Same i thought i had to fight some people😂

these girls have all lost their fkn minds!!!

@@BDMcN-vo8opSo rude! Where did you get your home training? You clearly never learned the golden rule of, if you can't say something nice then don't say anything at all. - Sincerely, a straight cis girl. Xoxo!

@@courtneylynn1854 people are sick of being thought-policed and word-policed by people that they ARE in fact being tolerant of. being told that we HAVE TO want to date them or we are hatemongers. being told that we HAVE TO allow them to play sports against actual women. we are sick of it. we have actually been tolerant and they did not appreciate or even acknowledge it. you can coexist with a person of different religious beliefs without having to police each other. why does this have to be different?? i am a gay male and i have very close trans friends. but this reverse bullying thing is getting very tiresome.

Same

Period. 😂

Yepp, me too🙂👍

I'm a girl and I wanna be as hot at him too lol 😂

Lil RE trust me man, I do

Whats Laiths instagram?.. asking for a friend..

Scott hes a dude man

@Scott OK Boomer

And his name in arabic is a beautiful synoym of "Lion"

LOL

There are zero men in this video, sorry to break the news to you.

Agreed!

show 2 trans men and 2 butch girls

@@BDMcN-vo8op just because their pre-transition or don't want to transition doesn't mean their butch girls

@@_lio6643 They have transitioned. They live as male. What you mean is they have not necessarily undergone surgical or medical treatment, which is only part of many tools people may use as part of their transition.

@@aesaphyr you telling me that you would ever see Jai, that chubby chick at the. end, as a boy? come on man! you aren't doing her any good

For me it's only weird when strangers ask about my genitals, if it's a friend that's just curious or if it were someone interested in a relationship it's totally fine but when it's the first question out of a strangers mouth if they realize you're trans it's a bit jarring lol

Virdy Shmirdy exactly. 👍

Kake The Sailor ok this too much lmfao. I’m pretty sure it just means they aren’t attracted to it. It’s not as deep as ur making it, i want a dick inside me, and vaginas make me dysphoric LMFAO. This has NOTHING to do with ur social construction shit. It’s about preference, if i don’t like peanut butter i don’t like it, if i don’t like dick i don’t like it, if i don’t like long hair I don’t like it. Ur being weird. Don’t tell me I have mental issues because of PREFERACE . This ideology that u think is so “woke” is the same as telling a gay person they can’t be gay because they haven’t “explored enough” and that’s bullshit. So idk what ur on about, or who put this shit into ur mind, but it’s fucked up man. Ppl associate penis with men bc that’s what men are born with, it’s science not a “social construct”. Me as a transgender person, i get dysphoric not having a dick, why? Because it’s a MALE thing. I can’t just be like omggg i love vagina hehe it’s sooo male. No. Way to discredit and invalidate everything in the world LMFAO. How about YOU think more deeply about this? I’m pretty sure men who like men with penises don’t have this “phobia” of vaginas, it literally just means they prefer dick. Yikes. I’m all for looking at who a person is on the inside, but it’s not like you can just take away the sexual part of a relationship. People like what they like, what you are saying is disrespectful. You need to respect what others prefer. I’m honestly shocked someone wouldn’t want to take into account what others like and don’t like, which is such a simple concept. Don’t discredit science either, this isn’t a social construct matter. You are delusional.

@@Oliver-bq4pp somebody that gets it 😊✊

Exactly!

This resonates so powerfully with me. I also thought everybody deep down feels like they should have been a guy and want to be a guy when they go about life.

Nice to see that someone else can relate

@@aesaphyr same and I'm trans woman

Literally same!

Have always wished I was born a boy, my parents hoped that the baby (me) is a boy, and now they do allow me to dress like however I want. But I still don’t feel content, seeing how people (guys) my age like they’re taller, bigger, have deeper voice and all, and I just wish I was born a boy and go through puberty like other boys. I’m uncomfortable with people seeing me as a girl or think I’m a girl, I’m uncomfortable with my body, with my voice. I found out about transgender probably about 4 years ago (2016) and I was fourteen, I was so excited and just wanted to let my parents know, to let me go through transition. But it’s really not that easy, four years and I’m still trying to figure out how to come out.

Yes!!. He could pass for cis!

