Our children are a reflection of who we are as parents. We are to be parents to our children and not their best friend. If you as parents don't set boundaries and rules for your children when they are young then you can't expect your children to be disciplined as young adults. You have to discipline and coach them at a young age. Best of luck to you and your family.

Nrog kj nyuaj siab rau kj cov me nyuam thb kj tus txiv o niam lau aw

Txhob tu siab rau leej twg. Tu siab rau yus kheej vim yus yog tus xaiv

Nrog koj tu siab os tus muam txiv neeg yeej muaj li koj hais tab si yeej muaj cov zoo thiab nawb .

Niam lo lus foom tsim nyog lawm

Tiam no yuav tau ua kom zoo2 heev lwm tiam thiaj tau li💚💚💚💚💚💐💐💐🌷🌷🌷🌹🌹🙏🙏🙏

txhob tu siab xab maim no yus yuav hlub yus tus kheej xwb os..txhob tos peb tus txiv hlub peb..txhob tos peb cov menyuam hlub peb...lawv tsis yuav yus los yus khwv yus noj...thaum ua tsis tau noj lawm ces kawg mus nyob tsev laus xwb..cov menyuam no lawv tsuas hlub yus thaum lawv me me es lawv need yus ua m ov rau lawv noj thiab muab nyiaj lawv siv xwb..hlub koj tus kheej nawv viv ncaus...

Lol 😂 your husband says you’re the “Liam” when he’s the one that’s cheating!! You’re too nice towards him... and you have no self love. Love yourself and learn to stand up for yourself... let him go and if your kids are losers like him...learn to let them be too. Let them suffer and learn their own mistakes and let karma teach them a few lessons. I wish you the best sister. 🙏🙏

niam ua laib tub ntxhais ua laib yog vim niam lub hom phiaj uas niam ua dlau los lawm, kuv pob niam los yeej zoo li koj thiab

Mommy es. Go on vacation. Take your money & spend it on yourself. Leave those ungrateful children & cheating husband to suffer. Buy a ticket to a far away island & just go!

Niam laus Ca koj zaj no e ca yawv mob hlwb ua luaj li os tu siab heev li os

nrog koj tus saib os

Kuv xav ib yam li koj zaj neej neeg no thiab ostxoj kev me nyuas tsi mloog lus mas nyuaj siab kawg ua rau yus mob kiag los yeej hais tsi tau me nyuam kuv tus txij nkawm hlub kuv heev tiam sis kuv muaj ib tug me nyuam ua rau kuv mob yuav tuag li thiab mas nyuaj siab kawg nkaus

😔😔😔😔 mob siab tshaj li os

Siab phem npaum ntawv ces kav tsij mus ua ntawv tis thaiv pem tub ceev xwm os. Neeg phem ces yeej tsis tso siab li nawb. Yus hlub yus tus kheej nawb mog. Luag txawm ua li rau yus lawm los, yus tsis txhob saib yus tus kheej tsis muaj nuj nqis es kav tsij tshem tawm tej neeg phem neeg tsis zoo tawm hauv yus lub neej mus. Txhob xav tias yus tws kev. Kev loj kev dav ntshe yus lub siab tawv tsis txaus xwb. Yeej muaj ntau kev tau ntau kev khiav dim. Yeej muaj ntau kev pab os. Yeej meem tawm mus nrhiav es tsis txhob ntshai os.

Zoo li twb hnov koj hai lawm ne lo

Kav tsij mu pib dua koj lub neej tshiab es thiaj paub tia lub neej tshiab ho zoo li ca mog

Tus viv ncaus aw txhob zov lawv cov menyuam kiag lawv xa ntau tuaj ces hu police tuaj coj mus kiag xwb koj pab lawv npaum li ces lawv ntxub koj npaum li ntawv tag mas

Me nyuam zoo li leej txiv ntag mas

Me viv ncaus ua cas peb los ua lub neej rau tiam no es peb txoj kev nyuaj siab yuav zoo tib yam koj li txawv tsis ntau peb li txawv tsis tau koj xwb tej me nyuam no ces nyim yus lub zog yug lawv xwb os

