"It's not an excuse, it's a reason." Very validating. thank you

"it's not an excuse, it's a reason"

9:47 I really appreciate Nadia being so open and vulnerable about this.

I was diagnosed with Asperger’s and ADHD 6 years ago at 26 years old. The ‘H’ of ADHD isn’t strictly true for a lot of sufferers. There are some crippling lesser-known symptoms like executive dysfunction. My entire childhood, I was called lazy, but I can’t even make myself do things that I want to do. I can be standing up and walking to the kitchen, but I cannot make my brain pick up the cup on the coffee table and take it to the kitchen. ADHD isn’t some quirky condition that is fun to have. It’s debilitating.

I was diagnosed aged 10. Only now in my late 20s I'm understanding how much its ruined my life. I do believe that ADHD is over diagnosed in children, but so many people misunderstand it.... ADHD is.not just naughty kids, it dosent go away, it's not just getting distracted and fidgeting... It's awful. It effects every part of your life. It's like trying to watch TV with someone constantly changing the channel. Life with ADHD is very hard

Im starting to get diagnosed at 39 .overwhelming

Wow … so much gold. Also so much grief is involved once you find out. Yes, me too. It takes one to know one

I was diagnosed at 53

A Desire to Happily Drive !

I was said by someone i know that i talkvery loosely. Which made me feel really worse. It felt sooo bad. Im being punished in every stage of life , bcoz i have ADHD.n it feels sick. 😢😮

A desire to drive indeed.

I have just been diagnosed at the age of 37. If anyone decides to go private I would recommend ADHD360, they work with the NHS although double your doctor/trust does. You pay £400 for the assessment. Then if you are diagnosed there is payment plans. The one is choose is costing £1200 including the assessment for a years care. I will also have to pay about £150 a month for medication when that is sorted. But the nhs will eventually take that bit over. Then I’ll be on a waiting list for cahms so might pay for another year with them if needed.

Not heard of compulsive eating and wasn’t asked about it during assessment. Not a diva-5 thing?

Who is the assessor? I need to book an appointment with her

Get me on

Nadia and I would be a nightmare on a night out… 👍🏼💃💃💃💃🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

Help!

Ask me… please

But she’s been able to live her life and do what she dreamed of, plus her children are functional and free. They should try having social anxiety disorder with all the others since a child, plus hEds/PoTs, PCOS and inattentive ADHD. Trust me inattentive ADHD is the least debilitating of it all, plus taking away the chance to have more than one child, and that child being diagnosed with all of the above. Then you will know heartache. I’ve run out of empathy for these tv discussions. I wanted to be a dancer, I wanted to do musical theatre. My life is irreparably gone. Only keeping going to be there for my beautiful son. Christine mcguinnes and many others, despite being given these labels have and do continue to live a life I could only dream for my son. If you can fake confidence - that’s great, most people do - it shouldn’t be part of the ‘sob story’ But you imagine being controlled by your nervous system, whereby in any social situation you shake blush, hyper vigilant, stutter, mind blanks high anxiety, whereby you are the complete opposite of how your nervous system humiliates you infront of others. I could only dream of being amongst family - never mind being able to have a career on tv, and I’d have it all x2 if my son could be free. Stacy Solomon, talking about PND when she’s had 5 kids without it affecting that - honestly all this makes me very angry that those truly suffering and having their lives ripped apart are deduced to your average symptoms. No wonder we are not taken seriously.

Womp womp 😢 you have adhd so quirky