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Her smile when Lamb said she never made him feel less because she was providing, says it all

The look on Ling's face while Lamb talks, is EVERYTHING 😍Dear Ling, on behalf of all your Nigerian inlaws, we love you and appreciate you. Your folks raised you right. You're obviously a great woman 😊

Me and husband known each other since six grade. We both were brought up in the 80’s. I was 16 of age when I got my first apartment with my boyfriend snd daughter. I worked two jobs to pay $150 dollars rent and utilities. My husband didn’t work he couldn’t find a job then. I supported my husband during hard times for my family. I love my boyfriend so much I knew in time he will get a job. One day he had a interview at Nobart Studio in downtown Chicago. He came back home and told me I got the job. We both were so excited. He told me I don’t want you to work anymore stay home and I’ll take of us now. At the age of 22 we both got married and bought our first house Indiana. We became born again Christian’s in 1990’s serving our Lord Jesus. We both stood by each another through our life journey no matter how bad it got. God is with us!! ✝️🙏🏻 We are now in our middle 50’s we are still in love and with God blessings we are living blessed beyond our cup. Don’t give up on your partner or spouse. God will always work situations out. Be patient and walk in faith. Life is a journey. ☺️

the reason this relationship works is because there is mutual respect

She did it with so much grace and humility.....that brought a drop of tear to my eyes. Thanks Ling for loving our brother!

Who ever raised you guys have done good. Love you guys ❤❤😍

My husband and I first date, I paid for our date. He told me from the beginning, you are going to have to pay as well. And that I did. He allowed me to see that there has to be balance. A little before our 6th month anniversary he told me to give him my card because I was financially unstable while working two jobs. He made sure we had everything we needed and desired when he took over. And when we started living on the streets, I had to make it happen for us. From getting us food, clothes, and shelter;I never looked at him less than the God, God created him to be. He provided in ways that paper finances can't. And that's spiritually. He taught me how to live how God see fit, and that is the greatest gift I could ask for. You all are beautiful. I appreciate when true soulmates are together. The spiritual energy shows. Blessings to you two💜💜💜

Please be real like this forever

THIS GUY IS QUITE INTELLIGENT AND KNOWLEDGEABLE.

This finna be a series on TV soon. "Keeping it real with Ling and Lamb"✨

Ling is an awesome lady. Hearing how she supported Lamb regardless. I think sometimes we miss out on awesome partners because we judge them on their temporary financial position. Love you guys ❤️

Ling, you and your hubby were placed together by Yahweh you are meant to be many blessings to both of you always.🙏💕

Two people cannot walk together except they agree. Good work guys😘

Proudly 🇳🇬🇳🇬 (nija)All the way from UKRAINE 🇺🇦🇺🇦. Who wouldn't love this couple. Originality is part thier personality

I've never listened so attentive to a video like this. Lamb...you made me wanna be a better man, thanks man.

I’m getting married tomorrow. This is great advice for starting a new journey. 🇳🇬🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿.

Its lovely that he treated her so well even though they both started small.. i helped an ex when he was struggling and he treated me like shit even though i cooked, cleaned, washed his clothes and let him stay with me when he had no where and no one. I of course had to walk away i cannot be treated this way. So i commend Lamb for treating Ling with so much love and appreciation.

Now you are going to make us cry when Lamb said openly that Ling never made him feel less of a human. Ling, thank you for being such a virtuous woman. And Lamb, you are so adorable being an example. I am always fascinated at your level of intelligence. And the synergy between you guys despite the cultural background is unbelievable and heavenly. God keep you guys. Loads of love

Very emotional. She did it with such grace and humility

I enjoyed this chat. Lamb has a lot of wisdom and knowledge.

My second comment after watching the video... this was a very great topic. My own experience in support of a point Lamb made as to showing your support in some other ways if you girlfriend or wife is the one bringing in the money, I was studying in Japan and my girlfriend I had met there was the one paying for our apartment at some point, see me cleaning and cooking tirelessly... Did I die? The problem with most guys is EGO, be wise and humble because it helps greatly. No circumstances will last forever, you just need self discipline to cross over.

