living alone | adulting and socializing in a new city

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I know this transition period is temporary as I continue to challenge my ability to adapt and grow, but opening myself up has been the push of courage that I needed.
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0:00-1:13 good morning
1:13-5:25 making friends as an adult
5:25-7:35 lunch
7:35-8:22 errands
8:22-12:17 social in a new city
12:18-15:21 a semi productive day
15:21-16:09 closing words
#livingalone #makingfriends #cookwithme #easyrecipes #dayinthelife #vlog #howtomakefriends #adulting

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@TonyBurgess1969 11 ай бұрын

Waking up is like going into the great unknown. I have discovered that friendship is fluid and transient these days.

@levantergrl 11 ай бұрын

your videos are literally saving me from getting stuck in my lowest points in life

@cheryoko 11 ай бұрын

I have your videos on repeat after watching when I'm doing things around the house because of your voice and music choice. Please consider starting a podcast one day!

@poppycalliope 11 ай бұрын

I find it truly refreshing how you were all honest about feeling nervous when meeting each other. Most of us would try to play it cool and pretend that we're good at meeting new people

@mahamkhan2247 11 ай бұрын

OMG I struggled with good friendships all my life, with finding people who wouldn't leave, or were extremely superficial, or ones who wouldn't stab me in the back. All through childhood from 6th grade until the end of uni. And in the last year I FINALLY found good friends, people who actually care, who make me feel like I belong and who finally make me feel seen, held and loved. I just got home after a day hanging out with them and you posted this video and my heart is so full right now

@jeannie7255 11 ай бұрын

As an adult, I found myself actually making really meaningful friendships at the gym! I would meet people in a group class or someone I saw regularly on the gym floor who were like-minded and eventually made friends.

@ale_xO8 11 ай бұрын

I love the new placement of the bed. It really does seem much cosier 😊 You’ve done an amazing job with the limited space you had in the studio. Such a dream ❤

@TammyMai 11 ай бұрын

aw thank you! The bed definitely a lot cozier here 🥰

@yoonkai 11 ай бұрын

you are so bold for being in a new city and meeting new people omg!! speaking about the reality of it is so comforting 🥺❤️

@LavenderLushLuxury 11 ай бұрын

Almost 90k 👏💛💕

@victorialiao6371 11 ай бұрын

the best videos, the best perspectives, the best heart

@manskitty03 6 ай бұрын

your videos bring me so much comfort, ily💗💗💗

@NicoleEspadera 11 ай бұрын

My comfort vlog 💖 Thank you for consistently uploading!!

@anzee8937 11 ай бұрын

The new friends stuff really hit home loved this video

@charliesawyers-rees2650 11 ай бұрын

love these videos, so much beautiful work in the editing and paired with the vibe of self-discovery/philosophy I always end your videos feeling refreshed

@Hans12352 11 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for posting this! I just moved to a whole new place and was feeling a little weird and nervous. This helped so much!!!

@RiceNoodle757 11 ай бұрын

Nice vlog! Love seeing you grow! Can't wait to see what the universe brings to you next!!❤🧡💛💚💙💜💕

@erin2757 10 ай бұрын

i jumped here from the video of you the first day you moved into nyc! i love the new hair color, the new space, and your unattachment as you navigate being what feels like an adult in nyc... i'm in the same boat and its so nice to watch

@cindy5874 11 ай бұрын

Black T ❤️ this video came to me at the right time very comforting just what I needed

@jubiterr 11 ай бұрын

Tam, your heart is so big we see it through the screen

@danizalovee 11 ай бұрын

Oolong tea has my heart. Coffee, sometimes, makes me feel more anxious so tea it is!

@happymi3l 11 ай бұрын

i love cappuccino! also your videos are so nice and especially this one since i’m having trouble making friends so thank you! for showing its possible

@beanmoni 11 ай бұрын

Would love to see a Japan vlog! Ive wanted to go for soo long and have binged so many travel vlogs🥲 I'd love to see Japan from your pov ♡ i loved your Paris vlogs as well! Regardless of the travel, thank you for all the insightful thoughts you shared. Another great video, thank you for sharing!

@nottinghambuttsticks107 11 ай бұрын

You're living my dream life. I hope you live your life to the fullest ^^ It's so cool to see someone who is out there doing the things you want to do - it keeps me inspired and motivated that I can also one day achieve that goal too.

@fairy_well 11 ай бұрын

yess you dropped this while i was doing my hair and needed something to watch lol . i love this video bc being more social has been very big for me lately . im happy you made some good connections with your neighbors !

@terenaworld 11 ай бұрын

you make the best comfort, cozy videos.. i be always watching your videos while i eat lunch or dinner hehe

@sublimebutterfly55 10 ай бұрын

Favorite tea is earl grey.

@imdavidshin 11 ай бұрын

we could totally be friends Tammy! i feel like there's so much i could learn from you and the conversations we could/would have would be great!

