Oh no! I am so sorry! But thank you! It is very frustrating to be parent not knowing what to do and not understanding what your child is going through. I still struggle with my kids. I do hope you find comfort, it must of been really hard growing up not understanding what was going on. 😢

@@LivingWithEve I am 35 and am in tears reading this comment. I have several letter diagnoses, I say CDO(in alphabetical order like it's supposed to be), depression, GAD, PTSD, LMNOP ( LOL) and I be learned about deep pressure stimulation two days ago while watching a video about shibari. When I was little under 5 years old, I liked to be rolled up in a sleeping bag and I would beg my dad or uncle or cousin or whoever was around to put me in there. I also would take this piece of sesame street pillowcase that became my lovie and wrap up my arm or leg like I was in a cast. I'm at peace finally understanding another little piece of the puzzle that is my brain. Thank you ❣️

Same here

I have actually not seen this from TED. Interesting that you see a similarity, Don’t know if it’s good or bad? 🤔 Thank you for the compliments.

@@LivingWithEve It's definitely a compliment! 💖. A good thing. The way that you explained it just reminded me of a TED talk. The "Not focusing on labels" hooked me. Encorparates why homeschooling is better for our kids as every child is different. I've seen a couple TED talks about homeschooling. You could totally do a talk!

That make since, thanks a lot!

I was so concerned that telling my child that she has SPD and autism would "label" her I didn't even want to tell her. It turned out to be a good idea to tell her and like she said not focus on it. Because she asked later on if something was wrong with her. I just said you remember you have SPD and told her that God just made her brain different he didn't make it wrong.

Dang I hope I can start soon so I might be able to do that

You are so welcome!

Thank you !

Yeah, boys like to move around a lot! It’s in their DNA.

Thank you Mrs. Erica!❤️

Oh my stars, thank you!!❤️ It’s so hard to talk to Mom about concerns you have but it’s so important. Maybe show her somehow that you are coming alongside her in helping her son? That might make it easier for you. Or maybe start with questions like “Does he get upset for you when you change his diaper.” To really engage a conversation. I really think most kiddos have sensory issues. I have sensory issues! And they change through their age too. It’s such a complex topic. I just purchased a book called “Sensational Kids” and I’m plowing thorough it. I’m planning on going through some tips on this soon. Right now I have been focusing on ADHD, but a lot of ADHD, well most, have sensory issues. So do kids on the autism spectrum and Downs. I’ll probably switch over to these topics sooner now. My channel has been a mix match of a lot of things but recently (this year) I have really been focusing in on the parenting of special needs since I’m in the middle of it and those seem to be my most popular videos. (I have a few already made that are off topic but after that I’m going to really focus on those videos). One thing Naomi’s therapist had me do was rub her feet whenever I had free time. This is when she was a baby since feet sensitivity is very common. I would do it with a wash cloth or textured ball. Same with head rubbing. Doing it as a very soft gentle movement. Too hard does nothing for them. Anything to desensitize. We also let her play with a toothbrush before she brushes her teeth to desensitize so that time will go smoother. Occupational Therapy has been amazing for my kids because they have a gift of knowing what your kids need and give you a ton of tools to over come them. Insurance paid for ours. Maybe Mom can look into it? Let me know if there is anything else. Keep in touch!

We love our OT. If you get a good one, it going to do wonders! Good luck! ❤️

I am so sorry. It is very difficult without those resources.

Praise God! That’s awesome. See try his is why I think getting a diagnose is helpful. It helps us understand our children more so that we can better serve them as parents. Thank you for your encouragement! And be encouraged… you are doing great!

Hi LorieAnn, Sounds like your busy too. I had a friend whose son had seizures to when he went online, especial video games. I have never heard of the glasses. Sound interesting. She does have him in a school for special needs, and they don’t have him use any electronics. We live in a very strange culture where it’s a necessity for some many things but can be so damaging in other areas. Keep me posted on their progress ❤️

Thank you for sharing too. ❤️With Naomi we had to really work with her feet too. Blessings 😊

Thank you!

Our OT is a blessing. We did end up finding a really good one.

That’s awesome! I’m glad you did!

That's why it's still up.❤ Thanks for sharing!

Thanks for watching too.

Hi Amanda, Im about to get my son checked, did the therapy help? How is she now?

@@thiscorner102 Going through the therapy was tough but well worth it. She is a senior in high school getting ready to graduate. She made straight A's all through school. She still has some rough times when things overwhelm her but with age, her ability to deal with it keeps improving.

I get it! The one thing I like about “labeling” (actually the only, because I hate labeling), is that is gives people who are guiding the child an understanding of what is going on and tips on how to manage it. It also gives parents piece of mind knowing their is someone to help.

Thanks! I am working on linking some videos to this one, this has been one of our most popular and I want to provide more feedback on this subject. Right now I’m reading up on some books and talking with my daughter’s therapist. So thank you for more confirmation, and thanks for watching!

