LOVE like the SUN: how men and women move beyond the exchange of value

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9 ай бұрын

One day, I hope to be able to love like the Sun. In this episode, I discuss what that means by examining the exultant humility of the star in the center of our solar system. The Sun is one of our best models of the generosity, abundance, and indifference that constitute the most elevated forms of love, and its teachings are freely available to us all. If you're ready to up your game, and move beyond the exchange of value that characterizes relationships, this episode is for you.
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@psychacks 9 ай бұрын

One day, I hope to be able to love like the Sun. In this episode, I discuss what that means by examining the exultant humility of the star in the center of our solar system. The Sun is one of our best models of the generosity, abundance, and indifference that constitute the most elevated forms of love, and its teachings are freely available to us all. If you're ready to up your game, and move beyond the exchange of value that characterizes relationships, this episode is for you. Social Media Facebook: facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090053889622 LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/orion-taraban-070b45168/ Instagram: instagram.com/psyc.hacks Twitter: twitter.com/oriontaraban Website: oriontarabanpsyd.com Orion's Theme: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/jdiIdd2Cl66odYU.html Thinking of going to grad school? Check out STELLAR, my top-rated GRE self-study program based on the world's only empirically-validated test prep system. Use the code "PSYCH" for 10% off all membership plans: stellargre.com. Become a Stellar affiliate and earn a 10% commission for every membership purchased by a new student you conduct into the program: stellargre.tapfiliate.com. GRE Bites: www.youtube.com/@grebites4993 Become a Psychonaut and join PsycHack's member community: kzfaq.info/love/SduXBjCHkLoo_y9ss2xzXwjoin Book a paid consultation: oriontarabanpsyd.com/consultations Sound mixing/editing by: valntinomusic.com Presented by Orion Taraban, Psy.D. PsycHacks provides viewers with a brief, thought-provoking video several days a week on a variety of psychological topics, inspired by his clinical practice. The intention is for the core idea contained within each video to inspire viewers to see something about themselves or their world in a slightly different light. The ultimate mission of the channel is to reduce the amount of unnecessary suffering in the world. #psychology #love #sun

@kickhisassseabass318 9 ай бұрын

Heliocentric belief isn't scientifically proven. Still great video though 👍

@TylerAnderson-xl6hb 9 ай бұрын

On one hand you say one doesn't need love to be in a relationship , and on the other hand if one isn't feeling loved you should leave. I'm not saying this is wrong, however don't you feel the yearning for love or certain feelings greatly negate the feeling of duty in relationships (especially marriage) and would this, in part explain the high divorce rates and breaking down of the nuclear family?

@viktoriaarsova545 9 ай бұрын

I like your shirt😊

@torremalku 9 ай бұрын

@@kickhisassseabass318 All beliefs aren't scientifically proven. That's what makes them a belief, instead of being a fact.

@quirkyqs 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for this video! Do you have tips for becoming more extroverted? I feel like with age, the introverted side has taken over and maybe it has to do with energy levels overall with more responsibilities in life but would love to hear about this topic--thanks!

@pld427 9 ай бұрын

It was when I realized it was more important to "love" than to "be loved" that I experienced more love than I know what to do with.

@louera 4 ай бұрын

Beautiful realization☺️ Absolutely true. Self-love is the beginning of it all.

@hollismallory2757 4 ай бұрын

Right on

@zegy8454 2 күн бұрын

Absolutely. Been there and it feels really good. Problem is people take you for granted and can be cruel in return. Pains me to accept it, but my self esteem has plummeted and have felt depressed ever since realizing this.

@yweston 9 ай бұрын

"To get more love, you have to become more loving. " If only everyone in the world understood this concept.... what a wonderful place it would be!

@dan3696 9 ай бұрын

Would you accept my love, then?

@mzwakhetfwala16 9 ай бұрын

It would be a more peaceful place

@lantousaturn6115 9 ай бұрын

Cope. You just have to be attractive (Halo effect). Just BTFO in one sentence 😂

@dennisrobinson8008 9 ай бұрын

Works in theory and in good environments. In a toxic environment itll hurt you.

