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The most important thing a person can do is laugh. It is good for the soul. Audrey Hepburn ❤

One of my favorite quotes is “The only time you should ever look back is to see how far you've come."

Here’s a real gem. I had this one written in calligraphy, framed and it now hangs on a wall in my house. “What is success? To laugh often and much; to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children; to earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends; to appreciate the beauty; to find the best in others; to leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch or a redeemed social condition; to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is to have succeeded!” ~Ralph Waldo Emerson

One of my favorite mottos to live by, “Keep your ears and eyes open and your mouth shut and you may learn something” another is... “This too shall pass”

My mother always taught us…”do unto others as you would have done unto you”

Love the topic Renee. One I saw and remembered, have written down is, "You can't go back and change the beginning. But, you can start where you are and change the ending."

“Never compare yourself to another…you were formed with great precision.” 🥰

I LOVE your list of Life Lessons. I always remember a saying that someone told me "Don't argue with stupid, there is no basement". If someone starts talking I just stay silent and picture they are on a tennis court all alone. They lob the words to you like hitting the ball over the net and I just picture the ball bouncing away while refusing to engage with them.

That’s a great list! When I heard :’when someone shows you who they are, believe them’ and it hit me as a big “Ah ha! Moment too! And I couldn’t agree more with -take the risk! And also the realization that other people aren’t that interested in what you’re doing, wearing, thinking. They are focused on themselves! (and also thinking they’re being judged!). I say : Living well is the best revenge. And don’t let embarrassment stop you from having fun! If I hear a good song playing in a store, I’m going to dance! And believe me, I am NOT embarrassed if anyone looks, laughs, points! Pffftttt! Maybe I cheered them up! And they wish they had that kind of confidence 😉

Some of my favorites are "People are more important than things"; "The truth will set you free", and "it is what it is and not what it isn't".

Hi from Canada .A life lesson my Dad always used and one I try to follow is that if a job is worth doing it is worth doing right.!!

Be kind cuz everyone you meet is fighting their own battle. How true...LOVE your channel Renee.👏👏

Theres a saying .... those that mind don't matter....those that matter don't mind....love it!

Thank you for this! Especially the being productive lesson. I’ve been in a terrible habit of couch sitting once I get home from work and I know it’s not good for me. My mother wasn’t like me. She’s 88 now and has dementia, but I can’t hold a candle to how she was at my age and younger. I need to make some changes for sure. Thanks Renee!

Wonderful video. I can still hear my Mom saying, “God honors commitment.” That statement really did set the foundation for my life.❤

One thing I learned is sometimes you just have to "let it go". Don't hang on to anger, don't let things get you riled up, it's exhausting worrying about what everyone else is doing (or not doing). If someone sincerely apologizes for hurting you and you accept the apology, then you must let it go, don't accept their apology but then hold on to the resentment of what had hurt you and then bring it up or throw it in their face so to speak. Just let it go and I promise, you will feel better.

Thank you. You have prompted me to act on a major decision. Truly.

Even a fish wouldn’t get in trouble if he kept his mouth shut. This sign hangs in my 93 year old mother’s home. She repeated it many times over the years! Loved this video❤

We are a LOT alike in our beliefs. My favorite saying and one my son and I live by is, “Character is doing the right thing when nobody's looking”. I’ve always done my own thing without caring what others think. My Mom says I was independent from the womb. The only thing different is the taking risks part…especially with money. When you don’t have any to lose and no other income stream coming into the house (no husband) you think differently and you don’t take many risks with money. Now that I’m in a great financial position and debt free I still don’t take many risks with money. I have jumped out of an airplane twice though! 😂. Another saying I love is there are no luggage racks on hearses. Stuff doesn’t matter and you can’t take it with you. OK one more. A clean home is a sign of a wasted life. Not saying one shouldn’t have a clean home, just let the dishes go to have a little fun every now and then.

All life lessons you share Is on my list..I add a few more things I do everyday.. 1 Pray and talk to God..2...we have an inner small voice..God gives us warnings good or bad.....I listen to it....Be on time..Respect people time.....I learned this lesson late in life..Have boundaries..Be kind..

❤️ Loved this “Caste your cares” I try to remember this, when it is especially needed.

