如她所願 … 現在妳死了 … 還有廢話說嗎? That kind statement are usually made by dominatrix who thinks they can have everlasting control. When they lose it, it’s payback time.
My parents were the opposite , almost never there even if they were physically there lol. No support, no guidance, had to find out life all the hard way. But luckily I escaped from their neglect. So happy now, only WeChat a couple times a week with them, live an hour drive away from them, public transport is 3 hours away. Soooo happy! Some people can have kids but can’t be good parents and the kids owe them nothing in their old age!