All your children will grow up to be kind thoughtful and genuine adults because of the love and guidance you and Curtis have shown them x

Don't be stressed about not getting that house...it wasn't meant to be your new home. The situation may seem sad or confusing now but everything will fall into the right place at the right time and you will find a different house that is meant to be your new home.

Thankyou for the update Laurien. Its like sitting with a friend having a catch up. You're so warm, friendly and relatable and have such a calm presence. I'm a firm believer in what will be, will be. Your house move will come at the right time. Trust the process. Have a lovely weekend x

“If he leaves you” 😂 what a funny thing for ‘family’ member to say 😂😂 I can’t imagine you two ever separating xx

Hi silent sub here! I have 3 children and find your videos so calming and real. When the time is right everything will slot into place ❤

Thankyou for the update Laurien. I am sorry about the house, it mustn't have been meant to be. Your dad sounds like he is such a lovely man ❤

Exactly the same thing happened to us when we were selling when Charlie was a baby! Got right to the end about to exchange, and our buyer pulled out. We were devastated. BUT it worked out for the best I think. The house we were buying needed a lot of work, and it wasn't in a brilliant area. I think if we had moved, we'd have regretted it, and we probably wouldn't have had our lovely little Lily ❤ and I'd take having the 3 kids over a bigger house any day of the week xx

Thank you for answering these questions! It was so insightful! I think a lot of it is a mindset shift from what is really 'necessary' to raise children and what are nice to haves ❤ Sorry to hear about your home but I hope it leads you on to bigger and better places ❤

I love you're honesty Laurien,I've loved this video,all of you're children are polite and beautiful,the house move I'm sure will happen very soon,love to you all😊

Glad for another video! Truly love your family!

I think you've got it sussed to be honest.....your kids are so lucky having parents like you two, which is a sad fact too as all kidsdeserve it eh, but you see a lot of families now where chidren just tag a long. Really hope house sells soon Laurien, all the best xxxx

Aww looked like Flossie was meditating next to you on the chair 😍🥰 aww gutted for you Laurien about the house but everything happens for a reason wonder what’s to come 💭 better things on the way love the video well needed catch up xxxxxx

Hi laurien,I’m so sorry that your buyer had to pull out , I believe though that everything happens for a purpose and like you said what will be will be , you have a beautiful home and everyone is healthy and happy ,enjoyed the video ❤

You are so lovely 🤍 I share your outlook on the things you've mentioned about big families and also love your attitude 'what's meant to be will be' 🌟 Such a gorgeous bunch of humans you all are! Xx

So sorry the sale didn’t go through hopefully something works out for you. You mentioned about budgeting I think the first place you can try save is on food not necessarily buying less food but just buying cheaper options for examples instead of buying pampers nappy you could go for the cheaper supermarket brand and if you do that with a lot of items your food bill will be a lot less x

Omg the baby is too cute..I can see him in everyone, more so flossy tho ❤

Always love your videos….. and watching your beautiful family ❤️ sometimes I don’t understand why you don’t have more followers as your just a lovely mummy and Kurtus too 💕💕💕💕

Hero is so beautiful! He looks like such a calm baby and his chubby cheeks are just delightful. You have such beautiful children, Laurien. Please don’t stress about the house move. I agree with everyone here that said it will happen at the right time and be the perfect house for you and your family. Lots of love from Canada xox

Sorry your buyer pulled out - moving is very stressful and I hope you get a new buyer very soon. Xx

Aww just wanted to pop on and quickly say how beautiful your children are. Look at hero growing up so quick bless him. I will watch the rest of your video tonight but wanted to leave a brief messaged based upon what I saw during your introduction. ❤

Just love your vlogs Laurien and I agree it’s much better for your children to grow up kind and nice.