Sometimes sister, you just got to let everybody go and let everyone make their own mistake. You did your job already now take care of yourself.

tug mes viv ncaus aw cas kuv tsis tau hnov dua ib zaj neej neeg yuav phem npaum li koj zaj no thiab laiv. mloog luag lwm zaj mas txiv tsis hlub yus los tej mes nyuam hlub2 leej niam li hos. Koj Cov mes nyuam no yog ib Pab mes nyuam ua phem kawg nkau li nawb. yeej nrog Koj tu siab kawg li thiab os. thaum hluag koj tsis mloog Koj niam lawv hais thiab ne. tej laus lawv qhia yus ces yeej yog qhov zoo ntau dua xwb ov.

Tus txiv tsev no ruam tshaj plaws. Mi nyuam tsis hmloo lus thiab tsis tsim txiaj twb yog vim leej txiv yog tus thawj laib laus. Yus yog leej txiv es yus twb tsis txawj coj tsis qhuab qhia mi nyuam es mi nyuam yuav ua cas hmloo lus. Pom xeeb yog txiv tsev tiam sis niaj hnub tham hluas nkauj thiab ua phem rau leej niam ces kawg mi nyuam yeej tsis ntshai thiab hwm leej niam. Qhov mi nyuam yuav respect niam thiab txiv mam yuav tsum yog tus niam thiab tus txiv yeej respect ib leeg ib tug ua ntej rau mi nyuam pom thiab kawm.

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Niam ntsuab teev thov koj pab muab kuv cov lus no xa mus rau tus niam tsev zaj neej neeg no tias txiv neej siab zoo tseem muaj yog nws tsis tau yuav txiv no seb puas kam qhib siab txais tos tus txiv neej zoo li kuv

May God be with you, lady. I hope that you will soon have the courage to forgive yourself and start a new life, in this lifetime. Everyone deserves a second chance. However, we must re-evaluate ourselves from time to time, because we (sometimes) might be the issue to the problem. I too have been guilty of many mistakes and poor choices which I cannot blame anyone but myself. However, we must forgive, embrace, and move forward each day. Good luck in the future.

Cas yuav tu siab ua luaj os me viv ncaus aw yog lwm tiam tseem muaj tiag ua zoo mus thov ntaub thov ntawv dua kom tau tus hlub2 koj os

cas txoj kev nyuaj siab yuav Saul rau koj ib leeg niam tsev aws. thov kom vajtswv pom fwm koj rau2 yav laus os

You are in control of your life. Remember that

Cas pab hlub tus niam tsev no ua luaj li os. Txhob xav ntau2 tsam muaj mob os mog.

Tus siab ua luaj niam laus es. Koj siab zoo dhau lawm os. Cas lawv ua phem ua luaj li no rau koj es koj tsis tsim kiag mus nyob lwm lub zoj nas los mus nyob txawv laj nas es txhob ntau xov qhia koj tes me nyuam no lawm mas kom koj tus qub txiv niab tsov tom liam ntawv ho nrhiav kom txhob tau koj lawm mas lod... Koj siab zoo tiag tiag li os, siab zoo los ruam dhau lawm ua tseem kam zog lawv tes niab kaas raum thiab laud. Pab nrog koj npau tawv los nrog koj tus siab thiab os nawb.

Yov puas yog li koj hais thiab puas muaj tseeb lli koj zaj neej neeg no yog muaj li koj haus mas Koj yog ib tug poj niam mas nruam tahaj plaws li os viv ncaus aw. Nrog kon tus siab viv koj nruam heev.

Tiam neej no koj tshuav nqi tiag tiag li lauj yom pab koj tu siab kawg

To this sister: Know the difference between kindness and weakness. Be kind but DON’T be weak! Stand up for yourself! Don’t let your loser ex treat you like that! And definitely stand up to your kids! Let them learn the hard way! And most important of all, be kind to yourself. Love yourself. Be good to yourself.