Thanks!

I COMPLETELY understand... all of the time ❤️

We love our OT, it really had made a difference and especially for me and the mom. Thank you for sharing, prayers that it goes well. Feel free to let me know how it goes.

Thank you, that is very encouraging. I hope people will find it helpful.

Thanks.

Thank you so much! I hope it was helpful. If you have any questions - just let me know. I’m planning on linking up some videos that go into more depth with this topic.

Oh good, did it help? Let me know if you had any questions about it.

Thank you. Yes, the head rub is his favorite. Feel free to let me know if you have any tricks I can steal.

Living With Eve I was thinking about trying a bounce ball as a seat and a monkey balance board. He is most happy when I give him solo bedtime snuggles and we chat. He rubs my face and arm and I run his back if he wants. He seems most content then and talks me up.

My son is the best cuddler as well. He has to rub my skin. Mostly my belly when he’s relaxing or tired. My arms he likes to rub up and down and my face. He has to be touching me all the time. Loves to snuggle.

Very true. They just give names to everything now. 😆 But I love finding techniques that can I can use to help my kids grow and become successful.

Yes. It is very complex. My daughter has both too.

Great to have you on board. Thanks! I hope you enjoy our videos. Right now I’m uploading every 5 days, but hopefully I will be doing two days a week soon.

I didn’t either until I started do some research on it. It just made so much sense, right!?

Consistency. It’s never to early to start putting him in time out, redirecting (getting him involved in another activity or showing him how to act appropriately), or even just telling him no, nice hands. However, you may want to speak to your pediatrician as well. Occupational therapy has ended up being a huge blessing, especially since you have a professional working with you and him on a weekly basis.

What the OT has told us, if we want them to get use to it, be consistent and keep doing it. So if she pulls it out, put it back in. Eventually she'll get to use to it. That's the hope.

That’s awesome!

Thank you for sharing your honesty. I totally get this. That same thought, am i doing enough, keeps me up at night too. It's so hard.

@@LivingWithEve Thank you! It's nice knowing I'm not alone😊. Sometimes it sure does feel that way. 🙏

How is your son doing now ,I hope he doesn’t have ASD and he is improving 🙂

@@ebtisamlutfi2955 wow I forgot I wrote this. 😊 yes, he is on the spectrum and we believe our youngest is too. I'm almost positive. They are amazing little boys, regardless. My oldest boy whom is a little over 3 now, has taught me so much about this life and that love needs no words💛 it's hard but I'd like to thank God for choosing me and my husband to be their parents!! We just got blessed with 2 beautifully wonderful little boys, who see the world a little differently than we all do🙏🏼🥰

She has CMS through the state because she has cardiac concerns.

Thank you 🙌

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Thanks for sharing! I'm so sorry it's been a struggle. And it is a struggle. Prayers for you are you continue this journey. ❤

That's Great. What state if you don't mind me asking?

CMS

I don't honestly know, i would speak with a doctor to try and figure out what's going on. It sounds troubling.

He was not speech delayed, he was actually advanced in pretty much everything. But SPD shows itself differently in each child. Alot of kids with ADHD have SPD, they got hand in hand. Same with Autism. Some kids only have SPD. Good luck in your situation. Many prayers too.

How is your son doing with speech Any improvement 🙂?

@@ebtisamlutfi2955 he has about 100 words now and is becoming more social. He is also a lot calmer. He has had autism ruled out, but adhd is still on the table as he gets older. He starts preschool early start for kids with delays in the fall. He is also doing chiropractic care which has helped him be calmer and focus better. He has been more social since starting that. He has a sublaxation in his c1 vertebrae.

@@kathrynsteele8230 so happy for him U give me hope for my son who had same situation …Best of luck 🍀

We are on the same boat. My son 2 years cant speak and not getting much help from speech therapy. We and most professionals cant figure out exactly whats wrong with him. He breastfeed multiple times during night since birth till date. He drives my wife nuts looking him after. She even can't go to bathroom easily cuz of his clinging behavior. He has marked separation anxiety and wants mother in front of him all the time. His tantrums are constant and over small things. But what most worries us is his inability to speak. To be honest we are totally confused as how we should approach towards managing his problems.

Yes, they mix and can be different for every person. For example somebody could be sensory seeking when it comes to taste but not when it comes to tags on clothing.

Yes. I think it will eventually get to the point where IEPs are issued. However I know that SPD is connected to other Conditions that IEPs cover. Like ADHD, Autism, ect... I was a toe walker, still am. My Mom justified it by putting me in ballet, which I excelled at. It never corrected the problem though. There are only a few positions I can’t be in without lifting my heals and it really no big deal. However, I still get made fun of... a lot.

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@@LivingWithEve excellent thank you very much :D

Yes! SPD is not at all black and white. It's actually all over the place, like spaghetti.