right, girl, I am going to lean into it and enjoy the many ways I can tweak my converse and denim jacket look!

@KathleenGreer-hk6yl 4 ай бұрын

I built myself a minimal and edgy wardrobe with inspiration from your videos. Young people always smile when they see me. Thanks.

@clarathordiss3663 7 ай бұрын

Awesome video! Thanks to you and Alyssa I have found my style uniform with tweaks supplied by vintage jewellery and scarves, statement shoes/boots, and a sprinkle of va-va-voom!!! At 66 years old it has opened up a whole new world for me, and I have never felt so confident, and I love getting dressed every day - thank you!!! Clara 💕💕

@suzetteterry1497 7 ай бұрын

I have in recent months been culling my wardrobe, had the menopause frump going on! Getting rid of the Noise...so important ! I am a jacket/Blazer girl...it should be obvious by the number of them i had! Paring back to the BEST fitting items has also been very important! Thanks for assisting me in bringing back the edge!❤

@EmilyWheatley 7 ай бұрын

Of course, I'm so glad I can help on your journey.

@Pluscelamemechose 7 ай бұрын

The hot flashes end, so you can dress like an adult again.

@lisa.user-xm7kz2tb6x 7 ай бұрын

Yes! My physical steals away from self-attn. Simply, clothing-care is tough. Normally fastidious, I frumped-out! 🫣 Over the past year, new for me, & looks permanent : 👩🏼‍🦽, but gonna rock it. Emily, I found you this year, thank goodness you 'get me' 😘😎🤗👍🏻✌🏻

@janiceskirmants6429 7 ай бұрын

I love when I open up KZfaq & you’ve posted a video or reel. Love your style & all of your tips. Thank you!

@EmilyWheatley 7 ай бұрын

Love that! Thank you so much!

@terribanks8633 7 ай бұрын

I didn't realize that I had a personal style uniform until a very dear friend of mine (who has style oozing out of her baby finger😂) brought it to my attention. I have been wearing pants (usually jeans) a simple top and a scarf with a sneaker or boot for decades! I always had edgy hair. Locs, a twa (teeny weenie afro). My problem was always dressier events. I'd usually give in and wear something completely not me. Now I know how to make my style work for any occasion. The right shoe does it every time!

@jeneferlofty4558 7 ай бұрын

I'll be 68 in January and had completely lost my way with my style, felt frumpy and blending with the crowd of oldies. Thanks to you I tried a colour I've never worn:;black! What a revelation and reinvention. Thanks Emily, I've got my edge back. Love getting dressed in the mornings. X

@EmilyWheatley 7 ай бұрын

Ahhhh I love that! And that makes me so happy to hear. Thank you so much for sharing that with me! I bet you look fierce in it :-)

@jamieseaweed5908 7 ай бұрын

Finally identified my style and I'm a Gen X! Goth, Textured, Chic, Minimalist :) The textured really helps if you wear mostly black :)

@EmilyWheatley 7 ай бұрын

Oooooo I love that the sound of that!

@drmichelledaf 5 ай бұрын

Thank you for such a well made video! The way you explained everything made it so easy and doable!

@EmilyWheatley 5 ай бұрын

You are so welcome! I'm glad it was helpful :-)

@lewistracy3061 7 ай бұрын

Yep .. I have had a “uniform “ since my 20’s .. jeans .. tee .. variations.. even dressed up version. (Satin jeans or skirt ..cashmere seater ) I definitely have a favorite style and I’m sticking to it .. I’m in my 60’s now .. not changing ❤

@heidimeigs5192 5 ай бұрын

Me too. 😁

@Jessy928 7 ай бұрын

I’m in rediscovery mode, but thanks to you I’m no longer buying things that create confusion in my closet. That for me was the toughest to accomplish. “It’s hard to resist those bright shiny things!” Much love to you Emily ❤

@EmilyWheatley 7 ай бұрын

That's wonderful and great to hear! :-)

@caroldolan1485 7 ай бұрын

I think I’m in rediscovery mode too ❤. 🙃

@Jessy928 7 ай бұрын

@@caroldolan1485 amen!

@nikolagauggel 7 ай бұрын

I feel like I used to have a style uniform and then middle age and menopause hit, my body changed and I suddenly felt adrift. Using your videos now to refocus, redefine my style. I am determined to rid my closet of any clothes that don’t make me feel amazing! Cheers and love your channel 😊

@amandadavenport2020 7 ай бұрын

I had terrible neuropathy pain in my feet for years and finding shoes I could wear to work was a real challenge. Vivaia were the best ones I found and I still wear them now that I can wear any shoes again.