I believe everything happens for a reason, something better is on the way for you. Also how sweet is Hero, watching your hands moving when you talk 🥰 xx

Hi Laurien sorry to hear about your house not going through but things happen for a reason maybe there's even a better house around the corner stay positive and you and your Curtis are both such wonderful parents ❤

You are so so lovely and a wonderful mom 🌸🌸

Eeee congratulations on 10K 🎉❤ xx

Really sorry to hear about your house move. It must of been very disappointing but sometimes these things happen for a reason. I'm sure it will all work out in the end. Really nice to watch a bit of a q&a. Love to you all xx

It maybe a blessing in disguise that the sale fell through. Hope the house next door goes on sale 😬 Lovely Q&A 😊 tc x

Oh what shame about the house Laurien…never mind something else will turn up….. personally I love the house you’re in right now ….the garden is huge…and works amazingly for the children. Hero is growing so cute Bless❤

Don't feel pressure to send your children to university. My eldest daughter slogged her guts out and got her degree. It's now basically just a useless bit of paper. She is working with severe special needs children and absolutely loves her job (that's what her degree is in). However, she is on minimum wage and so is her husband and they struggle to make ends meet. They have 6 year old and my daughter would love more children but they simply can't afford it. My son was a lazy wee beastie at school. He left at 16 and got an apprenticeship with the local authority as a land mechanic. He was kept on after his 2 year apprenticeship was up and has now been there 10 years. He earns double what my daughter does yet only got his standard grades and highers (we're in Scotland). He's been offered multiple jobs by local firms over the years but he's chosen to stay where he is. My youngest wants to go to uni and study law. We'll see what happens As a 52 year old mum and grandma I think you're a wonderful mum. You have a beautiful family. Just keep doing what you are doing. Much love to you from Scotland x

What a shame your not moving ,my youngest boy is 18 and hevis hopes to get in university next September, love to you ,beautiful family xx

Sorry you lost your house 😢 I'm sure your children will do well in later years you and curtis are great parents ❤❤

Hope you are all ok

It must be upsetting not to be moving. As a retired property valuer I witnessed house sales falling through often. I always said there will be a better house down the line. I meant it. Fortunately for your buyer the redundancy came before they commuted to the mortgage and moved. That would have made their lives dreadful.

I WISH YOU THE BEST WITH THE HOUSE..... I REALLY HOPE IT ALL WORKS OUT WELL FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY...... SENDING YOUR FAMILY LOVE......... ❤❤❤❤❤❤

When the time is right for the sale of the house it will happen. 🙂 It also looked like Flossie was meditating at one point? 😂 As for university? Most kids want to go to university nowadays. If they really don’t want to though, even after all your encouragement then it’s best not to push them. My daughter has 2 university degrees and doesn’t use any in her current profession. She decided she wanted to try something new and trained extensively for a completely different career. Incidentally her friend learned a trade without going to university. I think it’s a noble profession. We all need tradesmen and when they’re skilled in their craft like your Curtis, that’s something to be very proud of. 🙂 At the end of the day it’s all about encouraging and supporting your child to reach their full potential whether that’s university or something else. You’ll all work it out when the time comes and do what’s best, you’re both great parents. ❤xx

A good trick with saving is to put 10% of all money coming into the household into high interest savings. I try very hard to do this myself bit it is difficult because I am on my own financially with a disabled son and a daughter in education. It's a bit of a sad situation for parents with adult children at home who are in receipt of benefits. If they are living with parents, even if it's a single parent, it is assumed they are being financially supported and they get no help towards their housing costs. The 10% rule for savings is supposed to be the minimum you save 😊

Everything happens for a reason, and what comes next will be meant for you and your family ❤️ also that is one cuteeeeeee buba 🥹

Sorry the sale of your house fell through. Hopefully all well work out for you soon

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I hope things work out and you get to move soon

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Sorry about the house but i believe things happen for a reason one of my boys didn't go to school for the last 2 years i had to pay loads of fines he did suffer with bad depression and still does but he got a job he's a steel erector and scaffolding he's a foreman and reads plans brilliantly got his own home 2 of my other boys do the same jobs and 1 of them is dyslexic my other son is a builder which is also a very good job and my Daughter is in finance and they are all happy which is the main thing i don't always leave messages because your channel has grown brilliant and I don't want you having to reply as you are so busy with your lovely family 🤗🫶🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