Living Alone | A New Chapter Of Life

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Жыл бұрын

Welcome back to another Day in my life vlog, "Living Alone," I Just want to talk with you guys about some changes I'm making and the direction I want to take my life in this next chapter.
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@PraiseAsalu Жыл бұрын

“the cool thing about a test is there are always answers” , I like that a lot bro

@ayejay4270 Жыл бұрын

I’m about to be 33, and I’ve lived by myself since I was 22. It’s both beautiful, and bittersweet. Having so much time to yourself, really allows you to know who you are, and what you want out of life. At the same time, though, it’s easy to feel a little lonely and crave someone to be there. But once someone else comes into your space, you start to wish that you were by yourself again. Very odd. At least for me. But if you can be comfortable with being by yourself for an extended length of time, you could be comfortable in any situation. It’s really an invaluable skill to have.

@forever21xxi Жыл бұрын

I be feeling the same way so I get what you are saying

@bridgettt.d Жыл бұрын

i know this feeling exactly lmao

@dtp_drip2659 2 ай бұрын

I’m literally going through this right now

@jpx93 Жыл бұрын

Im 29 year old turning 30 in september, trying this year to get my shit together, get out of debt (student loans) and work out constantly. Watching your videos motivate me to keep working harder.

@livmarlin4259 Жыл бұрын

Incel.

@cyjeren1627 Жыл бұрын

you can do it, also practice minimalism. read books or at any social medias tons of tips.

@jamiedavies4545 Жыл бұрын

@@cyjeren1627 Its Jamie Davies I live in the UK can you tell me that there's more than billions people all over the world and more than millions people in the UK that love living on there own and love having there own independence and love having there own freedom and love having there own personal pace too just the same as me please message me back yes its true please CYJEREN my mate.

@nikolastarcic9558 4 ай бұрын

Same here bro, 27

@TheLovely990 Жыл бұрын

I lived alone for 25 years, and it's the best peace in the world. I love your self-awareness, and self care. It's very refreshing.❤❤

@thill5108 Жыл бұрын

I’m a 52 year old lady and I enjoy your videos. Great info for anyone. Thanks

@IsaiahRTaylor Жыл бұрын

2:23 I feel that. I’m 20, about to turn 21, and I just refuse to allow myself to do be around things that are detrimental to actual growth. A lot of people my age aren’t even into trying to do things that are actually valuable, which is fine for them, but that’s not for me. I look forward to meeting people though who love learning, creating, and growing as much as I do.

@bridgettt.d Жыл бұрын

i feel this

@MsCrisssy1 Жыл бұрын

I love the message at the beginning. It's so true that the shifts in our lives often reveal who our true friends are. And it sounds like you're going through a tough time right now, but please know that God is looking out for you and removing people from your life who don't deserve to be there. You deserve so much better! Don't worry, though. You're not alone in this. Dontae and I are here to support you and help you get through this stage of your life. And I just want to say that I really appreciate your vulnerability. It takes a lot of courage to share your feelings like this. 🙌🏽

@LittleTut Жыл бұрын

Yup. I had to do the same thing. Love those people from afar. 🙏🏽

@arbr_i Жыл бұрын

I felt that 29 on 30 drastic change. Idk if it’s just mental but turning 30 feels VERY big

@allansheehan2033 Жыл бұрын

one huge mistake people make is that if they do something for someone, anyone and hope for or expect reciprocation of some kind from that person !! you will always be disappointed or resentful, if you give, give freely with no strings and your heart will be so full of joy !!

@anakaticfitness Жыл бұрын

I went through something like this last year and I've removed so many people out of my life and found my peace. Glad to hear that you are aware of this and making a change 💪 lots of love to you and Taja xx

@BettinaGoolsby Жыл бұрын

Such a great channel and content. You and your girlfriend are the cutest, and I love how she is helping you navigate through these challenging times of growth. I used to feel the same exact way, and what I've learned for myself is that it's when I overextend or do things that I actually do not want to do to get the love and acceptance I'm craving (also known as people pleasing), that's when I would run into an issue of feeling like I was giving and people weren't pouring back into me. I think the key is to only do what genuinely feels good and natural to you, so that it can be completely pure and you're not looking for anything in return. It's a great way to take care of yourself while also taking care of the people you love, and it's free and clear without any expectations.

@ansesurf Жыл бұрын

Thanks to share with us all the up and downs. Keep going, you´re inspiration for so many people!