@jackjones9460 8 ай бұрын

@TotenKopf11 Life doesn’t have to be a struggle in most places until we crowd so many people together food sources are destroyed and disease spreads with our breath.

@nicolem5626 9 ай бұрын

This is your best video. No blame. No nonsense. No ego. Really wonderful video. I am so glad that you shared this lesson. It’s beautifully profound.

@lionspirit1111 9 ай бұрын

100% agree

@diegobonafe7317 5 ай бұрын

this is a fkn beautiful idea indeed

@filmcity2569 5 ай бұрын

You all just soft😂😂😂

@BigKB275 9 ай бұрын

<a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="505">8:25</a>-<a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="526">8:46</a> really resonated with me. When my ex-fiancée dumped me I had no problem letting her go because it was what she wanted and all I wanted was for her to be happy; I then mourned what I had lost over the following months but had no long-lasting ill effects. I dumped my last girlfriend in anger because of everything she did to me; it took me years to let go and find peace. I loved this episode Dr. Taraban. This is a great message to spread along.

@FrankM 9 ай бұрын

<a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="482">8:02</a> If you feel betrayed, or unappreciated, or unreciprocated, then just let go and find someone else. <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="554">9:14</a> If you're not getting what you want from a relationship, just move on and continue to shine. I learned a long time ago you can't control other people's actions or emotions. Only your own. Those two aforementioned quotes reinforce this truth.

@dante340 9 ай бұрын

For me, the crazy part is.. I actually find it much more easier to be "unconditionally loving" towards random strangers, than it is close loved ones. If a stranger needs help jumping their battery, carrying their groceries, etc. I'll help them in a heartbeat without even thinking twice about being paid back. However... when it's a person I see on a consistent basis (family, friend, co-worker, etc.), it becomes increasingly harder for me to constantly show love to them without eventually expecting some sort of reciprocation.. Like, it's only when I find myself pouring into the same person over and over again, where my well is most likely to run dry if I don't feel loved in return. Not sure if this is good, bad, normal, abnormal, but yeah. That's how it is for me.

@WinglessRain 9 ай бұрын

It's easier to be kind, authentic, and generous towards people you've not yet formed relations with because you don't have any baggage, but people close to you also need it. I haven't thought of 'reciprocation' in at least 10 years.

@desnicar 8 ай бұрын

Familiarity breeds contempt.

@el-hp1lj 4 ай бұрын

same here. My ex gf even told me how come you're nicer to strangers than me? I dont know, maybe because they are grateful and dont complain when I go out of my way to help them..?

@susanhaines7358 3 ай бұрын

True story this is a dynamic that happens a lot. Especially in marriage. A stranger is not known and a person may always precieve them as good where family is known and seen for who they are. This is to be taken seriously to overcome if you wish to choose and have a successful marriage

@thegreengatsby9803 9 ай бұрын

This made so much sense. I will keep this video in my back-pocket

@victoriaburgess700 9 ай бұрын

Me too!

@joshuasalameh6513 9 ай бұрын

Beautifully Said 👊🏻😎💯

@MitsurugiR 5 ай бұрын

Funnily enough, you exactly described God's love. I feel like this is a model by which nobody can and nobody will love. Only God.

@cule4life80 2 ай бұрын

But the sun doesn't punish you if you don't worship it

@TephaRhi 2 ай бұрын

I think it’s possible❤

@hardywatkins7737 Ай бұрын

No. The persons love. Who is god if not the person.

@TheRockerX Ай бұрын

Does the sun send you to hell for not loving it in "the right way"?

@MitsurugiR Ай бұрын

@@TheRockerX redditor

@Master0fHamsters 9 ай бұрын

I tried this with a girl I was seriously attracted to and I found myself nervous because I was also neglecting my own needs. We're not perfect like the sun. Being clear about wanting reciprocity is healthier.

@grinja73 9 ай бұрын

I think this model works best when two people understand it, otherwise one might be more of a taker than a giver.