The three life lessons that I go by is to be kind, respectful and honest. I've had long time friends that were honest people but found that was not enough because they were sometimes unkind and disrespectful. And I've had kind friends that were not honest. They are no longer friends and my life is much more peaceful without them. Sometimes it takes awhile but you live and learn and wish you have learned sooner. I only watch videos of people with these qualities and I watch all of your videos. 🥰

This was a very uplifting and thought provoking video. Thanks for sharing. And I would add, Life is Short. Take the Trip. But the Shoes. Eat the Cake.

Love this!! Many of the things you spoke of I felt deep in my soul…great reminders! And I need to be more productive as I’ve been slacking on my daily to-do list. 😊 One thing I remind myself everyday is to smile, even when I’m down in the dumps, remember to smile. It gives a boost to others you meet and helps you be happier.

Here is a fave comment I happened to read recently from the NYT….it will likely not matter to very-efficient-You but some of your readers might enjoy it, lol. “Good morning. If you’ve already broken your New Year’s resolution, don’t despair. You don’t need a holiday to change your life.“ Great advice imho. xo

“Don’t let yourself be lazy”! I love this so much and have actually had to tell myself that before when I felt that way! You will always feel better if you just do something!! Thanks for the uplifting video!!❣️🙏

Renee, how encouraging it is to hear positive words & thoughts!! Thank you so much for lifting me up!!

Great lessons - I would add trust yourself and your intuitions

Lord Renee, I needed this!

I loved this video. Full of wisdom. Love who you love! So important. So many people don’t have kindness in their lives. Always be kind. But…i loved that you finished with… Sometimes people just suck! Yes they do and that made me laugh out loud. Thank you.

Yes, yes,yes!!!

Refreshing to hear your life values and how they have made your life better :) Glad there are still people like you in the world!

Love your video and life lesson's, Renee! Thank you for sharing it! As a person living with Multiple Sclerosis, I've had to learn how to ask for help and not be too stubborn and nearly killing myself by taking on too much all by myself. We all have different life situations and as gung ho as I used to be--just chilling and accepting some assistance on occasion makes my life so much easier. And also - "kindness, loyalty, and, compassionate" are guiding words I try to live by. Big hugs from me in Sweden!

Omg, Renee. Yes!. That is my all time beliefs. "Actions speak louder than words". Where the mind goes energy flows...so thoughts produce energy and that energy brings action😉 And, so true when they show you who they are, believe them. 💯

Renée, This is one of your BEST!! You are an amazing person. 👏

This is the best video you’ve ever made! ❤

Thanks so much Renee for this lift up when we’re bombarded daily with just HOW BAD people SUCK. 😏 I love all of your life words to live by- especially Maya Angelou’s-when people show you who they are, believe them. That’s been with me for many many years, and YES just so true!! One I live by and can add , always look for the sliver lining in every situation-it ALWAYS EXISTS. ❤ Love ya sweet gal!!

Dying laughing....."people just suck".....OMG that is so spot on!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thanks for sharing! I fully agree with all 15 😊

Great lessons you gave us today! Others aren't interested in us like we think they are is so true. I, like you, used to worry about what others will think but when I hit 50 I realized no one really cares! I've been telling my daughter the same thing. I think females go thru that more than men. At my old age (62..haha), I've learned whatever needs to be done will be there tomorrow so don't miss out on family time.

Thank you for this, Renee. I'm in my late thirties and still need motherly guidance in my life. Unfortunately, my mother has Alzheimer's so I don't have the same kind of relationship with her these days. Thank you!

Well, I always pay God first! He blessed me so, I give my first to God!

“Do things half-assed” YES! I have not heard anyone else say that in years! I say that! 😂

I love all these! Being a KY born girl myself, I can totally relate to all of them. Another thing I say is “people aren’t as focused on us as much as we imagine” 😅

Yes yes yes... my hubby taught me one big lesson that helps me SO much, he's soooo non judgemental and I'm like.. a protective pitbull lol he says... "NEVER TAKE ANYTHING PERSONALLY.. IT'S NEVER EVER PERSONAL". The more I thought about it.... it really sunk in... and helps me to never really be mad or stay mad at anyone... No matter who it is.. or what they do to you.. it's never personal. That helped with my road rage specifically lol

Great life lessons. some of them I live by and others I need to live by! Thanks Renee`

Wow Renee, I´m Diana from México, I´ve been following your channel maybe a year ago or more, this is one of my favorite videos ever; so eye opening. I´m going through a hard moment in my life right now and this video really touched me. Thank you so much for your content. Hugs for you and your lovely family including Maxie and Pollux obviously :).