@tajapickett Жыл бұрын

My honey… love your transparency always baby ❤

@carlosdharrisjr Жыл бұрын

Love you 🫶🏽

@vd3533 5 ай бұрын

@@carlosdharrisjr so u do have a partner?

@phurqeeuhmad9425 Жыл бұрын

WTF!! Nov 9 here, turning 30 as well 😲 Scorps be really in love themselves these days!! I do meditation everyday. I now have the exact same beard style as you. Focused on my career. Putting myself first. Not expecting anything from anybody now. Subscribing to support, my bro.

@samirahfazilahmed3206 Жыл бұрын

You're videos /vlogs are so calming I love the message in the beginning I'm trying this year to get Al my thing/life together

@Thecoachjimmy Жыл бұрын

Carlos!!! Long time my friend … great to see you thriving!!! Keep it up 🙌🏻

@emmanuelowolabi12 Жыл бұрын

Carlos Harris, you are awesome!!! 🥳

@xavierblackburn4650 Жыл бұрын

I subbed a few days ago love the content. You definitely gained a subscriber, I’m turning 29 on April 8th and I’m finding the same sense of comfort and reality.

@quincyrick Жыл бұрын

carlos.... great video ...sometimes alone is just figuring it all out .......and move in the direction you need to .

@javianjohnson8746 Жыл бұрын

These videos with the content/editing are so good man. Keep these coming 🔥

@LMays-cu2hp Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing. Continued success in business projects and development. And living alone many times is good to think about future business products and deals. Peace always.

@OneVeronique Жыл бұрын

Another amazing Vlog. Love the sunscreen snippet. The bidet is a game changer. We have one….. Have a wonderful week ahead & thanks for notes throughout the video 💛 Tell Ms. Taja Heyyyyyyy💕

@Djavan2499 Жыл бұрын

Your apartment is beautiful man 👏🏾

@smartchick649 7 ай бұрын

Take time with yourself, don’t rush into anything. Life is hard sometimes. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve had my heart broken and now I’m happy just being by myself. I’m a introvert, so it’s perfect.

@rizen7871 Жыл бұрын

Carlos, truly happy for you to have come to this realization so early in life.

@urieloliveiira Жыл бұрын

Continue with these videos of your man routines are of great use. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@ArjunRaj-cv1uj Жыл бұрын

Just found your channel brother and is helping me so fast.Just want to be get better every day & reach my true potential.Keep up the good work .

@iamjholloway Жыл бұрын

I enjoyed this vlog a lot. 30 is such a good milestone year. The tik tok was cute. Thanks for sharing 😊

@alfredr5266 Жыл бұрын

😍😍😍😍😍😍😍 i feel you!

@edglebennett6312 Жыл бұрын

I'm a Pisces! And it's imperative that I have Solitude in my life. So that means Moderation and everything I do! It makes co-workers and friends upset, but I rather spend my time with my dog and books. But I do believe everyone is looking for something meaningful! I'm sorry, but you won't find it on social media! We need human beings connections. And deep and thought provoking conversations! I'm fascinated with this channel and content and reading peoples thoughts and opinions.

@DontaeCatlett Жыл бұрын

Love this brotha 🙏🏽✨

@bafanalukhele9932 5 ай бұрын

That part about giving and reciprocation….I can definitely relate. I get the idea that there’s a part of me that is envious of the good I do for others…maybe some kind of alarm to fill my cup before pouring…,but is what it is.

@ravenclaw783 Жыл бұрын

Your bedroom looks so nice! Loving the style.

@_full.on.Drip360 Жыл бұрын

Glad that KZfaq recommended your channel...........we share a birth month 🤗, and I'm a little younger than you are....... I'm actually on my path to moving out and working to create balance in my life, so I know I'm gonna be a regular here 👏👏

@donnawilliams2062 Жыл бұрын

Love the energy ! Music was on point too😊

@bradleydipaolo Жыл бұрын

I see you going into monk mode 🙏. You’re gonna love it.

@NoahCBanks Жыл бұрын

Atomic Habits is a fire book bro! Thanks for sharing your latest thoughts and experiences. Inspirational bro

@godsanointed1477 Жыл бұрын

I Love your videos bro ! keep up the good work! 🙏

@duaneacamp Жыл бұрын

Thanks Brother I can totally relate 💪🏽😎

@alexcbolivar Жыл бұрын

Fire content per usual. Love the series

@superherofreak837 Жыл бұрын

"The 'Living Alone' series is my favorite series on KZfaq right now because I relate to it at my current stage of life."

@tonika7543 Жыл бұрын

Keep up the good work, and surround yourself with positive things that bring great energy.