@DNA350ppm 9 ай бұрын

It is nobody's business whom you love. You don't have to bury that feeling. Just be happy that you are one who is able to love. It is not even the business of the one(s) you love. But discussing about engaging in a long term relationship, then only choose reciprocal, mutual connection, one that makes you thrive, both of you. Never pester somebody with your loving feelings, they are yours, and nobody's business nor responsibility - just keep on being a decent person in all your conduct. Then love and appreciate those who love you, think: there's a person with good taste and all! Among those you'll find one to build a mutually satisfying relationship with.

@austintran451 9 ай бұрын

You’re misunderstanding what Mr. Taraban is saying and you were never loving like the sun because you still needed something. The Sun simply shines and doesn’t need anything from you. Loving is simply its nature because it’s what it is and it simply can’t stop loving. As long as you need something from someone, you can’t Love them. To seek love is to imply its nonexistence, which means you haven’t embodied Love yet. When you’re whole and happy by yourself and you don’t need anything from anyone anymore to be happy, it is only then that you can Love like the sun. But that’s a hard state to attain so yes, rather than pretending to be loving like the Sun, it is healthier to express wanting reciprocity.

@mikebrines5708 9 ай бұрын

You tried this in a relationship, yet his whole point was, love can't be part of a relationship. Relationships are trasnactional. Love is not. Watch the video again and maybe you'll understand.

@NextLineIsMine 9 ай бұрын

The model transcends that. Self-love overflows to the other, like he says, you’d simply part ways if that were the case

@jasonwismer2670 9 ай бұрын

This is one of your best videos. I've listened to them and I haven't quite connected because I do not view my friends and relationships in terms of transactions. I remember I did a little as a kid, but I've loved like the sun for as long as I can remember now. Its very possible. I give because I see there is a need, and their response is irrelevant. I feel nothing in return when giving and joy or apathy is returned. Because its not why you're doing it. Its the knowledge that you assisted where it was needed that counts. Even then, there's not a lot of emotion there. I think true love is cerebral. Its not emotional. Our emotional attachments to friends and family are not love. It is when we accept and help the people around us despite our emotions, because there is the knowledge that they need this, that is the real expression of love.

@siyasamente9590 9 ай бұрын

To serve for their sake and not your own. I resonate with what you said there.

@thegreengatsby9803 9 ай бұрын

I resonate also and I, too, wonder to what degree love is emotional and what degree it is a conscious choice

@ssing7113 9 ай бұрын

To give is to serve your own needs. No you’re not holy or you’ve broken the code. You’re like every one of us self serving our own wants and needs. Nice try though, masking that you’ve made it and give unconditional and with “pure love” There’s a need with much employment. I guess start there filling your towns lack of employment and go give your time for free with nothing expected in return. 😂. Just trapped you. Funny how your “giving” is selective. Wonder what needs are being met selectivity giving where you do Something to ponder on and realize. Yep. You’re still that kid only masking you’re transactions.

@jakobauger6805 8 ай бұрын

"It's shining because it's a fucking star!"

@REAL.HUMAN.ONLINE 4 күн бұрын

Linkin Park said - “ The sun doesn't give light to the moon assuming The moon's gonna owe it one” From a young age this resonated with me and you’ve just put words to what I felt all these years. Much love and power to you sir

@GrandChiefSmackaho 9 ай бұрын

Guess this is why we have a habit of developing Sun/sky gods

@Dora-wc8be 9 ай бұрын

Love is a beautiful feeling. When we give love to someone, we are giving a part of our feeling to them. Such is the charm of love that it makes you feel like a kid running in green meadows on a sunny day, flying its kite, it makes you feel that life is worthwhile ❤.

@davidteeples2558 3 ай бұрын

Beautiful description thank you!

@cryptosuperg Ай бұрын

"And in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make." -Beatles

@AvocadoBee 9 ай бұрын

Excellent metaphor. I feel like this video was made for me because very recently, I've discovered my sun powers! I've quit being emotionally attached to my expectations of others and I 100% believe that all I need is myself. It's been truly liberating.

@EK-mi6zn 9 ай бұрын

The metaphor should not be overly stretched, though. Thinking of yourself as approximating our sun's abundance appears as narcissistic, I prefer to shine for people that have, or might have, some kind of relationship with me. Metaphorically, light always is accompanied by shadow, at least on this earth.

