Nobody is upset about his sexuality.. it’s about how he treated the girl.

He treated diamond like crap that’s why everyone “hates” him sad that he can’t see that

Can we just stop giving Carlton platforms to play victim.

He’s a narcissist who refuses to take accountability for his piss poor attitude. He had zero intentions of being truthful or looking for partner. He ruined Diamond chance at having a legitimate shot, on the show, due to his selfishness. He blames her, the black community everybody but himself!

My thing is even if she didn’t want to date him because he’s bisexual that still doesn’t make her homophobic. Y’all tend to forget that being straight is a sexuality too. If a straight woman is strictly attracted to straight men there is nothing wrong with that. Just like if a straight woman is okay with dating a bi man.

He definitely deserved to be on “Donkey of the Day” for how he manipulated and deceived diamond AND had her apologizing for absolutely NOTHING 😓

Carlton seems mentally unstable...Diamond dodged a bullet!

Carlton is the definition of the “victim mentality’.

The your-wig-is-sliding-Carlton is the real Carlton. He’s the same man that called Kenya Moore out her name on RHOA some years prior. He’s weaponizing his sexuality and it’s irritating that we’re entertaining his refusal to be accept his wrongs. He lied by omission and was mean af to Diamond in order to reject her before her potentially rejecting him. He decided for her that his fear of her reaction was more important than her right to choose who she feels comfortable being married to.

Yep he needs a therapist. I couldn't believe the way he talked to Diamond...his fiance that he lied to about his sexuality..he has a lot of nerve acting like the victim..cut it out man

The way he treated Diamond was appalling. Even after the show, he made rude comments about Diamond and her appearance. I hope he gets it together. I also hope Diamond finds love - she deserves an honest and loving partner.

He lost me when he walked out the pod while Amber was still talking, the way he treated Diamond when she was just trying to talk to him took the cake. He just seems like an overall rude and nasty person. Has nothing to do with his sexuality. He’s using that to play the victim.

I don’t think it’s about him being gay or bi or fluid. It’s more about how he handle her a women a black women and he also should have told her in advance.

You played then disrespected Diamond, we can’t feel sorry for you. You’re not the victim my love.

He’s actually still lying. He was on the show as a bisexual man when he’s actually gay. That dude does not date women at all.

She did the right thing. She doesn't have to accept that life.

This man really wants to DRAAAAG his 15 mins 😒

He knew it was problem thats why he didn't say anything in the beginning.

My issue is how he's managed to flip everything into him not being accepted as sexually fluid. Its not about his past, its about his character. I'm just glad Diamond moved on. *Edit* this on no way is to add negative connation to sexual fluidity for guys or girls. He just got mad defensive.

He manipulated the entire situation when he was revealing his past and now he's trying to manipulate the narrative about how people are responding to him. Boy bye! I'm not good with my boyfriend/fiance/husband being attracted to other men, PERIOD. I, and any other woman, am entitled to have that preference.

just like Jessica is trippin over the 10 year age gap, Carlton is trippin over the bisexual thing. He really thinks people are discriminating because hes bi and not bc he was mean to diamond

LOOOOOL this guy man. My guy hid who he was then got mad??

We supposed to feel sorry for him after the way he treated that girl ..?

Trying to play victim like Jussie I see

I’m sorry but this whole thing feels like it was an act.. an act that EPICALLY FAILED! Carlton needs to stop playing the victim game. He was so disrespectful to Diamond!

He wants a reason to have a hard life. Nobody is judging this man lol.

I just want him to be honest with himself! He kept saying “No other woman had an issue before” and then when diamond asked “So why didn’t you tell me sooner” he didn’t have an answer. He contradicted himself and then just got rude and defensive! If you’re honest with yourself, you can be honest with others🤷🏽‍♀️

This man was all over seasons 5-7 of RHOA as Cynthia’s assistant and he was on camera arguing with Kenya Moore....it was very evident he was not straight man....idk why yall outraged now. 🤦🏽‍♀️

Carlton is such a narcissist blaming the girl for not accepting his deceitful ways by not disclosing his past.

Some gay people are actually insecure with the fact that they’re gay and have issues coming to terms with that and end up deflecting that insecurity on straight people and saying “you’re uncomfortable with me being gay/ you’re homophobic”. Nah you’re just insecure, most of us don’t give af

As a gay man it's some things you just know to have a conversation about before you get involved especially in the black community. As much as I feel bad for him she was owed that much as a form of just respect. You not talking about dating you talking about Marriage.