@kayla9620 11 ай бұрын

I rly needed this tammy tysm

@ohanalimaofficial 11 ай бұрын

Lately I have been into getting Lattes sweetened with honey, cinnamon, and vanilla. It makes me feel so cozy

@withwhatihave 11 ай бұрын

immaculate vibes as always Tammy 😌 my favorite drinks are either oat milk matcha lattes with a pinch of cacao powder or just plain ol water.

@DonniesDiary 11 ай бұрын

Yet another beautiful video Tâm. I'm so proud of you for stepping out of your comfort zone and embracing everything that comes with it! My favorite drink at the moment - Strawberry Oatmilk Matcha latte 😋

@deel9346 11 ай бұрын

I don’t really like commenting on videos but I just thought that I had to express how much I love your videos, I’m so glad I came across your channel. I always watch your videos and replay them. It makes me want to do better with my life and motivates me to try new things or reassures me that sometimes it’s okay to feel a certain way. Looking forward to seeing more of your videos!

@hkcharmer 11 ай бұрын

seeing you interacting w new people and trying things out is giving me hope that i can do that too (i think i've been stuck in the state of comfort, it's been about 6 months since ive moved to this new place)! my favorite beverage at the moment has been a tiramisu latte ☕

@ar5984 11 ай бұрын

Another Beautiful reassuring and raw video ! , ty for being my comfort Person , keep shinning mama sending u love 🙌🏽💖

@dabaddestv 11 ай бұрын

I wish i could be your friend, but I'm on another part of the globe. Your videos are litteral lifesavers, you are such a comforting person, I absolutely adore you and wish you success and thriving in your precious 20s

@mildred_knowles 11 ай бұрын

i LOVE YOUR VIDEOS SO MUCH. Also my favourite beverage is hot chocolate. It feels like a warm hug to me.

@azhaayanna 11 ай бұрын

i loved this video , my fave beverage is an iced matcha

@ga1gagaga 9 ай бұрын

off of the topic, but gurl!!! your skin is literally so perfect, it's glowing!

@nikkibikki707 11 ай бұрын

my new favorite comfort KZfaqr

@jebinbegum5734 11 ай бұрын

Love your vlogs❤

@khadijahmalone3034 9 ай бұрын

My fav tea is chai latte with almond milk

@mayatagwerker 11 ай бұрын

First of all, the red hair is still so stunning on you! The topics that you talk about are so relatable and comforting. I'm glad that you found some people to talk with discovering new people is so challenging. wish you the best tam!

@ts5778 11 ай бұрын

I really love watching your videos and you really inspired me to start cooking on my own. Can you please make a video talking about how you learned your recipes and how you experiment with the ingredients you have? I'm in my early 20s and learning how to make fresh and delicious recipes while living on my own

@MzLashawn1 11 ай бұрын

“Green Tea Frappuccino w/Vanilla Bean Powder” 🍵 I love you Tam!🤗 This one made me a little emotional…😢 I’ve totally closed myself off to friends (old & new)! Trying to heal past/present traumas🙏🏾 Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing with us! Until next time…💛

@archaicsushi 11 ай бұрын

this video really resonated with me as someone who moved to the other side of my country where I barely knew anyone. I’ve finally managed to find a group of people that make it feel like home

@marisolwalle1516 11 ай бұрын

Girl you need to make a podcast! I need to listen to your voice while on a drive! Lol :D I love watching your videos! It seems making friends as an adult wouldn’t be too bad :) ❤

@itsylvette 11 ай бұрын

You’re always so inspiring!! Resonated w this soooo much - also def get a cat 🩷

@amna_keri 11 ай бұрын

I am liking Black Cherry Tea lately...and my regular Vanilla & Carmel Oat milk latte hot or iced i love them both

@gemmap2701 10 ай бұрын

We need a skincare vlog. How is your face dewy and glory everyday!

@karijenice 11 ай бұрын

new video my life is complete

@wilsonjevin 11 ай бұрын

I’m in a similar spot, I just transferred to a new uni and just finished one year. I’ve been a student athlete for 3 years previously so finding a friend group wasn’t difficult. But now I’m just a regular student and I barely made 1 friend in class if that. It’s been pretty hard because I’m comfortable being alone but I’m afraid that I’m too comfortable now.

@Spongebre 11 ай бұрын

Wow you jus taught me how too cook with that tuna melt 😮😮😊 reminds me of subway with that tomato 🍅

@kirkiterzopoulou7481 11 ай бұрын

Mexico (puerto escondido) def your vibe! Highly recommended ! :3

@mercyog3 10 ай бұрын

matcha & chai & earl grey tea

@westtgrace 11 ай бұрын

she’s baaaaack!

@TammyMai 11 ай бұрын

heyyyy 🌹🥰

@pamm.studio 11 ай бұрын

I have a couple favorite drinks😅. Traditional hot matcha no milk, iced chai latte with oat milk, mint tea, and ginger tea with lemon❤️

@nolliestar9254 11 ай бұрын

Get the kitty! Also, thanks for inspiring me to eat a tuna melt on a baguette, oh my lawd

@woniminaj 11 ай бұрын

tammy is almost at 90k!