He in NoT a man

@@josstrebe6302 is*

@ bEcAuSE hE's aS sALTy aS hE iS sPeChUL

@@Mistlenna If he can get a woman pregnant then he is a man.

Tinder is for the weak!!

@@darrenrsmith7119 don’t mean to be that person, but if tinder is for the weak, why did you click on a video by tinder?

Hahaha, there's no way a fake can be honest, she is a lie and there is no truth in her heart, only God can create a man and a woman Gen 1;27-28, she is the product of the foolishness of mankind Rom 1:24-28, you, people, need to give it a rest. That is still a female!!!!🤣🤣

Horni

not that bad, that makes you a men and him a woman, nice i dont care what you identify as you are what you were born, truth can be brutal you cannot cheat biology

@Kenkai yes biology can’t be changed but the quality of lives of can be with transgenderism. People just wanna live happily bro.

@@kenkai2861 transgender people are backed up by science and biology? do ur research wtf

Do trans women date trans men?

I'm also a trans guy, but I'm not going to tell people I am, unless I want to date them.

Milo Bech if i was trans i wouldn't neither, nobody's business. Most people ain't gonna do shit but judge you and most ppl arent gonna be able to look past the fact that your trans

it's perfectly fine to ask what genitals the person you're dating has... unless you plan on never having sexual relations. If you trust someone you love and they care about you regardless that you're trans i think they have a right to know if they ask about it (this coming from a transgender person)

it’s no different with a trans man than it is with a cis man. unless you’re going to date the person, they have absolutely no reason at all to know what you have in your pants. stop being ignorant.

"straight men". as a gay man I have also not been asked about my genitals.

i feel that way too :( and unfortunately, passing is impossible for me bc i'm pre-t and pre-everything. but pretending to be someone i'm not makes me feel very uncomfortable and even more depressed, so i'm trying to train my brain to be okay with not passing.

Just be you. Its less stress. Focus on making yourself happy.

@@floesimmons2878 That's what I've been doing. Been wearing girls jeans and chokers and shit with my streetwear style. And I have gotten called sir still, so it's not a complete fail.

Stop trying to pass. Be a person. If you're trying to pass then you're trying to fit into the stereotypes you say you're escaping. A Rainbow colored box is still a box.

@@MusicSetAdrift No, it's not stereotyping, I just have to put in more effort with my voice and shit.

then why did He make her a girl???

@Big Steve Then whats your beef? If God doesn't make mistakes and people like me are born intersex, and there are transgender people, then accept the fact God made us this way.

@@SoloPapi maybe. but this whole "born in the wrong body " thing is just ridiculous

Amen!

B.D. McN god wants there to be trans people in the world obviously

Same! I'm open to any and all questions as well. Someone's gotta educate the masses! LOL

Yes, I would like to know why so many of them have aggressive cisphobic texts on their online dating profiles

@@Envision_ I wish I could answer that, but I haven't dated since 2005. What are some of these 'cisphobic' things you're seeing?

@@Envision_ cisphobic lol

@@Kleineganz probably just bit wanting to date a cis person. Which makes sense, as they tend to murder sometimes. It's safety. But it can be seen as ignorant.

Butt buddies maybe

not even a little bit

A little. Hey daddy Erick

What?

U both have beads I'm jealous of!

You go, brother!!

awwe, I'm a trans guy too :)) hope u have a great day too!

Denki 🥺

@@Joker-qn1cr tokoyami 🥺

@@i.pfreely8979 im here for the same thing man 😢. Dude we should talk :0 you got snap, discord or instagram?

Of course most went through that phase, they aren't girls so that makes sense.

@@cattyghostly7414 i think they meant that when they thought they were still a girl, most trans men kinda like dressed and acted more masculine and hated skirts and girly stuff

Hey dude, if you ever need someone who's trans to talk to about shit that you're going through, I'm here. I just wanna let you know that you don't have to go through it alone, and don't be scared because I am one of the least normative trans people I know, I do not judge at all. I just wanna be there for my siblings no matter what!

It's even harder for me being stealth living in a small rural town. I'm taking steps to get accepted for a mortgage in Seattle ☺️

@@coryenglish6016 ok boomer

It's weird because I didn't have that memory, but when he said it, it reminded me of when I was little kid thinking that

lmao u would wait for ur next life to transition?

I hope you can help others before they become victims too. Good for you for leaving the gender cult.

