The comments are wild now, I’ve been watching for years and could never imagine asking if your hubby knows 😂 that’s crazy what people will ask.. I just watch silently and really hope every month will be your positive ❤

I know one day, I will come on here and see that positive test. Don’t ever give up. God is still performing miracles.

Honey don't let these negative Nancy's get you down! Your positive attitude continues to astound me! Plenty of us cheering you on! Much love from Louisiana ❤

I’m here for the positive comments!! ❤

My husband had a vasectomy, and I promise you that's not something you can hide.

Hello beautiful. It was 10 years before I had my second baby. My husband and I were not really trying but my periods were extremely irregular and then I started eating better, working out and taking prenatal vitamins. After about a year of that we got pregnant. Everyone is different and some people can conceive faster or slower than others. With my first baby we got pregnant the 2 month of not even trying but we weren't preventing it either. So it's different even from cycle to cycle. I am truly sorry you have had negativity in the comments, but just know I just recently found your channel and have been silently watching but I am absolutely rooting for you. We have to lift each other up and I hope you can grow a community that will do just that. Prayers for all the ttc ladies out there. ❤

There are so many like me that watch your videos, but almost never comment at all that are cheering for you silently! I guarantee you you have far more supporters than crazy haters. And truly… For someone to insinuate that you have anything wrong in your head when they are the ones taking their time to write on a stranger's KZfaq video just to say something so outlandish… Hello pot, meet the kettle! It really is a mark of insanity to do something like that, and it's unfortunate that they can't see that within themselves. Hang in there!

I’ve been cheering for you for several years- I’m here for the day that test is positive! It’s way more fun to be crazy than “normal” anyways! I think the block feature is a useful tool 😉

Absolutely need each other to lean on. Especially, when you have a system that chooses to blame the woman for infertility. Or the fact that it is so expensive to get extra fertility treatments. Or how about the strain it puts on us physically, emotionally. So yes, definitely should be on each other’s side. I pray God answers all our prayers

Mindset for pregnancy is crazy important. Just hear this story.. my auntie and her husband tried for 10 years to get pregnant. They then went through adoption, once they adopted within the first month of adopting a baby, they fell pregnant. I have 2 amazing amazing cousins, but this just proves that your mental health is one of the main things that contributes to pregnancy.

It‘s like unsolved true crime cases. Some people act like they know more than the forensic scientists. You do you and you‘re perfect just the way you are.

Unexplained infertility is real, it’s emotional, a rollercoaster and it’s hard enough as it is without other people’s opinions. Some people just do not understand how painful their words cans be. I’m glad you are able to just look at some of the comments and laugh. Rightfully so! Silly comments deserve to be laughed at.

You could be low on progesterone I had two miscarriages and finally got pregnant and I got put onto that once I was pregnant good luck

Recent subscriber, I've been watching for a few months now. Definitely rooting for you ❤ love everything you say!!

You will have another baby. You have everything going for you. Don't let people put you down. Myself at 26 I had an emergency surgery and have no uterus.. I was blessed with 2 children, but I now have 15 through adoption. You have everything going for you, it's okay. I'm looking forward to your positive test, which is why I watch your channel, and I pray for you.

Stay positive, you’re doing an amazing job. If they don’t like your videos, no need to watch them. There will always be trolls, trying to get you down

I think the person who mentioned to you to just let go and not test each month meant that when we don’t think about it or stress over it it works out because you aren’t stressing over it and your body doesn’t produce cortisol. They meant that in a positive way. With my son and daughter it worked out to get pregnant on the first cycle maybe because I wasn’t stressing over it and my body/mind was calm. With this current cycle I got pregnant 🤰 and let a lot of things be. I didn’t do any research, didn’t KZfaq videos. I spent my time enjoying my family, watched movies and shows. My body was relaxed and I tested the day before my period was due, and BAM 💥 Pregnant! Anyhow I’m routing for you and hope you get yours. You can take it easy for a month or two, don’t test until day before or of period. Just let go. It’s been 3 years so it will come! If you are also being seen by fertility doctor and doing everything your doctor is telling you and hubby to do, than don’t stress over it

You’re going to have the bad with the good. The engagement is so important for this community for a lot of us 🥹

Hi Athina, ive been following you for so long as i was TTC for 6 years after secondary infertility and finally got my bfp this month after taking impryl for 3 months the wonder worked, give a go it is expensive but i was going to try anything now x

Rooting for you !!