วัสดีครับน้องเมเธอเล่าไดัดีมาก

Ua cas cov txiv neej no twb yog nws cov niag noob tsis zoo Los cas nws pheej cem cov neej tsa es yog nws cov yawm yij ho cem nws no ho xav li cas Na hmoob aw thov tseg lo lus no thiab lau! Luag twb tsis cem kj kwv kj tij thiab kj tej nkauj tej muam thiab kj niam kj txiv ne!!!

Tus me niam laus nrog koj tu siab heev li os vim koj mus yuav tau tus neeg phem los ua koj tus txiv lawm thov kom tom ntej no koj mus tau ib tug txiv hlub 2 koj nawb mog

txhob tuag rau ib tug txiv neej.thaum nws tsis hlub koj pab koj,koj xav tias nws yog hmoob xwb twb tsis txheeb ze koj nws thiaj tsis hlub koj. menyuam peb yog niam yug peb yeej hlub tshaj.menyuam hais li peb hais tau xwb ua ntau tshaj qhov no ces peb yuav tuag sawv ntsug rau cov menyuam no.xab maim no menyuam lawv coj cai mes kas lawm xwb lawv tsis hwm yus tsis pab yus...tsuas yog yus yug tau lawv es yus hlub lawv xwb...hais li koj hais tau xwb yog n ws tsis mloog cia nws txom nyem nws mam qhia nws tus kheej xwb

You need to move to a different state far away

Run far away! Be smarter

yim mloog mas yim npau taws rau niag tswv neej neeg no xwb os.

Kuv pab hlub tus Niam tsev no heev tiamsi Kuv ho tsis hlub thiab vim mloog mas zoo li nws ib sab ntaw nyob nrawv ib sab nyob hauv . Yog phem npaum li Koj tus txiv no yog Kuv nrauj lawm Kuv tsis keke cia nws lub tsejmuag lwj lo kuv lub tsev, es tseem tias zov niamyau thiab tus txiv cov me nyuam thiab os ntuj aws. tus me niamtsev tsis paub yuav hais li cas rau koj li lawm es yog li koj hais koj yog tus npam. thov vajtswv pab kom koj txojhauv kev kom koj tsib kev kajsiab kajplawv.

Zaj neej neeg no ua rau peb cov mloog muaj ntshav siab. Tus poj niam no tos nws tau kev txom nyem los vim nws tus kheej, txhob liam rau lwm leej. Tus txiv twb nrauj lawm los tseem pheej niaj hnub "koj txiv, koj txiv. Yawg Thaub, yawg thaub." Tseem yuav zov me nyuam rau thiab. Tus txiv thiab cov me nyuam zoo li nws pab no muab tso pov tseg es mus nrhiav lub neej tshiab, ua cas ho tsis ua? Rooj teb no txoj cai twb pab yus ne? 911 yog dab tsi? "Restrain order" yog dab tsi? Ruam tsis tshaj no lawm os mog. OMG!

Hai tau zoo heev li muam

Es ntshe tus viv ncaus no tsis muaj siab muaj ntsws ib qho li os. Yuav tsis muaj npaum li hais pob yog tseem nrog tau tus qub txiv txuas lus thiab zov tau tus qub txiv cov menyuam naj. Thiab cov menyuam yuav tsis phem tas tus li kaj. Tsis txaus ntseeg li os

Lady, open your eyes. Your whole family fell apart. It is time to see the fault that you play in the destruction of your family. It is sad for the mothers that has the victim mentality. If all your kids turn out bad, it means you fail at parenting.

Lawv.aw thov​ kom.lwm tiam txhob​ntsib lawm​ mog​

Peb poj niam txhua tus yog paub tias lub neej yav pem suav yuav tsis zoo ces yeej yuav tsi yug menyuam coob thiab los ua ib leej niam zoo. Vim tsi paub es yus thiaj li los ua neej tu tub tu kiv tsi nco qab txhawj tias tsam yus tus txiv tsi hlub yus.