@AvocadoBee 9 ай бұрын

@EK-mi6zn I see what you're saying. I think that this sun metaphor is actually antithetical to narcissistic behavior. Being indifferent means you aren't perturbed or compromised by an outcome. You (like the Sun) should give of yourself without any expectation of recognition or reward. This is charity. And It should go without saying, you shouldn't abandon your self-improvement mindset as well as your good manners. Although, I suppose that indifference alone would be narcissistic. And yes, light does cast a shadow. But what is a shadow? It is darkness diminished!

@robhulson 9 ай бұрын

Starting the video. I'm intrigued because I had a 12 year marriage that absolutely fell apart, and I'm in a five year LTR that is doing very well, and I attribute our current success and mutual satisfaction owing precisely to becoming very clear about an exchange of value. We both consistently work hard to make sure the other is not feeling taken advantage of. And when we become aware of that feeling, we bring it up in a non-volatile way and seek to balance things out. So, now I'll start your video because I'm intrigued and I'll report as a reply.

@lannister4694 9 ай бұрын

following

@academicknowhow1816 9 ай бұрын

"happiness comes to those who spread love like the suns rays, without asking if they deserve it"

@oh-dizzy8791 9 ай бұрын

I love your shirt!☄️ Seriously, the sun is a noteworthy metaphor! 🌞 High five to fellow Heliophiles! Great one doc!

@vtmegrad98 9 ай бұрын

I'm legit distracted from this video because I can't stop thinking that I'd like to have one of those shirts myself.

@oh-dizzy8791 9 ай бұрын

@@vtmegrad98 Google image search and see! 😃

@ZenMorph 8 ай бұрын

You don't know how much I needed to hear this today. Thank you.

@Khan-rz8qi 9 ай бұрын

This is also how I’ve always viewed love since a child Doc. I’m able to love a woman with all my heart but I’m a very unattached man. I’ve had many relationships throughout my life but they never work out because I don’t like being attached to a woman for too long. Its gotten to a point now where all the women in my life seem to unconsciously know how I am by nature. I’m a loyal dude who stand on my word, they know even if I’m doing my own thing I will never abandon them, so they stay loyal to me. I show my women love, I don’t impose anything on them, they are free to live their lives as they please. As life go by, they always stay attached to me in some way because I stimulate their minds and bodies. Relationships aren’t my thing, but women who understand me always experience the time of their lives.💯💯

@ChuckNorris-nk8tq 9 ай бұрын

Exactly how I am as well. Reserved but willing to love unattached. Want my own space and time but willing to give love when I see a chance.

@dwightbrown 9 ай бұрын

Great to read. You just described me as well.

@dimetriwatt7334 9 ай бұрын

Just read your post and I'm going to practice unattachment. I'm the guy that usually puts buffers in place to protect my investment. I was told though "that it feels like walking on eggshells"...I am open to care and loving a woman, but now i need to work on removing myself and not trying to control everything

@profound369 9 ай бұрын

So girls you're with bang other guys and come back and it's fine

@rod4726 9 ай бұрын

Basically marriage is not for you

@glowpsychiatry 5 ай бұрын

Brought a tear to my eye. Thank you for making us lovers feel seen, understood, heard and valuable.

@lilakurylski4590 9 ай бұрын

I'm finishing a book about my love story and now I'm not suffering anymore. I'm not even sure if I will show him the art that I poured in the form of words. I'm just grateful that he expanded my emotions. Thank you for your videos. They really help me to get up again. Wish you the sun!

@RicksPhatPharm-vw2lb 9 ай бұрын

Yes, MGTOW no so shallow after all is it... gotta love that black pill

@lauren4434 4 ай бұрын

wow, what a beautiful comment. God bless you.

@lilakurylski4590 4 ай бұрын

@@lauren4434 how kind of you for telling me that, thank you Lauren. Im still refining some chapters of that book. I sure feel so blessed for integrating that part in me. Hope you leave your fears behind and focus on what makes you happy and important. God bless you.