@EmilyWheatley 7 ай бұрын

Oh I love that! That is so great to hear :-)

@Pluscelamemechose 7 ай бұрын

I'm happy for you! I've had that problem for 20 years.

@janic54 7 ай бұрын

Really started to "own" my style and it gives me such a boost of confidence!!! I also started to listen to the advice of keeping only what is in season in my closet! 1) I can hang all my clothes and makes it easier to choose my outfits 2) I can easily figure out what I do not wear and further declutter 3) really see what I have in double or triple!!! and avoid buying again!!!

@EmilyWheatley 7 ай бұрын

Yes, all such great approaches to keep it more curated for sure.

@ttjohns4821 7 ай бұрын

I bought a long jean skirt yesterday. Would love some tips on how to style a maxi skirt. I have got to get myself another long jean coat. I had one for years and like an idiot got rid of it. I love yours.

@ainomirailario5491 7 ай бұрын

yes, how to style a maxi skirt!

@wannabe41 7 ай бұрын

I have to give you props for your content; for being helpful and relatable (my style is different from yours but you teach us principles that work no matter your personal style). But I have to give you big ups for the music you incorporate into your videos. I would totally hire you to create a playlist for my next gathering. If you’re looking for a side hustle, that could be it. Have the happiest of holidays and a wonderful start to the new year.

@SarahSullivan-su1gj 7 ай бұрын

Super helpful! I’ve been able to get to this point with some of your other videos! I know what I shouldn’t take on!

@judithroers9655 7 ай бұрын

Excellant info. Your videos just keep getting better and better. 👍

@mcicalese58 7 ай бұрын

Digging those Viviaia sneakers.

@braddock1708 7 ай бұрын

Emily, your content in this video is HUGE! Thank you❤️

@EmilyWheatley 7 ай бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it! Means a lot to hear that.

@robinsmith4499 7 ай бұрын

Loved this video

@kathyfannon7563 7 ай бұрын

I've watched many KZfaqrs and read many blogs over the past few years and have pared down my wardrobe to black leggings, black (or tan) ballet flats and a dress. I add a scarf and/or sweater when it gets cold. I'm always comfortable and looked "dressed up" (as my mother would stay!). I just rotate though my dresses so I don't even wear the same one more than once or twice over a 2 week period. (And even if I do, so what?!) Thank you for your inspiration, Emily! Love your channel!

@loreleibayne6402 7 ай бұрын

Thank you for this!!!

@abundanceintheson_467 7 ай бұрын

I am definitely a comfy top and bottoms type girl so I have been working to hone in how I like to style the shirt&bottom to keep it being dull or "less me"... because a too silky top for instance might be comfy but not it is not really a "me" top. I regularly switch from pants to skirts depending mood and where I am going. This has led me to realize I am not a big dress girl...I keep buying them thinking I need them for special occasions...then I wear my black skinny jeans and a black top with a hat instead...so I am donating some dresses. I am keeping a few (3) but I just am not a dress girl. So yep... knowing your default setting for your outfits...your uniform...so helpful!!!!

@tereclemmer7923 7 ай бұрын

This video is full of wisdom. Thanks!

@pamelajezek677 7 ай бұрын

Emily, this is such a good video. The timing is perfect as we begin to think about style goals for the next year. Thank you for creating consistently great content. And I love the olive pants with the black blazer. I’ve got to wear that outfit tomorrow. ❤

@kellymartin5475 7 ай бұрын

So good and helpful, Emily!

@juleannedawson9287 7 ай бұрын

Great video! I’m about three quarters to where I think I want my wardrobe. You made great points and reminders in this discussion. It’s going to help me redirect where necessary and to stay on track where I’m doing ok. Thank you! Happy Holidays!

@jackiebrown6577 7 ай бұрын

Still working on my style and wardrobe. Keep getting sucked into the trends. Helpful hints! TY! 😊❤

@elizabethmaday5263 7 ай бұрын

Emily, I loved this video🥰❤️😍. This is so practical.

@chelsealeighpaul3771 7 ай бұрын

January 2024 is all about identifying my personal uniform and making getting dressed easy and fun! Thank you so much for the tips!

@goddessmel8518 7 ай бұрын

Will be using the extra time I'll have during an upcoming break to, among other things, critically review and curate my wardrobe. I think I already have a pretty good idea what my personal style uniform is, but there are still items distracting me from the simplicity I'm after. You know the things - I spent a lot on it, I haven't worn it enough so feel bad letting it go, but what if I change my mind? - so just need the time to review, reflect, practice wearing things differently to get comfortable with less.

