the fact that he can’t take no for an answer is simply alarming

Hannah moving the rose podium is iconic tbh

“I’ll excuse myself.” Because to him he’s leaving on HIS terms That’s the manipulative side of him.

4:04 honestly, this is a perfect example of the bystander effect. They all want to step up and do something but don't want to break the line, but *Tyler* finally steps forward and that's what gives the other guys like Jed the social permission to break the status quo and intervene.

The producers did Hannah dirty by allowing this.

Tyler when he said “Or what” had me shook and then Jed had to ruin it with his little voice saying “Ya what are you going to do”

Not taking NO for an answer is a red flag that someone is abusive. Hannah was spot on, he IS a narcissist and kudos to her for standing her ground and not being guilt-tripped into a relationship.

Tyler: or what? Everyone: 🤰🏻🤰🏼🤰🏽🤰🏾🤰🏿🤰

the fear in luke's eyes when tyler said "or what", dead.

Luke: it’s all about communication Hannah: starts talking Luke: *LISTEN*

he has the audacity to say "im going to excuse myself" after she tells him to leave so many times

“i’m gonna stand here all day” “i’m not leaving until” “this is MY heart we’re talking about” “this isn’t over for me yet” “i’m not going anywhere” i could not imagine being married to someone like that. she is honestly so lucky he showed her his true colours before they got married because he is SCARY.

it's like she's a teacher saying no to a toddler lmaoo

who else loved when hannah moved the podium w the roses

Tyler C: “Did you already send him home Hannah?” Hannah: “yea!” Tyler C: “alright then let’s go” That had to be without a doubt the sexiest thing I’ve heard Tyler say.

Luke “lay your hands OFF ME” 😡 Tyler: “OR WHAT” Luke: 😳

I blame the producers. Thats very disrespectful to Hannah that she told him to leave and they allowed him to come back. It's like they don't value her opinion.

Half the blame is on the show production for allowing and encouraging him to do this.

im genuinely scared for every woman that ever has or will interact with him.

1. The moment he’s realized she already sent him home and they had no clue. 2. Tyler calling her “Han” 😍 3. Hannah picking up the podium and moving it

Why does it take Chris Harrison coming in (a man in authority) for Luke to leave? I am so freaked out watching this. She kept telling him to leave over and over and he finally did once Harrison was there. Stalker stalker stalker.

4:04 Tyler is the one that goes to help stop this situation, tho Jed notices and tries to get ahead. Love Tyler!

the beginning video made me feel so uncomfortable. it was like watching a stalker video that was released to the public from the police station.

When Tyler said “or what?” 😍😍

the fact that he doesn't understand that no means no concerns me deeply. that's an immensely dangerous and narcissistic characteristic, and GENUINELY worries me for other girls that date/have things with him

“She’s never told me she loves me, but I know she loves me” He has serious personality issues. Like an actual 100% narcissist

Jed's face when she says "I've already sent you home" tho

Tyler is a real one and is actually intimidating. Then Jed messes it up every time he speaks 😂😂😂

Tyler c: or what Me: IM IN MY WEDDING DRESS 👰🏻

Well that’s weird how he was staring at her after she said no.

“You send him home Hannah?” I love him making her choices known and then acting on them

At 1:29 u can see Tyler is happy to see Hannah, but then his face quickly changes after seeing Luke go up to her when she clearly doesn’t want him to. Melts my heart

Nothing worse than a man who can't take no for an answer. The worst things happen with men like that.

Luke’s favorite word is “clarity” lol

Bachelor casting be like Producers: “You hot?” Contestant: “Yes” Producers: “You crazy?” Contestant: “Yes” Producers: “Welcome!”

Jed is over there acting like he didn’t do anything wrong when he had a freaking girlfriend back home 🙄

I swear every woman has experienced one Luke in thier life

Does he get no means no? It doesn't mean convince me

When Tyler says “or what?” 🥵 Luke p has never looked smaller

“Dont take no for an answer” doesnt apply to situations like this

I love how protective Tyler got. Haven’t even followed this season but damn go Tyler

He wants to get her alone so he can manipulate and gaslight her some more. Abusers always want to get you alone.

2:40 was literally the funniest reaction!!! Jed looking around like “wait what?” dead💀😂

His demeanor at the beginning is so telling. It’s clear he’s acting from a place of pride and wounded-ego as opposed to genuine love.

As a straight man, be still my heart when Tyler steps forward first to defend her at 4:05

4:25 : Jed looking straight into the camera. *freeze frame* "yup, thats me. you're probably wondering how I got here"

LMAO 4:48 Chris Harrison comes , he had a hand in setting this up lmao ! And played dumb asking Hannah what she wants to do lmao !

That was harassment. Plain and simple.

Luke: Do you think it would be a great idea if I came back to tell her how I feel? Producers: Yeah! who knows maybe she'll change her mind about you.

Luke p reminds me of a fly that you keep trying to swat but it just won’t go away

Dude, he's like a stalker. "I'm not leaving until I have closure" boy her saying no is your closure.

The way Tyler looks at her dumping Luke hahahaha he is sooo in love! I can’t get over it

Luke P misogynisticly tries to get himself what he wants while hurting someone else and disrespecting boundaries!!

He just can’t comprehend that she does not want to be with him. He backtracks on everything he says. Scary dude.

“Hannah thought, after sending me away in the van, there was no way that I would want to be with her anymore” Nah my dude. Hannah was thinking about how *SHE* doesn’t want to be with *YOU*

Jed’s face when Hannah says she already sent him home is everything 😂

Love that Tyler was the first to take initiative to help Hannah.. A MAN

Tyler is standing there looking like a whole entire meal😍

I love it when the lead and contestants look directly into the camera and production. Hannah did it when she first walked in and saw Luke and then Jed did it at 4:27. This is when you realize this whole situation was production set up, or production being complicit in letting it continue to happen. Gahd Bach producers are so good at making television!