@lauren4434 4 ай бұрын

Truly you have inspired me. I have turned an apparent abandonment and rejection into a creativity that has served me and my relationship with God, and the expansion which came from apparent "failure" of the relationship I had wanted has been for me like a huge golden step up.. I chose this. Thank you, kindred soul, @@lilakurylski4590

@valeriagopaul Ай бұрын

"Even after all this time The Sun never says to the Earth "You owe me" Look what happens with a love like that It lights up the whole sky" Hafiz I had a conversation with a friend some time ago who was telling me that his grown children took him out to dinner for his birthday. He was telling me that my daughter (18 months old then) will do the same for me pretty. I replied that I do not expect her to. In fact, I will still do what I’ve been doing for her and more regardless of whether she reciprocates at all. At that moment I realized I truly loved my daughter. My point is most parents love their children like the Sun. Thank you for the beautiful analogy.

@Walabinx 9 ай бұрын

Can you elaborate on the bit about, "When you feel love, what you're actually experiencing is your own love leaving you. That's true for all emotions."

@fabianirsara9846 9 ай бұрын

This is so good. I've basically witnessed the same thing in myself where at the point where I told my significant other that I'd love her, it was to some level replaceable. Like... don't get me wrong it's not that ANY other woman could have sat there next to me, but I just felt this sense of deep love, respect and contentment for myself which I was able to express to the outside world and I feel like after this moment everything changed for me, I would not get upset about rejection of the love I was giving anymore.

@Amlux1984 9 ай бұрын

You aren’t really loving if the rejection doesn’t hurt. Love isn’t numb.

@mrchristian87 9 ай бұрын

@@Amlux1984love is a state you can let flower in you but it can also be censored by the constriction of the mind aka the ego.

@user-xp1dw5iz3s 9 ай бұрын

"You are the one you have been looking for", this hit me like thunder 🤯

@michamichalak6200 9 ай бұрын

Accept your nature, if you give, and give and get nothing for it, you will feel resentful, unless you believe you will get a prize in "afterlife" for your deeds.

@angrydragon4574 9 ай бұрын

That's why most religions have to sell you on the "Heaven's Reward" fallacy. There's no evidence for Heaven or Hell other than BELIEF. It's like believing in Santa Claus but for adults that can't bear reality.

@immanentPassages 9 ай бұрын

So beautiful! You really brought it home for me with the example of our children playing in the distance. And it gave me a whole new appreciation for the scripture, "God is love." Thank you!

@dhirajkumargupta4151 9 ай бұрын

People going with this sun analogue should search for ❤ Suryavanshi Prabhu Shri Ram ❤

@ricardoge96 9 ай бұрын

thanks Dr, i literally got out of a relationship last month, i felt like my love wasn´t been reciprocated, so instead of turning bitter and vengeful towards her, i just let her go, i stopped focusing on her and instead i just focus on my goals, told her that i´m not gonna make her be with me against her own will, so we are now again walking are own paths, it is a strange feeling but very refreshing, focusing on doing actions because they are the things that make you feel meaning in life, i still have the memories which make me feel i´m carrying some extra luggage, but as time goes on, day by day it feels lighter, just keep living and loving, because it is the right way of living, be your best possible version!

@marvy1021 9 ай бұрын

This was a very profound video

@bumpercoach 9 ай бұрын

living your life appreciates the sun way beyond any other form of worshipful awe

@xdude57 3 ай бұрын

This video is on another level .. it’s profound- you have a gift to teach, clarity you bring to any topic is second to none. Big fan, here

@MagusKali 9 ай бұрын

It's difficult to remove the ego when it comes to expressing love with another person, because on some level you desire reciprocation. Getting that return for your investment equates to your value in a way, and yet you give away a lot of your own power in the process. Loving just to love is definitely a worthwhile goal. Great video.

@andersnielsen6044 9 ай бұрын

If you expect returns - you do not love!

@Ablemaung 9 ай бұрын

That was really beautiful and very true. I thought about this a lot and I’ve realized that it is the giver of love who get to experience love.