@EmilyWheatley 7 ай бұрын

I hope you enjoy the process. Have fun with it and hopefully you make some good progress during the break. Let us know how it goes :-)

@irenerubin6663 7 ай бұрын

Hello again my fashion friend! I’m so happy to see the evolution of your fashion journey. This video shows how you’ve taken fashion to the next level: self discovery-the journey we’re all on. Congratulations. As for quieting a noisy mind: serious meditation and making time to have space and quiet (they are really all the same things) You’re taking on quite a lot😉

@tanyah5467 7 ай бұрын

This video came at a great time as I've been in the overwhelm-I-hate-everything-in-my-wardrobe slump of late. Coming to terms with my permanent post-3-kids body will do that to you. Starting from scratch relearning what suits my bodyshape, and I've come up with a style silhouette (fit flare dress or top/skirt) to build up from. Love your content!

@marciagarcia8486 7 ай бұрын

Pure inspiration ! My go to is very much similar to yours. Except for sneakers. I’m naturally getting rid of loud prints and pieces that don’t align with me anymore ❤

@ritastutler1470 7 ай бұрын

Hi Emily.. I am way more happy with my clothes since I found you. ❤ Merry Christmas

@anndyercervantes8352 7 ай бұрын

This was really great!

@EmilyWheatley 7 ай бұрын

So glad you like it!

@2302arwen 7 ай бұрын

I have been working on this since 2018 and i finally designed my own personal style as gothic ,relaxed fit,minimal and sofisticated. I am 38 years old and i will be 39 on next February 23th. Thanks for sharing. I am very closer to this style. But sometimes i sew my own clothes or change them for my mood. 😊

@EmilyWheatley 7 ай бұрын

Oh my gosh!! We are exactly one year a part! I'm turning 38 on February 23rd!!! Amazing :-) Love the sound of your style uniform. Great contrasts and even better that you sew your own clothes.

@2302arwen 7 ай бұрын

@@EmilyWheatley @ Turkey we call that, the wish of God...we live it our way, and nothing else matters... 😊

@rosabeger972 7 ай бұрын

Since I follow your Chanel I’m more confidente with my style. You helped me so much Emily!❤

@EmilyWheatley 7 ай бұрын

Thank you so much sharing that with me. That makes me so so so happy to hear that because that is why I make videos.

@des1180 7 ай бұрын

You’re awesome- so enjoyable to watch and listen to 🎉

@ritabutler1951 7 ай бұрын

I am working on a “uniform.” It’s winter and I love sweaters. I am not a jacket person it seems, although I need to add a jean jacket to see if that could work well for me. Decluttered a few months ago. That is life changing.

@nikkil764 7 ай бұрын

My favorite is Carolina Herrera. Her white blouse and skirts always look so fresh.

@lizp.6585 7 ай бұрын

Excellent video! Thank you and Merry Christmas!

@EmilyWheatley 7 ай бұрын

Same to you!

@dianecyment1715 7 ай бұрын

I'm on my personal journey and I have a good idea of what my style uniform is. I just need to stop impulse buying. The purchases are creating some overwhelming feelings when I visit my wardrobe. These are great tips on helping me get there. Thanks, Emily.

@larissaguy9083 7 ай бұрын

I am really working on contentment so this was so helpful!!!

@EmilyWheatley 7 ай бұрын

Oh good, glad it helped!

@biblianabovery4092 7 ай бұрын

I am working on this right now. I just removed all the "work" outfits now that I am recently retired. Trying to find a new personal uniform for this new exciting chapter. Thanks for the useful information.

@JuliaKirsty 7 ай бұрын

I feel like once you really figured out your own style it can kinda act like "your brand" or trademark. I keep repeating myself about this but I still find it funny that I didn't realize how much my interior design style reflects my clothing style. When I just sit in my living room or dining room in an outfit I would wear out, I look like I simply just belong there. It blends easily. And whenever I wonder if something goes with my wardrobe, I imagine me wearing it IN my apartment. If it would blend, it's great, if it would not, I probably wouldn't get much wear out of it (coz I would barely ever wanna wear it). My overall aesthetic is very cohesive and I really just figured that out because it basically just took me quite some time to allow myself to have this very style essence that seeps from one area of my life into any other.

@EmilyWheatley 7 ай бұрын

I so love the "brand" reference. And I agree about how it reflects in our homes as well.