Love this video! I have 2 favorite pieces of advice: two wrongs don’t make a right (learned that from my mom), and that you don’t have to be perfect to be successful. ❤

I LOVED this video & it really resonated with me. Thank you!

Great advice. I'd say I live by all of those. How proud you must have been to see that saying on your daughter's graduation cap! A sign that your kids are listening & watching when you lead by example. And yes, sometimes people suck. Exactly the reason I keep a very closed circle of friends. I choose to focus on me and my family. Having friends with a ton of baggage/drama is not for me. Come back when you have little to complain about! Someone once gave me a piece of advice that helped me to end an abusive marriage. They said, "When you're tired of eating sh*t, you'll spit it out." Advice I still live by to this day.

Renee, AWESOME video with words of wisdom and experience. I would really like for you to do a video on how you control clutter. Your home always looks spotless and organized. You are such an inspiration!

Great advice!😊

Have SO enjoyed your life motivation quotes/lessons. Hope u enjoy your vacay and wish u the best in your surgery. This is from an ‘older’ Kentuckian, ie, native Lexingtonian and UK retiree. My best.

You are a amazing woman, you ❤ make this world a better place,so glad I found your channel

Hi from Toronto Canada. I love your list and your timing is impeccable as I needed some inspiration this morning. My dad always said "paddle your own canoe" as in be responsible for yourself in life and don't depend on others. A great motto anytime but I found it particularly relevant when I was a young woman making decisions for myself with respect to education, work and relationships.

Great advice. So happy you put in a plug for pet adoption. 🙂 My favorite piece of advice is, "Don't Take Anything Personally." It is from the book, "The Four Agreements," and it completely changed how I interact with and respond to others.

Many of these were thought provoking and needed...thank you! While I don't regularly comment, Renee, just want you to know I've been faithfully following you for several years. Interestingly, one of the food items you shared a while back was Brookside's Dark Chocolate Acai & Blueberry. It has become a staple in my pantry and love to mix in with a low fat yogurt and cashews for lunch. I never tire of it! Have a wonderful vacation and know your surgery in the weeks to come will go well! Thank you for always putting on a happy face!

Have not been watching your clips for very long . But thank you love them all.

Binging your videos, has got me out of my winter slump!! Thank you!!

💜 LOVE your List! TFS⚘ 💗LOVE your Curls too! YOU are a "WISE 🦉 OWL" and a Very SPECIAL Lady 💝. Thank you for Sharing your Life and Family 💕 sk

Awesome! Thanks for this list!

Thank you for the positive message❤️

Fantastic advice ❤

Great words to live by Renee! I found myself agreeing to each and every one of them. I have been trying to base my life with this: "The less you expect, the less you will be disappointed. " ...which coincides with let people be who they are...also a Doris Day song...Que Sera sera...what ever will be will be.😊

I just love everything about you Renee!! Wish that I could’ve met you growing up!! You’re the best!!! God bless you and your family!!!❤️

What a fantastic video ! And so true.... Much greetings from Belgium. And a big hug for the doggies 💖

Well said!!!!!

Someone one said, "He/She who sings, prays twice." What truth in that statement! Listen to a songbird. What beauty in its songs! The day music is no longer one of the biggest joys in my life, will be when Life's Breath has left me. There's a song for every emotion or feeling possible. My lifelong dream, from as early as a small child, was to be an entertainer. I am an only child, and my Parents said they KNEW I would make it in the industry, and more than a couple of wealthy people offered to back me financially, who also would introduce me to the "Powers that be," in Nashville. But, my Parents did not want an Entertainer's life for me; so the matter was closed. My dream was lost. I have sung, performed, and told jokes to, by now, thousands of people. All my life, I thought my Parents just didn't believe I could succeed, but I just learned, from them, that they KNEW I WOULD succeed, and they would loose me forever. I am now 67, and they both are 86. I regret their decision to this day, but love them dearly. So, a day with no music is a day of real tragedy for me.

A lesson for life

15:47 resonates today. Thank you for saying it.