@josemanuelsanchezrosales1066 9 ай бұрын

This is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you.

@elfixa 9 ай бұрын

Dr. I gotta say, your videos are getting better and better and this one was instantly one of my all time favorites ❤

@rafapenn 8 ай бұрын

Your insights always make me see things a lot more clear, I really appreciate your content, thank you, Orion!

@xavierwaterkeyn Ай бұрын

Finally! A KZfaqr who’s saying things beyond the transactional, marketplace discourse in which most discussions about relationships are framed. What a relief!

@kevinnolan6579 9 ай бұрын

There’s genius in you Sir! You have made my life a better experience in multiple ways. Very much appreciated and I wish you all enrichment you have gifted to us all your watchers. Shine on Sir!

@swilletted 9 ай бұрын

Your last few videos have been very profound and have helped me open my mind to be stronger and more resilient- thank you so much

@ivanpetricevic3893 9 ай бұрын

Absolutely fantastic! You have an unique analogical talent. Even the well known analogies seem new from your mouth. Thank you.

@matthewmeyers3397 9 ай бұрын

Love this metaphor. Excellent description, thank you for articulating it so well

@liannesherlock7659 9 ай бұрын

Best talk yet. So incredibly healing. Such a huge moment of realisation. ❤ thank you!

@shanti888 9 ай бұрын

Love like the sun. Very quotable ☀️

@kristasuz127 9 ай бұрын

I love this! ❤ Beautiful analogy wrapped around such wisdom. One of your best videos yet! Shine on my friend… Yet stay humble like the sun!!🌞🌞🌞

@waltjg7568 9 ай бұрын

Very good Orion! Beautiful, as a matter of fact. Thank you for producing this Video.

@delocon 8 ай бұрын

This is my favorite video you have done so far. I've shown it to so many people.

@edwarda.tokash8166 9 ай бұрын

The entire expaination makes perfect logical sense, but what I found to be particularly interesting is the example of the parent watching in the distance and the conclusion that comes from it i.e. the highest response to love is joy and not some form of transaction or exchange. Even a feeling or demonstration of gratitude, praise, or appreciation, could become a repayment to the person expressing love, which would automatically relegate those responses to an inferior status compared to joy. Since joy is something that is personally experienced, it cannot be transactioned while maintaining its spontaneous nature - fake joy is not joy at all. This helped me understand that, while it's desirable to show this type of love to others, it's also essential to have the proper response when others show this kind of love to me.

@Heallove24 9 ай бұрын

Whoa! Listening to this while sitting in the sun at lunch is rather comforting. Love this analogy so much. You are spot on here. 🌞

@WwEN1GM4wW 9 ай бұрын

I watched a lot of your episodes and I’ve got to say, this is my favorite message.

@divinelovestar 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for share us this unconditional love is part of this ! Time to shine 😎 experiencing this at the moment

@frankolwenda5128 9 ай бұрын

This was so beautiful to listen to. Thank you so much for sharing

@FinenDine 9 ай бұрын

Incredible I tried to explain this yesterday with a date and got halfway there. I'm going to send this because you put it so beautifully. Thank you🙏

@nomorewaiting371 8 ай бұрын

I've watched and heard you a lot and imo this is your best work yet

@GauravJain108 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so much, Orion! Your content is refreshing and the perspective you bring to the table is thought provoking! Loved your other videos too! Keep going! :D

@ma2000 8 ай бұрын

This is really profound and so elegantly presented. Your channel is a gold mine

@njabulondiweni5914 9 ай бұрын

Definitely enlightening, I needed to hear this. I definitely forwarded this to a couple of people who will benefit, just like I did 👍

@paulbukkens3773 9 ай бұрын

Amen brother! That was beautiful ❤

@user-hx7mt6nd4o 9 ай бұрын

This is my favorite video from you. It reminds us of the goal of how we should live our lives.

@charlesdenney1 8 ай бұрын

Beautiful message. It’s rare to see this degree of depth and insight these days. Especially on YT. Thanks for what you do 🙏

@tdrivers1102 9 ай бұрын

One of the best videos I’ve seen on this platform. Bravo

@freditorials 7 ай бұрын

This is “Truly” your best , AND ONE OF THE BEST I’ve ever heard….EVER!