@alinatarkhanian 7 ай бұрын

As I go through my personal style journey, I come across so many videos on capsule wardrobes. Though I love the concept, I don't find it works for me. I'm not the type of person who mixes and matches outfits. That's why I have adopted a style uniform instead. I find it has similar benefits to a capsule wardrobe but aligns with my approach to outfits. Great video!

@EmilyWheatley 7 ай бұрын

That is great you've found something that works for you. That is the key thing.

@Divinenubian 7 ай бұрын

Excellent video! Thank you very much. Happy holidays 😊

@EmilyWheatley 7 ай бұрын

Happy holidays!

@Divinenubian 7 ай бұрын

@@EmilyWheatley I learned alotof cool tips from this channel, yesterday I wore velour stretch pants , black and white turtle neck, black blazer with my white loafers and a beanie. I loved it. With my ysl camera bag. That's my uniform edgy chic. But now I'm looking at a green handbag trying to figure out how to style this festive piece 🤔 but I know my style I just gotta figure out if I will wear it with navy, leopard, or carmel

@tracythomas343 7 ай бұрын

I know my style uniform but I’m still working on getting rid of the noise. It’s been a challenge for me.

@paulaolson8956 7 ай бұрын

My uniform is skinny jeans and a navy or grey tee shirt. Sneakers in summer, country boots in the winter.

@silviasauc8570 7 ай бұрын

Very good video, congratulations!

@EmilyWheatley 7 ай бұрын

Thank you very much!

@sihemsissy3695 5 ай бұрын

Great vidéo

@EmilyWheatley 5 ай бұрын

Thank you!!

@SusanSlattery 7 ай бұрын

My personal style is a hat. Every day a hat. About a million years ago I figured out my personal uniform… it was J. Crew. Chinos and ruffle T shirts. Now it’s a lot more Smartwool 250 weight wool tops, cashmere sweaters and faux leather and suede pants.

@juri991 7 ай бұрын

i should have waited for your discount code cause i just bought my 2nd Margot in navy after buying the red from your link. i love the olive cargo, where did you get that?

@EmilyWheatley 7 ай бұрын

Oh that's totally fine. I'm glad you like their stuff too :-) That is Nili Lotan Luna Pants.

@nataliemorales979 7 ай бұрын

I feel like my style has completely changed since having my babies and I have been getting rid of things that don’t feel good on me anymore. It’s been very freeing but scary.

@EmilyWheatley 7 ай бұрын

Yes, having babies definitely gives a whole new perspective on the things we want to wear. Like you said, very freeing.

@jekku4688 7 ай бұрын

REALLLLY need that black & white jacket! Can I ask where it's from???

@susangoodrichlerner7819 7 ай бұрын

If you have an item that works for you and you LOVE it, such as a sweater, will you get another in one of your wardrobe colors?

@mcicalese58 7 ай бұрын

You definitely have a gift for stying Emily!

@EmilyWheatley 7 ай бұрын

Thank you so much! What a lovely thing to say :-)

@mcicalese58 7 ай бұрын

@@EmilyWheatley it's true. I see so many videos of ladies from NY especially or even Milan and I say to myself what were you thinking? I'm sorry but it's not even artistic expression it's just embarrassing. The way you put your outfits together you put them to shame.

@ritaswanepoel9350 7 ай бұрын

Hi I love your style. Can you please help with the size Everlane blazers you wear. 🌸

@EmilyWheatley 7 ай бұрын

I get one size 6 cuz I like it to be a little more oversized

@ritaswanepoel9350 7 ай бұрын

❤

@marycunningham3516 7 ай бұрын

I wish Everlane would bring back that puffer vest.

@rosebloom2214 6 ай бұрын

You describe & wear my style

@cathyscott5548 7 ай бұрын

Need help with styling...have transitioned to barefoot shoes...it's hard.

@DP-dr6gi 7 ай бұрын

Hi, I also have transitioned to Barefoot shoes over the last years and will never go back! But, I hear ya about styling with them. I have one pair that is black and athletic, minimal looking. I wear them with most of my daily casual wear of jeans and tees and sweaters and button up blouses. I finally broke down and purchased a second pair, merry Xmas to me, that are also black but not athletic. They almost look like the old capezio dance shoes with laces. Both are from Vivobarefoot. I am still wearing straight leg jeans with them because I am very petite and cannot pull off super wide leg pants with flats. I think if there are any after winter sales on some nice boots, I will purchase a pair as well. I really miss wearing boots.