@sexyeyez2000 Жыл бұрын

Looking good ❤

@trevormajor1197 Жыл бұрын

Carlos said "Bidit"...Yo I'm dead..Carlos by now I know you know damn well how to pronounce that word...Bless up homie

@carlosdharrisjr Жыл бұрын

Lmao🤣

@iamdsmith__ Жыл бұрын

I'm currently rereading Atomic Habits!!

@williamcarter9066 Жыл бұрын

The Mona Lisa may be priceless in the art subjection world !! However !! living alone it goes beyond priceless because having peace of mind is a million more times than the Mona Lisa could ever be !!

@RCGART Жыл бұрын

Appreciate you bro, i’m going through the same right before turning 25😎

@Mehdi-qp1tz Жыл бұрын

4:28 thank you so much for this message, it means a lot to me and I appreciate you adding this side-note. I feel like I was meant to stumble upon it.

@carlosdharrisjr Жыл бұрын

Much love. I appreciate the feedback and support 🙏🏽

@williamdo9309 Жыл бұрын

so clean and minimalist ...love ur plc

@isabelsibuyi Жыл бұрын

So real and relatable

@silviumatei1374 Жыл бұрын

Loved The first minute of the video ☀️☀️

@calving442 Жыл бұрын

I completely agree with what you said at 2:15 thats where i am now as well 😩

@betamale3481 Жыл бұрын

Love living alone

@BronxBombers_726 Жыл бұрын

Young bro..do you and be you. Always a great idea to weed out the drama out of your life. I’m in my sixties and I really appreciate my peace.

@carlosdharrisjr Жыл бұрын

Appreciate the support

@TheVeyZ 8 ай бұрын

Im jealous of your apartment 😅 beautiful view to wake up to.

@raymondmonela9366 Жыл бұрын

Bro I love your content. Keep inspiring

@carlosdharrisjr Жыл бұрын

Haha bruh I be half sleep spell checking 😂. Y’all get the message though 🤝🏽. Stay blessed

@badeyemijohn Жыл бұрын

You hella funny bro. The Jamaica vlog with Taja and this sunscreen thing cracked me up.

@godsway8501 Жыл бұрын

Damn bro I nearly cried watching this video, I think your videos inspire people on n Internal level Nd your living your desired lifestyle yet still not comfortable nd striving tor more all at the same time… I’m 21 bro and really just trying to figure all this shit out gets stressing sometimes plus the Pressure of society to execute and be all perfect, Mybe I’ll start a KZfaq nd I guess it’s never to late lol plus I’m young, So thankful for this Video brother I appreciate it. 💯🤙🏾💙 11:11

@sososeries763 Жыл бұрын

Birthday literally 1 day apart & age 1 year apart. That’s crazy. I meant to start watching your videos man. I’m already inspired

@carlosdharrisjr Жыл бұрын

Much love thanks for the support 🙏🏽

@Crash95Davis Жыл бұрын

I just turned 28 on April 4th and this video was definitely needed and very necessary for me to see keep doing your thing bro

@carlosdharrisjr Жыл бұрын

Happy belated 🙏🏽. Appreciate the love and support

@michaelkaranja1854 Жыл бұрын

Hi bro

@albertomarmolpedrozo5762 Жыл бұрын

😅❤love hey baby

@sulaymanjobe5931 Жыл бұрын

Whenever I feel lazy, I watch Carlos fr...

@mysvrhy Жыл бұрын

Glad this was recommended to me, i subscribed.

@carlosdharrisjr Жыл бұрын

Appreciate the support. I have a new video you can catch up on 🙏🏽

@christophswiss7117 Жыл бұрын

So true, shifts in life very important. I'm getting 60 now and continue, at every age one can do shifts.

@iamestar_ Жыл бұрын

I need a playlist video! The songs in this 🔥

@pradeepmoorjani9543 Жыл бұрын

Hi U r my inspiration bro Godbless u always 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

@JoeySavage 7 ай бұрын

I love living alone I don't see anything wrong with it as a business owner I fell great alone im safe happy in control of what I own food my hobbys my career no kids no drama no women just me alone my house #peace

@Lovelifeshawn Жыл бұрын

If you don’t mind me asking what room spray do you use

@jaetok Жыл бұрын

The Saturn return is here for you. (me too) You're doing the right things sounds like to make the transition a breeze.

@yvesvixxen Жыл бұрын

I was thinking the exact same thing!

@KO-D00M Жыл бұрын

What is Saturn return? Is it astrology-related?

