Life with OCPD: The Good, the Bad & the Ugly

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Andrei Lupsa

Andrei Lupsa

Күн бұрын

Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder
00:00 - My morning routine
02:00 - Definition of OCPD
02:42 - How it started
The Good:
03:49 - Order
04:32 - Attention to detail
05:03 - Minimalism
05:30 - Cleanliness
The Bad:
06:38 - The way I do a task is more important than the task itself
07:45 - Rules and routines
08:10 - Obsession on shapes, lines, numbers, dates and time
08:58 - Need to check everything
The Ugly:
09:55 - Identity from order and productivity
10:44 - Relationships
11:50 - Perfectionism
13:00 - Procrastination
15:03 - Conclusion
Thank you for watching!

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@moolipit
@moolipit 4 ай бұрын
"How can she still lose her phone after all these years?...How can you not remember where did you left your phone?!" THANK YOU!
@DominatesYT
@DominatesYT 5 ай бұрын
Hey Andrei! I just wanted to drop a line to say how much I'm enjoying your KZfaq channel! It popped up in my recommended feed today, and your content is seriously impressive. Sharing your personal struggles with such a wide audience must be difficult. I admire your courage in doing that. By the way, when your video started, I couldn't help but notice how neat your office looked! It motivated me to tidy up my own workspace (my PC dust filters needed some attention lol). Initially, your explanation of OCPD made it seem like a mixed bag with mostly positives inside, but you showed the challenges that come with it so well that I now have a better understanding of the struggles involved. While I'm no expert, I wonder if making some small adjustments might help. For instance, intentionally leaving one thing unfinished when organizing, like a random file or slightly misaligned corner, could gradually ease the need for perfection. I'm looking forward for your next video! Will it be released on February 1st? 😁
@JohanLiebert111
@JohanLiebert111 5 ай бұрын
This explains why your videos are so High Quality. I can relate to Perfectionism and Procrastination part. Keep it up and make sure to not get burnt out. I don't want you to delete the channel again. 😂
@andreiIupsa
@andreiIupsa 5 ай бұрын
Three videos in, I think I'm going to keep this one!
@xyrn23
@xyrn23 5 ай бұрын
the quality of your vids never disappoint me, damn
@andreiIupsa
@andreiIupsa 5 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@helenachwierut7349
@helenachwierut7349 5 ай бұрын
Excellent video! Thank you so much for sharing your struggles. It's okay to have a problem and to admit it ❤
@alastairtheduke
@alastairtheduke 5 ай бұрын
When you walked on the tiles, I felt that. I have a degree of what you have. When you mentioned that you feel sometimes like everything else stops existing when you are. in the moment...that has ruined my relationships. And yet, I don't mind things being out of order as long as I don't see them. Dishes can be done later no problem. But to leave a shirt on the sofa for more than an hour no way. It's funny how specific and individual this is. Thanks for sharing.
@s.bamahfoodh
@s.bamahfoodh 4 ай бұрын
Came from flutter video and I enjoyed all of your videos so far 😆.. just out of curiosity, don’t you also plan your diet or maybe workout?!
@jedidiahanarfi
@jedidiahanarfi 5 ай бұрын
This was me, and I was on steroids! I was a serious perfectionist! Now, I can be choose to be not organize, and don't keep things tidy enough! 😂😂😂
@NicolasBetiuc
@NicolasBetiuc 5 ай бұрын
👏🏻👏🏻
@balettpatkany
@balettpatkany 5 ай бұрын
KZfaq was like: you are a complete mess and a slob, let me reccommend you a video about cleanliness and organizing" 😆 Great video, great quality
@andreiIupsa
@andreiIupsa 5 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@SelantoApps
@SelantoApps 5 ай бұрын
👏👏👏
@TheBlackManMythLegend
@TheBlackManMythLegend 5 ай бұрын
Nice to share that part of who you are. I can't really relate. Even if I may understand that it comes from anxiety (* maybe ) I am not a psychologist. But phew to manage to even have a wife and a job and revenue with that condition it's awesome. You are blessed.
@j_kundi
@j_kundi 5 ай бұрын
Please do a video on your setup :)
@andreiIupsa
@andreiIupsa 5 ай бұрын
Maybe. Would it be interesting? I mean, I spend my days here, it's pretty boring for me 😊
@judewhittaker1200
@judewhittaker1200 5 ай бұрын
I guess I have a form of OCPD, although VERY mild. The "only" things I do is check that my desk is flush against the wall, my monitors are aligned correctly with my desk every time I use my PC and when I change a single setting in any app I have to go through all the other settings. Even for me it is physically taxing to have to stand up, push my desk against the wall (even though it is as flush as it can be) and make my monitors straight. I can't imagine the amount of stress this must cause you on a daily basis. Hope you figure things out, for you, your wife and your kid.
@PedroChavesDraygom
@PedroChavesDraygom 5 ай бұрын
I am 20% like you, except procrastination, thats 100%
@oussamasethoum1665
@oussamasethoum1665 5 ай бұрын
I have this same situation of perfection and sometimes when my teammate doesn't do good I get angry.
@Tricks4PK
@Tricks4PK 4 ай бұрын
bro your head isn't showing from the top!! Did it bother u while editing the video?
@arystanbekjetisy7329
@arystanbekjetisy7329 4 ай бұрын
Yeah, people doesn't know that perfectionism is actually a mental disorder.
@bigdata9605
@bigdata9605 5 ай бұрын
Can we interview your wife?
@andreiIupsa
@andreiIupsa 5 ай бұрын
What would you ask her? 😁
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