I thought Trans gender is what turns out to be transsexual,, but why would men identify as trans men if their already men ? Or maybe it’s not like that like I thought.. I think this video helps though.

But trans is a choice.

@Locust Hypnosis ?

@Locust Hypnosis Explain ?

@Locust Hypnosis I understand, but with these trans activist ? they want us to ignore basic biology and i can't do that.

@Locust Hypnosis i agree

@@Fourtune1 true ASF

I'm a straight trans woman and it's difficult to find a good match because our odds are much lower. But there will always be opportunities out there. I also have my backup plan of being a crazy old hamster lady 😏😛

@@raquelc7517 if it's you in the profile pic then you're gorgeous girl there are a lot of guys that'll find you attractive

@@honeySingh-nf4ne Thank you 🥺

That's awful. And surprising. I wish I could find a trans man on Tinder. I guess there aren't any in my area.

That’s awesome I hope I can be as happy as you some day when I’m older. I can’t wait to get away from all this dysphoria and be happy in a few years.

O.o What ?

@@myplaylist7007 idk man what?

That is so adorable

so you two pretty much switch genders. That's pretty intersting

False. Gender and sex are totally correlated. It is impossible to be a male woman or a female man. You can identify as whatever you'd like, but blatantly lying and making up sexualities as you please isn't something we're going to normalize.

@@mizqueef6018 Nobody is making up sexes. You can read about it.. the person is right about there being 6 sexes. Its pretty complicated but it is an actual discovery. People just refuse to accept it.

@torron Brown ur mom

I know right !

Well you don’t and they do, what’s your point?

@@carmenismyname it's just that very often cis people automatically talk about you as a trans man and see you as a trans man, instead of just seeing you as a male. Every trans* person I know finds this kinda disturbing, but it keeps on happening because of videos like this, which just project this image, of trans men which say/have to say they identify as trans, to society.

Whether you like it or not transmen were born female so they are different from biological males.

Trans, meaning you're still transitioning. If you fully transitioned, you would just say male. The whole Cis thing defeats the whole purpose.

I'm kinda with that too. I'm transitioning but I don't consider myself "trans". I just feel like a normal dude. Only time I have to like specify is if I am at a doctor's office who is not familiar with what I am packing lol. I mean cis guys don't say hey my name is Joe Blow and I am a cis guy lol so.... Lol

@Gary Lee maybe what you say about biological reality is true, but we truly are brains inside of a body, our bodies are the translators of our brains to the outside world, and the way our brains perceive those signals is who we are. What you have to understand is the reality that we live in is the one created by our brain, and nothing else matters as much as our perception of the world. And no I'm not talking about politics or opinions, I'm talking about how we ultimately see ourselves, who we know we are, and how we feel about that. We are not only our bodies, tell that to people who have Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID) these are multiple developed personalities living in one body, which only one of the personalities matches with, every other person existing in that brain quite literally is a brain with no body, they do not own the body like the hosts does. So psychology reality ultimately overshadows biological reality and to pretend that humans don't function that way is not looking at humans through an objective lense, but instead trying to use the lens of logic and reason, which is not the system in which people think or function.

@@rd9065 What people like Gary Lee fail to account for is that by default, boys and girls are actually extraordinarily similar biologically. The most drastic differences that occur in men versus women that make them unique is the influence of hormones during puberty, yet both the male and female body respond to individual hormones the same way. Male individuals with high levels of female hormones who undergo a "female" puberty will develop breasts and even the ability to lactate. Female individuals with high levels of male hormones who undergo a "male" puberty will develop a deeper voice, a larger frame, sturdier muscles, and even growth in the genitalia region. For that matter, genitalia are developed from literally the same physical tissues as one another, be they male or female. Until they hit that point of puberty, the differences between boys and girls are remarkably small. It should not be a surprise to anyone who is familiar with that information that identities would fluctuate between sexes and genders.

Do it

Right? I’ve only come across ONE transman on a dating site and was swiping left too fast to stop and lost the connection, dammit.

@Bugler55 it means freakish or strange, out of the ordinary

@Bugler55 unusual is fine with me. I guess because abnormal was a word used in old sci fi for people with fly heads or something

There's nothing shameful about being a masculine presenting woman!

@@katarinam517 The thing is we aren't women we're men

We got you.