Niam ntsuab teev xav 2 mloog koj hais, es lam mloog xwb tej zaj no tsis tshua txaug ntseeg na.

Pab koj tu siab kawg tus mi viv ncaus thov kom lwm tiam koj muaj hmoo tshaj tiam no os mog.

Tus me niam tais aw txhob tu siab os mog ntshe tiam thaum ub koj tshuav lawv nqi es koj tseem them tsis tau tas es tiam no koj thiaj raug lawv tsim os mog.

Ab ya nyias hlub nyias tus kheej xwb os cia nyias mus muaj nyias kev nyuaj siab txhob nyuaj 2 siab rau lawd os hlub yus tus kheej zoo dua txhob hlub leej twg hlub yus tus kheej xwb os vim yus txoj sia muaj nqi dua tej me nyuam thiab niag txiv siab2 phem li no txhob k lawd koj thiaj muaj sia ntev nyob xwb os

Ruam ua luaj nyob ib leeg kaj siab dua yog tau lub neej zoo li no

She is stupid for letting all this happen to her! She could move away!

koj niam aw yog muaj tseeb li koj hais koj tiag ces tso pluav lawv pov tseg tawm plawv mus yus nyob yus xwb mas

I feel so bad for you lady. Don’t worry about your kids and your husband. Live for you😊 enjoy your life.

Us zoo tauzoo, uaphem ces yuav tauphem ntag.

🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ I don't feel sorry for this lady. Who the hell still watches their ex husband's kids with another lady?! like really?! I would of done did call the cops on them kids after he tried and kill me by hurting my car. You haven't got enough yet lady.

Hmong women, remember that if you don’t respect yourself, then your husband n kids will not respect you.

Old one

Ntxim li tseem mag txim txom tsis tau txaus thiaj tseem nyob

Niam tsev aw koj txwv yuav kev lawm os mog yus me nyuam yus yeej hlub thiab mob siab heev li tab sis yog txwv heev li koj txwv ces me nyuam haj yam phem rau yus xwb 😕

Need training kid how life FUTURE...it hard..it about money. Love...it hurt..

Tus niam tsev awww....peb cov pojniam Hmoob lub neej ces tsis txawv deb koj li os. Yus tej menyuam es yus nim ntshai ntshai tsam txom nyem li yus los lawv yeej tsis ntshai thiab tsis pab lawv tus kheej kiag li. Koj niag txiv tsim koj ua rau koj lwj siab npaum ko ces kawg nyias nyob nyias es tso nws mus li ko. Hos hais txog koj pheej tseem pab lawv ces tsis yog koj npam os, yog koj siab zoo dhau lawm xwb. Tiam sis ua qhov zoo yeej zoo tshaj koj ua qhov phem os. Yog li pab li koj pab tau. Txoj kev zoo kev phem uas peb ua hauv ntiaj teb no ces nyias ua nyias yeej yuav ris nyias tiag tiag nawb. Thov Vajtswv foom hmoov zoo rau koj txoj kev zoo. Zam txim rau tej menyuam thiab koj txiv es ua siab loj....move on.

Tus muam koj twb xub tsis mloog niam txiv tej lus qhuab qhia ua ntej lawm koj ntsib kev kub ntxhov 6 koj lub neej koj niam koj txiv lawv nyuaj siab tu siab npaum li cas 6 koj ces koj thiaj tau taug kiag lawv tus neev taw kev npam yeej muaj tiag raug lawm thiaj paub

Cas yuav ruam txog qhov tsis paub nte koj tus txiv ces tsis paub pab koj tiag os

Ruam ruam ces kavtsij nyob ua neeg npam li ko xwb mas.

Get restraining order and forget the kids

Wow how sad.what a waste of kids. So evil and heartless. Yog koj tseem tsis tau laus heev ces ua siab ntev mus nrhiav tus tshiab. Tsis txhob ntshai koj tus qub txiv. Muaj tub ceev xwm, muab nws kaw kiag kom txhob muaj neej ua.