Carlton did make it seem like it was a phase. He said, “At one point in my adult like, I was...” But the truth is, he’s still fluid. People don’t have a problem with his sexuality, people have a problem with him being dishonest. I feel like he was even dishonest with the producers. He did say it was in his past but now we see he still identifies as fluid. A short phase in the past would not be enough for him to still consider himself a part of the LGBTQ+ community. He’s being confusing and trying to act like everyone is biphobic. People want to support him but he’s all over the place with the conversation. He said no one accepted him and then said Diamond was the only woman that had a problem with his sexuality. He said at one point in his “past”he “was” attracted to hearts no mater what gender but now he fully identifies as fluid meaning he is still attracted to men and women. Which one is it?

Maybe he should tell them right off top instead of telling them before you walk down the isle and hurting yourself. Be more confident and if a person doesn’t accept you, then they aren’t the one.

So, I saw the radio interview he's talking about because the host went live in IG. Between breaks, he was having meltdowns because he thinks everyone hates him, everyone is after him, and no one understands. That's his go-to. The issue is he's not giving people the chance to show him the love he (claims) that he so desperately craves, which is crazy because he was asking them to filter out the callers so he could only talk to the people who like him. He was even pushing the host away when she tried to show him love. He didn't wanna see the comments on her live that showed him love. He begs for storms and gets mad when it rains.

I really hate how he treated Diamond. Me personally I would leave him if he told me he’s sexually fluid. To each their own, but I can’t deal with it. 🤷🏽‍♀️

His victim mentality is disturbing.

He is a jerk... so desrespectful!! I cant stand him... it has nothing to do with his fluidity but all about his charater

2 mistakes. He thought that she was so desperate to be engaged/married that she would have no standards and settle. He thought that all reality shows were created equal that relied on drama and dysfunctional behavior to be successful.

He should have told her, period.

Angela Ye moonwalked all the way around that question 😂😂😂

Yee danced around the question lol

He totally disrespected her and insulated her for no reason. He didn't care about her feelings, at all.

Love might be blind but social media aint

This is a lessen for bi guys always tell upfront to avoid the hurt and drama.

I wouldn’t care, I feel like this is a convo that should have happen naturally. It shouldn’t have been a secret to begin with. “ what were you past relationships like?” “Well I have been with both men and women and I want to build a family”

people didn’t have a problem with him being bisexual the problem was the way he talk to diamond he was so rude and selfish the way he try to make it as people don’t like because he’s bisexual that’s some BS

He must be crazyyyyyyy! You are bisexual you asked somebody in marriage but don't tell them that you are attracted to both men and women and then act confuse about people reaction!!! Boy bye!

Once a man willfully does that there's no coming back.

The way he reacted is the issue. He went off on her. He was defensive from the beginning. He should continue counseling and stay off dating shows.

Just the way he acted was literally insane dude has issues & needs to focus on himself

“Used to drive stick a lil bit...” 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀

His sexuality on its own is not the issue, it's how HE feels about his sexuality that is the issue. He said it's a "big secret" and he seems overall very uncomfortable about it. That is what would give me pause about him. Which is fine to be working through that, but it should be done before proposing to someone or at the very least let that person know that you are struggling with it before proposing to them.

He was just down right , Mean to Diamond .

Don't hate him I never heard of him. Also that guy can't be into women cause he acts like one.

I think the fact that Carlton didn't disclose that information from the get go is what the issue is, not that he is fluid.

He said he didn’t think it’ll be issue ? 🤦🏾‍♀️😂😂😂😂😂😂

Again with omitting an important fact like, "I was born a man/woman" or "I am bisexual" but somehow they're the victim. I don't respect it, its deceitful and misleading. Point blank, period. And if something that important is left out of the conversation, you are NOT TRUSTWORTHY and if someone decided they don't wanna eff with you, deal with it!

Isn’t he from RHOA? Cynthia Bailey’s former assistant?..

Carlton is Cynthia Baileys assistant and I used to date him 😫 I thought this was just for tv bc he is Gay

I think Yee was slick snitching on CTG because she's still mad at him. We see you Yee. 👀

Man whenever Yee gets put in the hot seat you can tell she's REALLY thinking of how she can answer in the most PC and socially acceptable way ever. There's so many extra words and shit when it really doesn't need to be that deep. Just keep it a buck.

Carlton was on the episode Real Housewives of Atlanta season 5 . He had a confrontation with Kenya and he was super duper feminem.

6:34 Why Charlamagne ratted out Taylor lmaooo THAT story is on this week's Brilliant Idiots😂

Team Lauren and Cameron!!! Carlton doing too much...

Carlton seems to think he deserves to be applauded because of “representation” 🙄 As a bisexual I can tell you this is not the representation we want, all he is doing is furthering biphobic stereotypes. I wish he would just go away, he’s doing more harm than good for a community he claims to represent

He gaslit this girl the whole time. Thats weird

You can look at the thumbnail and tell.😂😂😂 The world don't care. The only Carlton I know is from Bel-Air.😂😂😂

I don’t believe that’s the reason Diamond ended the relationship. The disrespect and dishonesty were red flags not to pursue a deeper relationship with Carlton. This narrative that she left him because of his sexuality is an attempt to spin the narrative away from his deception, disrespect and disregard for Diamonds feelings.