Wow. I've been on this channel for over 3 hours, watching all the videos. I'm just gonna put on my notification, as well as tell many people to subscribe. this particular topic. Finance in relationship is so important that if it's not talked about before marriage, it could ruin the relationship. I sincerely wish this could be an episode thing. I love you guys. You are the realest. 🇳🇬

If most relationships had this outlook on life. Most of us would of been in a better place. We sometimes are not patient and we lose in the long run by ending up with nothing good sometimes

Awww.. he literally made me teared up with that. It's great to hear a man acknowledge, appreciate and honor his wife."She did it with such grace and humility."

Please I beg... You guys need to do more videos like this. About marital issues and all.

Hi guys, in my opinion having a family budget works and a joint account where all monies are paid into and all bills are paid. You can both still have individual accounts that can be funded based on percentages from individual earnings for personal growth or needs.

15:27 so sweet! You can feel the love and respect you have for one another. My fiancé is Nigerian and I’m Canadian and I love watching your videos

Truer words have never been said💯 Even my Nigerian parents have this issues. I feel the youths of these days are more enlighten on issues like this. Thanks for sharing your knowledge with us.

“Don’t live your life as if you control your destiny”

Wow I am do mind blown by Lamb’s articulation in expressing himself, intelligent, and wisdom. I don’t know if you are a mentor but if you aren’t you would be a great mentor. You are very informative and transparent.

If this isn’t goals, then tell me what is. There’s so much wisdom in this video and I just want to say I love you both. The love is so evident in your videos🥰😍

I love the way you guys are using this platform… God bless you guys. May you prosper in every way.

You guys are so amazing. The wife has changed literally changed my perception about America-raised woman. The guy is so lucky.

I can't just do without you guys in a day I always look forward to catch you guys on KZfaq ..hmmm Finance in a relationship

15:27 a women loyalty and love is tested when her man has nothing and a man love and loyalty is tested when he have everything ❤️blessings to you guys

I see so much love and respect between you two ... More couples should be here ! Wonderful 😊

You've just restored my faith in marriage. Thank you

When Ling said "which kain thing be this" I couldn't hold my laughter anymore

Wow! Lamb is really deep and truly Nigerian. And Ling is a unique being made for him. Thanks guys!

Man... I love the transparency. May God keep y'all longer than you expected.

I love the “wetin happen part” , despite the fact that I just stumbled on your channel couple of days ago, there’s this soothing relief I get each time I watch any of your videos...great job guys 💜

I salute Lamb for his open-mindedness. You both are so mature and can discuss and agree about almost anything. For relationships to work, everything must really be discussed sitting down and nothing must be taken for granted.

I love how you guys are open to each other that show a great marriage. I agree with all you said bro, we don't have to do everything to impress the other when is no ok for us..

You two remind me of my relationship so much. I too am married to a Nigerian man who could not work when we first got married, but I could see his willingness and that's all I needed. We now have been married for 5 years and our finances will never be factor because we had this talk too and we both now contribute equally. You two seem so cool, and Ling it would be nice to have someone to chat with that could relate to me about what it's like to be married to a Nigerian. I see so many similarities! Wish you guys all the best! 😘

Very good advice: "love each other from where you are at now"! You're so right!

Wise beyond their years. I agree with everything said in this video. My Wife and I pretty much are like this with some minor adjustments 😊

Very insightful guys. I love the way Ling looks at Lamb in concurrence with what he is saying. I love it!!!! Keep going guys ❤️❤️❤️❤️

Watching your videos made me change my perception about Nigerian men,Lamb is a real African gentleman and if there’s anything additional that I have learnt from you guys is your love,transparency and most importantly the respect you have for one another

If alot of people that does not know anything before watch your videos, he or she will definitely know something... Honestly... You guys are peng together 💙

Another great chat, Ling and Lamb! Being open about finances is a great first step. It definitely helps for both partners to understand the financial situation better and it gives a clearer view into future purchases. I appreciate what you mentioned about putting pressure on a partner. Thank you for sharing your chat!