Seem like ur a mother that doesn't like anything phem but ur family does , just like their father that's y u guys r not on the same page . They hate u for it cause ur too strick on them . But what they don't understand is that ur trying to do the best for their future . Yus tsis nrog lawv ua neej , cia lawv ma paub lawv . Let them all learn the hard way , don't help them .

Zoo heev li ua tsaug

Tus niam tsev nrog koj nyuaj siab tab sis twb nyob America teb no lawm mloog mas cas zoo li koj tus txiv ua npaum li ntawv Los ua cas nej hais tsis tau li, ntshai koj tsis muaj cov neej TSA khov pob

Mas yov tsum yog txhob nqa paj ntaub thiab rab koob nrog yus los ces kuj caiv tau li koj hais laud.thaum peb tseem yau tsis tau xib sab nkauj nraug mas hnov tej hlob piav txog poj niam txiv neej mas yus twb xob plaub hau, thiab xu siab tiag2 cas tij laug thiab niam tij nkawv yov tham tej lus ntawd no lau. Ua rau yus twb tsis xav zaum ze nkawv li ces yus maj mam mus ua ntej mus zaum kom deb zog.thiab ho muaj tej tug mas ho qhia tias txhob yuav poj niam zoo dua thiaj tsis muaj kev nyuaj siab. Tab sis thaum yus ho loj tuaj lawm ces yus niag lau qaib pib txawj qua lawm ces hloov siab yuj lais rau tej mi paj taum mog tawg liab vog , Cesnplooj niag siab ntawd nws txawj2 hnov nws ntxhiab li lawm tiag. ces luag tej tsis mus los yus yov mus yus,tej kev yov txaus ntshai npaum cas los yus cia li pheej hmoo mus li lawm xwb.es yov ua cas nyob tau ib leeg li thaum yus tseem me na.

Tsis tas zov nws tej me nyuam li os zov zov lawv loj lawv yeej tsis hlub koj li tiab os

Zaj mas yog kuv ntag os

Ua cov me nyuab tiam 21 no tsis txawj hlub leej niam li lawv tsis nco wan lawm tias leej niam mas muab siav Cush pauv siav tuag thiaj ntsub tau lawv tawm los ua neeg nyob lub ntiaj teb no xwb lawv txiv tsis hlub yus los tshuav lawv hlub yus xwb yus twb zoo siab lawm Tab sis yog vim fab tsi lawv ho ua siab phem rau yus thiab no

Wow your story mad me cry. So So sorry about what you have been through. Hopefully life goes well. So So true.

Kuv mloog mas koj tsuas piav koj qhov zoo hos luag qhov phem xwb. Raws kuv xav mas txog txij koj tug txiv thiab cov menyuam tsis tuaj koj tog thiab tsis yuav koj lawm ces koj yeej phem koj thiab os..

Yog kuv es heev li ko lawm ces kuv twb khiav mus lwm lub nroog tsi qhia nws paub lawm os.

Koj tus txiv​ ces phem li koj cov me​ nyuam nws phem ua ntej me nyuam​ thiaj phem lawv qab

Ca tu siab ua luaj li o

Muab nws coj mus kaw kiag yus mam mus ua ib lub neej tshiab xwb mas

Tsi yog npam, yog ruam. Ruam es thiaj li tu yeeb ncuab cov me nyuam. Ruam es thiaj li muaj lus hais rau tus txiv los tsi hais rau tus txiv ho coj los hais rau hauv KZfaq no. Yus qhov future nyob ntawm yus tes. Yus tsi pab yus tus kheej yeej tsi muaj leej tws pab yus. Koj tsi xav tu cov xeebntxwv thiab niam yau cov me nyuam los koj pheej tu ces yog koj xaiv tsi yog npam. You made the decision. Li koj xaiv koj tus txiv, tsi yog npam tsi yog hmoo. Yog koj xaiv. Li twb nrauj los pheej tso koj tus txiv rov los nkag koj lub neej tsi yog npam, yog koj ruam. There are people like you who never learn from their mistakes and will keep making the wrong decisions and instead of blaming themselves, they blame it on fate.