@TammyMai 11 ай бұрын

so wild 🥺🤍

@xhuyentran 9 ай бұрын

I don't know you that well, but I already adore you :)

@annettedoodles 11 ай бұрын

BABES this is such a good topic!! I recently moved to a new city alone and this was what I was wondering. Also I thought you were in NYC? Where did you move for the year?

@wildchildmd 11 ай бұрын

I would love to see a skincare routine.

@rahmelg 11 ай бұрын

love your videos because I’m moving into my loft soon, may I ask where you got your shelf from by your desk?

@aviv4108 11 ай бұрын

Tammy u need to update ur amazon fav list 🤞

@macarenafernandafriascarra7628 11 ай бұрын

amo tus videos me dan ✌️ paz

@simontranburner 11 ай бұрын

very nice

@GardenSeori 11 ай бұрын

Taaaaaam Maiiiiiiiii!!!!❤❤❤❤

@maudpie4435 11 ай бұрын

What im really scared about this of is that when ill go to college, move from my home and my country and probably go to UK, ill need to make friends and talk with people in english and its not my first language, i find hard making new friends in my own language but go there and easily talk with new people in english (mostly in UK since they all speak there fluently), my english isn’t even that bad and i understand it quit good, i watch movies, tv, vidoes, read books and news in english but i cant imagine doing that irl with new people…

@ICBrandy 11 ай бұрын

People who are patient and genuinely want to be friends with you, will be there to understand your difficulties, accept you, and help you. Remember that. Those are real friends on top of other things!

@endlesssnothing 11 ай бұрын

I think Montreal matches your vibe. Would be worth a visit!

@TammyMai 11 ай бұрын

I have a good friend there hehe I might need to visit soon!! 😌💌

@garyliang1141 11 ай бұрын

where is the easel from for your frame tv?

@babiixjo 11 ай бұрын

Record party!? So interesting! I don’t imagine too many people having records though? Can I bring a CD? 😆 Favorite tea is oolong 🫖 Coffee is currently this blend called “Beekeeper” from Elixir ☕️

@paintedmeringue 11 ай бұрын

helooo can i get the recipe for the tuna salad something thank you!!!!

@christineee444 11 ай бұрын

Been struggling with making friends in my 20s as well and having social anxiety doesn’t help. Sometimes I wonder if I move to a different city/country, would I be more willing to try and this video gives me hope if that were to happen one day!

@christineee444 11 ай бұрын

Also yes to getting a cat. My baby just turned 1 and he’s the best companion ever!

@assiacobalt1047 11 ай бұрын

my favorite average would be anything with apples in them, I had a virgin cocktail once and it was apple based it was DELICIOUS 🍏🍏🍏🍏🍏🍏🍏🍏🍏🍏🍏🍏

@aaronpenacerrada838 11 ай бұрын

lemon C2 juice is pretty good

@justghst 5 ай бұрын

You’re a 10 ❤️‍🔥

@Petdaisy101 10 ай бұрын

i missed a chapter, what city did you move to?!

@luca.a03 11 ай бұрын

Please come to Japan but not now😂it is too hot here now🥺 For me, I love Vietnam since i went there. I miss banh mi... I love your vlog🐱🤎Have a great day.

@garyliang3208 11 ай бұрын

Where is your easel stand for your frame tv from?

@anniebootboot 10 ай бұрын

This applies to dating too

@aaoa_streams 11 ай бұрын

Come to Japan! We can walk around together and go to some nice cafe. Just don't come right now cause we dying of heat 🫠 (September/October best times)

@newgwala 11 ай бұрын

i’ve been meaning to ask what bedding are you using? i’ve been looking for some for my apartment and yours looks so luxe! ❤❤

@TammyMai 11 ай бұрын

thank you so much! It’s brooklinen (I have a discount code in my cozy loft update vlog!)

@marccolomayt82094 11 ай бұрын

First! ❤ love this!

@TammyMai 11 ай бұрын

Thank you 💌

@shewasstassie 11 ай бұрын

I love you💔

@eyerum_ 11 ай бұрын

I too reorganize my apartment furniture every 48 hours

@medleys2341 11 ай бұрын

Random question lol but where is your bed frame from? 🥺✨😭

@TammyMai 11 ай бұрын

It’s from Floyd!

@medleys2341 11 ай бұрын

Thank you!! 🤎

@Mrpoopybutt21682 11 ай бұрын

I love u -Jun

@dejmyk 11 ай бұрын

when u visit warsaw ☕✌🏻

@b1gmike-aisim965 11 ай бұрын

Hello..Haa tuna 🐟 still trying, too have the last swim/word (bubble gibberish) Tomatoes..Yess..Attack of the Killer Tomatoes Banana peppers, spinach, pepper..my go to. On cheese bread 👍 (not in that order)