Great words to live by Renee ❤️ l don’t have a saying for it but it’s important to not be a people pleaser to your detriment. So many of us can fall into a pattern of giving too much of ourselves and leaving the well dry for yourself. My mum always said “ look after number one first” I took that as “ oh that’s so selfish’ but l realised she meant nourish yourself, so you CAN be there for those you love.

Absolutely LOVED this!! You must’ve been a fabulous mentor for the young people you employed at the ice cream shop..such words of wisdom! ❤️🙏❤️

Love this video!

Renee, I have been watching your channel for a few months and love it so much. This was a great video and I know your mother and father were always so proud of you. In fact, I am adopting you as a daughter LOL. I lost my daughter at 14 weeks but if she had lived, I would have hoped she would have been a lot like you. I love so much about you. I need to work on a few of your life lessons, but at almost 78, I am slowing down. I'm decluttering so my two sons won't have extra stuff to dispose of. I have always had the "organize bug" so when I saw your organization video, I ordered the accordian A-Z files to replace individual files in my file cabinet. Always looking for better ideas. I need to stop watching so many KZfaqrs, EXCEPT YOURS, of course :-) because I want to have the energy that I see. Part of it is I'm being lazy. Oh well, enough said.

Thanks for the great life lessons Renee!! You are an inspiration!!❤️😘✌🏻

Thanks for this great pep-talk❤

At least dogs never suck...lol. Well said Renee.

Folks make up their minds to be as happy as they want to be. Quote, Abraham Lincoln

Thanks Renee, that was lovely. I feel like you're the friend I didn't know I needed. 💖

LOVE THIS.

Thank you !!

You should do a TED talk for others to follow. Some of my life lessons would include: Be kind to others, Volunteer, Help someone who might be afraid to ask for help, Donate to charities, Live in the moment (like Maxxie and Pollux) and finally THANK A VET for the freedoms you enjoy.

It was very nice to watch this video, you transmit serenity and sincerity in what you say, and I agree with your husband, every dog needs a home.

So good! Thank you.

Great video Renee! All wise things to remember as we travel through life.

Hi Renee, wanted to let you know that me and my daughter enjoy your videos and especially enjoy Maxi and Pollux . Recently, you had a video where your daughter is selling mugs with cat or dog print on it. My son just bought his first kitten, and we bought one of those mugs he loves it, his cats name is Dolph I know weird name but it’s growing on us. Thank you for the great videos and especially clean Content.

I really needed to hear this today. What a wonderful list to live by. Thank you !

That ask of yourself is key for sure! I just read The Miracle Morning by Hal Elrod and if you read it you will understand why I feel as you do about people who do nothing! I do what I can during the day with my current energy levels, but that's changing. honestly .. no more mediocrity for me.. at least in my eyes I won't be! I refuse to be medocre or end up being dependent on living on low income etc.. as I get older. It's true what you say!

Little late posring; but I found this video & I have saved it for future viewing when I get stuck or have an issue I need to address. Thank you so much for such an inspirational video. A lot of what you said hit home, especially about worrying what other people think. It has taken the process of growing older to believe no one does care about tour journey, they are on their own journey. If they do criticise you for whatever reason, that's on them.

Hi you made me laugh which is my favorite thing ever your energy is great you never beat around the bush I do over that glad I find you. 😂❤❤❤

So wonderful for you to share your life lessons here. Love your authenticity! Can you share the entire Commitment poem?

Your hair is gorgeous in this video!! Wow!

Great video ❤

WOW…great video….

Every bit of this video is oozing with wisdom. Just wonderful. I think we were cut from the same cloth Renee lol. Have a beautiful weekend 😊

Great video! I really needed to hear this today!

Thank you Renee!! These are great points and so important! I'm always super productive with lists! I agree with you. This is a great and helpful video!

What a wonderful video! There is such wisdom in every one of your 15 lessons. I hope some young people watch this. I've come to a many of the same conclusions, but it took me a really long time to get there. All the years I wasted thinking I had to please other people, pay attention to what other people thought, do what was "expected" (sometimes having to set aside my own morals and values to abide by someone else's morals and values). I can't say I achieve all these things every day ( sometimes I fail spec one of my own life lessons is this: If you're sitting in front of the fan when the organic matter hits it, say a swear word (or two) word if it makes you feel better, get up, wash your face, then sit back down in front of the fan.

I enjoyed this weeks vlog