I JUST started following you and am already so invested in your story that I was low key stressed 😅 I’m so glad you’re sharing your story ❤️

I’ve also been watching for years. Your time is coming don’t give up you are a lot stronger than me you are always so positive and happy I keep waiting for the good news though only god knows when he wants to give you another baby but at least until than you do have your two beautiful girls you are a great mommy keep up the good work ❤

Praying for you!

Exactly what you said about blocking people you should, they are not worth your time, carry on laughing at the silly comments because you do have a lot of us who support you on your ttc journey , sending you love and baby dust ♥

All hope and prayers that you get pregnant and have a happy healthy baby

People should be concentrating on the ttc aspect that this is hard and long, and we are here supporting and rootimg for you! Its the journey and if they are getting fed up then they should leave, if there getting bored watchin the journey then theve never been unlucky enough to experience ttc and how long is can take, dont justify it, its harder for u to go tjrough this than it is to switch channels, keep going this is your life and its not called a journey for nothing, this journwy is just taking longer, and people should be mindful that you guys have secondary infertility atm it seems and your still trying (as you should) without judgement which i find ridiculous to even need to adress, youll get there, and dont feel pressured to give up by comments, or feel silly, because this is hpw long its taking, why should u justify this? Some of us are ttc and doing wjat your doim for this long and sympathy and rooting is whats needed end of! Your doimg great even though every test seems a pointless exersize, it will happen and it will be soooo worth it and your be glad you kept going! Big hugs xxxxxx

Never lose hope! I tried for 10 years after my son was born. My son is a 2008 baby and my daughter is 2018. I’ve been trying again off and on for another baby since my daughter was like 2.

Okay, I have been watching you, Andrea Poole and Nicole Clark for literal years, I'm not even trying to conceive, but I do find these videos extremely interesting and I'm always rooting for you all yo get pregnant. But I do believe you should start blocking those haters, they bring everyone down and that is not what these videos are meant to do.

Your cheerleaders who have been here since breastfeeding Angel and now Iris being toddler. That long! We love u

I’m hopeful that a cycle soon you will have what you seek. I’m sorry for responding to one of the naysayers. The audacity of some people sometimes! You don’t seem to let it get you down. This is your journey with no explanation needed❤

Hoping and praying ❤

I've been taking a break from social media I haven't really been on KZfaq like that but she was the first video that I wanted to click on❤

Sending you all the best vibes ✨️ ❤

Thinking of you and your family 😚

Hey there 😊It seems this test may have some faintest line maybe try another test and let's see. Maybe a red dye test. I'm also hoping it's your month Athina😊

Praying for you dear. I advice you try using clomid or letrozole for your next cycle. It will help you in producing quality eggs and have a very strong ovulation. You are a strong woman and you've got this🙌

I wonder if people who get pregnant super easily are completely mystified / confused that it takes longer for others. Just a thought.

Please don't give up okay

Hi Athina, hope you are well I've missed seeing your videos.

I never comment on anything really, but I’m praying for you! Ignore the internet bullies!

Fingers crossed ❤❤

People don’t know your husband don’t know your marriage so they will ask questions and you just have to take it as they are wanting you to get pregnant , just don’t let it steal your happiness ans take it with a pinch of salt

I have an idea! So if you click on the profile picture of the person who commented. It shows you if they have left any other comments on any other videos of yours. If you don’t want to feel like you are censoring people. When someone comments something rude check if it’s a trend or innocent. If it’s a trend block them because they only intended negativity and harm and if it’s an innocent one off let them be they are just voicing their opinion. I think it’s really psychotic to subscribe to someone, to watch their videos religiously just to put hate out there you don’t need that kind of energy.