Our Hmong women are the most not so smart people! No one doing this to you, you are doing this to yourself, you let it happen.

Ua poj nrauj thiaj tau noj ntau lo ma cas koj hlwb tshawg ua luaj naw...

Omg Vim koj tsis hlub koj tus kheej xwb...tsi yog tim Lawv. Tim koj tsis kho thiab lub siab tsi tawv txaus hlub koj.

Pretty sad and depressing... Saddest part is that this is a fairly common theme these days.

Pa hlub koj ua lua li o😭😭😭😭😭

tsis muaj kev npam...tab sis vim koj yeej nyiam li ntawm ko xwb.... u have many choice but you choose the life you choosed... no wonder your kids don't love u, u always choose the bad words to use, like foom your kids.. u just said "your kids will be bad to you guys". I hate people who thinks this way, so i do agreed that you are the bad example.... so, take a look at yourself and make better decision. good luck.

Me niam tsev es yog vim koj siab zoo dhau lawm xwb os. Kuv yog koj ces koj tu ntxhais cov thiab koj tu txiv cov me nyuam yog kuv ces kuv yeej tsis zov. Tsiv tsev tsis txhob qhia rau leej twg nyob kaj siab hlo. Yog vim koj siab muag thiab siab tsis tawv es koj thiaj nyob nrog kev nyuam siab ntshij plawv. Yu tsis pab yu tu kheej yeej tsis muaj neeg pab li. Yu tsis hlub yu tu kheej yeej tsis muaj neeg hlub yu os. Good luck.

Muab xav mas tsis tsim nyog hlub li Tab sis muaj ib hnub lawv yuav tau ua niam ua txiv thiab mas viv ncaus txhob tu siab os mog cov tsis tau txoj kev no ces yog cov tsis muaj ib tug me nyuam hlo li xwb os mog

I hate guys who would find every excuse to cheat. “Because ur kids r bad.” ok? They’re ur kids too. Ur the one cheating not ur wife.

DAMN

Noob phem yeej phem thov noj nceb taug cav

Lawm tias koj tu txiv mas los them nqi rau koj or tias no koj tu txiv yuav npam tsis muaj hnub Zoo li.

Woman, your kids don't even love you. You need to not take care of their kids. Let them learn responsibility. Move away from them. Menyuam liam ib yam li lawv txiv. Ntxim ntxub tiag tiag. As for your ex husband, you need to put a restraining order against him! He ruined his own life, now blaming you. what a low life. It's a mother's mentality to love and worry about her kids, although kids take that as nagging. You need to love yourself first. Put yourself first.

It’s okay nam tas.... from this life experience, I hope you learn to love yourself and give yourself the best... you can’t start all over but you certainly can make life changes and never look back

Koj yuav tau tawm txawv lav txhob pub neeg paub

Tus muam cas koj yuav ruam ua luaj, tsis txhob ntshaw2 qau, nws ua neeg phem rau yus ua ib siab, tsis khes txog koj cov menyuam, yus khes yus tus kheej xwb, muaj qab kav tsij noj, muaj tshiab kav tsij hnav,muaj nyiaj kav tsij noj, kav tsij nyiaj yuav tshiab hnav. Ua neej nyob, txhob nrhiav kev nyuaj siab rau yus tus kheej Nej cov poj niam twb muaj2 xiv ne, yus kuj mus nyob yus ib lub tsev moj.

Mloog zoo li koj tseem khuv khuv xim koj tu txiv na....koj tseem mob tsis tau txaus yog koj mob txaus txaus lawm no koj yeej khiav deb tshaj qhov ko....tsis mus nrhiav neej ua yog lawv hlub hlub koj mas thiaj li zov lawv cov me nyuam....kav tsij mus nrhiav kev kaj siab es koj plaub hau thiaj li tsis dawb os