The real loser was that short guy. Cringe

Mann everybody could see ur was sweet

Did he really say urban media has been the worst lol everyone on Twitter was saying the way he came at diamond was trash & Cleary we all see thru the bs 🙄

They never fail to show a black man that’s gay!

What Did He Think Would Happen? Your Sexuality Is a Big Deal. He Gambled And Lost. Thank Goodness She Didn't Marry Him.

The first time i heard him speak on the show I was like naaah something’s off... then I saw their interaction after the reveal and I knew he was gay. He was talking to her like 2 female friends chatting, being petty always trying to get the last word.

Carlton is the reason why i lived in Atlanta for 7 years and went all the way to NY to get sick cuz brothers like him is wild son

He is a fraud who needs to shimmy back to his closet and come out with his husband.

Personally, I don't understand how Diamond didn't assume that Carlton was either gay or bisexual. He totally gives off that vibe. He's very effeminate.... I still don't think she cared about his sexuality. It was the fact that he didn't tell her about it up front. He can marry her, but can't open up about his sexuality??? There's something off about that.

Nah fam, your excuses are POOR! The mere fact that short empathized with you and she just needed time to absorb all of what you told her then you just went off the GRID, wasn’t cool dawg!

When the story line you choose backfires

When someone loves you even after they know your biggest insecurities, that's when it's *unconditional*

That man is NOT ready for marriage, u don’t feel secure in yourself and are projecting onto everyone how u feel about yourself. Get some therapy brotha man

Stg, the ppl in these comments are the only real people left in the world 😂👌🏾

Carlton is always playing victim. And he specifically said in his confessional that he has told girls in the past and it was an issue but then to make Diamond feel bad he said to her face that she’s “the only one who had a problem with it.” He treated her like trash but is pretending to be the victim.

He knew what he was doing when he signed up for this show, it back-fired on him in the worst way and I am sorry for the death threats and mental health issues this is causing due to the backlash. HOWEVER, Carlton did what he did, said what he said he is a grown 34 year man. This is not about bi or homo phobia. He should have been upfront with Diamond before he proposed to her. He also should have been more prepared for the conversation with her. he got defensive and started to gaslight her. She was supportive of him the night he told her and the next day. She was allowed to have her feelings too.

I thought that was Demetrius Johnson on the thumbnail 😂😂😂

That dude has serious issues!!

He should have been real from the beginning. And he didn’t have to go in on her wig like that either 😩

We don’t hate him, we hate his actions and speaking to a woman like that.... very disrespectful , i have no respect for such.

YES!!!!!! to the therapist. He needs one, I hope he can develop some coping skills and accept himself and his choices.

THE WAY HE SPOKE TO HER SHOWS HIS TRUE SPIRIT.

"Because you used to drive stickalodian" damnnnnnnnn bruh I needed that laugh.

I saw he was gay from the pic. no judgement IJS

Can't even take responsibility for his own actions. His victim mentality is insane and he's just a bully now.

Yee funny af throwing them little jabs on the low to Charla at the end 😂😂😂

When Angela asked Charla that question boi took a hard swallow 😅😅🤣🤣🤣🤣

I THINK HE DEFINITELY SHOULD’VE TOLD HER BEFORE EXITING THE PODS SITUATION. ON THE OTHER NOTE, HE HAS A POINT WITH SAYING IT’S A FACE TO FACE TALK. THE ERROR WITH THAT STATEMENT, IS AFTER CATCHING FEELINGS, SHE WASN’T FOREWARNED THAT THERE WERE ISSUES BEING SAVED FOR COMPLETE PRESENCE. I HONESTLY FEEL HE ROBBED HIMSELF OF THE ABILITY TO MOVE FORWARD. THAT WOMAN LOOKED LIKE SHE FOUND LOVE, STARTED WALKING DOWN THE AISLE, GOT SMACKED IN THE FACE WITH A HIGH SPEED CURVE BALL, AND WAS STILL TRYING NOT TO WITHDRAW PHYSICALLY OR EMOTIONALLY. HE FAILED TO REALIZE THE LOVE AND RESPECT SHE SHOWED BY COMING TO HIM THE DAY AFTER HE TOLD HER BEFORE HE FLIPPED. I TOLD MY WOMAN HE A FOOL, CUZ I THINK THAT WOMAN WAS STILL GON’ MARRY EM’ BEFORE HE FLIPPED AND CALLED HER OUT HER NAME. ?$@

Just playing the victim and can't admit he is wrong ..... Diamond did nothing wrong

Yes cuz keep doing u. If ur not hated ur not doing something right.♥️u cuz I’m so proud!!!

Enjoying change of camera angle showing more of the crew

Yee swerved that question real quick lol