I hope you always keep sharing

Social media brings out the freaks!! I am shaking my head on the comments

I happened to stumble upon your videos a few months ago and I’m sorry you are having such a difficult time. The same with Andrea. I am about to turn 52 and never had children of my own. I tried for years after I got married at 25, almost 26. My cycles stated to become irregular and I stayed taking Clomid to ovulate and even meds to start cycles and finally had my (now ex) husband tested. He had two young children, but his tests came back as low mobility and sperm count. So, we hit a double whammy. I was happy to help raise his littles, but we ended up splitting. I was put on the pill to regulate and went through premature menopause 10 yrs later. It was devastating, but the silver lining is I didn’t have kids with him. Has your husband been checked out?

Everyone approaches pregnancy acheivements differently at different times in their life. What appears to be easy in your prime is no longer easy in perimenopause. Who’s to say it’s considered natural to try in the first place. We’re not here because our mothers had anything to do with it. We’re here because God put us here. Sure we can try, we ought to have fun trying, we can be curious and excited every month while trying, but we have little control over it so it’s good to be mindful of that to minimize stressful disappointments.

Not sure if you’ve discussed this before but what vitamins (if any) do you take? Have you looked into inositol at all?

Always love your videos. People are mean. I am 9dpo bfn

I do want to say something I appreciate you giving us videos everyday because I have five kids and I wished I did videos everyday where I got memories and when you do get your positive you're going to have a video of your positive pregnancy test after having my son a year ago I've been having mommy fevers all over again even though I love my pregnancy but the throw up I don't LOL 😂

Hey how are you doing how's the family

Life is so strange sometimes

I m first❤

Hey you might need to look into your fertility maybe there is something causing pregnancy from happening. I know you're using different things to track ovulation, But however maybe getting checked out by a fertility specialist might help! Achieve pregnancy faster than natural planning. I know we all want to be pregnant may 2024 be a good year to have that happen.

Of course your husband knows Ya'll are trying do people realize it takes 2 to make a baby 😅

I got five kids when I tell you my husband was working I had my husband go to the store everyday get me ovulation test pregnancy test my husband know exactly what test I need he ain't going to be confused LOL😂

I hate when they say stupid things like that. “Oh just relax and have all the sex”. 🙄

Lord Jesus Christ is doing wonders in these days also, so please keep on praying with him. He can do anything in your life. Sending Hope and Love from India.

OG should know not to be rude …..

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My advice is to STOP trying. Don't think about it and just keep doing what your doing. Somehow it seems like if you ain't trying to get pregnant that's when you end up getting pregnant. I'd just quit trying and take a test if you miss a period. I was laying on the couch one time and felt something move in my stomach and I already knew I was pregnant once I felt it and I was. I don't ever take tests unless I miss a period. I was waiting on my period to come and i started spotting and was like yup its that time so i put a pad on and the next day I stopped bleeding but for the next 2 days i kept wearing a pad just in case but my period never came i have alot of kids and so I thought to myself I am pregnant so i went and bought a pregnancy test and it was positive.

Maybe it's not a cultural apropiate thing, I understand that you cannot investigate more on your side, but hubby do anything? At least a sperm analysis. Man can have a lot of issues, too.

It’s important to be able to take a joke too.. we’re not supposed to take life too seriously.. Nobody is guaranteed a tomorrow. On this highway we call life the guard rails will not be lined with soft padding. One snowflake unsubscribed herself? One less person to please I guess..

Commenting to boost your algorithm 🤎 have been cheering for you , for years 🎉

It will happen soon enough. I know you’ve mentioned things that you wouldn’t do (like testing and stuff..) but would you consider supplements? If so maybe research a couple of supplements that might assist in hormone regulation - and start a series with that? You can still incorporate testing but it will bring some newness/otherness/education to the TTC side of your channel. It might get rid of some of the trolls…also might help you in the process as well as others going through the same. Just a thought 🥹💕

We need too support and give advice for each other