ESM FAMIL Its a woman

@@blank2272 please have a little decency and respect his pronounce

ESM FAMIL facts don’t care about your and his feelings

@@blank2272 thank you for using the right pronounce i appreciate it🙏😊❤

ESM FAMIL It’s not about the convey of the message it is facts.

Some trans men are comfortable identifying as a trans man. And well trans men are men. Everyones different.

I think it’s just for the purpose of being very clear for the video.

I identify as a trans man for the same reason men with african ancestry often identify themselves as ”black men”. In other words, because it has shaped me as a person and it is relevant to who I am. It is also a source of oppression that becomes completly negated if I pretend its not a part of me. I’m certainly a man first, but that doesnt change the fact that my past and experience in society is significantly different from a lot of other men. When i ignore that I ignore a part of myself.

Agreed

Big Steve You’re really on edge aren’t you? I in no way claimed that being trans or black were synonymous i just used a random example to illustrate my point, but you seem to posess the reading comprehension of a fruitfly.

Come share your story with us!

same but I haven’t start my transitions yet, in my country it’s costly and my parents don’t understand me😭 it’s sooo freaking hard and this video makes me so emotional

@calendarphotoscamera1 Canuck trans men are women and trans women are men this homophobic cult need to be stopped.

but whew, these notes are nothing compared to laith!!

Cupidador lol

Laith is so hot and handsome, he is my ideal man, but I already have a boyfriend....

@Quésie Quésie I live in the Netherlands, the first country to legalise gay marriage...

I’m in Australia and there are multiple gender options

Whatever make you sleep

You are a woman who think humans can change sex. We can't.

transGENDER, katarina. work on your reading comprehension skills before you decide to spew bullshit.

@@societyslasthope8902 you have below average comprehension skills, here's a sticker!⭐

He was my favorite. Laith was daddy but Nik is best boi.

@calendarphotoscamera1 Canuck ahh so you’re transphobic, I sorted that out for you.

Lol

Where is my mandatory pet rabbit >:v

Women with beard

You are not what you say you are, my friends. You are who God made you. The only truth is what God says.

@@ulomaubani6411 That might have made you feel better to write, but no one needs this. Take your spiritual abuse somewhere else.

@@terryp2517 It was not an abuse. It's the simple truth whether it makes you feel good about yourself or not. I pray you accept the truth one day, before it's too late. Take care

Congrats you're bi 👏

Well it's not really up to you to agree or disagree

Identity is much more complicated than science, don't be a transmed. Being transGENDER is related to (you guessed it) _gender,_ which is a social construct and not a biological fact like sex is. Being transgender can have biological factors, but it doesn't have to. Having gender dysphoria doesn't mean anything else than you're just uncomfortable being addressed as the gender that's typically linked to your sex, or the gender you were assigned at birth. You are whatever you say you are because there's literally no other proof to what we are. Identity is complex and abstract and it is not biological. And there's nothing wrong with that. Each person is the only one capable of fully defining themselves and expressing who they are. Are we gatekeeping being trans now? And for your information, some people do choose what gender to be that day, and they're just as valid as you are. If you can have your identity, why can't they have theirs?

@@DUWANGlai_kangyi I didn't say anyone was invalid and all the stuff you're talking about lmao I said it's not a choice and they don't choose what they want to be

@@sannakarvinen531 but people are spreading lies, they don't choose what they want to be that day or the next. it's a feeling, you dont wake up and say iM a BoY or iM a GiRl do you get it?

Bugler55 oh no I’m just saying because some people are ignorant and will tell me “that’s a girl” when he and all of them are men

@@monimonimoni3082 "Edited "

Another lesbian troll on steroids pretending to be a gay man

Congrats! You are not as a gay as you think! You are bi! Simple. The only type of female you like is one that resembles an adult human male.

That’s awful I’m really sorry

@Any One transphobic people report trans folks on there all the time

That isnt true at all, you cant do anything physical yet but you can absolutely socially transion by trying out different names and clothes and when you feel confident enough maybe even change names legally

you can always use quarantine as an opportunity to try out a new hairstyle!! it's one of the best ways to feel better when u can't do anything big

try looking for some other labels under the nonbinary umbrella, or testing to see which pronouns u prefer!!

Detrans are growing see the truth to this trans delusion

You are valid. Hope you are ok.

it can grow with the testosterone