2:38 I don't like Jed like that, but this that look has to be one of my favorite moments of the season 🤣

*Tyler C wooing us and telling us he ABOUT THAT LIFE!!!! **1:46** **2:43** **4:15** **4:22*

whats crazy is after the conversation they had, what luke got from it was, "oh she thinks i dont want to be with her" all i have to do is prove that i still lover her. THAT WASNT THE PROBLEM MATE SHE REJECTED YOUUUU!!

He’s genuinely a physcopath “I know she loves me” MATE YOUR CRAZY?!?

3:54 made this entire episode worth watching hannah is such a kween

Luke: “how relationships work is through communication” Hannah: (tries to speak) Also Luke: (cuts her off) can you listen? the stupidity... i cannot

luke shows signs of very abusive behavior and i cant believe the producers let him back

I would wager, that soooo many women here have had to deal with a controlling, possessive, all about them man like this.. But unfortunately for many of them, they don't have 3 other men flanking them on all sides to ensure they're safe. So as much as we're entertained by this video, I'd encourage all the men watching to just reflect a bit on JUST how creepy he is, how invasive, how controlling he comes off, how awkward the situation is, how tense, how unsafe it feels, how much torture he's mentally putting her through... Then take steps to make sure YOU don't become guilty of the same some day by refusing to let go or respect your partner or ex partner's wishes... (cont. below) If they say they need space, give them space. If they say they need time, give them time. It will ALWAYS work out better for you and for her, and if there is any chance at all of your relationship working, after she's had her space and time I assure you, she'll make sure you know, and your relationship will be better and stronger for it. But if she says you're done, that she has zero interest, then ffs leave her be. You don't own her. You don't get to hijack someone else's life. Yes, you'll hurt for awhile. But sulk, cry, and go through the process. Find some friends, distract yourself, reflect on what went wrong and what YOU could've improved, go out, have fun for sake of having fun, and come out the other side, like everyone else has to. You'll always survive. You'll always have a chance at finding another love, one that wants you and cherishes you. Time does heal all, and moves on with or without you. You just need to go through it, but after time has gone by you'll feel stronger than ever. Just please, for the love of god (just an expression lol), never, ever be a Luke. It will never be a sensible, reasonable or productive option. Don't even consider it. If you're worth your salt, if a woman tells you she needs space and time, she will come around and realize she appreciates you, and she'll always respect and appreciate that you allowed her to be her own woman and make her own decisions. But man, if she don't want you, get over it ya little insecure baby. It don't make you strong to invade somebodies life like that, to try and control them like that. It just makes you an utter mental weakling who ain't strong enough to handle the circumstance, and can instead only desperately flail around grasping at straws trying anything and everything to cling onto the person, including potentially intimidation and even violence. Because you're too weak to handle hurt. Too bad. Still don't give ya a right to control and torture someone who can... Reality out...

WHY IS NOONE TALKING ABOUT HOW SAVAGE HANNAH WENT TO MOVE THE ROSES TO CONTINUE HER BIDNESS AND COMPLETELY CANCEL LUKE OMG IM DYIN

This guy gives me the chills he so sus

Tyler’s iconic “or what” still has me ROLLING

Never have I ever watched this show in my entire life, I’ve only seen clips of this show and I can honestly say I adore Hannah and her attitude her spunk ugh and gorgeous.!

this is pure reality tv gold

The look in Tyler's eyes the whole time 💓 My gosh you can tell how much he cares for her!

4:46 when Chris Harrison shows up Hannah: *dad help me...* Chris Harrison: *dad is here now*

Watching this over from 4 yrs ago takes me back to that night on tv!! So golden!! HB was the epitome of entertainment in Bachelorette history!!

Luke has forever ruined the word “clarity” for me.

Come on Luke. When a girl says no she means NO. You seriously just need to accept the fact that Hannah doesn't want you and that she doesn't see a future with you. Just move on already

Respect to all of the guys for stepping in after she said “no” how many times? And nobody from production stop it from from happening. Especially when 2 of them know they’re still gonna be turned down. True genuine men.

The audience laughing makes this so much better 🤣🤣🤣🤣

WHEN HE SAID “listen” BOY

I wish Hannah had said something about Chris and the producers letting Luke on set. Do you actually believe that he just showed up?

"i believe she's making a big mistake" luke it's not up to you to decide that

1:13 all the women just laugh when he steps in line with the other men 🤣 I love that audience 🤣

3:40 Tyler C is turned on by the beast 😂 He's such a babe

Hannah moving the podium to me was her way of jumping the fence lol..xo

Watching Tyler in this moment again just makes me all the more confused as to why she didn't make him the final pick. Tyler is a real man.

Omg... he is crazy. Look how he’s staring at her. Thank God the cameras were there.

*THE PRODUCTION WOULD NOT ALLOW THIS IF THEY WEREN'T LIVING FOR THE DRAMA!!!*

PRODUCER'S NEEDS TO BE ASHAME OF THEMSELVES.

you could see the genuine fear in Luke's eyes when Tyler said "or what?"

My soul left my body when Tyler said, "Or what?"

get a restraining order! mfs are out here STALKING and PROPOSING?! whack

at the end of the day..... tyler c is really hot

The way he was staring at her gave me chills...

I love how Tyler stepped out first

I can't believe the producers put her through this

Tyler licking his lip is such a turn on

It's insanely creepy how calm he is during this whole thing

Jedd acting like he’s a hero lmao

She called him a narcissist. Bullseye!