"All of a sudden you now have big dreams" WORD!!...love you guys

Wow.. That lamb's message at 15:30, so deep. Ling and Lamb you guys are inspiring. Thanks for sharing this wisdom with us.

Yessss... I like how Lamb said, "our money" Now that's the key! Love You Both! Be Blessed! ❤❤

This is 1 of the best conversation I've stop an listen to in a while.. some things are much needed

Great message guys. Transparency , discipline and respect is a must!

Your advise is on point!!!! Lamb you remind me of my NIGERIAN DAD always giving good advise!!!!! I can tell you were raised in a good family!! Ling you too give good advise!!! Love yall!!!!

Tears of joy! How can one be beautiful and kind.

What can i say, your bond is a gift to everyone who loves peace and loves family.

Simply put...honesty saves time. Great piece!!

This conversation needs a part two. You guys are ministering. God bless you .

Great job, beauty relationship from God such an example. I'm an older woman married for a long time. That information was very viral for marriages and relationships. Thanks for sharing!!!

So happy i found u guys!! You're now my FAMILY!😍😍 you both are a breathe of fresh air!!

🗣True talk Use wisdom in every decision you make Look at the potential/work ethic because where you are today does not determine where you are tomorrow

I loved the honesty and this open conversation! Loved how Lamb explained the reason why women should work in the relationship! This is a very good conversation! Thank you for sharing it!

Wow.... Congrats too ur new business Ling am so happy 4 you sweedy i love when people work together ♥️♥️♥️🇸🇱🇸🇱🇸🇱

You both fit together perfectly because you allowed the Lord lead you Lamb as soon as you saw Ling you knew she was your wife..! Ling your a virtuous woman I put in the comments proverbs 31 because that’s who you are..! You both are blessed of the Lord..!

Love from The Gambia 🇬🇲🇬🇲 I really love watching your videos..

From Nigeria, good morning, my name is omoregie Osahon and am in love with you guy like crazy. Came across your KZfaq videos yesterday night and since then I can’t get enough of you guys it’s been amazing watching you guys and big daddy was also amazing with the thanksgiving turkey video. I love this particular video so much, you guys are real with it and the story of how you met is mind blowing, this is true entertainment mixed with reality. God bless your family.

You made a very good point. I am South African. And I’ve also seen many successful families lose everything when the husband who was the breadwinner passed away because whilst the husband was alive he didn’t let the wife know how he makes money. What assets and debts he has. What it takes to run his business. Then when he passes away, the wife doesn’t know what’s what. This video is so valuable. Amazing advice guys. With love from the southern most part of Africa.

Awwwwh! Ling and Lamb, I've been seeing your reels but I started watching your full videos last week and have been bingeing on your videos. you both are so real! I particularly love this video the most! Couples need to be transparent to each other and support each other to reach their individual and collective goals. This works between 2 committed persons that genuinely love, trusts and respects each other.. Thanks for sharing your great thoughts on this subject. More blessings! 💕🥰

Great wisdom, guys! May God continue to bless your union 🙏

What is key in their relationship is they are not selfish. They live for we not I.

After work and stress in Lagos I just take out the stress with you guys ..keep me laughing

God brought you both together for a vital reason. I love your insights and your open mind towards life in general.

Wow, I hope there's other women like her out there. She's amazing! God has really blessed Lang with her! God bless you all❤❤

This was gold! Definately do another one of these...we love them.. Love the name too "Snack Chat"!

You guys are great . you made me cry Lamb by saying your wife had "GRACE AND HUMILITY" That speaks volumes . Love you guy!!!! 🌹🌹🌹🙏🙏🙏💖💖💖💖💖

Thank you broda for your wise words. Thank you Ling, for supporting Lamp. For, you guys are a great example. TRANSPARENCY AND DISCIPLINE. Thanks from à New follower. Big up 💪🏽

I wish there was a love button. Thanks for clearing up the part about not just taking a man with no money, but a man on a mission.