@bayareaomg 9 ай бұрын

I just got into a new relationship and am binging your videos again so I can navigate this without imploding, thanks dr!

@reuelmelville5232 8 ай бұрын

My G-d. This has been his best talk yet! Really amazing!

@4truly 4 ай бұрын

This is the best one you've ever done. Profound. Pure TRUTH

@jackjones9460 9 ай бұрын

Thank you! Recently I’ve been wondering about that idea of being too nice too people and your discussion here encouraged me to not worry if people can’t handle kindness, it’s not my problem they can go on living in fear as much as they want. Meanwhile I can enjoy being kind when possible simply because it’s a pleasure. Thank you.

@edwardbrito4010 8 ай бұрын

Becareful who you shine to people take advantage & can abuse if you don’t put boundaries.

@vtecman108 9 ай бұрын

Love this episode. There is soo much depth in the comparison with love and the sun. Sun worship was a massive part of most ancient cultures, and I think this is no coincidence.

@DivinelyGodess 9 ай бұрын

Such a wonderful message! wow, it really does make sense why we often times get the idea of love mixed with unnecessary emotion and drama! This has been the most important and enlightening lesson I’ve been taught in my life!🎉

@ArmyWolves 9 ай бұрын

Dr.Taraban... Love your channel and videos

@user-mm1zd3kz8q 2 ай бұрын

I think this is the best episode I've heard from you.

@OpiumMonkey 6 ай бұрын

Literally one of the best videos I’ve ever seen

@secretshaman189 7 ай бұрын

Wow this video was so packed with meaning I had to listen to it twice to really absorb what you were saying. Some really important distinctions in love and relationship, thank-you!

@madsras42 9 ай бұрын

This was wonderful. Reminded me alot of a David Deida book I read. But the metaphor of the Sun is very easy to get your head around. Thank you.

@Topspeedmotorcars 2 ай бұрын

Brilliant- Orion has the best analogies, and he is 100% correct. Thank you my friend. Best of luck and continued success !

@Rosie_Apple_Delight 3 ай бұрын

I love this. Love is to give with no expectation of reciprocation. To require reciprocation is antithetical to what love even is. When loving less, being less loving is required to be perceived as being of greater value and appreciated that is just confirmation of it being a transactional relationship void of actual love anyways. Love like you are the sun and never let anyone dim your light.

@vivekoswal 8 ай бұрын

Thank you for your efforts to clarify and solidify the most fundamental and most important aspect of our existence. The contemporary form of your message further helps to reinforce and strengthen the messages of ancient wisdom traditions and simultaneously acts a solid tool to share with people who we relate to! May you always feel the radiance of the causless Divine grace!

@pawsitivedogtraining7043 Ай бұрын

You are teaching Kabbalah now! Beautiful message! Thank you!!!

@FashMD 9 ай бұрын

I don't tend to leave comments but I must note this by far is your best video. Strong work

@ekekonoise 9 ай бұрын

Beautiful my dude. What an inspirational thought, so evident yet we keep forgetting it

@SareehTube-AhmadTaha 2 ай бұрын

My favorite episode so far! I love this 💚

@gratefullyblessedonline-xo 8 ай бұрын

Such a beautiful and unique perspective all round as well..

@orgelmark 9 ай бұрын

Soooo true! And beautifully said. Amen.

@Cute__Noob 5 ай бұрын

Oh wow... I am finally free from the chains of my own love❤ Thank you Orion

@SheenaRea Ай бұрын

Wow. Deep and profound. Thank you, this really hits home. 🌞

@mzwakhetfwala16 9 ай бұрын

Wow what a profound message, we should go in relationship not because of the NEED to love but out of the DESIRE to EXPRESS love

@DavidDHorstman 9 ай бұрын

Did you know you uploaded this episode on the first day of the new year? As millions of us turn our thoughts to making peace with the events of the past year, your wise words about letting go with love could not be more illuminating. May this be the year that we all learn to love like the sun.