@yvesvixxen Жыл бұрын

@@KO-D00M yes. Its usually in your 20’s and it signifies your elevation and maturity to your next levels in life. It comes around every 20 years to reestablish growth, internal (and external) change, and fine tuning of your life overall. Saturn is the “father” figure of the solar system. Basically, “with great power comes with great responsibility”.

@KO-D00M Жыл бұрын

@@yvesvixxen Thank you for the quick response. I'm no longer into astrology but I do find our connections to the universe interesting and true. I believe "every 20 years" is also accurate!

@ramsesf.7956 Жыл бұрын

I'm about to turn 30 too in November 4th. I'm working to get my life together after years of depression and I tell to myself that better years will come. I hope the best for all my brothers who're fighting with their demons too.

@btboss3564 Жыл бұрын

wonderful Video

@SameOlHim Жыл бұрын

This man is beautiful!

@reignfernandez7974 Жыл бұрын

I really really love this guy his so clean❤❤❤❤

@Breon2110 Жыл бұрын

That life/friendship/mental shift that happens when you turn 30 is REAL AF! Oh yeah brother bidet is pronounced(buh-day)

@chiagoziemonyema7566 Жыл бұрын

1000th like 😄🤭

@nigelwong21 Жыл бұрын

OMG U R SO CUTEEEEEEE & HANDSOME! Xoxo

@AlejandroHerrera Жыл бұрын

You're experiencing your Return of Saturn which is very common at 29. Your sense of awareness and purpose is really admirable, keep the videos coming. I'm a new fan!

@carlosdharrisjr Жыл бұрын

Much love 🙏🏽. I appreciate the support

@ETHANE11IOTT Жыл бұрын

Imma make my channel similar to yours dawg. Your videography and edits are hella mature and clean. Love your stuff bro.

@Therealdayo Жыл бұрын

“Bro yo skin lookin drah” 😂😂 Great video Los 👏🏾

@ACONNECTIONTV Жыл бұрын

beautiful man.

@perrymcnee7365 Жыл бұрын

Nothing like peace in your on place

@makingyesterdayjealous Жыл бұрын

yooooo, when you showed that tiktok neutrogena campaign had me laughing ahhaha!

@ariawan2331 Жыл бұрын

U r so good 👍❤❤❤

@LittleTut Жыл бұрын

Just seeing this channel today. LOL! You said "bigget" But you pronounce it like, buh - day. LOL! That was so funny! 🤣😂😅 But I had to Google the word since, I was closer than you, I was saying Beh-day. 😁

@jimsteele3423 Жыл бұрын

Really like your video

@tdoublea3820 Жыл бұрын

Happy Monday✊🏽

@carlosdharrisjr Жыл бұрын

same to you!

@MATHAPELOCHANTELMAJARA Жыл бұрын

Thank you

@LaLa-le4ki Жыл бұрын

Wow ;)

@julioguzman5925 11 ай бұрын

Turning 30 next may. Looking to move out on my own as I recently moved in with a friend to get away from family and now I'm looking to move out and start on my own. Wanting to improve myself for the better, as these passed few years were miserable and I'm needing to get out of this pit and become the man I've been wanting to be

@javianjohnson8746 Жыл бұрын

11:14 its actually pronounced "ba-DAY", and trust me bro those things are amazing to have

@hillarymuk2508 Жыл бұрын

I like your choice of music.

@williamruiz8927 11 ай бұрын

Living alone is physical. Being lonely is emotional. Know the difference, be your own Best friend.

@MUZIKSPOT Жыл бұрын

Carlos, I just wanted share. The thing you bought for the toilet is called phonetically speaking is a, “Bee+ Day” it is a French word. Love your videos

@Marlonothompson Жыл бұрын

My girl got us a tushy and fohm. We all set over here lol

@irubenguler Жыл бұрын

Just came across your channel. Love this content brooo.

@carlosdharrisjr Жыл бұрын

Thanks for the support 🙏🏽

@jonathanquinonesjoe5838 Жыл бұрын

😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

@wari_art Жыл бұрын

⚡Effortlessly dropping gems.

@1994nrs Жыл бұрын

Hey Carlos, im a new subscriber been watching your videos and gotta say loving your content bro and I had to subscribe and hit the bell! Was wondering if you could plz make a video on hair loss and balding? seeing that you look dope with the bald look, im just a little nervous to pull the trigger and shave my head, as a single 28yr old.. it’s just been hard to accept balding and it’s affecting my confidence.