I loved when Lamb said, "Imagine me Subjecting you to my own finance - not allowing you to experience your own glory". Finances ruin a lot of relationships because couples don't like to have the talk or they don't have the talk. we think sometimes that by lying and hiding information about how much we earn and our sources of income, we are protecting ourselves - but in reality, we are subjecting our marriage to possible failure. This video is so helpful. this is such a problem with a lot of relationships. Sometimes women have to hide or lie about how much they earn just because they are afraid it will scare off guys - but a MAN should know his worth and such important subject must be discussed and disclosed to enable better planning to build stronger finances in the marriage.

This video gave me a fresh perspective on marriage and finances

It takes a real mature man to love a woman enough to allow her to lead when it is necessary. I have seen relationships soar to great heights because the man never felt insecure about his woman earning more and being able to lead the family to success. I've also seen when men allow their EGOs to rule them and break a strong woman! CRAZY! Hats off to you Lamb (or hat turned) LOL. I am a new subbie - you guys are beautiful! Love when Continents connect (smile)

This is the realest video on KZfaq. Thank you for these words of wisdom. God Bless your marriage

You guys are awesome. I follow you on IG and was catching up on your vides. This conversation is awesome. We are an older couple and just married this year with 16 years in our bank. We are going through the process to bring him to the states from the Caribbean. We are so open and realistic about our finances. You are so on point. We don't believe in roles, it's a partnership. He loves to cook...I cook because I need to eat...lol.. love your chemistry. Continued peace and blessings to your marriage.

Thank you Lamb I really appreciated you saying us stay at homes moms have the ability to bring in great opportunities 🙌

I love the way the two of you interact with one another. I do not have a partner for over 20 years, but if I did have one it would be so wonderful to have someone pick up the slack so that I could have the ability and time to pursue my ideas. As a single Mom, I’m always instead just working to pay for all the bills and provision for my son. 😊

Great content! Been following you guys on TikTok and now on KZfaq. Love to watch you guys can just feel the love and respect. Beautiful couple. Many blessings to you both. 😊

Waw this is one of the best conversations I had from a married couple for a long time just keeping it real thank's guy's for your good content

Beautiful couple! I've been married for 14 years, you all gave great advice!

You people have made me watch videos beyond 10min and now made it past 30mins. Your talk is excellent.

Ling and Lamb, you both are the best couple... mature, respectful, playful, intelligent, humble and loving. Damn!!! I love you both💚💚 Thanks for all your lovely concepts and contents on KZfaq and other platforms, I really do enjoy watching 👌👌

I really Love this two people I wish you guy's all the best Love from Sierra Leone ❤❤❤🇸🇱🇸🇱🇸🇱🇸🇱

You guys are the realest couple ever. Keep inspiring us in so many ways with you videos. Much love to you guys.😍😍

True talk! All ling and lamb said here is reality, and key to a successful relationship. Learnt a lot!!!

Just came across this Couple today and what admiration I have. Am an African woman and I have learnt a lot from this video very wise words thank you

Thank you @Ling for taking care of our brother before he was able to get starting 🤲💯👍

The truth is that u guys have changed my mentality with respect to inter race marriage. I used to think that nothing in this world would ever make me fall in love with a white lady for some reasons best known to me. You have proven to me that it's all about individual personality, not nationality. Love you guys. "More power to your elbow"

I absolutely love you two… reminds me SO much of my hubby and I. God bless your union… thank you for sharing yourselves with us 💛💛💛

You guys are awesome...being transparent about finances is a form of vulnerability most men never overcome they'd rather live under the pressure of demands beyond their capability than put their ego aside be honest about their finances.. I'm glad you guys discussed this topic.. You guys are awesome